JUST WALK! How To Get Out of a Soul-Tie Relationship by RC Blakes
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JUST WALK! How To Get Out of a Soul-Tie Relationship by RC Blakes
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@womenwhodate7643 2 жыл бұрын
Many people break their own hearts by loving a fantasy not the person that stands before them.
@blackdiamond4983 2 жыл бұрын
That part!
@yolandam611 2 жыл бұрын
So very true
@Mr_Murriel 2 жыл бұрын
💯
@hazvineihope3253 2 жыл бұрын
Ain’t that the truth
@dejawhite9459 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯
@stephaniekc 2 жыл бұрын
I was in a very toxic relationship for 7yrs. It took all my strength to finally leave back in 2018. After being celibate and stopping all dating for 4.5 years, I am now healed. I know my worth. I am a Queen who deserves a balanced, loving relationship with a true King. Thank you💞🙏
@ILoveMyMelanin. 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, same here!
@authormom7716 2 жыл бұрын
Great for you. I hope you find love again!
@stephaniekc 2 жыл бұрын
@@authormom7716 thank you 😊
@smilingface4761 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🙏
@danielleceleste1811 2 жыл бұрын
Praise God!!!
@vaclinciapounds8859 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes your heart has to break in order for your soul to heal. This is a powerful statement.
@Proverbs31Ministries222 2 жыл бұрын
So true though. I've learned this
@ceciliawhite8155 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@daijadorsey674 2 жыл бұрын
I am so hungry for God's word so I thank Pastor Blake's for bringing God's word to the light!
@daijadorsey674 2 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed
@londynjacobs9443 2 жыл бұрын
Walk. Run. Crawl. Whatever God leads you to do. Be willing and ready. He is able !
@gracem6064 2 жыл бұрын
Amen yes !!!!
@QIKWIA 2 жыл бұрын
YES, to all of the above!!!
@sweetielee9193 2 жыл бұрын
At one point I was crawling. Then I walked. Thank GOD I had the wisdom to RUN. That decision saved my life...LITERALLY! HE is able and will give u strength 💪 ❤
@shontasmith9362 2 жыл бұрын
Pray my strength in the Lord!
@smilingface4761 2 жыл бұрын
Amen. Been there.
@trishania7176 Жыл бұрын
Just walked....5 days ago, no contact, no thinking, just walking....and not ever gonna look back. Thank you Pastor, love you ❤️
@twandaperry11 Жыл бұрын
Praise Him !
@fuliviacannady7703 Жыл бұрын
Hi Trishania. How are things now?
@narlxz945 8 ай бұрын
SAME! Day 3 for me. Im hurting but I’m numb & I know this is THE LAST TIME for me after 10years 💔 THANK GOD 🙌🙏
@kizzyknowsbest5689 6 ай бұрын
Best wishes 🙏🏾
@ellanawalker7816 4 ай бұрын
Yes lord that’s me. Lord help me. Pray for me Pastor
@beautythebeach3893 2 жыл бұрын
In 2015 I walked away from a verbally abusive / alcoholic man and never looked back. Two years prior the Holy spirit had spoken to me audibly and told me that I was going to leave him. When I'd told my ex whom I was with at the time about what the Holy spirit had revealed to me, his reply was "He didn't believe in such a thing" ... Well fast forward into 2022, it's been 9 years since I walked away from that Toxic relationship like the Holy spirit told me I would. I've been at peace ever since I'd chosen to believe and obey the Holy Spirit, and did exactly what The Holy Spirit told me I would do!! Thank You JESUS ‼️
@trileyisHER 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@yolandia26 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful testimony!
@Godschild921 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@vaclinciapounds8859 2 жыл бұрын
Amen and amen!
@specialcocolove 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@QIKWIA 2 жыл бұрын
"You can only break a soul tie with Gods help" ... --- Bishop RC Blakes 👌🏿Aint that the💯gospel truth!
@marymitchell3422 2 жыл бұрын
YES, YES, Queen. God bless you my sista. 🙏🏿
@QIKWIA 2 жыл бұрын
@@marymitchell3422 🤗Thank you QUEEN"MARY..🖤 Yah bless!🙏🏿
@natural3362 Жыл бұрын
@@QIKWIA heavenly father, please help me cutting a soul tie in Jesus name
@ecugirl10 5 ай бұрын
I could’ve died and didn’t even realize it but I’m thankful for Psalms 91 protection. Satan was trying to kill my destiny and wanted my soul but he can’t have it, I’m God’s child. The bad thing is I was told my friends are not my friends over 20 years ago but I was in either middle or high school and didn’t understand why she would say that because they seemed like good ladies. I just wished she would’ve explained it further so I could’ve understood better, not her fault though, I should’ve just cut them off. Please keep me in your prayers because I’m not giving up on my relationship with God and I declaring that I shall fulfill my God given purpose. They may have derailed and delayed my purpose for a while but God is able to accelerate the time, they don’t realize they just gave me ammunition and now I want to tear down the kingdom of darkness even more but I have to remind myself that Vengeance is the Lord’s
@QIKWIA 5 ай бұрын
@ecugirl10 💯👍🏾✅️🙏🏿 Wow!!! ...but very well said Sis!👌🏾 Im praying for you to heal my beautiful sister ... Continue to go on with your spiritual journey and be kind to yourself along the way. Life is a learning experience...you are learning and you will now be able to teach and bless others with your wisdom and knowledge. You will be fine if you continue to walk with Yah...follow your intuition because that is yah speaking directly to you! Just keep doing your best and being yourself! You got this!👊🏾 Yah bless🙋🏽♀️Love ya!🥰
@tiachantel 2 жыл бұрын
Give them the gift of your absence. 💯
@MaryHudson-dt4gu 9 ай бұрын
😂👍
@Blessings-zq2ck 4 күн бұрын
That’s so true.!!! Absence makes you stronger and you get a chance to heal!
