" I think liking 9 groups is too much " **laughs in stanning 1029381919282 groups**

"When fans fight, I don't know which side to be on," Multifandom mood.

EXO always teach exol to be humble. "If you're not good at studying, don't even think about liking me. Exo may seem like the most important thing in the world to you right now, but in a few years, you'll regret it. Focus more on your studies than us and meet us again proudly in the future. " -Kai "Don't buy many albums,just buy padding coat instead " -Baekhyun If u r a real-aeri,you'll know it. Baby!Just try to be balance your kpopper life and personal life. This is the solution that every mature-exol used.

I wish EXO were there so they could give her life advices. EXO always tells their fans to study, go to school and buy food and things for themselves rather than spending it on their albums or merchs.

"She's a loner at school " please understand her issue So kpop groups calms her down I understand

*her in the future* her BF: do you love me? her: of course! her BF: more then your idol groups? her: *know your limits*

Being a die hard fan is fine, stanning 9 groups is fine. But you need to balance your fangirling/fanboying life and your real life...Its okay to watch their videos, but there should be a limit. Spend time with your family and friends too before its too late. Its okay to buy albums, you can buy a whole album factory if its your own earned money but please be a little considerate if you are spending your parents money because they work so hard everyday to earn it and provide for your living. Please respect and be kind to your parents and elders, their hearts hurt watching you disobeying and being rude to them for petty reasons, and my heart hurts for those parents.

EXO is literally my inspiration to study, I can never forget them insisting us to study and work hard. People need to make idols as a strength rather than a weakness. This could also be the greatest gift you give them.

Mother: “She doesn’t sleep. Sometimes she’ll be up until 2 or 3 in the morning watching them” Me: *I’m TOTALLY not doing the exact same thing right now*

this is literally depression though???? she doesnt eat, doesnt shower, is sad and stressed because of her situation in school... this is so much deeper and concerning than being a crazy fan wtf!!!!!

This is actually a serious topic how young generation obsessed for their idols. There is nothing wrong to be a fan but there is a limit in everything.

she should listen clearly what exo oppa say and must follow it. suho: it ia imp to be an successful adult; so we have to study D.O: stay calm and walk slowly so you do not miss any information. xiumin: keep your surrounding and yourself clean. chen: do not regret you own choices baekhyun: try to be a mood maker and to be on first place kai: do ultimate what you started. chanyeol: do not sit untill you get what you want. Try again and again sehun: take care of your health and look AND DO NOT TAKE THESE HYUNGS TOO MUCH SERIOUSLY BUT HEAR THEM lay: stay forward and ask if didn't understood. ot9 i miss you, sarangae

Am i stupid or did they miss the whole point of everything the girl just said? She’s not sad and gloomy BECAUSE of idol groups, she’s sad and gloomy because she’s in a bad place and idol groups help her out, she’s just gone too far. its definitely more of a concern about the family and her school life, and less about the idol groups honestly.

She lashes out on her family because she’s in the midst of dealing with her stress, she’s facing a battle by herself and she finds comfort in her idols. She pushes people away and scold them because the people who’ve made her feel better are very valuable to her, she feels that her idols are the one who understands what she’s going through. I hope this is resolved by now though

Even as a Korean, I never understood Korean fanculture of wanting to date or marry the celebrity you like. they are there to make my days feel better and I am there for them to support them as good people how I can, but my life is mine and their life is theirs, and i don’t expect anything more than this. I wish Korea would stop normalizing such fanatical tendencies, because a singer does not equal your doll.

EXO’s member always say “You’ll regret” when fan tell them about not studying just to watch them. They said “If i told you dont truant, wont you? But if you still being truant, you will regret a lot” D.O. said: “I wont let myself be blindfolded by familiar things to end with losing precious things” And many many things they have said, i hope that EXO-L will never forget that. Kpop’s fan need to balance between idols and your real life!

