Newly discovered audio tapes and diaries provide rare insight into the tragic life of American icon, Judy Garland. A 20/20 report.
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@paulcousino87735 жыл бұрын
It seems like she never had a chance. From a young age she was her mothers meal ticket. So many people used her up and the drugs destroyed her body. I hope she found the peace that iluded her in life.
@beths32885 жыл бұрын
@Moddie Seven The truth is, though, the enormity of Garland's talent was owed in part due to the vulnerability and raw emotion she exhibited, especially when she performed on stage. She had fantastic vocals, but her presence was the key that made her so riveting. The drugs helped her shed any persona at all and left her that raw, emotional performer. That's the hard truth about substance abuse. Substances can help you perform or can inspire you for a while, but the toll they take is far and away never worth it. The public will never see anything like Garland again, but ultimately she and her loved ones paid the price for our entertainment.
@gelcap2035 жыл бұрын
You can't go three decades and be confused. At some point you have to realize.
@EYE_GOTCHA5 жыл бұрын
Beth S Well said.
@margaretcaldarone10054 жыл бұрын
Paul Cosina
@margaretcaldarone10054 жыл бұрын
Paul Cousino, I hope so too. I meet Judy one night at the bar in Jillys New Your. She sat next to me and turned and apoligised for scutting in. I said " just be comfortable". She said " that will be the day".
@msthang53665 жыл бұрын
Sad part is it started with her mother!! Being used and abused..
@ljo06054 жыл бұрын
She never really stood a chance ...
@mb-vf3qb5 жыл бұрын
She was taken advantage of so badly. Sad story. Rip.
@gelcap2035 жыл бұрын
You can't go three decades and be confused. At some point you have to realize.
@iamdee26155 жыл бұрын
Her a other was horrible
@nutcracker29164 жыл бұрын
@spooky katt Was her mother Jewish ?
@markypolo554 жыл бұрын
@spooky katt You are a fcking moron! Get a JOB!
@bettyblakley5494 жыл бұрын
Marky Polo I
@_____75125 жыл бұрын
Jim Carey has a quote he says that goes something along the lines of "everyone should be rich and famous for atleast 1 day to realize that they really don't want it at all"
@headphonic85 жыл бұрын
If they don't throw away their money like fools, they can live comfortably and privately for a very long time off their riches. Just look at Hillary Duff. Of course, Judy never even received that money in the first place.
@kelb60735 жыл бұрын
What happens is it turns out the person couldn't mentally handle being famous. Some people who can mentally handle it, go on and live wonderful lives being famous. Other people can't handle it, whether it be impulse problems, drugs, being stepped on, just in general too weak for it. You have to be able to see when your being stepped on, or taking things to far, or not managing finances well.
@Jripey135 жыл бұрын
Mimi M Jim Carrey is an asshöle...
@_____75125 жыл бұрын
and the point of sharing your opinion is...? no one cares what you think, we were discussing the stresses of fame.
@Jripey135 жыл бұрын
Mimi M stressed? This was about Hollywood ripping her off... what does Jim Carrey as to do with having money.. are you an asshat? Pay attention then this sadistic story...Jim is alive and well as a creep..
@elementohsix4 жыл бұрын
This truly breaks my heart. She had so much talent and the most beautiful voice. And this is how she was treated during her life. I pray her soul is finally at rest. She is free from the evil in this world.
@antoniacasillas96735 жыл бұрын
She is the epitome of a broken person whose soul yearned to escape. Inarguably tragic.
@interstategar5 жыл бұрын
Had no idea about her earnings being stolen from her and being broke. Hope the guy is rotting in hell. Her singing voice was incredible. She had one the greatest singing voices that I've ever heard. Strong, clear, and smooth.
@emerybayblues3 жыл бұрын
I read up on the guy, David Begelman. He was finally exposed when in 1977, actor Cliff Robertson got a 1099 from the IRS for a $10,000 check Robertson "received" from Columbia Pictures. Robertson never got a check, when the check was found, the signature was forged & a criminal investigation was opened by LAPD and the FBI, ultimately tracked to Begelmen (Begelmen took over Columbia in 1973). Thing is Columbia wanted to keep it hushed up after Begelmen paid a fine & did community service. But Robertson and his then wife made it public. Robertson said he was blacklisted b/c he didn't work much in the 80s. Begelmen ultimately committed suicide in 1995 after his Gladden Entertainment went bankrupt & he couldn't get funding for Gladden Productions. But he was funny with the $$ right up to the end.
