Happy Sunday everyone! Do you feel more intelligent already? ;)

This is more like maturity rather than intelligence but I guess maturity is a good indicator of emotional intelligence

Claim your "I guess I am an idiot" here. I know I surely did.

Fun fact: saying "no offense" will offend somebody more than without it

"Expecting perfection is to set yourself up for failure." I'm guilty to this when I was on my teenage days. Now I've learned not to look for perfection, that's why I discovered the key to one's satisfaction, which is to do the best of what you can offer, that way you'll not regret at the end! 🙂

Being socially mature or socially confident and being intelligent are NOT the same thing, though

kid: "drops his ice cream" mother: oh no. you should be more careful kid: would you mind telling me what I could improved on, so I can do better next time. mother: 👁👄👁

The "why smart people struggle with relationships" video made me feel VERY smart and this one brought me down to earth

This channel's content can be helpful. It helped me with some things and I can see the hard work and passion put into your videos and am very thankful for your channel. My suggestion is that the things said are often missing when you should and shouldn't say the things talked about because some people might misunderstand it and take it as something they should say in every situation so it can be sometimes a little confusing.

1. “It’s not my fault” 2. “This needs to be perfect” 3. “That’s not in my job description” 4. “It’s not fair” 5. “I have a high IQ therefore I am smarter than you” 6. “No offence but...” 7. “This might be a stupid question” 8. “I can’t do it” 9. “This will only take a minute” 10. “I told you so”

When you regularly say all of these:

Thank you! I found this very helpful.

this is actually really helpful

"Its not my fault" My brother: breaks a plate Parents: *blames me*

I'm so intelligent that I never call anyone dumb or stupid. I call them "insolent fools."

I make a lot of these mistakes. Thanks for sharing!

Love number 6. I always cut anything that could be offensive out of my argument and then people get offended anyway because they dont agree.

I present to you, the most unlikely conversation between two smart people ever: A: "Hey, I have this thing I need you to do. But don't worry, it will only take a minute." B: "I can't do it. That's not in my job description." A: "No offense, but you have to do it." B: "That's not fair." A: "Look, I really need you to do this, because it needs to be perfect." B: "This might be a stupid question, but why don't you do it yourself?" A: "Because I have a high IQ, therefore I'm smarter than you." B: "What? That makes no sense. I don't get it?!" A: "See, I told you so."

In case you don't have time❤ 1. ,, it's not my fault" 2. ,, this needs to be perfect, it's not good enough " 3. ,, that is not in my job description" 4. ,, it's not fair" 5. ,, I have a high IQ and I'm smarter than you" 6. ,, no Offense but... " 7. ,, this might be a stupid question but " 8. ,, I can't do it" 9. ,, this will only take a minute" 10. ,, I told you so" Edit- 1k likes?? Ayo guys r u good?? edit2- 1,9?! WOAH YA NEED TO CALM DOWN edit3 2,4? okey im giving up edit4- some wise man told me to not give up here thank ya all for likes❤ edit5- hell yeah almost 3k bois LETS GOO no but seriously i sidnt expect ir to blow up edit6 it got 3k likes thank you guys!! edit69 requested by turtle in replies thank you fir 69420 likes edit8- what the h?? I'm just editing and some of you guys are having problems with that what you sre expecting me to do? delete it all? people are so nasty nowadays, are these edits only thing you can notice?

Love the Minecraft discs on the wall in 3:48, was a really nice detail :)

I really love the video but can I just say I really really appreciate the small little dsmp references and decorations in your animations?? They're just so cute! Thankyou so so much for adding thosein and also thanks for all the educational videos

