Is My Husband Being A Drama Queen?
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@kokoskokso Жыл бұрын
That's the first couple fight about the thermostat where the woman wants to keep the temperature low and the man wants to actually heat! 😂🤣😂
@edb484 Жыл бұрын
Right lol
@retiredanimatedseries Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@thereelaccountant9246 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@westbccoast Жыл бұрын
Yup my thoughts exactly
@paulaaquino Жыл бұрын
Happens in my household as well...
@melanieb2132 Жыл бұрын
Poor man makes six figures but can't have heat! 😂
@stefancoban59 Жыл бұрын
Six figures are no longer what they used to be. It is so strange for me because I'm 24 yo and this is the first time I see such a ramping inflation.
@deshawnyoung5228 Жыл бұрын
@@stefancoban59 😢😢😢😢😮😮
@melanieb2132 Жыл бұрын
@@stefancoban59 well, that's true.. but even so, he can afford heat.
@stefancoban59 Жыл бұрын
@@melanieb2132 for sure they can afford. I was just pointing out that six figures is middle class nowadays.
@MooMoo69556 Жыл бұрын
@@stefancoban59 yea it is, must be where u live 🤷🏽♂️
@happyinparis Жыл бұрын
This woman has a great sense of humor. She's enjoying the ribbing. You gotta love her.
@xsgtxbigboy1655 2 ай бұрын
Until she tells you it’s gonna 50 in the house weather you like it or not
@bronxcanines1481 Жыл бұрын
JOHN “There is more to this” DELONEY
@angelasepi657 Жыл бұрын
Deloney baloney? lol. gotta love him, he tries.
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
more to this baloney
@Devinfrbs Жыл бұрын
"All the man wanted was heat!" - So good.
@Ryan_DeWitt Жыл бұрын
I want to save money too. However I am NOT going to freeze to death in my own house in the winter or sweat like a pig and be unable to sleep in the hot summer to save some money.
@summerforever6736 Жыл бұрын
Correct
@BabyGators Жыл бұрын
What’s more, it’s almost impossible to quantify the savings. Would take a lot of figuring to determine exactly how much fuel your furnace uses per day based on temp outside, inside, etc. Even more difficult for heat pumps.
@aolvaar8792 Жыл бұрын
$600/mo A/C?
@xfhnhhgjbvcfg Жыл бұрын
@@BabyGators I suppose, but it's definitely easy to see that if you use less oil you spend less money.
@BabyGators Жыл бұрын
@@xfhnhhgjbvcfg I agree, but unless your system is incredibly inefficient, it really doesn’t take that much. Especially considering their income, it’s nothing.
@secondhandrooms507 Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of the time when my BIL tried to limit my sisters toilet paper usage. He learned quickly that he had gone too far.
@TheEllaTB Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@budgiebirdy 3 ай бұрын
My dad was super controlling over the thermostat and I was always miserable in the summer, sweating and getting sick from the heat. I vowed I would NEVER be that uncomfortable in my own home once I was an adult and paying the bills. I've kept that promise to myself and no matter what, my comfort is one thing I refuse to compromise on. I'm not wearing a coat in the house during winter time and I refuse to be sweating and miserable in the summer.
@vickie_hearne Ай бұрын
Me too ! As god is my witness, I'll never be cold again...
@Saiyijon Жыл бұрын
This one made me chuckle. I commend her for her dedication though.
@maryfields1382 Жыл бұрын
same! And the fact that she can laugh at herself about it says a lot about her.
@lkj0822g Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I remember that one time when the kids had the a/c running upstairs and my wife had the heat running downstairs. I'm like "why don't y'all just shoot me now and get it over with...." LOL
@alb7727 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 that's a good one
@TheHoneybear11 Жыл бұрын
I literally LAUGHED 😅 OUT LOUD reading your comment! 😆🤣😂
@patrickmartin8479 Жыл бұрын
@@TheHoneybear11 me too 😆
@TheHoneybear11 Жыл бұрын
@@patrickmartin8479 I read it like three times and laughed. Every. Single. Time. 😆🤣😂
@FabioSantos-cs2cf Жыл бұрын
You’re hilarious 😂
@cutehumor Жыл бұрын
if she wants to turn off the heat in the house, she better provide that body heat!! hahahahahaha
@Ruth-vy1qj Жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂
@TheEsperKing1 Жыл бұрын
Name checks out lol
@Jajaky Жыл бұрын
my man
@fauxbro1983 Жыл бұрын
Lol. Dave low key threw shade at Delony. "Are you scarred." Lol
@maryromano7508 Жыл бұрын
I hear her nervousness over the oil heat. I work for a local delivery company. I feel for our customers, but PLEASE don't blame the person answering the phone for the high prices. We have NO control over the prices.