The girl suggested her mother to listen nosedive by chen and dynamic Duo which is a song about depression and struggles. She wants her mother to feel her struggle through that song. I feel so bad for her I hope she finds happiness

Is this mild depression? -doesn’t eat -lack of hygiene -doesn’t come out of room -using something as a coping mechanism (K-pop) -irritability EDIT: Also while reading the reply’s, I just want to say, please don’t diagnose yourself with depression with just a comment I made. If you think you have depression, and if you can, please ask for a professional. This comment I made was just a prediction of a bigger problem that she has than what they say as “died heart” fan. Please don’t diagnose yourself over a youtube comment I made, if you really think you have depression PLEASE get a real diagnose from a professional. I will be certain to ya’ll that I AM NOT A PROFESSIONAL ANY WAY SHAPE OF FORM.

I don't know about other groups , but if you are an EXO-l , you should study hard or work hard for what you want to do in your life , thats what EXO taught us , and they even don't tell us to buy their albums , because they know not everyone can buy every album of theirs so they tell us to buy something good to eat or some warm clothes to wear. And thats why I stan them. Most of the EXO-ls do the same , we chase our dreams and grow with our precious boys. Don't you agree EXO-ls ?

I came here because I saw D.O but then😭❤️✊

The problem is how she treats her family, not how many groups she likes. I mean i aslo like many groups but im still treating my family good

THE TITLE SOUNDS LIKE THE MAJORITY OF INTERNATIONAL KPOP FANS HAHA

I can understand her. EXO became my depression reliever when i have no one to hold on to. Idols can really help thier fans become more energetic and lively.

I saw D.O i read 9 idols I clicked at the speed of My LOVE FOR EXO

"Don't buy our albums Eri-ah. Just buy padded jacket." -Baekhyun "Eri-ah,buy our albums just ones. One person,one albums. Got it? Ne~" -Sehun

The real concern is she does not know who is 2PM....

'I'm always by myself when I'm at school' Big relate.

I was like her then but EXO helps me to stand by my own. They help me to conquered my anxieties. And I'm really hoping to see them in future and yes I was Grade 7 when I'm starting to know them and now I'm second year college taking education and yeah this is one of my dream to see them and thanks them for helping me...🥰😳

I think it's a concern that she spends $200-300 a month on those groups .That's up to $3600/year. That's a lot of money for a 9th grader.

"when fans fight, i don't know who to side" -every multifandom

MEANWHILE EXO ALWAYS TELLS US TO STUDY HARD😂

Stanning a lot of group is not a problem, the problem is when you become like her. Forgetting family birthday date, being rude and angry for just a simple reason

“I hope idol won’t get a refrigerator advertise.” BTS: Car advertise

if stanning 9 groups or more is a 'concern' then i think we should ALL be on this show ✨

I remember a fan commented in Sehun and Chanyeol's live. She said, "I am watching you while reviewing for my exams". The two immediately reacted and said, "You have to study first" and they even bluntly said, "Go offline. Now.". And even waited for that fan to disappear from the viewers. They spent some time waiting for her repeatedly saying, "Pls log out". ❣️

2:07 Me: laughs in EXO-L, NCTzen, STAY, and 99+ others

“There are many people that is worse than I am” maybe she’s talking abt sasaeng

Why is everyone in the comments saying how many groups they like? The issue was that she was so ostracised and bullied at school she developed an unhealthy obsession with idols. She lashed out at her family, wouldn’t leave her room, stopped going to school and spent massive amounts of money. They didn’t even ask her stop stop liking groups, just to try going to school and trust her family. Did any of you watch the video?

This girl probably stans Stray Kids now, I think she would like skz's songs.

Man: When a child is a die-hard fan of something, she can relieve stress through that Me: Thank you

The older sister just... fucking gets it. She knows that they've been lacking as a family and that her sis needed love and respect. The girl's family has been ignoring her because she's been ignoring them too, but she just needed someone to reach out and make her feel loved. Especially at that age, kids needs to form social relationships and her situation has made it hard for her. Normally, her family should have encouraged her to go out and make some friends while supporting her and making her feel enough. But they didn't. She's depressed from the lack of good family relationship and lack of social life. She used the idols as her avenue to release her sadness and aggresiveness towards herself and family. When the older sister said that they should've been there for her, I feel so relieved because finally, some one in this show accepted her.

we don't replace oppa we collect them .

I wish they call exo so that she will be given some advice.

