Iyanla: Fix My Sexless Marriage | Full Episode

Iyanla: Fix My Sexless Marriage | Full Episode | OWN

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2 ай бұрын

Iyanla travels to Knoxville, Tennessee, to help a couple who say that they are trapped in a sexless marriage. She feels the problem rests with his lack of initiative, but he says her nagging and controlling ways turn him off.
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@viecariously 2 ай бұрын

It’s crazy how so many issues on this show come down to being sexually violated in your childhood

@fosthedoll 2 ай бұрын

I think he stole her story so that he could get empathy. I think he’s a narcissist because they are the only ones that cheat. Most men will end the relationship before starting another one because of guilt or they will just not cheat and withdraw from their wife, hoping that the wife changes her bad behavior.

@fosthedoll 2 ай бұрын

They do it all the time and try to be more relatable so that you feel bad for them. The neighbor story sounds identical to her story and he was moving his eyes around as if he was trying to make it up along the way. Even iyana had to tell him to close his eyes. No emotions at all while he said it.

@skinnydee1886 2 ай бұрын

Sexual abuse and rape is happening worldwide, and it's mostly happening in the household. It is also happening in churches, schools, and elsewhere, but it is kept concealed. It's not only happening to toddlers, young girls, and boys, but also to young men, and women. Many of them don't speak about it! Only some, children when they become adults will be brave and speak about it.

@neenuhcruz 2 ай бұрын

i think the same thing. its so common.

@virgirma1328 2 ай бұрын

SA is still very much a taboo subject across the globe.People don't realize what repercussions s@x can have in somebody's upbringing .It's a heinous crime .

@natashaspriggs2311 2 ай бұрын

Iyanla be so dramatic and I love it😂

@paluzalu6868 Ай бұрын

Lmfaoo

@az1758 5 күн бұрын

She has to break through some serious walls.

@olekibuemureithi 2 ай бұрын

I'm totally stuck to this ..I have gained alot of knowledge through Iyanla

@ec-kj4yp 2 ай бұрын

Got me in tears. Holding on to pain instead of risking feeling powerful. Wow.

@traceylee3354 2 ай бұрын

Yea I’m at work on my break in tears on this one -

@devettebaker2377 Ай бұрын

Letting it go it loses strength

@justjules6975 24 күн бұрын

Me too🥹 xx💔

@WillowRose 2 ай бұрын

Not Iyanla telling them their room is "tight" 😂😂😂

@angelica3744 Ай бұрын

MULTIPLE times

@NSmith-qn2sb Ай бұрын

Why is that funny to you

@Nyahkimmy 28 күн бұрын

@NSmith-qn2sb I think because it was borderline rude, and she said it more than once. I felt a little bad for them when she said it, but it's true!

@imjustavessle7774 2 ай бұрын

"using people to make myself feel good, because men used you too feel good." Hit hard,WOW!!! IYANLA VANZANT..............SO NEEDED. THANK U.

@kristinenickley1755 2 ай бұрын

So Powerful Huh??❤

@angelicacroitoru4946 Ай бұрын

Don't see the truth in this affirmation, how is she using him?

@janinereyes9377 20 күн бұрын

@@angelicacroitoru4946she meant using her daughter to feel better about herself

@baileximba9822 2 ай бұрын

Iyanla is the epitome of truth She cuts really deep to heal unseen wounds. God bless her wisdom ❤

@NSmith-qn2sb Ай бұрын

😂

@BRIDGETUHMYEAH 2 ай бұрын

I’m only 8 minutes in I can tell this couple wants this relationship to work, I can see they are each navigating wounds

@heavenlygardens 2 ай бұрын

I'm crying at the makeover. Wow, she looks wonderful. A beautiful woman.

@brittbritt6857 2 ай бұрын

I pray their love grows deep

@ritag9290 2 ай бұрын

I am so sorry she was so violated as a child.... I'm infuriated 😔💕

@sandramundy 2 ай бұрын

I always try my hardest not to cry while watching these episodes; it never works though, my eyes get leaky. Loved the ending. So many couples that love each other break up for some childhood trauma that cause them to act out. Transparency is the key for a solid foundation. ❤❤❤

@georgiatenantadvocategroup2822 2 ай бұрын

It’s hard NOT TO CRY.😢

@AfricanWifeinPakistan 21 күн бұрын

Me too. Few mins in and I got teary eyed. 😢

@user-fm5ms5me4b 2 ай бұрын

Omg, i wanna hug her, to hear that after you tell you mother your being sexually abused

@WilliamOgletree 2 ай бұрын

I remember this episode. This episode made me re evaluate my existence.