@allthingsashanda 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor RC Blakes you are the Father figure that so many of us as women grew up without. This fatherless void caused us to seek love in the wrong places by the wrong caliber of men. Thank you for allowing God to use you! You are reconditioning our mindsets, strengthening and healing our Spirits and most importantly, helping us to understand our worth. Praise God for you!!! ❤️❤️
@msreeree65 2 жыл бұрын
@All Things Ashanda Thank You!!!!!! You have managed to put my thoughts and feelings into words!!!
@ursala897 2 жыл бұрын
I am forever grateful ♥️
@reginabrodie6017 2 жыл бұрын
This is very well said! My thoughts exactly! 💕
@Bethatwoman1 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@kikistewart4950 2 жыл бұрын
You read my mind..all true💯
@CharlotteReneeLocs 2 жыл бұрын
Walk: Wake up. Activate your will to leave. Leave familiarity. Keep going till you kill it.
@onevenus6040 2 жыл бұрын
"After you realize that the situation is bad for you, and you remain in it, you're no longer a victim, you're a volunteer!" Powerful! As you also said, our environment has to change, not just people but things as well: I had a bedroom suit from my longterm toxic marriage that I finally decided to get rid of, and a friend wanted me to give it to her but I told her that I never wanted to see it again or even know where it was, so I had to donate it. Seeing it go out the door gave a lift to my heart.
@dianedavis5746 2 жыл бұрын
I did the same thing with my clothes and most things that came into my new space from the old one. Didn't want any of it!
@KAs14521 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you have to go to the extremes to get your healing
@wndbrnrd74 2 жыл бұрын
Tried to walk away 3 times, took him back every time, and then when finally he walked out on me, I slammed the door shut on him. Never again letting this evil back in! Thank God for rescueing me! I've been so much happier since 🙏
@lala5061 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly especially when your family can tell when he's around you and when he's not...so much happier without him in my space, trying to control every single aspect of me 😊
@kimberlymay9497 7 ай бұрын
Same, he really did me a favor…
@smilingface4761 2 жыл бұрын
I walked away one day. Just walked. Cut him off and blocked his calls and texts. I definitely feel great about it. It has been several months and I am enjoying my life without him. No regrets even if he jas someone else. Good. He is out of the husband's way that God has for me. 👌
@mmmmkay4773 2 жыл бұрын
But you still think of him? If so, then is the soul tie really broken?
@smilingface4761 2 жыл бұрын
@@mmmmkay4773He was my fiancé. I was in love with him. We were friends in the beginning, no soul tie.. he was supposed to be a Man of God however,, I saw some very bad indicators that he had stepped out of God's will and he was bringing ne with him.. In the end, he wasn't worth my happiness and dignity when I took a good look at my life. Love will never treat you bad. Love doesn't live falsely, pretend and just outright lie. There were other men that wanted me however, I was too blind to see the bette in the other men verses the good looks he had. Going forward, it's God first.
@kelz130 2 жыл бұрын
Wake (see,aware) Activate( unfollow, delete) Leave( remove, absence) Keep going keep going until you’re out of it!!! Kill it!!!!
@sharhughes1086 2 жыл бұрын
In 2017 I walked away from a Narcissist(s). Best thing I ever did had to protect my peace and mental, it was hard @ first because of that soul-tie! I promised God if he saved me never again will I defile the marriage bed and I hadn't! Been celibate now for 4yrs and 6months! I can see and think clearly😊🙏
@Dr.J1972 2 жыл бұрын
Praise God!
@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262 2 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah, I love it, stay strong and trust God🥰! God's continued blessings be upon you always, in Jesus' Holy and Peaceful name, Hallelujah, Amen💖✨💕💫!
@gigipeach7179 2 жыл бұрын
It rocks your soul, and you want to do things the right way.
