Job Searching Ep. 5 | getting rejected, back to square one, my job tracker & how I stay organized

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Hello friends,
This obviously was not the update that I wanted to share but unfortunately, I did not get an offer. Truthfully, I wasn't overly enthusiastic about this company at the beginning, but as I learned more about role and engaged with the team I genuinely felt like I could have been a great fit. It's also one of those situations where after investing so much time and energy, you start having that sunk-cost fallacy feeling where you just want the offer to validate all that effort.
I don't want to be dramatic but rejection really does suck. Behind the scenes, not everything is as polished and swift as it seems on social media or LinkedIn. I wanted to share more of a candid glimpse into the rollercoaster of emotions that come with job hunting. Even though I do believe that I am a great candidate and have a strong background, it’s been difficult for me to get interviews and get an offer too.
If you're on the same boat, I hope this video and series continue to give you encouragement. This is all apart of the journey and I hope that we all stay resilient and don't give up 💪
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@tamunopriyedagogo-george5111 Ай бұрын

I work as a Data Engineer and I spent about 6 months looking for my current role, funny thing is for almost every month I was interviewing for a company I could see myself working in but I was always rejected. I cried just like you did, maybe even worse, lol. And I doubted myself so much but when its for you it’s gonna come easy, i tell you! Its not a rejection, just a redirection! 8 stages is no joke and to get to the final round, you’re a freaking bad ass! I’m rooting for you!

@jonfreeman9682 Ай бұрын

Congrats and well done on your job search. It is definitely tough and demoralizing. But when you get that job it's what makes it so special.

@dd19892 Ай бұрын

I hope you don't get laid off soon 😅

@tamunopriyedagogo-george5111 Ай бұрын

@@dd19892 That’s a very insensitive thing to say, do better!

@frustratedalien666 Ай бұрын

@@tamunopriyedagogo-george5111 that person's been saying stuff like that on multiple threads. Trolls gonna troll, I suppose

@j19l8r4 2 күн бұрын

@@tamunopriyedagogo-george5111with the rise of AI potentially taking over? We have to be a bit skeptical or realistic

@sheriberrix Ай бұрын

Thank you for being so raw and vulnerable with dealing with rejections. Speaking from personal experience and from hindsight, the rejections we receive are all part of leading us to the right opportunity for us. When it happens, you know it will all be worth it and everything happens for a reason. Each interview you go through is also making you even better so that when it comes to the right job, you'll be even better equipped for it to get it. I hope you are finding some encouragement during this time and I just know that your next role will be something that is perfect for you ❤

@atn0611 Ай бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking. She’s so real for doing this. More power to her!

@chinalatinafilipina Ай бұрын

This is so true! I am tearing up but I know Julia's (the right) door is about to open

@zarablonde7591 Ай бұрын

it's so nice that you took a moment to let her know this. it is exactly what i was thinking. there is always light at the end of the tunnel and sometimes you just can't see it yet. beautiful things are always finding their way to those who keep searching for it🤍

@93gus Ай бұрын

Why doesn't she have a whyte boyfriend? I live in Melbourne, Australia and all the azn girls I see on the street chase my own people

@lolitazavala1879 Ай бұрын

Those are words of wisdom.... I hope she takes heed of it

@imanemimi380 Ай бұрын

The market is highly competitive, which can make it difficult to secure a job without a referral. However, the fact that you are receiving interviews is a positive sign. Many people's applications go unnoticed, so your progress is encouraging. Keep up the good work.

@Toulkun Ай бұрын

Exactly this, but referals can only get you to the interviews and not the actual job unfortunately.

@craigman7262 Ай бұрын

@@Toulkun Sometimes the grass isn't greener on the other side

@abbytpco 27 күн бұрын

Agree with this 😭

@yunisblu3412 24 күн бұрын

And this is why someone in her vlog about quitting Spotify gave some good advice and said to never quit a job before securing a new work. Looks like she was right.

@abbytpco 24 күн бұрын

@@yunisblu3412 somehow true but if the mental health is already at risk, resigning is the right thing to do instead of not being able to recover and ended up being burned out. i’m speaking from my experience and her vlog is a reality that the job market is a shit but at the end of the day, there is a light at the end of the tunnel

@bug98276 Ай бұрын

I just wanted to say filming this process is really helpful for a lot of us who are/have been unemployed or are job searching. I interviewed for a job recently that I knew I would have been great at and was rejected and told by the hiring manager it was a one point difference between me and the hired candidate. It was so demotivating and I beat myself up over it for days. At the end of the day we know we are capable and intelligent, this whole process is extremely taxing and emotionally damaging at times. Remember your worth and use the support around you, all the best xx

@keishafuller6237 Ай бұрын

Sounds like a jerk. You dodged a bullet.

@matcha.always Ай бұрын

I relate to this!

@user-sw7os5rp9h Ай бұрын

In the last 8 years, there was a boom in the "data science" degree wihich is much easier than a computer science or computer engineering degree. Right now, so many candidates with "data scientist" as a degree as it sound sexy are out of a job 1 year or more.....many of them are trying to pivot to AI/Machine learning by throwing in "key phrases" to just get interviews.

