Jake Banfield - Boys Don't Cry (Official Music Video)

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11 ай бұрын

"It's called boys don't cry, but just know this song is for anyone who feels this way and who goes through anxiety or deals with depression or any type of mental health. Know it's okay to cry and speak up and reach out to someone." - Jake Banfield
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Produced by: Jason Walker
Written by: Jake Banfield, Jason Walker
Video by: Garrett Keafer (@gkeafer)
LYRICS:
VERSE 1:
I've been starting to lose control
I swear I can fix anything
Anything, but me
I've been putting my heart thru hell
And I don’t want to think about anything
Anything, but me
PRE:
Just give me time
I’ve been running from my mind
Need a second for my soul
Let it go
And I tried
Keepin' all of this inside
But the cracks they start to show
And I’ve been told
HOOK:
Boys don’t cry
But damn I need a shoulder
I’d be lying
If I said I don’t
Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
If boys don’t cry
Where are these tears supposed to go?
Where are these tears supposed to go?
V2:
I’ve been trying to find that light
But darkness just keeps finding me
Blinding me from what’s real
PRE:
Just give me time
I’ve been running from my mind
Need a second for my soul
Let it go
And I tried
Keepin' all of this inside
But the cracks they start to show
And I’ve been told
HOOK:
Boys don’t cry
But damn I need a shoulder
I’d be lying
If I said I don’t
Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
If boy’s don’t cry
Where are these tears supposed to go?
Where are these tears supposed to go?
CLOSING HOOK:
Boys don’t cry
But damn I need a shoulder
I’d be lying
If I said I don’t
Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
If boy’s don’t cry
Where are these tears supposed to go
Where are these tears supposed to go

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@enigmaticgwichin1630 10 ай бұрын

I’ve buried a lot of friends and family with no tears, but holding the box with my baby boy in it hit me in a way I’d never felt before. Thanks for the song👏

@jesusisking3814 10 ай бұрын

For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. Jesus Christ loves you so much that He died for your sins and rose from the dead. If you repent from evil ways, believe that Jesus has paid the fine for your sins on the cross and confess Him as your Lord, you will be saved. You see, we all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, that's why Jesus Christ, fullness of Godhead bodily, lived a perfect life, fulfilled the prophecies and law, shed His Blood at the cross just so you could be forgiven, reconciled back to the Father, receive God's love, be made a new creation, whole, sanctified. It's not about religion and what good works you can do to earn salvation, it's only by grace through faith in the finished works of Jesus Christ. Read God's Word, preferably start with Gospel of John, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you, give you wisdom and revelation that way you're born again and see your life changed by the Spirit of the Most High. Much love and God bless you!

@squire0984 9 ай бұрын

I hope you are doing well now. that is an awful experience no parent should go through.

@mike196425 9 ай бұрын

I know your pain, my grandson passed away at the age of 18 months old, it was a pain like no other. He was my first grandchild and my best friend. It's been 12 years and the pain is still so fresh. I was able to handle my Dad and older brother dying within 4 months of each other but Max was like nothing I was expecting. Something died inside me when he passed and my mind has never been the same. I now suffer PTSD because of that day, I lost my brothers in the Army but this was different. Be well and stay strong, the scars heal with this loss but the wound never really does. Blessings to you and yours

@enigmaticgwichin1630 9 ай бұрын

@@mike196425 ah man I am so sorry for your loss. There is something about losing one so young, especially imagining the future they would have had. I’ll be praying for you Mike. God Bless

@Johnson-1881 9 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss

@HoldOntoYourButts 3 ай бұрын

I have no one to reach out to. My mom died, my dad's a drunk and I don't speak to my brothers, we have no bond and weren't raised together. I have no life partner. I can't make friends. Never had kids. Cheers to anyone else struggling, we'll make it.

@JeremyHanger-eb8et Ай бұрын

Amen keep your head up Isiah 41:10- we can do all things through Christ that gives us strength.

