Intention is what matters. Narcissist intentionally cause people pain. Yes, they are evil. I have no problem calling evil people out! I have to protect myself.

Evil is the best description for narcissists. I lived with narcissistic parents, my mother's attempt to kill me failed but my father's attempt to cover it up was successful. I'm so much happier having those evil people out of my life.

They enjoy it! It is just so satisfying to them. It's sadistic.

You perfectly described by father, two older brothers, and my ex-wife. Sixty five years of hell can do a lot of damage Jill. Thank you Jill.

I read that book when it first came out in an attempt to understand several members in my immediate family. It helped changed the way I look at people. Those ten qualifications must have come from later editions because I dont remember reading them; but I do remember he defined Evil as anyone who took human life or anyone who purposely diminished the quality of life of others. And I agree that Evil should be a listed in the DSM, like anything else if you dont identify it you cannot understand it nor treat it. I really enjoy your videos, they address subjects from a different angle that many people walking the streets can relate to. Personally I do think there are many, many Evil people walking this earth today, and many of them are in positions of power.

Damn right. My Mom deliberately exposed us to sexual predators to stay in a marriage with a millionaire executive. Now he’s broke, she’s 5 times divorced and only one of her kids talks to her. Hang in there, it gets better and God ALWAYS serves them their karma in the end !!

Another characteristic of evil is how invasive it is. No respect for boundaries, for laws, for personal space, for privacy, etc. And also how obsessive. Abusers need victims; the opposite is not true. Quality of life is so much better without abusers. And evil seeks to dominate. There is no desire for cooperation or supportiveness. If it appears so, it is only to weasel into a position of dominance.

This study is critically important.

I see those 10 Characteristics in covert narcissist too

considering that my narcissist ex literally told me "I am hate" (referring to himself) I would argue that they aren't necessarily scared that they're evil... they embrace it.

Absolutely there is evil. I have met what you described and it is deliberate. Such a life-shaking and destructive experience, especially in the case of a religious leader. Thank you for your insightful information. Very good topics!

This is one of the most deepest pulling back of the veil on what evil is really constructed of. Gets to the very fabric of what evil is composed of.

Not only is Narcissism Evil it is the ROOT of all Evil.

Your videos are so “enlightening” . I have seen hundreds of videos on narcissism and your videos, by far, are the best. They are so good in fact I forward each one to my adult daughter to help her cope and understand about her sadistic father. It’s so interesting the whole discussion about evil because I have said for years that my soon to be ex husband is a sadist. There is no way a human being could be capable of the horrific things he has done to me, and my children. You’re personal experiences and information has been part of the invaluable help I have received the last three years to help me and my family cope and move on. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you❤️🙏🏻

Its real and I have seen it, that individual was an empty vessel with a fake facade, and when confronted with their true self, it was like looking into the abyss, no emotion on face, and the black dark stare of a snake.

Totally agree! Narcisist is evil. Human is a special being. We are not animal because we have emphaty.

Excellent book and a must read for those who have suffered narcissistic abuse. My mother-in-law is not just a psychopath, she's evil. Never paid for her crimes to this day as some evil people are quite successful in the world and good at fooling people.

I knew my husband was more than just narcissistic I said he was evil and now I know I'm not crazy that he is evil. So much to learn about these people because I've never been around this kind of person. Thank you so much for this lesson.

im one minute in and i can say this : YOU ARE ROCKING THIS SUBJECT AND YOU LOOK ON FLEEK! Thank you so much for your time and heartfelt dedication to helping others. I needed this !~ Michelle

Perfect description of the creep my daughter is currently divorcing. I tried to talk her out of marrying him in the first place. First time I met him I sensed that he was just like my own sociopath criminal father.

Thank you for this clear and succinct 10 point diagnostic checklist .It clearly applies to all malignant narcissists and psychopaths. Authorities ought to be aware of these traits as narcissists are such great liars and con artists.

I agree, it should be a DSM diagnosis.

We all have evil in us. One side tries to do good, one side does wrong or evil. Which ever one you feed is what become. Some people fight their evil tendencies and some people stop fighting and become separated from their good tendencies.

People of the Lie is a phenomenal book.