@tammyjohnson6029 2 жыл бұрын
This is not easy to do... i was in this thing for a year and was so hurt and broken on the way he treated me emotionally....if it wasn't for RC Blakes...I wouldn't be taking the time to feel and grow through this time. I moved clear across the country and God has shown up so many times to affirm my decision. I'm human so I still have human emotions but I'm working with a therapist for that. I'm doing Mordecai Mission for my inner work come March.... I'm the expert on nutrition and wellness because that matters too...The rest I'm working through with just me and Jesus. One critical thing that I'm doing is not opening another door until I am clearly Queen Concious... period.
@sabrinasmith933 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you Tammy
@msreeree65 2 жыл бұрын
So happy for you Tammy! Stay strong my dear Queen-Sister! You are worthy of every good thing God promised! Keep walking in your blessings!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👑💫🦋💃🏿
@coachshenamajor 2 жыл бұрын
This was wonderful to read. So proud of you sis. Keep going, keep growing and keep being your fabulous self!
@gingermullins8866 2 жыл бұрын
The Mordecai Mission is the best thing that I have ever done for myself. It changed my life. It is the most powerful thing that I have ever been involved in. March will be magic! I am proud of you!
@tammyjohnson6029 2 жыл бұрын
@@gingermullins8866 I totally believe it
@kemmykem1966 2 жыл бұрын
I’m in a situation that I know isn’t healthy for me . Pray for me.
@danielleceleste1811 2 жыл бұрын
I encourage you to keep positive, spirit filled people around you! I pray in the name of Jesus that he gives you the clarity that you need to walk in your divine purpose. Trust the Lord. Even when you don’t understand, Trust him! He will lead you and you’d be surprised where you will be 6 months from now ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@bernadettebradley7951 9 ай бұрын
Same IT’s a blazing fire that burns 🥵
@KrystleLaughter 2 жыл бұрын
Really looking forward to this conversation. I walked out of a 9 year toxic marriage 2 years ago and never looked back. Now I help other women through my book, coaching and KZfaq channel.
@QIKWIA 2 жыл бұрын
👍🏿👌🏿 🙋🏾♀️ I just subscribed to your channel because of your inspiring comment..👊🏿👊🏿.. thanks Sis!
@miranda2216 2 жыл бұрын
Same 9 years...been out almost 2 years
@antoinettestewart6215 2 жыл бұрын
Great my sister i in that process of getting a divorce from my sexual and verbal disrespectful husband i got a PFA on him now keep me in your prayers
@authormom7716 2 жыл бұрын
That is wonderful for you.
@bethventuresx8283 Жыл бұрын
Subscribed :)
@tammyjohnson6029 2 жыл бұрын
Stop giving a thing that is dead CPR.. CALL TIME OF DEATH! --RCB
@amandamagby3253 2 жыл бұрын
Yess! It was 3am September 25th 2021! Packed what I could fit in my car and left while he was sleep! Moved to another state and haven t looked back since!
@tammyjohnson6029 2 жыл бұрын
@@amandamagby3253 ooohhh..... didn't feel gooood 🤣 soooo proud of you. Keep working Queen!
@estherflores1826 2 жыл бұрын
Never looking back to the verbal physical emotional financial abuse when all I did was give unconditional love
@cabnfvr2011 Жыл бұрын
15 years married to a narcissistic psychopath and I have been free for 3 years. I just started becoming social again after staying pretty isolated and healing for 3 years. Soul Ties, trauma bonds, cognitive dissonance, intermittent reinforcement, their flying monkeys, and love bombing are a few of the reasons it’s so hard to leave and remain free from people with cluster B personality disorders. Three years free and no contact, but my ex narcissist still stalks me and tries to Hoover me back into a relationship with him. To anyone struggling with leaving or going through the intense pain, confusion and self doubt while you are breaking free- It DOES get better! You’ve got to completely cut off contact so you can break toe addiction in your brain to them. I’m praying for everyone going through these types of relationships and for everyone that is now free but still hasn’t healed ❤️
@chrissemenko628 11 ай бұрын
Thank-you 🙏❤️
@jenniferreedcoachjrose4301 2 жыл бұрын
This is true.. when you’re Done you don’t tell nobody you. Wake up and Get Up!!
@TiffanyA837 2 жыл бұрын
My heart really goes out to other women that have gone through the pain of infidelity. It’s so so painful. It scars you & affects your mind so much. May God heal our hearts & minds & restore our joy in Jesus name, Amen.
@thandekasithole559 2 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏
@tamisharowland4933 Жыл бұрын
Thank you I was with this person for 17 years I have two kids with him sometimes I feel so alone all I do is cry I'm trying to get myself together but it's so hard I don't have anyone to talk to
@TiffanyA837 Жыл бұрын
@@tamisharowland4933 I'm really sorry to hear that you've been going through this and going through it alone 😔 I will be praying for you Tamisha. Are you apart of a church? Maybe there you could find women who could pray for you and encourage you?
@fuschialabel9726 2 жыл бұрын
Today is my birthday! I have learned so much since finding this ministry just a few days ago.I need a lot of prayers to get out of this narcissistic situation.It's crazy how you can be so blind for so many years. And when you finally get to the person's true spirit it can be overwhelming. So much of our life is entangled I don't know where to start.