@TheSoulCrisis Ай бұрын

Exactly what happened to me when I got through a 3 stage interview process for a UI developer role with JPMC for a six figure role.....who knows how stressful it would have been! Working for a defense contractor now as a 100% remote software developer and enjoying the process.

@janvincentchioco7199 Ай бұрын

8 rounds of interview is just pure BS.

@ebookfay Ай бұрын

Yikes, that’s horrible of employers to do that

@TheSoulCrisis Ай бұрын

Seriously they can’t tell if they like someone enough and trust them to work with them after 2 or 3 rounds? It’s just a bullshit extended process to screen out more people because of how bad the job market is….wouldn’t happen if only 3 people applied to the job! At most 1 or 2 round interviews would be it then.

@em8969 Ай бұрын

This 9-5 life ain’t life, amma start a business

@ssebasgoo 29 күн бұрын

@@em8969You'll work way more than 9-5 for way less...

@leondreamcast 28 күн бұрын

It’s insane I did 8 rounds with Apple, and they rejected me and the recruiter told me they went with someone that was already working with the team internally. Then why waste someone time if you already knew who you wanted??

@LaurenOrion Ай бұрын

Companies are way too big headed atm, they can’t hold down employees but only want the perfect candidate. Honestly take a rejection as a blessing that you won’t work for a toxic company, the perfect job is waiting for you ❤

@jonfreeman9682 Ай бұрын

That's because there's so many people looking for work they're spoiled with too much to choose.

@juliafei Ай бұрын

Thank you for your patience with this upload! I had a last minute trip to Asia so things have been a bit delayed. I wish I can tell you that I got an offer - but unfortunately the search continues 🥲 This video is a bit long & more chatty than usual but I hope you enjoy 🫶

@kaniBoron Ай бұрын

My deep congratulations! I am also in the job market as a mom of 3 for 9months.. feeling so down, I feel so many emotions for this period of time... I cried with you in this video, I know how its hard.. When I will get an offer I will write my comment here. Thanks for sharing. It's good to know that everyone goes through this cycle to get an offer. Enjoy your trip to Asia!😇

@nabilahamidu5743 Ай бұрын

You’re doing amazing. You’ll get the most perfect job at the best time. Keep holding your head up high, thank you for sharing your experience with us.

@dreamingofpemberly Ай бұрын

I feel for you on the job rejections. Being on the job market since September of last year due to the place I worked at had mass layoff, pretty much the whole company, all I can say is it'll get better. Finally came across some part-time work, in a field that isn't my ideal, but it's work at least until summer since it's only during the school year. Still looking for full-time work, and though life happens, you just gotta keep putting the applications out and think positively. One door closes. Another one opens. And sometimes, you just gotta think outside the box. Hope the Asia trip goes pleasantly, and will keep you, me and and us all in prayers that we get that perfect job that's for us for those that's having to look for work at this time. And, will post here as well when I get that full-time work offer as well.

@TheBigBananaaa Ай бұрын

⚛️ I left my career after 22 years in the industry and now I am looking for different challenges ⚛️

@SWCR2024 Ай бұрын

Keep it up, took me almost 9 months to step away from Tech/consulting, is hard and I totally understand how you feel, Now I am in a great place doing something totally new, look for other industries

@isabellesais2604 Ай бұрын

it is honestly so unfair and disrespectful that it takes so many weeks and rounds to interview for positions that you don't even know if you are gonna get. i am really cheering for you and your success on the next ones to come!

@M.A.D.C.J Ай бұрын

Super it’s actually so nasty and I wish we could start reporting these companies

@lionjark Ай бұрын

What would be a better and different approach though?

@snehaarunkumar797 Ай бұрын

compensation

@GlamGoddes101 Ай бұрын

@@lionjark Easy! - less time between each interview, like what Julia said too, does it *really* take so long to evaluate candidates

@lionjark Ай бұрын

@@GlamGoddes101 I don't know, it depends on many factors, like company size, number of candidates, size of the recruiting team and how busy the interviewers are. Having been on the other side I genuinely feel for the applicants but I also struggle to find a better alternative. BTW, my question was not rhetorical, even though it might come across as such.

@jen_design Ай бұрын

Finding a job always sucks. Exactly in the same process since 6 months, got rejected many times in the final round. 15 years of experience and feel like a junior who's trying to find her first job. Don't give up. ❤

@Toulkun Ай бұрын

@@djamel-arbouche Certifications mean nothing

@djamel-arbouche Ай бұрын

@@Toulkun no question they’re overrated, but I know managers who will not even check a CV without certification. This is sad, but something to be aware of and use strategically.

@Toulkun Ай бұрын

@@djamel-arbouche Certifications usually doesnt mean you have good knowledge of something. This is why i long time ago ditched getting certifications but acquiring good experience at subject.

@djamel-arbouche Ай бұрын

@@Toulkun i fully agree ! I was just talking about how you market yourself, taking into account the recruiter’s bias.

