There's a Goth couple where I used to live who had had a baby before I left. I was working in a shop and saw them come in with their little girl, her in a black onesie with little skulls on it, them in their black regalia, lots of spikes and chains. The woman at the front of the queue said, "Honestly! How could they impose that- lifestyle- onto their poor child? It'll grow up so confused." They heard her, and they looked so sad. I felt terrible for them. It was a black onesie. Don't all babies wear onesies or playsuits? I forgot to scan a couple of things of theirs, but the baby question reminded me of how sad and sick I felt at such ignorance. If you have a baby, he or she will be the cutest little bat princess/prince.

My parents are Goths and I was dressed in like red and black until I was a bit older. My Dad refused to dress me in pink. I don't think I wore pink until about maybe 5 or 6 when I started choosing my own clothes a bit more. And for a long time I was pretty girly but around 14 it went full circle and now I've followed my parents footsteps.

My mom hates that I'm GOTH! She think I worship the devil and shit like lmao! she also told me I can't be goth because I'm BLACK....I told her I'm already black so why not camouflage XD!

I'm the total opposite of a goth, but I really enjoy your videos and your style. Your personality is amazing.

I dress my young daughter in cute goth and alternative clothes 😍 She looks gorgeous in them and we haven't really had anyone make negative comments. Goth babies are the cutest :D

I completely agree about being able to wear whatever you want. I am not goth, but truly love the style and appreciate the darker aesthetic. One day I want pink flowers and creamy lace. The next day I'll want to play with a style very similar to yours. It is your body and your life. Wear what makes you feel good and to hell with anybody who dislikes it.

I call myself goth for ease, I'm a mix of everything. Goth/Metal/'Normal'/ etc. I do what I want.

My mother was goth and dressed almost like you when she was younger, but after she had her first kid she stopped because my father is more hiphop/rap/r&b person. I wonder if me and my siblings would've been a hybrid of goth and hiphop, would look like.

I love the red lipstick on you. I think it contrasts so well with the black and white makeup and I think it looks amazing with the red contacts as well. it looks so great on you

When I was a baby and toddler my dad dressed me in misfits, Christian death, Ramones, sublime, dead Kennedys, etc. merch haha

God, they look so damn good and big, so jealous! I wish I had eyes like that.

when i had kids (they r now 13 & 15) i was so disappointed at the lack of black clothing at all available for babies thru to preschoolers. if i could sew & had the time i wouldve made them myself but its a busy time when kids come along! lol

It would be so ironic if you ever had a child, and they turned out preppy or something along those lines XD Anjelica Huston's Morticia... yas. SO. MUCH. YAS.

I know I'm not the only one who was staring at her chest the entire time. Judge me.

sooo .. I paused your video at 3:57 because i'm watching this with my 3 year old daughter and i asked her if she thought you were beautiful and she said yes ❤ she likes your lipstick and your eyes .

Must admit, i have been goth since i was 12, i am now 42, but i always want my daughter to choose her own likes and paths in life, this goes for religion and even her name, i believe letting your own child choose not force your own opinion on them before they can talk... And my daughter has turned out a intelligent, beautiful young lady, not goth and i love her for who she is, not what she looks like or how she is dressed, And I have admired her choices in life without my influence of my beliefs drummed into her tiny brain before she even has a choice. Just my opinion..🖤

my mother always tried to dress me in old people clothes my entire life. I'm 36 and she still pulls that crap. I once wore goth shorts or a top with a skull and everyone in my family said "we thought you grew out of this phase" or "don't you think skulls are for teenagers not grown ups?" well before I was 18 I had to were what she choose for me. my aunt was awesome she actually thought the fairy hoodie I got from hot topic for my 24th birthday was wonderful and she bought it for me. my mother's response "oh that's odd your aunt picked this?" "that's strange" all whall wrinkling her nose up all snooty like. my aunt's daughter was pretty much a cookie cutter of my mother and dressed like a 50year old woman when she was 10 till this day. my aunt was the only sweet understand open-minded decent human being out of whole lot. she is to this day the only one to ever care and be cool about my clothing choices. I miss her so much.

I have a question... when you're in a swimsuit, how far down does the makeup go? Like neck and cleavage? Arms and legs?

my friend found out I watched your videos a few days ago, she laughed at me and said am I some kind of edgy emo, no I'm not, I've never been interested in any kind of goth fashion ect ect but I still have respect for everybody, and you are such a nice and 'general' person it's hard for anyone to just limit you down to naive insults! I love you videos and I love you as a person! keep up the great work

I'd love to see you do a 'Goth To Visual Kei Transformation' that would be so cool!

