It’s a lot of people thst still don’t have everything together even at 30 my advice don’t let the internet fuck your state of mind up
@salimazizi60483 ай бұрын
JP didn't say you gotta have EVERYTHING together by 30; He just said you can't be FULLY Useless at 30
@rameshsk5332Ай бұрын
JP is not against being not made up in life by 30, He is against not starting the journey until you are 30
@scorpiogamer9343Ай бұрын
💯
@cautarepvp2079Ай бұрын
Jordan has a point here, life moves pretty fast you know
@NopeNotToday26Ай бұрын
Right. This is how people give their power away to people they don’t even know. The internet isn’t God and doesn’t decided when you’ll reach your potential. I enjoy watching Jordan Peterson but he doesn’t know everything either.
@NopeNotToday26 Жыл бұрын
....And I'm over here sweating at 24...thinking I'm supposed to know it all. I do care about life and perhaps that's why I feel the way I do, but watching this gives me a little sigh of relief.
@rhymeswithtyme11 ай бұрын
You got six years.
@NopeNotToday2611 ай бұрын
@@rhymeswithtyme Well luckily it didn’t take six years to finally figure out what I’m actually passionate about. Now soon I plan to make it happen.
@mannydeeproductions11 ай бұрын
He wasn’t talking about knowing it all though. Don’t worry, if you’re on here looking at this, that shows you care and you will become better and better. You’re on the right path.
@NopeNotToday2611 ай бұрын
@@mannydeeproductions Thankyou! I really appreciate it!
@denisn833610 ай бұрын
@@NopeNotToday26I’m turning 24 literally the day after I’ve written this comment. But yeah I’m completely clueless and have no idea what i want to strive to be. I went to college for years studying sport and fitness but honestly I’m not sure this is the venture I want. I’m so lost right now
@nikhilverma201011 ай бұрын
"The sacrifice is inevitable"
@darrenly338815 күн бұрын
im speechless
@applepeel16623 ай бұрын
Just turned 25 rip
@RudolphManor10 ай бұрын
When I was 25, I was running the streets partying, bar hopping and clubbing. I wasn't trying to hear nothing about God, Goals & Healthy Relationships. I was immature and wasting my youth away because I wanted to and I didn't care about life at all compared to now because I care about my health. Now in my mid-30's, I'm back on track with my life in general. If I can go back in time, I would undo alot of the poor choices that I made when I was a young man. 💯 I'm not a victim nor looking for sympathy, I'm owning up to myself and my shortcomings. 💪🏽😎
@Mrfacts0000010 ай бұрын
Trying to achieve that mind set young
@tanay134310 ай бұрын
What do you want to undo
@RudolphManor9 ай бұрын
@@tanay1343 I had to undo that toxic mindset of choosing the streets before my life in general. 💯
@RudolphManor9 ай бұрын
@@Mrfacts00000 Everyone has their time to learn. So don't worry, just take your time to self reflect, learn from your past and grow. 💯
@safwanalislam7 ай бұрын
May Allah bless you. I would suggest you to look into Islam if you haven't already. Here is a verse from the Qur'an: وَوَجَدَكَ ضَالًّا فَهَدَىٰ "And He found you lost and guided you."
@kingdomcat8244 Жыл бұрын
This is EXTREMELY painful to watch, it's so true!
@colerainswaggify63878 ай бұрын
I'm right there with you. I literally felt this in my soul like a dagger, but I had to finish the clip. Truth serum!
@luwamalem95375 ай бұрын
Brutal honesty always works lol! 😭🤷🏽♀️
@AOK0013 ай бұрын
this dude is jobless and become a mentor at age 55 thanks to golden age of media make the old loser shine
@imtherealtammygonna62169 ай бұрын
This made me feel sadder but it’s what I needed to hear
@andrearace11682 ай бұрын
It's not too late ❤️ I don't know what your situation is, but really honing in on what you want to change and making habits to support it have been helpful for me. If you mess up one day, it's okay, just try again tomorrow. Remember that you are more than what you are struggling with.
@weeeeee37410 ай бұрын
That's what people think of me. I'm 31, no job, can't drive, live alone, no friends or family. I'm poorly, have an illness called ulcerative colitis and have surgery every few months. I'm never well long enough to learn anything as I'm always in hospital for 2/3/4 months at a time. Get home, try heal, get ill again. I'm so stuck I don't know what to do. I'm all alone and living in agony, boredom, and with a desire to achieve more. My body isn't letting me. I have open wounds as I type this that won't heal, they've been open for 6 months. Trapped in bed just bleeding away waiting for the next hospital trip.
