Problems that come with dating a German...

Problems that come with dating a German... | Part 1

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9 culture shocks when dating a German.
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@JossAndJanik 5 жыл бұрын

What’s up guys! Important note: We can only talk from our experience. We know not every German is the same and different people have different experiences. So please share your thoughts in the comment section in a polite and civilized manner :D

@dafnebolson 5 жыл бұрын

Por favor deja de poner @ en los subtitulos del español. Una cosa importante de conocer culturas es respetarlas. El español es un idioma con genero y nadie debe cambiarlo por una imposicion extranjera. Entonces primero respetamos, si el idioma es español hay que respetarlo tal cual es y escribir como corresponde.

@Mooner3000 5 жыл бұрын

No you’re pretty accurate. I haven’t lived in Germany in 20 years and everything but the Speedo still applies to me

@CrisOnTheInternet 5 жыл бұрын

@@dafnebolson yo creí que los estaba usando en palabras con el plural masculino, pero sí, de plano alemán@ es un crimen contra la lengua

@_matin_3215 5 жыл бұрын

Janik ehrenmann 😂😂😂

@walkerlukesky2323 5 жыл бұрын

You guys are very kind and gentle in setting up premises. As you know, others are easily offended. There is nothing that you could to disclaim prior to the discussion. Stay how you are! You both are awesome

@marianam.noriega1235 5 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha “your German didn’t get better” 😂 “The water is warm beneath the ice” is sooooo true tho

@marianam.noriega1235 5 жыл бұрын

@TheBlackiwid achsooo, gut zu wissen :D Dankeschön

@georginacruz8251 5 жыл бұрын

Yo casi lloro también. Pero es verdad que se han vuelto muy neuróticos con su idioma. Y viven años en Mallorca y no hablan ni una palabra de español. Pues si te parece rudo en Múnich imagina Berlín 😁.

@sondersonics7534 4 жыл бұрын

That’s extremely true for the nordic countries as well.

@timucinharkonnen2699 3 жыл бұрын

@@sondersonics7534 Not as well. Especially! Even northern Germans are more like that than the rest of the country. The colder the climate gets the more the people become like a sleeping vulcano. Quite but boiling from the inside.

@atzirinavarro8131 5 жыл бұрын

So true. I have a German friend and one time we agreed to meet up for a cup of coffee. The hour was set at four p.m. Me as a Mexican I got there like 4:05. I thought not big deal, well I was wrong. She said in a very calm but in a totally brutal way: "I really don't appreciate your Mexican time. It was rude of you to keep me waiting for you 5 minutes straight". A big cultural shock for me, never had faced such honesty.

@Monica-lu6gb 4 жыл бұрын

if she said that to me i would probably want to go and cry right away I will probably not be in the mood to talk anymore.. here in Mexico we always sugarcoat what we say so it doesn't sound mean

@mrbroccholi 3 жыл бұрын

As a German I can tell that on KZfaq this feature is always presented way too exaggerated.. For a friend it mostly is no problem to come 5 minutes later. No one cares.. But in your job it would lead to problems.

@MT-dy3cg 3 жыл бұрын

"I'm sorry I am late. I'm unfamiliar with people that are so oversensitive about punctuality" There. Uno reverse card.

@juliehernandez80 3 жыл бұрын

“I don’t appreciate your Mexican time”!!!! Damn!!! 😆 😆 😆

@keinedaten1640 3 жыл бұрын

Sounds as if that was not the first time you were late. The "mexican time" comment must have had reasons. In general: People are late in Germany, too....but you are expected to apologize or if you know you will be late, give them a call and let them know. But in general: just be on time.

@study_papillon7497 5 жыл бұрын

„Germans keep their promises.“ Absolutely true in my surroundings. We don‘t often promise things to each other. But when we do, we won‘t ever break it.

@cookingrelaxnature5030 4 жыл бұрын

Thumbs up, you are absolutely right Christin Schmitt

@tonyjams6406 4 жыл бұрын

The one and only thing that I promised and couldn't kept, is to tidy my room ._. excuse me mom, but the passion just left me

@lalogreiner 4 жыл бұрын

@@tonyjams6406 Hahahahaha. Happens to everybody!

@MrWhangdoodles 4 жыл бұрын

I only promise when I know I can keep it. Many people make oaths they cannot keep. It doesn't happen here. People are more upfront, it's great.

@binteghalib2823 4 жыл бұрын

Can you teach me german language from basics

@cuxietube 5 жыл бұрын

Hi guys! Around :50 you talk about the language problem. Try to picture this: a young guy from Germany, first time in the US, meets a beautiful lady from Mexico. He speaks no Spanish, she no German, both almost no English. But he has a small German-English dictionary and she has a Spanish-English dictionary. And when you go out on dates there are always napkins on which you can draw pictures. He proposed after two weeks and two weeks after that they got married. That was over 40 years ago and we still have those napkins. So yes, sooner or later you need to learn each other's languages but when there is a spark and the fire is lit.......Love your channel.