@HampityHamp 2 жыл бұрын
Joyous bday!! Mine is tomorrow. Let’s get this work tonight.
@SanctifiedLady 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t tell him, plan to walk and when he pulls, you keep walking, and he will keep trying (mine caused the breaking that lasted 2yrs…1yrs he was in jail which helped hugely then the 2nd year was all begging and pleading to move back in together) I didn’t give in but it was a very heavy emotional place. He would verbally abuse me if I say I’ve moved on…I said I went to the movies with another man and he lost his mind…but he was on another state at the time.. he was relentless about trying to get back till he just met someone else finally…. He ended up apologizing for all the pain he caused me.
@vivoviva7880 2 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday dear!
@chayes3862 2 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday!!🤗🎉
@lil--mo2025 2 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday 🎊🎂🎈
@kikistewart4950 2 жыл бұрын
Give them the gift of absence...Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@indiboom1331 2 жыл бұрын
That one right there 👆🏽blessed me! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@camuyana 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor Blake it took me from 2008 to 2021 to file for divorce. I first filed in 2008 and three times after that, for a total of four times attempting to legally liberate myself from the torture I was going through. Finally, on November 30th, 2021 I was emotionally and mentally ready to end it and the final decree will be between March and April 2022. There are so many times you can forgive an adultery, and I reached my limit. Best decision I ever made and I am now very happy.
@authormom7716 2 жыл бұрын
Great for you
@camuyana 2 жыл бұрын
@@authormom7716 thank you very much. Wishing you many blessings in your life.
@staceylozano4044 2 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to your story..
@aviauramusic4064 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations love!
@camuyana 2 жыл бұрын
@@aviauramusic4064 Thank you. May God bless you also.
@fatsnackaasmr6873 2 жыл бұрын
…” that ain’t no crown, he got aluminum foil wrapped around his head. “ 😂 amen!!!
@Lifeisfun84 2 жыл бұрын
If it looks like we all live the same life I wonder how many of those happy social media couples are toxic …. I left the cheating lying mr nice guy ( this is very confusing!) . I dated for 2,5 years for him it was ok because, he loves me now and it was for over a year ago (for a whole year) I forgave him other horrible stuff multiple times so this was my cue to JUST WALK and never look back … I do love him so I’m not gonna lie it’s easy but I know in the end it will be worth it ….. 37 young fun and bright but need to start over again ‘sigh’ but just as pastor RC Blakes always says you are never too old …. Wish me strength….
@debbie6533 2 жыл бұрын
We all try to Love with all of our heart but sometimes its just not meant to be. Accept it, be honest with yourself, and WALK OUT. Time heals all wounds and you will be fine. God bless❤
@carineogundipe8206 Жыл бұрын
Another word for a soul tie is trauma bond or attachment style. When we have a anxious attachment style we get needy very quickly in a relationship. We fall hard looking for security in another person. It all stems from our childhood trauma or wounds. We have to work on own healing and developing the ability to walk away when we recognise the pattern and when someone shows us through their actions that they are not really invested in us. It's a tough journey but we can heal and be better. This goes for all types of relationships in our life, work, friends, family, not just romantic relationships. We have to get healthy in every aspect of our lives.
@sabrinasmith933 2 жыл бұрын
I truly cried and had a breakdown where I was on my knees in the shower crying before watching this, because my life has come to a point where I need to leave my setting. The toxic relationship in this case, for my circumstances, is my family. I love them so much, but it's time I go out in the world and find my tribe to do my services with my gifts and talents. They will always be there for me, but the setting has got to change. I loved this sermon for tonight, I've been binge watching RC Blakes the past week doubling down on Queen consciousness. God bless everyone on your paths. It's the only way to go! Let's do this
@latishabowen5433 2 жыл бұрын
God is on your shoulder with you. Bless you.
@sabrinasmith933 2 жыл бұрын
@@latishabowen5433 You too LaTisha
@paulamcnairunapaulagetic 2 жыл бұрын
I wish you well Sis! It seems harder than it is. I divorced after 28 years of marriage and it was absolutely the best decision I made. I never knew how much turmoil I was in until I was out of it. GOD IS ABLE TO SUSTAIN YOU , ask Him for courage and confirmation He’s faithful. BE BLESSED QUEEN
@sabrinasmith933 2 жыл бұрын
@@paulamcnairunapaulagetic Blessings Queen! Thank you for your words ❤️🙌🏼🌈
@aviauramusic4064 2 жыл бұрын
You’ve got this! I am on a partial same journey of letting go of the toxicity and moving into what we truly desire within family and relationships
@leeambers8139 2 жыл бұрын
I just walked away today. God led me to listen to you. Thank for following God's direction
@nicoleharris5005 2 жыл бұрын
"Gift of your absence" 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽!
@NarcFreedom 10 ай бұрын
It’s absolutely spiritual and with Narcissist I believe it must be demonic. I got into a relationship with someone who objectively needed help. I felt compelled to do good for them. Their behavior started out as questionable and however has only worsened. The anxiety, fear, stress they cause me is outrageous but the mental and and physical symptoms are so severe that I can’t muster the strength to go no contact.
