INFJ: We all can come together to build a better world😊 INTJ: Make sure to exclude the stupid ones😒

INTJ here. I do care about people, but only a few. But those few are my everything.

i got 51% T and 49% F on the test. might explain my inner conflicts all the time

The difference between an INTJ and an INFJ right here: If you're an INTJ, you sped the video up. If you're an INFJ, you didn't.

take note, when an INTJ wants to spend time with you. For they have thought of every reason not to. INTJ here.

All the good INTJ videos are done by INFJs

I am an Intj female, you speak logically, I agree with you.I am really emotional but I don't show it to everyone.I prefer to hide my feelings.But still, although I'm emotional, what makes the final decision is my logic.

This is a great way of describing an INTJs connection with feelings. I am an INTJ and I don’t mind when people tell me about their problems, I only mind when they don’t except any advice about how to fix them, and then continue to complain about the same problem. Which eventually might lead to not caring. Intjs do care about other people, but need to see that person care about themself as well

Feelings are personal. Very personal. - INTJ

INTJ here. Totally misunderstood by many. I am not a cold bitch. I do feel. You just won't see it. Because I won't show it.

INTJ -- Depending on context, it's not really about thinking being in alignment with other people. I don't care what they think, unless it's more correct or better than what I think, and then I'll change what I think. But not to be in alignment with the other people, but to be in better alignment with truth. If I'm right and everyone else is wrong, I'm not going to change what I think just to be in alignment with others.

My brother is an INTJ and I am an INFJ. We grew up like twins and are super close. The things I've noticed about his personality vs mine are LARGELY the thinking vs feeling aspect! He is ALWAYS super logical, to the point of arrogance, and seems to really turn off on anyone who is being emotional, as though emotions are an inferior or immature reaction. He comes off as a really cold-hearted self-absorbed prick to most people. However, BECAUSE I am so close with him, I am one of the FEW people who know that he has INTENSE feelings, and quite honestly is the most sensitive and touchy person I know. If someone wrongs him in any way (usually by disagreeing with him or correcting him or insinuating he's full of shit or something) he will literally shut that person out of his life often permanently. He never shows emotion though. He doesn't even raise his voice. This is made really clear to me by remembering our arguments as kids. He would always get me shouting hysterically and crying with his sharp know-it-all and I'm-never-wrong tone, and of course I'd be the one to get in trouble because I was the one shouting at him. That has been my biggest issue with him. For me, as an intense feeler, I often get really annoyed at his lack of emotion. So, it's very true that most (if not ALL) of our misunderstandings lie in that emotion vs logic. I always try to argue the feeling side of things while he tries to argue the thinking side. But for the most part, we get each other deeply. We both see the world intuitively and outside the box and can philosophize about the insanity of the world for hours. I think what we need to remember is that even though INFJs tend to feel INTJs don't have feelings, and INTJs tend to think INFJs don't have logic, WE DO. We just happen to believe the opposite is more important.

"I'll feel what I'll feel, but what I think needs to be accurate." - INTJ "What I think is what I think, but my feeling can change." - INFJ A very subtle difference. Lol

Hey, an INTJ here. I will blurry the lines between the INTJs and INFJs a bit. In the video, you mention INTJs are interested in people's logic, ideas and INFJs in people's values and emotions. I think INTJs are interested in people's values as well, but not from emotional stand point but logic; it can even be emotional in nature coming from people, but I will translate it into the thinking aspect of feelings behind the value. I think INFJs want to understand individual's outlook on life, their perception, through people's feelings; INTJs do it through people's thinking patterns. In order to do that, both consider values. Maybe that is why the difference between the types is so subtle. So in short: INTJ = I wonder, what a person thinks in order to feel this way? INFJ = I wonder, what a person feels in order to think this way? That is the general impression I got from this cool video :P

I'm INTJ and it's very accurate. I do care about what people think, I sure love deep conversations but don't get what am I supposed to say or do if someone talks to me about feelings. Feelings are too personal to be shared with others.

Healthy INFJ: What is the pattern of emotions and what do i think about that. Healthy INTJ: What is the pattern that works for everyone and what do i feel about that.

