My ex gave me a dog as a birthday gift. I won't be giving my dog away. 😆

I dont care if your an Ex or not, If you give me something; IT'S MINE! Not going to give it back Lol.

"See that's very mature... I'm not that mature yet." 😂😂😂 aaaah Adrienne!!

An old "gift" from an ex, I do not mind. An old love letter, I very much mind. Why keep it? To re-read it? Re-feel that love? Nuh-uh.

I'm glad Tamar pointed out how hypocritical it is.

who ever is adrienne's stylist they do a really good job on her because she always looks nice !

I just remembered that I have a photo of an ex that I need to tear up to pieces...Thanks for giving me that push Tamar lol

In Loni's case, I think that's really sweet. She respects their friendship and is secure in her own relationship to entertain the idea of that photo being on display

I love how Tamar is not being unfair to men. She believes men feels the same as women. She doesn't believe in that double standard. I love her!!!

Jeanie looks good

I think keeping a gift from an ex is okay as long as it’s still beneficial to you like a phone, clothes, shoes or even a car. Keeping a teddy bear or something intimate is just weird because while you’re holding on to memories, your ex is married and has a family.

Ohh Jeannie looking all types of HAWT in that red leather jacket and lace floral top! Mmhmm yas Mrs Mai werk!

I think the gift symbolizes the memories that you shared with someone and not necessarliy you still having feelings. I'm a sentimental person so I like to keep things and reflect on good times but I guess everyone sees things differently.

okay this time *Loni's* story sounds real !!

I thought Adrienne would bring up the time her ex kept the car she bought for him. Remember that?

Adrienne looking like a gorgeous, classy mom lol. Tamar also looks really good today

Once the relationship is over, it's over! I don't want any memories of you. You will be dead to me!

I’m so happy Adrienne found her perfect mate! Someone who she doesn’t have to suffer over ❤️

" I have never hated a man enough to give him his diamonds back "

i think women are naturally more sentimental than men... so, to that end, i think a woman would keep old love letters for sentimental reasons, nice memories being nice, but for a man to keep something like that would seem, to me, more of a love lost situation, like he's still pining for that girl...

binge watching...

I have to say Jeanie is Gorgeous!!!

I don't think Tamar is as insecure as she seems. I think in her mind she has to make herself believe that other women would want Vince so she could feel secure.

hahahaha "That's very mature, im not that mature yet" Jeannie's jacket! yessss

i miss tamar! the real is not the same without her

Loni looks really nice today. I had to point that out.

I dont think theres anything wrong with it, except if it were letters but anything materialistic, i don't mind keeping & i dont mind my man/husband keeping. Especially if it was expensive. You have to be secure in your relationship like Loni said. Because at a point that ex meant a lot to you. Especially if ya'll ended on good terms, its ok!

I agree with Tamar cause keeping gifts from yo ex means that you still have feelings for that person

I'm split with this situation. IMO I don't think it is right to keep pictures and letters from your ex. The relationship is over and it is time to move on into bigger and better things. I know if I were to be in a relationship with a guy and I wouldn't feel comfortable if he kept letters and pictures from his ex. To me if you keep pictures and letters from your ex it tells me that you still have feelings for them. If the relationship is over there is no need to keep letters and pictures around that is going to remind you about your pass relationship. If you are in a new relationship you have to focus on that and it should be your priority and not the old relationships. However, if the gifts was something like shoes and clothes than I don't mind if he kept that. But the letters and pictures has got to go.

i love the orange shirt & beautiful brown hair Ts got goin on. she never gets it wrong! whether shes rockin her beautiful crazy fro or da light blonde/brown hair she always looks classy yet effortless glam. keep it up T 😊

Jeannie: "But what about a really good fly mixtape...?"Tamar : " A WHO??--girl, no. BYE." I am deadddd x_X

Don't do what you don't want other's to do to you, in other words if you know for a fact that you would have a problem with your spouse keeping gift's from an EX than you should not keep the gift's either. simple as that !

The way we saw Adrienne change so much. From Lenny to Isiaah 💖 shes grown alot.

Jeannie looks so pretty.

Jeanie is the most mature. Its part of her life experience to keep stuff. It doesn't mean there is still a feeling of romance linked to the item. Maturity is key here.