@FaeBorthwick Ай бұрын

My mom died in June. My dad has a new family and I won’t burden my sisters with anything. I’m here if you want to talk

@billichildress5231 Ай бұрын

If you’d like someone to talk to you can talk to me stranger or not sometimes a listening ear helps no matter who it’s attached to

@gavenshewmaker3877 Ай бұрын

I’ll be your brother💪

@jonathanridener9673 Ай бұрын

Your never alone bro. Idk you but your important and worth while. Your loved

@Wolfsta 9 ай бұрын

"We didn't realize we were making memories, we were just having fun."

@SizeMattersCatfishing 8 ай бұрын

That’s a tough bar. Life is short! Live happy!!

@ThunderBullet-lw1xl 8 ай бұрын

@@SizeMattersCatfishinglife is so short, here it's just the beginning, your real life is in the hereafter, so get ready and build for your real life

@pedromateo7970 8 ай бұрын

Bxjg

@Wolfsta 8 ай бұрын

@@SizeMattersCatfishing amen to that 🙏

@Wolfsta 8 ай бұрын

@@pedromateo7970 🙏

@danielheinlein6741 8 ай бұрын

Everyday I struggle to stay alive. My kids are the only reason I'm still here. But everyday it gets harder to stay strong for them. Thank you for this song. I appreciate you and anyone reading this comment. We got to stay strong!

@themattural9542 8 ай бұрын

Im right there with you.

@jigztrixgaming8179 8 ай бұрын

Put your trust in our Lord an Savior JESUS. Let the HOLY SPIRIT guide you. Remember HE'S always with you. You will never be sad or broken again in JESUS name.

@LilMuffin18 8 ай бұрын

I hope things are getting better for you, I pray that you stay here with your kids.

@josepagan8634 8 ай бұрын

I know how hard it is to feel like you are a burden on everyone around you but once you start noticing that your kids love is unconditional you’ll realize that life is love

@ChrisWalters-kp2vq 8 ай бұрын

❤

@yekster1382 2 ай бұрын

My dad passed away in August and I haven't had a shoulder to cry on. I had to remain strong for everyone around me especially my mom. I wish I wasn't alone

@DingleHopper-yh6dv 2 ай бұрын

Ur not the only one. I’ve never met my birth parents because they were abusive. Now knowing I have a half brother still there with my dad, and I can’t help, like my older sisters did with me, It tears me apart. My sisters saved me, and I can’t save him. I now live with a loving family since I was three, and now it’s been 11 years, and I only hope my little brother is okay and he will someday want to meet me. I’ve learned You can’t save everyone, but you can still learn for the better. God bless you.

@the_fallen_angel8463 2 ай бұрын

I fell that man

@NE-sb6ys 2 ай бұрын

You are not alone ❤

@yekster1382 2 ай бұрын

@@NE-sb6ys I feel that I am

@juansjr 2 ай бұрын

I do not understand your pain. I have both my parents. What I can say is, you are not alone. See how a stranger just reaches out. Stay strong, head high. It will not be easy but you can do it. I am sure your father would tell you the same.

@jtop9115 4 ай бұрын

Real men cry when needed.

@OriOri-dn3iu 3 ай бұрын

Amen.

@danaebernard5441 3 ай бұрын

People have emotions and feelings. Crying is okay. Crying doesn't make you weak or seem less of a man. Crying shows vulnerability, that you can be trusted, and that you can show empathy and that you care. The most human thing about us all.

@edwardhyde2806 2 ай бұрын

Some men realize this way to late

@bl1506 4 ай бұрын

To everyone reading here, I pray that God restore everything you lost and the pain you went through this year. Dont give up or lose hope. The devil is a liar. 2024 is your comeback season. May you be blessed and divinely protected ❤

@Farm_Boy77 4 ай бұрын

Thank you

@jessehatfield1184 3 ай бұрын

Yes!! Praise God for his beautiful creation. He is all around us. I was blind all of my life before God.