Quick Summary: 1. 0:43 "It is not my fault." 2. 1:07 "This needs to be perfect." 3. 1:32 "This is not in my job description." 4. 2:00 "This isn't fair." 5. 2:26 "I have high IQ and therefore I am smarter than you." 6. 2:50 "No offense but...." 7. 3:14 "This might be a stupid question but..." 8. 3:33 "I can't do it." 9. 3:54 "This will only take a minute." 10. 4:19 "I told you so." And yes, my fellow human beings, I have accomplished the power of Time Travel. EDIT: 798 likes!!!! Thanks a lot people!!! You all have just made my day!!! Now I know many of you are asking how I "travel through time". But we all can do this. Just follow the steps: 1. Go to the playlist tab on this channel. 2. Change the "sort by" filter to "last video added". 3. Click on any playlist and scroll down to the end. Look out for new thumbnails. If you are not sure, then click on the video and check the number of views. Less than 100 views means you have accomplished your mission. *Note:* This works faster on laptop or PC. *Note 2:* You don't have to be a member to do this. That's it from my side, try it and tell me how it goes. Much love, Bless you all. Sending more power to you all.

1. "It's not my fault" 2. "This needs to be perfect" 3. "That's not in my job description" 4. "It's not fair" 5. "I have a high iQ therefore I am smarter than you" 6. "No offence but..." 7. "This might be a stupid question, but.." 8. "I can't do it" 9. "This will only take a minute" 10. "I told you so"

I love your voice so calm and soft voice, Thank you for this video

I'm glad I am consciously aware of those phrases, The only one I was guilty of was the "This will only take a minute" I typically use it as a way to assure someone that what they are asking is not an overwhelming inconvenience. You are correct though in that it typically sets them up to be disappointed when the task takes longer than projected and is often not appreciated regardless of however daunting it may have been to complete it with haste. Thank you for the self reflection.

This sounds more like "confident people" rather than intelligent

The amount of mcyt references that have been showing up are crazy... Ranboo’s crown Disc poster An enderman throw ANOTHER disc poster Technoblade plushie Dream pillow “Your new boyfriend” poster A Ranboo poster Wilbur and Tubbo’s shirts Whoever is animating is trying and succeeding in summoning this entire fandom over and over again-

I have said all of these at least once but I've been mature and barley say them, thank you for this video!

your voice is so calming

*FOR EVERYONE IN A RUSH* 0:44 1: "its not my fault" 1:05 2: "this needs to be perfect" 1:32 3: "thats not in my job description" 2:00 4: "its not fair" 2:26 5: "i have high iq and therefore i am smarter than you" 2:50 6: "no offense but..." 3:14 7: "this might be a stupid question" 3:33 8: "i cant do it" 3:54 9: "this will only take a minute" 4:18 10: "i told you so"

To be wise is not the same as being intelligent.

Your voice is so calming

“This needs to be perfect.” Is it just me or is this something that I always think to myself but never say?

I wish I was smart maybe my parents would actually appreciate me instead of looking at other children and smiling over them. I’m trying my best I sometimes even clean the floor just to please them.

Smart people don’t worry about how other people percieve them or the everyday cliches they might use, so there’s that….

“I can’t..” Often times I know I can, I just simply choose to put it off or not do it.

“That’s not in my job description” Being overnight security instead of just night shift cashier/drive through window attendant wasn’t in my job description, but it was fun just watching the back door camera and seeing what was going on.

Alternate title: "Phrases you should never use (during your daily life)" It makes you sound more trustworthy and less arrogant

Usually when I say "This is a stupid question but..." it's because I don't want them to think I'm stupid for asking a stupid question

I can’t believe it. I feel I say these frequently, and now I feel so terrible! 😢 Thank you for making me realize! :)

Yay, I never say most of these. I have said "This might be a dumb question" more than a few times, though. 😊 And can I just say that I've always loved the character right at the beginning picking the leaf off the tree -- it's so cuteb and I love that _very subtle_ sound of the leaf coming off. 🥰

"Jump off a building and survive." "I can't do it!" "YOU IDIOT."

0:09 Ranboo cup 1:48 discs on the wall 3:06 enderman chair 3:36 room of dream smp stan (relatable) (I love you animators for doing this)

"Smart people never say i cant do it" Me: i can do it,but im too lazy to do so

The fact that I'm apparently more intelligent than I thought I was is not what I was expecting at all.

