SIGNS THAT A MAN IS GROOMING A WOMAN

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4 ай бұрын

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SIGNS THAT A MAN IS GROOMING A WOMAN
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@RCBlakesJr. 4 ай бұрын

GREETINGS FAMILY! We love yall. Please share tonight on other platforms

@janellamurphy5665 4 ай бұрын

Sharing now!! Bishop my Spiritual dad I always look forward to your teachings👂🏾❤📓📕📚🖊

@KarenElizabethPalmer-vd5dx 4 ай бұрын

Dear Pastor RC Blake's, Thank you for another enlightening and engaging message, And.. Happy Belated Birthday Mrs. Lisa Blake's

@angeld1084 4 ай бұрын

I’m glad you’re doing this it’s helping me

@eulaliabradley4991 4 ай бұрын

Okey-Dokey 👌🏾

@adelepujol865 4 ай бұрын

Hello Bishop,The ministry I am apart of a ministry that speaks about these same things . .I am Chamon Jones' sister(we have the same father).. I've never met you before but my generation of women.. especially in the church are in trouble. If my Shepard wasnt as faithful as he has been to call out my junk even when i thought I was okay..I would be divorced. I pray you keep doing what you do because there are women that are bound and don't think they are... I pray no root of bitterness gets to you because these women are also dealing with rebellion/brokeness and stubborness from generations down. I'm one who was just set free from it. But to take it a step further my generation is lacking in feminine qualities and the motherly nature because of generational curses of bitterness passsed down (for women to be bitter against men --causing this generation to not trust male authority)..so now women don't even want children the way they should desire them anymore..its sad but thank God for Ministers like you who are willing to get down in the dirt with those of us who realize we really need help. I was contentious coming into marriage and my husband was effeminate..not gay but the player type.. so the devil had one up on both of us. But our Shepard saw the need to help him to become a manly man and for me to be a feminine woman.. submissive..not hard and arguing and being controlling. This is my husband's testimony..just wanted to share.God Bless and I will be praying for you and your family.

@LadyRev 4 ай бұрын

18:50 1. He works overtime to build trust and repoire 25:43 2. He isolates you. He wants to get you away from those that will talk sense into you. 31:09 3. He grooms you down from your values and standards; there is the gradual boundary violation 41:11 4. He will love bomb and flatter 43:15 5. He is pushing you to maintain secrecy 47:04 6. He makes the target feels in debt to him 50:14 7. He introduces scenarios into your life that contradict your values and boundaries and personal beliefs Wow!!!! Dr. R.C. Blakes: what a blessing with these gems! Thank you!

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 ай бұрын

for he he speak truth

@blessedchildofgod9112 4 ай бұрын

rc giving the game for free that's how I know he care about us women

@anyahicks4892 4 ай бұрын

❤

@missvegan1967 4 ай бұрын

I'm so happy for this post... Like please get straight to the point 👉🏽☝🏽👌🏽

@Peaceoverhere1 4 ай бұрын

I had to screenshot this, this is exactly what my ex did. Thanks for the timestamps.

@siantelove 4 ай бұрын

"Just because he can afford you, dont mean he can value you!" Thats a Word right there! 🙌🏾

@realestatemrs7121 4 ай бұрын

When he said that it was like I bit a lemon I was like ooooo...a word indeed!!❤

@justinawilliamson5714 4 ай бұрын

MHM. Thank you PASTOR . LAWDY LAWDY , Absolutely this IS A WORD !!!

@DrChefFeliciaAnnJordan 4 ай бұрын

So..true 🙏🏾

@DrChefFeliciaAnnJordan 4 ай бұрын

Thank God for the power to stand on more Godly principles. ❤

@camsteph67 4 ай бұрын

Right? Lord Today

@michellejacobson4530 4 ай бұрын

These types of 'men' will not leave you either. You have to be the one to walk away and when they try to come back its not because they love you. They can't regulate and sit with their own emotions so they project them on to you, slowly poisoning you. The sooner we realize our willingness to participate and not become victims is the day we take back our power. Being a victim indicates we have no personal autonomy or agency. Breaking trauma bonds are similiar to breaking a drug addiction, but its possible.

@rubberbiscuit99 4 ай бұрын

Very well said. These types of men are programmed as parasites. Slowly and gradually they wrap their tentacles around you, their host, and they pull you down down down. You will not recognize what is happening until you are in such a weakened state that you do not have the strength to fight the parasitic infestation. It takes time to build yourself up to get out.

@flipflops-ed5xq 3 ай бұрын

Good one. So important just in case A huge heartbreak comes and youre at the mental hospital.

@athenafarrell5127 3 ай бұрын

Yes!

