Iyanla: Fix My Broken Mom | Full Episode | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN
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4 жыл бұрынIyanla travels to Birmingham, Alabama, to help two sisters desperate to repair the broken relationship with their mother. For more on #FIXMYLIFE, visit WatchOWN.tv/Iyanla
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@brenale_heartsJesus 4 жыл бұрын
When the youngest said that she was afraid to have children because she thought she would do the same to her babies 😭😭😭 Jesus
@cinemeleon2808 4 жыл бұрын
GIRL! Broke me down.
@arleedennis791 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheNinnyfee wow I have never thought of that.
@yvonneward740 3 жыл бұрын
Kick her out on the streets. Let her go and find the men she allowed to abuse you take care of her. Let her go to a shelter or live on the street. It is not your responsibility. She needs to find her way like her daughters did ALONE.
@TheLoveweaver 3 жыл бұрын
I never had children because of that. I would never want a child to feel like that.
@purplephoenix81 3 жыл бұрын
For years I prayed not to have any children. When I got pregnant, I cried uncontrollably because I was terrified to be my mother. Today, I'm raising a smart, beautiful little girl, and while I'm not perfect, I'm sure I'm nothing like my mother.
@ashleimichael562 4 жыл бұрын
" I don't want my mother in my house or around my children" ... Lord please send a covering over her. I felt that in my spirit.
@daniellemccarter5706 4 жыл бұрын
I said the same thing and feel the same way it’s a horrible thing.
@91GKN 4 жыл бұрын
I don't have children yet, but I feel the same way!
@rijoyce8996 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t have children of my own yet, and I feel this way with my father. I’m protecting my PEACE. 💯
@Luckie382 4 жыл бұрын
Do u mean a covering over the mom or daughter? Hope covering for mom & daughters.
@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 4 жыл бұрын
Same! All that love couldn’t take away her spanking me!
@michellem2524 4 жыл бұрын
That daughters cry was like a gut punch 😔😨
@creamekay 4 жыл бұрын
It was
@nikradik 4 жыл бұрын
Yeeeesss omg
@vw1649 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, it was....It brought tears to my eyes.
@toniiblack7014 4 жыл бұрын
It broke me out in tears... I had tears I didnt think were possible to have. I've been abused by my mom..but I didnt realise it was abuse untill I was 21...I'm 24. Iyanla is the first person to break me down...despite being on TV. We all need somone like Iyanla to hold us. If nothing else. We just want to be held
@estieeu2364 4 жыл бұрын
@@toniiblack7014 It's good to let out the tears and frustration. Hope you are on your way to a full recovery❤
@daisyspa34 4 жыл бұрын
This woman is an instrument of God to heal people.
@inacook2285 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@ramonachaney4855 4 жыл бұрын
Indeed she is. May God is keep her in perfect harmony with her gift.
@rubyredruby1305 4 жыл бұрын
I have heard that she was not sent from God .....not sure yet in my eyes seems she is tho !
@ramonachaney4855 4 жыл бұрын
@@rubyredruby1305 as a believer , we should all be vessels to carry out his word. She has what God gave her, gifts. I have a gift of speaking to women. I was so scared to walk in it but couldn't deny it because of the women that sought me out by word of mouth. I can't say she's called or not..she knows though. You can not escape it. We have to embrace it. I honestly do understand what you said.
@BrandonlLuster 4 жыл бұрын
@@rubyredruby1305 you've heard that from who?
@Authenticcomedy2512 4 жыл бұрын
I heal from watching Iyanla, she’s a blessing to us😘
@mzTayTay17 4 жыл бұрын
NkatikanoTv I healed from another show she had I think it was in 2005-2006. It was called Starting Over, it was her n two or three other therapist💯💯💯🥂
@Authenticcomedy2512 4 жыл бұрын
FORGIVENESS ISFREEDOM that’s good to hear love💕
@OWN 4 жыл бұрын
She really is amazing! If you found this inspiring, you can find more of Fix My Life here: bit.ly/rtu85rd OWN ~ Caitlin
@DomDom0990 4 жыл бұрын
NkatikanoTv She truly is. ❤️
@plpblack 4 жыл бұрын
NkatikanoTv #metoo 🙏🏾
@jasminepruitt9644 4 жыл бұрын
When Kim cried in Iyanla’s arms I felt that cry.. it’s gut wrenching 😭😭😭
@shantawashington6420 4 жыл бұрын
Tore me all the way up! 😭😭
@lindseyhobson4273 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. I felt it also. 😭
@JohnsonKayla12 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah my eyes welled up even though I hate crying... couldn’t help it
@ruthiemartinez5552 4 жыл бұрын
Girllllllll yesssss. I cried every time the Daughters cried. I felt ALL their pain. (My mom was the same when it came to men).😭😭😭😭😭😭
@sharonwilchcombe9801 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jesus, that's one
@AuthorLHollingsworth 4 жыл бұрын
Generational Curses are real, y'all. As a race, we got to get therapy. Pray none stop of the many pains that hunt us. Lord, bless this family. Amen!