5 things to quit right now: 1. Overthinking 2. Worrying 3. Trying to make everyone happy 4. Living in the past 5. Doubting yourself

Title should be "MATURE People NEVER Say These 10 Phrases".

the little people dancing at the end made me feel... SO FRIGGIN HAPPY

"This will only take a minute" Microwave : Yes, yes it will.

Introverts, who don't socialize and so don't talk too much: *"I missed the part where that's my problem."*

1:00 i thought i was smart until 💀

I recently realized that the more I talk to myself the better responses I give because I always ask myself first whether what I'm saying is neccecary or not.

I want to point out that saying “that’s not in my job description” should be perfectly acceptable if people don’t want to continue being taken advantage of. It’s not about a willingness to go above and beyond. Sometimes it’s about setting boundaries. People should get payed for the work they do and not be told they have the wrong attitude if they expect to.

imagine if they asked a lawyer to do surgery and he doesn’t say “thats not in my job description.”

so true, I will think of those phrases in certain situations, then my brain fully stop and tells to myself nope, wrong thing to say that won't and rephrase the things I want to say, then I lose my opportunity to say it because I thought about it for a little too long, at one point my brain just avoid those phrases and when I hear ppl saying it I try to advice them not to and why

can i just point out that the artist on the team is a dream smp fan? I am very happy to see the lil techno plushie, the dream blob, the ranboo mug and poster, the Your New Boyfriend poster, the discs poster, the two framed discs on the wall, and the enderman headrest. Lovely that we have a cultured artist on the channel

This is mostly about "socially intelligent" people NEVER say

Title is kinda clickbaity. Not all intelligent people are gonna think the same, and everyone's gonna have flaws regardless of how smart they are. Just because you say some of the things on this list doesn't mean you're not intelligent :)

I was searching for what reference they use in this video. I looked at the thumbnail. There it is. The cup.

i practically say all of this phrases and everyone around me tells me i'm smart i'm not smart

Pfft.. I don’t say, “It’s not my fault”..I say, “It’s your fault”. I knew I was intelligent....

"I told you so." I used this phrase countless times as a child. It wasn't because of some superiority complex or bragging (maybe some bragging). It was more of a disappointed response after warning them of a likely outcome. Of course, the warning went unheeded and the outcome came to past, which was often a problem that could've been avoided if they had listened. I stopped using this phrase because I've gradually learned that people tend to not listen to advice and will often forge their own path/solution, either that or they want to complain.

Omg, I love how their arms move with the arrows at the end

Seeing the little crown on the mug on the gaming desk made me smile. Miss you Techno.

“The measure of intelligence is the ability to change.” ―Albert Einstein

I don't agree with a lot of what's said, since a lot of the phrases mentioned can be used appropriately in some situations. I am also very concerned about #8. To say that you cannot do something is to doubt your competence in a situation, which depending on the circumstances may be justified. It would be counter-intuitive to say you can do something that in reality you cannot, and even detrimental if you were to perform a task that you are not suited for where the consequences can result in some sort of loss, such as being asked to perform a stunt jump despite not having prior experience. Self doubt is as an important emotion as confidence. The degree of each you feel should reflect your ability, and there is always wisdom in knowing your limits.

I could swear I would relate to every single phrase, i'm quite surprised I only related to wanting perfection only if someone is better than me at something, that means I am stupid and should be ashamed of myself, what a great mentality to have

I myself have not used these phrases in years. I forgot these simple phrases actually existed all together because I've been so wrapped up in other things.

"It is not my fault." Is totally legit if you get blamed or shouted at for something that literally is not your fault nor responsibility. "This is not in my job description." Is also totally legit for a example if you are asked to use dangerous equipment you are not trained to use or say drive a vehicle you don't have clearance for. "I can't do it." Can also be legit though I would prefer "unable". "I told you so." Can also be legit if you have been warning others about something but they dismissed your warning.

About the first one, would if it’s actually not someone’s fault and they are trying to defend themselves?