@jasminelafleur4191 2 жыл бұрын
I have been watching Pastors videos for about 5 months so far and I’ve learned what a soul tie is, realized I had one, and last week had the strength to break that soul tie. I haven’t looked back at all, no temptation or guilt. I woke up and I’m awake now
@denisemyers733 2 жыл бұрын
If you don’t leave this situation where’s this going. Release what does not serve you. 🙏🏽
@lovettewilliams4114 2 жыл бұрын
🙌 yes! Listen 👂 to your own soul! It never 👎 lies 🤥 it’s all about the vibe! When you no longer feel good 👍 in your significant others presence…. Go! God said Go! Walk 🚶♀️away and don’t look 👀 back! I love ❤️ with the my whole heart ♥️ but I do know when something is wrong 😑 my spirit and my life guide always let’s me know what up! Side note 📝 to everyone… this is the main reason why we have to abstain from sexual relationship outside of marriage! Be careful with your heart ♥️ mind body and soul! Praying 🙏 for everyone…
@Yolie707 2 жыл бұрын
2 years ago back in Jan 2020 Holy Spirit whispered in my ear Open The Front Door And Walk Out With Nothing But Your Two Daughters. Don't look back once you get outside or you will turn into a Pillar of Salt. You will become stone. I did just that. Fast forward 2 years 2022 I still haven't returned back to the home that we own. I have my peace, my own car, my own apartment, full time job. I am wide awake. Great is here! Come on ladies you all can do it! You will feel so much lighter and better. I believe in you and I love you sis. Choose you and get yourself out of it. I had to choose me over that 26 year abusive alcoholic marriage.
@jessjulian9959 2 жыл бұрын
Please pray for me for Strength God Bless.
@kesha2414 2 жыл бұрын
“Please don’t send me no email right now.” “You MUST ACTIVATE your will.” This message is everything. ♥️
@zinobiapillay9018 2 жыл бұрын
Why do we find ourselves not loving ourselves more than the person whom we think we love 💔
@user-wj5px9vt4p 2 жыл бұрын
It's the false hope we have of the relationship surviving when we know our intuition tells us 'this is not right.. they are not the one."
@user-wj5px9vt4p 2 жыл бұрын
Our own insecurities, fear of being alone, not being whole. You must ask God questions and pour your heart out in prayer. Being whole is a necessity so that we never put ourselves last.
@GenZutuber 2 жыл бұрын
As I walked away from my toxic marriage, the Holy Spirit woke me up one night and referred me to read this story about the prodigal son. I was going through a very long battle in court with my ex and I thought God was letting me know he would come back. Well fast forward, I was the prodigal son. I knew I had made some choices and I need to get back with God. It’s been 3 years and counting. Never looked back. I blocked him and the flying monkeys from all social media, contacts and did not know why I was doing it but it was all God. Thank you Pastor
@Proverbs31Ministries222 2 жыл бұрын
I had to leave a toxic marriage as well and in process of annulment. You did the right thing beautiful. Hurting people hurt people. Healed people love people.
@stargoldqueen5894 2 жыл бұрын
“You have to let your heart break to heal your soul”. Definitely been there.
@madisonandthefarm Жыл бұрын
It was very hard to leave, I felt like I was abandoning my family…it felt very selfish…it looked very selfish, it was the first time I put myself first. It’s been 8 months, a thousand miles away, my journey has just begun really. Asking for all your prayers 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@crimsonstarks2709 2 жыл бұрын
I survived an abusive narcissistic relationship and have been free and delivered with no contact for almost a year now. My life has changed on so many ways and this had been my greatest personal challenge yet. This journey to healing is well over due and I cannot be anymore grateful for RC Blakes. He tremendously helped me and still is every day... Praying & Studying your videos saved my life
@QIKWIA 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯 That's Great!!!👍🏿 Our Bishop Blakes has saved so many lives and saved many hearts from being broken..he has delivered so many times...🙏🏿
@BrendaBaBoom 2 жыл бұрын
The wisdom of Bishop Blakes is very compelling.
@marytaylor9504 2 жыл бұрын
Such damage is done,But God is the healer of all things!!!
@LDYMedia 2 жыл бұрын
“Toxic Nostalgia” what a phrase. Two years free. Amen 🙏🏾 thank you RC Blake’s
@MzCarolynsPlace 2 жыл бұрын
From my experience, when you stop talking you'll start walking then you've got your mind made up to let it go. Thank you Lord for giving me the strength to let it go and walk.
@nancyrivera8201 Жыл бұрын
It’s been 20 years. A 16 year old handsome boy later. On again off again relationship with this person. I divorced a man who had done nothing to me for this idiot. And after everything the toxicity had gotten worse. I finally woke up and got up. It took me a night in jail for fighting with him for me to realize I’m done. It stings but I’ll be alright. Thankyou pastor I needed this today. I have been so out of touch with myself I don’t even recognize me. I’m 39 years old and a child of God. Thankyou pastor I needed this message. God bless you.