@tanay134310 ай бұрын
What is your biggest regret
@rufusistmeineinundal9 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for you.❤ You can make small changes out from bed everyday. First: Try Anthony Williams (Medical Medium) food for your ulcerative colitis. Secondly: Try to make some money online, since you can lie in bed and work. Learn to code, learn social media (Social Media Manager), learn to be a virtual assistant. Thirdly: Read books, Repeat this and believe in you!❤
@weeeeee3749 ай бұрын
@tanay1343 My biggest regret is.....taking love for granted and not doing better to keep it.
@tanay13439 ай бұрын
@@rufusistmeineinundal Right coding! what language did you learn first?
@tanay13439 ай бұрын
@@weeeeee374 taking love for granted is what I'm doing now....I need to change!
@arv1nd3034 ай бұрын
i'm 22 and i am stressing, i know it's a young age but if you want to make your life good then better start now
@flom1951Ай бұрын
I'm 28 almost 29. Dude believe me, _ Have fun. _ Go to the gym 4x a week. _ Find a nice supportive girlfriend. _ Build your professional network. _ Invest in the stock market immediately to build your retirement. _ Travel the world. Do this and you will be on the top of the world. All the best.
@jorgecastrejon46922 күн бұрын
@@flom1951I'm 21, bro. And I know I'm just being negative or exaggerated, but sometimes I feel like the time is running through my fingers. It's overwhelming
@flom195121 күн бұрын
@@jorgecastrejon469 I feel you
@laaa21011 күн бұрын
@@jorgecastrejon469get of social media and TikTok. You feel like this because of outside influence. If you didn’t have TikTok or social media your thoughts would be very different
@JasperCasper19967 ай бұрын
Started working at Walmart at 18 and became a manager at 19 then a team lead at 21-25 and currently a forklift driver at 27!!
@JasperCasper19964 ай бұрын
@@user-bj9yb1ym2s $22.50
@Red000224 ай бұрын
Go for store manager. They said they will start paying 400k soon
@cjc4426Ай бұрын
I was actually in the same trajectory as you. Work at Walmart at age 23, team lead at age 26. But left Walmart for a government job at age 27. Sometimes I wonder if I should stay at Walmart or not. But the job I have now is good
@JasperCasper1996Ай бұрын
@cjc4426 The job I have pays a dollar more then I was as a teamlead, getting away from a toxic company is the best decision we both have ever made!
@JasperCasper1996Ай бұрын
@@user-bj9yb1ym2s 22.50
@ctiffany81364 ай бұрын
Watching this makes me lose the last bit of confidence I have as a 27 year old still in college. I made bad decisions, but I am trying hard. Stop judging me!
@jeremiahjeremiah13194 ай бұрын
Lots of people MUCH older then you who made h7ge life and career changes and flourished. Never forget that. For christ sake a man by the name of Albert Woodfox spent 43 years in solitary confinement for a murder he did not commit in the worst prison in the U.S and spenr his time helping fellow inmates and fighting for civil liberties and came out of prison as an old man looking forward to a future. All YOU have to do is achieve something fractional of what he did to make a half decent life for yourself!
@marvin600004 ай бұрын
I’m not judging, I wish you good luck. Please be kind to yourself, you are going through some shit and deserve compassion.
@stephenobrien13584 ай бұрын
KOKO. Keep on Keeping On. I retrained through online college aged 46. I now have a job and a more stable future. I wish i was 27 again with those options available to me.
@lynxo56953 ай бұрын
Relax. You're 27 back in education. I went back age 31 and turned things around.
@wiseman99593 ай бұрын
Same
@noluvfps4 ай бұрын
It’s absurd that one human beings’ opinion has the power to change the perspective of how people view themselves. Everyone’s path is unique and different. Success is Relative. Bottom line.
@metalsabatico3 ай бұрын
Yea, everyone’s path is different but there are still truths to life, something this world had forgotten about, such as what Kermit is saying in the video. The fact that people have different life experiences does not mean that being irresponsible and an idiot is ever a good thing.
@sarahwalker52312 ай бұрын
Agreed
@comforth38982 ай бұрын
In reality success is relative but from a societal perspective, there are unspoken truths most of us abide by which, if you don't want to be a societal outcast, you have to follow. What Peterson is saying here is definitely one of those truths.