"I told you so." Honestly, when someone asks for my advice and they ignore it, then failing the task brutally. That's the phase that come out of my mouth 😅

“No offence but” and “this might be a stupid question” really got me...

I disagree with number 8. Smart people know their limitations. I know I can’t perform brain surgery and if someone asks me to do it, I wouldn’t “set my mind to it” and try and do more damage. I would suggest the requester find a brain surgeon and may try help to find one. While it’s good to stretch your skills, faking until making it is an irresponsible way to do it.

Hello! First thank you for this video, I really like how you dig into the problem insted of just exposing it! Second thing, is the lamp a reference from the video game "omori" at 3:44 ?

I aim for perfection initially, then gradually observe my limitations and stop once I'm at the best of my abilities.

I feel like you can be an intelligent individual who’s going through a really hard time (i.e. depressed, unmotivated, lack of self confidence, poor external circumstances, etc) and still say these things.

For ADHD people is the phrase "I can't do it" pretty common. Your brain physically doesn't allow you to do something at that moment especially when the brain is in "waiting mode". Lot of the phrases can be used by an ADHD person like the "no offense" because they lack of better way to say something. I'd like to edit specifying that we just have a different sense of what is normal and what is not but it doesn't make us any less emotionally intelligent

Well here's the thing about the "I told you so" part. A friend of mine,he's really smart and kind and very reliable but like to say that. Everyone doesn't really care too much but he never do that to those outside of his friend circle

3:45 "Who wants finds a way And who doesn't finds a reason"

I don’t really agree with most of these because I feel like they’re just things that most people do and aren’t really a sign of intelligence but rather your personality. I especially disagree with the this might be a stupid question one because I feel like just because someone isn’t confident in their question doesn’t mean they aren’t smart. 2 of my best friends are really smart and yet one has high self confidence and the other doesn’t, that doesn’t mean that one of them is smarter then the other. The only one I agree with is the boasting about your IQ part because I don’t care how smart you are, if you’re rude then I don’t want to be around you.

These things WISE people don’t say not INTELLIGENT people.

I might not say any of these things, but I definitely think 'I can't do it' to myself and I definitely think that affects my ability to do it

2:52 This one is mostly true, although people overuse this. Whenever I say "no offense," it pertains to something that may be misinterpreted as offensive, but, in reality, is not, not something that is actually offensive.

Me before watching: *Lemme guess, I’ve said them all*

“This might be a stupid question, but…” I say this not because of a lack of confidence, but because of past experiences of everyone calling my questions “stupid” or “dumb” or “pointless”.

i dont think i could ever drop the "i told you so" thing growing up as the one kid almost no one listens too but usually being right about something

"The ability to speak does not make you intelligent" -Qui-Gon Jin

Next video : 10 phases only 🧠 intelligent people would say

Another great video! I didn’t realize I didn’t say these phrases nor why (rut roh) but I’m a bit confused as to why avoiding saying these phrases is a sign of intelligence, would you mind running that by me?

i see the disclaimer and i know but i can't help but hurt when i see some of those things on the list ;;