@sulaonlyhere1607 2 жыл бұрын

omg wow ♡♡♡

@jt.633 Жыл бұрын

That’s beautiful!! It would be awesome to frame those napkins 😊

@dianacoronado8387 Жыл бұрын

Adorable

@LeeMajikija Жыл бұрын

Beautiful story. I’d watch the movie💕

@igoriusdeath 5 жыл бұрын

As a german guy, i never realize when a women has a crush on me. My friends saying things like: "Didn't you notice, that she likes you?!" and I: "No, I just wanna dance and have a good time" So, sorry. We are just handicapped Lovers with special needs.

@mdasilva5599 5 жыл бұрын

The same here 🙋🏼‍♂️😂

@allegsaruiz363 5 жыл бұрын

As a mexican girl I never notice when a guy has a crush on me hahaha but thats just because Im dumb and distracted most of the time, not because Im mexican.

@igoriusdeath 5 жыл бұрын

@@allegsaruiz363 daydreaming is not dumb. We just need stronger signals to pay attention to other people 😅

@allegsaruiz363 5 жыл бұрын

You’re right 😂 about daydreaming

@PaolaAguirreru 5 жыл бұрын

Omg why Germans are that way? 😭 Haha

@uwerichter 4 жыл бұрын

There's Two Options why a German Opens The Door of the Car for a woman... 1. The Girl is New 2. The Car is New :-)

@leofrank8822 3 жыл бұрын

This is soooo true😂

@MsMamte 3 жыл бұрын

the commentator is germans guys for sure ..i guess ..hhaahha

@leofrank8822 3 жыл бұрын

You are right XD

@luchochang 3 жыл бұрын

🤣😂🤣

@eunebartolomebiscan 3 жыл бұрын

Haha 😂

@matthiasbraul 5 жыл бұрын

And I thought I'm the only German who enters the train exactly where I have to get off the train🤣🤣

@DramaQueenMalena 5 жыл бұрын

I'm Swiss German and I do it.

@SayokoAkuma 5 жыл бұрын

Last week a friend of mine was like "You will go the same steps later if we get in HERE...just at the other station"... she just doesn't understand... she is not a German xD

@binkybombastic6200 5 жыл бұрын

I always go to the part of the train where less people enter because I hate being close to strangers. Isn’t that even more German?

@matthiasbraul 5 жыл бұрын

@@binkybombastic6200 That's true too😅 Let's say: First, I go to the train compartment where I have to get off the train. After that I try getting a seat with no people around me - unless there are friends with me😅

@ronaldoheta7825 5 жыл бұрын

😂 i'm not a german, I'm studying in Germany for almost a year now and i've started to do that, i think i got infected

@warzlbaerschtn 5 жыл бұрын

so funny, I am German and I have a latin girlfriend as well. When I watch your videos I see the same experiences we have :D :) Let us know your point of view Janik :) Saludos desde Nürnberg

@greenjuice3782 5 жыл бұрын

Eyyyy Im here! 🙋🏻😂

@Michelle-sf4zx 5 жыл бұрын

Oh especially the brutally honest part. My bf always tells it like it is and tbh that's what I like about him. Saves time, doesn't make me wonder etc. German efficiency lol.

@nikkossta 5 жыл бұрын

If only the girls were like that too...

@auraluna7679 5 жыл бұрын

@@nikkossta We are!

@chantaleflesch3674 5 жыл бұрын

@@nikkossta We are, trust me. Of course there are some exceptions, but that's everywhere the same.

@TheShiranuii 4 жыл бұрын

"Your german didn't get any better" lol I'm german myself and even tho the stereotype is kinda true, THIS is definitely rude, even for germans..

@tamarasaldana8027 4 жыл бұрын

Si se siente como cachetada,es una cachetada.

@Nicolejduval 4 жыл бұрын

Agree with u, their parents don't even talk Spanish, that's rude

@tischkantenknall6369 4 жыл бұрын

That is just humor. Especially bavarian humor. They said something about munich after all

@jazminaron8004 4 жыл бұрын

Great video! You guys are so adorable! My bf is German. He's the first guy to make me fall in love in an instant. He's a gentleman (never wants me to pay, opens doors), treats me like a princess, and he is very generous and supportive. He's also expressive, although not very open unless we both get to a vulnerable state. He's not judgmental and is very patient with me lol Truly one of the most charming and sweetest people I've met. Ich liebe dich, mein Schatz 💕

@adrian-4767 4 жыл бұрын

Jazmin Aron amor a primera VISA

@MsRimel 5 жыл бұрын

I'm from Spain and my boyfriend is German and all of this was sooooooo relatable lmao

@mdasilva5599 5 жыл бұрын

Spanish German couple, very nice 👌🏼

@Sergio-fu7mv 5 жыл бұрын

My dad’s originally from Mexico, and my mom from Spain! Although they’re both almost identical. I doubt they would be compatible with anyone else. 😂 much love from America. 👌🏼🇺🇸