@Tlove201 4 жыл бұрын
Yes it is. We have to pray and get them broken off us! And therapy is where the healing starts.
@fashamoore9322 4 жыл бұрын
@Queen Mercy, in all respect, call it what you want - rather it is generational curses, intergenerational abuse, selfishness, pride, et cetera... Whatever the case may be, it is time for "all" people to heal, forgive, accept responsibility, incorporate therapy, & keep God as the Head of our lives. The healing starts now! It is up to each one of us! Much love & peace! ✌💛✌
@inacook2285 4 жыл бұрын
@Queen Mercy I'm sorry but this IS true...It's not as though there were counselors and therapists lined up to help these people to mentally and emotionally transition away from slavery. Can you imagine being born into an environment that completely reinforces the idea that you and everyone that looks like you are less than human and deserve nothing but to be used like an animal? How does one's mind psychologically process the idea that you are inherently less than another? How does one psychologically reconcile this to themselves? For their entire lifetime and for generations after? Can you imagine ANY group of people going through that sick nightmare and emerging unscathed?
@rachelle6555 4 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@rachelle6555 4 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly 😔
@mslashay35 4 жыл бұрын
So many adults have UNCHECKED TRAUMA and PISS PO childhoods. Hurt people, hurt people. A lot of people need therapy.
@dj5180 4 жыл бұрын
mslashay35 hurt people either hurt people or allow others to hurt them
@sketchpadangel 4 жыл бұрын
mslashay35 it’s not an excuse to be a bad parent. You can deal with trauma and issue without having kids.
@nikradik 4 жыл бұрын
I agree..alot of adults are torn and never dealt with it
@theuglybeing4673 3 жыл бұрын
No! That doesn't excuse their bad behavior! They all know what they did is wrong!
@theuglybeing4673 3 жыл бұрын
Desiree Desiree no. I've been hurt but I never allowed it and defend myself.
@evawambani7992 4 жыл бұрын
Iyanla breaks you down to pieces then shows you how to put yourself back together.
@RaulGonzalez-xt1kx 4 жыл бұрын
You are beatiful lady l love youre last wambani
@lsantiful1 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry her mother was abused but her being abused is no justification to allow it to happen to her own daughters. I was molested by my brother and abused by my mother but NO ONE HAS EVER ABUSED my 27 yr old son...Because being his mother and a victim, no survivor, of abuse, I refused to let anyone near him long enough to even think of forming a thought about doing something inappropriate to him. I vowed to love my son beyond measure and to this day I do and he is doing Wonderful. Our relationship is sooo Awesome. It is a choice how you treat people and because of the abuse I endured, I vowed to never let my son feel unloved Period!!!!
@tamlaparris-ba5402 4 жыл бұрын
Isantiful, I am so proud of what you achieved despite what you suffered as a child. You are an extraordinary woman.
@msthrillingcommentary1343 4 жыл бұрын
lsantiful1 Reading your comment sent chills down my spine. Your story resonates with me, to my soul. My kids are very young & I’m afraid I will parent them from fear and unresolved anger. You have inspired me today.
@notjordinary 4 жыл бұрын
Your strength has propelled you in this direction through grace and mercy. You are covered and your son was able to have a positive life
@BayouKitchenGuy 4 жыл бұрын
Because you are not selfish.. As a parent the only job u have is to protect your children and provide. If you can't do that u have failed. I know plenty of women that was abused as a child. And they didn't allow a man to come in and hurt their child.
@bahachick242 4 жыл бұрын
Yesssss Amen!!! So happy that you and your son have an amazing relationship. Breaking curses.
@missmontana2184 4 жыл бұрын
We must protect Queen Mother Iyanla at all costs
@CamsPurpleCorner 4 жыл бұрын
YESSSSSS!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
@redevous 4 жыл бұрын
Millie C yes
@queenbutterfly4888 4 жыл бұрын
nonsense
@cameeldavis487 4 жыл бұрын
Yes we must she is here to help us heal.
@PalinLW 4 жыл бұрын
I always ask who will her mantle be passed to ...
@omarlynda 4 жыл бұрын
This, unfortunately, was my reality... being raised by a mother who was emotionally unavailable. There is so much healing in forgiveness and compassion... Those that know, do better... My heart goes out to all those who have experienced this form of intergenerational abuse, we owe it to ourselves and our future offspring to do the work and break the cycle
@mzTayTay17 4 жыл бұрын
lyndeeeeee I agree💯💯🥂
@nixxb449 4 жыл бұрын
@lyndeeeeee sending you lots of love, health and strength Sis xxx
@omarlynda 4 жыл бұрын
@@nixxb449 Thank you wonderful and right back at you too :) xx
@zimflame2368 4 жыл бұрын
Broken mom's never know how to take care of kids
@johnnyleopard2668 4 жыл бұрын
Was mine too. #wereinthistogether
@ceebee8255 4 жыл бұрын
12:31 when Iyanla gave her permission to cry .... my heart is so broken. I can hear her pain.