@Stephaniefarrah Ай бұрын

⁠which drives me nuts. The posting says they prefer certs and yet you loose the job to a cheaper hire who does not have the certs....🫠K thanks...

@shellzzii Ай бұрын

I’m in the same spot as you right now. I completely understand not wanting to hype yourself up or get too excited, because you never know. i’ve been unemployed for 3 months now, and i’ve been rejected so many times, it’s so hard.

@shellzzii Ай бұрын

i don’t have any real advice, because obviously i’m in the same place. i don’t want to scare you by saying i’ve been unemployed for 3 months, but i feel the same way as you. So much rejection, and i’m not sure how much more i can handle, and it sucks and hurts and i do feel angry. i’ve found solace in workout classes and the dog park and just trying to be normal. walks during the day, etc.

@dennisbbb Ай бұрын

I always know it’s a number game, so just keep applying until a match happens.

@ko_grindz Ай бұрын

I totally agree with you. Ever since I left my last seasonal job I spent the last four months searching for jobs. It is hard especially as the weather is getting warmer there is more competition. I hope you find what you are looking for

@shellzzii Ай бұрын

@@ko_grindz you too

@kaskahea1274 Ай бұрын

@@dennisbbbi

@therenatagomes Ай бұрын

I’m crying with you because I’m going through the same process and it’s so frustrating 😭 I always blame myself for not getting the job, it feels like I’ll never be good enough 😢 I was really hoping to do my master’s degree in Italy, but found out they already sent the emails for whoever was selected to the interview phase and that broke my heart so so so much. I’ll never understand why we are not selected if we match everything they want 😭

@Zackbeetle Ай бұрын

Totally relatable, I’m still searching for a new job after completing master’s degree and until now,still couldn’t find any new job. Really frustrating and stressful but again, I believe there will be a right opportunity at the right time. So don’t give up and keep finding,I’m sure you will come across it one day. Try to take it a bit easy and don’t stress too much. All the best! 💪

@KRISHNA-dt9kx Ай бұрын

this is a small tip but works, when ever you got rejected by a company or a recruiter you have to tell yourself that company is not enough fortunate to work with you and they are missing a gem like you and you can also tell yourself that there is something bigger waiting for me ahead and your grief evaporates all the best

@paulcostache6733 27 күн бұрын

That’s actually very true….

@annat6249 25 күн бұрын

That is a denial thinking to keep self image high. It doesn’t make it positive. I hate modern day, “It is your loss” after breakup. Maybe it just simply not a compatible for a long relationship so it break. It is a sad experience to get rejected but better approach is try to be better, not denial thinking.

@kanittahutamekalin214 Ай бұрын

Julia, please don't cry. I've been through six rounds of interviews with the same big tech company several times, and each time, I was rejected without any feedback. After the second rejection, I started to see it as free job interview practice. Sometimes, when the big tech company reached out, I was too busy to respond, so I turned them down. I've been in the IT industry since 1992 when I first looked for a job in the newspaper. I can assure you that you're going to be great, and one day you'll look back on this and laugh. Most importantly, you haven't wasted any time being unemployed. Your KZfaq videos are very helpful and motivating to viewers.

@MashaB-pk8hl 12 күн бұрын

I go on interviews just to perfect my interview skills. I have the advantage of not feeling any pressure during the interview since I’m happy where I work. The interviews give you an insight into how far ahead or behind your current employer is. I like the ideas that I pick up. It helps you see how things could be changed at your current company.

@user-ff1fi5in1k Ай бұрын

I think most people only share the bright side of their lives but hardly ever share their dark side, so thank you for being willing to share real life. I'm experiencing the same situation as you (being rejected), and it's comforting to know we're not alone. Keeping the faith that the right opportunity will come along eventually.

@jpoo202 Ай бұрын

Agree, appreciate the realness Julia. You are awesome and I have no doubt you will land a role soon, although damn can the process get tiring!!! Take good care of yourself and thank you for sharing

@darciewallace7522 Ай бұрын

I'm gonna tell you the same thing I've told my son, who graduated with his bachelor's in Computer Science last June and is obviously entry level. The right thing will happen, it always does, unavoidable and true. He went through 6 interview processes, made it to the final 3xs, while working in the interim. Took 9 months but he's in, started 2 weeks ago. The field ya'll are in is frustrating as heck at the moment, but you're gonna be just fine, guaranteed! I've watched your channel for a bit now, you're great, organized, the right fit will come, wait for it, it will be worth it😊

@dd19892 Ай бұрын

Hopefully your son doesn't get laid off soon

@diyteknix 23 күн бұрын

Bless your heart..

@sunr8152 Ай бұрын

Thanks for being realistic! It's not easy to get hire nowadays even if you're qualified to do the job.

@frustratedalien666 Ай бұрын

I couldn't get a single interview call despite having 10 years of relevant experience and two relevant degrees. I applied to > 200 positions over a 2 month period before landing that one interview that thankfully translated into an offer. I have never felt this panicked ever in my life. Keep your head up and continue trying

@dd19892 Ай бұрын

My guess is that you'll be let go soon...