@pl1763 3 ай бұрын

You are speaking facts

@QYAH322 3 ай бұрын

Y'all listen to this now they want to get you to depend only on them and cut others off that real

@eulaliabradley4991 4 ай бұрын

When I tell a man once that I don't like something and he trys it again he's out .

@trudy-annsmall9600 4 ай бұрын

I say the same....dont try and mess with my peace of mind

@Eraseyourmemory1 4 ай бұрын

The best move to make is to dip with the quickness.. these type of men like to test to see if you’re really about your boundaries..more fool them because we value peace

@onbutterfly_wings 4 ай бұрын

That’s my New “M.O.” moving forward 💕🙏🏽

@flipflops-ed5xq 3 ай бұрын

Spread the ❤

@fah232 3 ай бұрын

Right, I have been told I'm too hard on a man because I don't give chances.

@eulaliabradley4991 4 ай бұрын

When you throw your trash out, don't go back and pick it up.

@madelinebigio7565 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@PeaceInChrist23 4 ай бұрын

Yep

@crystalgrose 4 ай бұрын

Amen Sis‼️🙌🏽💯

@deborahlewis930 4 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@lichas6876 3 ай бұрын

Because It’s already contaminated!

@tonifool7423 4 ай бұрын

It's hard to be a woman looking for love in this world...I'm so GRATEFUL FOR THE LOVE OF GOD...thank u RC

@Ashley_Banks 4 ай бұрын

AMEN!! ❤

@tamara-vm2mb 4 ай бұрын

Amen Sister🥰 Nobody Like the LORD!!!

@froyo9674 3 ай бұрын

Amin ☦️ Thank You Lord

@ms.lisabailey1491 3 ай бұрын

Amen. Some of these scenarios make me scared to date.

@missygeno4391 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@hopeinhumanity. 3 ай бұрын

Good reminder “Bad company corrupts good morals”

@eo9196 4 ай бұрын

I went on a date once with someone and when I wouldn’t kiss after the date, he waxed host!le and said to pay him for his time, gas and meals because he doesn’t hang out with friends and pay for them. I gave him the money and noped out of there. He quickly changed his tone and said “oh no. He just wanted to be appreciated. It wasn’t about the money, yada *3” Blocked him everywhere. Thanked the Lord he showed his hand early, and saved me all of that.

@wisdomknowledgelover6293 3 ай бұрын

Sorry that happened to you! What a jerk.

@eo9196 3 ай бұрын

@@wisdomknowledgelover6293 thank you.

@realbihh3493 Ай бұрын

* always carry cash on hand for idiots like this 📝

@sherylcastro5688 4 ай бұрын

Sad sad sick world. Pls Heavenly Father distance us from these groomers/misogynist demons

@pcwilb1 4 ай бұрын

🙏🏿

@FinishTheRaceVL7 4 ай бұрын

In the name of Jesus. AMEN!

@froyo9674 3 ай бұрын

Amin ☦️

@lala5061 3 ай бұрын

I can't stand a misogynistic man 😬...he better keep those thoughts in his head then cuz that is a complete turn-off for me!!!!

@kathywalker9546 4 ай бұрын

He does not want to be around your friends and family. He always has an excuse and tries to take up all your time.

@robinbeard5467 3 ай бұрын

Facts. Big facts!!!! This is a tell all sign right here.....

@navimarlow 2 ай бұрын

Facts!!!!!💯💯💯💯

@msgreen1545 4 ай бұрын

I believe this is what I went through for 10 years. I went through 3 evictions, lost $50k, and damn near lost my mind. I'm so glad I got out when I did. I just lost myself in a loser. Was emotionally drained. I believe because he grew up in a broken family full of prostitutes pimps and women-nizing men. Always lying cheating stealing. A bunch of devils. I'm still healing. Thank you Bishop, because I have been listening to your videos I have been getting back to myself and God.

@spiritualqueen3423 4 ай бұрын

Yes, more likely if he grew up in a very dysfunctional household than demonic activities was the norm.

@Not_visible.2u 4 ай бұрын

Wow. Stay committed to God and his word. Praying for you 🙏 ❤

@Trendolyn78 4 ай бұрын

I think we may have been married to the same loser ❤

@NinaDewone 4 ай бұрын

Wow I experienced a marrage of 2 years like what you've been through. What tge Devil meant for Evil God has worked it out for your Good!!!! God BLESSED YOU TO REMOVE YOU FROM THIS ABUSE....GOD IS GOING TO GIVE IT ALL BACK TO YOU A 100 TIMES MORE!!! I AM SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE.....HE DID IT FOR ME!!!! BELIEVE AND SEEK HIS WORD...READ YOUR BIBLE....SPEAK POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS OVER YOUR LIFE....PRAY WITH OUT CEASING!!! GIVE IT TO GOD!!!! GOD TIMING IS ALWAYS THE BEST TIMING....IT'S YOUR TIME A YOUR SEASON. EMAIL ME IF YOU NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE WHO BEEN THERE. I WILL LOVE TO BE A SUPPORT FOR YOU DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME. STAY STRONG MY SISTA YOU ARE A CHILD OF THE MOST HIGH! YOU ARE A QUEEN...NOW STRAIGHTEN UP YOUR CROWN AND SHOW THAT DEVIL WHO YOU ARE!!!!!! BE BLESSED!!!!!❤

@patriciawhite9509 4 ай бұрын

You will be fine just stay in touch with the 'Comforter' HIS rod and Hus staff will Comforter you. It I'd always good decent women being conned by these losers.

