The Hook Point: How To Make People Chase You

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How to hook attention so that they chase you... Live demonstration!
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Julien Blanc is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
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The Hook Point: How To Make People Chase You (INSTANT Ways To Start A Conversation With Anyone - How To Hook Attention)
Conversation starters that hook attention! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals instant ways to start a conversation with anyone! Discover how to hook their attention using the best conversation starters!
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@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

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@alextop1850 2 жыл бұрын

Really good vids Julian recently, can you do a 0 to finishing the night with the girl start to finish. Plus what to do if she's with a group there getting on the booze but you don't feel like wasting 4hrs boozing to hopefully end up with her

@jaypunzalan5095 2 жыл бұрын

Top 10 principle! 1)Transcend Social Condition 2)Cultivate Core Confidence 3)Center yourself to the present moment 4)Draw State Within 5)Have a Strong Sense of Reality 6)feel a High Sense of Entitlement 7)Walking through the World with Ease 8)Never Make a things a Big Deal 9)Addict Yourself to Positivity 10)Assuming Values! Ten Principle of life

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

🔥👊

@thedrj2009 Жыл бұрын

This is transformation mastery?

@OwenCookSelfHelp 2 жыл бұрын

Super important -Owen

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Oh, yeah! 👊

@katielowen 2 жыл бұрын

I blasted raw into so many hot 10s from these tips. Thanks daddies😌🙏

@prodbysten7347 2 жыл бұрын

ratio - Quandale

@antoineleblanc8 2 жыл бұрын

Dude it’s crazy how what you teach is so legit, you really it see when someone has been through some particular life stages and now has a perspective on the whole picture and has accuracy on social behaviour and whatnot

@arpitbinjwa840 2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou julien for this video, it has happened to me, i think I don't hook anyone at all but I've hooked more than I realise. Now you've pointed it out it's clear to me. This issue was bugging me and making me feel bad but from now I'll not lower my motivation and keep going on and eventually I'll get better at this. Thankyou so much.♥️

@svkarma3778 2 жыл бұрын

The value in this video is crazy 🙌🏿🔒🖤

@thisisyourdailydoseofreddit 28 күн бұрын

i really have never seen someone like you. you're one of the most knowledgeable people ever about these topics. i'm really really grateful to stumble upon you.

@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 жыл бұрын

Eye contact is everything !

@IamRanJos 2 жыл бұрын

The conviction in your voice is the highest amongst all coaches.

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

🔥👊

@FortheLuIz 2 жыл бұрын

It's the hair, t-shirt fit, and sock sandal combo that hooked me.

@kingkongjohn333 2 жыл бұрын

I love these videos man, but I really wish that there was an extra microphone pointed at the audience to hear what they say, OR add captions/subtitles every time someone says something.

@kenzoquiambao 2 жыл бұрын

Excited for the high vibe communication. I love everything you do, Julien!

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Can't wait for it to come out either... By far the most CUTTING-EDGE social skills program I've ever put together! Brace yourself...

@MochaRose990 Жыл бұрын

how’d you like it?

@GregsSanches369 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing! Thanks, Julien. 🙏

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@sebross1971 2 жыл бұрын

This is GOLD!

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Glad this is helpful!

@andrewross5454 2 жыл бұрын

Lol.. as someone that evolved naturally from the alt.seduction fourm back in the day that evolved through many different realms of self help to a place of understanding the implicit 4 sides of mind and the 16 archetypes towards self actualization and also struggled with video game addiction I feel like I would naturally jive with this guy.. I started my inner work journey when I did Ayahuascha 5 years ago and have been exploring through psychedelics and meditation since.. Seeing the Red Pill which came from the same spawning pool with suave fast seduction and the different versions of self help that came from that to this is such a breathe of fresh air.. This is so effective.. How is there not more? Inner work is next level. love the hook me exercise.. very fun. Would love to hear Julien talk about spiritual geometry and his take on DMT etc though I also understand it may be relatively off brand.. Been a dream to quit my oil and gas job and become a coach.. this is been the missing piece though.. the stuff this equates to. Very very cool. Canceling my plans - this is going to be the year of inner work.

@jasonc1996 2 жыл бұрын

Father J would've been hooked if I told him about that one time I did a 1v4 in Warzone and got the dub. Great content like always Julien.

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@theramseyclark 2 жыл бұрын

Julien, I loved you in The Strokes!

@rodionromanovich3089 2 жыл бұрын

I like this guy

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

@highshield9919 2 жыл бұрын

Here is the second hook point. Love first!! Sounds preverbal. “Some of you are already loved and you’re just not realizing it yet” ;)

@MagicalGalaxies112 2 жыл бұрын

Julien, can you put out more videos on the upcoming course? am excited for it

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, more coming... The course pre-sale also starts in 2 DAYS!!!

@St32jebyhosm 2 жыл бұрын

Just found this channel and am loving it.