I guess all the kpop stans can agree how big of an issue is this. We all have struggles to deal with and hardships we've been through each day. These idols just happen to appear in our life to cheer us up in hard situation. Why we can relate? A fandom is a family, they cherish you and support you. After all we have this kind of bond where we never met each other but have a lot to talk about. We have a lot in common as we stan the same group. So, being a kpop stan can really relieve your stress out. To those who have been in this condition shoul know well. As for me, I'm growing up along with Exo as my ult, forever will be. She might love Exo as much as I am so I know how it feels. When we're so down and have no motivation, we watched their videos to keep our spirit up. They are like a charger for us. Once you get into their fandom, you'll never walk alone. That's why, being a die-hard fan became our choice. And as for stanning more than one group. You can't blame her tho. As an Exo-L, we barely get contents and when they've a comeback SM gave them minimum promotions so we dive into another groups for more contents. Not to mention that I'm also a blink, sone, once, nctzen, army and shawol. It's impossible to stan only one group. Lastly, for the girl. I truly can understand what you're going through. It's not a crime but if you really love those idols, study hard and be a successful person. You surely know how much Exo want their fans to prioritize our studies above all. Be a better version of you. Be a fan that the idols can be proud of. As an Exo-L, remember when Exo said "let's meet when we are both successful" prove how much they want you to be a great person. So that they can proudly tell everyone that you're their fan. Stay strong and study hard. "whenever it gets hard, remember the beautiful us" -Kim Jun Myeon

Solution: Stan NCT, they're one group and multiple groups at the same time + they keep adding so you won't get bored.

the problem is not with the number of groups she stans, but the way she behaves with her family because of this hobby and the amount of money she spends from the family budget! i stan more than 9 groups yet i can still respect my fam and i earn my money if i want to spend it on something kpop related

i only stan exo i do not hear anyone else sometimes famous songs but only 1 or 2 times.

I just stan EXO from 2014-2021😂😂😂😂😂

Kid: *is depressed* Parents: *takes their phone away* This is the worst move a parent can do. You don't just go in there, take their phone and expect them to open up to you and be happy.

I legit cried when she said she’s always alone at school cause I relate to that so much. It hurts so bad when you’re all alone

I think the best thing to do is trying to interact with her about stuff that she likes. If she likes idol then try to interact with them about their idols. A lot of teens would love to talk about what they like to others.

he yo I am also a fan of EXO I am EXO-L since I know EXO my life has changed I can be more excited, I used to be a difficult person to like other people, but when I'm with him I feel there is happiness in my life, enough for me, but happiness together with your parents and siblings is more important so don't ever waste valuable time with your parents and siblings

sHe'S a FaN oF nInE gRoUPs _me in the background:_ *coughs* amateur. I'm a fan of 50+

I'm a huge fan of many groups that I can't even count and I don't use money on them because I'm too broke :')

When Chansung said they were popular 10 years ago, it hurt me for some reason 😂 because I literally grew up with them. 2PM was the last idol group before I stan EXO.

Her: *stans 9 groups * *sister takes her to counseling * Me: *stans 14 groups * 👁👄👁 ummm what now?

*It's a way she copes with depression and anxiety. This isn't just a light subject regarding how many groups she stans, it's WHY she decided to close herself and become obsessed with these idols. I think what really convinced me was when she recommended Nosedive. If you guys know the lyrics, you'd know what I'm talking about. I hope she finds a way to interact with others and find happiness from other things.*

the problem is not about stanning an idol group, the problem is she give up study so that she can learn about idol group, and she spent most of her mom money to buy album.

MC: Do you know Chansung? Girl: No, I don't Chansung be like: This happened 'again & again'

When she said that she would introduce SEVENTEEN's Seungkwan, I can assure that she is also learning and getting inspired by these idols. Her problem isn't just a problem of being a fan of 9 idol groups but is more than that. I wish that she really built up her confidence and is happy now.

the difference is in south korea people usually stan 1 or 2 groups while international fans stans 10+ bc we don't stan the way KOREANS stan and not everyone in Korea can spend money on stuff like that to go to fansigns. you usually have to buy 50+ albums in order for you to get a chance in the event. if your stanning exo or popular groups you probably will buy +100 albums to attended it. i think this is why the issue came out and it's pretty serious. i myself have been into a korea and stay there like more than 3 months and based from my observation they rarely stan a lot of groups. as an example, fansites will only focus on 1 group only. the culture is very different at there, they will only stan less than two groups and mostly the fansites or hardcore fans will bought like a lot of albums to enter the fansign or to collect the photocards and guess what happen after that? they will just throw the album near the trash or put it in a box for people to take it for free without the photocards. they really wasting their money on something like that and what is worst i don't even know how can a highschool students got a lot of money to buy all of the albums and merchandise. i remember, during my stay in south korea for about 3 months, i gained like 30+ albums from different group just for free because of this.

