Awe its so good to hear a guy talk like this.

Thank you for being so open and transparent. And even had you not gotten any taller than 5.5 you would have been exactly how you were meant to be. I love the confidence you’ve gained, it’s contagious!

As someone who is 24, has never dated anyone, is very shy & introverted, and is still trying to figure out what I want to do with my life, confidence is definitely something that tends to be hard to come by. However, hearing positive messages like this and knowing other ppl have similar struggles, definitely helps and gives me hope that one day I’ll get there.

Ah…I never thought I had much confidence in myself. I’ve never dated or had a boyfriend. But I have had many people come up and talk to me about anything if not EVERYTHING. And they always say “I’m sorry for sharing with you so much. I just feel like there isn’t any judgements with you. I feel safe.” So that makes sense what you said. 😊

Where to get a boy like you????😩......your girl's so luckyyyyyyyy

I think confidence is one of those things that comes with time for many, I grew up not being very confident in myself. I still cringe looking back at photos of myself and wonder how I thought I looked good in some of those 😭 for me I started to gain confidence when I started hanging out with my two best friends, who are both drop dead gorgeous and looked at me like I was insane when I mentioned jokingly that I wasn't confident in my body. They were the real hype men fr ❤ since then I've fixed my style and my hair, which has helped a LOT. I obviously still have days where my confidence is not the highest, but if you walk into a space with confidence it changes people's perception of you dramatically 🫶

Okay Im 17 n never dated nor did any guy approach me so hearing that he got his 1st gf at 21 kinda makes me feel better n that it's ok if I don't have a guy now

Idk whats happening today, but including you, 3 people told me to be more confident. I used to be really really shy, like 5 years ago, i barely talked to people or said something in class. That changed, i mean, i‘m not really confident about myself, but i have a better attitude and are more confident. But on the other hand, i‘m really anxious about what people think about me, how i look right now and sometimes i am even worried if it looks stupid how i sit, walk, talk or laugh. When i have to sit in the first row, i feel like the people who sit behind me could watch me or laugh about what i do. I have just two friends in my class and i barely know the others. I was afraid of my new wolfcut, so i wore a ponytail for 2 months, until i had the courage to let my hair open. Especially in sports, i feel really uncomfortable and dont know what to do, i even had panic attacks, because of sports lessons. And its really hard to change that and be more confident, especially when others make fun of you and you have nobody who tells you, that you look good today, or that they like your new style or haircut.

I was soooo ugly as a teenager I still feel like that now even at 31, even though I’ve changed so much, it’s hard to get out of that mindset

I cant tell you what it means to hear a guy say all of these encouraging things. Ive never had a bf so to hear these things fron someone is nice, thx

Your eyes just awwww👀❤️❤️

Confidence is everything I’m glad you’re a lot more confident now it definitely shows! 🥰 I wasn’t confident in myself till about 20-21 too, but man does it feel good :)

This is interesting to hear. Thank you for sharing. I'm 26 and it took me until I was 24 to fully accept myself and gain genuine confidence. I've learned that some of the things in recent years, I'm very insecure about happen to also be some of the most liked things about me both personality wise as well as physically. I really had a hard time as well because of anxiety, depression, PTSD, and just genuinely feeling like a fish out of water growing up, I think in alot of ways I had to become my own best friend. In the end, I actually found the people who appreciate me for me by being comfortable with myself as well as being comfortable being alone. 😊

Looks are subjective to everyone but confidence is always attractive 💯 and sometimes you just gotta fake having that confidence when you don’t feel confident at all

Hiya! Love your videos!!❤❤ (Also your eyes are so pretty)

Ok, it took me this long to think of something because I lack confidence. When I’m out in public, random people compliment me on my makeup. It makes me happy because they don’t have to say it and I feel like I’m doing something right.

You're not a bit ugly, dont ever think that. You're a very sweet person and good looking, sometimes we grow into our own skins to feel comfortable. Well done for figuring it out!

I think everyone has insecurities about themselves and about some we're not even aware of and it's good to realise it. 😘

He's so sweet. He aint ugly he's fineeee as hell.

I was the funny fat girl from my class my whole life but two years from now I start to get more confidence and I lost a lot of weight... I'm seeing a big difference to how people used to treat me and how they treat me now... I don't know if it is the weight or if it is the confidence because I feel that when people that were fat start to lose weight they start to be treated differently even though they are literally the same person but ANYWAYS... I feel like the confidence helped me a lot because I used to be very anxious about walking down the street and people judge me now I don't give a duck lol... Because at the end of the day none of them are going to pay my bills, pay my expenses and their opinions are not what I am it's just their opinions

In the past, I wasn't really loving my looks, I always wanted to do something to change and I tried everything... Different clothing styles, hairstyles, different personalities, etc. I tried to change myself... But then one day I saw a wolfcut. I asked my mom (aka family's best hairstylist✨️💅❤) to cut my hair. THAT HAIRCUT changed my WHOLE view on myself. Every time I look in the mirror and I'm like: "I look so cool.💅✨️Like... Who is that stunning girl???✨️😏" So yeah... Find your style and be happy!!!❤❤❤ Also don't forget to drink water!!!♡

