Many parents in our country are like that, but thankfully it’s changing

I don't know whether you're married or not but what conditions you faced when it comes to your marriage

What decisions...? Zara explain kro

When a girl marry her surname, her family culture all dies with it. Girls aren't baby producing machine. But I have seen there is no way that legacy of girl's family is carried on. Also in case of inter linguistic community, and in interfaith marriage, women's religion, native tongue nothing is passed on to next generation. That's why everyone is crazy to have boy child.

Hi Nisha,same thing was also told me

Yes when rights are equal responsibilities should also be equal …people should talk about this ! And this relates to brothers as well as sisters

Because parents give son some job oriented education or family business. Daughters are married off and don’t have income

U r a fattu man. Better take Sanyas ,live alone n start making food for urself ,clean ur living place n wash ur own clothes. These will b much less responsibilities than women of a house as u will b doing these things just for urself n nobody else. N chill.

Kyunki ldkiyo ko ung responsibility layk bnaya hi nhi jata h parents k dwara. Pehle jb hak doge tbhi to smaaj mai change aayega or jb hak milega or vo phir responsibility k layk bhi bnegi. Aap ye umeed nhi kr skte ki Haan pehle responsibility phir hak kyunki ldko ko hak diya gya h unka tbhi responsibility bhi unke upr h. Or sirf pdhane se kuchh nhi hota mentally bhi ldkiyo ko bahut dependent, drpok bnaya jata h taki vo kbhi khud se koi decision le hi na ske or jb ye nhi hoga to bina hak k responsibility dena to misuse krna hota h. Or ldkiyo k upr responsibility totally hoti h except finical maximum responsibility ki umeede ldkiyo se hi hoti h. Ki vo apne future, career, psnd ko sacrifice krde or pehle maa baap bhai ki kre or baad mai in-laws ki. Aap thoda unbiased hokr socho. Ldkiya isliye help nhi kr pati h apne family ki kyunki unhe use husband or in-laws dwara control kiya jata h ki ab to tu heart nokrani h yhan kr. Aapko pehle kisi insaan ko independent bnana pdta h not just financially but also mentally, emotionally jo bahut sari ldkiyo ko nhi bnaya jata.

​​​@@LoveYourself-my9nzv well said.. matlab ye ho gaya h, ki ldki ko bura bhala kehke, guilt me rakh ke("tu thodi inki sewa karegi", chahe fir wo khud ma baap se sara din ladta ho), kaise bhi karke ldki ko bhagao aur khud kundali maar ke baith jao.. ab lagta h desh ko aur 100 saal lagenge iss tarah ki social empowerment me jaha bina betiyo ke maange he uska haq milega aur nahi toh wo joote lagayengi aise bhaiyo ke..

as per your assumption and experience, can i say u will do the same in the case of your daughter?

हमारे साथ उल्टा हुआ है। जीवन भर सहा हमने, भुगता हमनें। सोना बेटियों ने समेट लिया सारा। भाई से मदद भी खूब लेती रहीं। जायदाद में हिस्सा से ज्यादा खर्च कर चुके। विश्वास करके मकान अपने नाम नहीँ कराया। अब पीछे से हिस्से के लिए कोर्ट केस करके बैठी हैं।

dont you get it from your sasural ? you want from both sides ? lol

​@@rahultriveditrivedi5451sasural Wale kaun si property dete hai

​@@rahultriveditrivedi5451sasural ki property kitni Bahu ke nam hoti hain😂

You're on the track of struggle... Keep hustling, I know it's not gonna too easy as pretending, it'll definitely take some time but your hardwork will break all the barriers. Ye din bhi gujar jayenge... One day there'll be lustrine on your face, remembering this tough time 💙

I am so sorry

This phase shall pass. Hold your head high and tread your trail. Success will be all yours.

Thank you for sharing your story. I think you’re a mature,strong and sensible girl already. Yes life is difficult at the moment for you. But this too shall pass and you will emerge stronger for it. Always remember your father is watching and guiding you and family. You have his blessings always. Study and work hard and also take time out to enjoy the little and big joys of life. Stay ever blessed ❤stay strong ❤keep smiling 😊

Dont handle society. Handle yourself, ur studies and ur career. Other things will handle on their own

Men and women are not same. But they are equal. Hope you understand

​@@NehaSharma-mg9ofright!!

Yeah, they always tell apne bhaiyo k bare M nhi sochti ldkiya Kya Kya nhi krti apne bhaiyo k liye . Thda sa bhi boldo ki aisa hona chaiye the moment we say this parents ko sanp sungh jata h.

Very true

Bilkul

Bhut dukh h ldkiyo ko😢

I wish to have a mother in law like you😊

Yes This is such a common scenario One who does all the work , is always taken for granted. Others who don’t care and do no duty get lot of favors

I am that elder son who is giving money every month to my parents since 10 years continuously without even a single failure. Still I don't get my due respect. 🥺

Ya allah!! I can see ..even bahu is the first person who is not letting go property to sis in law

Your words made me remember my father, too. Parental remembrance in privacy is extreme self inspection. 🙏