Would you please do a school supplies video for goths

Do you think it's okay to mix up fashion styles? For example, I like clothes as long as they are comfortable and my clothes can go from gothic one day to a more preppy style the next and a lot of people I know say that I'm just 'posing' when I really am just wearing whatever is comfortable to me.

I love love love your personality and your positivity. I've recently been increased to a high dose of anxiety meds and your videos always are so relaxing and really help me a lot. Thank you love you 💗💗

Im not Goth (though people like to call me that) I'm more of 90's rocker more than anything. You know the type the one that always seem high and the one that's obsessed with late 80's and 90's rock and metal. I was mostly influenced by my mum, she was a teen in the 90's and was crazy for rave music and bands like green day, Marilyn Manson, Nirvana, Metallica, bowling for soup etc.. Actually im going to see Marilyn Manson in December this year with her! I would never be the person i am today without my parents being themselves and sharing the things they love with me. I think parents who have kids should influence their kids in what kind of culture their into, gives them something they can bond over and introduces kids into different life styles. My friends still find it weird that my mum drives fast down the back roads listening to rock music full blast but that's what i love about her. Couldn't imagine a world where she didn't act like that, we wouldn't have anything in common!

Hi, My name is Cora and I'm not goth or anything but I do still watch your channel, mainly because you're so genuine and sweet (plus I love your accent) and the world needs more people like you who aren't afraid to express themselves and be as kind as you are to your fans and everyone and every time I watch you, your attitude really changes my mood and pep me up for my day. Thank you!

A little advice for plus size goths: Torrid has some gothable clothing. It's not always very cheap, though but it can get all the more affordable when things go on sale or when they have certain events. They even have two Wednesday dresses right now!

Lmao the fact that your eyelash was falling off kept distracting me ah

i really love the way you talk. its so calming

You are such a genuine person. You're personally one of my favorite KZfaqrs.

I really admire the goth community. So beautiful

It's really awesome that you're so positive and kind. Many people think that goths and metal fans are always depressed and angry and it's not true at all! You have such a good heart, I love it! :)

You are seriously the coolest :)

your voice is my favourite and I can't put my finger on why I just really like it haha it's very relaxing 😂

Does anyone else have this issue? You immediately click like because you know your gonna like the video before you even watch it and then further into the video you glance down and try to like the video or subscribe and your like, "Damn, I already did all this shit.... Now how do I profess my love for this channel??!" lol I do it all the time....

I'm watching this well over a year later, but I have to say, I really love how encouraging you are when it comes to just being yourself. I don't share your aesthetic (though part of me has wanted to since I was in high school in the late 90s) but it's just so nice to see positive people. I've been watching your channel for ages, and I just love you.

I like your videos for one simple reason...you are REAL!!! So many of these so-called "you-tubers" start off portraying themselves then gradually switch to what they think the world wants them to be. None of that with you! Thanks for not changing and continuing to be yourself. I have been watching your channel for well over a year now. I am not goth...just trying to get through this "thing called life" the best I can. I wish you much happiness in your life!

FREYJA PLEASE BE MY NEW MOM

could you please do a hair tutorial? that would be so helpful!

Just want to say. thank you for being you. I am 35 and I have always been different and just got a septum and Marilyn because people kept telling me I will regret it and all I regret is not doing it sooner. You spread so much positivity about being an individual. Much love and keep on being you...cause you are delightful!

my mom dressed me in little flowered dresses and cute little shoes and now I'm a little emo

ever drunk bailey's from a shoe

Hair tutorials would be awesome!

I absolutely love you! You're seriously an inspiration. I'm personally getting back into the goth scene which I was in for over 10 years and just couldn't afford to buy items for myself after I'd gained weight after having my little girl. I'm more confident now days and you inspire me to get back into the things I love! Hope to hear from you someday. 💖😘

I love how you mentioned Malice Mizer and VK! I personally love love love Dir en grey! I just recently stumbled across your videos but I love them!

Hi Black Friday! Your videos are so inspiring to me and I feel like you've made me a lot more comfortable with the entire goth society. Before I came across your channel, I always had the impression that it was some kind of exclusive club where you either go big or go home and that always used to scare me, despite loving so many aspects of it. So I'd like to start with thanking you for that! So now to my question: I really like lots of aspects of the pastel goth style (I've always felt like a cute cupcake doused with poison in the inside) but I think this question can be applied to any subculture. I enjoy the style and the aspects of it look and want to adopt the style as my own, however whenever I try some parts on myself it just doesn't seem right. Does this mean I'm not truly into it? Or is it something I have to get used to and will grow on me? For example, I've dabbled in wearing wigs and whatnot (I cannot commit to dying my hair, I'm scared to bleach it or anything) and I'm just not comfortable seeing myself with the different hair. Is this something I will grow out of if I try it enough, or should I look for something different like actually dying my hair? I'm fine with clothing and makeup, but the look just doesn't seem quite complete without the hair. I look forward to hearing a response, since I'm sure you've got something helpful to say about this. Thank you for being so awesome!

