People call out the name of God as an expression of amazement or anger. I find this a far more disturbing and hurtful than hearing the S and F words.

I am so bad at this! lord please help me and give me strength to make my words your words!

It is not always easy to tame the tongue, but what is important is to show love to people. I have to be honest with myself when I get upset at things. We all must practice saying positive things to those who can hear. We need Jesus must definitely. 😇

this guy is the best. I'm 14 and love this guy. I follow him and god.

I think, for me, swearing is more of a cultural thing. There are two no-go's for me when swearing though. I will not take the lord's name in vain while swearing and I will not attack/hurt others with words.

thank you so much for speaking something that I've never heard before. thanksGod. It's only by Grace and Love

Swearing is useless, they do not do anything or can change anything However praying can change EVERYTHING

Question: "Is it a sin to cuss / swear / curse?" Answer: It is definitely a sin to swear (curse, cuss, etc.). The Bible makes this abundantly clear. Ephesians 4:29 tells us, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." First Peter 3:10 declares, "For, whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful speech." James 3:9-12 summarizes the issue: "With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God's likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be. Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? My brothers, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water." James makes it clear that the lives of Christians-the “brothers”-should not be characterized by evil speech. By making the analogy of both salt water and fresh water coming from the same spring (which is uncharacteristic of springs), he makes the point that it is uncharacteristic for a believer to have both praise and cursing come from his/her mouth. Nor is it characteristic for us to praise God on one hand and curse our brothers on the other. This, too, is uncharacteristic of a true believer. Jesus explained that what comes out of our mouths is that which fills our hearts. Sooner or later, the evil in the heart comes out through the mouth in curses and swearing. But when our hearts are filled with the goodness of God, praise for Him and love for others will pour forth. Our speech will always indicate what is in our hearts. “The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks” (Luke 6:45). Why is it a sin to cuss / swear / curse? Sin is a condition of the heart, the mind, and “the inner man” (Romans 7:22), which is manifested in our thoughts, actions and words. When we swear and curse, we are giving evidence of the polluting sin in our hearts that must be confessed and repented of. Thankfully, our great God is “faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). When this happens, we receive a new nature from God (2 Corinthians 5:17), our hearts are transformed, and our speech reflects the new nature God has created within us.

Love this. Love how your speaking about all facts & not making things up along the way.

When i got saved and truly converted cussing was the first thing to go in my Christian walk.

I remember my dad always struggling with not swearing and as I got older he thought it would be okay if he swore a little more which made it worse since I was a teenager at the time, I thankfully could easily hold my tongue is situations, but when I was alone I would always swear and I had never thought of me swearing and praising God with the same mouth. Thanks for making this video I always enjoy them :D

OK so saying "shit" when something doesn't go your way isn't against the bible, calling someone a "badass" is actually bringing them up, and saying "fuck" when surprised or angry is the same is saying "wow" or "dang it". "Swear words" or "cuss words" are words with meaning just like every other word in the dictionary. They're just stronger, more harsh, and offensive. I honestly don't understand why people ever considered this a sin. If used offensively for insulting etc. then yes it is a sin but when used in some cases, it doesn't violate any law in the bible. It's about how you use the word that makes it a sin or not. Not the word directly. I don't use the words all too often and I don't use them when talking to someone I know isn't Christian because it isn't Christian-like speech. (according yo the social norms) But I'm not going to lie to you and say that I don't swear on a daily basis. I do it when talking to a select group of friends quite often but only to describe things or when I'm surprised. I don't use it to offend people or sin at all. Remember to do your research before you start running your mouth and claim things are sin when you have no biblical proof. Don't just go with whatever the crowd says. Do the research yourself. From what I've researched, swearing in a lot of cases, isn't a sin Nevertheless great video!!!

So much truth, preach🙌🏽

There's so much spiritual power that comes into the words we say. There's a reason why curse words are called curse words. When you are a busybody, speaking bad things, and throwing curse words at someone, you lay upon them a spiritual bondage. Basically using curse words or speaking bad about others is a subtle form of witchcraft. The Bible says in Ephesians 6 that we are in a spiritual battle therefore put on your spiritual minds in Christ Jesus. I think Jeffery hit the point home in this video. Thanks!

