I am very sorry about your loss of your son. He is with you :)!

I disagree with this

@@user-wz3ex7of5x Yeah . Yes … 🙌

@@biondna7984 good on you and sex is not dirty whith right person the the body caves it its what we are made fore woman and men!its not only fore babies its too please one another! And that is what marriage is a bout orr partnership!

@@biondna7984 Such a lovely comment 💯

@@Tbn48ibp I’m so sorry you got mixed up with him but you might step back and reconsider your definition of “good guy”.

@@victoriaboster1177 you’re absolutely right. I’m too generous with the good guy comments because a good guy would have not been a Cheater and would Have resolved his stuff and agreed to get help from the get go!! You’re so right!! Thank you for sharing

Same

@@Tbn48ibp i told my ex the same thing. that happens when the man is just using a woman for sex but totally out of touch on her feelings... he was probably using her as an object and she got fed up so said just go find something or someone else and stop bothering me. were they just together for the kids?

@@Leila2023_ I think so. Very religious !! My guess is she knew he was a pervert and was disgusted by it. Probably knew he cheated. He asked her to do the porn with him and she wanted nothing to do with it

Yes, very important, good point. Especially for oral sex!! 🙈

Hey that’s important N you both can shower together…. When you feel comfortable.. A lot things can happen in the shower 😅💯

Female ejucalation?

I thought it was just a thing that happens. Not a thing that can be taught

@@Seaturtle008 It can just happen but my boyfriend learned how to stimulate the G spot in such a way that when orgasm happens, so does ejaculation. It's called the "come hither" movement with his fingers.

Lol!!!! You found yourself a criminal!

@@SaystheTruth3 Right!?? lol Bad boy, good sex.

I agree…not sure why I’m here cuz I really don’t like this guy. Not anyone I would consider…

😂😂😂

Let’s discuss why more men have ego and need to work on emotional intelligence and bedroom moves just like us women

Amen 🙏

@@Tbn48ibp Life can be Fun with the Right Partner 🤗💯

Yes it is...

​@@JonathonAslayMy apologies Jonathan for not listening to your entire video...I have now and wish to thank you for being such a sensitive, intelligent person.🙏

I can't answer for every woman but I know what I like.

@@soozt828 I would say if you take care of her pleasure before yours, you will do great. And foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. Women need foreplay and it will be enjoyable for you, too.

Orgasm but even without the orgasm we can really have fun watching our lover get off! It’s the ultimate high too! Better if you go together and that’s the goal! Playing and flirting ahead of time! Slow and teasing!!!! Don’t go too fast! No pounding or fast anything until she works up to it and it’s a slow climax not first to 6th gear.

Good ol' whiskey D. Not!

I have experienced this in America too

Yes and I'm so sad to hear about your loss. You are in my prayers 🙏

So sorry , i lost my son as well. Suicide in my case. It’s such a permanent action for a temporary problem, but God bless them, they can’t see it. No parent was ever meant to outlive their child.

@@LoriPHarris So sorry, to lose a child is the worst...you learn to cope but never get over it

@@joysingarella1159 thank you

Glad it was helpful!

@Kimberlyanne-uu7yu not for this 40yr old..romantic for my generation would be candyshop by 50 cent😂

@@angie-dm3bo have fun!

Is that a good thing?

How annoying…I would suggest considering not responding to nonsense like that. Give it 3 back and forths and if it isn’t moving forward, stop responding

I’m so excited to have sex with my partner. We are both 54 and are waiting. It makes us excited . We don’t have a timeline.

@@Sunlightsam24 I reached out 2x and was done. Not a big deal, just disappointing.

Not worth your time then

@@michellem8284 sounds like a loser to me. Incapable of being an adult and shallow in his thinking. You deserve better!! Glad ya told him adios!!!

Indeed

I agree a person should never be bullied into anything.