@FirstContactRAM5 ай бұрын
I'm 34 and just as clueless as 24
@anakata32544 ай бұрын
It’s over for you bro
@NopeNotToday264 ай бұрын
@@anakata3254 No it’s not. It’s only over for him if he allows what you just said to sink in. You can come up at any age. You’re not helping but spreading more negativity, fear and doubt. This is why people fail. We put limitations on others when we haven’t even stepped a mile in their shoes. Some people bloom later in life but as long as they get there that’s all that matters. Lift him up and encourage him that as long as he’s breathing he has another chance.
@NopeNotToday264 ай бұрын
It’s not over for you. It’s only over when YOU say it’s over. Don’t let white noise drag you down. If no one’s encouraging you or tryna lift you up, they’re just white noise. I don’t care what anyone says, 34 is still YOUNG. 20’s and 30’s is still young in my opinion, 40’s can make you feel young if you take good care of your body. You’re 34…so the hell what. Work to become the exception. You got this! Ignore all the bullshit and get busy. You’ll make it.
@jonathancoleman64824 ай бұрын
@@anakata3254that is so negative smh
@ViralVibes611223 ай бұрын
It’s over for u but good thing I’m 23 in the best shape I’m also will be making some money online it’s good thing I’m doing good
@Mayank_Bais5 ай бұрын
how it feels like being unemployed, ungraduate at 24. There is no achievement no direction but hey its my responsibility to get into stable life by 35
@rizkhan33683 ай бұрын
I am 53, worked all life had to many responsibilities , I even work 2 jobs now, took risks , did my own thing , failed at own thing most of the time, before it just started to give semblance of living 6 years ago 😂😂😂😂 Circumstances , which part of world you are born, all matter, my advise is to keep soldiering on, there is this feeling of being deprived , just throw stones at that feeling, and keep moving, changing for if you do not its over anyway
@jackiea9246Ай бұрын
Turning 30 this year and finally got into the career I wanted and worked for all my 20’s. I don’t live in a great area or have a lot of money or friends, but I have a car, I pay my bills and can still go on vacation once a year. I don’t have any friends though, but I have an awesome boyfriend and a cat. I think getting divorced at 22 and having to move back in with my parents helped, life gave me a swift kick in the ass and I decided to get a job I didn’t like until I could get my job now. Your 20’s are not just for having fun and fucking off. You set yourself up now, and you’ll be much better off later, trust me!
@user-pd8bv9lg3f5 ай бұрын
I tell you what most think at this age group 1. Finishing college if they havent done so 2. Buying a first house 3. Getting a JOB, and not staying at a lowercase "job" 4. Getting married and starting a family the right way.
@cautarepvp2079Ай бұрын
something normal no?
@yesyow42946 ай бұрын
Yeah go on put pressure in yourselves everyone has there own pace i am broke when i was 20-35 noe in 37 but i have my construxtion company 7 cars a house and 10 lots😊
@sammywoods87245 ай бұрын
I feel like an old infant. 34 years old I’m a bartender. I make great money but I don’t see me doing this n my forties. Just had a baby which I’m so proud of. But god help me find my way cuz I feel so behind.
@lukalakicevic23055 ай бұрын
Dude you are doing great. Bartenders are awesome and tkmeless. Also You can do any job in the world. Best part is you can start over at any time any age. Life is not supposed to keep going upwards. Its full of ups and downs. We live we fail we learn we try new things. You make a living and your kid is blessed more than the majority of the world. Keep going and good luck with ur new fanily.
@SoozyPoos23 күн бұрын
If you are doing well don’t worry about it, you are doing everything correctly.
@adithyanr741519 күн бұрын
Behind on what You do know that the finish line is death for all of us
@MontyQueuesАй бұрын
yeah I still live with my mom
@ArnavPadhi2 ай бұрын
I am 28 now, and I can relate this video very well As i am in my late 20s now I am still figuring out myself with my life. I had thought that by 25 I would have a stable job and have a long rerm relationship but even now also i am not having both. I realize that there is no such thing as perfect age to settle down in career and have a stable relationship. Each and everyones journey is different. The only difference which I feel now unlike when I was 22 is that I have become more mature and now I view things at a different angle as compared to before. Now I am more choosy about the people with whom I vibe and with certain choices I make
@HolyChad5 ай бұрын
This is all completely horrifying for me as i inch closer to 30 (25 at the moment)
@comforth38982 ай бұрын
I feel you. Also 25 no job no experience etcetera etcetera
@AhmedABD00772 ай бұрын
same #
@Winskl90108 ай бұрын
I’m 23 (24 in December) and I feel so lost now, I had to quit my job because I couldn’t stand working with a S3xual harasser, many girls quit because of him and we’ve reported him plenty of times but he has my boss wrapped around his finger, I wouldn’t be surprised if she had a crush on him considering how she invites him to her home even though she literally has a husband. I’m looking for a new job but it’s very difficult to find one, It just feels like everything is over
@A-vz7yr8 ай бұрын
It looks like your boss has something with that sexual harasser? Anyways I think local people have more job opportunities than foreigner. I am a 24 year old international student. I am still struggling to settle down in the country.
