I feel like the dad in the third* story is lying to his fiancée and her family about his relationships with his kids. The OP is not wrong for not wanting to be around someone who has hurt him and his loved ones.

Third bully story: Here is my resolution what she needs to do is continue her career. If she is getting fame as she claims, she needs to say the truth first. The first chance she gets an interview live she should share her story as an encouraging one. Where she explains the whole story and how she felt saying those things could slightly deter the bullies at the time. I mean everything there was what she was bullied about. Once that happens even if the bully tries it won't work because she has cleared her name to the public. So OP should try this to prevent that from even being blackmail and they need a good support system.

The one with the high-school bully is just tragic. You should not have to live in fear of someone like that

Your Karen voice is an absolute 10/10. I can't help but want to hear more of it everytime haha

For story 2, that father sounds extra horrible because there were definitely TONS of opportunities to look into what classes his kid is taking, but clearly hasn’t.

For the bully story, OP is overthinking this. I know that bullying can affect us for many years, but it's not like her former bullies recently contacted them or threatened to blackmail them. OP is giving themselves a lot of mental stress over nothing.

I love how nice you are to all the people writing the stories. Also, if I were the person in the last story, when the dad says he'll disown them I would've just been like "I don't care, you're nobody to me anyways and I don't want your money."

"I'll gladly work at McDonald's for the rest of my life and possibly be homeless to know that I had you pay for my education that makes me happy after all the years of misery you put me through." Nuff said

Story 2: Finish college first then drop the bomb. Don't let him get a word in edge wise. Inform him that you're your own person and that he is failure as a father for not even supporting your interests. Tell him you're not him and never will be and if you're being happy doesn't fit in to his plans then he can go to Tartarus.

2nd story I can relate, being Asian you are expected to have a university degree, took on so much student loan, when I graduated joined the military for 8 years, was in elite military and my wife during sleep will hear me rambling random military jargons. The good side of military and my degree(economic and finance), after discharge the hr recruiter younger brother was in my unit and I was his nco, what are the odds

The college degree one. In all honesty I would wait until after graduation. If it's the beginning of the semester the dad might pull the funding and OP might either need to find a job or drop out.

Story #2: if I kept getting those calls, I would agree to being the best man, only to royoly fuck up the entire reception. Knocking shit over, being loud and annoying, constantly interrupting rudely. When they confront me, I would say "y'all wanted me here right? Play stupid games, win dumb ass prizes." And then if anyone tries to throw hands, I'm a second degree black belt, so I'm here for the shits lol

For the second story, he should have either quit college then go to work to save up enough for college -OR- he should have taken out student loans. Your education is your business. Your parents have no obligation to pay for your college.

Story 3: your not the jerk. The man isn't your father just the supermarket donor. If he was he would not have left. He's belittled your SO and done nothing to EARN the right of your presence. In fact disown him if it gets to bad. Or better go to the wedding and after signing the guestbook, leave

Good vid like always!

I just found you last night. The advice you gave to the young girl is spot on. We all have something in our past that makes us question why we behaved badly. btw, I'm 62 and you have the wisdom of someone in my age gap. Good luck and I hope you get many more subscribers. Yes, I hit the subscribe button.

The second wedding story : Ugh- good for you- he has walk out FIRST from your life. Don't look for him, that's not the kind of person you want to let your children know in person. All your children need to know is their bio grandpa is a bad guy, and never grow up to be someone like that.

My white uncle threw out a group of racist Uber passengers and left them on the side of the road. Just call him Paxton for now, now He has been working as a driver for about a year now and recently He came across some entitled passengers, a racist Karen and her friends. Once they got in, they said “oh finally we found a normal driver” Paxton just simply shrugged it off and started their ride. But these passengers became more and more disrespectful as the ride went on, asking Paxton if he hated unnormal people. He asked if they meant black and Asian people. They gave him a yes without a doubt, Paxton just pulls over and asks them if they saw him as normal due to him being white and they said yes. So there Paxton gets out of the car and dumps their luggage and they come out screaming at him, “what do you think you’re doing?! Do you know who we are?!” Paxton tells them, “yeah a trio of white supremacists, I don’t tolerate racist passengers so your ride is canceled, so you can find another driver to take your white supremacy punk a**es to your destination” and with that he drives off and a small group of people praised him for putting them in their place. Was my uncle the jerk in this case?

Love ur vids watch them every day and your vids gt better and better by the day

Love it!

Regarding the fourth story; the O.P's dad is lucky his kid is even giving him the time of day.

So I majored in business and regret it. However, a music degree will only realistically allow you to become a teacher. If you are ok to teach do it. If you are one of these people that wants to get a liberal arts degree then work retail or server after college then you’re a fool.