Before i became confident in my self i was being madefun of alot but when i finally found my confidencre i also got a mentality that i am beautiful the way i am and i anyone said other wise i would no longer care because i knew who i was and i got the confidence to stand up for my self

I watch your videos everyday and you’re just making people feel so good!! Keep doing what you’re doing!❤

it's so cute that you talked openly about yourself . I think most of us feel insecurity about our appearance (also me) .your'e so pretty and I don't think your'e ugly at all❤❤❤ ❤❤

I love how positive your attitude is! You give awesome advice. Keep being you!! ❤

I literally just learnt not to care anymore about what people think. If you think I'm pretty then yay but if not that's a you problem

That's a very motivating comment. More ppl out there should take by heart what you're saying 💛🐇

I’m saying this because, for one, I’m right, and for another you’ve helped a lot of people feel more comfortable in their own skin and I wanna return the favour: SIR you are NOT ugly, forgive me if this is a bit forward but you’re handsome as hell, I know what it’s like to grow up ugly (or at least grow up feeling that way) so I know it can be hard to shake, but I’m here as an objective judge, since I’m someone who doesn’t know you personally- I’m not saying this to protect your feelings in any way: you are handsome, you’re not ugly!!

Confidence is good for a few reasons, as well as authenticity. It keeps people away that shouldn't be around and attracts people (for the most part) that it should. People feel better around you when you're not pretending to be something else or constantly trying to please people.

You’re gorgeous so you can let that other stuff go for good! I’m a senior and I love your wisdom for someone who wants to get back out there and find love again❤❤❤

My 5'8 boyfriend is really shy and he does talk a little but not much he's really handsome with hazel eyes and people pick on him for his looks and voice and I want to punch them now for me I'm shy too and have autism and ADHD so talking is not hard but it's not my thing cause things I say can come out the wrong way sometimes we have been together for 6 years and love each other it's just really hard to talk and see each cause of the long distance 😢

Thank you for sharing this❤️ I like hearing more about you. Too many people give this illusion of perfection so I really appreciate hearing your personal anecdotes. It’s the beauty that shines from within that people feel drawn to. When you finally recognize that beautiful soul inside of you that’s really the essence of who you are, you realize that your physical appearance is just decoration. How you carry yourself and how you treat others is what makes you tempting to interact with. Of course having common interests helps. A kind smile goes a long way. Seriously, that’s how I accidentally befriended someone random in an airport. Actually I flirted a little bit and didn’t realize it at the time. Think about how you want to be acknowledged by your crush. What if your crush is thinking the same thing. Then you have 2 people who don’t make a move because they are both questioning their likability. Start thinking of your crush as a new friend and that may make it easier to start with a simple hello. You don’t know what is going through someone’s head until they tell you. Treat people as if they are going to like you. Being able to look yourself in the mirror and like what you see is a good first step towards confidence. It helps to know that we all struggle with insecurities. Unconditional love for yourself is so important to work on. Nobody is perfect. We all have our moments. Some more than others. Just don’t let those “ugly” moments outweigh all of the good ones because they don’t. Stop asking “are they going to like me?” Start asking “Am I going to like you?” I think it’s important that you don’t reject the version of yourself from high school that wasn’t as confident. You have grown. You’ve become more self-aware. You are the kindhearted empathetic person you are today because of all of the things you’ve ever had to go through in life. Maybe you owe your past selves a bit of gratitude for that good looking person you see in the mirror today. How you look can affect how you feel on the inside but, people are layered. It may be about more than just the way you look. There are a lot of things to love about ourselves. Try to acknowledge 2-5 things a day. Give yourself reassurance of how awesome you are.

It took me until I was 30 to start being confident

I am 6 ft girl. when I was yanger I felt very bad with my height but not anymore. I used to it because I can’t changed it. But it is hard to find boyfriend because usually men prefer shorter girls ☹️

Your so awesome i love this and thank you ive been struggling with this stuff lately i do have a bf but i just feel so ugly so thank you im definitely gonna start being more confident

Definitely, confidence is everything!

I think im too confident. I scare them 😭

Aww thank you for posting this. I really needed to hear this 🥹🥹🥹🥹

Didn't you say in another video you were doing the deed at 14? Sounds like you were confident a lot earlier than it sounds 😆.

hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, thank you for lifting all our spirits

MARRY ME😢. I lost my phone so i stole my moms

You look like Fez without the accent 🤗 I was an ugly tomboy growing up. But after having two kids and drastically changing my wardrobe, embracing my curls, the men approached me constantly, and it took me a hot minute to realize that I am attractive lol. Mind you I also lost 75 pounds as well so that helped. But at 34 I have much more confidence in myself, which has been attracting lots of men. They can totally pick up on your body language . Confidence is attractive.