I love your hair. I'm also quite partial to drac makens hair (looks like lydia deets especially the beetlejuice cartoon version!)

I am so jealous!! I absolutely adore Alchemy Gothic and I've had my eye on that necklace for years! Also, I absolutely love your laugh, that might be a weird thing to say, but it's very unique and I love it! :) Thank you for always encouraging people to be and express themselves, I'm so tired of all the stigma, negativity and finger pointing associated with fitting a mold or lack thereof. You rock my socks!

I did watch the documentary around a month ago or so. I loved it!! I really enjoy your video's and your personality. Thank you for all you do!!

I must say. Your videos give me so much confidence, I can't really explain. But I feel like I can find the strength to be my self again. As a new young mom. I lost my self as a living nursing bottle. and not long ago I find one of you videos. After that I don't feel so empty inside. And have the strength back to do what I want and find my style again. And my positive attitude. How you talk and they way you explain thing. Help my think clearly. And help me in so many levels. So I want to thank you, for helping me helpling my baby son of 7 month.

Hey hun could u do a video hiding ur camera, to show how ppl generally treat u & ur husband? Or Goths in general??? U say ur always being staired art, & uve even been stopped n asked/told u need to find God. Ive experienced much of this myself so I think this would b a great video thx him

Can I just say how much I adore you❤ for years now, I have constantly seen your videos pop up in my recommendations but never took the time to click/ watch... ohmygoth I have been missing out! I finally took the time to click on one of your vids the other day, and have been benging like crazy!!😂❤ You are an amazing, beautiful person inside and out and we all should aspire to have the confidence, caring and fun-loving spirit that you have 🥰

I love you so much I watch all of your videos, you are the perfect mix between funny and wise!

You are one of my favourite you tubers!! You look incredible. ❤♥

So jealous of your skull cup! I bought one like it after Halloween, and it broke while I was moving.

Watching some of your older videos during quarantining & I just had to say that top makes your decolletage look amazing! 😋🖤 And that beautiful red lip w the red contacts is SUCH a great combo! 💄👍🏻

Thank you for saying "do what you like" regards how you present yourself. I have changed my style a few times from goth and emo to skater and preppy and have been told many times by other people "you're not goth/prep/punk/emo/skater etc. And now I just go with what I feel each day rather than restricting myself to one style but I do have a theme of alternative fashion so now I just say I'm alternative as for me that covers everything not mainstream like goth, emo, cyber, skater etc etc. And BTW, you are beautiful!

Aaah, you're such a positive girl! You always make me smile!

i love your personality. and your style of course. you just seem really awesome

Honestly I just love hearing you talk, your accent is so enticing x'D

Ah , I really love your channel. I'm not goth , nor do I want to be , but I truly adore you and your videos ! You are such a beautiful person , and I really love how you could care less about what people think about you! I'm glad I found your channel , thankyou for making videos that improve my mood 🖤

It is absolutely disgusting how many people in the comment section are sexually harassing her and talking about her boobs wow people get a damn life for God's sake 😒

omg your skull mason jar cup thing!

Love her videos so much, I always had black friday in my suggestion videos I'm really glad I decided to watch

I'm so glad that you exist in the world. :) also thank you for starting my obsession with "She Past Away" music in particularly "Katarsis". I the cure live recently and it was amazing and I would do over a million times if I could.

Have you ever seen What we do in the Shadows? I watched it again last night and noticed that it takes place in Wellington, which I'm pretty sure is your home town!

Malice Mizer!!! I used to listen to them like crazy!! Now that you've mentioned it, I can see the resemblance to Mana 💙

Found you browsing Pokemon vids of all things...and I have to tell you this is love at first sight. You're amazing and I love your positivity and style!!