@subratachowdhury1285 3 ай бұрын

Thanks 👍

@user-sc7tx9mn8c 3 ай бұрын

This is just what I needed... I've been going through alot this past year... Thankyou so much

@justinfreeman6023 2 ай бұрын

Thank you! Thank you, really…

@MuddyFarmer75 10 ай бұрын

As a man that almost ended it all last year thank you for this song says so much what goes on in our head

@dustinholmes353 9 ай бұрын

Glad you’re still here brother ❤️

@user-yg9cz6fe7w 9 ай бұрын

Happy you’re here with us still ❤

@maldetete431 2 ай бұрын

Been where you were. I'm glad you're still here, brother.

@kiddomoods Ай бұрын

... and your hearts. ❤

@jenniferrisolvato6863 Ай бұрын

@muddyfarmer Hallelujah I’m so glad you’re still here. You’re meant for a greater purpose. We all are we’re all beautiful.

@haviedyofficial6170 5 ай бұрын

"I can fix anything but me" sums up my emotions right now

@triciaduke4893 2 ай бұрын

Let’s start a prayer chain and pray our men return To God and provide and protect women and become to lead of the household and lean on Christ and that women return to women who are able to be cared for and in the home to care for the kids… that the devil drops breaking family and leaving isn’t normal anymore normalize STAYING AND LETTING NO MAN TEAR APART WHAT GOD YOKES TOGETHER AND LET MARRIAGE BE NORMAL AGAIN!!! The forefront of goals in Christian life!!!

@thehudsonfamilyhomestead9551 12 күн бұрын

Amen sweetie!❤could not have said it better myself!❤Im definitely with you on praying this one and daily!!!❤❤❤blessings to you!❤keep being bold like you are in speaking the truth of our Lord and may He use you and your voice mightily in these last days!❤#Revival2024❤

@wxyzfn95 2 ай бұрын

My life hit a block the moment my grandpa passed away, thank you for this song, if really helped.

@user-ff2nf3wu4f 24 күн бұрын

sam😥😥

@austinogle6667 17 күн бұрын

To the men out there who act strong in public but cry behind closed doors. Don’t give up you have a meaning stay strong we’re with you ❤️🙏🏻

@adamjeske133 6 ай бұрын

This song hits me hard even listening to it for the first time. Being a volunteer firefighter of 18 years and a 911 dispatcher of the last 6 years plus my family's military background - these industries condition us to "let it go and move on to the next" so that's what we do. Then recently when it is encouraged to talk things out, people don't realize how much we have held in for so long. I personally suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD and have just buried it rather than talking about what bothers me. It is a struggle every day to just wake up and get ready for the day... but I do it because nobody else will do it for me. Men and women alike, you are not alone and it is okay to not be okay. If you ever feel any type of way, do not be afraid to reach out. If you bury it for too long, eventually it's going to destroy you from the inside out to the point everything you have buried will cause those who care to bury you. Let go of the pride, the stigma is over. #youhaveavoice #youmatter #youarenotalone

@bobthebuilder8402 5 ай бұрын

This speaks volumes 15 years combined. Raised 4 siblings same time

@user-bw6eh2zc4z 5 ай бұрын

You ❤❤❤❤😊😊

@jamesoakley8125 4 ай бұрын

Best comment and song both hits very hard❤ still fighting and moving 😢

@Anarchy-bowfishing 4 ай бұрын

Brother 15 fire fighter wild land and structure lost my grandfather uncle with in a year on my shift I was on the first truck there . In all the years I was ask if I was ok if I need to talk never did figure I had it 6 months later I lost my dad in my arms while taken care of him .had cancer bet it lost him to a lung infection . Never got over it blame my self every day I did something wrong it's my fault . PTSD from that and the lives I couldn't save .bout cost me the love of my life .we both put are life on the line and grew up that it a sign of weakness. God bless you stay safe keep the faith I'm trying to fix myself and I'm seeing it's a long road .

@Anarchy-bowfishing 4 ай бұрын

Said it all brother same place

@terriwilliamson496 Ай бұрын

Even Jesus wept. Be strong in the Lord and the power of His might.

