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Jack Harlow and Julien make a great duo

My favourite take away is having the ability to laugh at yourself and having confidence and not caring what people think, that’s how you can play around with structure 😅 hope I got that right 🥰

Also, when you let go of self-consciousness and anxiety many of these things flow naturally. I was a very boring story teller until I had a breakthrough while teaching yoga... I just stopped caring if people liked my class. So of course everyone started coming to tell me how amazing my classes were. And I took this into conversations... no longer caring if they liked what I was saying or worrying if I look weird, am boring, etc... and with that level of anxiety washed away my facial expressions grew, my body was no longer stationary, my tonality increased substantially, emotions began entering communication... I was no longer just trying to get through it and became involved in telling the story or just talking in general. Letting go is way more important than learning strategies.

Jack Harlow is normally real confident. Must've been an off day.

"my daughter has this".... oh man I am SOOOO happy to hear Julien say that. I never would have thought 10+ yrs ago he'd get to this point. God bless you man

Hey Julien, I used to watch your Yt pickup videos and I can kind of see that what you were teaching them is very similar to this newer stuff. You're not selling an easy fix to all your problems, you're adding value and perspective to people's lives. I'm so glad I found these videos, something that I kinda need right now. Keep up the great work man, hope life has treated you well brother

You know Julien is a good coach because he is coaching Jack Harlow🤝

Thanks for the content Julian I got a lot better with my social skills through my 20s as I had no friends in high school but I still have more work to improve. This really helped me out. People have higher expectations of me since I’m relatively fit and don’t look the part of being someone who’s quiet

Wow this exercise reminds you how powerful facial expressions dictate your character

Julien is basically teaching acting and improv class

I’m glad I found your channel, can’t wait to watch all the videos

This is so good. Biggest takeaway is that words don’t matter. Putting pressure on myself to always have good verbals throws off the rest of my communication. It doesn’t matter even if you ask questions as long as you don’t take value ✌️

Just seen your content first time, I like it ! I thought this was PUA content at first but it seems more for being just socially adept or helping with social anxiety and improving self esteem, which I love ! Usually just see content like this for girls but honestly I love how universal your style is, could be for any type of conversation, co-worker, or want to be more social to make friends..initiate convos for a study group in college..etc! Not just for talking to girls and I love that thats not the focus lol, bc these tools are universal for any human interactions

Love the videos! Love how you dive deep and give examples on what I can do at home!😄

You’re a blessing bro. Gonna get deep into your work this year

Saw your shorts, love what you are doing

In my humble observation it seems like those viewed as magnetic or charming emanate an aura I guess described by words like presence, awareness and purpose. They never look detached from the scene or to be daydreaming/losing track of the basic energy in the room and flowing in step. Maybe it's an obvious but neglected point to simply pay attention to better process what's coming at you and stay flexible. Feels as if inspiration comes easier during those brief flashes of calm focus where the mind is free to express its ongoing stream of consciousness without the social filters and restrictions we apply constantly.

I thought it's Jack harlow in the thumbnail 😂

Really appreciate these mate

Ok see I noticed that Julien only really interacted with the more expressive guy when not having him do something. He was generally including him in the presentation way more just because he was comfortably engaging the whole time.

S'more dope shit Julien! My biggest takeaway is how important it is to practice at home! I just got done recording my first podcast and it was actually really fun and is already making an impact on me. I've never even thought about posting a video on here before but I think I'm gonna throw it up on my channel and if you want to look at a few minutes of it that'd be dope but if not no biggie. I applied for a free coaching sesh and wanted to show my commitment as much as possible and couldn't think of a better way. When I recorded this I didn't think I was gonna post it so some of it is pretending like I have fans who watch it but who cares it was fun 🤣😂

Great vid as always, thanks a lot!

I thought he was Jack Harlow 😂

I'm really happy this became a video, amazing insight Julien!

Literally just by watching this video will change your social life and confidence

I love this video my biggest takeaway was that you can't be passive when someone is talking to you. like making some reactions instead of just standing there. and the second part where you can practice this in front of a mirror.