One thing that really shocks my friends (and I'm a female) is my ability to completely move on when a relationship ends. And I found this to be as a result of getting rid of ANYTHING associated with that person. It doesn't mean you hate that person or you guys ended on a bad note. My Exs are actually all good people. But keeping something has a meaning. It would absolutely be unfair to the next person you'll be with to see all the things you've kept from the people you've been with in the past. Tamar is right. You have to think about what you would do if you were in that person's situation and they have memories saved from the past. It's hypocrisy if you want to keep things but you don't want the other person to keep things.

Towards the end of my relationship with my ex, my heart just wasn't into it anymore my feelings changed. So when my ex and I broke up I threw away everything he gave me because I didn't want to have anything that reminded me of him. I also cut off all contact from him to make it easier to get over him and our relationship. Side note: Everything Adrienne wears is on point and Tamar looks really nice today! :)

I'd only keep the expensive stuff my ex bought me and Loni's story was really sweet

A new necklace for Kriss Jenner.

Adrienne's idea wasn't shady it was smart and funny as hell, lol. She gave the necklace to his mom? I think it depends on what you get, if you get something brand new and you know it was just for you then SORRY BOO, THIS IS MY PROPERTY NOW! If he gives you his mother's jewelry or you borrowed something from him, just be respectful and give it back. Or sell it.

Having an ex's love letter to me is literally equivalent to cheating. Like no if's and's or but's about it.

"Im not that mature yet" Lmfaooo😂

I share the same sentiments with Tamar on a lot of things

I'm keeping every gift I got from my ex, I earned all those hunnnney. My husband is free to keep his gifts too, I don't cherish any memory but I deserve the gifts.

When Adrienne said I’m not that mature yet I felt that 😂

“Im not that mature yet” lmfao 😂😂💀

Wait there is a damn double Standard here

Jeanie and Adrienne today look flawless!! love their looks

A few years ago, one of my exes did a portrait painting of me himself for Valentine's Day and I still have it. It's beautiful, I can't get rid of it. It says Happy Vals Day so people keep commenting and asking me who did it. I just say I ordered it myself. I keep gifts, it's no big deal.

If it's cute little sentimental things like the ones Jeannie mentioned, dance pictures, love letters from your youth or mixtapes, and those relationships ended on a good note, that's fine. I think that's cute and doesn't mean you haven't moved on, but certain stans will most likely make it seem that way in the comments, just because it's Jeannie. However, if it's like an expensive piece of jewellery... nah, not keeping that. That I will give away or sell.

This situation can have 1,000 different scenarios. There's no set rule or standard. But if you should happen to get married. I believe, transparency should be displayed. Honesty is key. Material things diminish. True love never fades.

I think it all depends: keeping love letters and things with strong sentimental value attached to them is one thing; keeping a fly necklace or pair of sneakers or something is entirely different. You can like something that someone gave you without still having feelings for them, but keeping an item that makes you remember how much you loved them Is an issue!

"I'm not that mature yet" LOLOL!

I still had my ex boyfriend valentine's gift I forgot to give it to him, ( it was some Nautica Cologne) so after we broke up, I didn't want to have other girls fall in love with the stuff I gave him, so I decided to make him mad and give it to my friend(she likes men cologne) she said I'm wearing your valentines day gift and he looked so angry 😂😂

Aww, Loni's story was really nice!

I love Jeannie's outfit here. Werk it girl.

This one is simple for me.. No and no.. I don't want nothing from you, you shouldn't keep nothing I gave you. And my new man (especially my husband), shouldn't be fighting to keep anything from any of his ex girls. Something about that feels weird to me too.. Men trying to keep gifts?? I feel like, if you are still able to tolerate something that someone you were once with gave to you, you still have a piece of them attached to your heart/soul.. If you want the relationship to truly die, so that you can heal and really let it go, you have to part with anything that had to do with that person-sometimes even music.. Even if you do not move on to someone new, I find as you are growing as a person, some things naturally fade overtime and fall into the background until you just don't want to keep them anymore. When you have truly let that person go (Bitter feelings and all) the item they gave you, expensive or not, just doesn't seem to fit anymore in your life.. I don't care what he wants to do with anything I gave him but, I think that's weird as hell to still keep anything you got from me and try to be moving on with some next girl like you are really over me, because no you are not! I don't care what you say, its true.. That's why its important never to fall in love with material things, because they mean something, even if you want to try to deny it to yourself.. They still mean something..

adrienne such a scorpio woman....she has all the traits

Jeannie was killing it with that outfit. YASS Bish Slay!🙌🏽💅🏽

Jeanie looks beautiful today!