All 10 of those clearly describe my ex. Evil. I believe that the reason we don’t see evil addressed in psychology is because that field only addresses the mind. The field of study intentionally isolates the mind from other aspects of a person, and therefore will never include the spiritual aspect of a person. My opinion is that this is not a mental condition, but is rather a spiritual condition. Therefore it is not up to psychologists to diagnose the condition any more than we would ask a bone specialist to diagnose a liver problem. You hit the nail on the head at the end when you said that we have the right to expose these evil people to our society. I would take it a step further and say that we have a moral obligation to expose them, not only as individuals, but what to watch for in general. Silence is consent. “Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.” Ephesians 5:11 This is exactly what you seem to be doing. Keep up the great work. I appreciate your information and encouragement. Thank you!!

I’m not a religious person but I’m really loving this serious!

I’m sorry these things happened to you Jill. I’m very glad you’re in a safe and supportive place!

The Word Evil was once used by doctors who were treating patients for trauma associated with domestic violence and abuse. The related symptoms of such abuse are triggered by stress and anxiety outside the normal range of tolerance. If you reverse the word Evil it produces Live and if someone is preventing you from living a normal healthy happy life, by doing things that stop you and are aided by others who gang up on you to help carry out what the abuser wants, they should first be recognized by the victim as Evil, it was intended to be used as a triggering word by victims to people in places of authority to then ask the abuser a series of questions while writing appropriate records that would led to the proper oversight and protection for the victims, the over shadowing of where the intended scope was suppose to go to protect people in community was put to the way side when they discovered child victims using the word and later found that sexual abuse happens more frequently with the father and the son than with the father and the daughter because male Narcissistist never want their own male children to ever be led on the right path of being a man by their mother, so they lower them and continue to lower them until some of them are found dead, and where the authorities fail to first educate themselves thoroughly on the types of people found in their community, the people paying taxes supporting jobs for law enforcement fail by rightfully demanding not only the testing of these individuals but the completion of certain types of education before allowing them into the position. The word Evil is a good word, it is a flag, it is an indicator and it should be used appropriately to protect people.

This life on earth, IS an unseen spiritual battle all around us. Influencing us wether we know it or, not.

Having been a victim of a malignant narcissist, I couldn't agree more with this accurate diagnosis! And I never doubted it and like to classify people in general into "servant leaders" (those whose subconscious program is their best friend, who know the truth, are stoic in their way of overcoming hardships, and who are on a mission much bigger than themselves! You are an example), inherently good but lost souls, bad people, and last but not least evil ones! You are such a light, dear Jill! Bless your heart! 💙🤗

Jill...many of us are with you. You are helping save lives. Commendable.

I agree that it should be in the DSM! Society leans toward the idea that there is good in everyone but in my opinion when a person is evil to that degree it cancels out any good there may have been in the past or present...

Thank you for your insight. It is an uphill battle.

Yes, I also think it should be in the DSM!

Hi Jill, thank you for all your videos, you have helped me so much💕

“These six things the Lord hates, yes, seven are an abomination to Him: A proud look, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that are swift in running to evil, a false witness who speaks lies, and one who sows discord among brethren” (Proverbs 6:16-19)

Thank you for addressing this. Not until I prayed humbly for protection from evil, and for God to guide my heart away from any toxic influences, did I feel the chains of the trauma bond to the narcissist release. Self love is great but it’s important to remember a higher power is there for you, you are not alone 💛✨