The human mind is powerful.. more powerful when u can tell it what to do and how to act.. make u act. Psycology Love Forever.

Julien, I've been watching your seminars for a while and I have a question I couldn't find an answer. Sometimes you say that if you believe you have a fear for example, and you're in the "now what state?" everything you do, such as looking up techniques and such, reinforces that you are in that state, instead of "what's the reason I am afraid?". However, if someone is following your advice, how is it that not reinforcing that they're in a state of fear [or other negative state]. IF you consider yourself that you are not confident or scared, and IF you are looking for ways to get out of this, that's reinforcing that you are not starting in a place where you're confident or not scared. How is following your advice not reinforcing that the person is not confident to begin with, for example. Also smth else I haven't seen this covered in any seminar so far: how does physiology play into all of this? I've been following your advice and worked on myself a LOT, and I am way more happier now and I've got core confidence, but whenever I am in a low state, in terms of physiology [like if I'm really tired, if I have a fever, if I am really hungry], I still return to my previous negative state, maybe not to the full intensity as before, but still feeling things that are NOT in accord with reality. Is it even possible in those hungry/tired/sick cases to still be congruent and let go of the cause of me being triggered?

This "composure" that we develop seems to come and stifle us as we get older, as many people think it's an improvement or a sign of maturity. That emotional nothingness is "safe". People can make fun of you for laughing, or ridicule you for losing your temper, or punish you for being loud when you're happy, or call you a (insert insult) for being sad. Our emotions come with a certain level of vulnerability, so we retreat to nothingness in order to be safe. This is a big reason why stoicism is on such a pedestal in a few niches btw. True strength doesn't come from being invulnerable. It comes from the level of acceptance you have with your vulnerabilities. It's uncomfortable for many of us to know we're flawed and can be made fun of. Your power isn't in becoming someone that people can't make fun of. That's resistance, that approach is the exact opposite of empowering. Your power will be in acceptance; in letting go of the struggle and allowing yourself to be heard, to be seen, to be praised, to be condemned, to live. That's why it's so hard. Fighting comes natural, but the answer here... is surrender. Letting go.

Ur video's have helped me a lot to kill my social anxiety I can see changes in just 3-4 days

I love this.

Best best best videos I am seeing from last 2 months 🔥 👌👌👌💖💖💖. Navarasam aka The Navarasa, in the scriptures refer to the nine expressions that humans often show. These are love (shringaara), laughter (haasya), kind-heartedness or compassion (karuna), anger (roudra), courage (veera), fear (bhayaanaka), disgust (bheebhatsya), wonder or surprise (adbhutha) and peace or tranquility (shaantha).

Hi Julien, first of all thank you for putting out great content. I feel like your concepts have a strong footing, as I feel like you have gone through tough times and speak from experience. I'm struggling especially with blushing in social situations (29 year old guy). I started experiencing this when I was around 15 years old. How do I overcome this? Watching your videos I believe I must get to the root of this, which is hidden in my subconscious to then let go of it. But how do I do this? Do I ask myself shadow questions and dive in deep to then realize the cause of it. Is the realisation the healing process?

You have so many good videos. I cant keep up with lol

Biggest takeaway was that i really thought i was doing it well !! What other blind spots do we keep from ourselves and were they put there as a defense mechanism to past trauma.

Powerful stuff.

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I don't think ill be able to learn or manage any of this socializing well ever... but I'm ok with that. I'm aspergic and this is like trying to play piano but being deaf. I might be able to learn some chords or scales but I won't really understand how it actually sounds to others or how to combine elements or the nuances that will make it feel natural. To be socially affluent would be like a jazz pianist improvising. I just feel like no matter how hard I work at it I am just missing a piece somewhere. And its like looking at the other side of a deep river but not being able to swim a cross. Man it kinda sucks sometimes because I wanna too be the life of the party but atleast I can do it with music.

I think this is great

Julian bro , Julian bro , posting something about"analytical skills" will help a lot . thanks.