@jalicarenee 4 ай бұрын

Didn't even realize I was in the mist of this very storm until I was taken under by the tidal wave 💔 People can be such monsters 😢

@justinawilliamson5714 4 ай бұрын

It's craaaaazy, Smh. But pastor pastor , PASTOR blakes, but that type, beeeeeeen graduated, to be bold enough to have us at the same party just on the opposite side of the room, of party !!!!!!

@lilygarcia5525 4 ай бұрын

Yes so true but Gods grace is amazing! You can start over again this time w God in the center.

@marydowd1332 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for so much wisdom we are truly living in an evil day I thank God for men like you who stand up for the truth

@melissakirkland9998 4 ай бұрын

Wow PhD women are being manipulated by GED men God bless you Pastor RC Blakes💯👊🙏

@Mo.1988 4 ай бұрын

Lmaooooo

@EmpressQueenB 4 ай бұрын

Lawddddd I wasn't prepared for that

@Faith_mmack 4 ай бұрын

LMBO!!!🤣

@madelineba1 4 ай бұрын

Fact

@ladyd7412 4 ай бұрын

Period!

@chandranicole95 4 ай бұрын

All this happened to me…I was so far gone until on Christmas Day 2023, 2 days after he proposed to me in front of both our families. But God!!!!🙌🏾 Snatch me right out of that hell and reversed the curse! Thank you God!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@nikkyshamz2696 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Jesus

@EmpressQueenB 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Lord!!!!!!

@FinishTheRaceVL7 4 ай бұрын

To God be The Glory 😊 My God

@freedomforusa1658 3 ай бұрын

How did God snatch you out of that hell 2 days after he proposed?

@jawilsonlemon8430 4 ай бұрын

The story of Tamar and Amnon has been discussed in my household a few times. So many women in the world are being treated just like this. After a man gets what he wants, then he discards them like trash.

@jennifergodwin29 4 ай бұрын

Just ended a “relationship” with a Pastor who lost his church, got divorced and was messed up. I gave him a year. He groomed me exactly the way you described.. word for word… I felt sorry for him but it became evident as the months rolled on and on he is narcissistic if not a full blown narcissist and it all started making sense HE was the villain in all his victimhood. I pray all who encounter him use their discernment and not push it aside like I did at 1st. I’ve learned some much needed lessons about myself and predators so I’m grateful for that!

@andreal.1666 4 ай бұрын

Same bad experience with a Protestant Pastor in 2022! I got out after 3 month by my own. Long way of healing, since 2021. He was using my vulnerable situation after a two year „relationship“ (with a „Peter Pan“ - man) in Summer 2022! But I had the power to went out of the situationship end of August 2022! Thank‘s be to GOD! ✝️☀️🙋🏻‍♀️

@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman 4 ай бұрын

So sorry you went through. Thank God HE redeemed you. As RC Blakes once said, "turn your pain into purpose."

@user-tf3qo3el5u 4 ай бұрын

You are preaching tonight! I am an educationed woman, who's background is in law enforcement. Aside from that I grew up in an urban setting early 80's. And nothing could prepare me for the encounter of the narcissist man that i got involved with. The game was swift and calculated, and I'm still recovering almost 7 months later! I have a true testimony on only how God could bring me back to myself! What an every day uphill spiritual battle! Thank you God for deliverance, because a weaker version of myself would have never bounced back! To God be the glory! He who HE sets free, is free indeed!!!!

@kaoshi_kutie 4 ай бұрын

I feel you sis! You WILL get through it. I encountered a Covert Narcissist and it’s taken nearly 2 years to heal. They are master groomers, manipulators and abusers. ❤

@lenebrantley221 4 ай бұрын

🙏❤

@sheilasquare4339 4 ай бұрын

Blessings to you sis. I too am healing from a groomed relationship that led to marriage of 20 + years. Found the courage and strength, with the help of the Lord, to walk away. I can really say I am free. It is hard work . I am truly grateful.