@djrajo9014 5 жыл бұрын

Sergio Alcantar bro my dad is from Spain and my mom is Mexican lol same

@Sergio-fu7mv 5 жыл бұрын

Djrajo haha, nice! There’s a lot of Mexican-Spanish couples in Mexico but it’s a lot more rare in the states. I even have half Italian cousins on both the Mexican, and the Spanish side. Lol. Not to mention my dad started a company with a German man about 40 years ago, he still runs to this day. One of my sisters also married a Scottish, and they have a child. Not to add I also have 4 half black cousins. As you can see we don’t discriminate. 😂 Did your parents meet here, or in Mexico? I got my dna tested and for some reason I thought I was going to be “mixed” with two different ‘races’ and it came back 94% Spanish. Lmao. Complete waste of money. 😂

@djrajo9014 5 жыл бұрын

Sergio Alcantar ahaha .ya my parents met in the states and that’s funny because on my dads side of the family they also have Italian blood lol .my dna text came out to 3.1%Mexican 90%Spanish and 6.9%Italian blood

@beatrice6862 5 жыл бұрын

My dad met my mom in Ecuador and on their first date my dad was 20 minutes late and my mom expected him to be early because he was German but in the end not all Germans are on time😂😂

@jackylou9295 4 жыл бұрын

True. My Boyfriend (we're both Germans) is late absolutely everytime :D And with late I don't talk about minutes, I talk about hours xD But he makes improvements :D In return, I've learned getting late sometimes and don't panik about it too much xD

@matteflurry 4 жыл бұрын

Lol like my boyfriend as well 😂

@zalethpruna7826 3 жыл бұрын

Im from ecuador la mayoria somos impuntuales jajajaj

@gabrielaramirez8344 5 жыл бұрын

No se como llegué aca, pero ya me eche 4 videos de uds y me encantan .... Un abrazo desde guateeeeemala 😎😍😘

@teresajimenez4908 5 жыл бұрын

X2 🇬🇹💕

@ferminaperezreynoso6298 5 жыл бұрын

X3 🇬🇹❤️

@Eliethdelaa 5 жыл бұрын

X4 🇨🇷

@itzelestrada478 5 жыл бұрын

🇲🇽♥️

@sandrapaolarodriguezperez8622 5 жыл бұрын

@user-sr6ti8re5c 5 жыл бұрын

I love watching all your videos, relaxes my anxiety and puts a smile on my face. So, thank you both!

@somewhereright3160 5 жыл бұрын

I can relate so much with Janik 😆 Let me tell you why we're so time-efficient and straight-forward: We are super duper impatient. 🤣 Why wasting precious time?

@Baudelair 5 жыл бұрын

somewhere right omg so true about the impatient 😂

@Sergio-fu7mv 5 жыл бұрын

Lol, my dad’s originally from mexico, and my mom from Spain but they’re both like the opposite. I find myself to be more like the opposite of them. I like things done in the moment, and I’m incredibly inpatient. I’m also more of a realist, I just like to say it as it is. If you get offended oh 🐳. They’re incredibly hard workers, but they rather do it with time and focus on being happy. Which both are good, and bad. We’re all human, so we’re all just different I guess. 😂👌🏼

@sophieminter0 4 жыл бұрын

My dad would be the perfect German in that case...like he is efficient when driving, walking, and not wasting time debating on where to go or what to see if my family goes out lol

@solidstate9451 4 жыл бұрын

Coming late means you value your life?time more than the time of other people.

@karimelazaro2440 5 жыл бұрын

Hagan el mismo video pero ahora con Mexicanas JAJAJA, love uuu❤️❤️

@briandadurand4220 5 жыл бұрын

Siiiii

@elim.7107 5 жыл бұрын

Ya habían subido uno antes de éste y está chido jaja

@nicoruppert4207 5 жыл бұрын

Ja ja, yo soy Alleman y puedo entender todo

@LindsayKay 5 жыл бұрын

Lived in Germany for nine years. The thing I found a bit depressing was the tendency for people to assume the worst of people they don't know, like a tendency to look for something, even the smallest thing, that you can negatively judge in someone if you don't know them.

@adysluminsky9182 3 жыл бұрын

When I hear the song: souspicious mind I always remember about the Germans 🤣🤣

@heinzwahl6465 5 жыл бұрын

For me as a german I can agree with many things you have said in your video. I like your Videos and you are a wonderful couple. Keep it up

@hilalchan9462 5 жыл бұрын

Ich leg auch viel Wert auf Pünktlichkeit und wenn ich nur 5 Minuten zu spät bin fühle ich mich schlecht 😅

@mutundehre917 5 жыл бұрын

Ja ich auch 🤣 voll wenig deutsche hier oder ?