@MarilynMejorado-ee8qh 2 ай бұрын

Baby you have to heal your soul. Don't keep it inside! I raised two boys that I didn't have. I gave them a Mom and plenty of love. It is ok not to be ok. It's ok to cry!! 😭 I love you son 🤗

@aprilnoel4826 11 ай бұрын

"Where are these tears supposed to go? " That just sent tears down my cheeks .This is the most beautiful song I've heard in a very long time 💖😢..Hold those boys(Every Loved One) tight love them with all you have be that shoulder

@JakeBanfieldMusic 11 ай бұрын

Thank you🫶🏻

@liamjanson 11 ай бұрын

We all struggle jo man or woman child son daughter mother or father we all in this boat together the true meaning of live is to be part of someone else's life too

@christamoore7221 11 ай бұрын

WOW!! That's all I know too say rn for I'm speechless, frfr. Man it's been awhile since I've felt not only a song, but a song & EVERY SINGLE WORD IN IT, FRFR. I just wanna say "Thank You" for the 3:28 reminder that I'm not in this world fighting alone. Theirs so many out here in this cold world just like me. Sadly & unfortunately their so many that has it worse then I. To the ppl in this world, just know I am one of millions that do pray for us. I have this saying that I tell myself everyday... "Hold ur head up the ground is way too dirty, the sky is a much prettier view". If u think it may help u, ur more than welcome too it. May God Bless!💗

@desireejames6498 11 ай бұрын

224😢

@ruvenianwaldeck-ym4rq 11 ай бұрын

❤😢 I felt that.feels like a direct message,thank you stay blessed..this song hits very deep

@johnathonconnolly8908 9 ай бұрын

I'm 22 years old and just found this song and its hitting the feeling hard in life right now I feel lost and unknown of what to do

@faith777forever8 8 ай бұрын

STCK UR MONEY DONT WASTE IT LMAO SEEK GOD

@ThunderBullet-lw1xl 8 ай бұрын

@@faith777forever8most influenced short advice, but seek for the real real God, search for him in everywhere..

@RobDesilva 3 ай бұрын

When you feel alone and lonely call a friend to talk to Hope you feel better now😢

@DanwrigCooldude 2 ай бұрын

this song deserves more million views. where them boys at???

@timh8976 11 ай бұрын

I can fix anything but me😢 how true I remember those days…. But God❤..🙋🏼‍♂️

@ericfieber 21 күн бұрын

Something always comes into your life when you need it the most and thank you for your words.

@rasaeglinaite3810 4 ай бұрын

Boys are humans, everyone should learn to cry and change social norms/ mindset! Encouraging song ❤

@vaughnhowells8318 4 ай бұрын

AMEN... song hits me harder than nothing else.

@Therealkarathabunny 3 ай бұрын

"I keep trying to find that light but darkness keep darkness just keeps blinding me from what's right" thats great stuff. Thank you Praise Jesus Hallelujah 🙏❤

@zacherymay4673 Ай бұрын

My little brother passed away 8 months ago, he was my shoulder. I don’t know where to direct my pain and anger and I have to be here for my sons. Boys don’t cry was beat into me as a kid and now I just let it eat me alive.

@user-gk1dq7sq3c Ай бұрын

I feel ya on the drilled into us.

@mariahadams-dg7yh 22 сағат бұрын

I listen to this everyday because all I feel is like I am just a person who no one wants around and this song is everything that I need in life so thanks

@nicolyksholm7629 10 ай бұрын

Thank you! im suffering from PTSD, Panic Attacks, Anxiety, but never shared my feelings with anyone. But after this song, i feel free. Youre saving life's. Keep on going with this music

@frankkkkk 7 ай бұрын

You are not alone

@frankkkkk 7 ай бұрын

You are not alone

@georgemaltchev5583 5 ай бұрын

Praying for you

@nicolyksholm7629 5 ай бұрын

@@georgemaltchev5583 thank you man, it means a lot. Sadly it's just getting worse day by day. But Im not giving up.

@reddog19d 4 ай бұрын

you got this bro, we are all standing beside you.

