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Islamic Masculinity (rujulah): A Conversation on Manliness & Exploring 4 Relevant Qur'ānic Verses
With Shaykh Abu Aaliyah and Hamza Andreas Tzortzis
00:00 Coming up: selected clips
04:04 Introduction
09:13 Verse 1: Qur’an 33.23 - Who fulfill what they promised with Allah
11:20 Affirmation of Allah’s Oneness and worship
11:40 You do not take you desires as your lord
12:04 Humility as a masculine trait
13:54 Having Allah-centric and akhira-centric mindset
17:48 The verse was in context of jihad
18:33 Verse 2: Qur’an 24.37 - Neither trade nor wealth divert them from the remembrance of Allah
20:20 Comments on the “red pill” movement
21:13 The importance of showcasing Divine guidance
22:59 “The gospel of prosperity”
24:19 Wealth, having a vision and criteria for success
29:01 Wealth is not blameworthy if it is Allah-centric
32:31 Levels of love for our children
33:23 Levels of men and wealth
34:20 Allah’s love
35:45 Verse 3: Qur’an 9.108 - Men who love to be purified
38:26 Verse 4: Qur’an 4.34 - Men are maintainers and protectors of women
39:28 Physical and psychological protection
41:13 Husbands as a means for paradise or hell
42:17 The status of a husband and devout obedience
43:39 The oxygen for a man is respect and love
44:43 The hierarchy of virtues and the best role of a Muslim woman
46:44 The distortion of Lady Khadijah’s role and life
47:40 Exceptions are not the Islamic norm
48:46 There is no exception with Lady Khadijah
49:33 The virtue of concealement
50:38 The Lady Khadijah’s significance
51:17 The butchering of Lady Khadijah and Aisha due to false liberal and post-modern assumptions
51:53 True sign of a man is to have a deep meaningful relationship with your wife
53:07 Concealment of dominance, love and law
55:09 “Marriage is a mirror”
55:56 Respect and honour
58:39 Importance of satisfying women physically and emotionally
58:53 States of being give rise to states of being
59:49 Bravery and courage
01:03:03 The only thing that counts is Allah and being brave in our ordinariness
01:04:47 “The greatest enemy is the inner me”
01:05:59 The heart and its spiritual diseases
01:08:01 Real men speak little and when needed
01:10:27 A discussion on those who are qualified being silent
01:12:47 “Da’wah culture has a lot to answer for” and the importance of scholarship and consultation
01:15:54 The need for tarbiya and spiritual mentors
01:19:39 Forbearance and repelling by that which is better
01:21:22 A man’s responsibility for their tarbiya
01:22:07 Good companionship as a key to purifying the heart
01:23:49 Two Prophetic traditions on treatment of women
01:25:46 Loving for others what we love for ourselves
01:26:18 The believing man are aware of the circumstances in the treatment of women
01:28:24 A note on the post-modern and feminist kufri discourse
01:29:09 Conclusion and an unapologetic note to liberals and post-modernists