JULIEN CAN YOU ALREADY FEEL MY HIGH ENERGY? 🔥🔥

Perfect, explanation, parts of a story beggining, knot, ending,.. coherence, and cohesion, logic , staying balanced on time and space and beeing aware of the whole structure to have a full panormic view of All the perspectives. This workes for me. Pd: im the guy who brooe up with the gf 2 days ago.

I have trouble relaxing my eyes and calming my nerves during conversation. It feels overbearing although now I try to make it seem more as an excitement or sensation feeling.

Hey Julien I did your method on posting on social media an unflattering picture and going off social media for a week. I have nervous breakdowns of anxiety and regret from doing it. I shouldn’t have done that, shit what will they think, questioning my worth, why did I do that, these are things popping in my mind and I can’t stop worrying about it. I can’t relax or sit still. What’s your view on this?

Takeaways: 1. The eyes are important, so is your facial expression. "Are you expressing, or are you stifled when showing emotions?". Practice emotions at home! Stretch the face, record yourself after, and see if you got better by getting back to your recorded videos once in a while (analyze after!) 2. Not talking doesn't mean disengaging and being in your head, you should be talking even though you are not talking by showing facial expressions of some sort. 3. You'll never run out of things to say once you master the things seen in this video, because it doesn't matter what you say! It's what you communicate (subconsciously)

Comment for a youtube algorithm: Pure gold

I thought that was Jack Harlow In the thumbnail

nice one juls

Drop that fire father J 🔥🔥🔥

Wow, this is sick

I too become defensive when in front of a group , what to do about that

Lifting wheights will help your career

Got a ques for you... In order to fully accept myself, I would have to experience every sense of unacceptance exists within me. But lot of times the problem is I just can't experience anything, if I think of something triggering, I don't get fear... Idk how to cope with this one... Please help, sure you could.

Julien can i get a link on coaching?

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How do I build a social circle from scratch? I legit hate my life and I have no one, 0 social life let alone dating life. I just want to have fun but I don't know what to do. Where can I start? Please help julien

Bro, though that was Jack Harlow for a sec😂

I cant even do angry lol, just happy and surprised come easy

Spot on about the new batman

That thumbnail looks like he's been caught for real.

i thought the thumbnail guy was jack harlow 😂

Is it just me or do they all look alike but with different personality types lol

Jack Harlow: What's poppin

Me and my girlfriend dont even know how to show romance face to face

i thought jack harlow was in the thumbnail 😂

Came here for Jack Harlow :

I thought that was jack Harlow

This is a top HACK all right 😂😂

🐐❤️

I thought that was Jack Harlow

that guy looks like a Latino Jack Harlow

Your daughter stunting on full grown adults at embracing expression has provided you with endless teaching material, a tune by the name of 'Wheels on The Bus' comes to mind 😂 Funny enough you learn loads about yourself just watching them go effortlessly through experiences that the average adult hides from their entire life

They don't no how to make a surprise face wow the difference between a fake an real smile are the eyes

Jack Harlow wtf u doin here Lmaooo

The homie jake Harlow 😂😂

I thought that was Jack Harlow in the thumbnail lol

Moral of the story: take acting classes.

Julien this time you brought virgin jack harlow next time we want virgin lil uzi vert bro

I thought bro was Jack Harlow at first

Bruh, I thought that’s Jack Harlow in the thumbnail lol

Yo!

Is it just me or all three look like julien

I thought that was jack harlow lol.

i came for Jack Harlow ^^

Bruh I saw the thumbnail and was llike why tf is Jack Harlow at one of these?!

I thought that was jack harlow for a split second

Has social media and television fucked people up so bad that they actually need this type of coaching on how to do basic communication with other human beings in person? We truly are in the end times.

"N look like Jack Harlow"

I clicked on this video because I thought that was Jack Harlow

Jack Harlow

By thumbnail I thought he was Jack Harlow. Ahh baited.

I legit thought that was jack harlow

Why I thought that was Jack Harlow

Jack Harlow ?

Where is Jack Harlow ??

He looks more like Jack Harlow than Jack Harlow himself

Jack harlow?

I wonder why Jack harlow is so attractive to women

Who else thought that was Jack Harlow