@brynleyjones26745 ай бұрын
That's f'ed up. Hope you find a better situation in life
@jordanmarazzi35484 ай бұрын
I feel you random person across the world , I am 23 24 in April and I am lost , we got to keep trying I don’t know bout you but me personally I always get held back by bad habits so working on that
@NopeNotToday264 ай бұрын
Document everything. Whatever you remember try to get dates and times. Save about 3-4 months worth of shit and go sue. Even throw in some recordings and shit…then go see a lawyer. Even though you quit, still see if you can write some shit down or instead…get others to record for you while they’re still there…then throw your documents in. That’s the best thing I can think of.
@earthandbeyond52704 ай бұрын
this hurts so much, especially if you care about your life and everybody in it.
@NopeNotToday263 ай бұрын
I’m grateful to know my sisters love me, have my back and vice versa. I don’t want to hurt them and despite our rough patches, they are probably the best people for me.
@Sadgittarius6 ай бұрын
I’m becoming this. I can’t seem to find the damn brakes to this roller coaster.
@JordanBPetersonАй бұрын
Do the future authoring exercise at selfauthoring.com
@TimBailey-ii7mgАй бұрын
27 and I'm still an idiot.....humbly.
@ceooflonelinessinc.2678 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I truly feel, I failed in everything needed, to establish yourself a healthy life as an adult. And it feels bad, really bad. So, though I tried really hard, I failed (33) in every academical program I tried. My twenties are chronology of repeteaded failure. Ultimately I needed to leave college, since I had so much debt - without a degree. Since then I have been living at home and struggling to find any meaningful work. I send thousands of applications but nobody seems want to give me even a chance. Beside that I never had ANY platonic nor romantic realationships troughout this time. And still dont have, since all my peers are at so different stages in life. They work, have families...and I am still living in my childhood room. I really really feel depressed. I wish at least something would have worked out in my life, but nothing did.
@biggiemediumz11 ай бұрын
that last line is pretty heavy to me personally
@04vicc5 ай бұрын
i feel like i should be acting like 30 year at 19. im scared to not get to where i want in life but i’m still young and want to live
@user-vb2bo3ts2h5 ай бұрын
You should
@comforth38982 ай бұрын
From a recent graduate aged 25, I advice you to do so. You might thank yourself later.
@m.f.amoosam.fahadalmoosa54518 ай бұрын
I have no job till now. I am 29 yrs old. So succesfully entered in life of darkness. So I will be dark soon. All credits goes to my mad decisions.😂😂😂😂😂😂
@thespiderfrommars28408 ай бұрын
Hey there, I’m the same as you at 29. Never had a job and my mental wealth was an absolute joke since I was a child, the idea of driving a car fills me with dread and anxiety. I’m starting volunteer work soon with a homeless charity and I’m gonna be doing that until college courses start back up again here next year to try understand work ethic and force myself to have a normal sleep cycle. I’m currently doing a 3 month component module course online to get a minor award which will give me 15 credits towards achieving a major in college. My first driving lesson will be in a few days and I feel like I’m burning when I think about it but I’ll tell you what man.. I’d rather die in a car wreck than allow my life to continue being one. It’s gonna be hard for us but we have to try. No matter what we have to try.
@MP-ut6eb5 ай бұрын
@@thespiderfrommars2840Same age, ending that engienering degree... Man i Hope it's worth all that s...t
@MP-ut6eb5 ай бұрын
@@thespiderfrommars2840i needed a DECADE for a degree because of f..g depression
@marvin600004 ай бұрын
@@thespiderfrommars2840I’m sending you a lot of love man, good luck. Be kind to yourself, you really deserve compassionate from going through all of this.
