Jada and Will Smith Relationship | Narcissistic Abuse?

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CHAPTERS
00:00 introduction
00:51 Commenting on Jada and Will smith relationship
01:10 Lives of celebrities is really complex
02:18 Clip reaction
03:39 Clip discussion
04:42 The use of narcissistic equivocation is found in this relation
05:56 Clip reaction 2
07:20 Clip discussion
07:54 Narcissists do mot want to feel small in anyway
09:15 Disengaging you when you pour your heart out
10:06 Clip reaction 3
11:03 Clip discussion
12:30 The conclusion

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@soloman747 9 ай бұрын

As a victim of narcissistic abuse, I have been telling others that I can spot a narcissist in Jada. This confirms it.

@flowerchild89 9 ай бұрын

Agreed 💯. And Will needs to get out of the relationship. Move on.

@peachesandpoets 9 ай бұрын

I guarantee you have not read his book

@sylviaking8866 9 ай бұрын

I totally agree.

@r2023rr 9 ай бұрын

100% she is

@ReubenAStern 9 ай бұрын

I believe grandiose and covert narcissists are interchangeable. They're grandiose when it suits them, and no matter how big and macho they are, when a show of strength fails and the tantrum doesn't work, look how quickly they pretend to be weak, vulnerable and stupid. Then they can switch back to being grandiose in an instant. Can you spot them in covert mode? I'm surrounded by them, so I can spot them within an hour. I can spot a grandiose one even quicker. decades of experience.

@psychedelicshrugs4088 9 ай бұрын

The look on her face at the Oscars was instantly recognisable to anyone who has been controlled by a narcissist. It was a live tv jump scare.

@lorcashine 9 ай бұрын

I've seen that clip several times in the last couple of days and her looks during afterward are so uncomfortable--every time I see them. Now I get sick feeling, like when I see Meghan Markle. I never thought about Jada being one until the last week and once you see it, you can't unsee it. Every single time she opens her mouth.

@psychedelicshrugs4088 9 ай бұрын

@@lorcashine every single time she opens her mouth is spot on.

@peachesandpoets 6 ай бұрын

@@lorcashinehahaha you read a lot of tabloids, huh? Watch it again. Will doesn't even look at her. She rolls her eyes while facing forward and before her eyes even settle will was on his way

@TheLikkinBranch 9 ай бұрын

Supported my wife through medical school and once she finished her residency she discarded me like trash. 20 years of marriage and hard labor down the drain. I did all i could for her. To her all I was was a plow horse to be put down when she no longer needed my income. She left at 40....im 53 now and have been a monk since. Only now am i understanding that she was the issue, not me. It was always about her needs, and mine were never considered. The constant gas lighting and moved goal posts were enough to make me feel like the crazy one and the one who caused the divorce. Been living with the guilt for so long. I couldnt have done any more for her without losing my life.

@casperinsight3524 9 ай бұрын

Just the constant moving of the goal posts is enough to drive anyone insane let alone combined with everything else. Best wishes on your healing journey ❤

@lmoree00 9 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you had this experience. Narcs are disgusting, vile, "humans." I wish you peace, true mutual love, and complete healing 💜

@TheLikkinBranch 9 ай бұрын

@@casperinsight3524 thank you. 🤠👍

@TheLikkinBranch 9 ай бұрын

@@lmoree00 I'm trying to heal. It's slow and painful. Thanks for the note.

@cc1k435 9 ай бұрын

It can take a very long time to figure out what you're even dealing with. Give yourself some grace. There really isn't a single thing that you could have done to change the outcome, short of finding out earlier how it was going to end and leaving the relationship. If we all could have done that, maybe we all would have. Take care of yourself. ❤

@LadyGoddessSephiroth 9 ай бұрын

Dr Ramani called her out when she was on her show. Willow, her own daughter, said she thought Jada had narcissistic tendencies. Told her that to her face. But people think Will is the problem. What kind of mother sleeps with her son's friends? Then throws it in her husband's face? That's not reacting to a narcissist. That's narcissistic behavior.

@spdadventurer1754 9 ай бұрын

I gotta see that vdo haha...dint know Jada got pointed out by Dr Ramani ... But the next part you mentioned, it's actually the biggest example, that u cannot win with a narcissist, even if u caught them committing the worst crim in the world they will have tactics to make it seem like it is what was supposed to be done, they did the right thing, or u r the crazy one and they were the victim... I know all this shit, my mom does that a lot.