For the actress, Just know that the bullies due grow up and move on with their lives. I bet if I met my bullies today, they wouldn't try to attack me

final story: "he may have been your father but he wasn't your daddy"

If the OP from the bully story is listening, this is the kind of shit people would make fun of the bully more for than be mad at you. It would fall under the same category as "James Gunn was fired over ten year old Tweets, how stupid it that?" Even IF someone decided to fire you over decade old messages from when you were a child, the public would lash out at your employer and pressure them into rehiring you, *because that's an inherently stupid reason to cancel someone.*

Love these vids

Karen: .....but I ain't one to gossip, so you ain't heard it from me. No you haven't. Oh, there go Mrs Jenkins!

The dad getting married one. I feel like the OP isn’t a jerk because if my dad did that, I would not have come too.

Story 4: I was in a similar boat. My mom and bio father were split up before I was born, he only found out his attempt to trap my mom (me) when she was 6 months pregnant. She gave me her maiden name when I was born. And when she married my stepdad around 3/4 years old, I chose to have my last name hyphenated with my mom’s maiden name and my step dad’s last name. When I meant my biological father at the age of 16, he later commented how if it wasn’t for the fact I was a girl and would have my last name changed when I got married, he would have made a bigger fuss about my last name. He is very bitter about it, but I’m very grateful that I never shared a last name with him, knowing what I know and the things he’s done to my mom and me.

These never get old

My ex had my car towed from my property. I called police thinking it was stolen. Then to find out it was towed as a abandoned vehicle. Went to court and she was not held reasonably and I had to pay. She did it again and I took the towing company to court, I lost and had to pay, third time almost happened and I met the tow truck before they towed and told me they were out there and had to charge me $120 or they have to tow police came out because I was strapped and refusing. The police told me, what I was doing was wrong and they towed my car again from my own driveway. Went to court I finally won, belleville towing company had to pay me back and I got a compensated by only 4000. My ex had to pay them for the towing fees. She left me alone and never harassed by her or friends since.

I don't know how many times I've repeated this statement, but entitlement is a disgusting trait. No one personifies that more than the Karen is story 1.

Second story. OP should hold off till after he gets his degree and a job in that career before telling them and ghosting him. OP in that second story might want to get a recording where his dad admits the money if a gift, not a loan. That way he can't try and sue, or if he does, it won't go anywhere.

Story 2: should have just enlisted, there are music units in the military that people can audition for when then enlist. Since the OP can play a musical instrument and was in a band, should be no problem getting in. The OP can just serve till contract is up and go to college with the G.I. Bill afterwards and not bother with the father's close mindedness. Story 4: There is nothing to be afraid of, first of all the OP was a teen then and is now an adult. If this bully try something then just sue that bully for defamation and emotional distress and loss of wages. This is the adult world and these childish antics don't fly here. Bully's relish in causing fear in their victim but they never really grow up and so you must deal with them in an adult manner and let them know that there are consequences to their actions. Story 5: Just tell it to him straight that he was never much of a father to the OP and if he disown him then so be it, it's not like it would make any impact on the OP's life at all.

Second story, the op is the jerk. You lied to get your parents to use their money in ways they expressly did not approve of. I hope your father sues you to get the money they wasted back.

I'd let them finalize pay for my school then tell them you switched major. That way they can't bail on paying for the school tuition

Dads choice of younger girlfriend is disgusting. Don’t go to wedding

I bet that the look on karens face was awesome when you went in your house. And she had to pay tow truck

Story 4 the OP could just say they are most likely forged and show an account with a similar enough name to not be instantly recognized as different and show she hasn't even talked to the bully.

The story running through <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="720">12:00</a> . Tell them that if they continue to call and harass you, that you'll get a restraining order and file a police report for harassment and stalking. Especially if they're finding ways to do this even after you remove them.

For the guy with the bully, if you become famous and she leaks the chats, just like the guy said in the video, you just have to tell the truth and it'll probably be positive publicity for your carrer

i feel bad for the 2nd OP, but its also hilarious that NOBODY has suspected a thing for 3 years

Some people need to realize that just because someone does something nice for you,That does NOT mean it is a valid excuse for them to treat you like garbage and to force you to do something you Do NOT want to do, or CANNOT Do, That Dad Deserved to be indirectly paying for his son's dream Major I hope when He finds out Karma Smacks him in the Face and Gives him a Taste of his own Medicine You HAVE To be the worst parent if your Kid has to lie you to be happy, The DAD IS 100% IN THE WRONG HERE NOT The Son, So unless you know what he's been Through, BACK. THE. FLIP. OFF.