I said a lot of bad words even hearing them and I pray for the Lord to forgive me for all the bad words I say amen 🙏

In brief: You can swear/cuss, but don't do it to someone or as anything offensive. Btw, swearing isn't really cool, so I see why many adults think that we are cursing which int true(I don't think I phrased that right) Words are words, nothing is good or bad.. But I need to agree that it's better to use better vocabulary to replace those words(don't worry, you won't be bullied or called weird, tell them to mind their business😑) Just dont do it wrong, fight, offend 😒 This is my opinion, not a fact.

You will kneel before Jesus one day. If you hurt your knee when doing so will you cuss then in front of him?

but what if people say “i f-ing love youuu” 🗿 is it still a sin? tbh what i think, if you can try not to swear too much since its literally a habit for everyone, but especially DONT swear while using gods name, like "oh my f-ing god" 😳 ✌️

You have no idea how much it has touched me! Thank you!!!! Monday messages are the best, whatever you talk about it is always so informative, motivating and building! God bless you and your beautiful little family!

So is joking in a playful way with swearing a sin? I do it all the time

You must remember, even though we have said wrong, have done wrong, have thought wrong, that Christ took away all of those sins by sacrificing himself on the Cross, for us. That is the key for our salvation. You can try as hard as you can to not say wrong things, think wrong doings, or do wrong, but you can never be perfect, you alone will always fail. Thankfully Christ provides the clothes for us which are pure white, on the last day.

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This is a very strong conviction to have as not everybody thinks like this, especially Christians. Most times they just religiously say a particular word is just the "devil's word", when in fact it's about how a word is used; to build up or to be destructive. One does not have to say a swear word in order to be destructive with their speech and vice versa. If someone isn't confortable with you using particular words then don't use it. Be mindful of your audience

Ultimately we choose to either build or break people with our words. It’s essentially sowing seeds which we will reap.

As Christians we must make sure that everything that comes out of our mouth is helpful and beneficial to help others. They way I look at it is that our mouths can built or destroy, it can corrupt our entire body and testimony. We're all created in the image of God, we're our father's representative, and it's almost impossible to bring glory to God when what comes out of our mouth is foul words.

This made me think of the song "Speak life! Speak life to the darkest deadest night! Speak life! Speak life when the sun won't shine and you don't know why! Look into the eyes of the broken hearted! Watch them come alive as soon as you speak hope, you speak love, you speak life!"

watching several of your videos in the middle of the night while I can't sleep, and sharing then on my facebook for my friends to see. honestly the videos I've watched tonight have helped a bit with things I've been going through personally in my life. thank you

You've given me a lot to think about. My comment history on the web isn't something I'm too proud of. This entire issue of the seriousness of words, swearing, gossiping was something God has been revealing to me but I kinda brushed it off. I really needed to hear this. Thanks Jeff.

Swearing will, and always has been a sin since the beginning Elohim God has shown me this. Old testament Leviticus 5 And if a soul sin, and hear the voice of swearing, and is a witness, whether he hath seen or known of it; if he do not utter it, then he shall bear his iniquity. New Testemant Colossians 3:8 - But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth. Ephesians 4:29 - Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. Ephesians 5:4 - Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks.

I think what's most important is how people view the words. Cussing like f*** has no intrinsic wrong meaning but people have placed a hurtful meaning to the word so if a Christian does cuss they have a bad view of the Christian and ultimately God. So yes, cussing is a sin because it reflects God badly.

i have a horrible tongue!! Lord please give me strength, make my words your words Lord. Amen

I love that you're basically talking about prophesy here with words that are forthtelling!

I feel the video lacks casual usage perspective of "swearing" My stance has always been is conversation curse words are literally just another word If i were to say my butt hurts today is exactly the same as if I said my a## hurts today the only reason we put such negative ungodly meaning to these words is just because our parents teach us they are "bad" words. It all has to do with how you say something not what you say. Kind of like Jeff says if you are saying it to put someone down its sinful but they aren't limited to the few "curse" words they are any words. Anyone disagree?

Read Ephesians 4:29 and Colossians 3:8!

It is absolutely. I hate hearing it and hate doing it but at times I struggle when I am in a state of incredible anxiety or extreme anger. I do try my best not to and I try to be polite and respectful to people and not gossip. I know I'm going to be held responsible by God for everything I ever say. It's a constant wrestle with my sin.

I didn't even make the connection that judging people is insulting God. Thank you!