INTJ here, i'm more important than every one

It’s possible that the “coldness” of INTJ is simply accepting the feelings of others, rather than adopting the feelings as our own. You’re sad? I get what sadness is - I hope it goes away soon, but what am I going to do about it? You’re ecstatic? That’s cool, but please keep the noise down. Feeling guilty? Hey, I’m not going to pry into what you did. Letting others deal with their emotions on their own is a form of respect that is often unappreciated by Fe.

I think the difference is that INFJ's can read your feelings, like a therapist. and INTJ's can read your mind, like a chess master.

My father is an INTJ and my mother is an INFJ. I have been raised and taught to be like both, it is very unique and interesting as well. I have been taught both to prioritise reasoning but also to take great care to understand emotions, I am sort of a bridge between two worlds.

I'm watching Frank James talk about my personality type instead of studying for my finals . Encourage me.

INTJs: "What's wrong with (stupid) people?". XD

Sister-in-law is an INFJ and I’m an INTJ. You nailed us, Frank! And I’m glad to hear someone acknowledging that INTJ types feel and INFJ types think, that it’s not a simple matter of thinking vs. feeling. Thank you, I feel so understood!

At first I was an INFJ, in my teens through my twenties. Later on, I somehow switched to INTJ, so I have been both. I think because as an INFJ my empath side (sensory kinesthesia) started to become too overwhelming, taking on the feelings of others and I could see how to solve things and I'd advise. At some point something changed... I don't feel like carrying anyones burdens anymore, they don't change no matter what advice I give. I'll show you how to put your big girl/boy pants on and then you need to figure shit out on your own.

My INTJ boyfriend and I are sitting here nodding our heads.

You forgot the part where you stoke my ego by telling me how much you love INTJ's and how amazing we are. I'll just take it as inferred. You're too nice, INFJ are cool too!

"INTJ, i'm more important than everyone" lol....to all of these people who think like that i'm gonna tell you a secret: you're not an INTJ, you have a narcissistic disorder and it hurts so much to all of you to recognize it.

This helped out a lot, since I tend to fluctuate between F and T when I do testing, but listening to this I'm definitely INTJ. I keep my feelings close to my chest, they're mostly only for my loved ones to really see into, whereas my ideas and thoughts and reasonings are an open book that I crave to bounce off of and test against other peoples' in the hopes of broadening our perspectives. I feel deeply, but that's mine. I'll tell ya what I think though.

I think TOO MUCH. Therefore I FEEL I AM an INFJ. Analyze that.

INTJs can use Fe to "read the room" and get feeler-based feedback but this is for data collection purposes.

"INTJ here", "intj here", I'm not gonna say that, coz it's sounds so stupid. (I'm intj)

INTJ here. My thinking is more like a chain reaction. I tend to analyse my response to situations for days until I come up with a rational insight to it and make sure to respond accordingly if I am faced with the same situation next time. Sometimes I feel like a robot, like I am programming myself to function a certain way but I can't help it. That's just how it makes sense to me.

I'm INFJ. My cat is INTJ. He's super practical (brings snakes and mice for me to eat) and Independent. INFJs and INTJs get along great.

I did two different tests, one was INFJ and the other INTJ so I clicked into this video

My boyfriend is an INTJ and I'm a INFJ, we have the best conversations I love how rational he is but still has this introvert intuition I do recognize how special he is, I love his mind and soul , it is a fascinating personality to discover I recommend this personality match in a couple, this video is so interesting for me , thank you so much Frank

I'm an INTJ and my best friend is an INFJ. We share lots of traits but yeah when it comes to the feeling vs the thinking it's like we complete each others' point of view. In other words, every INTJ needs an INFJ in his/her life and vice-versa to achieve balance😊

I have an intj son, he's the best! I love how he stays logical when the feelers in the family are losing it. So smart, so introverted, I seriously LOVE this type! They are super independent. He was my absolute easiest child.

It really depends on my mood to, sometimes I feel more like a INTJ and sometimes more like a INFJ.