For the OP in the second story, if I was in your shoes, I would just tell him during the final exams.

Man in the second story the dad is in the wrong on every account except for the question at hand. His kid is stealing from him. While I personally think he should pay for his music degree because he has the means to and it’s his child, he did not agree to it and it’s his money…. Toxic piece of garbage? Yes. Being lied to and stolen from? Also yes.

2nd Story: It always amazes me when I see parents demand to go into a certain field with complete ignorance to any field they know nothing about. At a get together I was talking to this mother who had a similar story, and she would go on about how could her son expect to make money with "Music!" as she was flipping through her phone. At the time I worked for one of the largest software developers in the country. I asked her if the apps on her phone make noise, sounds. She looked at me puzzled and said "Yes." I asked "When you're on your computer, does the software make sound and noises?" She nodded. "When you go to websites, do those sometimes have noises and sound?" She nodded again very confused. I said "Who do you think makes those?". She looked utterly confused and just said "Computer people?" I Just responded "I don't know about other places, but the software company I work for hires musicians. We have a few that I occasionally interact with. They know music and sound, because.............others don't. That's why they are hired. And they get paid very well too! Have a big offices and all the works. So I'm not telling you how to interact with your kid, but you said there's no money in knowing music, and I have to say I know a bunch of people that would differ with you on that. The Dad of the 2nd story is a narcissist who thinks he knows everything because of his success and can't see the bubble that he lives within all because it's easier than admitting that there is a lot about the world that he doesn't understand.

Poor guy. His dad pays for his college and he isn't happy with his major. Poor guy. I guess he never looked into declaring music as his MINOR instead of major.

For the OP majoring in music .. Dont say a thing to your dad. Wait till he shows up at your Grad only to find out what you really got a degree in. .. Then go no contact with him

The actress/ author should beat the bullies to the punch and make an official statement about what happened and watch how fast her former bullies apologizes or deny

About the bully one, why would they care. Its been 10 years, what makes you think that she even cares or knows you still exist.

I was bullied by a who was younger than my too. I didn't talk to her and she stopped,you endured a lot of pain there. I know that by experience.

about the dad in the third.story. Marvel put it best when Yondu said "he may be your father boy, but he ain't yer daddy"

That last story Doesn’t matter if he’s biological or not, get that toxicity out of your life! He’s threatening to disown you, when he already did 110% of the work for you to disown him. He’s given every reason to be removed from your life.

Believe it or not, in most places, you can't block YOUR OWN driveway.

not to condone violence, but for the bully they wont bully you again if you make them swallow their teeth. Food for thought

My great grandparents were 25 years apart but luckily my great grandfather didn’t start dating her when she was 18 (as far as I know) and keep in mind it was a different time and long ago 😅 They really loved each other and though I never met them my mother describes them to be very sweet and kind. Actually my great grandfather died and then 25 years later my great grandmother died at the same age

Story one: it is so easy to not be a Karen, and still be a considerate person: just ask. Otherwise, simply assume the person who is blocking a driveway either lives there, or has permission to block it.

Don’t listen to him, block him. Tell him the same way he treated you.

Happy Labor Day

Number two dad was absolutely right for not wanting his kid to get an absolutely worthless degree now the kids just wasted his money

Story 2:So, does anyone else want to bet that the homophobic father is closeted?

The way they describe the dad in the last one I’m shocked he’s upset about the name change bc I was positive he didn’t even know the op’s birth name.

The dad post, I would give the other family a test, tell him that one member of that young wife’s family is gay, and see if he’ll leave that family too. Chances are he will.

i live in France, I worked at mcDonald this summer, and it was actually really fun, of course it was much more difficult during rushes, but it was a really good experience, it's not as bad as everyone says ( maybe was it the only good mcDonald ? )

What she believed you you lived there and didn't try to stop you and call the police saying you're breaking in? Must be a Karen in training because that's a rookie mistake.

the study guy's dad is horrible, but that dad, barely legal lover/racist/homophobe? really you got the trifecta!

For the last girl, Facebook does have a way to download the cache of everything you’ve sent through messenger. I would suggest doing that and going through everything and keeping it as a backup just in case the bully does try shit.

Don’t tell them but don’t go to work for him either.

