"GOOD PAIN" & CHOOSING TO RISE ABOVE DIVORCE WITH SETHU GUMEDE

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"GOOD PAIN" & CHOOSING TO RISE ABOVE DIVORCE WITH SETHU GUMEDE | South African Youtuber

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In this conversation with Sethu Gumede, we take a deep dive into her story on pain, mental health and being a single mother. Tears were shed but this was such an impactful conversation.
We hope this speaks to you and reminds you that GOD SEES YOU!
Enjoy!

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@buyisiwembatha6698 5 ай бұрын

You are such a safe space Kabelo....you are called for this. Um so excited ❤❤❤❤ Sethu thank you so much for sharing your life❤️

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

Humbled!! Thank you so much for such encouraging words ❤

@bongi445 5 ай бұрын

I’m gonna watch this episode again and again. I will watch again in the next 5 years and in the next 10 years 😭🙏🏼❤❤❤

@sweetnessgyamboe4897 5 ай бұрын

Kabelo Mohale is a powerhouse man!! A whole power house!!

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

♥️🥹

@thulisilegumede8060 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for this beautiful conversation, what a testimony. Yazi we have been carried well, God is really good. We are standing asazi kanjani because it is definitely not by our might, I loved when Sethu said we have been carried well 🙌🏾🤞🏾

@nonhlebixa2928 5 ай бұрын

Kabelo you're such a beautiful soul, with a beautiful heart, i love you both, sethu such a great wisdom.. ❤...

@therealkganya 5 ай бұрын

Yoh! God knows how on time this conversation is for me. I related to so many things here. I thank God and appreciate people that can be so vulnerable with Him in their secret place and also share those moments with us, it takes obedience. Thank you so much for your hearts of service Sethu and Kabelo.

@ronellecandice1536 5 ай бұрын

As a person who doesn’t know this woman, it’s very difficult to figure out what happened in her life for her to be in a such a dark place. I’m on 25 mins and I still don’t know what the pain was ….I’m lost

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

I actually don’t know how to respond to this! Yoh! Hope you receive from the wisdom imparted if you are that confused!!

@tshepisonjikelane2994 5 ай бұрын

I understand where she’s coming from, I know Sethu from her KZfaq channel. Maybe next time Sisi, you can give context on who the guest is and what is their story. (Don’t assume the audience knows the guest or the context of the conversation held) E.g. I thought Awakening is a church, then I later realise it’s an event. I hope you receive this comment with kindness 🤎

@unathimdaka1180 5 ай бұрын

She mentioned postpartum depression, depression and separation from husband(with a little one)...all of which will send anyone into straight time of suffering!

@ronellecandice1536 5 ай бұрын

@@tshepisonjikelane2994 thank you for this sisi, Kabello assumed we know the guest and she spoke to her friend and forgot her audience. Thank you

@ABrown-mh8mp 5 ай бұрын

It is like watching the part 2, you have to piece it together for yourself . We can glean parts of the story and it can make sense but we don't know the fullness of her experience.

@akanirikhotso6513 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for creating a safe space for Sethu, I love how she fully opened up. Can Mohale sit closer next time? He wasn't audible.

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

My honour!! Truly ❤ thank you for engaging!

@anastasimankesemokgobu1724 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for listening to God when he was asking you to be open and allow him to lead. Kabelo's way of handling conversations with grace is so heartwarming, you make it easy for the guest to open up, you hold space so gracefully ❤

@zintlecekiso 5 ай бұрын

Just by taking this step alone Sethu, there’s a GREAT outpouring of deliverance for your life. Everything that has your name on it, God has already taken control. Some things you will not even need to pray for anymore. Believe it and it shall be so. May the good Lord bless your mom, she’s a rare breed. May He also bless you Kabelo for obeying His voice to open up this safe space, clearly there’s a great presence of the Lord in this place. Bless you! Bless you! ❤❤

@Ofentse.P 5 ай бұрын

No words, just gratitude for the great work you are doing Mrs Mohale.❤

@Chenille19 5 ай бұрын

This was so timely. So much insight. I really enjoyed this. I loved it when Sethu said she was carried well and yes, He carries us well.