@ObviouslyTatiana 4 жыл бұрын
Cee Bee how do you give permission to cry 😢 sometimes Iyanlas methods irritate me
@penelopeb1370 4 жыл бұрын
Cee Bee, my earliest memories of being hurt by family (because family are the first teachers) and me trying to communicate it to my mother got the response of "You cry too easily and too much. You need to stop crying so much.". Not having permission to express hurt and pain can be torturous. (And when the other daughter began to cry at about 18:30 was hard to hear for me too.)
@arleedennis791 3 жыл бұрын
@@ObviouslyTatiana its about letting someone know this is a safe place for them to feel comfortable to be emotional. Dont be so literal.
@raissa4260 4 жыл бұрын
I thank God for my mother. She is a single mother and never ever did my sister and i feel abandoned or side lined. Shes a wonderful mother. Praise God. Thank God for my grand parents who were our backbones back then.
@summerflower4058 4 жыл бұрын
I think I died emotionally at least 3 times while watching this 🥺 I hope they found healing at the end 🙏🏽❤️
@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris9623 4 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. I felt for everyone individually and collectively. 😪
@rachelsweets 4 жыл бұрын
😍
@kiaramarshall08 4 жыл бұрын
Girl I'm crying too. Ain't talked to my mama since 2017 or seen her. Wish she would listen to me like this. That mess really hurts so many of us women
@amypein215 4 жыл бұрын
Same here 😭😭😭
@audfosutv2500 4 жыл бұрын
Those girls, my heart breaks for them. I wish them nothing but blessings moving forward.
@Couture426 4 жыл бұрын
This was one of the most intense episodes 😢
@sheeshneesh 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, not even closeeee to some of the other episodes I’ve seen
@Mrs.Adrian 2 ай бұрын
@@sheeshneeshyeah like the woman whose husband moved the entire family in and their newborn baby died. That was a hard episode to get through
@blackcosmos 3 жыл бұрын
"When a woman puts her belly on mother Earth she's been nurtured by the greatest mother of all" Sista Iyanla is the truth! 😭😭
@aronelrealtygroup2997 4 жыл бұрын
The saddest part is to hear a mother say I don't remember .
@austinrichards1740 4 жыл бұрын
My mother says that all the time
@JC-gq2lo 3 жыл бұрын
@@austinrichards1740 they remember they just ashamed about it
@austinrichards1740 3 жыл бұрын
J C thank you for your support you should text me
@JC-gq2lo 3 жыл бұрын
@@austinrichards1740 I came to peace with it years ago💜
@dollishnenaa 2 ай бұрын
She claimed she didn’t “remember” but can remember her trauma at 8 years old. Interesting.
@marymcdaniel8999 4 жыл бұрын
I don't respect any woman who allows abusers, especially male abusers, to violate their children.
@cressapellom4205 3 жыл бұрын
Why especially male abusers? what a strange thing to say.
@Jo-annSamurai3069 3 жыл бұрын
I agree but this woman was being abused also. I'm not giving her a free pass. She didn't have the tools to protect them. Some male predators seek out single mothers because they are vulnerable and alone.
@sleo7781 3 жыл бұрын
Mary McDaniel baby hurt people hurt people!!
@marymcdaniel8999 3 жыл бұрын
@@cressapellom4205 Because some of those men target single mothers...it happens more than some people want to admit.
@marymcdaniel8999 3 жыл бұрын
@@sleo7781 Ummm nawww please stop.
@moonchild2478 4 жыл бұрын
Breaking a generational curse🙌🏾
@TW-mg3ld 4 жыл бұрын
Black women won't stop sleeping with losers that abuse their children
@fashamoore9322 4 жыл бұрын
@@TW-mg3ld, I believe you meant all women, not just black women! I understand your point...
@gigigonzalez8569 4 жыл бұрын
It's not generational curse, choices one can break the cycle you live you learn from it
@moonchild2478 4 жыл бұрын
Gigi Gonzalez if that’s your definition of breaking cycles than let that be yours. I said what I said 🤷🏽♀️
@letsdothis3332 4 жыл бұрын
Yes beloved.
@mercedeguillory1770 4 жыл бұрын
There is a thin line between excuses and reasons. Listening to the mother it’s hard to decipher.
@kawesome1970 4 жыл бұрын
Mercede Guillory yes!
