Traditionally back in the old days wedding dresses WERE BLUE. Having a white dress is new

I think I saw that one, it’s a good idea

I loved that one!!

@@samanthayates8812 Yes, I know. Blue symbolised chastity, virginity. The white dress convention started with queen Victoria

Link to that video or maybe how can I search for that video?

Yeah, but then the mom gave the same opinion that the mil did about the red dress when she saw the blush one her on daughter. 🙄

Some mothers forget it's not THEIR day and therefor it's not THEIR dress....

The mom then said exactly what the mil said about the red dress. So why is the show vilifying the mil?

​@@user-hx7mi7ml8u My Mom can say things to me that my mil better never say to me. Some things really depend on who it's coming from but I don't think mil did anything wrong.

Why do they even bring their future mother in law's to take away from their own mother's?

Not really. She was supporting her when it was going against the mil. Momsy said what the mil said about the red dress - that the dress outshone the bride - but the mil became a villain here.

@@sn.m She wasn't trying to change her mind though, the Mum was giving her constructive criticism, the MIL was more concerned about her own opinion and how it would make her son look

The only thing is if you say that there’s no surprise I take she wanted to pop in the red dress to surprise people. Maybe I took it the wrong way. I only had a MOH so I told people not to wear blue so she would stand out.

I would throw in a few other colors to not give up the surprise. Like Don't wear red, pink or purple for example

@@yaritzamiranda921 Yeah! But Also people won't be as dressy as you, and I'm sure they won't shade match. South Asian brides wear all kinds of colours, but they're never outshone by their guests. The accessories and details make the difference.

I've heard wearing red to a wedding means you've slept with the groom. So guests shouldn't wear red. 😮

Totally agree, never agree with MIL from the start, or you'll have to do the same all through the message. I'm always disappointed when brides capitulate. The store should ALWAYS follow the brides requirement but I feel they just fight to make money. That's what they are in business for.

Yes, I absolutely agree.

She’s one of the few brides who has been able to look so stunning on that dress. Of course, she is gorgeous, but that dress was so perfect and beautiful on her.

I agree I’m not sure why they asked it in that moment she clearly was still deciding

Totally agree, the store is far too pushy. Don't like them at all.

@dianapeek6936 You think they are pushy? It is TV show, for God's sake. The drama only helps when, in the end, the bride gets a dress. You seem to confuse the TV show STTTD for real life. The show has producers. The show invites brides from applications and tells the bride who to bring. The show edits and has confessionals. What part of any of that is normal?

That's just the way they edited the episode, to make it seem like the asked twice. They actually just asked the one time, near the end. During the middle when you see them pop the question, they're re-using the same shots.

that's true. my late mum wore red for her wedding and she looked stunning

Yes n in asian weddings guests also too wear red n no bride has ever died from this sorrow that her color is used by other people too. Seems like asians have big hearts in this sense

I'm American, though my daughters do Chinese immersion through school. My youngest just started and my oldest speaks fairly fluent Mandarin. She wants a white gown for her ceremony one day with a change to traditional Chinese wedding wear for her reception. I think it's a beautiful way to honor the culture behind the language she loves.

Yeah it’s common for the bride and the groom in Vietnam to wear red

@@J3llyf12hyNot just Vietnam, but other countries and here in the USA too.

Excellent point!! 💯

Red is very rare so if they knew ahead of time to have some available

@@nbbim2012 they have red in the store. It’s becoming more popular.!!they don’t have a lot of red but I’ve seen about 3 styles.

They’ve been married for a while though, right?

@Jennifer Herold yep! I met them when their daughter was enrolled at my Preschool. I was Baby Queen's PreK teacher! Kara was always so awesome and respectful to everyone at the achool! She really is the absolute nicest person!

@@gomigirlShe seems to be so upbeat, sweet and respectful in top of being so gorgeous. Thanks for sharing your experience.

What happened to the child?

@@leahowlett5525 Keough Bosworth gave birth to McCoy, her second child with husband Kyle Bosworth, on April 6, 2020 at 3:10 a.m., she said in an Instagram post later that month, with their son "weighing in at 11 lbs. and 4 oz., and spanning 21 inches." He died after experiencing "shoulder dystocia and a compressed umbilical cord" during the birth.