@Jubileerivombo1 3 ай бұрын

Mrs Mohale. you did it here! Thank you so much for such a great interview. As always, they fetch us, fetch our edges, make us cry and then make us laugh. Most of all they make us reflect and repent

@teeelephant6658 5 ай бұрын

Wow 'I'm being carried well' reminds me of the scripture In Isaiah where God says 'I will carry you until you're old, gray haired'. God is intentional about carrying us only if we allow to be carried, allow to take a form of a child rest in our Father's hands knowing He'll take care of us. God is for us 😢😢😢 Thank you so much Kabelo and Sethu for this fruitful discussion. Your vulnerability and transparency is helpful and eye-opening. May God continue to strengthen you both ❤

@hlengiwehadebe_ 5 ай бұрын

It follows you around everywhere 💔 I can attest to this so much. But I’m now braver than I was yesterday cause I know that I’m not in this situation alone. It’s hard, lonely and confusing. I sometimes wonder why me but God has shown Himself in many ways, many many ways. He has provided for me and my son and I’m forever grateful for that. These little humans are truly God’s gift. They teach us so much and they bring out somany emotions 😅😅but they are our purpose to carry on and move forward ❤.

@NomvelisoNtsinde-hi6zf 5 ай бұрын

Based on this evidence, He is still God! Glory to Jesus🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺

@MamorakaPetje 5 ай бұрын

I fully understand what Sethu said about being in the valley and your trying to grasp things and God just comes and says be still. I keep asking him how because it’s so hard 😭😭😭

@dineomoaisi6724 5 ай бұрын

This was so good! God is raising a generation that will bring him Glory 😊and will take zero credit for it. I’m glad that he is doing that through you Kabelo and Mogale🎉

@Khanyisa_Ngxila 5 ай бұрын

This episode has brought so much revelation to me. Man! I'm carried well. ❤ What Sethu did at Awakened! Cannot be forgotten. Maaan, good pain! Yhoooooo!

@kamogelomithi5738 5 ай бұрын

A big round of applause for the good quality sound 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@carolm1738 4 ай бұрын

This has spoken to my life in so many ways, basically just making me aware that my path is normal, Zethu i pray strength and ministry over your life, just to tell your story, your pain is not in vain.

@PORTIAMAKWETU-po7yh 5 ай бұрын

What a heart filled conversation! I love you guys at B.Connect… I pray I make it again this year to the service. I surely had an amazing time being at awakened last year.

@ncumisavellem7662 5 ай бұрын

“I’m carried well “ 😢❤🙏

@dineomoaisi6724 5 ай бұрын

The admission to never consulting with God! Help us Lord❤

@an35e 5 ай бұрын

You’re both so beautiful, inside and out. Thank you for walking in your divine purpose and destiny. It’s so inspiring to see.

@gailmokwatlo 5 ай бұрын

My first encounter of Sethu was her birth story on her channel. Her pace in sharing her story and authenticity have touched me. This generation that God is raising 🙏🏾 God bless you both❤

@HlobeezHive 5 ай бұрын

What a beautiful conversation ❤🌻 B connects is definitely a God move thank you to both of you ladies for your vulnerability may the God Lord continue to use you. And Yes Sethu at Awakened last year was surely Godfluenced🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😇Cannot wait for this year!💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

@amahlebuthelezi6965 4 ай бұрын

Kabelo you are so gorgeous ma'am🥺🔥🔥 Your facial features are to die for, what a beautiful wife Mogale has What a beautiful conversation👏👏👏

@nombusokulati 5 ай бұрын

"I AM CARRIED WELL" A respond I brought me to tears 😭 I appreciate how vulnerable this space was for such to have poured out. May God richly bless you more Kabelo for allowing God to use you as He please❤

@IamThandolwethu 5 ай бұрын

Enjoyed this interview. 😅🙆🏾‍♀️ I’m totes this friend too, but it’s always ALL LOVE. 🙌🏾 And yes, “Restored identity automatically awakens purpose.” 💯

@Princess_Ngokz 5 ай бұрын

Oh Kabelo..you are such a warm soul❤

@nomcebosimelane9434 4 ай бұрын

Sho Kabelo and Serhu, this was so beautiful❤

@reshoketsoemashitisho3681 4 ай бұрын

This was so beautiful. I resonated with Sethu so much. God has called us for such a time as this. Thank you ladies

@phumimthiyane289 5 ай бұрын

God has chosen you and will partner with you powerfully so...Kabelo. Thank you Sethu and Kabelo for empowering us Beautiful conversations 💕

@constancedikgale4421 5 ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉we get spoiled🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤ Powerful house ❤❤❤❤❤oh God sending hugs and love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

Ahhhh what a precious comment!! Thank you ❤❤❤

@NomsLoots 5 ай бұрын

This interview wasn’t even two minutes in and the guest had dragged me by my bottom. Wow wow wow. Surrender requires us to relinquish control yet we hold on waitsi 🤣🤣🤣

@khosipenelope5731 4 ай бұрын

“Restored identity awakens purpose”😭❤️

@hlali_bele 4 ай бұрын

Yoh. It’s past 1am and I am sitting on my bed, watching and taking notes on my notebook. This episode? Whew! Twas’ alot for just 1 episode! Enkosini. Siyabulela 😩❤️