@sandragreen5146 2 жыл бұрын
After a 2 year toxic situation ship with a man i thought i really truly loved and cared about and thought would be a good partner- friend - lover and man to me turnt out to be a toxic Narsitic indivisible who loved 💣 me into spending $15,000 on him and then he wants to turn his back on me..but never think 1 bit that he won the battle!! Because God has the last say so..he will fight my battle for me...im gone, I'm walking away with my head up high.💪👸🙌❤️🙏
@k.c.sunshine1934 Жыл бұрын
I believe that my soul tie came from a repeated childhood trauma with my father and step-mom. God was gracious to wake me up from my fantasy that takers in my life would return my kindness and self-offering. I am slowly learning to firm-up my personal boundaries and recognize non-reciprocal relationships as they are forming. In the mean-time, I have *walked* *out* and *cut* *all* *ties* from my abusers with the help of God. Thank you, Mr. Blakes for stating and sticking firmly to the *truth.*
@marytaylor9504 2 жыл бұрын
But the Holy Spirit restored my value and worth.Restored my mind to where I'm not allowing any victim syndrome to be present within my Soul or Spirit .
@LoveforAQueen 2 жыл бұрын
To se that I’m not going through this alone helps me continue to move forward with no contact, no social media etc. You ladies are truly inspirational. I have my hard days but I get through them. It’s hard to think that someone I loved would hurt me in ways this narcissistic alcoholic abusive man had hurt me. I pray for continuing strength to keep pushing forward, peace, acceptance, and to live a fulfilling life after this tragedy of a relationship.
@peanut924 2 жыл бұрын
I had a soul tie 20 years ago and it lasted 5 years but I still dream about him. In the dream we are either being romantic or I'm yelling at him, telling him how he hurt me by not sticking up for me over something important. That soul tie still haunts me.
@livegivelearn 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve listened to this five times today! Broke off a relationship Monday that was not God’s best for me. It was draining, not edifying. This video is SO powerful and empowering. I’ll keep watching this until I strangle the soul-tie.
@lorainegardener559 2 жыл бұрын
Very true teaching pastor I walked away after 10 years wasted with a covert spiritual narcissist this is not taught in churches I wish it was I was blind by hope and love im free now nearly 18 months free thank God thankyou pastor
@BeautifulHal0 2 жыл бұрын
I've listened to a lot of your teachings on this subject. This is the one that broke the chains off of me. I listened twice last night & all day at work. Now in bed about to listen again. Thank You
@latishaharris31 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been waiting on this all day. I need to walk out before this man kills me. And instead I keep coming back for more. It’s either leave or die
@Iamcrystalelizabeth 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for you sis - please leave ❤️
@QIKWIA 2 жыл бұрын
Sister, PLEASE Get help..confide in someone you trust...just go..leave please.. Im praying for your wellbeing..🙏🏿
@gracem6064 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness Queens listen at pastor Blake’s please! He’s telling the gospel truth! I am past it now but it was everything pastor said it would be . But it’s worth the pain! Yes the further you get away you distinguish it ! When you come to your self you will be in shock for a while that you even settled for that evil mess . I am a senior ! but I did it please remember it’s never ever too late ! God has a wonderful plan for our life no matter your age it’s not over until God says it’s over Queens !!! Pastor Blake’s is giving you the best advice & wisdom from God ! Thank you pastor Blake’s God Bless you always. Much to you & your Beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@lauracisco2807 2 жыл бұрын
I am excited for this message as I just ended a soul tie with a man who said he cannot commit to me because I ask too many questions.. its been two years so I moved on..No more communication with him and working on me. I feel this is exactly what I need and spiritual direction thank you RC Blakes.
@Godschild921 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful...I'm constantly struggling...how did you overcome?
@Dr.J1972 2 жыл бұрын
God's BLESSINGS be with you.
@lauracisco2807 2 жыл бұрын
@@Godschild921 I finally just spoke to my heart and decided I deserved to be treated better. It's been a long time coming.
@lauracisco2807 2 жыл бұрын
@@Dr.J1972 thank you
@QIKWIA 2 жыл бұрын
"You asked too many questions"??? WTH!😂 Gurlll, you made the right decision..👊🏿 Yah bless!🙏🏿
@mindrenewed6568 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we know the state of the person before we marry him or her. Then later on, we say that we get this big revelation from God saying to leave because we can no longer handle the problems. Rightfully so, but don’t say God told you to do this or that. Just leave the bad situation, repent and move forward in a renewed relationship with God, The Father.