INTJ here. Now I finally understand why whenever I got to share my personal emotional traumas I couldn't relate to what the other person/people felt; when people feel sorry and try to cheer me up I don't feel anything, I think it's because when I (eventually) open up I don't feel the need for my trauma to be validated, it exists, it's there, but I don't need it to be understood from others, I only care about how am *I* going to do about it. That's probably also the same reason why INTJ try to provide advice when people have problems, instead of comforting them (luckily I have enough Fe to understand what other people expect me to do for them, but I still do give advices on how to solve problems after trying to comfort my friends)

Hello Frank. Thanks for the informative vid. I am a female INTJ and my sister is an INFJ. I can't speak for every INTJ or INFJ but I can relate some obervations. First the similarities. My best times are with Lisa with while we are having deep conversations. We talk at length about our feelings, experiences, our marriages and spirituality. We just understand each other and care deeply for each other. That's important because we are both married to Sensors (what was I thinking?? Just kidding). We both like to spend a lot of time in our heads because, frankly, it's way more interesting than the material world. Neither of us is much interested in watching the news, or the latest trends. We both have Facebook accounts we never use. We read a lot of books and learn new information for fun. The main differences I see is are in how we navigate through life. Lisa is very emotional. She once told me that she was constantly awash in emotions. Emotions influence nearly every thought and act. I actively suppress my emotions. It's like I have a big vault inside where I store my emotions. If I want to bring them out, to express them in a safe environment, I let them out. Otherwise they are irrelevant. Lisa's Fe drives her to want to connect with people. To understand and counsel them. My Te drives me learn about the nature of life, the psychology of people and to dive deeply into the spiritual realm without interference from people. Well I guess that's enough for now.

My husband is an INTJ to my INFJ. And I have several INTJ friends. We make great matches and balance each other well for all sorts of relationships. The biggest differences I have noticed are that while they can actually be very emotional and even get hurt feeling easily, they have a hard time vocalizing what they are feeling. They also have a hard time reading a room, or person for that matter. They seem to fail at picking up those subtle hints that the other person is uncomfortable or unhappy with the conversation.

I'm still confused on what I am lol. I'm border lined Thinking and feeling. It seems that both play a equal roles....

I used to always be confused as to how I could be typed as an INTJ on every single test I took and still be an emotional person. This helped clear it up a lot. The feelings happen inside my head in a little compartment... whereas an INFJ, their feelings surround everyone and try to draw out the feelings of others. I think that's a difference. I couldnt imagine having introverted thinking, I thrive off of bouncing crazy ideas off of other people and seeing if they can prove me wrong.

I’ve tested as an int/fj several times. My t and f are balanced. Yes it can happen.

My INTJ bestfriend has cried more than my INFJ boyfriend.

I'm a male INTJ, and I've had two different female INFJs in my life. We are very similar in some ways: we like a peaceful, clean, thoughtful, almost meditative environment, in which to live, rest, work, study, and exist. We don't much like parties, crowds, loud concerts, dance clubs, and so on. The main difference is that the INFJ really cares about everyone getting along, and they will mediate between people to try to get them to see each other's point of view, and hopefully achieve an understanding. I only care about what's true, what's right, and if someone has a problem with that, even when presented with overwhelming evidence or proof, it's a serious character defect on their part, that needs to improve. The INFJ, on the other hand, will only take a side in an argument when they've exhausted all other options. It's excruciating for them, they hate having to do it. Of course they also have their own wants and needs, and they are much more willing to stand up for those things than they are to take sides between two other people. INFJs are individualistic, and they have a strong sense of self. The intuitive, detached observation about how the world should be is applied to feelings, people and relationships, where INTJs are much more logical, rational and fact based. Otherwise, we are very similar, and very compatible. Our disagreements take this form: INFJ: You're being insensitive. Me: You're being irrational. INFJ: I know you're right, but you need to be more diplomatic about it. Me: I know you're right, but I can't stand it when people refuse to see the truth of what I'm saying.

I wasn't sure if I am a natural INTJ with huge empathic levels or natural INFJ that developed lots of logic. I think I was born INTJ after all, because of emotional trauma since childhood, which led me to depression, I developed huge awareness of the emotional state of people because I understood that healthy emotions make people act better in life than being unstable which can cause lots of problems in the everyday life. I understood very early in life both: Build a better world, but exclude the stupid ones. And that reasoning comes from observation of myself and others. But my natural instinct after I fixed lots of my emotional problems and self esteem is acting like an INTJ, I don't care always for the feelings of others especially when they get in the way of progress.