@user-yy9be9mi6n 4 ай бұрын

Praise God for his goodness! Blessings

@tinaleigh3273 4 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏🏽 ❤

@adilaismail8584 4 ай бұрын

the biggest problem is that women are trained to listen to the man, not have an opinion and forced to be desperate for marriage. If a women is taught her self worth, chasing goals and building herself up - she wont fall for a man like this. However, not all women are essentially good either. Some are just trying to play the man even though they have been brought up right. There is no 1 way to generalise anymore. we need to take people as they are, but we need to know who we are first, and boundaries, boundaries, boundaries. Cant say it enough: Boundaries

@87883 4 ай бұрын

This was so well stated I tend to notice women that have been in a bad relationship in the past now become hard to be in a relationship with I also notice men that women shouldn’t even imagine being in a relationship with but they will fight men are obviously no good 1. No employment history or long term employment 2. Some kind of record 3. No housing 4 . Owns nothing besides clothes At the age of 35 or older 5. Very rude and hostile towards any customer service staff 6. Have children they have no real relationship with 7. Dress like a teenager 8. Don’t know how to ask or take you out on a proper date 9. Have no relationship with God or any authority figure to hold them accountable. 10. Are not providers

@lala5061 4 ай бұрын

U sure can't say Boundaries enough!

@wanderlust.mermaid626 4 ай бұрын

I experienced most of these very things when I was 22 with the first man who took my virginity. My intention was for us to marry, but he strung me along for 6 long years on and off. I was raised in the church, but these types of men to watch out for were unfortunately never discussed. I lost my father at a young age and I wish I had the fatherly counsel and wisdom of a male like you growing up. It would have saved me a lot of lost time and bad experiences. Thank you for discussing topics that other pastors and elders do not talk about. Your message is a blessing for many women everywhere.

@Tay-dg9om 16 күн бұрын

WONDERFUL WISDOM SHARED❤

@Marebear-bt4rp 4 ай бұрын

We all have to learn and be strong enough to walk away !!!! 👍👍👍👍

@tamara-vm2mb 4 ай бұрын

It's very hard ❤ Thank God for His Strength and if necessary Counsel, Counselors. It's a strong hold sometimes 😢 Been there too 🙏🙏🙏

@melissawiley3688 4 ай бұрын

Amen ❤

@evawilliams2873 4 ай бұрын

Amen Amen Amen

@ms.liszz.9206 4 ай бұрын

Walk away and resist the desire to go back. That will be a challenge.

@sphinxkitty4951 4 ай бұрын

Correct, and take accountability as well. It takes 2 to tango. We may be unsuspecting at first, but if it doesn’t sit right then LEAVE

@elizabethdumas4147 4 ай бұрын

Back in the 70s, I read a book called "Why Do I Feel Like Nothing Without A Man". Although it was not a Christian book, the information was invaluable and included much of what Bishop Blakes teaches. That information coupled with my Christian beliefs have protected me from being used and abused.

@seductiveorchid777 4 ай бұрын

It's basically the Lover Boy Method. This is one of the most dangerous and destructive plots against women.

@rubberbiscuit99 4 ай бұрын

Whether we accept the grooming behaviors of a man hinges on if we have a hunger for the validation and acceptance of a man. Women who were raised by unloving, addicted, and/or narcissistic fathers are very vulnerable to grooming. To heal this, we must step out of The Game for a while to heal our wounds, so we can gain in love for ourselves. We need to grieve what we never had, and learn to love and respect ourselves, so when these game players show up, we shut the door.

@Seekyourtruth777 3 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@kishageorge7788 4 ай бұрын

I recently got rid of a guy like this after 4 months, the difference is he tried to make me pay for everything no dates just bedroom actions. I think I wasn’t in a good place because of my recent divorce so he took advantage of that. Now that I got rid of him I can see this guy was trying to manage and manipulate me I told him I wasn’t ready for a relationship and he keep pushing it. I was too naive at the time to see what he was doing, I told him straight up just because ur God fearing doesn’t mean ur a good person and I don’t want nothing to do with u. He’s a complete narcissist thank God my eyes are open now

@apparentlybfb7754 4 ай бұрын

Secrets… if he’s a loner and professes he don’t hang with other men! Boy bye!

@robinbeard5467 3 ай бұрын

And if nobody visits him, he was to call his so call friends, never go around your friends and family, always wants all of your time, even if he's not around, he'll keep something for you to do!!!!

@ipuhperthamboy822 4 ай бұрын

the game is flat out insane... do people ever just live normally or are they always scheming like????????????

@Erica-cf1xb Ай бұрын

It's a 25/8 Job. They don't get tired of stealing. It's an addiction and a lifestyle.

@alenamclaughlin1291 4 ай бұрын

“Anyone that has to ask for your trust, is NOT to be trusted.” 👏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽 AHHHHHH is needed to hear and receive this!