@LLLigon72 10 ай бұрын

Every once in a while, tears break the tipping point.😢 they are the antifreeze for the soul. ❤

@jesusisking3814 10 ай бұрын

@diabloalford5945 6 ай бұрын

The more you hold in the more the breakdowns will be at random times with out you expect it

@malachistewart4810 2 ай бұрын

I went to high school with him he’s a great guy really nice and respectful with many talents

@ryantully3717 9 ай бұрын

9months into my moms diagnosis of 4 types of stage 4 cancer... my dad told me I have to be the anchor and I cant show emotion as she fades. I want to break that mold while staying strong and i can't. I stumbled upon this late at night tonight, drunk on my bday eve, thank you so much for letting me cry with you..... I needed this

@laughandlive377 8 ай бұрын

Screw your dad. Why shouldn't you cry? The world isn't going to end when you cry and you'll feel better. Your mom will feel better. Knowing she is so loved and having a cry herself bc that is awful. And awful situation for everyone that not crying won't change it. Tell your dad that just bc he only cries in his head or when he's alone, doesn't mean he is any better than you. And please cry. You, your mother him. Let it all out. Crying is like magical. Makes you feel like all those suffocating emotions aren't as suffocating anymore.

@shanepaul4377 7 ай бұрын

May God bless you and your family, I pray God puts his hand on you and hold you always. I try to be strong and never cry when my mom died, driving home on a random day at night out of the blue 5 years later and it just hit me, I cry my eyes out while driving, it's ok to cry, it's your way of dealing with the pain and hurt you going through. I hope things get better for you

@johnBorres-ym6os 7 ай бұрын

keep you head up pal

@breekeenan6875 6 ай бұрын

I lost my daughter 3 years ago, she would have been 15 on the 28th of October. I still can't cry in front of anyone. I have so much anger and pain built up and I can't let it out no matter how hard I try. 😢😢

@your_everyday_stupid 5 ай бұрын

im so sorry you you lost her but you can still talk to her im sure shes listening

@markperez478 2 ай бұрын

Tomorrow will 23yrs since my son passed away it still hurts.thanks for this song .

@patsyporter1777 9 күн бұрын

Say it loud and proud. God made you with feelings... So Feel Them. Thats really what strength is!

@OriOri-dn3iu 3 ай бұрын

I think your vulnerability is incredible. I think youve helped millions of people across the world struggling / suffering with these same exact problems. My soul thanks yours. And i pray that you should feel better.

@beverlythrasher1003 3 ай бұрын

I always told my son that it’s okay to cry. It makes you a better man. Beautiful song and very touching. ❤️🙏

@bradleylatter9021 2 ай бұрын

How have i only just found this song 😭😥

@darrenlee19 4 күн бұрын

how are you? " I'm okay, I'm fine, I'm good " will always be the answers people hear... almost like we're trained to be this way... we do it for the people around us, wife/partner/better half/children/family... took me 31 years of living... lost my dad in september and kept trying to be the guy who doesn't hurt... broke down and cried on my wifes shoulder... felt like each tear took 20 lbs off my shoulders... its okay to cry men, you'll be better/stronger for doing so... we're not alone!

@lost4gott3n 6 ай бұрын

those that see this, I know ya dont know me, but that does not mean you cant drop a PRAYER for me. I been facing the biggest battle ever in my life since Aug 22 2023, my personal Egypt. While the storm is smashing me from all sides I stand still, looking, listening, watching, waiting and any and all PRAYERS are wanted and needed. I cant put into words how defeated i feel how inferior i feel. I have never been tested like this in my life. For Yall: All Mighty GOD, i PRAY for all here now as well who need you GOD, you know the needs as they wander thru their Egypt, looking for the Promise Land, We all have our own Egypt and the only way thru is YOU. i PRAY YOU provide peace, strength, understanding and comfort for those in need. To you GOD, be all the Praise, Honor and Glory, CHRIST NAME AMEN, GOD BLESS all Even If, My hope is YOU alone #keepsteppingandstaystrong GOD has us all - Men cry cause i have everyday since Aug 22, no shame.. GOD give me peace

@RobertRuminski-jl8tv 3 ай бұрын

praying for you brother, in Jesus name i pray, amen.