To me it seems like her eldest sister is the only one who understands her -.- She's not doing well socially and tries to make up for a lack of connections she has with 'real' people by obsessing over idols. Spending so much time on idols is drawing her further away from social life and family to the point where she's scared of being hurt by everyone and *she feels like she can't trust anyone but her idols.* It's a devil's cycle. And both she and the family should work hard to break it together!

The groups i stan (including girl groups): -BTS -Twice -Seventeen - Treasure -the boyz -cravity -itzy -Blackpink -Mamamoo -EXO -Enhypen - stray kidz - Got 7 - wanna one - Superm - Astro - Red velvet - Pentagon - EXID - Nct - G Friend - txt - ateez - Bigbang - Iz*one - Apink - Winner - Wonder girls - Block b +I land is comin like wadafukkk How i sing their songs oh my my how you like that its the love shot yes or yes i wanna know know know i don't jopping diggin in i want nobody nobody but you fantastic baby hihihi hip i can't type any more im tired HAHHAHAHHA

the real issue i think is her passive attitude...introverted bcuz of being mistreated by classmates since young...her devotion for kpop groups is juz a way for her to get away from stress or negative thought...

I dont understand those who proudly said "i StAn MoRe GrOuPs",y'all watch the full vid or not ? This girl suffer from depression and i can relate so much. By the way,just look at how happy she were while talking about idol group For you all lazy ass,here it is 16:38

I understand how the girl feels, I was and still am into kpop and anime because those things help me escape from reality, I was not well-treated at school and hated going so much, I hated studying too and just wanted everything to be over! My dad wasn't understanding of that sadly but luckily my mom was, she bought me albums and mangas, and even listened to kpop songs and watched anime with me sometimes. She encouraged me to keep going and moving forward and promised me that she'll let me do whatever I want after I finish my high school education. My mom's presence and understanding made me feel so much better! But thanks to my hobbies, I discovered that I have more artistic skills and got into an art school after my hardships, now I'm happy and feel like I've found my path! It's totally normal for a teenager to act that way, both her and her family must make efforts to talk things out and be loving towards each other!!

Idols were formed to be an "inspiration" and NOT as an obsession.

Am i the only one thinking what would have happend if one of her fav group members were on the show??

Just the fact that she recommended Nosedive to her mom, shows how hurt and sad she is inside. She clearly feels rejected and lonely. Nosedive is probably a song she can relate to and helps her get through the hardships she is facing. Her “problem” is much deeper than stanning 9 groups. She needs the help and support of her family

The problem is when it comes to smtown,, beyond concert,, comeback each of them at the same times.. I'm die.. Multifandom irony

Looool awww Chansung. FWIW I'm a 2pm stan, I still remember all the fanchants.

My multifandom ass is laughing and crying at the same time because I stan more groups but don't have enough money to buy anything:")

“Sometimes she’ll be up until 2 or 3 am” Me: hiiii.... its 6 am now.. i feel great🙃😂

I love Exo so much 😂😂... Lots of love from India Exo saranghaja 😂...but to be honest Exo motivates a lot to achieve our goals ..they give out kinda good and perseverance vibes... they're really a perfect group

The real concern is not because she stan 9 groups, it's because she's a *hardcore* stan and is *addicted* to them. If you stan over 10 or 20 groups but you *don't* know *everything about them* , it's not a concern.