@mayakelly3457 4 жыл бұрын
A mother is just a woman. A woman. A human. We all are full of our crap. It doesn’t excuse what she did - it simply explains it. We attach too much to “mother” - she can only be who she knows herself to be & if she doesn’t who she is - she can be told who she is by those men etc.
@tamlaparris-ba5402 4 жыл бұрын
@@mayakelly3457 what you said is on point. What a beautiful mind
@mayakelly3457 4 жыл бұрын
Tamla Parris-Ba so kind. thank you 💕💕
@sketchpadangel 4 жыл бұрын
MAYA KELLY we don’t attach enough to Mother. Fix your crap before having kids. The kids don’t ask to be here. Children don’t just “happen”.
@faithwalkz 4 жыл бұрын
The mother's numbness with the honey bun situation bothers me.
@ThePecanTan 2 ай бұрын
No emotion at all...
@cedricworthy6727 2 ай бұрын
@@ThePecanTan makes me cry
@aidahm8275 4 жыл бұрын
The daughters crying was so haunting full of raw pain
@arnetrahughes2277 4 жыл бұрын
She knows who that child's daddy is!
@aura5944 4 жыл бұрын
Probably lives near by.
@1Mystn 4 жыл бұрын
oh, were you there?
@amchetoungahane6320 3 жыл бұрын
@@1Mystn i wonder
@nbbim2012 Ай бұрын
Probably an older married man -- that's usually the case in scenarios like this. When the men are single at the time of conception the mothers disclose
@user-jd29ac6sdw 4 жыл бұрын
This is so heartbroken and it brings tears to my eyes = To grow up without the love and support from your Mother = I give those two daughters credit for reaching out to get help and to heal years of pain = I pray that all of them finds peace for a new beginning = When you forgive it's one of the most peaceful feelings
@MariePriss 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my god ! 😳 when they laid their bellies on the ground ! I’ve done that so many times and it made me feel so much better. I’ve ran out the house and literally laid on the ground crying 🥺 who would’ve known .. Iyanla is amazing !!
@lollipop1316 4 жыл бұрын
I wanted to try that , maybe I’ll feel so much better
@MariePriss 4 жыл бұрын
Pretty Cherry Do it, it helps. I remember getting some really bad news, and just breaking down. I was in shock just hysterical. Ran out, no shoes, cried and just laid there on the ground.
@toyunpredictablegemini 4 жыл бұрын
Omg this was so heartbreaking I couldn't stop crying for the daughters & the mom....I truly hope they work through everything & be that happy family they all deserve to have
@rayyj410 4 жыл бұрын
This is therapeutic to me. I can't afford a therapist right now so I watch the show and I try to learn how to break my own generational curses. Even though I have a mother who would never admit to any wrongdoing at this point I have to heal myself..
@goodlife8044 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Katlady001 3 жыл бұрын
You all are already heroes for even recognizing this and wanting to heal yourselves. 😘😘😘
@Smittyworld165 2 ай бұрын
Same lol
@ebonywahine 4 жыл бұрын
The "sins of the parents down to 7 generations"... and yet deep healing is possible with the right time space intention and teacher.
@ivyvoltage 4 жыл бұрын
Sure, I guess I'll cry today
@jessicaaudate 4 жыл бұрын
Okay! All this stuff I've been holding in because of this shutdown is coming out!
@TheShaws22 4 жыл бұрын
Right, I just cried like a baby😭
@riakohee 4 жыл бұрын
honestly i always cry at these😭😭
@rainerwells1573 4 жыл бұрын
📠
@MrsMabusu 4 жыл бұрын
You need a box of tissues before you watch this episode! I have cried and felt their pain
@rebirthed1274 4 жыл бұрын
My mom chased me out of the house at 19,at 12 midnight,threw my clothes out in the road and mind you we lived in a notorious neighbourhood...REASON: I came from Varsity hungry at 22h30,after cabing home(although we had 3 cars in the house but she told my stepfather not to drop or pick me up),so,I was hungry and I wanted to eat. After taking food,she yelled at me coz nobody should eat till my stepfather comes home(who is always coming as late as 12midnight or 1 am)....my price was being thrown food at,kicked out ...32 years later, am still healing from the emotional neglect,abuse and trauma,yet she behaves like nothing happened....am a trauma breaker,I never want to be like her to my future kids,hence,am willing to heal in Jesus name.
@theiswithin3649 3 жыл бұрын
Wauw I'm sorry that this happened to you😔
@erinjohnson4273 2 ай бұрын
My heart breaks for you! I pray for your healing
@alisayoung Ай бұрын
So sorry for you my dear
@AmyLou733 4 жыл бұрын
Iyanla does what she does with so much love in her heart. She uses her whole self to make someone feel her love. You can hear it in her voice, and see it in the way she uses healing touch. She is a treasure.