@hilalchan9462 5 жыл бұрын

Mut und Ehre jaa viel zu wenige 😂 deshalb kommentiere ich auf deutsch

@mikaecheverria6901 5 жыл бұрын

What did you say? :/

@sujahnisuri6501 5 жыл бұрын

Ich höre immer, dass wir unpünktlich sind, wegen Deutsche Bahn oder wegen unseren verlässlichen öffentlichen Verkehrsmitteln.

@sujahnisuri6501 5 жыл бұрын

Aber ich lege auch Wert auf Pünktlichkeit

@Pattyriqmend 5 жыл бұрын

Hahahha I had some much fun with you guys! I love the way you are! Thanks for sharing this. Kisses from Chile! 🇨🇱 ❤️

@mdasilva5599 5 жыл бұрын

As a German Man I can relate with you haha 😅😁 Btw: you are so cute together

@purpleflower3401 5 жыл бұрын

your name is not german

@mdasilva5599 5 жыл бұрын

@@purpleflower3401 Mathias is a German and Latin Name and it means "gift from God". My last name isn't German, that's correct. But I'm German.

@purpleflower3401 5 жыл бұрын

@@mdasilva5599 ur name seems spanish to me

@mdasilva5599 5 жыл бұрын

@@purpleflower3401 its very similar to the Spanish spelling, thats true. In Spanish it's written Matías or Mateo.

@purpleflower3401 5 жыл бұрын

@@mdasilva5599 aaa!! okey im Sorry^^

@nataliarevelo486 2 жыл бұрын

100% accurate. My husband thinks he made the first move but there was a lot of discrete flirting from my side before. Something really hard to adapt to was the "lüften". This is when Germans want to let some fresh air in the house by opening the windows when they get up. At the beginning we had some tension because my boyfriend (now husband) would open the window wide even in winter and I would be woken up by a slap of cold air in my face. Now I actually love to do the lüften myself.

@FG-wm6eu 5 жыл бұрын

I think the point: Germans are more shy in clubs...in Germany is true haha. And yes when we go to places like prag, ibiza or especially Mallorca this shyness easilly goes away. Great Video :)

@piusgschwendtner371 5 жыл бұрын

ye because no one cares about the reputation in foreign countries because u will leave them anyways after some weeks or days xd

@maximlewk628 5 жыл бұрын

You drink the shyness away with beer

@liamarmen3965 5 жыл бұрын

Spanish lend mallorca to all germans , we call it the german island

@buuhan6808 5 жыл бұрын

@@liamarmen3965 And we call it the secret 17th german state/Bundesland xD

@TheShiranuii 4 жыл бұрын

Let's be fair, we gemans in general are not the best tourists :D

@cuchinchuda 5 жыл бұрын

TOTALMENTE!!!!!! jajajaja Mi esposo es alemán y he vivido todas esas cosas con él, algunas que ya he adoptado como propias y cuando vino una amiga de Argentina a visitarme, se reía de mi 😅 Para mi una de las cosas más "shokiantes" fue ver gente desnuda en los parques! Una vez paseando por el lago cerca mi casa, habia un hombre que salía de banarse y estaba desnudo secandose y la gente al rededor sentada o haciendo picnic, cero drama. Yo estaba : HAY UN HOMBRE DESNUDO!!! EN EL PARQUE!!! HAY NINOS ALREDEDOR!!! y mi esposo super chill, si, qué tiene? jajajaja para mi fue super fuerte... ahora voy al gim donde las duchas son compartidas entre todas las mujeres 🤷‍♀ "de donde fueres haz lo que vieres" rigth?

@thepatrusnostor5794 Жыл бұрын

Lo gracioso es cuando ven a una latina en una discoteca con escote dicen que es rebeladora cuando literalmente hay lugares donde ellos estan desnudos

@sarahromero5749 4 жыл бұрын

Omg I really really loved this video! You transmit goooood vibes in the whole extension of the word, for real. While I was watching the video I was smiling the whole goddamn time, and I have never done that before when I watch videos. You can tell that you really love each other and enjoy spending time with each other! Congratulations, such a beautiful couple. Love youuuuu!

@carmenschirling6059 5 жыл бұрын

"When you break through the ice the water underneath is warm." So beautiful and true.

@yulibethguizado5596 5 жыл бұрын

The best part of Sundays it’s Joss and Janik new video 🙌🏽🙌🏽🤣🤣

@saraavila1383 5 жыл бұрын

You two just make the perfect couple!! I really like your videos, I always say it but really you are doing an amazing job. Keep the good stuff coming

@KB-mt9br 5 жыл бұрын

YESS!! I would love to see Janiks point of view!!