@AnimalloverAmanda10 жыл бұрын
The rich get richer while the hard workers get poorer.
@dancampeau19634 жыл бұрын
It's ubiquitous.
@monjiaitaly4 жыл бұрын
AnimalloverAmanda What a crock of shit. People do not get poorer because of the rich. Vote with your head instead of your asshole and maybe things will change.
@monjiaitaly4 жыл бұрын
@@dancampeau1963Oh bullshit it is.
@TheWarriorSongProject4 жыл бұрын
@@monjiaitaly LOL true dat
@mark500mo4 жыл бұрын
@@monjiaitaly The rich got rich by siphoning from the poor. The top 8 richest people in the world hold 50% of the wealth . Think about that. Where do you think you are ? Included in that number? You are the poor, fool.
@Janin.alisonn5 жыл бұрын
So sad.. she was so beautiful & talented. She deserved more
@tiffanyanderson14583 жыл бұрын
How come the father's of her kids didn't help her feed there kids?
@raven_ous25853 жыл бұрын
Definitely xx
@jasmin97783 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanyanderson1458 that’s men for ya
@daisysweetpeaches82178 жыл бұрын
Poor Judy. She seemed so troubled, I wish I could be there for her. How could you be mentally and emotionally stable with a mother like that.
@Deborahtunes5 жыл бұрын
Unless you recognize that your parents were/are the problem at the time, you'll never have any peace. You have to understand what/who the problem is, before you can correct it. Judy never got the chance...
@EYE_GOTCHA5 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I had a mother like Ethel and much my life was full of instability and misery.
@AlexBlue685168 жыл бұрын
This whole film about Judy Garland's life made me sad. No one should ever go through what she went through. I am a singer, been singing since as far as I can remember, and for a performer my heart goes out for her. Rest In Peace Judy Garland. ❤️
@shanareehamrick56903 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@HRaeN5 жыл бұрын
Seeing this makes you realize how much progress we’ve made as women. These women were basically just spit out when they got “too old”. And men didn’t think twice about using them to line their own pockets. We still have a little ways to go in some aspects but look how far we’ve come.
@JamesSmith-vk2ky5 жыл бұрын
Great point! Way to look on the bright side!! 👍👍👏👏👏
@MsTessG4 жыл бұрын
It's unfathomable to me how greedy, unscrupulous people live with the chaos they leave in other people's lives. She was a genius and a dear person, only to be abused all of her life by greedy, despicable people.
@Mel-vb5pj5 жыл бұрын
When I was a little girl, I fell in love with Judy and The Wizard of Oz. My mother felt I was too young to know about her tragic death from drugs, so she told me that Judy Garland died when she accidentally fell off of a trolley in San Francisco. My mother had an odd sense of humor and an even odder sense of morality. The image in my mind of Dorothy being crushed by traffic was waaaay worse than an overdose. Thanks a lot mommy🤷♀️
@maryjane-ip3tr5 жыл бұрын
That's kind of cute in a morbid way lol
@kimmyymmik5 жыл бұрын
Or maybe she didn’t know what she died of. 🤦🏻♀️
@music121025 жыл бұрын
@@kimmyymmik It was no secret what the cause of her death was.
@jackanthony9764 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised your mother didn't add that Judy died when she fell of the trolley while singing her big hit from Meet Me In St. Louis called "The Trolley Song."
@chuckmcmicheal5584 жыл бұрын
Mel that was kinda funny
@carleavesceo7095 жыл бұрын
Lorna Luft did so much to help Judy and her brother. Judy Garland was the entertainer of the 20th century ! Her fans will always love and adore her.
@linleona79594 жыл бұрын
God bless you, Judy. You graced the stage and film genres with a magnificent talent. Humor and Heart were your Hallmarks in every live performance. My parents bought your album Live from Carnegie Hall. We listened to it every week, and never got tired of hearing the songs. Many happy memories of watching your films. Thank you, Judy.
@ronniebishop24965 жыл бұрын
Judy didn’t become she just was a star she just happened like a comet and poof she was gone. They owe her kids a fortune and mgm should cough it up.