@alkalinelifestyle638 4 жыл бұрын
The daughters are SOOO beautiful especially stripe tee with her big brown 🌟 stary eyes 👀
@TW-mg3ld 4 жыл бұрын
Yes they are
@lesliehubbard6341 3 жыл бұрын
Both of them are Beautiful very,Beautiful
@MsJae-qk2tw 4 жыл бұрын
I wish Mrs. Iyanla would Mentor and counsel me. I need her 💔
@xoxomaniiraelle 3 жыл бұрын
Toya J Bae same sis same
@MommihasSol Ай бұрын
She has a podcast called the R Spot!! It’s great!
@khanyisantanda 4 жыл бұрын
This is too real and too painful for me, if anyone needs me I will be under my blanket in the corner watching sponge Bob😭😭😭
@rc6449 4 жыл бұрын
Take care of yourself. You’re not alone. This is a tough one.
@kikirolle7091 4 жыл бұрын
Yes we all are going through this, your not alone. Please stay strong.
@nihoward6219 4 жыл бұрын
The situation is sad but your response is funny.
@memyselfi1828 4 жыл бұрын
@@nihoward6219 Right! I actually giggled through my tears.
@suberinacooperjohnson6544 4 жыл бұрын
I.knowthats right
@Psnatiraxoxo 4 жыл бұрын
Whew that cry in the heartbreak exercise, pierced my soul.
@rosalynngray6919 4 жыл бұрын
I Thank God for the loving parents I have ❤️
@PranaChi369 4 жыл бұрын
Be very thankful💜
@aaliyahlunan876 4 жыл бұрын
Please do
@trinidadianbeauty1 4 жыл бұрын
U better
@Katlady001 3 жыл бұрын
Me too and I pray for others to gain the same.
@MaxCharpentier 4 жыл бұрын
6:30 NO! You don't lie on your children and let someone else abuse your children 😡
@chillinandchattingwithmsne8826 2 ай бұрын
I’m pissed too ugh
@shalandacampbell7314 4 жыл бұрын
Because of how my mother verbally and emotionally abused me as a child and into adulthood, I refuse to allow my boys around ANYONE without me, their dad, or my sister present. I trust very few people with my boys because as a mommy, it's my duty and honor to love and protect my boys.
@Angela-ne9cy 4 жыл бұрын
Bless Iyanla - my mother did the same. Divorced my dad when I was 9 years old and 3 husbands after that. She always bent to their will, including abusing us. I chose not to have children because I feared ever falling into that pattern. Just watching this episode feels healing.
@mzTayTay17 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite episodes because I grew up with a mother n a auntie just like her🤔 plus it shows me how much I have healed💯💯💯🥂
@JudionSmith 4 жыл бұрын
With my desire to become a therapist, I am bless to have met Iyanla and Spirit through this medium. I feel more fulfil when I help people emotionally. I love to use my words to uplift people. Pull people out of a place of pain's captivity. I want people to heal and be free. Pain is detrimental to us all. Stay bless everyone🙏🏽💛.
@Woundedbuterflynj 4 жыл бұрын
This makes me cry so much because I went through sexual abuse at the hands of my mothers ex husband who also happens to be my little brothers father every time I look at my brother I see his father and it’s makes me not want to be around him and my mother dances around it but never outwardly addressed the elephant in the room , I’m still dealing with my own trauma in therapy !
@april_dawn 4 жыл бұрын
Riareality Tv Sorry to hear that...Praying for you 🙏🏽✨🌸
@theartistmind7028 4 жыл бұрын
🙏💔🙏🙏🙏🙏
@Woundedbuterflynj 4 жыл бұрын
April Dawn thank you so much
@april_dawn 4 жыл бұрын
Riareality Tv You’re very welcome ☺️
@lunaceline1886 4 жыл бұрын
Bless you ❤️ truly and sincerely. No child should ever.
@vanessavargas3687 4 жыл бұрын
When you have children, THEY ALWAYS COME FIRST🙏🏻💜.....which is exactly why I don’t have children😆 But I am woman enough to say that children are not for me, but if I did have children, I know they would have to come first!!
@sosaimblessed7230 4 жыл бұрын
Vanessa Vargas Yes they always come first.
@jeanineruggs7301 4 жыл бұрын
use wisdom don't judge
@vanessavargas3687 4 жыл бұрын
Jeanine Ruggs I am going to judge her a bit... extremely broken people should not have children, until they have healed within themselves 🤷🏼♀️. There are too many parents trying fulfill selfish desires after they have children, and that boat has somewhat sailed 🚣♀️
@jeanineruggs7301 4 жыл бұрын
ok almighty.....watch again, than your heart will see....