@tonyamartin1425 9 ай бұрын

what people? lol

@dianenyc4664 9 ай бұрын

@tonyamartin1425 many people blame will. The man is typically blamed for everything.

@skinnyway 9 ай бұрын

oh - so thats why dr ramani is such a fraud. i get it now.

@peachesandpoets 9 ай бұрын

My homeboy just told me he has been giving me the side eye this week for my defense of Jada Pinkett Smith. I asked him if he read Will's book the answer was no. Sigh. Let me just drop some tidbits because y'all refuse to read and are committed to talking about ish you have no idea about (not that I do). Do I think Jada is wild for sharing all this in public ABSOLUTELY! But for whatever reason she's told herself to be committed to "radical honesty". Here are PUBLICALLY AVAILABLE FACTS of why I can't listen to/read y'all drag this woman no more: *In the 1980s BEFORE JADA AND WILL MET IN 1991, Will Smith and Chris Rock met and decided they hated each other. 📌 1. A 28 y/o Will Smith was told by his 1st wife that she wanted a divorce. He told her NO, and she asked him "Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't love you?" (she did this on Valentine's Day 😢). Instead of healing 🚩 he immediately picked up the phone and called a 25 y/o Jada. The woman he knew he had been in love with (and lowkey stalking) since meeting her on set when she was 19. 2. Jada in love with Tupac who had just been sentenced to jail was depressed 🚩, put on meds, and determined to go find herself in Baltimore answers Will's call that went like this: "Are you single?" "Yes" "YOU GO WITH ME NOW!" 🚩 Two days later she flew to LA 🚩 moved into his house and never again lived in the new house she had just bought. Y'ALL there is so much to unpack here I'm like how would I react if a man called me and just decided we go together??? 3. Fast forward to September of the following year and Tupac is unexpectedly released from jail, Will sees the love Jada has for Pac and decides he would never like Pac and that he's marrying Jada. 🚩🚩 *Sometime in this story, Chris Rock decided that he should have Jada instead of Will and performed a comedy set about her in London. Folks who were there say it was sad and not funny it just seemed bitter. 🚩 He never performed that set again. 📌 4. That Thanksgiving (November) when his divorce clears Will proposes to Jada, she doesn't want to get married and she tells him this. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 5. Two days later she finds out she's pregnant, and her mother tells her YOU BETTER MARRY THIS TALL RICH HANDSOME MAN. 🚩 🚩 Did I mention with encouragement from Will she stopped taking her depression medication. 6. Now depressed and filled with pregnancy hormones she marries Will a month later on New Year's, she is so unhappy that SHE LITERALLY GOES DOWN THE AISLE CRYING. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 This is where I'm like my dear WILL WTF shes crying walking towards marrying you!!!!! 7. Now she gives birth to 2 beautiful kids who she enjoys mothering and basically for the next 15 years says nothing goes along with the forced picture of perfection Will admits he not only placed on her but his children. 8. ACCORDING TO WILL he knew she was unhappy and depressed but manipulated her with toxic positivity it got so bad he woke up to her crying for 45 days straight (she says it was longer). 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 9. Will finally says I'll give you the separation. * Chris Rock hears rumors that they have an open marriage, he calls Jada and asks her out. She responds "Chris, I'm still with Will." Basically, that's a no. So embarrassed Chris just hangs up on her. 📌 *Oscars so White happens Chris Rock gets on stage and clowns Jada and for the "it's just jokes" folks, Chris feels so guilty about the "jokes" that he calls her and apologizes. 📌 10. Enter August, Will even approve of Jada dating August. August signs an NDA and begins dating Jada, but after some time she breaks up with him instead of taking it in stride he writes a song about her and puts her government middle name in the music video. When called on it, because his b*tch A** signed a legal document he denies it. The next year while promoting his album he confirms it. The following year the now infamous Red Table occurs. 11. A year later Will drops a book AND REVEALS ALL OF THIS, APOLOGIZES TO HER FOR BASICALLY HOLDING HER CAPTIVE, and NO ONE SAYS ANYTHING OR ATTACKS HIM because apparently no one read it!! 12. Because Jada says she loves Will and promised him never to divorce him, she doesn't, their property is so massive that they have separate houses BUT IT IS ONLY BECAUSE OF WILL THAT THEY ARE STILL TOGETHER, STILL A FAMILY. 13. On the biggest night of Will's acting career, THEY BOTH DECIDED TO STEP OUT TOGETHER (still doing the acting performance Will insists on). B*tch A** #2 Chris Rock does a joke about Jada THAT WAS NOT SCRIPTED, he basically saw her, a woman he can't have with a man he hates, and decided to clown her. (HE DESERVED THE DAMN SLAP) ‼ 14. Now AFTER WILL Smith has done a number of interviews and his own book tour, Jada after checking with WILL writes her book and goes on her own book tour and Y'ALL, and all (INCLUDING MYSELF) ARE MAD AT HER AND DRAG HER. WILL SMITH WAS THEN AND STILL IS NOW ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL NAMES IN POP CULTURE, the man has 66 MILLION FOLLOWERS, and he is one of the richest men in America, HE IS NOT THE VICTIM IN THIS STORY. The problem is that y'all are just as toxic as him because humans are gon' human. You CANNOT control your partners, force them into loving you no matter how "nice" you are. Guys, IT IS ONLY MISOGYNY AND FANDOM that make us want to hate her for not being captive to his toxic love. Even after all this I still love Will Smith and please remember he still loves the woman y'all are tearing apart on his behalf. Fin

