it is so sad i dont have any words for it. I know i need to do exactly what tou say. but shes pregnant and im in the middle of a horror movie

Been there, lived that. The only option seems to be no contact.

A lot of partners i have been with made me feel used, yet they would put their carnal needs first while they put my basic needs in the back burner.

Awesome job! The more we talk about narcissistic abuse, the fewer lives it will ruin.

And then the narcs smear campaign against you begins. Or wait! The narcs were smearing you from day one, ya just don’t know. Bye bye narcs!! Yall have fun tearing each other apart. 👋

😂😮😢😅😊 leave me alone then……

I feel I am narcissist and what you describe here is right. I realise that and mind my words and my intentions. I often feel that my value can be at sake. What helps me is to aware that I am my own source of freedom and joy. And that truth is the way of communicating.

My stepson did this to me. When my husband went into renal failure and had to be put on dialysis my stepson went around telling everyone he could that I "poisoned his dad and that's why his kidneys failed" He slandered me to anyone who would listen, our neighbors and my husbands friends and family and even police and adult protective services. He and his father got into it, my husband was very upset he had been doing this while my husband was over at his son's house, his son threw him out of the house.(The house that his son bought with his dad's money mind you) My husband tried to still have a relationship with him, but he said his son wasn't answering his calls or the door when he went over, so 3 years went by and we heard nothing from him until....my husband had a heart attack and 3 back to back strokes 2 1/2 yrs ago. His son used this devasting time to not come visit his dad in ICU or the facility he was sent for therapy but he waited until he came home, my stepson wrote a letter to the county court and to adult protective services for an investigation to be launched saying that his dad needs guardianship and that I was "abusing his dad" and that "all his dad's assets, the house, cars (he even listed MY CAR), all our furniture, any money in the bank (there wasn't any because his son guilt tripped my husband out of it and did other things that I can't legally mention here) He claimed that I was going to steal all his dad's assets and that I was abusing his dad financially and physically by poisoning him and by isolating him away from friends and family. Nothing could be further from the truth! And he knows that, he just wants me out of the way so he can get "his inheritance" He seems to not know how the law works in marriages, half of just about everything is legally mine... That's all he cares about it seems, money....He again blamed me because he claimed he wanted to see his father after he got home from hospital but that I wouldn't allow it, total lies again, he never came by, I have a Ring doorbell and security system for years now. and he is not on it...he never called either....so now my husband even though he is disabled, the lawyer with the court (that had to investigate due to my stepsons lies) well the lawyer said that my husband has partial capacity and if he didn't want to see his son he doesn't have to, so that is what my husband said. Adult Protective Services said there's no abuse, and police said that no crime has been committed. My husband even told all of them he didn't want to see or talk to his son.....He said he has no interest in seeing him because of all the stress he adds and how he berates his father for money. I asked twice if he wanted to visit with his son, and twice he said NO, he said "For 3 and a half years that I've been sick he has not bothered to check on me, no phonecalls, no letters or cards through the mail, no Father's day, no birthdays, no Christmas, so why now? He wants money that's why, I don't have anymore money to give him!" Thank God we haven't heard from his son except for the occasional police showing up at our door to do a well-check...he is abusing that system just to cause us embarrassment, because then all our neighbors are wondering why the police came by our house... normally when you call police to do a well-check it's because you can't get a hold of them by phone or knocking at door, but he doesn't even try that, so that is how I know he is doing that just to harass and embarrass us.......the man is a 43 yr old child! My husband was diagnosed with end-stage renal failure in 2019 (there are 5 stages, each stage lasts 2-5 years before going up to next stage, so there is no next stage for him unless he gets a transplant. He was on the list for 3 years but they kicked him off due to heart attack and stroke) he started dialysis 5 1/2 years ago, so he was likely stage 4 when we got married in December 2013. He also many other health issues like gout, type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, severe reflux and nausea and gastritis and polyps, arteriosclerosis, heart attack and stroke survivor, back and knee and shoulder surgeries in the past 30 years, can't take blood thinners due to it causes GI bleeds in him so he has had an Amulet device (IVC filter) placed in his heart, has had very slow recovery from the strokes, left side weakness (and he was left handed), still has little trunk control, he can sit up now but not on his own and has to be lifted up, when sitting up in chair either has to be watched very closely or strapped in to stay sitting up in a wheelchair or else he could fall forward or slide out of wheelchair, he is finally back to eating well again, thanks to an appetite stimulant the doctors prescribed, he is starting to stand a little on his right leg when I lift him up, and he is getting a little better at feeding himself using his right hand. I worked full-time before his heart attack and stroke happened, but now I take care of him full-time , and financially we are strapped but making due on his social security. I have POA and am on the house deed so I am thinking we should sell the house and buy something cheaper because right now the mortgage takes half the check. We have quite a bit of equity built up so buying something smaller and cheaper for cash, where we wouldn't have a mortgage would be ideal for us, especially with all the inflation going on now. I just dread making that step because I think his son will flip out, he will see it as " taking his heritance" 🙄 but we have to do what's best for us financially going forward, also it would free up some my husbands check so we could pay for some private healthcare or respite care from time to time so I could get a break once in a while, as my back is killing me! Anyways, it's a shame his son is the way he is, I wish he could be decent and apologize for everything and help us instead of acting like a lunatic....but if my husband says he wants to see or speak with him I will definitely arrange that. I can't understand why his son thinks these things and treats me so, I mean I have always been nice to him, hugged him upon seeing him for holidays and birthdays, fixed fantastic meals for holidays even, which he cleaned his plate each time, been the perfect the Stepmom and the perfect wife to his father, happily married for 10 and a half years, despite all of my husbands health problems. Maybe it's jealousy? Maybe he just wants to finish cleaning out his Dad's money and assets? Maybe both I dunno....Everyday I wake and do all the tasks I have to do for my husband, the household, the yard, it's a lot but I just keep going. Prayer has helped me tremendously in getting through all this thank God! My daughters and my sisters and neighbors having been very supportive as well. So we are blessed in that resort.❤️Sorry my comment is so long, but I'm hoping that if anyone else has gone through something similar they will know they are not alone! Keep going, don't give up!❤

This doesn't resonate. Is she specifically describing Trump?

LMBO. Mrs. Wise, you are truly, something else😅 ! Good Afternoon to you Mrs. Wise! I am Wishing for you, the Best Day possible according to you're circumstances.

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