You have described Commander Larry Alan Beardsley, retired from the Loudoun County Sheriff’s Office. When I separated from him, he stalked me at my doctors’ office. He was drunk and suicidal, armed with a gun and refused to leave. I called 911 and his friend, Lt. Chris Hines responded. Hines refused to write a report or provide protection in direct violation of state and federal law. I reported child abuse, domestic violence and felony conversion of property. Hines refused to write a report or provide a protective order- he covered up Beardsley’s crimes. Beardsley stalked me over the weekend and Monday morning I went to the Sheriff’s Office to get help again. I was seated in my parked car speaking to a female deputy when Chris Hines walked out and saw me. Without lawful reason whatsoever Hines yelled “ Pull her out!” He ran over, grabbed my hands and pinned them to the outside of my car door and started punching my head. Hines knew I’d just retired on disability due to Traumatic Brain Injury as he landed blow after blow to my head. He was trying to maim, disable, disfigure, or kill me. He compounded my injuries and caused amnesia. Blows to the head are deadly force. I’d done nothing wrong, nothing illegal; Hines was acting under color of law but he’s a criminal. Other officers ran over and shattered the passenger window into my face, they had no lawful authority to do ANY OF THIS. Hines pulled me out of my open car window and drilled my skull into the asphalt. The female deputy asked what did she do? Hines responded “Hold her for mental” He had no evidence of this- I worked with this man! He defamed and discredited me AND concealed abuse- this LABEL of mental illness defamed me and nullified all future calls for help They refused an ambulance for head injury and trouble breathing and threatened to spit mask and hog tie me. I was the 1st woman in Loudoun County Sheriff to gain rank; I served 2 tours of duty with LCSO. Sheriffs deputies treated the school shooter in Florida with more compassion and respect than afforded me. The female deputy had just shaken my hand and thanked me for everything I had done at LCSO!!! When Hines yelled “pull her out” she followed orders. She knew I had a brain injury but she also beat me until I forgot my name. I kept waking up handcuffed to a bed at the hospital asking why I was pulled out of my car window but none of the 3 deputies guarding me knew why they’d beat me into Complex TBI. Beardsley and Hines checked me out of my hotel room and drove my car “home.” I was separated from Beardsley and asked on a taped 911 call for protection from him just 4 days earlier!!!! Beardsley walked into my hospital room and sat down to guard me. He laughed with the deputies about how quickly I stopped asking for an ambulance when they pulled the spit mask out. I was handcuffed for 6 hours then they handed me into Beardsley’s custody. I had left him- I had separated from him and even asked for protection from him. He had no right to take my body and belongings into custody- this WAS A KIDNAPPING THIS WAS A KIDNAPPING AND MALICIOUS WOUNDING AND CARJACKING BY A MOB Beardsley documented in his handwritten journal that he took me home and put me in the unheated garage. He writes that he “doled out meds in small amounts.” He had no authority to dispense medication. He’d never done it before or since. He claimed it was prescribed but he’s a liar and would-be murderer. 3 times, he administered 5 pills, saying they were prescribed for the brain swelling. He woke me up twice for a total of 15 narcotic pain pills- he was trying to stage my suicide. He tried to kill me- he wrote it down! I woke up to him raping me, kicked him off and passed out. When I awoke I called Leesburg police for help. Beardsley came out and said I self administered so I was locked up in mental health over the weekend. They heavily, heavily drugged me. Beardsley was permitted to come into the secure unit and “lie with her as she slept.” It’s just SO SICK He has claimed to have power of attorney over me for 10 years. TEN YEARS!!! I’ve been reporting domestic violence, torture, child abuse, cruelty to animals with pictures-for 10 years- he’s told people I’m brain damaged and making it all up. He put everything in his name and divorced me- I have been stripped clean, publicly humiliated, gang stalked and defamed. It’s still going on! It’s taken 10 years to recover enough to articulate my speech- I reported this to Loudoun Sheriff in October 2019 and they promoted Chris Hines to chief deputy- Lt. Colonel The 10 year anniversary of my abduction, kidnapping, attempted murder and enslavement is this Sunday, 02-28-21. I’m finally free via divorce 11-08-19 and in a safe place now. I’m going to work up the courage to email you for therapy.

Yes, very good book......I listened to it on KZfaq......it's highly informative and very easy to understand.....

"A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood. An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet swift in running into mischief. A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren." Psalms 6:17-19 This is my mother. And an abomination to the Lord. They ARE evil! GOSO

People of the Lie - this book was life changing! Thanks.

1 sinful, iniquitous, depraved, vicious, corrupt, base, vile, nefarious. 2 pernicious, destructive. 6 wickedness, depravity, iniquity, unrighteousness, corruption, baseness. 9 disaster, calamity, woe, misery, suffering, sorrow. Many of these words are to be found in the bible when describing Narcissists, or equivalent of...Well done Jill, you put my thoughts and feelings into words ....

I think about this all the time. Thank you!

Evil is the absence of God and His traits. Yup , my narc is 100% evil, after all the malicious things she did to me ( because I loved her) after taunting me about her lover ( unworldly hatred towards me) she in a weird voice screamed " doesn't that tear your soul apart " with an evil glare and smile she couldn't hide. Felt like another realm , other than this world.

If you reverse EVIL...the word, that word describes what victims begin to begin to do..... LIVE...again.

I'm in agreement with you ! If you have an agenda & you set out to get your own way with malice & Intent regardless of the damage you cause ,with no regard for anyone else you are evil & much of the scripture you used in your last video was spot on ! Thanks for your videos !

You just described my ex and my mother. I have been at this game for close to a decade but you just blew me out of the water with this video. I guess I'm buying the book. I think I'd like to join your group.