@sandyleputu8258 5 ай бұрын

Mmmmmmh this has really touched parts of me that I was hiding. I just found myself crying too. Thank you for blessing us

@unathimdaka1180 5 ай бұрын

What a beautiful conversation Kabelo, well done ladies. The formative work in those 2years Sethu can never be undone! You will never be the same again! The call on your life is huge...but you know this.❤

@Jubileerivombo1 3 ай бұрын

"You have to be where you are right now" Oh my! Not me thinking that I will listen to this whilst going on with my work. Cos Chile!!! The tears! Surrender is painful. But it is good for us to die to self, so Christ might be revealed.

@nonhlanhlankosi4926 5 ай бұрын

Watched this during my morning devotion. ❤oh it blessed my heart. Thank you ladies

@dineomoaisi6724 5 ай бұрын

Sethu, you heard God and thanks for your obedience for sharing God’s heart with us.

@NthatengMagongoa-cj9lg 5 ай бұрын

Thank you to the Mohales for the beautiful episode, so much wisdom and encouragement. I cant wait to see more of what you have for us ❤

@lindsayndhlovu183 5 ай бұрын

I loved this episode so much! You ladies touched me in so many ways. May you continue doing the Lord's work, we are here for it!!🎉❤

@KhanyiMsibi 5 ай бұрын

What a beautiful and impactful conversation. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. Kabelo, thank you for the work that you are doing. May God continue to guide you and be with you 🙏🏽

@vuyimamaimane2297 5 ай бұрын

Sethu, thank you for sharing, your wisdom is spiritual, Kabelo your such a good interviewer, I salute you, this was just beautiful in all ways, beautiful woman of God

@_faithrestored_ 5 ай бұрын

Thank you both for this, you are doing the Lord’s work. Praise God 🙌🏾

@Jubileerivombo1 3 ай бұрын

As an Author, I know how taxing writing can be, and also the level of vulnerability needed for a book. However, as you write as a believer, the HolySpirit provides revelation and understanding. The HolySpirit will tell you when the book is done and you will feel that release. Family, if God is telling you to write a book, please obey.

@oumah_r6267 5 ай бұрын

What a beautiful interview, your words Kabelo at the end got me in tears. And I could see how Sethu held back tears. Funny how she uses laughter and humor to mask her emotions. But you kept on reaching deeper into her pain and that created a safe space for her vulnerability

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

Ahhh sis! I am so glad this spoke to you. Truly ❤🥹

@baphiwemacanda2733 5 ай бұрын

This was so beautiful. I’ve followed both of you for years and to witness both your journeys, is indeed evidence that God is with you. Sethu God is about to a THING with you sisi, (always has though) it’s all for His Glory. When you meet Him and He says “Well Done”, it will ALL be worth it. Love you ladies so much ❤️🌺

@tilien4963 5 ай бұрын

This conversation was so relatable because I could resonate on how she spoke about taking her and her daughters life. I too was at such a point once and I regard my daughter as my lifeline 😢❤

@ZakaniNgqokotya 5 ай бұрын

Wow I'm so sobbing with this interview....thank you guys for encouraging me in the pain I'm going through ❤

@nonhlebixa2928 5 ай бұрын

What a beautiful Conversation, from these two beautiful, anointed women of God, i feel soo uplifted, i was in such a bad space.. But i thank the Lord for leading me to this podcast i feel soo awakened 🙌❤️

@nosisandlovu801 5 ай бұрын

What a time, ❤❤❤ God is love. Shuu where I am, is exactly where God needs me at. Journey in marriage

@jamesMahlako 4 ай бұрын

I'm the type of a friend as same with ausi Sethu, and it rubs off friendship dynamics in a wrong way.

@tshepisonjikelane2994 5 ай бұрын

Yoh Sethu Babes it’s so beautiful to see and experience your journey with you. You’ve come a long way and you are doing super well. Stay shining, keep on keeping on🙌🏾 it’s my 1st time on this channel, loving the authenticity and spirit filled conversation, as I go check out more 💃🏽😊God is good🤎

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

Welcome sis!! So glad Sethu’s words spoke to you ❤

@faithlebone3675 4 ай бұрын

Yoh. This episode moved my spirit. I needed this

@ntshepisengsekhoto1806 5 ай бұрын

😭 Thank you ladies🙏🏾❤️

@PaliMosilly 5 ай бұрын

Thank you Kabelo for this!! Thank you to Sethu for sharing her story,her experience and God's heart. May I ask that Mogale have a mic next time or maybe if you can repeat the questions he ask for us. He was inaudible. But otherwise such a great conversation. So many gems ❤❤❤

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching! No problem! Noted ❤

@boipeloandsipho 5 ай бұрын

This was such a beautiful conversation. 🌸 Really loved the transparency and vulnerability! Thank you for creating the safe space Kabelo. ❤️

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

My sis ♥️🥹 thank you for tuning in. Honoured ♥️

@namiledlamini8630 5 ай бұрын

Am a new subbie...am so glad i found this space....a beautifull conversation...loved it.