@vikkara2043 2 жыл бұрын
You are my ALARM CLOCK! I found your channel 10 days ago and been woke up since 💯💯💯
@annakonadu1337 Жыл бұрын
I have been in a toxic abusive marriage for seventeen years and we’ve separated now. Thank you 🙏
@travism3307 2 жыл бұрын
I know that God answers Prayers! I have been praying to God about this, and low and behold I’m watching this Message! I tell you God will answer you!!!! This is what I needed to hear… Thank you , Pastor Blakes 🙏🏽
@amessinadress9340 2 жыл бұрын
I prayed to God if this man was the one who I was suppose to be with reveal it to me! 2 week's after that prayer. I found out he had been stepping out our whole relationship! That day I walked out of his life forever. I went NO CONTACT FOREVER! When he tried to Hoover me I BLOCKED him for life! No Man is going to Disrespect me like that. It has been 6 month's since he has seen or heard from me! I made myself a Ghost in his life!
@travism3307 2 жыл бұрын
@@amessinadress9340 I truly believe that if you pray to God from your heart God open your eyes to let you see what you probably already knew! I live my life totally different now that I have allowed the Holy Spirt that has been given to me threw the Love of Jesus Christ my Lord and Savior.
@tressiemckoy4407 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this word of confidence in my situation. I have walked away Mr Blakes, I pray he will leave me alone. He calls and leaves drunk messages continuously, late at night and through the wee hours of the morning. He says ugly things, he tells me I'm responsible for my sons death (I lost my son in October 21) unexpectedly, murdered by a loved one. This man continues to try to hurt me because I walked away. I am asking for prayer for him as well as myself. I will not return to him, yet I need prayer for him to leave me alone with his harassment constantly, in Jesus name Amen....thank you Mr. BLAKES, for all you're doing for us here, God bless you over and over,
@PyrPupMom 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry about your son!
@jessjulian9959 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry dear..
@Emerald1969 Жыл бұрын
My husband of 33 years used the Bible story of the prodigal son as reason why I should forgive him for neglect and infidelity. Thank you RC for helping me understand the message the Holy Spirit wants me to understand from this Bible story.
@dmc3202 2 жыл бұрын
This is the best talk on breaking ungodly/demonic relationships!
@autumn2024 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is perfect timing. Soul ties, broken! I been gone. (over 20yrs)...Others won't let, it "go", but I have....In the ends,must move closer to "God"! Yes, the spirit "God", is upon you, on this!! Return to myself, so true....The Creator & myself...(message received & will be shared with others).
@sonyagutierrez1557 2 жыл бұрын
What I'm getting from the relationship that I had not enough. I'm worth more than what he made me feel.😊
@sidonieforlemu9170 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Pastor, 5 year ago I walked after 23 years of marriage that wasn’t going no way. Thank God I am glad I did and I never looked back man. Live is beautiful now.
@kryskrys17 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor always dropping the gems! I look forward to this one. Had to listen to the last one about Assumptions twice. Please keep the messages coming. So many of us are desperate for change.
@valeriebaca3366 2 жыл бұрын
On point!! Exactly what I'm going through now .. This was so good and holy ghost. This relationship steered me away from the Lord & now the broken heart broken relationship is bringing me back to Jesus. I should have listened to my gut. I gave what was holy to the dogs & he really did trample and walk all over me. It's been on and off for a year and ik from the beginning something deeper was going on with me and him. I thought maybe witchcraft.. but now I'm learning about soul ties. Pls pray for me that I can break free from this tie.
@heidirojas8388 2 жыл бұрын
Gonna be honest, this is spot on. I have been battling this with a particular person. I am walking away. And if you knew the details you would say run. Thank you for this video, I have been lead to it by the Father 100%
@sisteri1198 2 жыл бұрын
Millions need to hear this & those that are on the verge of going into a soul tie. Flirting with it🛑 don’t do it! I’ve known so many broken ppl. Like myself but never equated it to being a soul tie! It is truly AMAZING! I’ve never heard anyone speak so deeply about this. Every stage, emotions and fears is vividly explained. It’s like wow how did you know! You explain with scriptures making it so Relatable!! I am grateful for it, this has helped me tremendously. I share your videos & my family & friends know I’ve been calling you my Pastor since last summer. ☺️ I love how u keep it so real. Let’s me know how much God is so right here, he’s just where I am & right in the details of my struggles. He gets it and helps us understand the Spiritual & Psychological reasons we even got in these situations & entanglements. More importantly, how to “WALK AWAY” Hallelujah thank you Jesus and God bless you Pastor & THANK You, for letting God use you.
@kaythompson2772 2 жыл бұрын
Amen perfectly written!
@danielleparillo1910 2 жыл бұрын
“You know the direction of your will by the direction of your actions.” - Brilliant and so true! Thank you for all you do. 💜
@providetriggersforevolutio3748 2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the WALK talk! Let’s all WALK with no fear or reservation! Fully understand the psychological and emotional reprogramming that’s needed to proactively WALK. Let’s all free our minds and souls from all trauma bonding relationships.