@ladyofthecreek279 9 ай бұрын

They love to publicly humiliate you.

@NetWit20 9 ай бұрын

Like any drug, addiction to a narcissist must be handled by abstaining from it. Unlike other drugs, breaking free from the narcissist cannot be gradual. It must be a clean break and you must never go back.

@melissaflood3276 9 ай бұрын

Sadly😢❤❤❤

@vivianscails966 9 ай бұрын

I agree.

@Lyrielonwind 9 ай бұрын

I recommend watching the Red Table when Jada said to Will she had an entanglement with his son's friend. The eyes of Will said it all. I hope he gets healed but he won't be able to do so as long as he stays with Jada.

@cc1k435 9 ай бұрын

That's the truth. She's like a cat playing with her food. I hope he figures things out and goes some day soon. What a mess.

@lorcashine 9 ай бұрын

@@cc1k435 Wow. Perfect way to describe it.That image will be with me forever now when I think of how they try to play with people.

@vivianscails966 9 ай бұрын

I pray will get the strength to let go and move on.

@vanessakirchner3503 9 ай бұрын

Also, if Will didn’t react that way, then she would have chastised him for an insufficient reaction! She has conditioned him over the years! She absolutely got enormous SUPPLY from his reaction!

@MLJ7956 9 ай бұрын

Also add to the fact the Will is majorly trauma bonded....

@peachesandpoets 9 ай бұрын

Again, wrong. Will Smith is a narcissist.

@laurienordin2076 9 ай бұрын

@@peachesandpoets do you think they both are??

@Katrn30 9 ай бұрын

Either way he loses…it is a no win situation with a narc.

@arabianprincess888 9 ай бұрын

Right !! Great observation

@Katrn30 9 ай бұрын

Yeah, when I graduated from nursing school I worked double time for 2 years to pay off my husbands gambling debts. After 20 years of living with a severe alcoholic, unemployed, and much more, I left him. He told everyone he put me through nursing school and I thanked him by leaving him. Ha! I supported him since I was 18 years old, over 20 years. You know how you can tell when a narcissist is lying? Their lips are moving.

@musicianwren9248 9 ай бұрын

I had never heard the term "equivocation," but it makes so much sense. Years ago I was targeted by a narcissist whose favorite answer to most questions was "not necessarily." It was frustrating at the time, and I realize in hindsight it's a non-answer that allows for shape-shifting.

@muma6559 9 ай бұрын

a non answer, so you keep scratching your head

@casperinsight3524 9 ай бұрын

Narcissists are known for black and white perception... EXCEPT when you ask them a straight question all you receive is ambiguity. If they do give you a straight answer 9 times out of ten they will not back it. They either give a flippant response or no response.

@musicianwren9248 9 ай бұрын

@@muma6559 exactly... you're supposed to sit there and be in awe of the narcissist and beg them to share their infinite wisdom. I was young and naive at the time.

@queenofplantbasedvegan 9 ай бұрын

My exhusbands favorite words were “that’s irrelevant.” I had questions after I found out he cheated and got her pregnant with twins. Everything was “irrelevant.” And he wasn’t going to “dwell” on it. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄. Narcissists are really something else.