Adrienne was like I'm not the mature 😂😂❤

Why throw away memories and gifts? It's never that serious people.

I destroyed everything from all my ex boyfriends. Everything.

Genie Is Black under all that Asianess lol "A really really fly Mixtape" even Tamar was like Bishhh Wheeet! lol i love them.... -Yes i know i spelled her name wrong

It depends if it is sentimental - I’m not going to keep teddy bears, letters, or photos. But I will 100% keep jewelry or nice clothes.

Yeeeaahh, I'm not that mature either. My husband is NOT going to be having a picture of him and his ex posted up in OUR living room. Uh no.

Loni now you know ain’t nobody want!!!.......Nevermind😂😂😂

i think "it ends with us" is a big example of how keeping things from your ex could go wrong 😂😂

bangs on fleek across the board hunty!!!!

I agree with Adrienne on somewhat being aware and wanting to be better than the girlfriend !

Adrienne: ".. to not compete with that ex, but to be aware." Yup. that made sence.

It takes a really secure person to be at peace with your partner keeping things that remind him/her of a past relationship.

Anyone notice that since yesterday's episode about them opening up about bullying, Tamar and Jeannie seem to be getting along better? Like at 2:02 Tamar's reassurance, "That's not being shady!" I wouldn't have expected that

I'm wayyyy to sentimental to throw away any of that type of stuff. I love looking back at old photos.

Keep the good gifts and toss the mementos. Lol!

That is very mature, I am not that mature yet! I love Adrienne!

Damn so Adrienne always been trying to take the spot light since four years ago

I like The Real Daytime, I just wished they had full episodes here, so i can put it on after coming home from work, & go about.. :( :( :( ......

When Loni said “that’s his favorite picture of you and him” her voice did that rare thing where it was honest

I love Adriene's look !

I Love Jeanie's Jacket and Loni's story!

i enjoyed this segment :) nice to hear all kinds of opinions

Jeannie and her mixtape 😂😂😂

When Jeannie talked about keeping items from boyfriends in middle or high school, I never had one!

Tamera looks so good with bangs!

"A whooo? No, bye!"😂😂😂😂

rotflmbaoooo at Adrienne & Tamar " I'm not that mature yet"..LOLOL!!

When you r secure in your rship & know u have a good man/woman/partner ur secure enough to know that objects arent or shouldn't b a threat let alone an issue. but if ur goin 2 expect or ask someone 2 rid themselves of any gifts/memories then its only fair u do the same! ppl need 2 stop thinkin dat their partner thinks or feels otherwise. if ur da 1 askin da other 2 get rid of things u shldnt even have 2 b askd 2 do da same, u shld have already been dat u askd in da 1st place.

Hell ya it's okay!!!!! I ain't throwing nothing away.

Tamar's skirt is everything! She looks so cute

I have to say I really like the way Loni wear her colored weave. Because she still looks professional. There is a way to do it.

My boyfriend of three years broke up with me and I packed all the letters, pictures and memories in a box. I haven’t had the heart to throw it away yet

I'm keeping my gifts..to each his own. I can't get my most precious gift back that he has received over and over!!!!!

Nah. I throw everything away. Once the relationship is over, I don't know you.

Haha, Adrien..Said At The End, Thats Mature. Kmsl I'm Not That Mature Yet😂...Bahaha😩😂😂

This is my favorite wig on Tamar! Cute.

My Sapphire blue MK watch isn't getting returned. You're Buggin!! Lmao

ABSOLUTELY...keep those gifts, especially the good ones and sell the crappy ones.

Give the gifts away to friends or family and break those soul ties, thank you

I sort of devalue the memory, like if it was a nice/expensive gift, and say you ask me who it was from or how I got it, I say, "I've long since forgotten." means it was from an ex and I blocked out the memory. I think it's important to keep things, and make History, because as a grandchild, I'm finding out so much about my Grandparents, more and more now that they're long gone. and I like seeing the path they've walked. I want my grand kids to know the path I walked. and teach them to mark their path and even hundreds of years from now they can trace all of this.