Good to hear!

Word.

exactly, and the worst part is we end up doing nearly all of the work and they still get the credit from the teacher

Same 😂

I can relate to that. Some of my group mates are quite incompetent, so I ended up finishing the project all by myself.

Uve got it wrong, they hate u

Me too

@@joyhuebert1219 ur not edgy mate

@@joyhuebert1219 so edgy

Yeah

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YES. exactly the same with me, i understand and relate to you completely. i HATE small talk and especially in situations like that. especially when i’m minding my own business, doing something where I CLEARLY do not want to be bothered and then people gather around me like a flock and try to have a conversation and so i’m like 😄👹👺.

I think the people around me at work have just accepted that I won’t laugh at everything they say or just to “be nice”. If they speak to me, telling me something that I can tell they find humorous, I’ll give a small polite smile, then continue with my tasks. The trick is to give answers that are as short and vague as possible. That makes people uncomfortable and then, soon enough, you’ve trained them to stay away from you… mostly. I do not hate people, but I hate being AROUND people, and speaking to them? I do not exaggerate when I say I avoid it AT ALL COSTS. I only speak when it absolutely, 100%, cannot be avoided.

As an INTP, I always find small talk irritating as hell. Also most people due to ignorance think that being shy and hating people are synonymous with each other, whilst they couldn’t be further from the truth. For starters, there are many extroverts who are shy; and many introverts like myself whom are not shy. I also don’t hate people, only that the vast majority of them are boring.

i try to avoid conversations but sometimes people come to my desk at school and ask me why i sit at my desk for the whole recess and draw. Than i say that i enjoy it and get back to whatever i was doing. After that, they call me shy, introverted, and depressed. I ignore them, than they don’t leave me alone. JUST LEAVE ME ALONE I WOULD RATHER SPEND MY TIME DRAWING THAN TO START THE DUMBEST ARGUMENT WITH THE DUMBEST PERSON EVER

I've gotten into SO many arguments with teachers over the years. Last year, our team scored a first down. The band director didn't notice, and neither did the drum major. Nobody knew what to do, so I counted us off. People were a little startled, but we played fine. This new assistant band director was on a power trip, yelled, "Don't ever do that again! Only {band director} or {drum major} should count you off!" I yelled back "well MAYBE if {drum major} was doing his job, we would not have had to do that!" She responded with "well it sounded terrible!" This is where I drew the line. I knew that there was TECHNICALLY a power difference (she's my superior), but I was pissed. It's ONE thing to insult MY playing, but it's a WHOLE different thing to insult my bandmates. They're my family. So I just yelled back, "Do you want to come up here and play? Do you think you could do better?" I don't remember much after that. It's all fuzzy. I remember her getting up into my face talking about how I have problems with authority (I don't). At one point, she said, "YOU HAVE NO RESPECT!" At this point, I was all in. My bandmates were staring at me, and I could see a couple grinning. I looked this bitch dead in the eyes and I said "respect is earned, not given. Now, please get out of my face." She was going to try to keep me from marching that night, but there was no way in hell that was going to happen. First of all, she doesn't have the power to make that decision. Second of all, when she tried to bring it up with the band director, he shut her down because I'm an asset on the field. I don't know how I didn't get in trouble. I think it's because the band director took my side. People who are that unprofessional should not be in positions of power. A few months later, my bandmates and I were talking about personality types, and I was reading out mine, and one of the guys was like, "That makes SO MUCH SENSE?" When I asked him why, he said,"Do you remember when?" I HAD ALREADY FORGOTTEN 😂

@@LordPepe-jh5dt You did the right thing bae! Hell yeah, Respect goes both ways. And just because you're "older" or "more superior" it doesn't mean I will let you treat me like shit and treat you good. The way you treat me sets an example on how I should treat you. Kudos for standing up for yourself!!

Love you. Never ever lose that attitude.

I have left several jobs because my boss made poor business decisions and I cannot respect a “superior” who is dumber than I am.

Exactly. @@BBMc107

You are better off assuming incompetence and corruption due to humans being human, and be pleasantly surprised when not.

What a Chad.

Keep low expectations for others and plan accordingly

I'm only upset when there's no improvements at all while I'm helping them in a concise way , encouraging and complimenting them at the time

Yes. "Lead, follow, or get out of the way"

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Oh my, that is so true. I am doing that a lot and it is very easy to reach a burnout stage with this "system".

So true, like when i need to do a project I always make it so much more complicated than my classmates, and as a result of that I make it way too hard to finish or to present my project.🥲😂

OMG! same here, I always want perfection, but because of stress I can't achieve a little and this makes me very frustrated.

Same here. I've gotten so caught up in perfectionism that nothing gets done. Sometimes the details of a project get dragged out wear me out. It beats doubling back and doing things twice.