@@Sharon-777 seriously sex is important in marriages and women who feel like it's too much work to satisfy their husbands sexual needs should pack and go be single. Why get married if you ain't planning on having a lot of sex? Make it make sense 😁

You can have sex at eny age !told dirty know whith the right person know and all so a bout age told you cart do this orr that wrong!people need too learn a bout bouth! Who are people too tell us what we should do and not do yes we should talk a bout a bout sex!and you should see some men and woman in there 80s 90!s 100!s!we are told we should die at 60 70 80!s l00s!dont let eny one tell you what you should do orr not do!

Even more difficult to loose a wonderful husband of 38 years 6 months ago. 😢

@@ParisianThinker I'm so sorry

Yay!

I live in France where I won’t date anyone French. They are totally broke in every way.

My libido, estrogen, pestosterone, testosterone etc NEVER tanked after menopause, so don't count on it. I am 72 and he is 68.... no blue pills either on his part. We are both healthy, energetic, sexual, loving human beings (along with every other compatibility) and our love in every way is phenomenal. 35 yrs married to a man who has '0' libido. Move on in life you'll love it!!

@@rebeccahenson6989 So glad you two are doing so well! Tanking hormones is what casuses menopause in the first place. Bone loss, muscle tone loss, other aging issues inside and outside the body. For men an women, men's is called andropause, I believe. I never experienced menopause because even as the hormones lowered I supplemented with them. It has kept my bone density, muscle tone, heart and other internal/external body in shape, slowing down the aging process, inside and out. I never got the night sweats or the hot flashes. My body although 71 chronicloical years looks closer to 50. I have a ton of energy, flexibility and libido. All good. Many suffer through this process but there is no need to, this therapy works. Hope you both continue to have the amazing relationship you do for many many years ahead. :)

​@@Kas33345 you are right, add to this late miracle first childbirth at 45, cesarian, right right after BANG menopause, husband's health tanked, my job tanked held on against harassment for 4 years, breakdown, husband's career tanked, brain haemorrhage stroke followed by anapjylactic shock grade 3, fall triple fracture, husband withdrew affection and became jealous of our child, so I didn't feel much like or able to f**k to put it crudely, he took it out on our little one by being violent, jealous and playing very scary mind games, which made my decision for me to leave .... no sex after childbirth actually the one or two attempts were sooo painful vaginally, not even a smear pap test was possible, divorce took 8 years, I recently met someone and when the moment came wde tried to make love, a success in terms of desire, a failure in terms of physiology, penetration hurt like some sadistic torture and I bled everywhere and couldn't walk for days afterwards, saw an Obs-Gynae yesterday who have me the very thing I'd obstinately refused for fear of taking after the stroke with its C Vasc risks (estrogen creams etc), reassured me that I don't have pelvic inflammatory disease just dry walls internally. So, I'm feeling like I love this person, and hoping after 15 years of solitude that my body will come back to me as a woman despite the leap in age since I last called "her" up!!

@@Kas33345You’re on prescribed hormone replacement therapy?

@@jenniferstein1702 Yes, in my early 50's my progesterone was tanking a bit. Went to a Naturopathic Dr and was prescribed bio-identical hormone to bring it up. It is a natural form that compounding pharmacy's make based on your bloodwork. Each is specific to the individual. Not the one size fits all that MDs perscribe. As time went by my estrogen started to tank and my testosterone. My ND added those to my bio-identical perscriptions. By 65 I had a hesterectomy and all my hormones flat lined. Again, my ND tested and raised all 3. I still look like I am in my 50's and now 71. It does slow down the aging process both inside and outside the body. We all start to age when we loose our hormones. They have kept me fit and healthy over the years, and I have no intention of ever getting off of them. That and my Carnivore diet. Seek out a Naturopathic Dr who specializes in bio-identical hormone. FYI, men can do this too. My son's testosterone was lowering and his ND brought it back up with bioidentical testostorone.

Indeed

Well, most men prefer younger women. But you are right about how society perceives, and even frowns upon, younger men with older women, particularly if the gap is big. Most don't believe a young man could possibly be attracted to an older woman.

It is happening more and more. I’ve been single for 2 years and 90% of the men who are interested in me are younger - 10,20 and 30 years younger!! And they know my age 😂 Age is just a number - as long as everyone is consenting adults!