@franceselliott56214 жыл бұрын
So so sad! May she rest in God's hands. Beautiful lady and blessed with her talents! Assholes who done her dirty will get theres!!!!
@durtyragoux4 жыл бұрын
LM, what does that even mean??
@mistie1015 жыл бұрын
My goodness, what a tragic life she had! Hollywood sucked the life out of her! :(
@kennycook5 жыл бұрын
My favorite movie of hers was Meet Me in St. Louis. I watch it every Christmas.
@suealder34584 жыл бұрын
The last movie I watched with my brother great memories.
@drumcatfano7054 жыл бұрын
That poor woman really was a bouncing ball for everybody.God has her in his arms
@samuelparker98824 жыл бұрын
She gets aggravating after a while
@jamesriccardo22255 жыл бұрын
She was one of the greats. But what a tragic life she had. This made me so sad.
@soulonice995 жыл бұрын
Even now, seeing Judy's performances on gritty film ... she still gives me the thrilling chills
@Vinny-bb2tj5 жыл бұрын
JUDYS OLDER SISTER DIED IN HER 40S TOO OF ALCOHOLISM AND SUICIDE, SHE HAD THE SAME MUM NOT THAT SURPRISING WHEN U THINK ABT IT
@maryhough80415 жыл бұрын
My mom is 48 and looks YEARS younger than Judy did at 47. It’s so heartbreaking to see.
@pattym2419965 жыл бұрын
Mary Hough I was thinking the same, my mother is almost 50 and she looks a lot younger as well. It’s so hard to watch the videos that go through her years and see huge pieces of life leaving her soul :(
@ultravioletpisces36664 жыл бұрын
I didnt realize she died so young and she seemed so old in the first few clips. I was shocked to realize her age at death.
@teresasmith73912 жыл бұрын
I am same age now when judi died so sad she died at 47 and lot of people were taken advantage of her.
@kpag30305 жыл бұрын
Her story is so sad, but she brought a lot of happiness to the world
@antoniafaheerty69804 жыл бұрын
It is kind of bitter sweet to revel in Judys "success and iconic status" knowing how horrible a life she had, and how poor she became in wealth and health not of her doing.
@amazonchiq10 жыл бұрын
Such a tragic tale :(
@grimmwhite78415 жыл бұрын
had no idea, this was behind the rainbow the whole time 😭
@truly37435 жыл бұрын
Gosh even her husband Luft squandered her money! So many people used her. She looked so unhealthy not even a bit of muscle tone on her body just bones, frail bones. But she is still a legend
@stmichl94334 жыл бұрын
Similar story to Marilyn Monroe's in many ways. There was no one to protect these women and they couldn't seem to fight for themselves or set boundaries, because they had been groomed and abused for so long it became a way of life for them.
@icedcoffee64613 жыл бұрын
When she was singing next to Barbara Streisand she looked so skinny all bones next to Barbara that’s sad
@GeorgiaIsOnMyMind5 жыл бұрын
I just watched Wizard Of Oz with my toddler daughter yesterday. She liked it so much she asked to see it again today. So this was the reason I decided to KZfaq Judy Garland's bio. I'm saddened by what I found. Dear Judy, I hope you're happy and beloved in Allah's eternal abode. Sending you peace and love. Thanks for
@ronicostello69834 жыл бұрын
Regardless of all the terrible real life drama Judy endured with her children, and idiots that profited off her not even able to buy food, I'm pleased to see her daughter paint her in a more tender light. Thank you for that, Barbara Walters
@julianneyvonne5604 жыл бұрын
I wish Judy could have saw what we who love her saw in her. 😭 Those dirty SOB's! Her voice is one of a kind! I hope she found her way over the rainbow 💐🌈 RIP Judy 🖤🌈💐
@katjames76014 жыл бұрын
I had to hold back my tears and not allow myself to feel her sorrow. She was taken advantage of in every possible way. Fed pills to perform, molested, forced to have an abortion. My god. The fact that she and her children went hungry while her handlers took the lion's share is despicable. Wizard of Oz is, and will always be, my favorite movie. Thank you Judy Garland for your lasting legacy.
@annprince52185 жыл бұрын
This makes me so angry! I hope all of those people who took advantage of her are burning in hell!