@frustratedalien666 Ай бұрын

@@dd19892 eh, if it happens it happens

@melmel123000m Ай бұрын

Ive been interviewing after tech layoffs, and was recently told the position that I had done a final round for, no longer exists because the team decided to repurpose the role to something else...after I had spent hours and weeks to prep for all the rounds of interviews. It sucks, but I am telling myself that it was not meant to be and that something right will come my way. Thanks for sharing your journey as well. We got this!!

@pamfan221 Ай бұрын

That's so upsetting! For every 30 min of actual interview time there is AT LEAST 3 hours of prep. And once you've spent the time you can't get it back. These companies need to think before they string candidates along.

@user-kw1vm3ik6n Ай бұрын

Julia - I'm only 6 minutes into this video and feel I must tell you this: You are meant for bigger and better things! I know you are disappointed BUT appreciate how far you've come, the amazing experience you have acquired in your young life (I'm 57 and want to hug you right now) and the amazing potential yet on your horizon. You are a ROCKSTAR! Be thankful for the experience and forge ahead, my dear. You got this! : ) It will all be ok ... I promise. : ) 😍 Now on to finish this video! : )

@Invader123Zim 16 күн бұрын

I found your job searching series at the perfect timing! I recently got rejected after a great interview and I felt so frustrated after I got the mail. I don't know the reason, why they rejected me and my self esteem was so low. All of my friends have a stable job and I felt like the only one "failing". But then I found your series on the same day as I got rejected and it helped me so much to know that there are a lot of other people struggling to get a job and that rejections are normal and that you just have to continue. The right job will come! It will take time and patience, but I believe everyone can do it, if you put yourself out there! Good luck to everyone!

@Infinitykk Ай бұрын

I understand what it's like to get so close to the finish line and then getting rejected because somebody did better. I used to be very angry and frustrated at first, but then I shifted my mentality to be happy for that person. What if they were in the same situation as me and this was finally their offer after months of rejection? What if their financial situation was worse and they couldn't afford to get rejected again? This was the only way for me to not be so hard on myself and move on to the next. Now, I finally have a job that's better than the one I was rejected from. Rejection is truly redirection! You are talented, Julia! I promise you that with the way things are going, you will have a great opportunity soon.

@CrisOnTheInternet Ай бұрын

This is beautiful, you see it from a place of empathy and community instead of pure competition.

@anonygirly Ай бұрын

Love this, so big of you 🩷

@st.toussaint4632 Ай бұрын

Bruh get over yourself, she has 157K subs . She will be fine lol

@jennanuntavijan Ай бұрын

I need to hear this right now!!!! I rather be happy than miserable for one more thing. If its meant to be it will be

@Infinitykk Ай бұрын

@@st.toussaint4632 When someone offers a word of encouragement, there always has to be a person who throws in the word bruh with negativity lmfao. I was expecting you

@mangokilla127 Ай бұрын

Dang ngl I teared up seeing you cry after the rejection call. I'm a graphic designer so not the same field but I can fully relate to the long stressful process of finding a job. It's so emotionally draining, but you definitely build resilience to the process. I recently saw on another vid talking about how although politicians keep saying there's many jobs available, it's being worded to hide the fact that many fields (including tech) don't actually have roles open, they're doing what they did to Julia and basically keeping job seekers on hold in case anything comes up.

@tokkiM3 Ай бұрын

Been un employed since August, 1k+ applications with 1 year experience. All we can do is keep trying, and not give up. Good luck

@thiftingmybestlife Ай бұрын

The person that hires you, is lucky to have you...Making my day with an upload ❤

@dd19892 Ай бұрын

lol they laid her off last time

@busylizzy9095 Ай бұрын

You were so respectful and kind even though the news from the recruiter wasn’t what you were hoping for. You are truly one of a kind! Don’t let this discourage you. Sometimes the universe is working in our favor even when we don’t think. What’s meant for you, will happen!!! ❤

@juanachan Ай бұрын

I recently got a job, and today is my first day at work after 5 months. So don't give up.

@CrisOnTheInternet Ай бұрын

That's awesome, wish you have a great start.

@user-pe1pu9ew4z Ай бұрын

Hi Julia, I'm a front-end developer and also currently I'm looking for a new job. I wanted to thank you for being so open and showing your vulnerability. It's comforting to know that there are others in the same situation,

@allisonmyers5874 Ай бұрын

*hugs* I had a similar situation where it was weeks and weeks of interviews, tests, and promises, only to be ghosted for weeks and then rejected after having to reach out. It can feel so demoralizing and frustrating to put so much effort into something and it end up going nowhere. It makes it difficult to trust recruiters and employers with your time and emotional bandwidth. Hang in there, you’re not alone ❤

@pearlaton Ай бұрын

Wow this has been an incredible video. I relate to you so much. I applied to a Social Media Manager role last March and the company was impressed with my experience and skills. I did two round of interviews and they all seemed positive. Until they rejected me and said they were moving forward with another candidate. It sucked so much because I was excited and I felt like the company was the right fit for me. It also didnt help that the rejection happened during the week that I was having a difficult time in school too. It took me a while to get over it but I eventually see it as a positive thing that I was good enough that i got to be interviewed and that they were impressed by me. Keep pressing on! You got this 💪🏼

@eggna Ай бұрын

Julia, thank you for always sharing with us your highest and lowest moments. I hope you can find comfort in your viewers and all of our experiences. Much love!