@missjoriccac8481 Жыл бұрын
My GOD… such a blessing to see the OTHER side of this mess I was in. I remember telling God I wasn’t going to leave him alone. I told God if He let me see what I was feeling I will never go back. The Lord let me see another woman. Check this he told me he didn’t want a relationship but my way of thinking THOUGHT I could change that. Yep I was in a relationship with him🤦🏽♀️. Anyway I saw the woman and all I could say was Lord you showed me. Help me get through this. There it was work, prayer, fasting, listening to RC Blake’s, my Pastor and just kept seeing that woman in my mind. I moved on in Christ 💕💕. Sister who is reading this. You deserve nothing but the BEST and God will give us that. Free yourself 💯❤️💕
@carolineellis3637 2 жыл бұрын
Walking away and depriving it of Oxygen...l love it 🇬🇧😊😊
@angelalaurel5622 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you I was able to receive help through my county Under domestic abuse Referring me to a therapist, support group, and housing assistance I woke up and did the walk The feeling of liberation and empowerment through the Holy Spirit is amazing 🙏🕊☮️✝️
@mariagrady8425 2 жыл бұрын
Again, this is a look into the straight an NARROW. Helps You to ignore even the voice of the toxic relationships of all kind that has brought trauma that we have created an participated in. WALK!
@josephineperez7225 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You in the power of almighty GOD SON JESUS HOLY SPIRIT THANK YOU BROTHER AND SISTER FOR YOU. LOVE 👑❤️💕MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU 🙏
@michaeldande Жыл бұрын
Lesson: A) There was a desire in his Heart B)He forsake his Judgement,He perused the desire of his heart and tied himself to the people of that LAND. C)The relationships he develop wasted Everything he had of Value then left him Humiliated D)The relationship Were not recoprical when he was in need no one gave to him... E) His only way was to leave it... Wake up. Activate your Will. Leave the Disfunctinal familiarity.Sometimes u have to leave with "TEARS" Keep Going until you kill it..Suffocate it and draw come closer to God Amen "WALK"
@ronalddudley1291 2 жыл бұрын
don't know you brother just wanna say thanks for being such a great teacher you are appreciated god bless
@latonyamorgan1520 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor Blakes I did leave and never looked back and I know it was God who helped me through it.
@Resolved2010FAMLEE 2 жыл бұрын
The Gift of Absence! It's a calculated decision, not a feeling. Most people fear the birthing pains. Out come is worth it ! ! ! !
@HiddenGemK 9 ай бұрын
This message is so powerful it breaks my heart. I just pray that we chose the path of righteousness and not look back. God please help us!!
@sandragreen5146 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!i just walk out a 2 year toxic situation ship..i know my worth💪🙏❤️🙏🙏
@monicagreen6217 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@radicalfaithministries 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽 I must confess that when I started listening to Bishop RC Blake’s messages I CAME to my Senses and my eyes were opened that I was with Mr wrong and in a very toxic abusive situation.,. Praise God and I am FREE and Free indeed because of his messages. Sir, may God bless you indeed your messages have given me and my child a new and Happy life. Praying for you and your family may the Lord watch over your life 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 you are blessed for life.
@martamarta5206 2 жыл бұрын
This man of GOD help me to open my eyes and see directly inside. Rc Blakes is blessed.
@tcamp7060 2 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful word. Thank you 🙏
@jadedlulz 2 жыл бұрын
May we not fall in love with our reflection to the point where we cannot live a second without the validation of others. The need for the constant validation is a scary way to live. No one is perfect and everyone wants to be told that they are doing alright but it becomes a problem when it’s the only way we can function.
@janemueni3048 Жыл бұрын
This is mine to listen to over and over again until i can't see anything behind me. I am WALKing!!! In Jesus name
@valrio8224 2 жыл бұрын
This is a MUST SEE message! Sooo good!
@sandygallagher6609 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely needed this today. Thank you for the guidance 🙏
@marcycane1793 2 жыл бұрын
This wasn’t an easy message, but a necessary one. Thank you Pastor Blakes🙏🏽
@prosperasortuda Жыл бұрын
Yes it's sometimes so painful to hear but necessary 🙌
@clarissahoward1901 2 жыл бұрын
Another great class! I always leave with a little more confidence. Thank you Bishop and Lady Blakes!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@SweetLivingByGrace 2 жыл бұрын
RC Blakes isn't just talking about romantic relationships. He is referring to any and ALL relationships.
@jamescoley3543 2 жыл бұрын
There is always so much content in your videos that I have to watch them 2-3 times in a row to pick up anything that I missed
@joy103096 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the continued message pastor. I have stumbled and this is the reminder that I so desperately need to continue to hear.
@tammyjohnson6029 2 жыл бұрын
If your going through hell.... keep going!!
@odettekarius6046 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you and God bless your ministry!
@marytommasulo5752 2 жыл бұрын
I'm stunned since my sister died and finding out I'm living with a thief and there is another man out there that I love for years but I will not tell him and it just keeps following me, that nagging sensation as I'm slowly taking a nose dive into this incredible change of emotions, desires, heartache, loss.
@marytommasulo5752 2 жыл бұрын
But u know that somethings going on here. The world around me is changing. This has just crept up on me. Is he worried about his image? Or maybe I'm worried about mine
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