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing to hear! Welcome! 🙏

@Sixsoul 2 жыл бұрын

You hooked me years ago 😻

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Lol 👌🙏

@kokokokikiki5799 2 жыл бұрын

GREAT CONENT BRO😍 , although i kinda sense that julian is a bit sad in the video and not in his best mood but yeh.

@rezaulislam2218 2 жыл бұрын

I'm literally binging through your channel....Gold!

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoy it! Check out Transformation Mastery if you want to go EVEN DEEPER: julienhimself.com/self-help

@gh9438 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the great video julien!! One question: after i pass the second hook point, how long will it last? Would i have to "hook" the other party again when the conversation goes boring?

@christianlee9360 2 жыл бұрын

Never thought Juliann would be bringing pickup content again ! Lmao

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

This is social skills advice that anyone could apply to any area of life, btw! 👌

@guyfawkes9789 Жыл бұрын

This is actually making me want to do his course.

@themarin1992 2 жыл бұрын

you are brutal good

@lifeskillsongs2510 2 жыл бұрын

A good opportunity for future content would be to build on this - w how to distinguish humble-bragging (audience guys lean towards this) vs authentically holding your dominant frame, giving/sharing & unleashing your "crazy" a bit...

@bbgravy8848 2 жыл бұрын

thank u Juliem

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@tanozerk6308 2 жыл бұрын

It’s craaazy how practicality feels extremely different than the theory. Behind the phone i was stifled 😂

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Oh, yeah! This is one of the reasons letting go is so powerful when it comes to social skills as well… Easily removes that inner blockage!

@Killerboy19983 2 жыл бұрын

I could understand more with the examples from the people , enjoyed that one

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Nice!

@tehrage4044 2 жыл бұрын

This video feels like sample from your new program that you're releasing in februari hehe

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Lol, pre-sale starts December 8th! 😉

@dvt32 2 жыл бұрын

"Btw, my sister is Megan Fox and she is waiting around the corner." 😉😂

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

😂😉

@sebastjankrek1744 2 жыл бұрын

*puppy look introduce me to your sister:D

@akshayv10 2 жыл бұрын

What a throwback haha

@Deikenity 2 жыл бұрын

What course includes all the "outdated" footage?

@TheMaleRoleModel 2 жыл бұрын

4:30 he’s talking about Owen 🤣🤣

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Lol not Owen... Someone else actually. 😂

@cj3420 2 жыл бұрын

Julien, I hear a lot about using certain topics to hook in this video, but in Pimp I remember you saying that you could just use a basic “interview questions”, but paired with the right subcommunications (commanding, challenging, and adding to the fun), you’d hook regardless of the boring content. Have you shifted away from that advice?

@davidfosford 2 жыл бұрын

There is never absolutes, from your comment you can tell youre a theory junkie. Get off the computer and see for yourself

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

You can still do that… As long as the questions evoke FUN CAREFREE PASSION within yourself!

@cj3420 2 жыл бұрын

@@davidfosford Well the thing is, I started learning game when I was like 15. And I lived in a small town. So I never had the option to get a lot of experience cold approaching. I’ve made tremendous progress within this last year, just from getting the reference experiences I can and doing the inner work, but now that I’m at the age where I can start cold approaching, I just want a clear approach to it all.

@cj3420 2 жыл бұрын

@@JulienHimself Alright thanks man! Looking forward to your new program, and I’m really enjoying TM so far, it’s a game changer.

@carpentemusic 2 жыл бұрын

I'd bet this will Hook Julien at level 2: In Star Wars Attack of The Clones: Anakin Skywalker had game using just 2 force fingers to get women's attention at the bar. His closer was "I wanna put a Jedi in you".

@SuperRol38 2 жыл бұрын

Hey are you gonna release a product about social awareness Julien?

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, there is a MASSIVE section on social awareness and social calibration in High Vibe Communication! (Pre-sale starts December 8th)

@noahwallace3458 Жыл бұрын

Bro g shit I’ve been applying these videos since I was 21 just turning 22 I’m 29 now and bro let me tell you the amount of experience that was gained is fucking crazy my pull ratio is fucking crazy now like now I it’s dumb easy

@kenzoquiambao 2 жыл бұрын

Just a question tho. Will this new course be better than your old game courses?

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

BY FAR! So much of that old content is outdated…

@TrollHunterxXx 2 жыл бұрын

He’s wearing slides with socks … it’s incredible

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

👌👌👌

@Bunnyondrugs1 2 жыл бұрын

What i really burn for is awakening. In the most uncoscious place on earth its really easy to offend peoples ego with that kinda talk, so i mostly keep that to myself. Otherwise this hits home.

@littleripper312 7 ай бұрын

Maybe what you're saying isn't that amazing and you need to change your approach. I find if everyone is reacting to someone negatively it's rarely everyone else and usually the individual. You can't change and improve if you won't admit there is a problem.

@happyhiba11 Жыл бұрын

What about online?