@stephenshelton4267 Жыл бұрын
OMG did Delony actually side with the husband? ""Faints**
@ClaxtonBay123 Жыл бұрын
No he just sided with Dave
@Alvin-xs7db Жыл бұрын
@@ClaxtonBay123 I had to think about that for a second but you're 100% right lol
@IgoOutlateAtnight Жыл бұрын
He did ask "are you tired??". So check thst box
@willarmendariz7663 Жыл бұрын
Only cause dave did. Delony is a simp. He just goes along with what the leader does.
@truthseeker6370 Жыл бұрын
Maybe seek the message vs seeking a false gender issue.
@phangau8321 Жыл бұрын
The husband wants to turn on the heat but the wife got asked:” are you scared? Are you tired?” 😂
@Eric_Bassett Жыл бұрын
😂
@upgradednigga Жыл бұрын
Thats dr baloney for you
@angeluceta5688 Жыл бұрын
Dave- "what's your household income?" Amy-"32 thousand". Dave- "Keep the heat off".
@TheEllaTB Жыл бұрын
😆🤣
@daveschreiner413 Жыл бұрын
Married 36 years, I don't touch the thermostat. Happy wife, happy life.
@pmw3839 11 ай бұрын
Dave’s laugh is infectious.
@karenshea7877 Жыл бұрын
Keeping the thermostat too low can destroy the house with mold and broken pipes.
@timothystevenhoward Жыл бұрын
My cat has the same reaction when I tell her 70 is fine
@LisaApril Жыл бұрын
❤
@ashleyb1091 Жыл бұрын
He comes home from work and he can’t turn up the temp…stupid call. Let the man be warm.
@2123tfl Жыл бұрын
boys did a good job checkin this crazy lady
@ellencox8415 Жыл бұрын
I thought she was going to say something like 64... 52!!!! She is NUTS!
@jomontanee Жыл бұрын
2:02 “Your husband is right.” 😂😂
@georgewagner7787 Жыл бұрын
My parents kept the heat low. I tried to practice piano with cold fingers and mom said to swing your arms in a circle so the blood would go out to the fingertips
@sackettfamily4685 Жыл бұрын
"free heat" tip: after cooking in the oven, and then you've turned off the oven? Leave it cracked, and the heat comes out and helps warm up the kitchen.
@DoctorSmartyPants Жыл бұрын
Duh
@thisoldfind7377 Жыл бұрын
If I hear John ask "are you tired" one more time I'm out.
@LeFKay Жыл бұрын
😂
@stevenporter863 Жыл бұрын
😆😆😆
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Жыл бұрын
Go away. You will not be missed.
@emmawainwright5527 Жыл бұрын
I am actually
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Жыл бұрын
@@emmawainwright5527 Who (or what) are you?
@vince8520 Жыл бұрын
Canadian here: totally behind that guy. This basic like food and shelter
@front331 Жыл бұрын
2:51. John: "Are you tired?" 🤣🤣😂. His signature question.
@imonlyheretoarguewithidiots Жыл бұрын
Seriously. What a scummy hack.
@yourgooglemeister6745 Жыл бұрын
It's his signature as to how useless a PhD in psychology truly is. He is the poster child for that BS waste of money!
@NYNC88 Жыл бұрын
@@yourgooglemeister6745 He does not have a PhD in psychology. His degrees are in "Counselor Education and Supervision" and "Higher Education Administration."
@yourgooglemeister6745 Жыл бұрын
@@NYNC88 really? OMG! That's a hundred times worse! and their Ramsey lackeys talk about not getting a useless degree! good grief!
@NYNC88 Жыл бұрын
@@yourgooglemeister6745 It's true. You can look it up.
@kathleenford9012 Жыл бұрын
I have been widowed for over 30 years and i control my own thermostat. A perk of being single
@jennyjenny3531 Жыл бұрын
I love her good-natured laugh. They're going to be just fine
@kimberly8185 Жыл бұрын
I agree with him. I'm not going to be cold in my house. I'm not going to be hot in the summer either. Come on now.
@DrewLeyMusic Жыл бұрын
She’s taking the “gazelle intensity” too far lol
@hkellsworth3504 Жыл бұрын
I would be afraid of hypothermia at that temperature.
@d_all_in Жыл бұрын
Reminds me of my buddy who wouldn't turn on his A/C in Vegas like yo we're dying lol
@jimroscovius Жыл бұрын
We never complain about the temps in the house. If we're chilly, we put on a sweater. If I want, I put on the fireplace. If she wants, she puts on the fireplace. We are going to be comfortable in our house. Period.