there seems to be some generalization and assumptions made here. "it's not my fault" is legitimately valid at some points. some people have been blamed for some rather weird things that took place without their knowledge and/or consent. some times its completely outside of their power of realm of influence. in this type of situation I would say it's completely intelligent for them to not take the blame. "it needs to be perfect" this just classified people with OCD as "not smart". not to mention almost every mathematician and scientist. perfection maybe an illusion and un-obtainable, it should be strived for in many situations. "that's not in my job description" while many times it is used in the act of being lazy, think about the times it could be detrimental. the anesthesiologist being asked to perform the brain surgery. or the flight attendant being asked to fly the plane. it's LITERALLY not in their job description lol. "it's not fair" hmmm they seem to try to make this into a narcissistic only phrase. sometimes it's actually not fair, but this phrase can be used when on the outside of a situation. "it's not fair that her child has to pay for the mother's contract" the IQ statement really depends on topic, while its extremely rude and condescending. if working on logical problems. I think this person needs more of a reality check in the area of manners however. and I would think that this one is a valid "smart people" generally will not use this statement. I've used the "no offence" as I have known a few others too, usually due to a lack of a softer way of saying something. while some may use this as a precursor to be mean and rude. some use this phrase to set up feed back on things someone maybe able to improve upon, and sadly in todays world many people take offence to even the smallest of criticisms. "this might be a stupid question" well first off no question is stupid 'cept those not asked. however I can see possible ways of this phrase being used. sometimes people can understand the concept as a whole but maybe stuck on a very simple base of an idea, especially when crossing into other areas of expertise. "I can't do it" understanding a persons limit is not a bad sign. again going back to examples from earlier... I would want the anesthesiologist and the flight attendant to say "I can't do it" rather than "sure, I'll get right on it!". if you don't ever say "I can't do it" because of what Ford said. that would mean you could hold up the 100,000 ton building with your bare hands. welcome to squishdom also the "I can't do it" could be a smart person having a moral limit to an action. "this will only take a minute" "hey I gotta carry in the groceries from the car, this will only take a minute"... IDK... seems legit time to say it. "I told you so" ummmm rude yes... but often said by scientists that proved a hypothesis after being told something couldn't be done. Some people with the "Can do" attitudes often strive for that moment. how about examples? most people: "man will never be able to fly" Wright brothers: "told you so" most people: man will never set foot on the moon NASA: "Told you so" many of these things seem to be personality trait issues rather than a sign of someone lacking intelligence. I can agree with many of their videos, this one... seems a bit reckless without greatly restricting the scenarios of each phrase.

Not Ranboo’s crown on the mug-

0:09 Am I the only one who saw the mug? RANBOO MY BELOVED

Average human's "This will only take a minute" VS. Intelligent's "I can speedrun this"

“you’re so stupid” I never say that phrase but everyone kept saying that to me while i’m TRYING to help them.

“Crazy people are considered mad by the rest of the society only because their intelligence isn’t understood.” ― Wei Hui

The thing is since I'm still young I use different type of language around my peers And different language on the internet. This is so my peers would understand what I'm trying to tell them. While I use different language on the internet with a different perspective that would have adapted to what most people would have thought while still being honest. But I am more honest with my friends than the internet.

dsmp timestamps thumbnail: ranboo mug 0:08 ranboo mug 2:02 the kid resembles tubbo a bit (idk if it's him) 3:35 left to right: disc poster: your new boyfriend poster, dream in the corner, techno on the shelf, and ranboo poster above the tv

I think most of these phrases can be stated by anyone depending on the context, regardless of intelligence. 1. “It’s not my fault” If it REALLY isn't your fault, and you're being blamed for it, then you'll definitely say it at some point. 2. “This needs to be perfect” Less on literally achieving perfection, but to keep yourself in a high-mental state, especially for high-stakes work. 3. “That’s not in my job description” When you're a consultant/professional specializing in a particular service, you won't be fond of doing something outside of what you learned/trained to do. Instead, you redirect them to someone who CAN - and get a referral fee ;) 4. “It’s not fair” When it's literally not fair - like working hard for a project to succeed and have other people take the credit. Or worse, not get paid for it. 5. “I have a high IQ therefore I am smarter than you” Less of actually lording your IQ to other people, but rather a last ditch argument against someone who's extremely stubborn to get them to do their job. 6. “No offence but...” Can't think of anything here. I don't really say this. 7. “This might be a stupid question” Confidence issues. 8. “I can’t do it” Context - for instance, if you're too busy and they're demanding you to do another task, either put it on hold until you finish existing tasks or direct them to someone who can. You might even get a referral fee, huehuehue 9. “This will only take a minute” For small tasks, like household chores or menial tasks. They may not necessarily take one minute, but it denotes you they will have your attention shortly. 10. “I told you so” Catharsis. For instance, if they insist the solution is one way, despite trying to convince them to come up with another. Then they screw themselves over. You don't even have to say it, actually.

In the military saying: "that's not in my job description" can literally save lives (fun fact)