@CienciayEPsicologiaАй бұрын
Ok listen dawg. Is really not that bad . Let’s say your parents own a house . Eventually will be your house and you’re a house owner. You rent it. I lost my family at 17 I rent the house and live with friends. Work here and there just to know people . I have been working for people or in my own business. All this bullshit about old infants are just crap. Fearmongoring gets views and attention
@musicgal98309 ай бұрын
I am 25 today too 😭😭
@mllermusic39798 ай бұрын
I'm 26 this week. Really don't like getting nearer to 30 lol
@raiswarnim94317 ай бұрын
@@mllermusic3979just turned 30 let me tell you the change in body happens like in a snap I thought the change will be slowly good that I invested in my health
@tjay56446 ай бұрын
@@mllermusic3979oh I can confirm this 😅
@filipriecfilipriec37163 ай бұрын
Time to do smth, same here
@comforth38982 ай бұрын
25 here I feel the same
@chipcook5346Ай бұрын
Maybe the worst curse parents can lay on a child to say he is full of potential.
@Rusk2op6 ай бұрын
Age between 25-27 is a decision making
@BigfatKuntWiener19 күн бұрын
More like 25-30…to me I’m of the belief that they are the most important 5 years of your life
@chocomini23010 күн бұрын
I threw a decade of my life away to drugs (16-26). At 26 I got clean off of everything and over the past year have worked so hard to make up for lost time. I’ll be 27 in two months and I’m still going, still working hard to make up for lost time. I have this goal to be where I need to be, where I should be by 30. It does feel like a sacrifice, but I wish I’d made it sooner.
@ceciliamorales5302 Жыл бұрын
Very true
@topnotchbauce10 ай бұрын
Wow he’s mean 😂
@filipriecfilipriec37163 ай бұрын
and correct
@CienciayEPsicologiaАй бұрын
Is not true man I know a guy who started working in his 50s. To be serious you can always say you had a business and failed and that’s it. Jordan Peterson and all the people who believe 30s are the end of the world are just teachers I mean. This guy has never worked outside school man what does he know
@RaulGarcia-tm6hw7 ай бұрын
So I use to work at a hospital at 25 as a technician and when your 25 the doctors see you ok your a kid like he said I left that job position at 30 Never to return cause now ppl who have their doctor degrees see you as dumb. “Your 30!” Is all I got I’m in school rn tryin to get my degree and work on my own and I’m happy he is 100% right ppl start to perceive you as you have don’t nothing even tho you know you have
@obvioushieidude76686 ай бұрын
25 and 30 are in the same age group.
@zizek46304 күн бұрын
@@obvioushieidude7668yeah but at 25 you’re seen as a young dumb kid, at 30 you’re more likely to be seen as just a loser if your life is a mess
@leonKennedy0023Ай бұрын
Don't give up on your dreams keep sleeping
@eat_ze_bugsАй бұрын
The best way to chase the American dresm is in bed
@obvioushieidude76686 ай бұрын
This is where I have to disagree with Jordan here. First off 25 and 30 are still in the same age group pretty much. You see a lot of age groupings put 25-34 as one age group. Secondly age does not equate to life stage. Everyone develops differently and there is no blueprint for where you should be at 25 vs 30 or any age for that matter. Thirdly, early 30s by most people's definition is still a young adult. Whenever you see a young adult age range, it typically goes up to 34/35. Sometimes 39. Sure it sometimes only goes up to 24/25. But going by that definition, 25 would not exactly be "young adulthood" either. So really 25 and 30 are basically around the same range. Finally, last time I checked, 25 to 30 was 5 years, not 10 years.
@AFEEF936 ай бұрын
If you ain't got it by 30 then you're in trouble pimp.
@obvioushieidude76686 ай бұрын
@@AFEEF93 Tell me you’re mentally deficient without telling me you’re mentally deficient.
@AFEEF936 ай бұрын
@@obvioushieidude7668 oh I'll show you mentally deficient. Wait till you see my Lego set!
@badnewstalkstech69006 ай бұрын
@@AFEEF93nah fam you nuts
@OfTheiAm5 ай бұрын
I'm still in my 20's although late 20's but i can tell you, No your wrong, That is a huge misconception and scientific studies show we barely stop devoloping at age 30 and 45 is entering middle age, and , 30's is the time of confidence and getting serious, Now if you said 45 then sure you might have a point, but MANY people became successful in life AFTER 30 , some of the biggest company owners we know today were not in their 20's @@AFEEF93
@brokenintopieces19332 ай бұрын
It's true that ages 20-24 are 'clueless ages'. I experience this first hand, It's like you're completely blind in a cave, you gotta trust your instincts to get out of the cave to achieve your goals and freedom
@joshuahernandez54908 күн бұрын
Im days away from 30s and wasted my 20s.Im back in school trying to come back to God and afraid of not changing by 31. Please pray for me
@mashuu2301Ай бұрын
This is me now. 25. Almost 26. Part-time retail the past couple of years, lost. But recently accepted into a full-time chemical job. I dont know if it's something i see myself still doing at 30, but it's a proper job with decent pay. The sacrifice here would be doing a tougher job but im being more of a competent adult by doing so.