@totespaulina 5 жыл бұрын

Also "your German didn't get better" I diedddddd hahaha

@sfia1169 5 жыл бұрын

I love your videos, there's always a smile on my face when I watch them. Thank you guys for working so hard for us 😊😊😊

@JossAndJanik 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your nice comment Sofia :)

@sfia1169 5 жыл бұрын

@@JossAndJanik gracias por responderme, me habéis hecho muy feliz (al principio ni siquiera pude elegir en que idioma escribirles jaja) PD: Casi me da un infarto Saludos desde España 🇪🇸

@skyhf4733 5 жыл бұрын

I laughed so bad with you guys..i love your videos😍 and i really like what Joss said"Dont mistake shyness for disinterest "love you guys! The best vibes 🌟

@adelaidetcarrillo3141 3 жыл бұрын

It’s good to watch your videos. I’m from Bolivia and my husband from Germany. Thanks for making videos in English so we both can understand them ❤️

@zakariasadrati8051 5 жыл бұрын

Mexicans girsl are too gorgeous!! You are lucky bru

@greenjuice3782 5 жыл бұрын

Amazing

@greenjuice3782 5 жыл бұрын

?????!!

@wisdomnova4317 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@anabasilio3751 5 жыл бұрын

True that.

@MarianaBuhl3 5 жыл бұрын

In Mexico she's not that of a big deal trust me. Cuz everyone's like that 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

@natalia6457 5 жыл бұрын

Heyyyy!!! Saludos desde COLOMBIA💞 Me encantan, lo sabían?

@ashauniverse2244 5 жыл бұрын

Guys you made me be smiling during more than 10 minutes! You are cool :)

@johnhunt497 4 жыл бұрын

You guys are a riot! Your videos are so informative with great humor!

@rebecavargas5515 4 жыл бұрын

When you say germans keep their promeses, that's totally true. They're really great people ;)

@estheresther8090 4 жыл бұрын

They are great😘😘😘

@ungezoockt 4 жыл бұрын

just the deutsche bahn and politicians.

@cyanl.2245 3 жыл бұрын

So sweet of you to say❤

@lisabuchinger9540 3 жыл бұрын

I'm Austrian, but I think we're quite similar to Germans. I only promise sth if I'm sure I can keep the promise!

@carosoto9156 5 жыл бұрын

Hallo 👋🏼 Die Punkte aus eurem Video waren sehr interessant und richtig! Macht weiter so tolle Videos :) Das nächste mal vielleicht aus der Perspektive von Janik in Bezug auf mexikanische Gewohnheiten? 🤔 Grüße aus Dortmund

@franciscohdz.valenzuela2640 5 жыл бұрын

I love your videos! You‘re so funny! Greetings from Mexico! 🤪

@virginiasantiagofox6461 5 жыл бұрын

My husband is German and I’m Mexican. You are VERY spot on. It’s so cool to see you are learning each other languages. We speak English.

@Lots17 5 жыл бұрын

Effektivität ist der Zweitname aller Deutschen 🙃😂

@TheRockerzocker 5 жыл бұрын

und ihr Vorname ist optimieren

@Lots17 5 жыл бұрын

Und ihr Nachname ist pünktlich :D

@iqqgamer2012 5 жыл бұрын

No entendí ni mierda de lo que dicen jiji

@beredectorbd 5 жыл бұрын

@@iqqgamer2012 el primero dice que el segundo nombre de los alemanes es efectividad.

@andreamuller9009 5 жыл бұрын

Ja , was ist da bloß bei diesem blöden Flughafen in Berlin schiefgelaufen ? ;D

@rosamariavazquezdiaz7712 5 жыл бұрын

Ja ja nice video!! I love you both! ♥ You're the best ♥ Kisses from Michoacán, México

@victoriatirado9505 5 жыл бұрын

The end was hilarious, Joss seemed super mad lmao, same girl same hahahah😂😂😂😂😂

@roselandpetals Жыл бұрын

I love that they come through and do what they say they're going to do, and that they're straightforward and honest (New Yorker style). Love that about Germans. (They also have this witty, snarky humor that matches mine! lol)

@lillamarozsan9556 5 жыл бұрын

Guys I love you sooo much! 😄❤️ You two are the most sweet couple I've ever seen, and your videos make me always smile 😍

@nickymuller378 5 жыл бұрын

Sometimes i think i'm not german because i actually am always late and use my time very unefficient Can i get a heart that i know one of you is probably on the toilett again :D

@JossAndJanik 5 жыл бұрын

🚽 haha

@srsc5847 4 жыл бұрын

Saaammmee😂

@liloley4099 5 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha I loved the bloopers! So true all of this!

@qiuqing2121 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot.. I use this video to do my assignment about culture differences. Love your video.

@justjoking4906 5 жыл бұрын

The thing with the train totally got me.😂😂😂 I am doing this all the time. And if I am late I will walk through the train until I am there

@brendabecerril6901 5 жыл бұрын

I just saw your instagram stories and came right after haha Love u guys!

@lorenaescobar4198 5 жыл бұрын

Pleaseee do the Janik's side 😂😂

@joselin2466 4 жыл бұрын

I travel to many Latin countries and love the way you're treated as a woman ..back in Germany it is always a shock. You're on your own.