My mom tells me that I can't do it and when I ask her why she says "not in the bible" but yet continues to do it in front of me because she's an adult. I'm really confused honestly.

What if I'm joking around with my friend

im new to the channel and i absolutely love the things you are saying , when i think about what your saying is when my mind turns in swirly because i just recently started learning about our lord and savior , ive always cursed and made fun of people but i needed to repent , ive started giving my all to God because ive been through sooo much and ive went through the pain alone so i chose peace over anything and i have that with God , the question that popped up in my head was “ is cursing a sin “ then i saw your video and it changed my mindset im all ways , i thank you soo much for this

that is such a good message, and you pointed out why I don't go to church. people just go to eat and gossip.

Thank you, you have allowed me to know that i should stop cussing and i will

I like Bethke, seems like a really practical guy

This video couldn't have come at a right time! May God keep blessing your life Jeff and your family!

I am a Christian and after seeing this video I've seen the meaning of life and to show that I'm thankful I subscribed liked and I will share this to my fellow Christian's for them to do the same as I did I wasted my time all along and the meaning of life is to be respectful and love the ones around you. You have changed my future thank you!

So can I curse at someone evil/bad? I’m not talking about someone who just did something stupid or arrogant. I’m talking about someone who truly knows what they are doing is wrong but willfully did it anyways .

Let go and let God!

😁...I needed this video so to my cursing Brothers and Sisters who curse🙋🏾‍♀️ try to work on it..This was a very Good video💙💚Thank you for this Blessing ❤️

Speak honestly and truthfully. If Jesus is our example, he also got angry and frustrated at the disciples to the point of calling them dull. He never sweared or cussed but he was direct and undiluted. Honesty and truth are very underrated in today's society, everyone wants to be nice. That being said, how you say it matters. Unfortunately, sometimes the truth can be very hard and not much can be done about that.

Okay let me first say this. "swear" is not a curse word. "swear" in the bible means a vow or a oath or a promise. vain babbling is considered cussing or inconvenient talk, foolishness jesting. James chapter 5 states not to "swear" hope to die stick a needle in my eye" brings condemnation. Jews used to have to swear to get people to believe them. if you swear by the Temple it was unbinding. if You swear to GOD then it was binding. James states say yes or no only cause your word is enough. be a person of integrity.

Such a good video Jeff! I admit that I struggle with swearing at times, and I really hate it! I would really appreciate if you could all pray for me!

Thank you! God bless you! Oh my goodness! I feel really bad because I know this is an area I need, and have been trying to work on. I have to give an account for every word... Cursing is something I didn't really think about. I know it's not who I am, and what I stand for! Thank you for this message!!

"F**k Yeah!! You Did an awesome job!" As the person who just did great beams with joy because they are being recognized for whatever greatness they did. It's not always so simple.

Christian or not, I don't like swearing and I don't like to hear other people swear because A. it's not how I was raised B. it's not necessary in any way, shape or form. Those who say "I only do it when it's needed" I strongly disagree because there are many and I mean MANY other words you could use in the moment. And C. it, in my eyes, just makes you look that much more inappropriate, ignorant, and childish. Take what you will from that and have a nice day :)

Awesome word Jeff! Really puts things into perspective.

Man I'm so glad that I saw this video, because I admit that I have tendencies to gossip and bad mouth others especially when I get upset or when something is heavily on my mind and I know I'm guilty of making assumptions and to overthink things too, it's something that I really have to work on between me and the Lord, because I desire to do what's good and help build others up but the problem is I end up saying things that I know that are not a good reflection of Christ. I know I'm guilty of gossiping and talking about others, and I know that it's something that I need to repent of. I see that corrupt talk is more than about saying bad words. Like you said, it's about whether what we are saying is either building someone up or bringing them down. I know that we are all guilty of doing this, and I know I've done it too many times and I'm still doing that today, and it's something I'm longing to come out of.

This is the hardest thing to change for me. My job gets frustrating, and I get upset with my junior guys and I look back at things I've said and wish I had said them differently. It's difficult, but I'm learning.

I really like topics of your videos, questions that we all struggle with thanks Jeff ! GBU

soo if im playing a video game at home and i curse because i lose is that bad??