@littleripper312 7 ай бұрын

How I would hook someone in a conversation is I would bring up something exciting that happened on one of my hobbies that was either funny, a huge mess up or a crazy coincidence like a close call. If my two main hobbies aren't working I'd attempt a recent event I just went to like a concert or show and talking about something from that. This is why you need hobbies and to go out and experience life. My mate is boring because all he does is talk about problems from work and it repels people. He doesn't have any hobbies or fun activities to bring up in a conversation.

@sutats 2 жыл бұрын

Get them hook, line, and sinker.

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

🔥👊

@geogebrabbelman6152 2 жыл бұрын

So you're saying that "I've been researching viking runes for about 2 years now." is actually a good "opener"? I could also condense it to "I could write your name in runes."

@denisnegulescu3438 2 жыл бұрын

Damn dude i wish i could use that and follow up with knowledge bombs but im not feeling like picking up on another thing to study but fucking good one, definitely use it

@Proposal12 2 жыл бұрын

If I need to be at the point with someone where I need to "Convince" them, I will next them in a heartbeat...2 reasons why people love talking about themselves, just like trying to "hook" someone else , someone else also does

@tjones1191 2 жыл бұрын

I get what you saying but you don’t have to try hard. It’s nice to know what’s happening when I’m wooing people to magnify the skill

@Stask0o 2 жыл бұрын

What if I use ''You remind me of someone'' them remain silent for 2 seconds and smile with a charm? I think that is amazing example for hook up

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

It could work but you're not offering them a big sample of who you are... Most people would just answer "cool" and move on... Make sure you have more ready to follow up after that!

@Stask0o 2 жыл бұрын

@@JulienHimself But what if I add a cool story after that?It will make them feel connected and likable

@blackout2430 2 жыл бұрын

@@Stask0o could be onto something. I got a 40 yos phone number because she looked like a younger girl that I knew. we never hooked up or anything but it sufficed the number

@Rollyax 2 жыл бұрын

We all gonna ignore the fact that he wearing flip-flops with literally no thought about it 😂

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

🙈

@MP-oj6zo 2 жыл бұрын

Yea Elliot is a masculine golden figure. 1 girl only and its his wife for so long allready

@mashal2567 11 ай бұрын

I hope his friend who he described as not charming is not watching this 😂 cuz if it was me the friendship would be over

@AmandeepSingh-mc7ij 2 жыл бұрын

👌🏻

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

🔥👊

@hobbytoby8887 2 жыл бұрын

isnt that right!

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Yep!

@dvango7090 2 жыл бұрын

If that guy asks another question bro..

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

😂

@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 жыл бұрын

Confidence is the key ! Confidence to my bosses , not to girls because they do not know what they want , Hello Mr Austrian . Show them what I can offer to the table what value I can bring to the company and that's it ! Hi

@KachanTV 2 жыл бұрын

What about: bro I almost died last week… and go into a short story about how I got into an accident

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

If that's a true story, then it would hook me yes...

@bhavikgandhi7777 2 жыл бұрын

Piiiiiiiimmmmmppp

@shafiuadventurous 2 жыл бұрын

Me: I totally click with your childhood joke the alien at the backyard and anything from unexpected script. That's what I would answer you if I were there with you. Tnx

@davidtolle9533 2 жыл бұрын

You hooked my gf who's now my ex and now I'm hooked. Wtf

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

🤔

@RTSBone 2 жыл бұрын

Cool stuff Julien, but these techniques will work effortlessly only after the guys get their energies right. It’s like you’re trying to get fat people to sprint. First you make them lose weight, then you teach them how to sprint.

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed! This is why I teach people how to LET GO! 🙏

@fangdrag 2 жыл бұрын

This is harder than it sounds...

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Oh, yeah! With the right guidance and coaching, you can drastically cut your learning curve however...

@gallaxseizor9216 Жыл бұрын

I would've hooked with a question: "why do you look like a bum right now"

@youssefmikhael3044 2 жыл бұрын

Megan fox If you know then you know 😉

@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын

Lol 👌

@saytheanswer7002 2 жыл бұрын

Doge

@dalhoumijasser8182 2 жыл бұрын

I love the content but lets face some facts Julian. Telling someone to change there tonality,being more expressive,saying no and whatever tipps you gave is fucking useless. Like what the fuck you mean by changing your tonality. A tonality is basically an expression of how you feel inside you cant change tonality, you change how you feel! These things are a by product of getting in touch with your authenticity, facing your demons,healing… they are good to get out of your comfort, discover yourself more. But they are not the reason why someone start likes you. If it does not feel effortless if you are trying to force it like weird PUAs = its creepy and will never gets you in touch with high value people. People who smell bullshit from miles away.

@nova12332 2 жыл бұрын

Change how u feel then. Do the work to heal urself first then.

@francissmith3364 2 жыл бұрын

Why is Julien drinking menstrual blood so casually jk

@littleripper312 7 ай бұрын

Yikes, a lot of these guys in audience I'm seeing their problem. They can't hook because their lives are only about "bitcoin" hype and self improvement. People, get hobbies. Pick up something like dirt biking and actually get a life.