@MegaMisfit138 9 ай бұрын

@@queenofplantbasedveganWow! My X said the same thing when confronted with his lies and cheating!!!!! Irrelevant!!!??? How can cheating and lying about everything he irrelevant??!!

@karlippo 9 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing that she looked so detached cold I found it weird and I even thought when I saw Will Smiths out of character behaviour wow is she a narcissist? Cause i recognized his frustration 😢

@sthomas4634 9 ай бұрын

It’s painful to watch them. At least most of us aren’t going through this on the world’s stage. That would be worse.

@SO-oq3mz 9 ай бұрын

Wow and I thought I was the only one who saw that in her!!! I have been saying this for a while!! Pray Will is able to let her go and truly heal❤🙏🏽

@undercoverbird8592 9 ай бұрын

My older sister recently tried to get a reaction from me and I didn’t give her what she wanted. I laughed at her and said “ok Karen…”😂 she got so mad and went to house crying to our mother. She is 51 years OLD still acting like a teenager!!! 😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

@undercoverbird8592 9 ай бұрын

@@DeeNdunya1 seriously. And she is a grandmother! Holy moley. My kids are 12 and 13 and don’t want to talk to her anymore after how she acted. My ex is narcissist but they still try to deal with him. He acts super childish too. 🙄

@Patricia_Stewart337 9 ай бұрын

Sounds like 12- years old!😯

@SilentObserveUnfazed 9 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@thebeautifullibra11 9 ай бұрын

My older sister used a trip to Paris to try to humiliate me in front of my daughter by going off on us for 3 hours straight on a train. Did it all to get a reaction out of me but I didn't give in. I haven't spoken to her since June.

@muma6559 9 ай бұрын

Planned a loving party in her honor only to be told it was his ego... ouch.. that would hurt.

@Mayfloweralways 9 ай бұрын

They know that you love them, and they feed on it. But to admit he did something amazing, loving, and giving, would leave her to compare herself. And because she does not want the same to be what she is as a wife for her husband, she flips it around as him being selfish and all ego. Therefore she can be selfish and all ego too.

@mzme6281 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Danish! You are helping a lot of people with your education and compassion. You make this word a better place. Don't ever stop being you :)!!

@jacalynanderson1340 9 ай бұрын

She is a nightmare! I feel so bad for her children and spouse.

@mymai5859 9 ай бұрын

Yes. She has ruined her kids. How do you explain your mother slept with your friend in your family home right under your father's nose...in the house your father paid for. She has triangulated her kids to blame Will for everything. The kids have contempt for Will.

@bobbarker1798 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Danish for showing these clips confirming what believed about Jada Smith since she egged on Will to slap Chris Rock. Now acting ignorant. She is a total monster.

@Rahasysa_unsuljhe 9 ай бұрын

Your videos got me perspective on the trauma I suffered I was not able to understand why this person pushed me on verge of ending my life. Love from India❤

@charlie-girl72 9 ай бұрын

This is so true..i was the weirdo the nervous one to the outdide. The crazy one, people had no idea what the reality was i lived in. Glad i could teach my children how to watch out for manipulation. Im still fighting myself out. 🥺

@christinemunger7054 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for this! I was really wondering! It goes to show you how convincing narcissists look to the outside world. So frustrating for those of us who are the Will Smiths of the world!

@queenofplantbasedvegan 9 ай бұрын

Yesss!! My exhusband seems like such a sweetheart. 😂😂😂😂

@sleeperno1215 9 ай бұрын

This was a very insightful video. Analyzing the narcissist in action. She initially got a lot of supply in that slap. She decided to double down with the book to garner more supply. But it is backfiring. No matter what you do for them, it is never enough. Also, they rewrite the facts to reflect what they want at the time.

@Donkey1668 9 ай бұрын

Will was such a talented actor and it’s so sad to see him being abused like this

@Donkey1668 9 ай бұрын

It’s hard to break free from narcissistic abuse, which is what Jada is, a narcissist who cares only cares about herself

@parklady4233 9 ай бұрын

Jada probably cycles between cluster b types. So, it is hard to place her and name her issue. So, people get confused. I say don’t worry about figuring out the problem and instead concentrate on how a person makes YOU feel. If you don’t like being around a person, leave! You don’t have to figure out the problem or hope they will change.