@kennaem6730 4 жыл бұрын

I've been talking to a German guy the past 6 months (we met in Italy) and he is definitely brutally honest. I like how direct he is, because I appreciate not beating around the bush or sugarcoating things, but sometimes I could do without some of his honest thoughts. The funny thing is that he was really reserved with everyone-almost "icy"-but he was the one to make the first move, practically professing his love for me one of the first nights we met...(I so thought he was taking me for a spin). But, he also was NOT punctual and that shocked the hell out of me and pissed me off he never came to lectures so that surprised me as well. (I had to help him find an excuse to ask our prof to take the final later). After a while I really didn't think he liked me because he seemed dry and uninterested, but he just really doesn't do small talk. I also realized that he does makes an effort to talk about other things and we talk nearly everyday. We're planning on visiting each other while I'm abroad this summer, but I don't want to get my hopes up about this being a long term thing just because I'm scared of it not working out. (Another thing I'm afraid of is him thinking I'm crazy because I'm kind of a passionate person and he's super calm, but I think he may also like that about me. Idk. hahahah I'm just so in my head about it right now).

@abrilsantiago4386 5 жыл бұрын

Me encanta su proyecto y contenido de videos😍. A la par que junto a ustedes mejoro en el idioma de inglés. Hacen un buen trabajo!🙌

@zulee76 5 жыл бұрын

The last seconds of the video are the best. 😂😂😂😂

@carolinayaeger1181 5 жыл бұрын

Sandy Pulido I agree 🤣

@lorahayworth-nielson2341 4 жыл бұрын

The last sentences from Joss 😂👍🏼! Yes, I do understand that as well 😊!

@vanessabahamon1773 4 жыл бұрын

They are my favorite couple OF THE WORLD, so cute, such a nice relationship, lots of trust and jokes and love... I’ll always hope the best for them💝

@EdgingMyGooch 3 жыл бұрын

do you like german guys? lol

@Strawmoon1 5 жыл бұрын

Me encantan! Los adoro, Janik la mayoría de los mexicanos somos así xD "sentimientos felicidad" algunos hasta entramos en confianza muy rápido :c Joss ¿cómo siguieron saliendo entonces, llegaste a pensar que no tenía interés en ti?:0 Saludos desde México 💗

@diegovame7696 5 жыл бұрын

Hey guys I love your videos, I always watch them, you always make me laugh

@yoelismunoz3825 4 жыл бұрын

Me encanta como está creciendo el canal. I love you guys.

@schrodingerskatze6192 5 жыл бұрын

So I've found this channel 3 days ago....and have already seen all of your videos :D well, I guess it's time to start with your secondary channels!

@JossAndJanik 5 жыл бұрын

Wow those were a lot of videos in three days 😄 thank you for liking our content!

@michellelayseca9359 5 жыл бұрын

Hahha i want to see your point of view about dating a mexican girl hahaha. And yes, we're very emotional 😂 btw: Greetings from Guadalajara México 🤗

@ansgar8568 5 жыл бұрын

I was dating muchas mexicanas, but that was 30 years ago. Pero no me recuerdo :-)

@Sergio-fu7mv 5 жыл бұрын

My dad’s originally from Mexico and my mom from Spain (pretty much the same thing dna wise, my dna is 94% spanish. Lol) but even men are emotional. I had to learn to control my emotions, and know not to get hurt. When I find someone I like it’s almost like a marriage for me, I’m like a ride or die but I learned early on that’s not good, because you can be 100% in and the other person will only be half in. I pretty much got rid of it. I’ve become more realistic in what to expect and so far it’s worked. 😂

@michellelayseca9359 5 жыл бұрын

@@Sergio-fu7mv jaja. I totally get it, the same kinda happened to me 😂

@Sergio-fu7mv 5 жыл бұрын

Michelle Layseca lol, yeah. I think the spanish makes us very passionate. My mom which is originally from Spain is the same way. Same as my fam In Spain. We have passion in our blood. Lol.

@michellelayseca9359 5 жыл бұрын

@@Sergio-fu7mv cheers for passionate blood!! Hahaha 🥰🙌😂

@adrianagutierrez6947 5 жыл бұрын

JAJAJAJAJ me encantan sus videos, cómo no amarlos!! Ya deberíamos ser un millón! Los amo, saludos desde Colombia 💛💙❤

@Morellas4 4 жыл бұрын

WONDERFUL ! You are just sooo funny :-))) Thanks for this beautiful video.

@edgarXMO 5 жыл бұрын

OMG, i'm more like a german guy 😱. Love your videos, cheers from Guadalajara, México.

@emmanuel9694 5 жыл бұрын

Estos consejos me servirán mucho, Gracias muchachos, Saludos!.....