@johanruiz34223 ай бұрын
30 is still considered young tho the maturity of a 30 year old isn’t that far apart from a 25 or 27 year old
@colaaddict7823 ай бұрын
So what? I dont give a shit what other people think about me.
@NameMcNamename7 ай бұрын
You don't get to choose the sacrifice. Sometimes, it just isn't in the cards for you to succeed at anything.
@malik85254 ай бұрын
If it’s real and the sacrifice is big enough it’s possible
@kadijhastrong87874 ай бұрын
Im 30 and still dont have anything figured out
@leolibre313 ай бұрын
"I'm 25, and at this age, I've come to realize the meaning of 'my life.' I have a goal. I wake up in the morning, make my bed, and regain my motivation, in part thanks to you, Dr. ❤️"
@kshitizgupta44053 ай бұрын
please share the link to full video.
@maheshedirisinghe39967 ай бұрын
24 here also thinking about changing careers from architecture
@nicolasdazefilms10 ай бұрын
I am 22 lol
@oleksii14069 ай бұрын
Yesterday I also was 22. Remember most of conversations up to details. Wake up in the morning and found that already 36.
@nicolasdazefilms9 ай бұрын
@@oleksii1406 tomorrow ill be 23. Time flies. I still remember a lot of my ex gf 4 years ago. Hmm
@badnewstalkstech69006 ай бұрын
@@nicolasdazefilmsseems like we're all going through the same
@vandanaJayM2 ай бұрын
People forget that it's not just the age; your body is physically changing your energy in your 30s, which is not the same in your early 20s. You'll deal with all the consequences of your bad choices in your 20s.
@pradyumn2453Ай бұрын
💯
@juicybleu54385 ай бұрын
im 25, just got my masters and i can’t shake the feeling of being behind all my peers. thank god for jordan peterson
@BigfatKuntWiener19 күн бұрын
Talking about a masters over here you’re not behind shit dude you’re ahead of 70% of the country🤣 I can’t even afford community college lol
@MessagesFromAurora5 ай бұрын
the sacrifice is my life at a job i do to have a home and some comforts
@Dass19968 ай бұрын
I’m trying Jordan, I’m trying! I give up….
@GodEternalWithinYourBody9 ай бұрын
Does anyone know the full lecture of this clip? Please I want to listen what he has to say in full?
@Hifirrrr9 ай бұрын
Bro if he thinks this applies to everyone then jokes on him. What if someone who is 30 choose to be as cheerful and kind of childlike attitude (you woulda call it clueless too) as he was in is 20ish but in his private life he has a great life for a 30 year old??? Bro clueless can means a lot of things, it dont have to mean about your finance and shit. and if you think you should trust this man’s advice on this reel alone , youre pathetic. Follow your pace and guide yourself with it!
@keithsimpson63865 ай бұрын
Of course he doesn't believe this applies to everyone, it's a generalization. This has nothing to do with "attitude" by your way of definition. Nothing to do with being cheerful or childlike in that sense. This has to do with a 30 year old having the same level of responsibility as a young 20 year old. He's speaking of clueless, as in one's experiences that can help build a career. A young 20 year old likely doesn't have that experience and thats okay, there are fair reasons. However, if by 30 you still have none then you better have a damn good excuse as to what you're done in the last decade. This is neither illogical nor unreasonable.
@OneTwo-jr6tzАй бұрын
He doesnt say you cant make it at 30, you can. Dont misunderstand him. You can absolutely make it at 30, but guess what! You'll have to work with 20 year olds beside you. That's the point of his argument. And you dont want to be that person. I am one of those old infants out there...unfortunately! You can work yeah, sure! But nobody wants you! No one is thrilled about you. And when you do a mistake, well, it's not enough, you'll sure hear something like "30 and still doesnt know how to do well".
@user-ly5no1je2o3 ай бұрын
Whats the background music?
