Simple Ways to Keep a Conversation Going

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In this video, we’re gonna analyze an episode of the Joe Rogan Experience so you can see how two people can go from seemingly unimportant small talk to a much more meaningful conversation in a matter of minutes.
If you’re an introverted person and you want to make conversation with people but you simply don't know what to say or how to behave, by the end of this video, you’ll have a better understanding of some simple things we can do to make our conversations flow more easily and have more positive interactions with people even if we don’t know them very well.
In this clip you’re about to watch, Joe Rogan and Theo Von are chatting about life in Austin, TX, and Joe’s plans for building a new comedy club in the city. (Joe recently moved from Los Angeles, CA to Austin, TX)
Before you watch the video, I want to remind you that the first 90 seconds are gonna be pretty boring… you might find yourself thinking, “Why am I listening to this?” - But just be patient and keep watching the video, I promise you will see how easy it can be to turn a dull conversation into something more interesting.
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@glitch_-TT 2 ай бұрын

1:01 asking about how they feel about encourages sharing more personal things 2:31 not disregarding someones experience, "tell me more bout that" 4:08 change attention when convo changes, dont take it or urself too seriously 5:21 convo dies, change directions( give sum to work w) 6:41 setting tone, something surprising(set record straight) 8:36 keep curious, help share personal shi use sane feelings( good, follow good, bad, sympathy) 10:24 create apace for ppl to show themselves w/o judging, sharing bout urself and being expressive, speak w/ emotion (don't b ashamed) 12:39 allow light n playful convo 14:35 contribute w/o making bout urself 15:09 help go to source of emotions

@tonykaizen 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for doing this

@glitch_-TT 2 ай бұрын

@@tonykaizen ofccc helped me process it so ty 4 the vid

@aeversor Жыл бұрын

I was searching for videos on youtube on how to keep conversations going and how to do small talk, and of the easily 30-40 videos i've watched, this is probably 1 of the top in terms of how much impactful points you have raised via a very illuminating example. thank you for the very sharp insights!

@tonykaizen Жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot, I'm glad you liked the video.

@Chandiwila999 Жыл бұрын

Same

@albertholl4836 3 ай бұрын

@@tonykaizenyou just earned another sub

@Vxzonprovision 13 күн бұрын

By the way you articulated yourself I could see it had a immediate success, I’m pretty much on the same path however I do good until I “run” out of interesting topics and it becomes like a puzzle , or getting a short reply not necessarily dry but enough to make you contemplate on what your next response should be

@Sen.100 4 ай бұрын

Ngl went to an artist reception and this worked stroke up like 4 10-13 min conversations at the end of it.

@Ncomyn8 Ай бұрын

Watching this after fumbling a conversation with a girl i liked 😭😭😭

@Jovan-jj3xy 16 күн бұрын

Same boat brother

@threeleggy4271 Жыл бұрын

The “tell me more” but rephrasing into something else, I think can be a great way to keep the conversation going. Now that it’s been brought back to me I’ve actually done this before in the past and it worked similarly to how you explained it. The video was a great analysis and I hope I can keep the lessons with me. Cheers man. 👊

@zahraashby4184 Жыл бұрын

i swear this is the most helpful video about maintaining a conversation I have ever watched!! THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH TONY KAIZEN!!!!! THIS IS SOOOO HELPFUL!!!!!

@tonykaizen Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your words, Zahra. I'm glad you liked it!

@dauber1257 2 ай бұрын

Wow. What an absolute blessing of a video. First search and found exactly what I was looking for. Thank you!

@robertavila33 8 ай бұрын

MORE OF THIS PLEASE!!!!!

@sanaabdulsalam Жыл бұрын

Thank you!! Using this in my advanced conversation class today.

@meggyloves024 5 ай бұрын

I knew I like this video 30 seconds in for a reason! Really well done! Thank you!