@sarahholland13755 жыл бұрын
Very sad. A victim of the studio 'system' that doled out uppers & diet pills as a matter of routine. She always trusted her 'Managers' when it came to money & paid the price. Doris Day also did the same & was fleeced.
@bicarbonat15 жыл бұрын
Is there any actress back in the day who wasn't (not being snarky, genuinely wondering)? I wonder if there was a classic actress who got wise to the manipulations & tricks, and managed to make it into their older years with at least some/most of what they deserved.
@lisacassar70405 жыл бұрын
blame her mom first she was the 1 who made judy an addict
@tiawilliams56905 жыл бұрын
Bette Davis and Olivia de Havilland were two that managed to set limits.
@janellebaker26214 жыл бұрын
I just saw the film, "Judy" yesterday and it was so sad.
@mountainguru5295 жыл бұрын
She was so enchanting yet tormented ...damn the ones that used her . Hope you are finely at peace sweet Judy .....rest .
@stellajameson14004 жыл бұрын
Who's here after seeing the movie with Renee Z ? Renee did an outstanding job portraying Judy and will win the Oscar. Feel sorry for Judy...she was just used all her life. :(
@babywan194 жыл бұрын
Me, saw it last night, didn’t realise she was so young when she died ,so many people took advantage of her , terrible people ,it was so sad
@cmm21454 жыл бұрын
Watching Judy Garland in an interview or a performance brings up four emotions. First, love. I have always and will always love Judy. It seems to me that there were way too many people who were supposed to love her that didn’t, like her mother. Second, happiness. I enjoy watching her movies, especially the ones with Mickey Rooney. Third, disappointment. She could’ve done more and better, but the pills wouldn’t let her. Fourth, anger. Justified anger against all the people who used her and treated her badly starting with her mother, then the studio, then whoever. It’s just wrong that they treated her the way they did. She was a beautiful young lady with a beautiful strong voice and had singing, acting, and dancing talent oozing out of her. And all they could see in her was a meal ticket. And for all the years of hard work and for the things that were taken from her, she lived the last part of her life so poor that she didn’t have money for food. That is truly despicable.
@amiblueful Жыл бұрын
I believe that Sid Luft was one of the few people who truly wanted to help her. She was so used to being taken advantage of, it's understandable that she didn't see it that way. Her children adored her though. I'm glad she had that, at least.
@bb68875 жыл бұрын
What an amazing talent. Judy Garland had it all, in one person.
@CarlyCorrigan14 жыл бұрын
Makes me so mad 😡 love everything about Judy Garland. I thank my late grandad for singing me her songs and getting me into meet me in st louis ❤😍 xxx
@thaliajen4 жыл бұрын
LOVE Judy! Hoping to get to the movie tonight! Renée Zellweger looks amazing. Judy Davis was great in “Me in my Shadows” the TV movie based on Lorna Luft’s excellent book. She’s a bright star in the heavens!. 💜
@hollie94875 жыл бұрын
Everyone in her life: You're ugly and not good enough, you need to take these pills in order to function, do as I say. Also everyone in her life: Wow Judy I'm concerned with your drug use you should really knock that off.
@nnvincent34 жыл бұрын
So tragic. If you get the chance to watch the 1945 movie, "The Clock" with Judy Garland and Robert Walker (another sad life, he died at 32) it's just the sweetest movie ever.
@Oldie6994 жыл бұрын
Everybody loved Garland and Monroe but it was Francess Gumm and Norma Jean looking to be loved .
@sydneyprescott33745 жыл бұрын
She literally gave it her all!💗💗😥
@camuscat1235 жыл бұрын
So sad...Yet she was more than that...far more dimensions to this legend...Thank God for the triumph of her voice!
@nieceypiecey1005 жыл бұрын
She has her mother’s voice! Judy Garland, May be resting in peace. ❤️
@77Tadams5 жыл бұрын
Judy is the truth to so many lives. Thank you Judy.
@Liveandletdie215 жыл бұрын
I love her singing Habe yourself a Merry little Christmas... Beautiful voice...RIP
@justyb49634 жыл бұрын
Watching this hurt my heart! 😥
@emmacassidy84825 жыл бұрын
The Studios and doctors knew what they were doing. They knew about all the dangers
@marilynspal4 жыл бұрын
The poor woman..so tragic ...they literally abused her....Renee Zwelwegger did an awesome perfomance in"Judy".....captured the fragile disintegration of a superstar...I cried .....you must see
@ZionBoss7834 жыл бұрын
Wow, what a story. I’m sorry Judy ... you will forever live on as an iconic character of my childhood. Thank you for such memories..