@vanessavargas3687 4 жыл бұрын
Jeanine Ruggs nothing I’ve said is offensive..and I’ve seen this episode multiple times...I said what I said😏
@gloryolomi7 4 жыл бұрын
Finally full episodes..... 😍😍😍. Thank you own
@kawesome1970 4 жыл бұрын
I wonder what was going through the daughters mind when the mom confessed she has NO idea who her dad is. My heart really broke for her in that moment 😞
@mopowresp1 4 жыл бұрын
That's my life everyday.
@nreynolds75243 4 жыл бұрын
My cousin went thru this her whole life until she died at 47. She kept asking her biological mother who was her father. The mother would never tell her. She probably didn't know. I saw how it affected her.
@Tiffany-hj8cf 4 жыл бұрын
She let a man beat her baby over a honey bun.. I rather be single then sacrifice my children for a man. I could never even leave my children around a man to many what if’s..
@lindaniral 4 жыл бұрын
This Episode tore me tf up!!!😭😭😭😭😞 I had to pause mutiple times....I had never seen the whole Episode...so watch that years later is a blessing!!!! I hope the Family is doing well!!🙏🏾 I wish them nothing but the Best!!💖💖💖
@Simplee_Shan 4 жыл бұрын
I know for me she would not be living with me.
@dj5180 4 жыл бұрын
Shannon Laws sis would’ve been on the streets begging for bread 😭
@heartcandy1588 4 жыл бұрын
four babie same
@sinalogqunu9232 4 жыл бұрын
Kim and Annette's cries, my God they hurt! But I know that gut wrenching cries free your spirit, they'll heal. ❤️
@c.misztur7358 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE how when a guest gets in touch with a deep pain and speaks it out loud , iyanla says with such compassion: yeah , yeah. She’s so affirming
@2436golden 4 жыл бұрын
Oh Iyanla, Iyanla, every time I watch your program I learn something about myself.
@victoriapatterson5170 4 жыл бұрын
It's sad for theses two ladies
@shereekern6801 3 жыл бұрын
The Iyanlas and the Lynn Tolers of the world are golden blessing us with what God blessed them with.
@TimaYT362 4 жыл бұрын
Wow this was a hard one 😔
@Ronji_health_peeps 4 жыл бұрын
Yes it is. Watching it just now
@tinishaoliver3374 4 жыл бұрын
She is the reason why I mentor young until this day. I truly admire this woman ❤️
@mariah8400 4 жыл бұрын
When the older daughter cried it break my heart. You could hear her pain.
@ABRASILERA17 4 жыл бұрын
The power and pattern of men’s use of us is appalling
@sherrisolomon8673 4 жыл бұрын
Daniela Galdino-Jolly, trust you have Single Dad's who let women move in a mistreat their kids too esp the daughters.
@annabanna1873 3 жыл бұрын
@@sherrisolomon8673 you are right. I've seen a guy let his girlfriend beat up his 13 yo daughter in a parking lot in front of the grocery store.
@shivanthikulasingham6131 4 жыл бұрын
This episode was therapeutic for me. I cried with the two girls and released the pain I hold in my heart over the mother I don't have. My mother and I do not have a relationship. The "Mother Wound" is devastating. Thank you for uploading this (full) episode. I consider it a blessing to be able to watch this. Thank you to Iyanla for the work she does. And thank you to the three women here who had the courage to do this show. I admire and respect you for helping so many of us out here. We share your pain and story.
@sammi8211 4 жыл бұрын
Yes own uploader i could re watch all of Miss Iyanla's shows.
@afunlivelylife 2 ай бұрын
That cry from Kim. Rocked me.
@memyselfi1828 4 жыл бұрын
Every time that daughter cries out my heart shatters.
@chubbytummymafia 4 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't move someone that abused me into my home with my children.
@Mariefth 2 ай бұрын
Me too
@hookedonmarley5917 4 жыл бұрын
Iyanla is a woman that saves lives. I would love to be her understudy. Just like her I had to break myself down to build myself up and I did it with my mother. I didn't go through this exact situation but I was emotionally neglected at times. It's heart warming to know all three woman do want to fix the issue and become one again.
@pinklady4772 4 жыл бұрын
The silence is the killer.
@tishacurtis82 4 жыл бұрын
I feel the daughters pain it’s so hard when the pain is inflicted by your mother the first women you look up to as a little girl and after going through that pain you have to try to find forgiveness💔💔
@user-gd5tq7df8h 4 жыл бұрын
I'm crying with you.. EDIT: This has developed as a deep healing processs for me whilst watching it, sobbing my heart out and even puking out the disgust I've been carrying. Thank you.