@Isabelmaryj 9 ай бұрын

Really good detail especially about use of plausible deniability and the ever present dissatisfaction. So clear. I also notice what a person does not do in interactions - no inner searching eg looking down while talking for their own authentic feelings. There is a robotic staring at the other to see how their act is going over. Leaves me feeling a chill and also quite bored in a way. Because what you never get is heartfelt emotion and vulnerability. Power is what they crave - end of story.

@libralove8761 9 ай бұрын

You hit it right on. The way you presented this video and used clips to support your views I thought was an excellent way to show this. Also, it was helpful to see you demonstrate how narcissistic personality order looks in real life. I agree all the signs appear to be there and there's two sides of Jada. The side she allows us to see and the one she hides from the public. She wants us to believe her and Will were not together but obviously they were together in some capacity or Will would not have said what he said. So now we're supposed to believe something is wrong with Will. Maybe there is something wrong with him but for her to act like she has nothing to do with it is BS!! For some reason Will felt he needed to do and say that. HMMM

@monarene44 9 ай бұрын

Every move she makes is for secondary gain. She’s a show girl and the show never stops. There’s a difference between being a narcissist and being a career narcissist. It’s a show based on her smoldering resentment at being less successful than her mega successful husband. She reminds me of the Norma Desmond character in Sunset Boulevard who can’t accept aging and obsolescence. She’s ready for her closeup and the camera must never stop rolling.

@happyhealthyblessed 9 ай бұрын

Yes that’s how my narc mother was. No matter what you did never good enough. Once I remember yelling at her on the top of my lungs on the phone I was at the supermarket. People probably thought I was a crazy lady. But people don’t know how far they push you till you can’t take anymore. You lash out your not yourself. Your right they haven’t been together for a while? What the heck? Your married your sitting right next to him. Thank you so much for the videos.

@neowolf09 9 ай бұрын

I actually was thinking something similar when I saw the clip of the event. The way she looked at him before the event gave me chills. I appreciate you sharing this to help others to recognize patterns of narcissistic abuse. I've been struggling to understand especially when it comes to covert narcissists which I do not think jada is very covert in her narcissism. But that's just my perspective and I do not have a degree of any kind so I don't think I'm qualified to say for sure if she is. I hope Will can get the strength and courage to leave that toxic relationship. I'm sure there are tons of women out there that would happily treat him way better.

@2380wiz 9 ай бұрын

awesome commentary. I watched TMZ and the Jada Pinkett book tour with Will Smith and was embarrassed for him. Glad you explained what happened.

@musfee7682 9 ай бұрын

This is zo recognizable....it hurts watching. Thank you for shining your light💗🙏

@CynthiaSchoenbauer 9 ай бұрын

This is very effective to use situations and relationships that we may already be observing and wondering about exactly what the dynamics are about it! Thanks, Danish. This helps fill out my understanding where I still have gaps in evaluating the relationships in my life.

@kalandrasnow9555 9 ай бұрын

I love your videos. You really explain trauma and support survivors of narcissistic abuse. Thank you for sharing and uplifting us. We are not imagining the abuse.

@patriciamcdermott1367 9 ай бұрын

Wow, this is exactly it. You explain narcissism so clearly and definite. Thank you for all your deep work. ❤

@friendship8539 9 ай бұрын

After watching videos I have realised that I have been a victim of a narc for 19 years. I am now stuck way too deep. I have totally changed myself. Now I'm dependent on him and answerable to him for every minute detail. I feel apathetic and detached at times, and lonely. Whenever Im alone, I am crying for no reason. God! How do I help myself! I see no solution to this..

@SamStone1964 9 ай бұрын

You start making tiny little plans to escape. And you tell no one.

@vivianscails966 9 ай бұрын

Ask God to give you the strength. To leave and he will trust me I been there

@mymai5859 9 ай бұрын

Start joining community clubs... croquet, crafts, ukulele, gardening, sports. My outlet was tennis . I was sporty & started getting coaching & joined 2 clubs. I also coached my daughter's primary school basketball team. It meant I had social contacts & interesting people to maintain my sanity. If money is an issue - then volunteering groups might help. The focus is to slowly get your own friends/support people outside of the relationship. It is amazing that others usually have good ideas to help... & will will protect your plans to escape. All your thoughts cannot just come from him. Number 1 is to see that the abusive 'non human' you are married to is nothing but a toddler who is stupid but capable of bullying & fawning to control you.