I love you so much! You have helped me through a lot, and you have helped me gain so much confidence! Thank you so much!

I don’t think you will see this comment, but I just want you to know if you see this that your channel generally makes me feel so much better about myself and I love hearing from a guy but what should I do when somebody calls me fat? Thank you! ❤

It’s so awesome and a breath of fresh air that a guy like you would take the time to make other people feel good about themselves. Be blessed!

I grew up with a family that I knew was a little different, but it took years of therapy in my early 20s to realize just how toxic my fathers family is. I realized I deserve better and I decided to get out from under them and learn to love me. I started an actual career, got out of a dead-end relationship, and started dating myself. Three years later and I've gone from newbie to Senior and I'm in high demand in my career and I've been in my own house for a year. Best advice: Date yourself, best way to find confidence ❤

Hi. Love this video so much. And in my case is all about feel good to look good. So if I wasn’t feeling myself I’d change that maybe wear something that I like or put on makeup or even just do my hair or skincare. Also make sure to meet ppl that will make u feel good not the one who make u feel low and point out things u were trying to avoid. So yeah surround myself with good energy helps. Btw I just wanna say this, are you actually serious for saying that you still think you’re ugly? Like whatttt!!! Excuse me!!!! Fr!!! Nahhhh like I’m here cuz I really love your videos and second you such a handsome fella!!!! Is not the hair is more about your face structure is just well put together. I love it! You’re gorgeous! And beautiful 😂❤❤. Sending my love and respect as well.

I think I got a lot of confidence from hobbies and things outside of looks but when I let myself put more effort into style and stuff, I agree it does make you feel better lololol Looks aren't everything but anyone can elevate their look with a little bit of time and research if they want

I wish I had confidence when going on dates lol. When I go on a date with a guy, I'm sweating my butt off trying to think of questions to ask, what not to say and what TO say, what's too much and what's not, what if I share too much and I end up scaring them, I could go on and on. when I was in high school/middle school I was the quietest kid ever. If you talk to me, it would be like I was scared of them when really, I was just shy because it's a new person. Then that shyness slowly turned into really bad social anxiety. Like no joke, I would get anxiety attacks just from sitting in a crowd of people. I'm always trying to be the perfect, but when you've seen the consequences from not being perfect it's hard to see that being imperfect is okay. I'm still trying to learn that being imperfect is okay. I was always expected to be perfect as a child and still feel expected to be perfect all the time because that's what my parents told me I was. Plus, not only that, but I'm literally a pretty short girl. So, I also kind of am self conscious about that, because I don't really want other people thinking that my bf is someone who's in their 20s dating a 15-year-old due to my height. I'm always scared of being talked down to like I'm a child too so that literally puts a cherry on top.

I can relate to you so much oh my god 😮

Bro plzz add subtitles on your short videos plz 😢❤ and i have question is are you qearing lenses ??

You are such a sweetie :)

Bro. Im always upset i act as confident as i can. But no one ever comes up and talks to me and im not ugly ik that. Idk some people say im to pretty and guys are just nervous to talk to me. But like girls like when you come up to them even if you arnt cute if you act and talk and say you say u r then we start believing that.

What about double chins and big noses or back fat

I've never dated someone

I love you so much 💗

I think god has plans for everyone and he help me find love aging i will be 43 next month

Hey! I love you videos.. I’ve been wondering: do boys like girls with red / ginger hair?? I feel so insecure with it and I get bullied all the time by boys. Thanks

This is embarrassing, but can you talk about... The color..? One of my main insecurities

How the hell did you shoot up to 6’1 lol I’m 5’2 and i used to be 5’3 haha im getting shorter. Only good thing is I’m shorter than guys and that’s a good thing.

What about having a big nose and no lips? Is that something guys don’t care about? Cuz to this day I still get mean comments about it 🥺

Cool come up! I had a friend who went thru a similar exp + now he’s totally set on life 🫶✨ y’all so inspiring

Do u really have Red eyes?

Hello ❤

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So good that you openning talking & advising,suggesting,well I had always been confident & got attention & was never aware of my looks etc,Yes was hell confident & definately is a🩴a KEY to many essential aspects of life,thank you for these videos,helpful for youth 🙏🏻👍🏻💖🌸🪻🌷

I was always the tall sporty kid in my class but then covid came and i gained abt 10 kg. So when i went back to school after 2 yrs i was rlly insecure and not confident but that slowly changed to me losing half that weight and i just became like idc abt ur opinion im comfortable with who i am, but when i started highschool my parents moved me online so now i dont have any irl friends, im still kinda tall for 15(im 5'7 as a girl) and i have social anxiety so its hard fro me to appear comfortable or confident in public like at malls or going out. I found my style but its still hard. My family says i'm too thin but if i gain more wait then im insecure abt my body. My family says im pretty but they r family so their biased. idk if im pretty i think im like average or just below