Is There Such a Thing as "The One"? Does God Predestine Your Spouse?

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Is there such a a thing as the one? Does god predestine your spouse? Does God plan who you will marry? Does God choose your husband or wife? Does God choose your mate?
These are complicated questions that go beyond the topic of relationships and are really more theological. If you are a Calvinist, you must say that God plans your marriage because he plans everything. If you are an Arminian, you will say that God does not plan who you who you will marry because man's free will is what determines the outcomes.
Is there such a thing as the one? You will answer this question differently based upon your understanding of God's sovereignty and man's free will. I believe that God does choose your spouse but he will bring about "the one" through you making free choices.
However, I respect that some do not believe in "the one" and say there is no such thing because they have a different understanding of what the Bible says about God's will and man's will.
My biggest point is that you should make sure you are basing your beliefs on Scripture and what the Bible actually says rather than your personal opinion about "Is there such a thing as the one?"
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Is there such a a thing as the one?
Does god predestine your spouse?
Does God plan who you will marry?
Does God choose your husband or wife?
Does God choose your mate?

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@jo-annlouw3157 5 жыл бұрын

I believe if you talk to God and pray for the right husband, God will answer you, God did it for me and I'm holding onto His word.

@GinMatt 6 жыл бұрын

God knows best. Pray about it, God will give you the answer. And please, wait,✋ stop,⛔. Don't rush just to accept anyone in your life because you feel lonely.

@Gilbertlouise12 6 жыл бұрын

Simply seek God. Ask him. Just make sure you can handle his answer if it's a no. The Holy Spirit does use the Bible and we can learn a lot from the Bible about what God has done before...But please guys, understand that he is with you always. You don't have to seek a man to ask about God...simply ask God.

@valerielinares2068 5 жыл бұрын

What you're saying here reminds me of a scripture: "A man’s heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps" Proverbs 16:9.

@682justin Жыл бұрын

This guy is making his theology around a clickbait title he made for views. That is not Godly.

@captainjamescook2978 3 жыл бұрын

There is no doubt that God picks your partner. It’s happened to me and it’s biblical.

@gct1913 5 жыл бұрын

A very old Christian once told me " you can't steer a parked car" in other words ....live Godly go in what you think is Gods direction and he will adjust your course.

@TheArtistJ777 4 жыл бұрын

God chose Rebekah for Isaac. God picked her.

@kimberlyflowers921 5 жыл бұрын

I love when my pastor says that God is so thorough that he requires you to seek his will so that he’s able to guide your choices 🙌🏽🙌🏽

@gdj777 5 жыл бұрын

God is the best matchmaker but we stil have free will.

@Gilbertlouise12 6 жыл бұрын

When God gives you a dream...you will know. There will be no question. When God tells you something, its personal...he will make sure that you have understood that its definitely from him. My sheep know my voice. Believe and don't doubt. God knows what you will think before you think it, what you will say before you say it...Isaiah

@wpmarie 6 жыл бұрын

Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord ’s purpose that prevails.

@dallasm.4794 6 жыл бұрын

But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Mattthew

@rizalinaayrosoa.k.a.kimbro9540 4 жыл бұрын

If God plan’s who I will marry.... I’ll do it!

@tristanarnold9616 6 жыл бұрын

My husband and I have been married for 12 years. It's only been in the last 2 years that we've come to realize how perfectly we compliment one another! We married in our 40's, both of us having very different lives, but both of our lives had been tumultuous. We'd both been through different hells. Our marriage was tested HARD recently, from severe bullying by extended family members. We went to couple's therapy. Our therapist is a former Pastor. We realize now how we are healing each other, protecting each other, learning together, celebrating our victories, and fixing our mistakes.

@LizaLavolta 3 жыл бұрын

I am praying for and listening for my husband. I met someone who was obsessed with the idea of the one and used that and God as a scapegoat for his CLEAR bad behavior in relationships and his previous marriage. I saw him get super stressed over the idea of 'the one' ...and the spirit of that reminded me a lot of what I used to encounter in the new age. God is not a God of confusion. Focus on drawing near to God and his will- pray to be a wife (or husband). Pray for your future spouse..walk in the Spirit and you will know them when you see him. I believe God placed the desire to be a wife on my heart so I am confident that I will be. :) But Satan wants to whisper to God's children,"It's too late, etc." so we rush into the wrong thing and accept a counterfeit. BE STILL and God will go before you!

@ogcripping4919 5 жыл бұрын

The "one" that accepts you for who you are in (Christ ofcourse) will be your soulmate

@stephengj8185 4 жыл бұрын

Pray for me. I m looking for God-fearing and honest woman who must love Jesus

@misskat7437 3 жыл бұрын

God speaks to us in so many ways. I’ve never dreamed about my husband but I will know who he is. Keep in step with the Holy Spirit and you will know!

@amalianormil937 6 жыл бұрын

“A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord.”