@@Jerseygal30 God rest the soul of the poor baby boy.

@@Jerseygal30 That is so sad…. But at least she is still enjoying life.

Tragedy

I think it's fine as long as you tell people to not wear red in the invitations. Maybe even tell them to wear black and white so you can be the star in red

​@@MsJubjubbird it's a great idea tbh

@@MsJubjubbirdI love that idea.

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I really think any bride who gets furious because a guest is wearing the same colour as them is petty af

I wore a dark teal blue dress on my wedding day. The invite informed the guests that blue was the colour of the bridal party. There were guests also wearing blue, but nobody upstaged my dress for sure. (And I didn't mind anyone wearing blue).

@@kanyebreast6072 that’s you but if someone shows up wearing the color of mine, they are leaving.

​@@kanyebreast6072 you apparently haven't seen how some of these petty bitches/attention seekers come dressed to other people's weddings. Some of them come wearing full on bridal gowns of their own. No bride would want that.

Exactly lol I'm like "blush!? Where!?"

Yeah, they make a big deal out of wanting a colorful dress, they they come out in dresses that are barely off white. And then sometimes the family still freaks because it’s not snow white!

Rose wines are either pink or blush, its an accepted description .

Yes I love the Mark Zunino dress.

Wtf chill

​@@bhumika2947 Nope. It's their day, respect their wants, and needs.

agreed i felt so bad for her

I don't envy having to put up with the pushy MIL. YUK.

Such a shame when their other baby boy died from birth complications though

No you don't not this time.

I love blush! My vow renewal dress is blush, I know it's a personal preference but I think it's so flattering for so many people.

@@bec7080 I do, too.

That’s what I was thinking. If she really wanted a red wedding gown she could have shopped boutiques that cater to Asian customers. I’ve altered two Asian wedding gowns and they were gorgeous.

Exactly! But luckily in our culture, we wear 3-4 dresses not just one.

I did not like that at first too but it grew on me.

Yea that was too many mamas and their opinions. I love my mother in law but I would've never had her come with me to look for dresses. Me, her and my mom all have very different styles but knowing them they would've ganged up on me to get the most covered dress ever😂🙂... I had no one with me, not even my bridesmaids and only called my mom after I found my dress. Once she saw it and approved of it I knew it was a great pick.

Battle of the Narcissists

I got a real bitch vibe coming from this bride, especially when she said she wants to dance like a ho. When dressed as a bride I don't think dancing like a ho is appropriate, save it for another time and show some decorum.

@@rachelmm05 Thats exactly what I did. I can't stand these huge groups of usually mouthy women. There should be a limit of say, 2, plus bride and more often that not, the Brides father and certainly NEVER the Groom. They just want their 10 minutes of fame and usually no taste.

Yes it is but we can wear 3-4 dresses and the white dress is only one of them.

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj ???

Yes it is one of the prettiest dresses I have seen on this show.

Or was it what she was standing on? Either way, I heard it, too!

@@lj9608 whichever it was ,it made me giggle 😂

😭😭 istg I was thinking the same thing

The problem with custom is you don't get to try it on before it's made, and obviously you have to put a deposit down before it's made, and you might not even like it. It's a huge commitment.

​@TheGrumpyTurtle plus, I have seen many designers make dresses where I loved the initial drawing and hated the final dress.

It’s probably for their brand so they can get another TV appearance.

@@thehungrygoldfish Well, 🤔 there is custom and there is bespoke. Your point is well taken with respect to custom. I’m copying a definition: “.. the difference between custom and bespoke is that custom is made in a different way from usual, specially to fit one's needs while bespoke is individually or custom made.” A bespoke dress would be a personal design with as many fittings as were required. With her budget, it would definitely be possible. In fact, even as she walked out in the blush one, I was using it as an inspiration for an individual creation in my mind’s eye. I am Not a designer, but I did have the privilege of having a bespoke ball gown many (many!) years ago.

She is from Cali😂what else would you expect.

The dress is beautiful and she looked stunning on this dress.