INTJ woman here- we can seem to simulate Fe, in that we can ask how everyone feels to assess morale, especially when we take on managerial positions. We also can sometimes try to take care of the feeling component in a group situation if deemed necessary or if things are looking to go spiraling out of control in that regard, but don't be mistaken! This is not Fe. This is Ni-Te organizing the situation to the best of our abilities in order to mitigate any time wasting with feelings later on. It's not that we don't care about how others feel, but it's just a more strategic way to operate with others so that we can get things sorted and get things done. But yes, ultimately, with an INTJ, we recognize that feelings are subjective to the individual, and that while we may not understand why someone feels a certain way, we can accept it and move on. However, if someone's logic is off, we will politely let them know. Generally right away. Even if it's not worth it to bring up. Haha.

Person: "I've known you for two months and I actually really really like you

the difference is so minimal it could probably change based on what playlist you listened to in the morning

As a teen, all throughout high school I was an INTJ, and in the past year, I took the test again and got INFJ, but after this video, I am certain I am an INTJ still; I've just gotten into my emotions a bit more in the past while. Thank you for the clear explanation

My dad is INTJ. We have an awesome connection and a lot in common (including running away from family gatherings early). However, it is a challenge when it comes to certain things. He is very logical and straight forward. He would rather tell his opinion (even if it is negative) than care about hurting my feelings. I guess if I had more confidence in myself, I wouldn't get hurt. In general, I think it is a great match for a close friendship, these two types balance each other very well. No one understands me like another introverted intuitive type...

Enfp here.. 🤦🏻‍♀️ half way through the video I was thinking about tacos. 😩🤦🏻‍♀️ And then realized that I am the stereotype 😒

I'm an INTJ but I can get really emotional, so at times I was wondering if I wasn't mistyped. However, I came to a conclusion that I never/almost never make decisions based on what I'm feeling, and I'm also more interested in what other people think (in terms of logical arguments for/against sth, for example) than what they feel. I remember when I first went to see a shrink to talk through some stuff and the moment she started to ask me about my emotions, I was just completely lost, it was alien territory to me. My feelings can occasionally wreak havoc on the inside, but on the outside people think I'm this calm, reserved person. It's a bit bizarre.

I haven’t taken an official Myers-Briggs test. Only the free 16 personalities one (I get INTJ/INTP with that one). But the more I watch videos on the types, the more I am convinced I am an INTJ. I can’t even fathom why a group would make a decision based on feeling rather than agreeing on the logic of what is best.

“Just because you’re an INTJ doesn’t mean you don’t have feelings.” Me, an INTJ: “excuse you, did you just assume I have feelings?”

"Stay cool and attractive " Me: notes definitely not an INTJ. We would say "stay rational and autonomous"

I scored INFJ as a teenager through my 20s then started scoring INTJ in my 30s. Not sure what that’s all about but one notable difference in me was implementing more logic than emotion in my decision making and relating to the world around me. When I was younger I was healing a lot of trauma wounding so I had to do CBT. I think INTJ is more of what my personality is but had other mental stuff coloring my core self that I had to bring back to wholeness. Loved this video.

Damn hit it right on there when you said INTJ bounces their ideas/feelings off of people. I do this alllll the time just to see, and I struggle explaining it just like you didddd

I find relationships with INTJs simultaneously rewarding and frustrating. My dad is an INTJ, and while he and I have a lot of things in common, and share a close bond in some ways, we also butt heads a lot. I also had an INTJ roommate a few years ago that I initially connected really, really well with; she and I had a lot of similar interests and perspectives; but ultimately she drove me up the wall because she could often be cold and insensitive. The whole extroverted thinking vs. feeling aspect seems to be a challenge for me personally. It seems I forge more intimate, conflict-free relationships with those on the feeling end of the spectrum, whether they be extroverts or introverts.

I’m an INFJ involved with an INTJ. We actually have similar interests, but she rarely shares her feelings. She’s less social than I am to, and has an even stronger preference for things to be planned out. She’s also laser focused on her goals and getting things done is top priority. To an outsider, without actually seeing the intricacies of her behavior, you might not be able to tell the difference between us. We’re the same, but opposites in our auxiliary and tertiary functions.

I'm INTJ. I feel like my personality was shaped by childhood abuse and neglect. I'm introverted because I was isolated from other people outside of my family for 5 straight years. I never went through the public education system so I don't go through thought processes step by step. Since I was emotionally abused, letting myself feel anything was in itself dangerous so I relied more on thinking things through. I used the internet to raise me also, so I had to have a thick skin. I also like structure and planning because my entire childhood was an unstructured mess. The more I look into the INTJ trait, the more I feel like it fits me. I took the test 13 years ago and haven't taken it since.