@HiBye-zl2tk Ай бұрын

You have no idea how much of help this is, going through interviews and doing so well in them and not getting the job can be defeating. I wish you get the job you want! Best of luck!!!

@Dnxn290 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing these parts of your life with us too, Julia. You’re amazing and will definitely get a role that you love soon ❤ We are all sending you good vibes and strength!

@lenzie_t Ай бұрын

I really appreciate you making this video. I’ve been going through something similar. People don’t realize how huge of an impact something like this can have on your mental health. The job market has been insane recently and I think its amazing that you’re able to feel the feels but then pick yourself up and continue to put in the work to make sure you’re joining a company that you will be happy to work at. Wishing you all the best, you got this!

@yijuanchan2651 Ай бұрын

For some reason I cried with you during the phone call... the sound of hope-crushing rejection never feels good and I know exactly how you felt. Cheering you on for the continued search 💪💪❤

@stella123www Ай бұрын

I cried a few times during my job application process. I reached the onsite round with five companies; two closed their position at the last minute, and I failed with three. I also faced some rejections in the early rounds. What made me sad was the feeling that I had done well enough to get an offer if it had been in the past two years. But now, it's really competitive. Every time this happened to me, I tried to work out and do yoga. The exercise and meditation helped me concentrate again and just believe in myself. You can do it, Julia!

@arisantosz Ай бұрын

Don’t worry Julia!! The right role will come for you and will be amazing, sending you positive energies and blessings

@inaherscribbles5152 Ай бұрын

I'm crying with you from across the globe. Thank you for sharing this rough patch with us! I feel how hard it is to get rejections, which makes doubt yourself. But there's only brighter things ahead! I am truly rooting from you! All the love from the Philippines 💛

@angelify6692 Ай бұрын

Hi Julia, thank you for sharing the raw and unfiltered moments 😭 I teared up at 5:21 because I’m also in the same boat (data scientist interviews just seem to get harder and harder). A big virtual hug for you and everyone who is going through the hard job searching journey right now. May we power through ❤

@Vale-zu2dt Ай бұрын

oh no, Julia you are good enough!!!! Everything will be alright!!!

@norfolkreads Ай бұрын

Aw Julia :( virtual hugs from across the pond. My hubbie works in tech, he got laid off after being at his company for 12 years and is still job hunting 7 months on. It's really hellish out there but you are good enough. Don't lose heart ❤

@NhiTran-gs9hz Ай бұрын

My husband is in the same phase, been looking for jobs since August last year after got laid off

@turkishdelight6032 Ай бұрын

Thank you for being transparent with us, Julia I am in a similar boat. I get contacted by recruiters, have great interviews and rounds, and get positive feedback that I am what the company is looking for. All of this…just to be told that they went with an internal candidate I’ve learned in the past couple months that companies either already had an internal candidate in mind or weren’t actually planning to hire for the role, but posted the listing just to build a talent list for the future I see so many LinkedIn posts from talent and recruiting staff taking so positively about their hiring processes and how “people” are at the core of what they do. Unfortunately, employees and candidates are simply seen as assets, so I think it’s good to take measures to protect ourselves both mentally and professionally Please keep your head up, just as I am trying to. You’re not alone, and we WILL get through this together!! 💕

@tuyetduong-yp4ge Ай бұрын

I’m crying with you. You’ve got this. Don’t lose hope.

@teresia8684 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing each step of the way with us! I teared up and wanted to just give you a hug! So happy that you're also taking time to process emotions, resting, and take care of yourself. ❤️❤️ The right team will come, just from watching your videos I can definitely tell that you are ambitious, hard working, and resilient! Sending love and hugs!! 🤗

@cherietanya Ай бұрын

Julia, thank you for being so honest with your viewers! I'm sure you'll do well and you'll definitely work your way up to where you can do your best. After my internship ended, I was heartbroken that I didn't get the chance to stay with my favorite team and was terrified of finding my first serious job. Especially that I decided to test myself and take a more challenging path. I believe I was incredibly lucky that a recruiter found my resume and the product owner with the team decided to take me on right away, despite needing a lot of experience for the position. I'm just starting my journey and the unknown scares me so much, but my colleagues are very kind and supportive. Also, my grandma says that everything that happens in life happens for the best, and fate will always give us something much better ❤

@lilytwelftree4837 Ай бұрын

i want to give you a big hug and then THANK YOU for sharing this journey with us. I have never felt so seen!! The job application process is truly brutallll. Your videos are such a guiding light and inspiration for me as a data science student (who dreams of NYC haha) and your vulnerability in sharing the realities is sooo deeply appreciated. With 5years as a data scientist at Spotify under your belt AND having built this community, I wish you could see how brilliant I see you!! Sending you and your family love x

@suem.1392 Ай бұрын

Thank you for your videos, Julia! I found your channel after I was let go last month. I'm also in NYC. My job was impossible and getting let go was unfair but I am happy I don't have to deal with those people anymore. I am slowly getting back to job searching. It's helpful for me to see someone going through it with me. Don't cry (too much)! We got this!!