@hunniization 9 ай бұрын

Jada has also used triangulation to manipulate Will.. Tupac Shakur and August Alsina.

@lorcashine 9 ай бұрын

Yes, for sure. Hadn't thought about that. She still is! I saw her in a couple interviews about her book and she went on and on about her special relationship with "Pac."

@hunniization 9 ай бұрын

@@lorcashine Yep! Rubbing it in his face continually since they've been together.

@wingsly 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Danish for this analysis of these shape-shifting behaviors from these rapidly mutating monsters with a variable core self fueled by ANTI-LOVE. So much to learn about these destructive entities.

@user-mz3vz3pm3p 9 ай бұрын

Thank You Danish; I have been watching quite a few videos about NARCS, but it was whilst I was with a NARC. He used to spy on everything I did and he put a trace or a tracking device? On my phone, I would have to phone him as soon as I left work and he would tell me where I was, when I asked him how he knew this he said that he timed US when he met me from work, so I walked slower and he still told me where I was. I have left him now and he doesn't know where I am. But I sometimes think that maybe I'm the mad one and I'm just imagining everything that's happened. I know I have a lot of trauma in my life, but my life is now mine and I'm going to beat this feeling sorry for myself attitude and beat Him by being stronger. I'm still going to have days when I want to hide, but I'm not going to let that MONSTER ruin my life.

@ericb8413 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for all of your videos. They help so much.

@flowergirl-yz3ki 9 ай бұрын

Great explanation. You explain it simply and give examples. Thank you.

@GPDuchess 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Danish for covering this; victims of narcs can, hopefully, see right through her

@dextermorganbloodspattersp6382 9 ай бұрын

Dem Kan't Fool Dr Danish 🏆 Nor Dr Ramani 🏆 Two of My "Go To" Champions🏆 🦅🏆😎

@lorihenrytaylor4438 9 ай бұрын

you absolutely know what you are talking about. It helps so much just to have someone speak my experience and confirm it was completely fucked up. Thank you.

@leahhatch9524 9 ай бұрын

Great shows and analysis on this channel

@c.sexton4819 9 ай бұрын

Great breakdown. I didn't follow this story too much but the analysis is spot on.

@KatieW210 9 ай бұрын

Thanks, this is really helpful to have examples. I've also been avidly following the Megan and Harry and Royal Family chaos. Just a note of caution. I hope you're protecting yourself from getting sued for potential defamation.

@cc1k435 9 ай бұрын

No kidding, re: the royals. I have never been so glad to not be part of a family. 😂😮😢

@CL-lo4wd 9 ай бұрын

I appreciate your analysis about this. I happen to agree. I deeply appreciate Dr. Ramani and I have personally been pondering the irony that Ms. Pickett-Smith’s company produces Dr. Ramani’s excellent podcast about narcissism.

@ruba4251 7 ай бұрын

Also wondering about this

@ReubenAStern 9 ай бұрын

When Narcissists are old they have an existential crisis. You'll hear them say "I don't know who I am".

@Cyndib93 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this, Danish! Once you see JPS for what she is there’s no unseeing it. Would love your perspective on Harry’s wife as well.

@makutumafwa7496 9 ай бұрын

So much insight. Thank you so much.

@user-lo4er8wy9l 9 ай бұрын

I think Jada resents Will's success, that was the success she was supposed to have. Now she is stuck in his shadow and needs to tear him down to fill the empty vessel.

@dominicabollig1918 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video!!!

@brendarudman8806 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Danish Keep doing what youre doing🎉

@ruthy3553 9 ай бұрын

All narcissistic signs FROM Jada. She behaves like my narcissist husband.

@schoolhse 9 ай бұрын

Brilliant, informative video. Thanks.

@Lyndsydypyty 9 ай бұрын

I thought the same. I was so shocked realizing their situation and that he n I had something in common. I felt his pain about the 3 years of planning... to be so excited... and then so disappointed. 😞 I've recently learned these past 4 years that I've spent my life with a father then husband who were narcs. 40 years of NEVER being good enough. Hurts worse when u honestly do your best and yet.... death by a thousand paper cuts. Now I'm as close to a hermit as possible while raising two kids with zero help of course. I've only had a handful of people EVER have my back. The First would be my first love when I was 15. I honestly don't think I'll ever feel good enough. Mostly cuz I think I'm done trying.