@justachill5 жыл бұрын
Hollywood murdered Judy oh the voice she had was legendary
@shadowfilm79804 жыл бұрын
I just saw the movie JUDY. Renee Zellweger does a great job as Judy Garland. Oscar worthy. Yes, this woman had some rough tough times. She is now at peace. What she left us here will be always treasured. Thank you Judy!
@evamcintosh2993 жыл бұрын
I loved her so much, in her movies someone needed to really take care of her
@seecanon58405 жыл бұрын
RIP France's Gumm. You are remembered, yes, you are remembered.
@suealder34584 жыл бұрын
She was an amazing entertainer. I love to watch her perform!! Greatest ever!
@riohanna58824 жыл бұрын
And you think your life is hard ?? Look at this woman...rest in peace, legend.
@8656737s5 жыл бұрын
Breaks my heart how horrible for her 😢
@Vinny-bb2tj5 жыл бұрын
JUDYS OLDER SISTER DIED IN HER 40S TOO OF ALCOHOLISM AND SUICIDE, SHE HAD THE SAME MUM NOT THAT SURPRISING WHEN U THINK ABT IT
@fletchersykes16604 жыл бұрын
It's truly sad and despicable at how such a person was treated. Ms Garland forever a legend and a rare talent.
@Mzsimmons825 жыл бұрын
Very sad, she was so beautiful and so talented but so damaged... God rest her soul.
@loggiewoggiewoowoo39134 жыл бұрын
That is just disgusting how could people’s do this to her, such an incredible talent deserved much more
@delightedduncan93724 жыл бұрын
There is nothing sad on Earth than to have evil friends. No true friends who really care for you. True friends will put your happiness before their own. hey really want the best for you no matter how rich you are if you don't really have a true friend or a true love is very sad. It all start with the true love of God if you can accept the love of God and you pray God will bring good people around you we all need that.
@MichelleB2b5 жыл бұрын
This woman was handled like a puppet. I do believe her life was manipulated to the point where she suspected but couldnt necessarily prove as much because no one was forthright with her. I wish she'd had more time to right the wrongs done to her.
@Ego-de4dt5 жыл бұрын
Sooo she was only 47 when she died. Everyone in the comment sections of Judy garland videos that have been posted the last few days shocked. She really looked about 60.
@semiramisbonaparte16275 жыл бұрын
you heard her clearly...she was over 108 lol
@chella37764 жыл бұрын
She made a movie called “” The Clock”” excellent movie, She was a great actress ! May she Rest In Peace knowing she made a lot of people happy ! ! ! 💕🌺💕
@jennywu735 жыл бұрын
So painful to watch. I'm literally sick to my stomach in how they treated her.
@sydneyprescott33744 жыл бұрын
I just saw Judy in the movies, renee zellweger did a great job and she used her own vocals ,I would've really loved to hear Judy's voice instead
@SuperLulu2124 жыл бұрын
So sad. A great talent. RIP JUDY!!❤️🙏
@shawnarthurwells53855 жыл бұрын
RIP Sweet Angel
@victoriaharris8825 жыл бұрын
The movie industry Used her up and when they were finished with her they tossed her to the curb ,may she now Rest In Peace 😎
@haileyshannon75485 жыл бұрын
name somebody who that DIDN'T happen to!
@jacquelineJacqueline0334 жыл бұрын
So sad how she was robbed blind. She was so beautiful and talented. R.I.P Gorgeous
@kalliegoodwin14219 жыл бұрын
in "annie get your gun" she didnt finish the film cuz she got fired it was because she became very ill and by the time she got well again they had already replaced her.... gosh get your facts right
@tee1up7853 ай бұрын
This is heartbreaking. I can’t watch anymore. RIP Mam. 😔
@belyndataber54444 жыл бұрын
This made me cry 😭 Rest In Peace your memory will live on forever immortalised in the wizard of Oz
@martinlungley20345 жыл бұрын
Oh so painful!!!