Your videos are making me feel so much better lately. I went from spending an hour getting ready every single day, full gothic lolita esque style. Layers of makeup, wig styled, the whole shebang to constantly working where i have to be BEYOND plain for months now. And the day i have off i am usually too exhausted to get all dressed up. Im sure others, like mentioned in the video feel this struggle too. Its making me feel antsy and sick ahahah

I love the goth, emo, and steampunk subcultures cause I like the Victorian styles of goth and steampunk but I also like the metallic look of steampunk but sometimes the black goth is cool too but I also like the emo look a little bit but I think it's funny cause I only like the way they look nothing else that has to do with that subculture but also sadly my mom will only dress steampunk sometimes so yea I get what people mean if it's ok to wear the look but not really be in that group

You are an inspiring women! You look wonderful and I love your outfits! I am goth too and I like to keep it that way forever. Thank you for letting me open up to myself and everyone I know!

I love your videos. You are an inspiring person. I love you 🖤. Thanks for making my day a bit brighter then it normally is.

Hello lovely! I'm newly subscribed to your channel and I must confess that I just adore you and your positivity around people just being themselves. I used to be more conservative in the way that I would dress but one day out of the blue I decided that I was just bored and trying to conform to what I that everyone else wanted to see me dressed in, however now I am into a much darker style that really fits who I am and my personality and I couldn't be happier. Thanks for making your videos and for being so transparent.

I'm a Christian and love the gothic aesthetic as far as the darker colors, skulls, and deffinetly my favorite poet is Edgar Allen Poe (I know too much about him). My younger sister was like very obnoxious when I said I identified as a goth.

you are the best part of KZfaq ❤

I've been a huge fan for a very long time too! I remember when you had only 55,000 subscribers :0 I love your Q and A's, it's so cool to find out more about you h.h

I absolutely love your channel! I would now say I am a goth but I wear black all the time and often get called one. You are the only youtuber I watch consistently and I love your attitude! I completely agree that people should just do what they want and wear what they want

Hi Friday, I have a question: I believe one should dress however they want, even at work, I think that's part of diversity, and that's my opinion, but do you dress as you do at your job? And what are some goth bands you like?

What is her day job

Just found your channel through Stepanka! XXOO Love everything you are about!

Hi I just stumbled accross your channel today, And have been binge watching you all day, I just wanted to say you are very lovely and I love you so much already 💜

Oddly enough I found those mugs and some painted like sugar skulls at ROSS for $3 😵😍 I love them(: Also, using them like jars for different things is really nice too.

You're a natural ginger who chose to be goth! Oh my it all makes sense! Were you the baby in Adams Family? Was that you?! Also SERIOUS question for anyone, if you wear all/mostly black, and tons of white makeup.... how does that work? No makeup transfer? It would drive me crazy!!

you are such an amazing person, and I love watching your videos. I hope your happy and thank you for making these videos

You look amazing, I love your channel so much and I really enjoy watching your videos ^^ and by the way your lipstick slays 💯

Torrid is a plus size alternative/goth style store in America. It is owned by Hot Topic. Starts at size 16, not sure how high it goes. Hope this helps your subscribers who need this info.

how do you tease your hair if it's thick and curly? :/

yay im so happy that you are/were a mana/malice mizer fan, you did kind of remind me of him when i first saw your videos ^ ^

Loved the video as always

I love your make up it goes really great with your eyes

It's funny because I wear all black every day (I also dye my hair black - I'm naturally blonde), but I don't do make-up. My 'friends' constantly try to push me to wear color, and say things like "you only wear black because you think it's slimming." I'd love to dye my hair red, or purple, and get a lot of amazing piercings, but since I work in the corporate world - I can't.

Do what you like! I agree! I am not really into "goth" music or "goth" literature but LOVE the fashion and decor. Most days I dress goth, but there are also some other days where I feel like looking like a Sith Lord or Pirate, so I will incorporate those into the mix.

This was a great video! I love that skull mug and the Bailey's was an excellent choice. 😜 Thank you for making me not the only one who can't do Joy Division! I just can't get into them at all!

Can you do a video of how you put your hair down?

Hey, angel, What fo you think of The Cure? I choose 'Disintegration' as my last name.

I'm not goth. I enjoy the style and love watching your videos. your really funny! actually never thought I would ever enjoy a gothic channel! I am 100% watching every single one of your videos! ❤ you! 😙

in one of your videos you played a song My Guest. and omg I've been listening to it non stop i love it and i love you! from the depths of my little black heart

could you react to the cringy goth girl. their names are Tara and Raven. wanted to hear your opinion

That mug is awesome!!

New subbie! I love your channel & personality - so happy I stumbled across your channel!😊❤

Love watching your videos, its nice to know the goth culture is alive and doing well and you do some great videos with interesting subjects. On the Joy Division subjjecy i can agree a bit, also i never considered them goth they were more of the post punk scene when i was a teenager. I still love goth, industrial and punk even at my age, so keep up the great vidoes :) Cheers