Music major story - I knew a ggirl in college with a similar story. She wanted to major in education and be a teacher. Her parents wanted her to major in economics. They alsoad a golden child who got everything and she got nothing until she agreed to major in economics. She got away with it until final semester. she was too good in her classes and was going to graduate with high honors. she couldn't hide it. Her parents found out. she got cut off. We as friends were able to come up with most of the money for her final semester and she only had a small loan for the rest. However, the day of graduation, she was served with papers. Her parents sued her for fraud and decetion. They intiionally made it the day of graduation. she was served the moment graduation was over. Fast forward nine months later and her parents actually WON the damn case. She had to payback everything to her parents plus damages. Overall, she had to pay back over $65,000. - The OP in that story better be prepared because I won't put it past the father to sue him for their money back.

Yep, the dude who didn't tell his parents about changing his major is the jerk. His dad may have started out as the a-hole, but also the kid didn't have to take his money. The moment he started lying he became the jerk.

After a while he finally made it past the big rainbow part

I feel like the Bully story OP should’ve told her parents or the school about this because dude. This isn’t bullying anymore it turned into HARASSMENT when they started following you home. I honestly would’ve confronted her at school and tell the teacher too. But since this was 10 years ago just forget about it. You were kids!? Unless you committed murder or SA or law breaking things you’re fine you were standing up to people who were harassing you to the point of tears. I would tell this story out in the public and ask her by name what did you do to make her hate you so much as kids and why did you think harassing someone was ok? Tell people that when you get the chance and continue your career. Bullies and people who harasses others thrive on silence.

So, because the father committed adultery, the mother can steal his child away and move to a different country, where he doesn’t get to see her really at all ever? This sounds like a selfish mother who never thought anything about her child only herself and how she was butt hurt over her husband cheating on her. She never once thought about the child at all. Otherwise she would’ve stayed in country that way he could at least see her on a regular basis. I’m surprised the government even allowed it.

Story one just radiates northern english energy

Bully story - just use a nom de plume!

That's messed up about the daughter and biological dad. Honestly I have fears my daughter will grow away and not talk to me. From a little toddler to the age of 9 she was always talking to me about anything and everything asking questions we could sit and talk all day, play and watch a little a TV together. We would make dinner together I taught her how to cook, introduce her to new foods that many are a comfort food for her now. I was always trying to show her or teach her something new, go out in nature to the water and watch the fish in the pond an creek. Took her to her very first time to the circus, getting involved as I possibly could without my ex wife making some accusations or flipping out. And I was also trying to get disability because of physical problems with my back, knee and feed. I ended up homeless for 10 months,and when it happened I was proactive connected on the phone with my ex and explain everything and was like I think it's best to shorten time with our daughter because I didn't have any place but I could spend time with her at the park or library for a couple hours on my Monday and hold my weekend time for the moment till I'm on my feet. Three weeks later I get a letter taking me to court with false allegations of abandonment and neglect, not feeding her, forcing her to do things she didn't like as well as being afraid of me. All of which not true exactly the opposite. And totally contrary to the relationship we had at that point. The judge said let's give dad time to get on his feet on issue of child support, but said I could see my daughter under supervision only, and my ex got her self made the supervisor and would make her self an active participant to our visits not just sit and watch, and knowing I have physical impairments and no income trying to get my disability approved would start having visits miles away from a short distance I could easily make, I'd have to force myself to walk between 5 to 12 miles or pan handle or barrow money from ppl I knew just to catch a bus that would get me a mile or two closer ever visit for only two hours time. Then after three months she decided she no longer wants to be the supervisor and gets my visits terminated until I can have a third party by DCFS do supervision at a DCFS facility. An they kept ignoring my calls to set it up from 2016 to partly in to 2017. I was ordered to return to work or go to jail,after providing all my medical records to the judge and that I'm in the middle of trying to get my disability. Judge said I've seen you sit in the pews and come up to the bench I think you can work and he didn't even really look at the medical records I was told to get him to review and he doesn't even do disability cases. After a total of ten months homeless I was able to get a job and a place but still had no luck getting visiting set up so I went to court to see if I may persue private business third party supervision an not DCFS I was told only if my ex agrees on the place too. I researched for months made calls daily and narrowed everyone every place in a 50 Mike radius to four candidate and my ex wife took her time finally agreed to one that I really liked. But I ended up missing two years of my daughters life but I was afraid my ex would take advantage of some rules and stick me with excessive bills so I had it put in that she has to pay for any visit she cancelled early and not me and that my daughter would have control on when we move from visiting at the private party location to my place. I have no idea of anything my ex may have said and filled out daughter's head with as my ex never liked the close relationship I had with our daughter, and my ex always did passive aggressive mind games in our relationship and several times apart over visits. I've gotten to see my daughter now for four years but only at the counselors office, I've asked a few time if she'd like to do some visits back and forth and integrate to at my place slowly and I've had no success, in the beginning seeing her again it was awkward and tense and if her mom was brought up and I'd have to say that i was doing what I could with what her mom had done she get defensive for her mom. But she's loosen up a lot but still not coming to the apartment. She'd get excited about an idea of doing something with just my gf and then two weeks later she would back off from it after loving the idea. And my gf is thinking my ex is poisoning my daughter against me and my GF. And I just say all I can do is be there be there for her every visit and you when you come with just be there for her, listen talk play one games, show interest in her and her life and at the same time talk to her about what she wants, talk to her about life, school friends and if she is comfortable relationship with a boy. But in the back of my mind I'm still afraid be given her her own phone with a free WiFi text/call app and very rarely hear from her and ex has rules about no electronics during times of the day, and my ex messed with and changed the number several times and now has me using discoord to communicate with my daughter outside of visits and I really don't hear anything still and I know she's a teenager I'm old and boring she's going to wanna be with her friends etc and when she gets a car and or us 18 she can come see me any day or time on her own but I'm still scared I feel like there's more I could or should be doing but then I don't want to make her uncomfortable I want her to come to me knowing I'm here.