@JourneywithCrys 4 ай бұрын

Ladies please value yourselves! Not doing this was the start of all my problems! See yourself as the Lord sees you!!! Amen

@apparentlybfb7754 4 ай бұрын

Family sharing on this knowledge is soooooo important! Dads, uncles, nephews, and cousins! Yes stay away from them who isolate you and have no friends who they’re accountable to!

@janellamurphy5665 4 ай бұрын

SO VERY TRUE FACTS💯💯💯!!!! SPEAK THE TRUTH🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿AMEN!!!!

@AbianahAlmeida 3 ай бұрын

He used me blocked me then unblocked me and has been love bombing me so I can give it up to him again. he called me when I was drunk and I said I missed him but I know that was a mistake. After he used me I lay in my bed and I cried. For days I was depressed then he came back and now wants me again. But in Jesus name I refuse to be groomed by a grown boy.

@missb1982 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@navimarlow 2 ай бұрын

Stay strong! 💪🏽 don’t look back they never change!!!❤

@amethystabrams5856 3 ай бұрын

I'm freshly out of a 6 year Domestic Narcissistic relationship that was almost fatal .The end result is me and my child having to move out of our place that we waited 4 years to get and only been living in for a year. I'm still going through the motions with anxiety, panic attacks, and the constant fear that they're going to come after me. At the end of it all they're still harassing calling it love .😢 Still in disbelief that I ignored all the signs and stayed faithful.

@777JESUSISLORD71 3 ай бұрын

I'm glad you and your child are ok. Flee from sexual immorality,and follow JESUS Instructions. No man is worth losing your dignity over ,and possibly life . WE got to get into the word of GOD,and stay close to JESUS. GOD always gives us warnings before destruction. Always. Depart from what GOD says is SIN

@lizblacmman8094 4 ай бұрын

Happy Birthday Lady Lisa Blakes 🎂🎁🎉🎉❤️🥰

@MrChucksbaby 3 ай бұрын

You are definitely speaking the truth!!! I was in a relationship with a man 4 years who said these deceitful words... so listen ladies to the truth..

@Eraseyourmemory1 4 ай бұрын

As I’m dating…I’m so hypervigiliant of any inconsistency or bad feeling I’m out!! I’ve learnt to trust myself over the temporary feelings. The more knowledge and wisdom I seek the easier it is to spot these type of people. With that being said no one is perfect..that is why it’s important to balance the pros and the cons of the person you’re getting to know..having open communication and affective conflict resolution skills and discernment.But if a person continues to show you destructive behaviour..you have to leave! Loving yourself is truly worth any love a damaged person can give you. Thank you Mr Blake for your endless efforts❤

@lolaj3613 3 ай бұрын

Alterier motive: making money online. Isn’t it a bit hypocritical.

@lolaj3613 3 ай бұрын

The information is good and true!

@latanyar9377 4 ай бұрын

I totally agree with him when he says if a man begs or demands trust they can't be trusted. The sad part is that dating is not as traditional and innocent as it was generations ago and there was Chivalry. These days really decent women are overlooked because men see women that doesn't do certain things as "Boring". I don't think they mean to be desperate per se but they are already isolated by men that rejected them They end up entertaining the wrong men out of loneliness. We have to Put on the Armour of God. Stay in Prayer.

@deborahfranklin9370 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for protecting women in ministry. It hurts to keep seeing this. So glad you're speaking on this.❤

@tamara-vm2mb 4 ай бұрын

Amen ❤

@Pacifica74 4 ай бұрын

What timing! God is really directing your videos RC! I came back from my cousin's funeral in Canada late last month, and yes I was being groomed for sex by her husband now a widower! I watched this man intermittently cry at my cousin's casket, but when no one was around would throw around the words "do sex" to me all in the same day. The hugs, kisses and pat on my knee in the car ride to the funeral parlor I didn't realize was all part of his slimeball behavior. I thought I would be safe going to a funeral, but I had travelled alone. I not only confronted him to stop, but I also told his sons to bring visibility to what he was doing. He of course acted like a harmless 74 year old man and covered his tracks. When I returned home, I immediately blocked his number because he had the audacity to ask me in front of his son, "When am I coming to see you ?" and "When are you next coming to visit?" He's just my cousin's husband - HE'S NOT MY FAMILY! - but he was trying to position himself as a family friend. Ladies, NEVER TRAVEL ALONE.

@tarrasashurst6788 4 ай бұрын

My gosh. Yes, I went on a date like that. When a man kept touch me and I told him not to touch me and I told him not to kiss me because I don't know him like that. So I had to let him go.

@shamaywilliams-blake 4 ай бұрын

I wish i heard this 9 years ago.

@erind2261 4 ай бұрын

Hey I get it but it's better than hearing than this 9 yrs from NOW!

@J78685 3 ай бұрын

Same here 😊

@crystaljackson240 4 ай бұрын

U preaching, teaching, an fussing at us like a real father!. I absolutely love how u deliver your messages!.