@jacobhiers6 ай бұрын
He’s right my sacrifice is going to be my life I don’t know if I want to live anymore
@christophrr843 ай бұрын
This is too deep to be a short we need the full clip
@4RCHXN34 ай бұрын
This phenomenon is slowly getting common even in as young of guys as me being 18 years and 7 months old.😐
@EastSideBlitz13376 ай бұрын
Ím 27. Almost an old infant 😢
@tranquiljoe78164 ай бұрын
True, but it’s never to late to start everyone’s development and timeline is different.
@shahkarim43206 ай бұрын
I’m 28 it’s super late now
@shahkarim43205 ай бұрын
@AshleyFireGold thanks for sharing. I guess I’m just to engrossed with social media feeding me perfection.
@mariebarrett7177Ай бұрын
Absolutely
@Evamariabeauty4 ай бұрын
I need to go to school!!!!!!!!!
@D_mc_999Ай бұрын
These videos are designed to make people feel bad thats it 😂
@BRSDevlog4 ай бұрын
well Im 29 about to be 30. trying to make it in Game development not making anything 😂it ruined my confidence
@curiouskid15472 ай бұрын
Same here. But I did publish a game.
@cotstu56832 ай бұрын
Posit: Will Farrell is an old infant, and he’s a multimillionaire.
@masudinahimana21558 ай бұрын
Thank you so much my brother I'm not lying to you I never supporting things I see these things these things and I see these things for my mother and my father creating all of us human being he never ever even scratch anybody you so much for resume they don't be happy with the good things but we do thank you God bless you buddy things trust me what I'm talking about which means my brother scratching heart the breaking heart the breaking everything my brother I mean the media it's been a long time I didn't do everything things to me what time do myself you don't want talking about what do you want the wrong
@drewdelaney41665 ай бұрын
I’m an old infant at 38
@northsidejayy2369Ай бұрын
I’m 22 stressed out, because i want success so bad.
@oisin543 Жыл бұрын
Did he get his maths wrong? 25-30 isn’t 10 years nor is 22-30??
@CreativeCreaturefx Жыл бұрын
He's talking about being 30 and what have you done in the last 10 years?...referring to the 20s in general.
@rounak911711 ай бұрын
Ever heard about rounding off ?
@ovuzajemuta79358 ай бұрын
Yeah, the speech was about maths. 20 years been wasted here.
@obvioushieidude76686 ай бұрын
@@CreativeCreaturefx But 20s as in 20-29 is NOT an age group. It's too broad to be an age group. Same with 30s. 30-39 is too broad to be a single age group. Your age group is basically your current age plus/minus 5 years, roughly speaking. Also it doesn't matter. Everyone develops differently. Age does NOT equate to life stage. This idea that you have to hit certain milestones by a certain age is BS.
@obvioushieidude76686 ай бұрын
@@rounak9117 Clearly you didn't. 25 rounded to the nearest 10th is 30.
@angelica23luna904 ай бұрын
Actually I don't really care what people think at this point. If I'm an old infant it's not because I haven't tried. Not everyone's life is the same, some people face obstacles that maybe others don't have
@Pixel35 ай бұрын
JP before he was employed by DailyWire and before he advocates the murder of children.. what a fake he turned out to be, I trashed his book I'm using it as a coaster.
@SootyPhoenix4 ай бұрын
Never overestimate anyone, all humans are disappointing.
@ngovi541914 күн бұрын
As a real success personality my advice is seriously do not be useless at 30 above! Otherwise you are going to be regret !
@conradtmariri3513Ай бұрын
Look in the mirror every morning and say I love you 😊. Judgement is swift 😅. Choose and live yours
@K.mit3385 ай бұрын
That’s why 30+ year old making the same dumb decisions they made in their twenties makes me roll my eyes. It’s especially bad when they say I was young and dumb but they were 32 when they made the dumb decision.
@salhimoussa4930Ай бұрын
How old are you? I am sure you are less than 30s
@K.mit338Ай бұрын
@@salhimoussa4930 How are you sure I’m less than 30??? That’s a very weird assumption. I’m 31. How old are you?
@DarthWall275Ай бұрын
When the fuck did 25 become "young"?
@italkgory9924 күн бұрын
You really think 25 is “old” ? If that’s the case, then what are you considered the next 60 years of your life?
@DarthWall27523 күн бұрын
@@italkgory99 It's not young enough to give people the benefit of the doubt for being a useless piece of trash, you think they'd be treated as harshly as a 30, 35, 40 year old since mentally they should be much closer to that than to 18 or whatever.
@ViralVibes611222 күн бұрын
@@italkgory99ancient
@alexandrelebienheureux547410 ай бұрын
I'm Going My Own Way, since today rewards are no more worth sacrifices. As long as I have my job, pay my bills and respect laws, I'm okay.