@arathmtz.7963 5 жыл бұрын

Mach es bitte für die Mexikaner Janik! Ich war in der Schweiz aber viele Sachen davon passen auch für sie. Lo mejor, el final extra 😂 saludos desde Mexico

@ibizamaria 3 жыл бұрын

Da gehen die Forderungen schon los

@summer271290 5 жыл бұрын

Just landed on your channel by chance. Loved the video. You guys are so funny 😂👌👏

@yaricelisriverarosa4897 5 жыл бұрын

This brought me so many memories. I miss Germany and my German friends. Wish I could go back again ❤️ the spedo thing is so accurate 😂me encantan sus videos

@darianameza7969 5 жыл бұрын

Los quiero escuchar hablar más Alemán! Love you guys, greetings from a mexican in Florida

@alessadivas5277 4 жыл бұрын

Estoy super feliz porque pude ver el video completo sin subtítulos, aprendo mucho con ustedes GRACIAS ♡

@kostadindiev9938 3 жыл бұрын

Oh, I can totally agree with you on the statement that Germans are completely different when they are outside of Germany! I am Bulgarian who lives in Germany and, to be honest, I do have a big problem in communication with Germans in Germany, BUT they can be very cool and fun when they are on holiday. They open up more that way. Same goes for Germans who lived abroad and have experiences with other cultures! Greetings to both of you, sweet people!

@nataliarevelo486 2 жыл бұрын

I think the reason is that people who are willing to travel abroad are different to those who prefer to stay in Germany. As you said, I also felt that my German friends who lived at some point abroad were much more flexible and open. I also realized that if a German person realizes you are a foreigner and they might have to speak English with you they get into a defensive or unhöflich attitude, but then if you speak German to them they get softer and kinder. I think the fear of speaking English freaks them out.

@fulanito1532 5 жыл бұрын

I have to wait like 5 days to see another video. Please Janik be efficient haha just kidding I love your videos

@annio.1943 4 жыл бұрын

I showed my boyfriend this video and he laughed and said its so accurate. Im german and hes american. we live here in germany and its just so funny that everything you guys say is so true. Great video😗

@scummybabyelephant6094 4 жыл бұрын

Whatever you've mentioned picture Germany in a more cool light. This just makes me want to visit Germany more and more. Thanks for the video:)

@Aszhmiik 5 жыл бұрын

Love you both! 💕 Joss is so cute when she’s jelous! 💕

@tanyem99 5 жыл бұрын

We *neeeeed* a Mexican version!! 🤪🇲🇽

@michimichipeppasoraya3401 3 жыл бұрын

i was dating a german they are really cute that is why i marry with him we have 20 years together. just kidding. i don't date hijos de hitler.

@micaelabarahona8453 5 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you Joss! Maybe the difference is that I like to be organized like the Germans but in the rest my boyfriend is the same Greetings from Baden-Württemberg🥳

@Melanie-rf6zv 5 жыл бұрын

The last part was hilarious!

@isabellemaria976 5 жыл бұрын

German girl here. I agree on the check part. I don't like the thought of somebody paying for me all the time. How is expecting somebody else to pay money for you all the time a sign of affection?

@citlallielizondo1290 5 жыл бұрын

La reacción de Janik en el minuto 4:07 cuando Joss menciona que ha besado a varios alemanes Amoo, me encantan. No tengo ni dos semanas de verlos y los AMO

@paulaschmitz5631 5 жыл бұрын

I'm German and made the same experiences with my Mexican/Latin American friends! Keeping promises and being relateable is very important for me - u said but if they like me and if they are close to me it shouldn't bother them to much - for me especially if they like me and are close to me they should keep their promises because by doing it they are respecting my needs and wishes and show me that they care for me... I also went out with Mexican guys and I can totally relate to the club story - Mexicans (at least those I met) were pretty good in flirting and dancing, here in Germany guys either don't flirt at all and are very shy or they behave in a disgusting way, they are annoying and flirt with u in a unrespectful manner... At least I made that experience often times...

@milliesanz838 2 жыл бұрын

I love this couple!.. 😍😍 totally agreed with Joss!.. 😁😁 ... Blessings guys!.. 🙏🏼🙏🏼

@mumuchang2255 4 жыл бұрын

well watching your video makes me smile and remember that one german guy i had met and spend that "runaway" week 😌😊 i hope someday our roads can collide again 🤞🏻

@Becky_Cal 5 жыл бұрын

I am from LA and one time about five years ago now, I met a German guy on a flight from LA to San Francisco. He’s from Hamburg. We had a great conversation and when he came to LA, I played tour guide for a day. He happened to work for the same company (consulting in Hamburg) that I did in LA. We kept in touch via email, and three years later when I lived in London and visited Hamburg for the first time, he returned the favor and was my tour guide. We kept in touch. Two years after that when I let him know I was going to live in Hamburg for a short time, he helped me sort out public transport, took me out for a welcome dinner and even helped me move from one Airbnb to another. This is one of two almost identical experiences (the other with a German woman, also from Hamburg, whom I met in Cartagena, Colombia). Germans are amazing people 🥰 🇩🇪and they truly are genuine, honest, faithful friends, and are actually very warm once you break through the ice and reserve. 😉