People really tend to forget that under the Fe warm welcoming surface of INFJ lies the Ti and that’s their calculating function if you’ve known an infj for a long time and they trust you , you will have a full access to their Ti : their honest thoughts and how they can be scarily calculating and cold at times. And people tend to misjudge the INTJs by labelling them as unemotional and cold but behind that persona, they’re a very emotional person who protects their vulnerability by being very secretive and private of their feelings.

Got an INTJ friend and he told me that he loved me since he knew me like 10 years ago. Like wtf a man could hide his feeling for that long. Doubt whether it is a true love, lol.

Thank god (in a non religious sense) for the MB test. For the first time in my life at 45 years of age I now know who I am. Your newly discovered channel makes me feel normal in a world that has mostly made me feel anything but. Thank you, so fucking much Frank.

This is the best explanation that I've heard, so far. I think I'm a very strong introverted thinker. I tested as an INTJ only once. All other test results were for INFJ, and I definitely feel that that is a better match. Thank you.

I am INTJ and I cry at movies, videos, you name it. I try to supress it like my life depends on it, but I do cry. (I'm female)

I am Infj and my husband intj. It has its ups and downs. Can't stand the fact that he doesn't feel the need show emotion. And I do. So for a long time I didn't understand why he wanted to be together still (when we were dating) if he seemed distant. But I've learned to figure him out. He shows his love in different ways than I would expect. But it is amazing. We are alike too though. It is a very interesting dynamic!

Not to diminish your other videos but, I think this is the best one so far. It’s straight forward, to the point and doesn’t mess around even playing it for a laugh which is refreshing for MBTItube!

This video is a very good explanation. My ex is an INTJ and I am an INFJ. We dated for almost 9 years and we’re very compatible in many ways, but some of biggest issues came from that extroverted feeling/introverted thinking function.

At the age of 18, I was an INFJ. At the age of 27, I am an INTJ.

I react strongly to external feeling, but enjoy internal thinking more. Because of that I've always thought I was a combination of the two. This helped clear that up a little, thanks! Looks like I'm definitely INFJ!

Hi FJ ..guess what!! I mistyped myself INFJ but I don't regret it coz it's the reason i found your channel✌great work man #INTJ

Infj mom with intj son. Awesome video! Thank you so much for your clear and concise description. Helps me understand us both better and how we relate to/ bounce off one another :)

Wow! I'm an INFJ who loves to share deep conversations to get to the truth and reads other people's emotions even absorbs them if I'm not on guard. In a different video with a different narrator I learned that the INFJ understands people and the INTJ understands the material world. I've spent my entire life studying people and can only tolerate peaceful environments.

Thank you so much for this! I had gotten both INTJ and INFJ results before on seperate quizzes and was confused. But this explained the difference perfectly. I would say I am definitely INTJ! I absolutely want to bounce opinions off others and want validation for thoughts on certain topics. I look up arguments and counter arguments for things to make sure my own arguments are truly sound. And I want to see what others think before I feel sure if my position. If someone else has a better logical argument of course I'll change my mind to what makes the most sense! *Extroverted thinking.* I absolutely do NOT seek validation for my feelings by gaging what others are feeling. I hate talking about my personal emotional state, and am super private about my feelings. If I'm upset, I'd rather people not even know, and do my best to hide it because I want to spend my time processing my emotions without the influence of others and deciding what they mean to me, and what I want to do about them. And I dont want others opinions... I want to process it alone, so people dont influence what truly I want/feel. Feelings are personal and have nothing to do with logic. The heart cannot be explained and it doesn't always make sense. I have a LOT of emotions... but how the heck could other people understand them if I dont even know what it means to me. I just need time, lots of private time - to process it all on my own. Maybe then (probably months later) I can attempt to explain it to someone else. I dont want people to share/ influence my feelings... it almost makes me feel manipulated and angry, like... stop trying to tell me how to feel. *Introverted Feeling.*

As an INTJ, I do like some humans as beloved pets. Worst thing you can do to an INTJ is to try to control us. If you are loved by an INTJ you are very lucky because the INTJ has scrutinized you and found you worthy. INTJs do not fall blindly in love, they love someone for strong reasons.

I’ve been watching franks videos for a long time now and it finally clicked. Like the introverted versus extraverted functions. lol. Good explanation

I'm an INTJ and my partner is an INFJ. This vlog is spot on for telling the two apart.