@giftbags1978 2 ай бұрын

Iyanla is the spiritual/ moral guide we all need right now. We’ve been lost for minute now and these episode represent why elders are so important. ❤

@drewbranch7700 2 ай бұрын

Yep,don’t be mesmerized by the top of the iceberg,it’s almost always something deeper that happened in their childhood and that my friend is the bottom of the iceberg.

@arethalouisembango977 2 ай бұрын

My favorite episode of all. And I've watched about 30 so far. Beautiful couple. Wish them and their daughter so much joy and happiness ❤

@janedeane3656 2 ай бұрын

Im not on anyones side here but any male who refuses to disclose a previous marriage is an extreme red flag. it would be incredibly difficult if not impossible for me to open up so such a person.

@AtheneHolder 2 ай бұрын

EXPEDITIOUSLY manz would've been immediately single

@atlantasfaithsmom 2 ай бұрын

He was afraid she would talk to the ex and discover stuff. It could have just been shame of failure. I'm not proud to disclose my marriages either....

@unicoh972 2 ай бұрын

Not disclosing this information would’ve been a deal breaker for me once I found out!

@aprilm4423 2 ай бұрын

I think I would've taken off once I found that out. Technically, his omission was fraud. I would've given dude his freedom; but that's just me.

@Nayahpooh012 2 ай бұрын

@@atlantasfaithsmomno excuse

@Nessc8105 2 ай бұрын

This is so AWESOME! Iyanla is doing a great work!! Many blessings to her and this couple 🫶🫶🫶

@IsabelleIze 2 ай бұрын

How many. How many time do i hear about SA. How many times . This needs to stop. This needs to stop.

@jesseniavargas6969 26 күн бұрын

🙏🏻I agree with you 100% what also needs to stop is victims called LIARS & is why healing is so rare.💔

@IsabelleIze 26 күн бұрын

@jesseniavargas6969 I saw yesterday a man that was facing 20 years for meth . 10 for sl on his child I was furious. If you want to hurt you. More power to you. If you want to hurt an enf... now it's a problem for me. And you get less for sl and more for meth . Already a big problem.

@jesseniavargas6969 26 күн бұрын

@@IsabelleIze AMEN👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@sylviaomondi2808 2 ай бұрын

You can see that they truly love each other..right from the beginning, its just that life happened on them from childhood. 😢i pray they receive their healing right from each other arms.

@octoberjohnson9939 2 ай бұрын

The willingness to Forgive on both sides was very touching.

@jackychela4638 2 ай бұрын

Thankyou Own network for uploading keep them flowing... watching from Kenya 🇰🇪 and learning alot.😊 Please upload fiancee or family episode as well

@nyamwayamunthali9252 2 ай бұрын

Sis, I am using her tactics here in Zambia

@nyangimagathoni7877 2 ай бұрын

She's helped me do my work and I continue doing it.

@susanwanjohi7887 2 ай бұрын

Following her all through from Kenya too , family secrets.

@eurithapool900 2 ай бұрын

I saw the love in both their eyes and face. What trusting eachother can change in a person. Love you Iyanla. Thank you for sharing this with us ❤ From Suriname 🇸🇷

@leviticusH 2 ай бұрын

This Lady(Iylanla) is really anointed at what she does

@PinkClouds3835 Ай бұрын

Yes! Schooling might help, but this is not it! It's beyond any classroom or lecture hall. This is a gift! If it was schooling, then all therapists, psychologists, etc, would be doing these healing turnarounds instead of years upon years office visits. 😢

@leviticusH Ай бұрын

@@PinkClouds3835 Exactly!!!

@NSmith-qn2sb Ай бұрын

😂

@chelseahealingtoheal 2 ай бұрын

Man! The difference in their being is visible! They went from looking drained and dull to a spark being back in their eyes and love on their faces ❤ I love Iyanla! She just knows how to help people dramatically

@skinnydee1886 2 ай бұрын

Iyanla is a wonderful woman! May God bless her🙏 May God also heal and bless this lovely couple 🙏

@Rebecca-hc5ju 2 ай бұрын

Am I first?!! Oh my goodness!👏💫💞 I *love* Iyanla so much!! Thank you @OWN for posting this!🎉🎊💜💞💫👏👏

@BRIDGETUHMYEAH 2 ай бұрын

Iyanla is a true empath. She’s able to read people and adjust her approach to them in a way they they will be able to recieve it almost instantly after meeting them.