This was me after COVID 😭😭 I despised the fact I didn’t choose a virtual college.

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Perhaps you'd be interested in this thing called "horoscopes". Fucking stupid.

Agreed 100%

how the fuck did this blow up

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ikr routines make me go crazy

I literally changed my career because of that

Because of this feeling I'm now travelling to the United States to learn a new job, I am from Brazil and this will be a challenge!

What I do is find ways to keep my mind engaged. Over the summer I had a job servicing defibrillators, and managed to hit record numbers by changing the order of the process and by using things like a second battery to allow me to do two things at once. After you reach that stage where the rules coalesce and telescope into one act - an art - look for ways to make it harder without effecting performance. In my case, I tried memorizing the defibrillator ID, and then date, and then battery date, to grow in some way (my memory in this case). Just keep pushing yourself, but try to not be too hard on yourself. Otherwise you fall into a habit of worrying about anything that MIGHT be counterproductive/ineffective.

Takes too much energy.

@@anon-tk1zg sure it gives me a headache and I get exhausted, but it gets better with time. Also, dealing with conflict takes more energy.

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I totally hate people wasting my time.

Same here. If they tell me what they need I can get it, or say no if I cant. They don't need to bullshit for an hour, and make my head hurt guessing what they want.

@@qua7771 It's usually extroverts, extroverting all over you. Why get to the point when you can tell someone a long story about yourself and waste their time?

@@darthlaurel I try to reserve time for them after things are done, but they prefer to extrovert randomly. I'm learning that they think that they are bringing us back to reality by giving us a since of community. Essentially, this is their way of avoiding independence, and leaning on each-other for everything even when it could easily be avoided. They think being dependent is helping somehow. It's bizarre.

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We're good at allowing enemies to get caught in their own web. That's for sure. I think it comes with intuition. We know their next move.

The old " give them all the rope to hang themselves with" trick. Yeah. It's a classic Go To tactic along with viral marketing techniques to spread an idea. Works just about every time. For more fun but subtle techniques I'd suggest y'all look up some counter intelligence techniques books. That way you can use them if the need arises and more importantly so you'll recognize when some high functioning sociopath, psychopath, or malignant narcissist is running one of those plays against you or someone you care about.

Well played. Once, I casually warned one of my enemies that I don’t tolerate bull crap from other people and that I will get physical if needed. I said this in front of my group of friends on purpose knowing that this guy would aggravate me again in front of them. (He liked to show off). He finally did and I got physical as promised. I did get in trouble with a few people except those that heard me say what I said. They defended me by saying, “Well, he did say that he retaliates and the guy should’ve taken that as a warning.” In the end, I got back at my enemy, made a statement and kept my friends.

@8-Bit Andy your P and J must be slightly dominant at least 51%

I did personality test couple of times at different times and still got INTJ, to be honest sometimes I feel overwhelmed and think if I truly have INTJ personality since most people addressing them as "quiet, cold and smart" and that is why I'm here trying to learn more about myself through these videos.

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I think the same everytime before I watch psychology related videos because sometimes they're not factually correct.

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Это точно!:)

This is a great trait!

Great comment!

No wonder me an INTJ who gets attracted to every enfp's I meet and get along so well with them. ENFPs are the only people who understand my INTJs thoughts and behaviour!

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Interesting approach!

I have a twin with the same personality type too!

Thank you for this insight!

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Great suggestion!

I think the solution would never get done because everyone will check after everyone just to be sure everything is done right.

If they are a group of INTJs who trust each other and are friends then it is probably one of the most efficient and creative and intelligent groups of people you will come across. If not, then it falls apart extremely quickly.

I think, as long as jealousy doesn't creep in, or the stakes very high (million-dollar prize, say), it wd be marvelous to watch such a project unfold. Trick is: to get / find a good number of the 2% INTJs together with the subject knowledge, who aren't currently (secretly) world dominating! 🤔😂

I think it would work just fine, with a good chance of providing superior results.... PROVIDED the group as a whole assigned one member to the leadership role, with it being understood by all that this person has the function of moving the geoup forward.

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Cuz nothing is 100% certain?

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Same. Sometimes my brain is so overheated, it makes me anything BUT efficient.

@@heibai1173 yea and sometimes I experience brain fog and progressive over load it's an issue I think I might have a mental illness or brain damage and I have high levels of stress even tho I'm extermly confident that's also weird

@@Jack_howard_mayer I alphabetize things, draw, or organize my hard drives to calm down. Except, then when I go to sleep, I dream about all of my folders and I am forced to sort things in my dreams! Alas, not even in sleep does my mind find repose.

@@heibai1173 my mind is too rapid and fast so I get insomnia but i can still function I go bed like 4:00 its hard for me cause I'm always constantly in stress and trauma