@lost4gott3n 3 ай бұрын

@@RobertRuminski-jl8tv thanks so much, Cant say thanks enough

@emilytrevino4023 2 ай бұрын

Just know that as a woman I’m praying for healing for all you men in the comments. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to feel. You are allowed to cry. I’m so sorry that yall had to go through so many things alone.

@sietze345 2 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@shibby551 Ай бұрын

Prayers to anyone going threw it.. keep fighting even when u feel like your cant..

@MarilynMejorado-ee8qh 2 ай бұрын

I love this song. And told my boys I raised it's ok to cry. My girl's I gave birth to as well. It's not a weakness! Thank you Jake for putting this message in a beautiful song. ❤ Guys it's ok to be human.❤

@Wuzzzzup87 10 ай бұрын

This song found me when i needed it the most.

@stevegarmier563 2 ай бұрын

i am stressed because i might be getting held back by 7th grade and this song is helping me so much

@zodiontrials1002 Ай бұрын

It's gonna be ok lil one. Take this as a learning experience ❤. Just know that you are loved and blessed. God loves you more then you know. 🤗🤗🤗

@jacksoncooper5425 Ай бұрын

Man I just want to let you know you're not alone. I was held back in the 6th grade due to a speech impediment problem. It was very hard at times but it's what God had planned for me. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you're a failure because they just don't understand. I'm a senior now about to go to college for free. I have my dream job making good money. Just keep fighting everyday you can get through it. Trust in God and what he is planning for you.

@amandaaalxandriiaa7145 Ай бұрын

Baby, its okay, I know its scary but I promise u and I take my promises very serious , its all going to be okay even tho some days feel like u can't get ahead. I promise u , u are worth it and never allow a grade or grades to define u . You are so much more than the grade ur in. As a momma I know ur pain my son's been there. I'm only 1 message away hun.❤

@memeagain4966 20 күн бұрын

We all feel that way. Work,life,school. You are not alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@devin1706 2 ай бұрын

When my dad died this song helped me

@rjhayter32 2 ай бұрын

god knows we are all expected to endure so much and if we can't it's because we are weak.. just lost my father this morning and people seemed like it didn't matter

@glentaylor3013 10 ай бұрын

As a veteran this hits home. Thanks for this song

@The-Night-Hauler 10 ай бұрын

Thank u for ur service ❤🇺🇸

@killersnake1175 10 ай бұрын

I feel u on this. I’m a veteran too

@littlenick616 10 ай бұрын

thank you.

@brettaither1768 9 ай бұрын

Same Brother!!

@user-yg9cz6fe7w 9 ай бұрын

My husband is a vet and although I will never fully understand what’s he’s been thru this song helps me. I’ll always be his shoulder to cry on. Thank you for your service, friend. I appreciate you and happy you are here.

@revee1000 2 ай бұрын

I'm a 40 year old have been crying for 3 months since my mother passed and my wife left me. At the same time

@MrFatlou Күн бұрын

This song just hit at the right time, last week my dad had a stroke and started having constant fits. I had to stay strong and be rational to get him to the hospital. I can't remember when last I cried, till now I still haven't. He's not the same man that raised me and that hurts the most, cause it's the 4th time something happened to change him like this since I became an adult, and I have to make sure my mother is also in a good place, but what hit me the worst was seeing my brother, the strongest giy I know, not that I care much for him after all his done to me since childhood, break down because he had just landed in America for work when this happened and he ferls powerless. I'm just glad my dad came out safe, not the same but safe, cause it's my birthday next week and he rreally wanted to throw me a party for it even though I don't care much for that, but I at least want to see him in 2 months on his birthday. Thank you for this amazing gift of an song

@jasonfinney4484 4 ай бұрын

Jesus sees all of our tears he knows our hearts he knows everything that is bothering you

@benjaminwilmot249 6 ай бұрын

Why is this making me tear up, I don't cry or get emotional, right now with my oldest nephew having stage for tissue cancer my emotions have been hitting hard

@mattniday278 5 ай бұрын

I've never cried so hard until i had to carry my grandpa and uncle just 4 months apart thanks for the song it really hits a spot i built up to keep the tears from coming

@christychaffin9178 2 ай бұрын

I absolutely love this song, I sent to my 21 year old son because he’s having a tough time right now loosing his dad unexpectedly and right behind his grandmother, so it really fit. Keep going you are amazing ❤

@richardshort7013 6 ай бұрын

I have sons and daughters and I also server, you ever or anyone that reads this need a shoulder to cry on and or just an ear to listen, I am here

@sonyapresley1338 11 ай бұрын

Jake I'm so so proud of you your voice is amazing and your lyrics always hit home cant wait too see where this journey takes you man we Ga folks love you keep them hits coming !!