@tanay134310 ай бұрын
Read this in the future
@MP-ut6eb5 ай бұрын
Well said
@salhimoussa4930Ай бұрын
Even though the difference is just fucking 5 years but men in 25 considered young and usually are desirable from old and young women but when they hit late 20s and the beginning of 30s they become old and not even attractive for young or older women, life is hard for men.
@zuanzett269217 күн бұрын
I dont think that things are this black and white. People go through different stages in life. I lived away from home until I was 28, moved out when I was 20. Got my masterdegree, and a job with a steady income before moving back home. I now save up money so that I can buy myself an apartment near my job so that I don’t have to rent an apartment anymore. It takes time but I know that I will get there by the end of the year. I also take good care of myself, mentally, I work out and feel happy and healthy. This take makes it sound like you just failed in life due to not having all of the things people expect you to have by a certain age.
@omalley16 Жыл бұрын
Gen Z summed to a tee
@MrCoconutv3 Жыл бұрын
oldest gen z is like 25/26
@mannydeeproductions11 ай бұрын
It’s about age, not “generation”
@___________________1915 ай бұрын
Another example of Jordan Peterson saying basic shit and everyone acting like he’s a profound scholar.
@mikhailcohen35452 ай бұрын
Nobody will tell you that ❤
@apramita19 ай бұрын
One dimensional white privileged view of what life should be. This doesn't take into account people who have had traumatic childhoods, people with disabilities, caregivers/parents getting back to their jobs after a break or someone who is just getting started in their career because of lack of opportunities.
@lukalakicevic23055 ай бұрын
Fkn exactly !!!! ❤ some people are just learning to live life heathily in their twenties. I.e. abused people or lgbtq people who living life for the first time after being oppressed
@buak8095 ай бұрын
What the fuck does race has to do with it? Microsoft CEO is Indian so is UK Prime Minister, these are just very few examples. How is that a white privilege? Instead of blaming your misfortune on another race, try to focus on yourself instead and people who surrounded you perhaps?
@keithsimpson63865 ай бұрын
It's a generalization. The point is make a statement that applies to the general public. He's also a clinical psychologist, I'm sure he understands the differences between the people you mentioned.
@dearmadeline2 ай бұрын
whit privilege doesn't exist
@ginae.7422Ай бұрын
I feel to see what his race has to do with the point he made.
@CienciayEPsicologiaАй бұрын
Man don’t take a teacher too seriously. He has just worked in school. A lot of people start over in their 40s 50s 60s even 70s . He’s just talking things without the research . He’s been he’s whole damn life in school.
@h.plovecraftn-4307Ай бұрын
Two hours later most people 24 and 25 years old getting lucky most people don’t
@SAVAK572 ай бұрын
Feels like 30 and I'm 20..
@SLPD10013 ай бұрын
😊🎉
@owent1166Ай бұрын
I’ll be honest with you. Doors do close when you become 30 for the very reason Jordan Peterson lays out… People honestly are not impressed to say the least and they obviously will pick a willing young 25 year old over you. Don’t mess your life up.
@joeytoxicbaby8 ай бұрын
Yeah. They arent that thrilled with me. And im not that thrilled either 😢😅
@anshKumar-jr5gj2 ай бұрын
And me at 21 thinking I won't be able to make it in this miserable world 😅😅
@DarthWall275Ай бұрын
You won't.
@c19ANDRE3 ай бұрын
Most adults are grown infants my friend. Idk what world you’re living in
@irondipper4810 Жыл бұрын
This guy needs to get out of his crisis I think lol
@9Mountains95 ай бұрын
This is so inaccurate that it’s sad. Never call anyone “an old infant” at any point in your life. Ever. From some of the jobs I’ve worked at; helping people in need; I quickly realized that some people experience very traumatic situations and events in life and that it could very well happen to any of us regardless of social hierarchy. I’m going to have to respectfully disagree with his adderall induced rant about how he feels people should be at 30, this world is full of survivors of some terrible things. Have empathy and if you have the chance to help someone that is lost at any age, help them. We are all lost at some point in life if even for a moment. Smh I usually agree with his perspective but he really needs to take less adderall and be more human. He’s becoming a professional idiot.
@dearmadeline2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@freemindasАй бұрын
Yeah but I got to know that sacrifice was inevitable when I got 30.
@bloodwashedsaint3 ай бұрын
This is where having Jesus in your life makes all the difference