Thank you so much for this video! I don't cuss out of respect for others convictions, but have for a while now held the conviction that the issue isn't four letter words but why we are using them (or what is in our heart). I would rather talk to someone whose speech is riddle with f bombs but their attitude is loving, than a stiff, self righteous person, who may not be cussing, but they are being negative with their speech. Words mean different things to different people. The issue is the heart.

Words have POWER! So true!

This was amazing, I will definitely think before talking and try to speak good and build people up, I know that's what our holy father would want.

I'm 19 and I'm a Christian. I swear ALOT. mainly because I'm passionate about what I say, or it could also be due to the fact I'm Irish. I feel sometimes swearing is appropriate. its apart of who I am. I'm not a bad guy. I don't talk about people, judge people and I'm treat everyone as if they are special no matter who they are. BUT I didn't get this from Christianity. and I guess as a I, in a way represent Jesus' followers. but to be honest I don't feel like I do. When people tell me really nice things about me I don't straight up say its because I'm a Christian. its because I build my foundation on love. love is all I look to give. I was going somewhere with this.. Am I wrong or???? I'm confused

This is powerful. People said y did you become Catholic? One thing is Anti-Catholics. No one win anyone by ugly posts. People need to talk people and not at them. I'm posting to Catholics too. God is good. Peace in His Church.

WOW! This was a really deep discussion on Is Swearing a Sin and I can def. connect with you on this topic cause I used to not be able to control what words come out of my mouth when I am in my very bad moods and even when I was in an okay mood but I never looked at it as it tears people down and hurts others that I say those words to. Now I have learned to control myself and what words I use so in other words I think about what i am going to say before saying it quickly without thinking. I am glad you touched on this topic cause I am sure their is a lot of people that don't realize what they are saying that can hurt someone by their words. Thank Jeff. for this topic you have touched on:)

I love you, Jeff. You are full of so much wisdom and love, your videos do so much for me. Thank you.

So true, well he probably has too much to say and not enough time! But your right,and it's scary to think of all the bad things I have said!

It makes me mad when people say “curse words are just words”. Words can hurt just as much as actions.

One of my former pastors gave a testimony from his life about how he used to say "fiddlesticks" instead of cursing. At one point a friend of his, in complete sincerity, asked him if he would please stop saying "fiddlesticks", because the way the pastor was saying it really bothered him. There it wasn't the word at all, but the emotions behind the word, which his friend was hearing and being hurt by. I thought that was an eye-opening story.

Well rip. I struggle quite a bit with using curse words

Colossians 3:8 "But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth." You can pick and choose and itemize what you THINK is a bad word or not and justify it all you want to(including Jefferson), but the underlying issue is, what is the root cause of you questioning the scripture in the first place? Is the Word not absolute? Or are you not absolute in your belief of it? All of the comments around here scream more of people trying to justify their human actions in obvious conflict with God's word, than following Gods word to correct/overcome their human fleshly nature. It's dangerous, as a Christian, to chase context as a justification for your "modern beliefs." Anything can be excused with context. If you follow that logic, then where do you draw the line? Is everything going to fall into moral relativism? Each person's morality is their own interpretation? Why is there even a need for the God of the Bible at all, if you're only going to adjust the rules to make yourself feel better? This can tread dangerously into the "do what thou wilt" mantra. If you don't already know, one can Google where that phrase comes from, and the god that refers to. Not the God of the Bible. You're making God fit into your life, than you fit into God's word. If that point doesn't make sense to you, then the rest of this is just useless debate. Tats, included.(not just swearing). 2Timothy 4:3-4 "For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; 4And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables."

Just wanted to thank you for making this video and addressing that subject. It's so amazing how God works in our lives because as it happens, this particular subject is something I've been wrestling with lately. I was reminded of the quote that says something like "what we fill our minds with is what goes into our hearts". I am really grateful for your response to this issue....I appreciate that you sought out what the bible has to say instead of what is just socially defined as right a wrong. I know this subject may be a touchy area for some especially since there are no clear instructions in the scriptures. In this case, I think we tend to look at what society is saying about it. For instance, if a group of people that appear to be living in sin are using certain language, then we obviously shouldn't, as Christians. However, as you said it, our goal should be to seek out what God's best for us is and live that. I don't know if that all made sense....I hope you get the idea. Thanks again for sharing truth!