@ryuhatta7008 9 ай бұрын

"sometimes, I'm the one need holdin'" those lyrics/words, shouts what I've been feeling lately. Thank you for the song. I may not be able to cry, but this song already screamed for me. Thank you.

@michaeldebruijn4941 7 күн бұрын

Am 24 right now my father passed away almost 3 years ago, my mother almost 1 year on the same date 05-24 so this year is quite hard, but for everyone never give up how hard it is. I believe in all of you🙏🏼

@Cottey-clarissa Ай бұрын

I love when a man cry because it call having a heart

@LeaveMeB 10 ай бұрын

this song gave me chills thx jake keep making unbelievable music an u have such a great voice

@cheyennejohnson5638 10 ай бұрын

This song should have been written DECADES ago but I am grateful that it's out there now

@jmacbitch420 6 ай бұрын

Just got diagnosed with major depression disorder today this is one of the hardest battles iv had in a long time keep your heads up guys push through we got this.

@user-mq9cd5lq5e Ай бұрын

Some days I hurt so bad when I get home from work . I drink a lot of beers but get into fight with my old lady saying she hates how I drink but it’s just for me to stay calm and relax my mind from the racing thoughts so I can give the love of my life and kids the best life they deserve

@zackz7495 Ай бұрын

Wish I had someone to reach out to but that's life

@allanmacek4413 10 ай бұрын

Sing brother with your heart & soul! Great song ! ❤️🔥❤️

@user-nl9hs2nd2j 3 ай бұрын

hey jake my name is ally and I am 37 years old. and i'm from Minnesota in the United States. and i just wanted to say that i think you are by far the most exceptional, extrodinary, excellentl, bright, i, osinspiring, inspirational, moving, touching, incredible, awesome, dedicated, devoted, determined, daring, compassionate, Heart Felt and the most Humble country singer. that i have ever seen in the entire country musici business by far. and i also wanted to say how much i love your songs called, Take This Pain, Somebody Does, Dance Alone, Boys Don't Cry, You And Me, Numb, Better Without Me, Drowning In Your Love, Hold Me, If I Were You and your other song called Can't Let Go I think by far are the most inspiring, inspirational, upbeat, uplifting, moving, touching, incredible, breath taking, Healing, And the most Heart Felt songs. That i have ever seen or heard from any other country singer. in the entire country music business by far.

@EloiseTardif 8 ай бұрын

This song is one of the most beautiful and meaningful I’ve heard. The message and the lyrics make me tear up every time… thank you for this underrated masterpiece 🫶

@Garcia-xt7zu 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much jake I lost my dad last week I love this song so much and we buried him yesterday and it’s been so hard this song helped me a lot thank you

@Lefisher73 Ай бұрын

Never has a song made me feel that... 😢🙏

@Ashley-be7jl Күн бұрын

Thank you for this song

@thewright9392 10 ай бұрын

I love your music and it hits so hard for me, thanks for writing this. Immediate tears for me

@charleswolf8472 10 ай бұрын

I've been listening to this song on repeat, thank you for creating a song that explains how we been feeling💔☹️

@danieljackson2499 14 күн бұрын

With my severe depression and Suicidal Thoughts (not always) this song helps so much, thank you my fellow Okie

@Bryce107 9 ай бұрын

This needs more views it is so true

@lashandaberry 6 ай бұрын

I have been dealing with depression and anxiety for a long time now and when I hear this song it hits hard thanks for the song

@coversongs254 10 ай бұрын

No song has ever described what I'm going through like this song... I feel like I'm on my last run but no one to reach out to or talk to. If this is my last , anyone reading this please follow up on your friends

@laughandlive377 8 ай бұрын

You don't have friends? Why don't you tell them what's making you sad and ask for hugs?