I'm so glad you're touching on this subject! I absolutely agree there is a connection -- where that person can and will never change. Who they are is absolute. We all need to understand this and protect ourselves (and loved ones). xo

So sorry for what you went through with your son, you’re an incredible person to get through that and be so strong. Totally agree with you, every point spot on but unfortunately truly evil people would avoid ever being in a situation where they would receive a diagnosis and they would manipulate it if they did. Most people could meet the most heinous, evil, depraved, cruel person and come away thinking they’d met the nicest person ever. Only the targeted victims experiences it. They walk amongst us 🧟‍♂️🧛‍♀️🥷

Sorry Jill! I called you Joy! But, for good reason! You are such a joy! ❤

Joy: Great post! I was going to recommend Scott Peck's book! It is a fantastic book! It has helped me so much! Thank you for all of your work, Joy. You are a real blessing to humanity! ❤

Your 10 list on evil is so true

Thank you,very ,very interesting. I'll get the book (when it's in my budget) and study it. It opens up and offers answers and ideas to burning questions that have bounced around in my brain for quite a while. I'm a 67 yr old pensioner. This is an unexpected direction for your channel to take. Thanks again.

Thank you for the breakdown. I used to think everyone was sociopathic. Just learned about narcissism aka my boss of 6 years

My ex lost custody of his kid. Im so glad the mom got full custody ❤ im so thankful that lil girl doesn't need to endure any more years of conditioning. Thank God.

I feel like I just got a virtual hug. Thank you for your great insight.

I have the book! I haven’t read all of it yet, but I’m encouraged to dive in now! Thank you for your recommendation.

They find pleasure in the fear and harm they cause in others. It's a rush for them in that it makes them feel powerful because deep down they know they're less in many respects. That is evil.

P.s.especially the chapter about the female patient who tortured him psychologically. I think this is the type of person we run into most often and upsets us the most.

I’m reading Dr Pecks’ book ( audible) as I write this. It’s terrifying what he reveals that Narcissism is evil. He validates what I’ve been through in 38 years of marriage to a covert narcissist. I pity and pray for my spouse who fills the criteria. More so, I’m terrified for their soul. I pray God softens their heart and opens their eyes to their abusive behavior before it’s too late. I’ve separated from the abuse and evil. I pray she can acknowledge and take accountability to do the same for her own good being. Narcissism is a path to destruction. In the book he states: Evil spelled backwards is Live So, . Evil equates to eternal death. Love and and goodness equates to eternal life. Evil loves darkness and life emanates light. Listen to the message in this video. It’s a matter of life or death for those affected by narcissistic abuse and those who inflict the the narcissistic abuse.

Agreed on the person whom mentioned the connection between narcissism snd what is called the Jezebel spirit. Evil would be hard to push through to the DSM but using other terms like was mentioned tend to not be enough and tend to use those terms as saying the perpetrator is not as responsible since it a mental health problem. It is worth addressing having an “evil” diagnosis in the discussion

M SCOTT PECK, I was reluctant to read it as i felt it was outdated but it was truly like finding the key to the dark chamber of humanity. A piece of advice, you need to be strong and aware before confronting this book. Btw i love the enlightened target

Thanks, Jill for the book recommendation. I'd be very interested in reading it. 👍

Thank you, Jill for calling out who these people truly are. I have watched tons of channels on narcissists and narcissism. This is the first channel I heard you call them Evil, which I totally agree. They are evil. The narc I married for over 8 years has done every single narc-textbook horrible thing to me including cheating with my secretary who is 33 years younger than him. It is God who saved me from this extremely abusive relationship. Under His care, I am in my 6th month of no contact and I am healing well. I am blessed and grateful for His love. Evil will never win at the end.

very powerful stuff. i have seen evil and most wouldn’t believe where. and these people are in caring and controlling professions. i’ve seen them in HR and nursing and in church bodies as well. many have psychology degrees and advanced degrees. scary stuff. in some ways i wish i was still naive about how sick these people are and why i keep running into them. or they run into me.

Spot on sister.❤

My last Narc was Demonic, Period!! It is Real...

Immediately bought the book through Amazon. There are many versions at different price points. I bought the least expensive paperback for $12. Anxious to read it..... Thx for the suggestion. As a retiree, I plan to pursue a degree in criminal psychology online. So this book sounds like a must read.