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

Welcome!! 🎉❤

@busimfuku694 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing Sethu. What a powerful testimony. Kabelo you are good dear 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

My absolute pleasure ❤

@nozizwetwala5869 5 ай бұрын

Wow this was definitely powerful and so amazing..im in awe of this episode. I love how God just spoke to me through you guys this was a life changing moment for me. I pray that God increase and bless you guys with things and people you have never imagined..im so blessed, really thank you so much for this.

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

This has warmed our hearts!! ❤❤❤

@nokwakhiwamyataza7223 4 ай бұрын

Very beautiful and empowering conversation ❤ Can we please get a 3rd mic for Mogale so that we too can hear his questions? ❤

@kaykekana9484 5 ай бұрын

Oh wow love you sethu ❤thanks kabelo for this quite inspiring and fulfilling

@khanyimkhize1134 5 ай бұрын

This interview is healed my soul 😭

@boipelomogudi6861 5 ай бұрын

These instructions , especially at the end were for me!!!

@inga_toyi 5 ай бұрын

I swear I’m not crying 🥺❤️🫂powerful house 😍

@HopeMamabolo 5 ай бұрын

1. GOD IS REAL! 2. We serve a wonderful, omnipresent God, aw thank you Jesus! 3. Thank you for an honest conversation. It’s not easy but look at how it happened with such grace. May the Lord increase thle!!!

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

Come on now!!!! ❤❤❤ amazing! Our honour sis

@suenettematras7589 4 ай бұрын

❤❤❤ beautiful conversation 😊

@dadaidzvairo9198 5 ай бұрын

This was beautiful to watch, thank you for sharing ladies

@lulekakalimashe423 5 ай бұрын

Sethu❤❤❤❤🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾What a beautiful conversation from Two beautiful women of God Jesus I say Thank you🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🤍

@thobekavuyiswa878 5 ай бұрын

Shuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu😩🙌🔥Thank you SOOOOOOO much Kabelo and Sethu🥺❤️

@Odwa337 4 ай бұрын

This conversation is everything ❤

@bonniedintlhoane3538 5 ай бұрын

Such a powerful and beautiful interview! I needed this

@enyo3877 5 ай бұрын

Super Excited!🎉

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

Same here Fam!! 🥹♥️

@amanihome7854 5 ай бұрын

The honesty; the transparency; the realness! Ohhhhh the way only way we can heal is to face the truth head on! Sethu I am so proud of you mama 🥹🥺 May God continue to cover you and your precious daughter! May you find healing and may God bless you abundantly 🥺🙏🏽 You have already defeated the enemy! His grip has been loosed! I can’t wait to see what God is gonna do with your life 🥹🤞🏽

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

We all are waiting with anticipation to see what God does through Sethu!! Soo proud of her ❤

@amanihome7854 5 ай бұрын

@@kabello_mohalethe stone that builder rejected will become the chief cornerstone type of testimony 🥺🙏🏽

@joymureithi981 5 ай бұрын

so much love for these conversations from Kenya

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

Soo glad sis ♥️

@Jubileerivombo1 3 ай бұрын

"There are levels of me that had to come out". I thought I am mature with emotional discipline. Then a situation occurred and the pettiness in me came out. Even I was surprised. But it had to come out.

@themouthpiecenetwork 5 ай бұрын

My heartfelt😭Thank you! God bless yáll!

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

Our pleasure ❤

@LethoHali 5 ай бұрын

Thank you ladies! Absolutely beautiful!

@BabsKilili 5 ай бұрын

I see so much of myself in Sethu.

@colleenvanvore2481 5 ай бұрын

This was a beautiful interview. Thank you 🥹❤️

@happym3585 5 ай бұрын

What a lovely episode, thank you ladies 🙏🏻

@OyamaMgojo 5 ай бұрын

I really absolutely loved this episode. What a gem Sethu is and she spoke so much on good relatable pain❤ I wish Mogale's question had been written as a subtitle on the screen because it was not audible at all, I would have loved to hear his question before Sethu responded.

@kabello_mohale 5 ай бұрын

So glad you enjoyed this sis! ♥️ we will note this next time. Just for your sake however, his question was “what did your experiment teach you about love” ♥️