@xoxo.alexguo Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. This reminds me of my job hunting as well - every application took so long, each position was extremely competitive, and it was endless and disheartening. Don’t let all the spirals consume you. Rejections do NOT define your worth. Believe in yourself and you got this ❤

@AlessandraAleluia Ай бұрын

Oh girl, I just cried with u in this video. I'm cheering for you! Just keep moving and learning with your experiences. You already know your worth isn't measured by these interviews. Thanks for being so vulnerable with us and sharing this journey on the internet. Kisses from Brazil!

@fiona7589 Ай бұрын

Thank you for being so vulnerable. I'm sincerely cheering for you

@durgapaul028 Ай бұрын

Hi Julia! I watch your videos every week because it’s so relatable as I also work in tech. Really love your videos and thanks for sharing all the sides, including the emotional ones. I too cried today because of something at work and had the feeling that I am not good enough. This too shall pass and one day we will proud of ourselves for getting through this. ❤

@candice_danielle0728 Ай бұрын

Awww sweetie I’m so sorry. I overthink a lot too. Something better will come along, keep pushing forward! Sending positive vibes your way! ❤

@tabi5550 Ай бұрын

came across your channel last week, i am also going thru the recruiting process and found you so inspiring. rejection sucks but i want you to know that you are gifted, you are good enough and that whatever you are looking for is looking for you too. i wish you all the best

@studynoook Ай бұрын

You are so brave for posting your experience with us and showing us what it is truly like. Most people are inauthentic and only post their highs or wins and never show you what they actually go through to get to the top. I just want to encourage you and let you know that you are doing so well! You are applying yourself and really polishing up your skills! You will land the right company for you! I will pray for you. I also just want to comfort you in letting you know that you are not alone and that things are rough now but there will be a door that God will open for you! He sees you and you are not alone! I love your vlogging style too! You have so many rooting for you!

@melissatelier Ай бұрын

as a recent graduate with no "real" experience, although I am not a tech girlie, I have been struggling with all the job searching etc., I have been rejected but it's been just a few companies who actually take the time to deliver those news, even if bad, most of them just ghost. I found you when u posted the first episode of these series and it's been nice to see you get through all of it, I got emotional when you were vulnerable because I too, have felt like I'm not good enough, and while now I'm working on getting that experience myself with my own projects, it still hits to feel like you aren't good enough, but you are, and you are a very nice person. Tomorrow I have an interview, first round, sent some of my work and they contacted me, we'll see how it goes, but the mindset I'm trying to implement instead is to think that if they didn't hire me it's cause it wasn't for me, something better is coming. I'm sending u a big hug!

@user-jc2tc7rc9b Ай бұрын

This video showed up on my feed thanks to the algorithm and I'm so glad it did. I was part of the spotify layoffs (in NYC also) and am in the same boat. It's brutal out here and you are so real for sharing exactly what everyone is feeling. I agree with your bf that the rejection isn't a reflection of you as a great engineer but more that you haven't found the right team yet. Don't give up you will find the right role - we all will 💚

@JimBarcelona Ай бұрын

Qualifications for tech jobs 1990s: Can you turn on a computer? 2010s: Can you sort numbers in this array? 2020s: Are you in Mensa?

@hoahoacore Ай бұрын

You have done a great job! Sometimes it’s about suitability, not about your ability, and something greater might wait for you. Keep it up girl

@douglasvinicius6969 Ай бұрын

Hi Julia!! I understand you perfectly, I went through the same situation recently. Last Friday to be exact, the good thing is that you have someone to support you in this difficult time as I have no one I had to go through this moment alone but everything passes I hope you are better and that you can be accepted next time, I wish you good luck and success on this journey!!!

@SavageDawn Ай бұрын

I hope you are feeling better now, Julia! I can 100% relate to the journey that you are going through now. 😢😢After each rejection, I also question myself, question the meaning of life, but once I see a better job listing coming out, I would feel better. Then I try to find ways to get my confidence back and prepare myself for the next battle. I wish you all the best and hope you will land on a better job that makes you happy!❤HUGS❤

@strawberrymango14 4 күн бұрын

Thank you for making this raw and deeply relatable content. When you cried during the rejection so did I. I have gone through the exact same emotion and rejection. I have felt so alone with my job search and these tough emotions. This was comforting to watch and I’m right here with you.

@amberjohnsonlogan Ай бұрын

This reminds me of the heartbreak of Julia being rejected for that "perfect" apartment, only to find the AMAZING one she has now! So many are in this place right now, including my daughter and so many of the people watching. For everyone I am reminded of the line from the song my grandmother used to sing- "Aren't you glad that troubles don't last always?" I know that everyone will get to the other side- in the meantime I am certainly going to click Julia's link to check out Notion- I've been waiting for the right time!