​@@sandraaaa6486same

Indeed

Toys and go down

A lot of older men don't like toys, yet it can be a great alternative when things go downhill.

Next one is today at 4:50pm PST

Me too... I live their story 💖

Avoid too much alcohol on a daily basis

Can you please explain more about it? Was it a men who told you this about his ED cuz there are also many attractiv women who are 40. What is the diffrence between stimulating the eyez and mind? Maby it is an excuse for not to deal with his ED but blaming the women for it.

@@ellamorani5327 yeah I heard from some men..some by jokes some by the nearest relatives . Some people open up to people they know or they're comfortable with.

@@ellamorani5327 some ppl stimulate through eyes by looks mind by their intellect .

​@@ellamorani5327Yeah over 40 women are attractive also not only by their looks , but by their characters and experiences. Relationship is partnership it's not one - way street.

@@zensvlognotapro At 40 testostoron is decreasing in men and just a small amout of men over 40 has access to young attractic girls. This means most of these men has no other choice than to have Sex with a women who is not there type so what means they cant balance out there ED with a young attractiv girl so only with medicine like viagra. Does this make sense to you?

Oh yeah... I remember that one.

Check Google ✔️

Yes they are...

@@JonathonAslay how many years has it been? like one comment u noted: why does it get boring (like we have to do role play..etc..bc it gets boring...I say even if ur in luv....bc it's expected by men and we get nagged if they don't get it like pouty complainers.

This has been the best one you have done.

Play is a four letter word. Have FUN!

Glad it was helpful!

My husband works out of the country every other 30 days. When he comes home I’m totally into him but after a couple weeks I’m good. I’ve been married to the man since I was 19 and I’m 30 now. I totally under what you’re saying but it gets old after 10 years. I stay in the gym so my husband stays attracted to me but he doesn’t put in work in to stay fit and he doesn’t stimulate my mind. He gets a hot wife and I get a boring husband.😅 but hey… he pays the bills and the kids get sports opportunities.

Thanks for the honesty lol

@@seadragon1456 i agree with you, im better looking than my partner, but he pays for everything and is 6ft4 so i think money makes him better looking. 💰💰💰💰 But yeah, its important to understand its normal for woman to go off sex, we are more emotional and not stimulated the same way men are.

@@Miriam-ul4ke disagree... i think men also lose desire quickly from cohabiting. i saw this with all my couple friends and myself... imo the only way to hold onto desire longterm is to never cohabit.

Yes after 20 yrs I was bored he put no effort sexually or any other way I tried to make things better for years I had no interest and left him he was shocked I've seen this alot men being surprised their wives leave they've been telling you for years they are not happy and you call it nagging and dismiss it

Some books or videos to see would be helpful. There’s no way I can compete with porn.

Why?

@@JonathonAslay so you don't throw your back out during sex

​@@JonathonAslaynervous system always good... Those low back nerves go to the 🍆

Ahhh...no it is not. It has recently been scientifically proven to be otherwise. Rhere is only trace amounts of urine in it. Ok. Its cum! Lady cum! Lol...gotta love it.😉👍❤️

It may have some urine in it but it is not just urine and you need to be rubbed just right on your gspot to squirt. It is from your skein glans.

@@nancytaylor8392 in my opinion squirts don’t exist. It is a creation of porno industry and sex « therapists » for views and extra bucks.

Not true do some studying there are you tube videos

I thought an LDR meant a Latter Day Saint and I laughed so hard at my mistaken thought. 😂😂😂

What did she say?

It was good because you had deep feelings for her. Good sex has to do with how much we deeply care for a person.

Oh yeah...

WOW, thank you so much 💖 🙏🫂

40 minutes was q and a

David Deida

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Out of respect for her, that's private... all I can say is I was pleased.

Yes

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That's interesting

And?

@@marijakovacevic5396 I'm sure he's had plenty of lovers in his lifetime.

Being single usually means a person has more dating experience than someone who married young and is watching this. Experience is knowledge.

@@JoanneOz yessss