@jennifersingleton2673 4 ай бұрын

I had a friend with a husband like this. He put in her mind that all her friends were no good, not as godly as he and her, bad influence, etc. He'd take over our phone conversations and say ridiculous things about my marriage that he knew nothing about knowing I'd respond negatively just so, I imagine, prove his point that I wasn't a good friend. Very sad. He truly drove everyone away from her except for the people he knew would reinforce how good he was for her.

@stylesjust4you534 4 ай бұрын

You ain’t never lied about this generation of woman. So opened to every idea of a man

@janellamurphy5665 4 ай бұрын

Trust has to be earned and proven💯💯💯🖐🏾🖐🏾🖐🏾Amen!!!! Preach Bishop

@onlybygrace250 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor because too many of us fall for the game sadly enough.

@chelseamiracle128 4 ай бұрын

This is truly God’s work Pastor Blakes. This information needs to be out there. I had the unfortunate experience of being groomed by what I didn’t know was a sex trafficker and he was slowly grooming me to accept disgusting treatment. Luckily, I picked up on it and I got away. I was never religious or even truly spiritual until I realized God showed me signs this man would hurt, betray, and degrade me. I was raised very sheltered so I was not aware of these things but somehow I received visions and my intuition led me to piece by piece figure out he was a narcissist (though I had no clue about these people) and every single tactic he used (even though I was this naive girl). I read several books about sex trafficking, pimping, etc. and I am very well-informed now. I got away - due to some strange level of discernment I could only say was some sort of gift. I see myself and have always - as an empath. I don’t know a lot of people quite like me, but I believe my soul was put here to help right the wrongs of evil people. This man is afraid of me now. I have been blocked. I feel as though you also feel called to this cause and I respect you for it.

@akira7088 3 ай бұрын

Yes I was groomed at 15 by an older man and after 3 years I cut the cycle and bossed up. Just to run into him almost 15 years later and gave him the power to treat me the same way. He did all these things. Over worked for my attention and affection. 2 months he opened my eyes God put it in front of me as an adult to heal …. Not run from it but feel it n know to break the cycle. I realized I got my terrible habits in relationships from this relationship and my childhood

@daddylightsministry106 4 ай бұрын

In this day & age it seems this type of supply of men are growing rapidly.

@janellamurphy5665 4 ай бұрын

VIOLATION OF BOUNDARIES!!!!🎯🎯🎯

@jadegreen1554 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for teaching women things from the barbershop that women would NEVER hear. Women need to be quiet and sit down, and listen to your warnings.

@A.l.a.c. 4 ай бұрын

This video reminds me my ex. He was very chaotic, never stick with his words, never on time, always making lots of false promises, love bombing and frustrating me at the same time. Pure chaos. After a couple of months I'd break up with him, than he used to make lot of promises again, just to fail in a couple of weeks. I stopped giving him new chances when I realized he was purposely failing, he used chaos to control and punish me, he is a groomer. He found another women and had other relationships and you know what? He is getting worse day by day! His last relationship ended badly, he already has 2 kids of different mothers. I hope one day he wakes up!

@kathyhidalgo1798 4 ай бұрын

sounds like we dated the same man lol. just sad

@A.l.a.c. 4 ай бұрын

@@kathyhidalgo1798 last saturday I had a great date with a new man. A couple of hours before the date I was tense and paranoid thinking he would let me down the same way this ex used to do, I got trigged and almost canceled the date. Fortunately, I decided to go and it was great, new guy was super kind and respectful.

@ak-47intelligence75 4 ай бұрын

They don't wake up and that day never comes.

@nunnallyai 3 ай бұрын

Omg same had to leave him 2 days ago

@melisamichele7622 3 ай бұрын

I’m single again at 51. This world will have you thinking you’re the only one with Godly convictions. Thank you for confirming what God has put in my spirit. Thank you!! 💕🦋💕🦋

@minimalistbae1986 4 ай бұрын

I ain't gone lie I gave him the key and he took full advantage so alot of times we are their accomplices 💯

@TD6436 3 ай бұрын

Every.single.time

@CarmenZepeda-yu5no Ай бұрын

Don't feel guilty: if narcissist is Actually a tactic. Give a little trust personal bait of himself to collect the most sensitive information from you in exchange.

@shontaenorwood7076 4 ай бұрын

I'm in the doctors office and fell out laughing when you said " your greasy fingers"!! You are on point for sure with this topic!