Read both books “The Road Less Traveled” & “People of The Lie” back when they were first published. Thanks for this poignant reminder. Wonder what Peck’s POV would have been on the seemingly proliferation of evil.

yes , I agree ;-) Thank you for the book advice !

Very good description wow Before u said anything I thought, that s the psychopath, and of course also the malignant narcissist, who they say is very close to the psychopath.

Facts. BLESSINGS

I live with two people who have NPD I think. They have every behavior down to the wire. It took me years to figure out what was the problem. I thought it was me when I was a kid/teen. And both of them gaslight me a lot. Both of them have threatened me, made false allegations, and one of them tries to convince me I'm crazy. When I was investigated once because of a false allegatiin by one of them, they decided that I wasn't guilty if it. I would never do that to someone. I can't understand how someone can be cruel and violent and then act like it never happened. And just expect another person to just put up with it. I am trying to leave, now that I know I am not in a good situation for sure, not that I didn't know before, but I thought maybe I was just going to have to deal with it. I am so tired of dealing with it. I wish I had more money, but oh well. Thanks for these videos.

Great video, brilliant, thx for sharing.

Thank you and God bless

It's incredible !!!!

People of the LIE has been my Bible to understand evil for the last three decades, so I'm thrilled that you reference it. This is a topic that needs to be discussed minus the fire and brimstone Church theology, thanks for addressing this important topic

This is very very true.

In reference to your previous video : Here is the start: Gen 3:6 onwards : entitlement, cover up guilt, hiding, projecting guilt on others, smearing each other and blaming others

Great video, Jill!

I can garentee you Jill ,all narc are evil and cruel ,people with out empathi only think about nemt step to Hurt other ,and I will never doubt to call them evil ..Even im not Doctor .

I read people of the lie about 15 years ago. Great book!

This is one of the most useful and importamt videos that were made on this topic. Thank you.

I used to own that great book, lost it along with most of my other possessions, thanks to the evil narc.

Evil describe narcissistic father very well he's the epitamy of evil he loves black mailing, gaslighting, double standards, hypocritical behavior, bullying, neglect, silent treatment, turning people against one another, gossiping behind my back, false accusations, playing mind games, going through my personal stuff etc.

Just take a look in history and the world today / at this moment. I think you get the question answered!

Buying these Books by M.Scott Peck today!!! Thank you 🙏🏻 ALWAYS JILL

I called my ex evil before I knew what a narcissist was and she ✔️ ever box .

And some of them are so evil that they know how to get by with a lifetime of serious crimes that would land others in prison for life. My father was like that

So helpful, she is all 10

Wow. Oh wow....I had previously just thought my mama was a covert. This is eye opening and extremely scary.

Wow...I thought I would never find the answer...I didn't know someone could be all 8 of those

I've Got to read that book. Peck was helpful long ago and I know this info is of major importance to me. Thank you so much once again. I am amazed you managed to deal with those horrible evil people in your life without landing in the state pen. But like I've said time and again no one is worth loosing your freedom over. They'll mess with the wrong person one day n you'll get to hear about them on the evening news crime report.

But they are great liars and fool people and incapable of introspection/ therapy backfires or doesn’t occur. In my experience Thank you for providing this excellent information that list helps

You described the malignant narcissist alcoholic ex I divorced this year One of the most evil creatures Truly possessed In every circumstance He chooses to do the wrong things when given the choice just to feel pride power and that he won in his malevolent delusional detached from reality and truth games he plays and false narratives he conjures up knowing he is creating pain and misery in his victims including his own children

Your a lovley lady thank you ❤️

there is no such thing as malignant narcissists, enablers, or their subordinates... never have been and never will be. it's merely only a diagnostic language for understanding and defending against the Jezebel and Ahab spirits here on Earth. in Okinawa, they didn't call it the Lockheed SR-71 Blackbird, they called it..."Habu."

M. Scott Peck's book "People of the Lie" is right on the mark. Note: He was a Psychiatrist. Ephesians 6:11-12 Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. 12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. KJV

*_"Narcissism IS Evil..."_* It is not a description... Is is the very definition...

Wow 👌 👏 I read this book many years ago 😳 because God led me to do so! I thought it was because I was in Christian group therapy and I was in "spiritual danger" per the Holy Spirit. God has been showing me what I was living with but didn't grasp it until about 6 months ago. Thanks 😊 for all the work you put into teaching this much needed knowledge 👏. And, yes I believe that human evil 😈 exists in the world.