@serpilkaddy1609 2 ай бұрын
I hope you're so much better now. Sending love. ❤
@user-gd5tq7df8h 2 ай бұрын
@@serpilkaddy1609 I am doing well, thank you! I was in healing mode back then. I guess it worked :P
@serpilkaddy1609 2 ай бұрын
@@user-gd5tq7df8h I am so happy to hear that! May Allah guide and protect you and bestow his blessings upon you and those you love ❤️
@user-gd5tq7df8h 2 ай бұрын
@@serpilkaddy1609 Thank you very much. I am a spiritual atheist but receive your blessings and extend my blessings to you 🙏
@lilaworley8935 4 жыл бұрын
For anyone coming from a dysfunctional family of origin..... Look into ACOA and read or listen to the book called 'After The Tears'...... We truly don't grasp how our childhood shapes the way we think and perceive and react to people and problems. That book and the ACOA organization can help explain it. You are not alone. You can Break the generational legacy.
@Simplee_Shan 4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry i just don’t feel sorry for the mother. Even after hearing her story. She seems to not take responsibility for her actions.
@hannaw193 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t either. She also has a lot of nerve moving in with her daughter and her family
@jacquettedaniels422 3 жыл бұрын
Same I see str8 through her.
@arethafranklinlove984 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t do it when Kim started crying I was like I can’t do this 🤦🏽♀️😭❤️ I love you Kim I wish I can hug you and your sister ..
@perseveranceministrieswith8909 4 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😔😔😔😔 my God in Heaven!! I'm crying so hard Jesus Christ, I so understand these young ladies. I'm 34 and going through the same thing.. healing from past childhood trauma.. Lord this touched my soul.. Heal them Father
@perseveranceministrieswith8909 4 жыл бұрын
@Forgive And Live thank you sweetheart. May our Father in Heaven bless you abundantly for your prayers. I truly appreciate it. I'm writing a book about the trauma and the Refinement process that God has taken me through to get to a place of healing. Bless you beloved
@missmontana2184 4 жыл бұрын
I felt the heart break exercise in the pit of my stomach! The pain is so raw
@lorebay2593 4 жыл бұрын
These beautiful women, hurt, broken, weak. I sure hope they can clean it out and heal.
@katielainedesigns 4 жыл бұрын
Oh those poor girls-I’m only 10 mins in and my heart breaks for them 😭😭
@141Lav 4 жыл бұрын
I sleep in that foetal position all the time sometimes with a pillow at my belly to feel bit better but, it’s true once you wake up it’s back to ground zero when you’re going through this - blessings to ALL going through this and thank you Auntie for always trying to help May the Most High always guide you to help us 💓💓💓🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@thalesalexandre-inglesbase8060 4 жыл бұрын
This has been the most emotional episode for me. It's so incredible how damaging generational trauma can be. Thank God for Iyanla.
@curtisjohnson9907 4 жыл бұрын
Love this healing can we get more Iyanla fix my life full episodes on KZfaq please!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🙏🏿❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@141Lav 4 жыл бұрын
😔 my story as a child too still not resolved as mother doesn’t want to take accountability over 50 years 😕
@LarennJay 4 жыл бұрын
Damn u have to speak to her.. let her know how u feel
@daniellecorley6425 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you have to accept an apology that is not given in order to heal...my heart goes out to you and I pray you find peace. Bless you.
@traciesommerville3819 4 жыл бұрын
Ditto.
@141Lav 4 жыл бұрын
danielle corley thank you 🙏🏽
@141Lav 4 жыл бұрын
Jessica Auguste I have tried and I’m still trying and Auntie Iyanla gives me the strength to persevere along with kind people like yourself who understand - bless you 🙏🏽😘
@sasukeaclown705 4 жыл бұрын
3 minutes in and I’m crying this hit home for me only difference is my mother knew of and allowed step dad and her friends to sexually abuse me, mom beat me! I have 1 real sister my mom stays with her. I took care of home at 14 till I left at 16 my sister dose it now because I don’t want her around my kids
@masimbim.therese2551 4 жыл бұрын
So soorry for what u went through, I pray God will heal you 🙏
@divinelychosen5554 4 жыл бұрын
I pray for your own healing and wholeness to manifest speedily. Trust God to guide you through your healing.
@theartistmind7028 4 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@juscam5141 4 жыл бұрын
im praying for you love wow thats hard im sure 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@fashamoore9322 4 жыл бұрын
I have already been crying, but this episode took me to another level! My God today! The reason I strive to honor my mother daily is that she made the "choice" not to allow another man in my siblings or my life after her marriages were destroyed. She only allowed "God" to be the center of her heart. Through the pain, discontentment, physical abuse, et cetera... that she experienced - she only went to God! J. Canidy, thank you very much! Thank you for loving your two queens & two kings enough to keep us safely protected! 💜
@serendipity534 4 жыл бұрын
This was a good one. This healed my pain since my mother lacked the tools to stand on her own and be the great mom she was deep down. The best thing about this episode is that they were all open to healing, the mother allowed herself to be vulnerable. That is the first step.