@matthewheuel2508 22 күн бұрын

This vid actually helped me so much. I appreciate it! Thank you 🙏🏻

@Lombardi54 2 ай бұрын

This is a good video with a lot of tips and advice on how to carry on a conversation. I appreciate you making this video and thank you for putting it out there!

@gentelmanfrog3271 Жыл бұрын

Great vid I have a lot of conversations but they are ussually short. This should help me a lot

@carcorrmi 9 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you, Tony you are doing a great job! I appreciate this kind of stuff. Please keep doing it, indeed your work helps me to understand better The English language.

@JOSClaudess 8 ай бұрын

Bro I'm gonna be honest, I delayed watching this video because it don't have as much views as the other ones I wanted to watch, and my biased brain thought those other videos had more that I could take from, you know... but this video actually was the one that helped me the most, the examples were simple to understand and effective, so thank you very much for this!

@Ribar5 9 ай бұрын

I've watched many videos about this topic. But it was the best one because it has both explanation and real life example. Thanks bro.

@Stump Жыл бұрын

I over analyze everything! Feels like theres the same formula for every aspect of life!...as a psychology nerd i love this analysis shaped as a toolbox to be a better human being. Good stuff brother!!! All love and positive energy to you on your journey!

@DopamineClips28 Жыл бұрын

Respect bro I felt the positivity coming through the comment god bless you I wish you a healthy life.

@tonykaizen Жыл бұрын

I’m glad you liked the video! Thanks for your words 🤙

@ZM-dm3jg 11 ай бұрын

There is a formula. If you study PUA, you'll learn all the charisma formulas at a deep level, that community has broken it down to a science, like playing chess.

@parush5381 21 күн бұрын

This is what i was searching for thanks mam

@snwcombat8716 5 ай бұрын

Holy shit..eye opening..Great video brother

@thoughtsontravelandlife 7 ай бұрын

Solid analysis my dude

@itsyaboidil 20 күн бұрын

this is so beneficial man, what a breakdown!

@litutheking6646 2 ай бұрын

Plz make more video for introvert people ❤🙏🙏... Ur new subscriber here

@phillipgragg9562 Жыл бұрын

this was INCREDIBLE. thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾

@mattr2773 Ай бұрын

Thanks Tony

@squirrelybeatz5843 6 ай бұрын

Great Advice!

@martim7637 4 ай бұрын

This video is AMAZING

@eliottsmallwood2140 18 күн бұрын

amazing video man.

@crezzuniverse 7 ай бұрын

I really appreciate this advice. I literally screenshot the red card advice every time you paused the video lol

@dragonofthewest8305 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much

@tonykaizen 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching.

@nikoslouzis1888 9 ай бұрын

we need more videos like this!!!!! Great Job!!!

@br5499 4 ай бұрын

Good breakdown

@the_nightmare2352 Ай бұрын

This was so helpful, I used this to talk to a new potential partner and it worked and now we are dating!

@tonykaizen Ай бұрын

That’s fuggin awesome. Congrats!

@IWANTHOTDOG Жыл бұрын

this is good stuff

@elkoikan5993 8 ай бұрын

I definitely do a filler words like: yeah, so, cool, okay lol

@khoakdoan 6 күн бұрын

Insightful

@holamellamo535 8 ай бұрын

great video!

@ageshero Ай бұрын

This is all well a goood, but you should just have- loads and loads of conversation and learning

@lactoseunintolerant5076 4 ай бұрын

Rn I’m struggling with making up small talk when I’m just walking with friends and trying to find something in common between us to have conversation on. I say I’m pretty good at sounding interesting and fun to talk to when I’m in class with them because I can make small talk while already having a topic like homework or games on my phone. But I start to struggle when I have nothing like that to use. I avoid one on one walks to classes like this because I feel like they would get bored of me cuz I don’t know what to talk about. Any tips?

@user-nw3yt3ig3f 23 күн бұрын

You find any tips I need some If you found any