For me, talking to others online is a lot easier than in person. Whenever I send or post anything online, I think about it carefully before I post it. When I'm talking with someone in real life, it's harder for me to articulate what i want to say and to be more careful and thoughtful of what I say.

Question... so if I say you're F***ing Amazing is that ok? It's building up? Ik that word has other meanings but in that sense is it allowed I guess... that's the best way I can put it.

Is this a sin or not? I am confused

This video is sooo good!! It is so important to speak truth and hope over others, so that the words get the power to pull us towards the right direction!! really encouraging and good words to think about!! Thank you Jeff

Jeff, you do a great job of making hard topics, clear. Thank you for being an encouragement to myself and others.

Lord please wash my sins and renew my life as a Holy Spirit, in Jesus name, Amen

THE WORST! CUSSING IS SIN. There is no confusion about that. but You like confusion by not answering your own questions on each video.... and the Bible ( Jesus ) says, God is not the author of confusion ( the devil is ). The Bible ( Jesus ) says, Do not have filthy language in your mouth.

Jeff! My name is Emmanuel. If you ever get around to reading this I just wanted to say I actually look forward to these videos every week more than I anticipate the latest episode of the Walking Dead or the 100... Anyway, thanks, anywho, I hope that you're encourage because you encourage. Also, I have one recommendation, (and no its not to slow down, I list to lost of fast past music) But what I would recommend is when you reference a passage in the scriptures, throw up a little reference point so those who aren't as familiar with the Word can search it up as they watch along... Anywho I typed a lot. PEEACEEE

Great video! it made me think of this verse in The Book of Mormon Alma 12:14 "For our words will condemn us, yea, all our works will condemn us; we shall not be found spotless; and our thoughts will also condemn us; and in this awful state we shall not dare to look up to our God; and we would fain be glad if we could command the rocks and the mountains to fall upon us to hide us from his presence."

This is a good fuckin video! Thanks so much!

Well, shit

Jeff your videos are really good and packed with detail and insight. Something that would really keep the viewers attention more is if you told a story every now and then or a funny parable of some sort

I don't normally comment, but I loved what you had to say here. I wrote a blog a while back about this issue. If we want to look at a permissible theology that says "what can I get away with and still get to heaven," perhaps cussing isn't sin. Cuss words are cultural after all. However, if we are really trying to be like Jesus, if we are trying to live set apart for him and if we are trying to speak life, then a Christian SHOULDN'T cuss. That's what it boils down to. We could, but we shouldn't. Thanks for what you do, Jeff!

so basiclly if you say a swear word in a bad way its a sin

your messages are very helpful!

I am happy to see that Jeff is still going strong. his words are good and uplifting. Thanks! may our good Lord Jesus Christ bless Jeff and his Family.

I really needed that sentence about the match today because I've been letting my anger get the best of me and I always think "this tiny sarcastic snarky comment won't be that bad" and it always spirals into me yelling and screaming and degrading whoever I'm angry at.

You took a black and white issue and made it grey. Why?

Why are you talking so fast? it seems like the video is on fast foward

Good video, Jeff. Glad to have found your channel. Remember that we can also use harsh words if it is necessary. "You den of vipers, who warned you of the wrath to come?" was one of my favourite lines. Jesus also spoke harshly, and Paul said some harsh things, including, "You white-washed wall, surely God will strike you as you have struck me!".

I have been a christian for 30yrs. Last week I got so angry at my coworkers that I used the s word. Since then I have been reflecting on whats in my heart. I saught forgiveness from them and God but I still feel mortified by my outburst. I realized that I am not perfect and I am repentant. May God forgive me and give me strength to walk this christian life, in Jesus name.

i bet he made this video cuz of what andy mineo said on twitter.

CUSSING IS SINNING. If you feel convicted while cussing around little kids it's a sin. Check out what Jesus had to say in Matthew 18:3. and said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven._

13 year old bro and this is the best channel ever

I always look forward to these videos 😄. It would be so much easier to follow along with the video if you had closed captions though

Swearing is a sin. It is a black and white. When someone cusses they dont do so with good feeling but bad ones.

Swearing is of course a sin, period!

Thank you Jeff! I really needed to hear this because this is something I struggle with @ work during stressful situations. I really appreciated this message! Thank you!

Jeff , this is something that I was thinking about today and I personally felt like this video was a response to my thoughts about this topic , thank you for giving me guidance in my growth .