@sillyscoop3587 Ай бұрын

thanks for sharing, keep going. this is just a blip in your long and beautiful life. enjoy the moment both the hard and fun times. its just part of the journey. stay strong and you'll look back and see how much you've grown from this.

@smoke0783 Ай бұрын

thank you for being so honest and open in your videos. i really enjoy your content. please don't give up and continue I promise something great will come along!

@debcokinis Ай бұрын

You are awesome Julia! Sending prayers and good vibes for your future job endeavors! 🎉😻🙏

@rotatopotato5212 Ай бұрын

I recently went through the similar experience several times, after the 2022 layoffs started. Luckily after months of being unemployed, I landed a role at a team where I was a great fit. It’s a numbers game now, you’re doing great, keep doing it and the right one will land across one day. And I want to thank you for posting the candid emotions. It makes me and I’m sure many others who are struggling with the tough job market feel less alone.

@chloeshih Ай бұрын

you're the absolute best DS

@queenb3730 Ай бұрын

tysm for the template, perfect timing since im on a grad job hunt! wishin you so much luck on your job search

@limotto9452 Ай бұрын

Thank you so very much for all your uploads and never give up. You have been very inspiring, motivating and positive to those who viewed your videos. I am on the same journey too and after watching your videos recently, I started to see light and hope thanks to you. Wishing you the best and will always waiting for your future updates😊

@eatingsleepydogs5335 Ай бұрын

I'm going throught the same thing atm. Thank you for showing your vulnerabilty. It makes me feel less alone.

@anniefaley Ай бұрын

So much respect for this video - this vulnerability is so rare and I felt so comforted watching this. Sending love

@margietoves6038 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing such an emotional and vulnerable time with us. Thank you for sharing the realities of job searching. I’m happy that you are sticking to what you want in your next career. What is meant for you will find you and you will find it. Happy you such supportive people helping you through this process.

@TheMisschrisaz Ай бұрын

I’m so sorry you are hurting. You are so brave to be this raw and unfiltered with us. We are all here with you sending our thoughts and good vibes your way. Remember, you are amazing 😊

@ian3652 Ай бұрын

I’m going through the same new job searching process and recently heard back from the team that they decided to move forward with other candidate on the final stage. This video gives me some confort and encouragement that I’m not the only one going through this especially now when the job market is not so optimistic. Thank you for sharing your experience. You’re not alone!

@jbenitez5546 Ай бұрын

Great vibe Julia!! You will eventually land the job, do not be discouraged.

@marquessmalley1778 Ай бұрын

Definitely understand the emotions. I’ve been unemployed for over a yr now and still struggling to land a role though I have experience. I appreciate your persistence, keep going!

@sonchi203 Ай бұрын

Don’t take it too hard, the competition is fierce, you will eventually find your place. I strongly believe everything happens for a reason. You are a strong beautiful woman.

@tabithavisser Ай бұрын

Was Great to see your Upload.....You are ALWAYS Enough.❤

@allyxluna Ай бұрын

i’m in the same boat as you… i’ve been applying to some internship opportunities/job opportunities post grad and have been rejected three times. it’s a bummer but i move on to the next thing. i appreciate you sharing yourself in a vulnerable state because job searching can be difficult and stressful but it’s okay! you got this , julia! 💖

@WondereLand_Official Ай бұрын

Please keep your head up. We're all rooting for you. ❤

@miralovesanimation Ай бұрын

love you so much Julia! i’m graduating college in a couple of months and i am SCARED for applying for jobs but you give me lots of motivation for the future! you are an amazing candidate and the job that fits you perfectly will find you! wishing you all the luck ❤️

@adrianvogeltanz1101 Ай бұрын

I really appreciate the raw reality you are sharing. I also think you are fortunate to have such an awesome boyfriend who is there for you during this. Having support during events like this is huge.

@ssoah.K Ай бұрын

Julia, everything will be okay!! 줄리아, 힘내! 다 잘될거에요.🫶🏻

@rinawalter5402 Ай бұрын

Julia You are amazing and when you least expect it….that right position and place where you should be will come❤❤

@chad-cpp-enjoyer Ай бұрын

Julia, you are so inspirational. Thank you for being vulnerable and documenting your journey. It’s really helped me understand how to cope and deal with the same tech recruitment process as a recent graduate still hunting for their first job. Although I feel that I’m not remotely as qualified as you or anybody else for that matter, I’ve still managed to get interviews, but still get rejected as well. Thank you for being who you are, and don’t worry, I know you’ll find the right company :)

@chrisclevinger2912 Ай бұрын

Hi Jules! I just wanted to say that I have been at this exact situation when I got layed off. I didn't have any plans or back up plans and I didn't save enough to get by however, let me share what my Mom told me. 1. If you get rejected with an application, it means that your not meant to be there. Safety, morale, and goodness is not there. 2. There are tons of opportunties out there. One that would be for you. 3. God will place you in a situation that you will be reminded of this time and you will understand that He has more plans for you. God bless you Jules and praying that you find that tailor fit company with your superb talent!