@user-xn1ux1tk5g 2 ай бұрын

I wouldn't like Iyanla either she be cracking the whip for ya healing lollll :)

@andronikewells5210 2 ай бұрын

So lovely I wish I knew you in my bad marriage I no longer have a husband, but I am so happy watching you help other marriages to be hole again. God bless you, my dear you are the best.🙏🏽❤️

@Leniloveyeshua3483 2 ай бұрын

IYANLA may God keep you here for 1000 years more. Oh God i have no words to define how special you are. God bless you and protected you always.

@monicagaston3248 2 ай бұрын

This was beautiful. Yes Iyanla ❤

@AllThingsSoul 13 күн бұрын

Iyanla is just beautiful, inside and out! She wears the most beautiful clothes. I pray that Iyanla finds a husband who gives her all the love she gives to people.

@atlantasfaithsmom 2 ай бұрын

Dang. The staff should have had the bed made, flowers out, candles on! C'mon OWN! She's there with a fresh makeover making up a bed...Maybe they thought that would turn them on?😂

@brandyyolidio4213 2 ай бұрын

They both seem like loving people, she's pretty and he seems kind, prayers things work out for the best ❤❤

@emesmith7799 2 ай бұрын

Iyanla Vanzant, an amazing human being, a healer, thank you my dear sis. Although I have never had therapy in my life, anytime I watch her show, I feel like I went to a therapy session. Ms. Vanzant, you are truly an inspiration. Thank you so very much!❤❤❤😊

@ericaaubie860 23 күн бұрын

If a partner cheats you decide whether you forgive, and move on. But, to me it is a hard thing to forgive; and to trust after.

@ManeyMane18 12 күн бұрын

The pattern is very clear with these families…

@LifeIsGood49 2 ай бұрын

She doesnt trust him, bcoz she had not also dealt with the mistrust that often grows from sexual abuse. Its pathological mistrust that needs healing, before thinking u would be able to trust another person.

@HobbsHeartHome 29 күн бұрын

Having 4 boys I appreciated the husband opening up about his S abuse. Lord!! Help Us!! We def need harsher punishment for these monsters that take advantage of kids

@junewambui9293 Ай бұрын

People go through so much damn😭

@traceyhenton4261 2 ай бұрын

I can relate to her and so many other women can relate too. Lord Bless US on being heal.....

@kathiepg6497 2 ай бұрын

I hope this couple made it....

@ariellemayaali 2 ай бұрын

aww iyanla holding the puppy lol

@leaj3359 2 ай бұрын

Ikr haha 😂❤

@Cece2u 2 ай бұрын

Dang iyanla you talking to her or me????? 😂

@MarryOnChain Ай бұрын

Marriage is a beautiful union of two souls, a promise of love and commitment. A wedding is a celebration of this union, a joyful occasion where families and friends come together to witness and support the couple's journey ahead. It marks the beginning of a new chapter filled with love and happiness.

@enniechisha6149 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing these videos. I have been learning alot from them❤ bless you

@a.z.9957 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for the Episode ❤

@bernicerogo9190 2 ай бұрын

Woow..I feel refreshed and hopeful after watching this episode ❤This was soo beautiful and I loved how it ended.

@elaineblair5595 2 ай бұрын

Forgiveness is so important to change and move forward. Great job and Continued Blessings to the host and this couple ❤❤

@musiqchild007 2 ай бұрын

I loved this episode!

@larhondamickles3976 2 ай бұрын

Tiffany definitely puts her feelings first with everything.

@alexandramuradas4619 Ай бұрын

Excellent show 🎉 God bless you. A great psychologist. I love the activity with the leaves and he looks that he is a great man. All the best. X

@zeegibbs3019 2 ай бұрын

Wow. Just amazing

@carriemtsh9648 15 күн бұрын

Iyanla’s wisdom is outstanding , she is an icon ❤

@latoyas191 25 күн бұрын

Beautiful episode

@lynncarlson1543 Ай бұрын

This was a very Beautiful Episode ❤

@ENTme 2 ай бұрын

This was a great episode! ❤

@charlottewest1799 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful! 😍 Beautiful story. 🫶🏾🌸💯

@esnartnamukonda7564 2 ай бұрын

The ending was so beautiful 😍, I hope they continue working on themselves and their love together ❤

@pattisutton4048 Ай бұрын

It's called present, honest, and accountable....

@joanfolds476 21 күн бұрын

OMG! There is so much we do to make ourselves feel better. Objects are supposed to be used, not people. When we have the need to use people to feel better about ourselves, we don't really matter to ourselves.🤔

@vivianaqyarko6777 2 ай бұрын

simply powerful such a lovely couple wishing them all the best for the future iyanla is the best god bless you

@DonnaHall8117 Ай бұрын

Awesome 😎 Amazing Ending 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Wowzer. Love it. From Trauma to Triumph ❤

@millicentmotheogane7842 2 ай бұрын

This was the best ❤❤

@Happey67 2 ай бұрын

Real discussion!