@lewiscomeaux4040 4 жыл бұрын
This story was deep dam Iyanla is a real healer
@parrishwhitted1442 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t feel sorry for the mother
@Simplee_Shan 4 жыл бұрын
Parrish Whitted me neither
@daniellemccarter5706 4 жыл бұрын
Me neither
@TiffTALKS22 4 жыл бұрын
At ALL. I was waiting for something to hit when she was talking to Iyanla.... but it didnt....
@ashleycross6045 4 жыл бұрын
I don't think the mom needs sympathy, but she was born into generational curses and cycles. It's tough to break those curses. I appreciate this episode.
@michellehubbard8865 4 жыл бұрын
I wonder what she secretly had against her girls.
@aura5944 4 жыл бұрын
No identity, no self-esteem, no self-love cue the multiple men, no lasting healthy relationships. Not just failing, abusive not just to the mother, to the children by their own mother.
@reyjenetapia2559 4 жыл бұрын
Same everyone needs to get right with god
@Katlady001 3 жыл бұрын
I bet the mother had an equally dysfunctional upbringing not to excuse her though.
@alpn113 4 жыл бұрын
I am crying on my knees, I went a lot in my life is my Father, I can't count how many times he made me to sleep outside at night. And he could come and beat me to death. My wounds are not there anymore, but the scars are still on my heart. One day someone will hug me .
@ashleyhines7583 4 жыл бұрын
🧡
@daniellemccarter5706 4 жыл бұрын
If he’s alive beat him once good.
@MrsMabusu 4 жыл бұрын
Danielle Mccarter 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@theiswithin3649 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that this happend to you.. send you a virtuel hug❤️❤️❤️
@adiam217 4 жыл бұрын
I am sorry you deserve many hugs
@Maria-zy6qr 4 жыл бұрын
you were my God before I knew who God was, Whew! I felt that!
@girlmellaceus 3 жыл бұрын
When you've whispered to your subconscious that you never want to be like your mother or repeat her mistakes.... those whispers jump out of you and shout loud in other ways... Hope the healing continues. "I'm breaking the curse" was deep
@jeaninemorgan9118 4 жыл бұрын
Awww, healing, forgiveness, generational curses broken..praise Jesus
@joanfolds476 2 ай бұрын
This hits hard around Mother's Day 2024. My mother also put her needs before mine. She died on Sunday, 1/21/2007 without dealing with her issues. I am 67 with no children and I never married.
@tgree18 Ай бұрын
Did she ever regretted doing that?
@autobotdiva9268 Ай бұрын
narcissitic parents are something else.
@ROA1988 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad OWN uploaded a Full Episode. Bout time!
@aprilapril5462 3 жыл бұрын
When she says “Beloved it” .. I feel it
@MissFayeLuvA11 3 жыл бұрын
This was deep. My mother would never do what their mom did she would fake apologize with alligator tears. I have no need to reconcile with my parent and I’m at peace with it. I never put any man before my kids ever or let a man hit my kids I broke that cycle before it even began. God took my soul and he gave me a strong heart.
@jeanineruggs7301 4 жыл бұрын
the best episode I've ever seen!!!! this why u don't judge!!!
@jenniferbeathea7906 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@Judy1201. 4 жыл бұрын
This was hard to watch.. I hope the mother gets a job and find her a place to live. she shouldn't moved in with her daughter. she appeard to be in decent physical shape she should have been working and taking care of herself.
@mpumietsheme2785 3 жыл бұрын
As a person who was abandoned by both parents who abandoned all their other kids, this hits home. To know that life will always be different because I was abandoned and hurt by my parents before any man ever did, breaks me. I’ve kept it all together and I’m doing great for myself by I’m just an absent person, and I detach myself from situations and family and I feel like one day I’ll snap.
@bonettacole9963 2 ай бұрын
I felt this😢 I’m praying on/for you sister!!
@gloriadaniels5211 2 ай бұрын
I thank God for my mother. She was tough on us because she loved us more than anything. No man ever came before us❤
@chrysdddiva6335 4 жыл бұрын
wow the mom asking forgiveness broke me down oh Lord you could almost feel her pain
@lyricandroyalmcgraw5477 4 жыл бұрын
This is truly Iyanla ministry.The way she helped them was incredible .Beautiful ending .Grace & Blessings to these ladies that was hard to do .I thank God for their healing
@rabeccarynder9514 4 жыл бұрын
This just broke my heart, fr fr, especially because there’s a lot of hate and resentment in my heart for my dad, with what I’ve been through and what his partners have put me through after my mum died. I was verbally abused for years by his partner and he just let it happened, the worst thing is, he blamed me for all of it....
@Cscott1821 4 жыл бұрын
She’s better than me because I wouldn’t let that lady live in my house! Ever !
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