@user-kp6wo1ku8b Ай бұрын
You're all in for a divorce! 😂
@jhonilocran6077 11 ай бұрын
John is such a party pooper…this isn’t deep…the lady is just crazy 😂😂
@alisongoldsberry8062 Жыл бұрын
I cannot WAIT for their debt free scream?!
@Lancelot0311 Жыл бұрын
This is the type of marriage I want in my life ❤
@A.McD.81 Жыл бұрын
Great call!! To be fair, at 52, the poor woman is probably going through menopause and constantly overheating and not cold anyway 😉
@emmawainwright5527 Жыл бұрын
At 52 I am agreeing with you.
@petersimpson633 Жыл бұрын
A now retired colleague denied she was menopausal, but 'merely experiencing my own personal summer'
@gv4878 Жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing
@lyndashields4185 Жыл бұрын
😅😅 I had my head in the freezer a lot of the time
@Rockafella1861 Жыл бұрын
Dave is the best, glad to catch this clip. Bravo.
@M8541Reaper Жыл бұрын
lol she’s trying to live like a European while he’s trying to live as an American…
@elizabethanderson6468 Жыл бұрын
When I was paying off debt, I refused to put our heat on, too!!! hahaha Luckily, my husband was on board. Oh, I loved this call.
@dialac1 Жыл бұрын
Don’t sacrifice the very basic comforts and necessities just to be out of debt. It’s not supposed to be a painful process. Please.
@fireseeker4him Жыл бұрын
I use electric heaters but then I live by myself so I only need to heat one room at a time.
@jimhandler1129 Жыл бұрын
We had "Heat Night" 😂😂
@Trdrstv Жыл бұрын
When we were broke and literally floating payment checks we went by "If you're cold throw on a sweatshirt... if you're still cold, turn up the heat." It took a while before we could afford to replace several windows and such that were leaking heat constantly, but we got there.
@susan5429 Жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to the situation!!! Same here, you need support from the family when you're trying to save!!!! 😅
@philt6800 Жыл бұрын
God help that poor man, she’s something else 😂
@marcwashington673 Жыл бұрын
John and Ramsay: He’s right Me: YEEEEEEEEEESSSSS!!!!
@Mr_Fairdale Жыл бұрын
I see how far I can push back when I turn on the heat in my condo and sometimes I don’t turn it on at all in winter but… I’m in Las Vegas. It gets chilly here but not cold like Boston! Turn the freaking heat on!
@mpayne8206 Жыл бұрын
What a fun lady!! Her laugh is great!
@TheEllaTB Жыл бұрын
I know, I love the fact that she can laugh at herself and accept instruction
@chocolateangel8743 Жыл бұрын
What is it with people wanting to be cold in a house? If you wanna be cold, go outside! 😊
@Jelly._.cat._.1 Жыл бұрын
I did this too one winter freezing in my house and then the next season I turned up the heat and the bill is about $10 more a month.
@jacoblynch9862 Жыл бұрын
No, she's a drama queen. The husband sees the finish line knows they will get there with the progress that they have made congratulations by the way, but he now sees the finish line and says I am not freezing in my own dag I'm home she's being the drama queen here, not him.
@barbieblue3336 Жыл бұрын
Ok colonel obvious
@anniealexander3402 Жыл бұрын
It's extreme but keep in mind, she has taken on the leadership role. Too many men letting women lead and then complaining.
@vickieclark5931 Жыл бұрын
LOL. Your making a 6-figure income. Let the boy turn the heat on. It's November in MA, it's kind of cold there. It's one thing to sacrifice eating out, netflix, or buying new clothes, but you don't want to freeze in your home no matter what you financial situation is. But in this case, they are doing great. Hardly any debt left and making gobs of money. 100 dollars extra a month isn't going to hurt them one bit.
@ryand7713 Жыл бұрын
LOL @ 100 a month more like 300
@barbieblue3336 Жыл бұрын
You're
@BrokeMillionaire1 Жыл бұрын
She is the one who sounds like the drama queen.
@KittyCurioso Жыл бұрын
You sound like a drama queen
@billb945 Жыл бұрын
We've had a few cold nights here in Ma recently. I like it cold when I'm sleeping, but 63/64ºF during the day is about my limit for cold.
@genxx2724 Жыл бұрын
I grew up that way, in a stupid all-electric house. I have gas heat and I have a/c and I refuse to be too warm or too cold ever again.