@RedSoleDiaries 4 ай бұрын

You are breaking down strongholds with this message! ❤

@Radtechfl1 4 ай бұрын

Paster RC, this hurts knowing that men play all types of games and there’s no limit to the things they will do. This hurts so bad. Ive been abused most of my life by men. Im to the point that Ive honestly given up on dating and marriage. Ive come to the reality that I may be single for the rest of my life. I fully understand that my value is not based on a relationship with a man but it’s based on me discovering my purpose in which our heavenly Father brought me here for! Id rather be single till my time is up in this life then to be played with in any shape or form. Im so happy that Ive come into this wisdom, knowledge , and understanding!!. I can honestly say that I am in love with my singleness ! Thank you sir!

@jeanettekarim6240 4 ай бұрын

You can trust me....haven't I heard that before. DEFINITELY, cannot be trusted. True words from Pastor RC Blakes.

@FoodieQueenBee 4 ай бұрын

He would say you should trust me after i said i don’t trust him. He got mad that I didn’t trust him. All his actions didnt make me feel safe to trust him. Hot and cold all the times.

@joannahulitt3161 4 ай бұрын

This was hard to hear Pastor 😢I was groomed for years 😞😞😞😞😞😞 thank God for growth 😢and much therapy

@kimberlyprewitt4238 4 ай бұрын

I love how Bishop keeps it 💯

@yossettaeatmon8719 4 ай бұрын

I want to thank you Pastor Blakes for all your information. I was not taught by my dad. For the ones that don’t respect what you are providing…shake the dust off and keep it moving for the ones of us that are listening. We have on our spiritual ears 🙏🏾♥️

@tarrasashurst6788 4 ай бұрын

Yes, you hit it on the point. He manipulated me and lied to me. My spiritual sister had to wake me up from him. Oh , and it happens with kids cause he did to my boys. He said everything I wanted to hear and with the church with me. My boys and all that was a lie. I think God, he woke me up. And I followed my lord jesus christ and left him alone.

@QIKWIA 4 ай бұрын

"ROYAL CONSCIOUSNESS"....🔥🔥🔥 Now, that is some DEEP thinking! Thank you dearest Bishop Blakes!🙏🏿

@lwarfield52 4 ай бұрын

This is amazing Word of God. This is confirmation why I've dumped men with these qualities. They STILL continue to call after 3 years. I left the relationship. Now. Im blocking them on my phone. Thank you for this priceless wisdom that cant be brought! Precious gems from the Lord Christ l. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@keepthechange1 4 ай бұрын

Good evening Kings, Queens, and Saints. God bless each of you. 🙏🏽

@debraunderwood6689 4 ай бұрын

The message was very great and uplifting. Women, we must know who we are in Christ and know who's we are.

@Crgb777 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor RC Blakes. Your videos have opened my eyes to things I have forever been blind to. The Lord really uses your gift to speak on these issues! I was groomed for 8 years by a n evil man, finally free for 3 years and currently in self discovery

@Kashmir-lt4cx 4 ай бұрын

Popping all this gum, and wearing all this mink eyelashes! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

@lenebrantley221 4 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@deborahfranklin9370 4 ай бұрын

This happens alot in churches. I've had some pastors try this with me but I had discernment 🙏

@mamiepreston7248 4 ай бұрын

Come on pastor, you're preaching better than we shouting over here. Much love to you and your wife

@jadegreen1554 3 ай бұрын

Why is grooming of adults whether it is for sexual exploitation, sex trafficking, terrorism, financial theft, etc illegal, but grooming without any obvious signs of enormous exploitation, but a destroyed human victim, is not illegal?

@CarmenZepeda-yu5no Ай бұрын

Because unknown extend damage.

@Erica-cf1xb Ай бұрын

Also because more people is into it than not. It's hard to her real victims when it's sooooo Many frauds playing a role. That's how this system works. It's a group effort to drown out the noise. The sorority KNOWS to scream at the same damn time. It's staged and all the men KNOW to go to all the pretty ones FIRST because they possibly can't be torchering someone.

@lanessia5663 4 ай бұрын

That is Love bombing in the beginning

@lovp1 4 ай бұрын

just because he can afford you does not mean he values you!!!!!

@Carlij312 4 ай бұрын

The man paying your bills is A BIG TRAP!

@Jhlyna 4 ай бұрын

After finished listening this.. i started to hate my ex again..😢 our relationship was over few years ago, he was doing all this things before he tried to force me into sex and I refused..after multiple times of tempting me into sex, i broke up with him with very very heavy heart.. i now realised that he was grooming me and i start to hate him again.. please pray for me so that I can forgive him and moving on with my life with my life..

@maryodom3541 4 ай бұрын

I certainly hope that we will listen to this great advice and start valuing ourselves more.

@debbiecurrlin335 4 ай бұрын

This is so accurate. Ladies, please listen. ❤

@user-yy9be9mi6n 4 ай бұрын

God put this video in my sight tonite. Praise you, Lord! An individual was grooming me ever so slowly and I was clueless it was happening, but the Holy Spirit started ringing alarm bells. I got outta that situation as fast as my feet could carry me! Thank you RC. Beware sisters!