You sir, are a genius. INTJ here, and that's high praise coming from me.

Unf. Thanks for this, Frank. I usually type somewhere between INTJ and INFJ, and I always wondered why/how and which one was more correct. From your video, I think I can understand why/how I get those results and which one is more correct. I'm an INFJ, but I have /strong/ logic functions and I often rely heavily on them, so my Ti is stronger and more developed. It's not as much an issue for me. If I get angry, I can be very hot and passionate about it, but when I'm really angry, I flip to a cold and logical kind of anger that allows me to just...dissect people and arguments with little regard to others' feelings. On my bad days, I mean. I'm not a monster. :D

Fascinating. This has me thinking for the very first time that I might be an INTJ.

Thank you for creating this vid! You have pretty accurately described my sister and me. It's really interesting for us to see these parts in ourselves and each other when we talk. Amazing work! ✌

I always felt like the lead character/physician from the TV show "House" was a good example of an INTJ.

I just realized your initials are in INFJ. How did I miss that?!

This is so good. Your Ti was thorough with this idea. I couldn’t have said it better myself- INTJ

Really grateful I found your channel! Excellent content, thanks.

Frank: "Oh if you're an INFJ you care about people and if you're INTJ you don't care about people. That's totally wrong both of them-" What my brain filled in: "Don't care about people." XD

The INTJs I know seem so much more confident in general, especially about what they know and how to navigate unfamiliar terrain. If you were able to choose your Myers Briggs type, what would you choose? For me, I would choose to be ENFJ because those individuals are incredibly charismatic, engage with pretty much any type of person with ease, and seem to have it together when conducting their business. Or, I would choose INTJ because of their confidence and badassery with intellectual matters.

Brilliant. Actually the best video I watched regarding the difference between INFJ and INTJ. As I grow older and know myself better, I feel I am leaning towards the INTJ.

Im an INTP my best friend is an INTJ, and even though shes brutal sometimes, its clear shes an INTJ but shes actually really caring to me as a friend and gives me the best most sensible advice

Wellll.... I think this has confirmed I’m INFJ, I was on the fence. Thanks, I love these videos! Also your ‘The INFJ fade' video changed my life. Thanks again. I always love your back to the future references.

OMG yeeeeees, I'm an INTJ and that's so true. The part that we don't need tell our feelings, we don't care that much with others feelings enough to talk about it.

I'm an INFJ and an INTJ Just in the mid of it With feeling at 49% and thinking at 51%

I'm an INTJ female. I always thought something was wrong with me because I don't show what I'm feeling or care about feelings outwardly. I thought maybe I was a psychopath or something. Thank you for this James. I feel better now :)

I feel like i switch between both,maybe its my depression or my own weirdness.... causes me a lot of grief to be honest. Great video BTW keep up the good work.

Great analysis Frank. I've taken myers brigg several times and bounce back and forth between INTJ and INFJ, and after listening to you I can say I'm INFJ. It weird. I've been a programmer for 15 years where INTJ would revel in such a field, due to thinking, but as an INFJ programmer I was more concerned about how my users felt about the application and how it suited their needs as opposed to prioritizing a business need or the application scope. I also looked at programming more as act of art as opposed to a business function. Nonetheless I did meet business goals and need at the same time because I had to. When you conveyed that INFJ's looked focus on feeling and value judgements that was dead gave-a-way defining me and talking to people.

Oh my god thank you! I'm years too late and watch a ton of your newer stuff but I just came across this and it has helped me so much! I was really kind of confused a couple months ago when I started getting INTJ on my tests and I had no idea why. This explained it for me. Basically, what I think happened was that I learned how to switch from extraverted feeling to extraverted thinking and invert my emotions... I used to care a lot about what people thought and felt and I, for various reasons, I had to teach myself how to care less to save my sanity... I now type myself as an INF/TJ because I really feel stuck directly in the middle all the time lol.. Thanks again though. Keep up the videos they are truly much more enlightening and well-put/thought out than even the Myers Briggs indicator.... That thing needs a serious update lol..

It’s one AM here and I am once again watching plenty of videos about INTJ. It’s actually freaking me out how accurate this is.

Yessss! I'm an INTJ. Thank you. This is great. Good to know I have feelings and care about ppl.