@christianelmers8600 4 жыл бұрын

Kinda was expecting a love story

@alondraandradeandrade7293 5 жыл бұрын

I soooooo, love you both, and her getting jealous at the end it's very funny, 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, I can only say that it's TRUE, they are very efficient but also very shy ( I was the one asking my boyfriend if he wanted to be my boyfriend), but hes very loving, although hes honesty sometimes it's kinda weird, jajaja he's tooooo honest but also tries to be kind, we'll be meeting in 2 weeks in Cancun for the first time, wish me luck.😍😍😍

@lunazul17 5 жыл бұрын

You go, girl! Wish you the best of luck. 🤞🤗

@JossAndJanik 5 жыл бұрын

That’s gonna be awesome! Good luck and enjoy Cancun 😀

@stellealcazar7697 5 жыл бұрын

Me encantan estos chicos se complementan tan bien,los amo😍.Y el hecho de que puedan dominar idiomas es aún más increíble 🤗

@beatrizmezaestrada1014 5 жыл бұрын

Hey guys! I absolutely loved your video and as a consequence, I've already subscribed. Yo también soy mexicana, pero sé que mi comportamiento siempre ha sido alemán. You could say I'm a weird Mexican because I love to be on time, I am all for time efficiency, and I prefer to be straight forward as well. Ich bin Detuschlehrerin hier in Mexiko und ich liebe alles Deutschland. ;) I will keep watching your videos, please keep them coming! Un abrazo para ambos. Tschüss!!

@meistsyans7708 5 жыл бұрын

I'm mexican and I'm so shy with flirting. I'm mexican and I'm always on time and the first one. Am I really mexican? 🤔

@tamarasaldana8027 4 жыл бұрын

Igual yo.jajaja,me peleó por pagar el Bill.siempre llegó temprano a todo,porq mi mamá me acostumbro a salir Temprano, porque que tal que se ponche una llanta,o si hay tráfico,y luego ahí estoy,tempranisimo.que vergüenza.😂 Y SI,soy mexicana al millón por ciento orgullosa.

@1307mimi 4 жыл бұрын

Same. I am horrible at flirting. I just joke. I always try to be on time and I am super shy. Wtf is wrong with me?

@naydra199 3 жыл бұрын

I can barely flirt, well if I can flirt

@ibisa85 5 жыл бұрын

I'm a Bolivian girl dating an american boy, and i can relate 90% with this 😂😂 P.s. We are jealous and full of emotions, and that's how you like us! 😌😇😂

@Nadjasmin13 3 жыл бұрын

Dieses na toll, hab' ich gefühlt xD Echt süß ihr beiden. Hat Spaß gemacht :))

@AndreaAvila78 4 жыл бұрын

Super funny video, thanks!. I'm Argentinian but I do love and value punctuality. I hate it when people are late. I love how brutally honest and efficient German people can be. I love how warm, sweet and friendly Mexicans are. Cultural differences are always interesting and fun to analyse. Now I want to travel to Mexico and Germany!

@x_nikky5409 5 жыл бұрын

In Poland we often split the bill too so maybe it's just Europe 🤣

@saralampret9694 5 жыл бұрын

In Poland :O

@Sergio-fu7mv 5 жыл бұрын

In the west it’s almost like a rule that us men HAVE to pay. Even “feminists” get angry if you don’t pay. Lol. It’s a pretty big deal over here. We’re very old fashioned in that sense.

@allegsaruiz363 5 жыл бұрын

I think its more about chivalry rather than independece, doesnt matter if shes feminist or not

@Sergio-fu7mv 5 жыл бұрын

MiraMe. Oh, hey. My moms originally from Spain. Lol. Third wave feminists is which. They’re complete hypocrites. I can say there is definitely some that just want equality for all but the hardcore ones have ruined it for them over here. I once was dating one. She was a hardcore feminist but wanted all the gentleman qualifies out of me, and to be treated like a little princess. Incredibly confusing. Some fems down here even like genuinely hate men. So hypocritical and incredibly sickening.

@Sergio-fu7mv 5 жыл бұрын

MiraMe. Mm, kind’ve. I’m from the US. My dad’s Mexican which at one point was part of Spain, I took one of those dna things and it said I was 94% spanish and 3.5% Native American. So just a little mixed I guess Lol. Ahh, yes. I’ve heard of machista but not the other one. But yeah, some are incredibly hypocritical over here. Honestly, I actually will do that. They got on my nerves. Lol. I agree with equality for all but I don’t agree with hate. Just seems sickening to me. Thank you! Que tenga buen dia usted tambien! Mucho amor a mis españoles! 🇺🇸🇪🇸🇲🇽