@lexielove2268 10 күн бұрын

That tiger comparison was powerful.

@ADANINADIA Ай бұрын

Beautiful simply beautiful ❤ thanks Iyanla

@millicentmotheogane7842 2 ай бұрын

I'm still laughing, the end finished me, Gen needs a picture 😂😂😂

@onlyonSiMPLE 2 ай бұрын

this was 11 yearss ago but im so happy for them!

@awillart3685 2 ай бұрын

We always have to look inside the self to move forward and upward in lifes relationships

@MsAfrica-hj3oo 2 ай бұрын

Such a beautiful couple,,,may God bless you

@marygreen8751 2 ай бұрын

She is a blessing to those people .thank Goð for Iyanla

@sbusisonhlengethwa6801 Ай бұрын

Most people who were violated in their childhood turn to have dysfunctional lives and relationship. Really sad...

@Kenya-fh9kp Ай бұрын

Such a beautiful Reunion

@dolled-upjen3606 2 ай бұрын

This was a good episode

@tiaratauaese6197 16 күн бұрын

They still need to be wearing their hard hats.

@tawonaross 2 ай бұрын

So do we just brush over that he cheated on her?

@softbutterfly_xoxo 2 ай бұрын

They didn't, Iyanla addressed it. Besides, it happened years ago and they still stayed together despite it.

@thejake8099 2 ай бұрын

It's even talked about starting at 0:24 promo

@adriannepearson2654 2 ай бұрын

It was addressed. It was a symptom of a bigger problem. They addressed the actual problem without shaming him for his mistakes

@ariellemayaali 2 ай бұрын

did you not watch the same video? 🧐

@softbutterfly_xoxo 2 ай бұрын

@@ariellemayaali that's what I'm thinking

@Texas.Mediator 2 ай бұрын

There are a lot of Tiffany’s and Nicks out here. I love you Iyanla. I wish I could email you.

@jenniferespute1370 2 ай бұрын

Good luck guys . I'm so happy for you. ❤❤🇯🇲🇯🇲

@kimtolliver8988 Ай бұрын

The tiger training move is wild!😂😂

@ayandakhumalo8692 2 ай бұрын

Oh maaaaan! This is deep

@teresavict1831 25 күн бұрын

Through all the struggles they haven't given up on each other i hope they can work things out.

@cotton-xb1xp 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful ❤ They are a beautiful couple. Happy 5th. Anniversary ❤ May God bless your marriage. God bless Iyanla❤😊

@Lulu.999 Ай бұрын

Wow, the (tiger) part!!!! She is sooooo BRILLIANT!!!! (22.45)

@evakimararungu3456 2 ай бұрын

Iyanla you are amazing ❤❤

@LifeIsGood49 2 ай бұрын

Iyanla better allow a client cry all out, before saying "stop"!!!

@camdenhunt7565 2 ай бұрын

She told her to stop and take a breath and she did that so Tiffany wouldn't become triggered and start to disassociate. Talking about child sa abuse can be horrifying.

@LIfewithlyn1 Ай бұрын

God bless this woman❤

@whinnie7529 2 ай бұрын

I think they are much better but I still feel like they love each other but don't want to truly be together.

@someonerandom8129 Ай бұрын

Great 😢😢😭😭😭😭😭

@deniesedennis6126 2 ай бұрын

I luv how she does her promps

@jayflax Ай бұрын

I need a update ❤

@alisha4635 2 ай бұрын

Her laugh kills me lol

@palesahlalele1650 23 күн бұрын

Lol its evil-ish

@herdagriffin1220 2 ай бұрын

Its sad,that both of them met each other,and both have all that trauma that happened to them when they was young.if they was truthfull and talk about all this during their courtship.the marige would of been ok.too many secrets.

@donnalewis9951 2 ай бұрын

I don't believe Iyanla should stop her from getting her story out

@sydneyvictoria1902 13 күн бұрын

@donnalewis9951 It's not that I dont think Iyanla wants her to stop her from telling her story period, but to stop telling the story when there's a manipulative motive behind sharing it. As mentioned in the end, she used other peoples sorrow and pity to make herself feel better. It's not malicious but it's still manipulative. She had a problem of putting her feelings and experience above others because she had a sad upbringing; no one is taking that away from her, but she is taking away other peoples feelings and experiences by using it to overshadow what they're going through.