@FaithfulandTrue949 3 ай бұрын

32:30 when you have to remind him you don't like his hands around your throat 😢thanks for this I was raised in with abuse, thought Prince Charming arrived at 39yrs after escaping an abuser from being groomed at 14yrs - he was 25yrs. Even at 39 I was very green & believed all he fed me, a much older man again 😔

@Creoles.nature 4 ай бұрын

This right here needs to go Viral for real Viral

@Kashmir-lt4cx 4 ай бұрын

@Creoles.nature make it happen!

@deborahfranklin9370 4 ай бұрын

Speak on it!!! 👏 👏 👏 👏 it burns me up Pastor. I'm sick of it!!!

@soupergiffy 4 ай бұрын

I hear ya. Every route to my office has me driving by weed billboards, 2 breasteraunts, 5 massage parlors, and a strip club. Where my kids see these signs and lust places, cause my brothers are selfish. So I gotta take side and neighborhood streets to help protect their (and my) eyes and souls as best we can. I pray they all go away in Jesus name

@courtneyv.440 3 ай бұрын

You know men better than us. We listening Bishop😊

@irigreeneyes 4 ай бұрын

Hello family, God bless you all ❤️

@CBtalks8554 4 ай бұрын

That Bologna Sandwich take the Cake Bishop. I thank God for you teaching the way you do. This is a Sick Situation that is going on with oyr Young women and some young boys. Teach, Teach ,Teach.

@kitaevans8686 4 ай бұрын

That's good Pastor anyone who asks you to trust them don't need to be trusted. Amen, I received this message 🙏 ❤

@chelseamiracle128 4 ай бұрын

The only time this happened to me a man asked me to make a sex tape and he had the whole place he worked at in on it - he was going to blackmail me. He orchestrated a man there telling me to trust him. You best believe the gut feeling was “uh that means don’t trust him.”

@cassandra7778 4 ай бұрын

i knew this man online when i was 17 and he was 26 years old . we got into a ldr for 3 years when i turned 18 and he was narcissistic man it really messed me up .He introduced me to corn and i had and addiction over the years. I felt my purity taken from me. I thank the Lord that i never went to see him in person as i found out through one of his other good friends online that he started to get into a relationship with a 18 year old woman when he was 28 years old . But he actually used to be her guitar teacher when she was younger and stayed friends with her because they lived in the same village. He literally groomed me and her. He also introduced me to his friend who was 31 years old that was music teacher trying to talk about sex with me online when i just turned 19 . We need to protect our children more. These predators are everywhere online.

@janellamurphy5665 4 ай бұрын

ISOLATION😮 ON POINT BISHOP🎯🎯!!!!

@lizblacmman8094 4 ай бұрын

Good evening Queens, so glad to be here tonight. Getting ready for this one, I know it’s going to be very informative and I thank God for sending pastor and First Lady Blakes into our lives to help us understand what’s really going on with these men today, thank you for all you do for us, we appreciate it!!!!🙏 🥰❤️

@MysticButterfly22 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Bishop. I wish I had them tips throughout my teens & twenties, it would have saved me so much heartache and grieve and pain by the hands of manipulative men.

@lucindacoleman646 4 ай бұрын

They try, but they couldn't, Amen

@deshaayguy9299 3 ай бұрын

I just wanted to thank you so much for what you're doing for women throughout the nation, I've been following your sermons on narcissist and their behaviors, been dealing with this over 25 years and finally got breakthroughs and understanding and freedom, from that bondage everything you say really help me out a great deal of my life and I'm very thankful for you in your ministry listen to you in your family

@maatx9718 4 ай бұрын

Excellent broadcast, I believe I got myself out of the clutches of a potential groomer ..all I did was take three days to myself to sit back ..pour into me and just observe ,I noticed everything I needed to ..grateful for benefiting from wisdom in real time not having to depend on hindsight wisdom 🙏🏾🎉🙏🏾🎉🙏🏾🎉

@nyashakurasha7699 4 ай бұрын

We’re here to learn from the best! We honor and appreciate you Paps and mama Li.

@jawilsonlemon8430 4 ай бұрын

Great message! Women definitely needed to hear this one night. Blessings to you Bishop Blake's and Lady Lisa❤

@eleganceevolved8328 3 ай бұрын

I have 3 boys, I wish you had some videos for young men like this! If I had daughters I’d sit down and watch this with them. ❤

@samanthalopez4874 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Lord for healing and removing me from the trap of this type of man! ❤ We must rise above from broken consciousness to Queen Consciousness! Kingdom Mentality for the win!

@Kashmir-lt4cx 4 ай бұрын

Ouch to the definition of grooming! This is soooo what happened! 😢😭 we have such opposite morals and values!