@gr8macaw1 Жыл бұрын
Bill I agree with you. Chilly in the bedroom; use the duvet. In the daytime we keep it at 74 degrees.
@abdulrabawadh8153 Жыл бұрын
"Are you tired" 😂😂😂😂😂
@spencerloch6449 Жыл бұрын
Never showing this video to my wife haha!
@kwaggs19 Жыл бұрын
Imagine being married to that. No thanks
@stevegolacks8731 Жыл бұрын
Baby Step #8....Move to a moderate temperature state, possibly in the middle/southeast of the country. Not only do you get to escape the frozen tundra of the midwest or northeast, saving you heating bills, but you also get a 10% raise just getting out of those high tax states!
@luismurillo9547 Жыл бұрын
Her laugh is contagious! 😂
@getinthespace7715 Жыл бұрын
You have to be friggin careful about turning the heat off in some climates. If it gets cold enough your pipes can freeze and break causing 10's of thousands in damages all to save a couple hundred on a heating bill.
@CJ2023Incognito Жыл бұрын
52 is COLD!! Lol 🥶😅😂
@NoName-jm4ev Жыл бұрын
I agree with him , I understand being frugal and cautious but to sacrifice to this extent. You will not take a single penny with when you go six feet under. Enjoy your live while you can
@MichaelHasebroock Жыл бұрын
I'm like the wife on this call but I've had to ask myself- how much would this actually save us? Even if it was $500 through the winter, it wouldn't make a huge dent in their debt. Heat the house.
@joycewright5386 Жыл бұрын
Compromise and just turn the heat down a few degrees. You will still save money.
@marshapitts5 Жыл бұрын
I love her laugh!!
@sblijheid Жыл бұрын
My favorite temperature is 65 degrees. I only where a T shirt in that. At 62 degrees, I wear a lightweight jacket, but I understand that not everyone likes it.
@montymython754 Жыл бұрын
I think she said 52 degrees
@kiki90887 Жыл бұрын
Hahaah my Partner and I also have this debate regularly! Good news it could mean we are on the right track haha
@1timothydillon Жыл бұрын
I'm almost with her on this one. I'm an ice in my veins New Englander too, but even I turned the heat up in early October. Usually the weather gradually changes, this year it's just been up and down, up and down, and there was no time to acclimate.
@AssumeGenders Жыл бұрын
Love this lady!😂
@mariacorretge6615 Жыл бұрын
Briliant. What a great fun wee call.
@chrisestes2383 Жыл бұрын
We installed a wood stove... It paid for itself in one month.
@kevinquinn7645 27 күн бұрын
There has been shown to be a correlation between the warmth of your home and clinical depression. If you can afford it, keep the thermostat turned up to a reasonable level.
@kekejefferson9219 Жыл бұрын
I actually was going to sleep in a sleeping bag for the winter at home to save on the bill. Nevermind. But I do use a window unit instead of the central a/c.
@listerinr Жыл бұрын
Is the only tool in Dr Baloney's toolbox "Are you tired?"? Jeez
@NYNC88 Жыл бұрын
John's degrees are in "Counselor Education and Supervision" and "Higher Education Administration."
@jaimeavakarianvillamonte744 Жыл бұрын
My neighbor keeps his house 85 in winter and 65 in summer. Pretty crazy.
@americafirst9144 Жыл бұрын
A lot of older people can't keep warm or cool themselves well.
@LM-ch8rh Жыл бұрын
i love her laugh!
@Bestfriend-650 Жыл бұрын
I also haven’t turned on heat yet. I bought two room heaters and just use those. Have solar installed and bill is just 20-30 bucks a month.
@rezco7190 Жыл бұрын
My third time listening to this. It’s hilarious. 😂😂
@DEBTFREEMIKE769 Жыл бұрын
I have pulled over and sh’t in the woods many times.
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
The husband is right. Why keep the heat off when it's cold? She's being the drama queen.
@jimhandler1129 Жыл бұрын
Cause she is doing everything to get out of debt. I'm surprised Dave sided with the husband on this one.
@MattyLight30 Жыл бұрын
I remember hearing this one on air and laughing along. Lolz.
@jimroscovius Жыл бұрын
Our thermostat is at 72. I let it get down to 64 in the house before I turned the heat on.
@MarieZ17833 Жыл бұрын
I lived without heat for about three weeks due to bad planning by a landlord. Heat is an absolute necessity.