@jeanettecastle7916 8 ай бұрын

I come from a big family with a number of narcissists in it. I married into a big family with a number of narcissists in it too. I’m 62. Been living with narcissistic folks all my life. Jada’s the narc. I saw it a long time ago. Poor Will. I hope he survives it. He’s a good man!

@kikikoko607 9 ай бұрын

You nailed it!

@TD1971JUNE3 9 ай бұрын

Excellent ❤ this is my first comment. I've and am experiencing everything you've mentioned here and many more. But I feel sometimes am I the narcisist. 🎉😅😮

@CassiE.86_ 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for covering this. My suspensions was right all along.

@MikeWildfrog 9 ай бұрын

Good job, spot on about this woman.

@esterguarracino610 9 ай бұрын

Thank you you are the best.

@AnaSilva-to1sy 9 ай бұрын

Will Smith gave his heart to Jada, and Jada took advantage of his sincere love for her, Will Smith was being an example of what the Bible tells us to do, Ephesians 5:25: Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the Church and gave Himself for her*

@kalkhan816 9 ай бұрын

I thought that Jade pushed Wills buttons and thats why he spolied his Oscars ceremony, this video totally confirms it, thanks for providing the evidence.

@peachesandpoets 9 ай бұрын

Did you watch the Oscar's clip? Jada did not react other than to roll her eyes. Will didn't even see that. Will reacted on his own volition. Will is a self described narcissist, from BEFORE he was with Jada. Have you read his book? Do you know about his relationship with his ex wife and why all of his children at some point have stopped talking to him? I, like Jada, have been judged for reacting to a narcissist like Will, where everybody believes his side without even knowing his side.

@usernameisunavailable8270 9 ай бұрын

@@peachesandpoetsChances are they are both narcissists.

@shannongstyle6310 9 ай бұрын

100%, you seriously nailed so much in this video and I'm sure you know that, but I'm just saying....❤❤❤👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼

@riparoy1239 9 ай бұрын

That's amazing. Like it so much

@julieseymour3192 9 ай бұрын

This is a brilliant video. So insightful. Has anyone enlightened poor Will?

@innataylor4566 9 ай бұрын

In my opinion film “After earth” it’s the best film about how to be when you have a Narcissist in front of you. You must be Fearless!

@neeruahuja2014 9 ай бұрын

Thanks

@Dsrgroup555 9 ай бұрын

Sir how to differentiate between narcissistic person and narcissistic sufferer

@greghunter6951 8 ай бұрын

My narcicisic wife ruins every birthday, Xmas or other important occasion. She cannot control herself. Every gift my son and I have ever bought her is never used; just ignored and hidden unless she wants to show off to some other person.

@susanagutierrez5925 9 ай бұрын

💯 % spot on!

@carolprophy9352 9 ай бұрын

Because jealousy is one of the Narcissist traits jealousy makes you nasty

@sunsigninc.8888 9 ай бұрын

Let him go; get a divorce if he’s not your husband in your mind Jada! This is awful!

@misspy1153 9 ай бұрын

You’re insightful. You say Jada ‘created’ Will’s reaction by ‘pushing buttons’. I know what you mean due to my own experience. I think it also benefits to use terms such as ‘provocative victim’ ‘coercive’ and ‘covert’.

@harborcityheidi 8 ай бұрын

On point!

@likithabh3944 9 ай бұрын

@danish basir You mentioned celebrities are usually narcissistic, do you think narcissistic people are chosen/preferred in the glamour industry for their inflated ego? Or normal people get narcissistic post receiving fame?

@charmee4045 9 ай бұрын

Excellent analysis, I have lived this. Its 100% right on.

@Mara_143 9 ай бұрын

Yes, Jada is a covert narcissist. This was an excellent video and commentary! Perfect subject matter for this topic. Great job, Danish!❤

@judyyates2763 9 ай бұрын

Remember people... insist on clarity!

@nv_thalia 8 ай бұрын

I think u r 100 percent rite about Jada

@bulumarobert1748 9 ай бұрын

Ur on a point,will Smith is a good supply gentleman.

@owlyeahearly 6 ай бұрын

I'm learning about Narcissistic so much from Danish, Dr. Ramani, and other channel also. I have a lot of concern, how to defuse mind game? Like i can talk game lingo, but never starting one. I can recognize mind game because i play video game and sporty game so it's kinda similiar move that i can identify it. When i watch Jada i know there's a mind game. How to defuse it?