@thelifestylebybudgeting Ай бұрын

Tech seems so hard to do & get into. I’m on healthcare & you can legit get a job the same day you apply. My heart goes out to all my techys!

@samkaelun Ай бұрын

Doing what?

@sharimissmanmiller1185 Ай бұрын

You’re amazing! Don’t give up!! Sometimes things happen to protect you but you don’t know it. Hang in there and keep going!!❤❤❤

@plabiyi001 22 күн бұрын

I'm currently in month 5 of being unemployed and I have felt every emotions you're sharing in this video and I am so grateful for you. Thank you for being vulnerable and giving me hope for the future. You truly don't understand what this means ❤

@daybloosoms Ай бұрын

Omg how are we feeling with Queen of tears? My hearts just can’t but I need to keep watching it because is so good. I hope you can find a job soon and this helps me get organize with my job seeking process that will start very soon. Sending virtual hugs your way

@cali_love5977 Ай бұрын

You have so many blessings. You’re unemployed and were in a financial position to quit your job. Not many people can say that ❤ I will say my ex-husband worked in tech and it’s was unbelievably hard to get jobs. He would be the only SQL data (something) within the company usually. It was always something with the workers, interview process, getting turned down. It was a never ending circle it seemed. That’s a tough industry to be in, but you got this and it does take time!

@GinaChee Ай бұрын

Hi Julia! Thank you for being so real in this video. I just like to reach out and let you know that your video brought me so much comfort in being in almost the same situation. I've been job searching for a while now but some days seem harder to get by. I hope we find something that's meant for us soon wherever we are. Cheering you on from across the globe! ❤

@evellynthamires8263 Ай бұрын

Hope you're doing okay! You're good enough and an awesome person, and you'll find your right fit soon! 🤞

@andreasinger2944 Ай бұрын

Hey Julia, I wanted to tell you that I always thought that your Vlogs were great but honestly sharing your whole job searching process and even showing getting rejected is honestly so brave and refreshing. I appreciate your honesty and that you are brave enough to show the reality instead of only the good stuff. Honestly, congrats on having that courage! I feel like there's something so much better coming for you jobwise, just wait and see. Wishing you the best of luck! Cheers, Andrea

@FrenchieShampoo Ай бұрын

Sending you a virtual hug to say you have all the characteristics to succeed. Every step, including the falling-down-ones, are steps on your life journey to building an even stronger you. It doesnt' feel good on a day-to-day basis but know you are an inspiration to many people seeking employment.

@liabilitysecret Ай бұрын

Not to Julia, but to others that might be motivate by this clip - Gonna be realistic here - it’s a very tough year in the job market and it is unwise to quit your job at this time because you’re gonna compete with many other candidates that has been laid off, and because you don’t get a severance pay makes your finance situation worse than those who been laid off, that makes your situation more stressful than theirs. Need some wise advice? Don’t quit now, hang in there, wait for the next economic boom.

@chris-fm6jp Ай бұрын

Agreed and as a 50+ year old professional still "working" on career advancement.... Even when the job market is good ... quitting without something else lined up is taking a big risk. You're trading whatever stress or unhappiness from being employed for potentially short term happiness that may quickly transition into a different source of stress as a job seeker especially now given the state of hiring, the market, etc. Though times have greatly changed since I was much younger, traditional / larger companies gravitate towards pursuing people they want that are currently employed. No doubt there are exceptions to this, i.e. you are the true rockstar in your field and do have that power to be instantly hireable but that's not the case for most of us. I sincerely hope Julia finds (and lands) a great new opportunity

@sciongurl Ай бұрын

I got rejected yesterday and felt the same feelings you are going through. When I watched your video, I cried again, but this time with you. It's hard, but we have to keep on pushing through the dozens and hundreds of rejections to get a yes. I have a second interview to another company soon, and hopefully, it translates to a job offer even though it's not my dream job. Good luck with your job search. Stay strong! Your soon to be job is out there waiting for you.

@marisabelsoto6456 Ай бұрын

Thank you for uploading this video. I've been in your exact same position because I quit my job after being burnt out for years. I'm still unemployed after almost a year. And all I can say to you is that everything happens for a reason. Never think there's a problem with you, because we've all came here to make incredible things and every day is an opportunity to try new things. Wishing you the best

@jenny_latimer Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing. As a tech recruiter, its good to see the raw candidate feedback/experience. I understand the frustration of the job search, especially the lengthy interview process with companies. Keep looking, you will find something and that company will be lucky to have you!

@thadlm2698 Ай бұрын

I’m an old salty dog (born in 1965) but I find it incredibly difficult watching people who genuinely want to work not get that opportunity. I hope you and everyone else going through a difficult time looking for a job find success in the very near future.

@hello_sunday Ай бұрын

Hi Julia, I just wanted to say I totally empathize with you on the job hunt, low expectations, rejections, and overthinking. Wishing for the best to the both of us :) The right company will find you! Hang in there. It's been tough times.