@jackiem9460 Жыл бұрын
I'm guilty of freezing my husband out too lol
@subjecttochrist Жыл бұрын
Wow… 52 degrees in the house, is crazy. Sounds like my mom. Freezing cold in the house lol
@angeluceta5688 Жыл бұрын
I love cold temp,so I'll be shirtless until it drops below 30 degrees
@edb484 Жыл бұрын
Lol I’m the same way, I can live without the heat. But I need the AC during the summer. You can make yourself hot but can’t make yourself cold. I can only take off so much off
@jimhandler1129 Жыл бұрын
We have "Heat Night" in our house. 💰💰😄
@lindsayclark4009 Жыл бұрын
My favorite call 😅
@RichTalk_nikRich Жыл бұрын
😂😂 when Dave agrees
@johnnycashlives316 Жыл бұрын
The longest phone call ever!!!
@robertbell525 Жыл бұрын
If you turn your heat down too low you will not save money if you are setting it low and cranking it back up daily. Everything in the house to the drywall gets to that cold temp and it takes a ton of energy to warm that up. Set it back a few degrees only. If you're going to be gone for week that's different. But daily? No, it doesn't help and may make it worse. If you have a heat pump definitely do not let it get too cold.
@Chele-nm4qx Жыл бұрын
Again, John has to over psycho analyze everyone. There has to be some deep seeded reason for everything- why John- why??? 🤦🏽♀
@And1one757 Жыл бұрын
Lol everytime 🤣
@Aitchfactor Жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one who saw that.
@Chele-nm4qx Жыл бұрын
@@Aitchfactor 😂
@Chele-nm4qx Жыл бұрын
@@And1one757 😂
@NYNC88 Жыл бұрын
He's trying to sound like more than he is. John's degrees are in "Counselor Education and Supervision" and "Higher Education Administration."
@sweetfayce18 Жыл бұрын
Glad to know my marriage is healthy since we argue about the thermostat. The bill is $330 every month. That’s stressful
@ashleycnossen3157 Жыл бұрын
Ours too
@vanesslifeygo Жыл бұрын
Maybe he just has some swelling that increases when the heats on and when it makes the air more dry. Some people have that in high air conditioning too.
@hvaball150 Жыл бұрын
I'm tired.... aren't you!
@m.l.2483 Жыл бұрын
I don't play with heat, food, diesel or good shoes. Whatever financial goal I have must include these things. Life is for living.
@autumnjerene Жыл бұрын
I thought he was being whiny till she said the temperature. I keep it at 68 during the day in the winter, 63 at night. My family complains about it, but I hate having to do a wardrobe change every time I go in or out of the house. If I'm wearing a sweater outside, I don't want to change into shorts and a t-shirt when I come inside. Same thing in the summer. I want to wear shorts outside and not have to switch into sweats when I come inside.
@sagrammyfour Жыл бұрын
You sound very selfish. I wouldn't put up with your nonsense for one minute.
@philt6800 Жыл бұрын
That man is a saint to put with her level of crazy lol. You kinda have to be to do what they did though 😂
@abbyoneill4473 Жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful my house seems to heat up from the sun shining into it 😂 we haven’t put on the heat yet and we live in Boston too. Trying to see how long we can go before we need our propane tank refilled.
@jimhandler1129 Жыл бұрын
72 degrees on Long Island today
@robertbell525 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't wait too long you don't know if the price will shoot up or there will be a "shortage". Best to be prepared early.
@renelopez3333 Жыл бұрын
I know no one cares, but I'm gonna stop watching highlights where John's involved.
@OSRSGuides Жыл бұрын
john is an "educated" beta male
@katiejon17 Жыл бұрын
I have to laugh with this woman! I’m in northern NH and I routinely keep the house heat at 60... when she said the house was 52 degrees I shrugged and thought “yeah, just wear a sweater and scarf. Haha - I get it girl!
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
I worry the pipes will burst.
@katiejon17 Жыл бұрын
@@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Freezing is at 32 F. Not even close. But it’s an acquired temperature for sure! You should see me in hot and * humid weather - I cannot tolerate it!
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
@@katiejon17 From natural wear and tear as well. I do not think the pipes necessarily have to be freezing. There is still expansion and contraction going on.
@katiejon17 Жыл бұрын
@@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 I don’t think you are getting it. If water doesn’t freeze, pipes aren’t just going to break on their own. You do you.
@rosec8101 Жыл бұрын
I have been there. Our electric bill was $13.49 when we were getting out of debt. I we lived in our huggies and sweatpants. I at one point had palm gloves to cook with.
@jimhandler1129 Жыл бұрын
We turned off all of our breakers except for T.V. & refrigerator, for one month. No heat & no hot water, just to get out of debt. We basically punished ourselves and learned the hard way.
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