@susanlc14 жыл бұрын
Dear God, you would think ONE person would have tried to help her, how sad was her entire life.
@sa57725 жыл бұрын
Talk about disturbing! Nobody deserved that!
@sallyjohnson71604 жыл бұрын
Love Judy Garland .I did think she was older when she died my mom died at 68 at her brother's funeral. Lost uncle and mom I didnt know it was her time but I hugged her I took care of her till she died but so sudden.please hug ur mom hug ur dad hug life is short she's in heaven .but hug someone for me say nice stuff always think what if these were my last words to them
@starr64655 жыл бұрын
All that glitters isnt gold. Rest in Peace Ms. Judy Garland
@OGDweeb4 жыл бұрын
I wish she had had a couple of good friends to take her away from those abusers...
@cherie32835 жыл бұрын
She was such a talent .
@lindaburns58173 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is soooooo beautifully done! It's just a damn shame to treat stars like that!!! Love this. ⚘⚘⚘💕❤🎶🌷♥️💜🦋
@bryanlund2730 Жыл бұрын
Something about having your parent break your heart.Turns a natural singer into a powerhouse of conviction.
@tonifrancis21894 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and talented, Judy. She did love her audiences and she did most of all love her children. She was a victim of her mother’s blind ambition, and Hollywood’s grueling reality of sexploitation, exhausting hours and greed, greed, greed of those who managed her and should have helped her, but chose not to. Let her always be remembered not as the victim she was forced to become, but as the most incredible entertainer the world will ever see, that she was.
@JuneLynn4 жыл бұрын
Hollywood used her up and spit her out....her children were too young to help her....she suffered enough in this life....Rest In Peace Judy, you surely deserved to be treated better 💜❤ 💘
@dannychavez78765 жыл бұрын
Judy Garland was the most talented entertainer ever. And beautiful. Look at her in Presenting Lily Mars, Babes On Broadway,The Clock, For Me & My Gal, MMISL, Little Nellie Kelly. The list goes on. Sinatra once said. We will all be forgotten, Never Judy. And he's right.
@cristynlane63664 жыл бұрын
I can relate to Judy, she suffered her whole life with other people calling the shots and controlling her unmercifully. Life became so precarious for her.
@PositiveZ74 жыл бұрын
Just vial, no one can keep up with that schedule and stay sane. People keep saying they miss the good ol' days. As a woman I am certainly glad I was not born in that era. A pack of hungry wolves would have treated Judy better than the men running Hollywood. I feel for Judy and her children. It is sad to think that no friends in Hollywood tried to help her.
@MrJpm1989 Жыл бұрын
Pisses me off , people are really cruel. What a beautiful lady.
@jacquelineJacqueline0334 жыл бұрын
My uncle the Late George Jackson singer/songwriter who penned his first hit song One Bad Apple performed by the Osmond Brothers. He wrote songs for Marie Osmond as well. My Uncle wrore I Like That Old Time Rock and Roll, Down Home Blues and many many more songs for famous artist. He started his career with Ike and Tina Turner. My uncle really admired Judy Garland he said she was a rare talentt.
@TheSilverphoenix885 жыл бұрын
I had so much judgmental ideas about Judy when I first learned of how she died, thinking she brought it to herself. But when I digged deeper into her life I had a broken heart. She was exploited like a cash cow and got the short end of the stick. May she rest in eternal paradise and be remembered for her true spirit While those who mistreated her can rot in hell
@bricac215 жыл бұрын
Even if it wasn't brought to her it happens all the time to people there should be no judgement to others cause you don't know there life.
@user-ju4hs9ks6e5 жыл бұрын
She really loved her children. Notice she says her “children didn’t get rich” before she mentions herself. They have nothing but nice things to say about her to this day.
@evo28155 жыл бұрын
I remember watching wizard of oz as a child and thinking how absolutely beautiful she was, to think she had such shit end is disappointing... I don't get how she got ripped of so much.. so sad
@chelseac21904 жыл бұрын
Dance with the angels dearest Judy.
@devonnabrown12345 жыл бұрын
We love you Judy Garland. Rest in peace sweetie.
@louisech19635 жыл бұрын
this is so sad that artists are being taken advantages so much
@karenburton42763 жыл бұрын
She was a child, her mother fed her drugs. She's not to blame. God bless you judy.