Dad who walked out on you doesn’t deserve to be in your life.don’t judge your children just love them. And dads choice of girlfriend is disgusting

Let her lie about you and sue her for defamation.

Story 2. You and your father are both wrong. You need to man up and tell your parents

I was bullied the same way in 2012 up till 2014

18 year olds are capable of choosing who to be with

I am sorry that you have had to go through this but truthfully you are not your father. You are his son and as a mother of three I let my children make there own choices in what they wanted to do. You need to tell your dad but tell him that you love your parents and you hope they understand that you are now walking in your own shoes. Good luck with your future.

For the last story you did the right thing by not including your father in that decision. And good job for changing your name m8

3rd story: I would go only to screw the wedding up and then block them all and change a few things so they can’t find me( also this is happening to me only that I don’t have siblings and I’m younger but I didn’t want to show up because it was halfway across the country)

For the second story I suggest packing your shit, hiding it at a friends and then telling them by having them see you walk across as a music major

i get the feeling that am i a jerk is a jerk on accident irl

Story 3: hang on, so the dad’s partner’s family got OP’s phone number and was using it to call him a jerk? I feel like that’s legally considered harassment, no? Anyways NTJ

The second story confused me because they said they lived there for 30 years but then they said they lived there over 30 years

Well, it would be unusual for me as a moderately hearing impaired student to be bullied by deaf students.

Fun Fact:At my school i kinda have bullys but when we go look at the description of bully you can see my "bully's" are not bully's+I don't have them now.

"..... working at McDonald's..." AS IF they have no district mangers or anything!! Hahahaha the former head of Xerox (Art Maddox) worked at McDonald's first. His father said he'd never be anything. He became rich. And he was the first openly gay something -a rather police commissioner of L.A.

If a bully younger than me try to punch me I I would punch them 10 times harder

If you're willing to cut him out of your life I wouldn't exactly stress out about it because if he didn't seem to care about what you wanted to do for the rest of your life why should you care what he thinks

The first story of the op has a very good insult about the karen

When she walked up did she ask him anything or just assume the entire time?

Story 3 about the homophobic dad: Straight up tell him and his new family "If he was allowed to walk out on my siblings and me, I have all the right in the world to walk out on him. Hope if you have kids none of them are gay because then he'll have walked out on 2 families" word for word. That should shut those pricks up. That and mention something about the near 3x age gap and how that is actually creepy compared to LGBT people but you can have a little creativity with that.

Nice to see that society has gotten so messed up that we congratulate and defend people stealing 10’s of thousands of dollars

You know what I would’ve done I would’ve went to the wedding just to crash it! not in anything that would cost me any actual money, but I would behave very poorly. I would fart and burp in peoples faces. I would spill wine on the tux of my dad. I would interrupt the wedding ceremony, and I will try to trip the bride or the groom when they walk down the aisle. Then make it look like an accident when the wedding cake gets destroyed. and then when they call me out on it I would just simply say well you wanted me to come to the wedding didn’t you?

For that 3rd story, depending on her birthday, she may not even have been 18 yet when they got together. She may very well have been 17 when they started 'dating' and turned 18 later that year. Either that family is super screwed up in the head or he did some heavy manipulation. Her family was backing him up and harassing his kid. At no point does it seem that they -questioned the age gap -question that he was married and cheating -question his racism -question his reasons for leaving his previous marriage This man had to do some heavy manipulation or found a very easy and quite frankly equally messed in the head family.

hes still your dad but for a dad to be a father is more then having blood relation