@emmajohnson6955 9 ай бұрын

Yes nothing will be good enough for them.

@acolley2891 9 ай бұрын

Been knowing Jada was narcissistic. Who has an affair, flaunts it, minimizes it and then blames you for it?

@carmenx_ 9 ай бұрын

Amazing video🔥💪🏽

@Amaan-ql6vp 9 ай бұрын

how can you help me.i am going through the same circumstances.

@avivabillington5514 8 ай бұрын

💯!! Narcissitic abuse affects us everyday people & celebrities too. By the sounds of it recently too an actor from a series is a narcissist.

@Donkey1668 9 ай бұрын

Narcissist only care about themselves. She doesn’t care about his feelings and how she’s hurting him.

@Dipti339 9 ай бұрын

You made me strong👍@ danish

@Esprite9 9 ай бұрын

I agree with what you said sbout Jada, Will and that slap. The day i saw that video, i felt so sorry for Will and that he was being Manipulated. Then i also saw all the videos of how Jada was close to Tupac in the past, that's been a core wound of Will. I felt despite having a good friend in her life in Tupac; I feel she selfishly married Will (or Will too selfishly may have intervened to get her to marry him, than allow her the freedom to chose) for his fame & money & left her good friendship with Tupac. And she possibly also used it to get Will to be under her emotional control too, or because Will didn't get over the friendship, their relationship couldn't build well. And i agree the slap from Will, seems definitely something Jada manipulated out of Will. IDK about the second video though partly, because maybe he was indeed acting out of ego a bit on his birthday celebrations possibly too ( because narcisstic people do tend to use part truths too when manipulating or controlling another)? But yes the emotional withdrawal from her in many of their relationship videos; & lack of warmth between them definitely makes them seem to be in a very toxic relationship. And Will though a more warmer & loving personality, may have other issues in the marriage that makes it difficult for her to be warm towards him. And I agree with you that Will definitely looked very lost too in that second video. May God give him the strength to change and leave that's been hurting him emotionally for so long. 🤗🙏✨💖 Everyone who is a warm personality, deserves that equal kind of warm love that matches the potential for love they have in their soul. And yes if Jada is Narcissistic, selfish & manipulative, it will be hard for Will to leave her easily or with grace. Only good women, kind & compassionate women- usually allow easy divorces or separations. ✨🤍🤗 But God is always watching over who is being the toxic partner, & can always help us when we need help.

@theanswersisinsideu 8 ай бұрын

My thing is why is he so adamant about portraying this perfect image to the world about himself and his family

@Patricia_Stewart337 9 ай бұрын

I LIKED how Will backed her up! A woman acting like a PERSON is not necessarily narcissistic.

@dinat411 9 ай бұрын

For those who have the eyes to see and the ears to hear...

@CO2isfake 9 ай бұрын

I like having examples of real situations. Will Smith is probably drinking or something to numb that pain. We haven’t seen him around in a while.

@jasondunkin7943 7 ай бұрын

Been through the same

@indrar7766 9 ай бұрын

my narc was so religious in the beginning (mimicking strategies).. and when he almost discarded me he said hes is an atheist

@Mybabiesjourney 9 ай бұрын

Whenever my husband and i fight,my father in law get into my fight and shout on me but my husband never say anything to my in laws,they force me to go to my parents home and my husband never support me,he always do what ever my father in law tell him to do…plzz tell me what to do?

@muma6559 9 ай бұрын

Tell him in a marriage the two need to support each other above anyone else. Tell him if he can't do that than you can't do that for him. If you stick to your word he will have more respect for you. Set a boundary and tell him if it keeps happening again, you will have to do... (work out what you will do)... and do that. Men don't understand words, he needs to see your actions. Not supporting you is unacceptable.

@velmascientista7026 9 ай бұрын

Girl get out get tg out no need to waste your time on these mfs just permanently cut ties with all of them before u get a child involved

@muma6559 9 ай бұрын

@@velmascientista7026 the picture shows a baby is already involved

@VeronicaAdamsJokeStar 8 ай бұрын

I never really noticed before until watching this how my mil does those exact facial expressions too. I knew she was one, but just never put that together with the facial expressions. I can start calling her Jada lol

@judyyates2763 9 ай бұрын

I love Will Smith! They truly get angry if you show vulnerability❤ if hes available...