@watever1965 6 ай бұрын

Love his voice. One in a million ❤

@jmanderson1984 11 ай бұрын

Boys don’t cry, but some of the strongest men I know sure do. And there ain’t a thing wrong with that 💜

@dylanpearce9618 10 ай бұрын

💯🙏

@killersnake1175 10 ай бұрын

Nun wrong with thatt men can cry and be strong. Men can get hit and walk away and considered strong. Don’t matter if they show emotions or walk away from the fight. Just proves they mature and strong when needed

@bryonstavens3906 10 ай бұрын

I really appreciate you putting the lyrics in the description area. It helps me listen and understand the song the first time I listen to it.

@maddog4u31757 6 ай бұрын

Been listening to this on repeat for days..... thank you for this song

@edenmyass 10 ай бұрын

brought me to tears, such a beautiful song. i'd always hold a man and let him cry on my shoulder.

@Penguin_Khan 10 ай бұрын

As a veteran this song hit me hard

@danielheinlein6741 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for your service! You are appreciated!

@ChelsH-um1we 10 ай бұрын

I'm so glad u express the importance of being ok and accepting and experiencing our feelings and and letting others express there's without judgement. Thanks great song !!

@simonwilliams1943 11 ай бұрын

Wow, just heard this and what a beautiful heartfelt but real world song. I can relate a lot to the lyrics being a sufferer of depression and also as a man/father/spouse I know how hard it's is to show your true feelings when things get too much, but this hit home and brought a tear to my eye but now I can't stop playing it, im obsessed such an amazing voice and a beautiful song.

@Alchemist55798 17 күн бұрын

Love this tune 🎵 ❤❤

@meganbrown8037 3 ай бұрын

Needed this

@martyn7344 8 ай бұрын

Found this song at just the right time ❤ being unable to cry, can drive you crazy but some music helps to get a little release, and this song does just thank you

@emilygangadeen919 10 ай бұрын

Aww this song hits a deep place because ever since my bf and I lost our first dog this gets us really emotional! This is a absolute beautiful song thank you!! 😊❤❤

@Isamacmusic 5 ай бұрын

I love this. Keep making music like this man, people need to hear songs like this.

@mattsteele4054 6 ай бұрын

True I can fix anything just give me time but it seems like I can never fix myself

@jansonrichards6982 9 ай бұрын

This hits hard can't stop listening to this

@jasonhopkins8583 8 ай бұрын

Bro this song makes me genuinely happy to know I'm not alone your amazing for this song man keep on keepin on

@colejohnson7757 5 ай бұрын

This song is my favorite song

@travismcgarrah4513 5 ай бұрын

Found this song today. Thanks for the amazing composition and beautiful words. Let help those whose heads are hanging. Be kind to everyone. We never know what people are going through.

@user-nw5cj2fq2b 10 ай бұрын

Its the first time hearing this song it made me cry honestly everything is so true in every aspect

@sachag2738 11 ай бұрын

This song is a way for people to communicate through, because music heals the soul. YOU ARE NOT ALONE, reach out ❤

@BhishanRaiOfficial 10 ай бұрын

Where is these tears supposed to go…… Just took me to another dimension of thoughts ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@JimmyNeal-bp3oj 11 күн бұрын

I was raised that if a man cried it was wake and now I can't cry even if I want to

@everlee2019 9 ай бұрын

This song is exactly what I needed to hear.I can really relate to this song.Beautiful❤

@user-wu8sd4uk1y 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the AMAZING song. I just broke. I’ve never felt closer to a song. I’ve held it in for so long. Definitely my #1 go to

@robertapickett8993 9 ай бұрын

I could watch you singer forever!

@CannibalChris333 21 күн бұрын

I played this though several times and feel this in my soul

@user-le8do4ug8k 7 ай бұрын

You have beautiful vocals.. keep on moving forward to move others.. keep up being the amazing person you are.. you have the potential thank you for showing it