When she said “When fans fight I don’t know which side to be on” I felt that I wish fan wars stop it’s so hectic

Me: 9 groups is too much? Uhhh let's see who I stan... STRAY KIDS BTS MONSTA X NCT ASTRO PENTAGON TWICE APINK BLACKPINK RED VELVET EVERGLOW GFRIEND INFINITE MAMAMOO BIG BANG GOT7 EXO TXT MOMOLAND SATURDAY THE BOYZ SEVENTEEN ATEEZ DAY6 ONEUS CLC CHERRY BULLET DREAMCATCHER EXID (G)I-DLE FROMIS_9 ITZY IZ*ONE IKON VIXX WANNA ONE *uhhh that's 36*

I'm also like this, but I only stan BTS and TXT as for now, I started stanning them when I had a problem with my family, I had anxiety and depression through out the year, but liking and discovering those idols was my happy pill, and they gave me a reason to smile everyday. Most of the people say that they don't care for their fans, but for me, its the opposite, their songs comforts me, and makes me happy, that's why I like them.

This reminds me of myself around 2009 when I first know about kpop. I was so obsessed about the group I liked and being sensitive about it. Now that I am in middle of 20s, I just casually listen to the group I like. To tell the truth, it is not healthy at first. Then I slowly tone down because of studies.

i really like the older sister. she saw through right away that the problem wasn't with the groups but that she needed more support. Good older sister!!! overall i like that they didn't make the entire problem about her but encouraging more communication in the family all together!

now bts have a Hyundai ad is she gonna buy a car

Literally me stanning more than 10 group ahahahha🤣

I listen to kpop, i like some idol but i just like OH THEY'RE SO GOOD, that's all. I don't try to find out everything about idol, they're just strangers. I spend my time and money for my life, my family, and when i want to relax, i watch them. Maybe someday in the future when i get more money, i will buy something to stan idol but that thing must be useful for me like food, car, lipstick, make up products... No more.

I'm a simple girl. I see D.O in the thumbnail, I click.

i stan more than 10 groups but im still sane

i feel her. school is hard, life is hard but EXO is the on that always cheer me up. EXO is the one who always give me encourage to study well so that i can buy their merch and meet them later. EXO itself always tell eri (exol) not to buy their albums but buy some coat and food instead. i just want to say thankyou exo for exist

you can clearly tell she most likely has depression. this is exactly how i felt like, i found comfort in things and would lash out at my family, i would isolate myself and not taking showers for long periods of time or eat. after a while my mom took me for a checkup and ended up getting diagnosed with depression and anxiety. the girl is clearly going through something, but at the same time she has an unhealthy obsession which is not ok either.

just because you stan more groups than her, remember this, she buys every single merch from all those 9 groups!! all the albums and sht. Buying all the stuff from one group is already hard enough, but 9, that's too much. So we basically don't care how many groups you stan when you only focus on a few like me, while this girl focuses on all of them.

Obviously, there is nothing wrong with being a fan of multiple idol groups. That is not the issue. It's that she spends all of her time in her room, doesn't want to go to school, and mistreats her family. I can relate to her on some level, though. I'm very introverted and don't have many friends, so listening to music and watching videos of my favorite artists are an escape for me. It is also hard for me to focus on my schoolwork and take care of myself because of my anxiety and depression. I don't think it's right that she takes her anger and frustration out on her family, but I can understand why she does it. She becomes upset whenever someone tries to interfere with her interest of idol groups because they are the only source of her happiness. However, she should realize that her biases wouldn't want her to be living like this. I hope that she will receive more help and eventually become confident in herself.

I cry while watching this. I also listen to kpop songs whenever I feel sad and I hated to go to school too because I was always alone.

"When fans fight, I don't know which side to be on," - girl I can totally relate 😢

"she's is in love with too many groups" Me in the corner of my room: "tsk whatever don't worry the boyz astro nct Loona stray kids VAV KNK red velvet twice bts Blackpink izone kitty girls target ateez 2pm sf9 wanna one cix ab6ix X1 exo shinee super m itzy day6 seventeen got7 oneus pentagon btob monsta x somi sunmi chungha hyuna txt ikon kard nu'est g idle clc everglow super junior Mamamoo momoland ngr vixx gfriend apink infinite exid fromis_9 saturday cherry bullet dreamcatcher AOA and boyfriend they're just jealous.."

Chansung's face when she said she don't know him...poor maknae😅

If Stanning 9 groups is a concern , then my whole family will send a concern for loving all the kpop groups

I got comfort from idol groups when I am all alone at home doing everything alone, and I'm having my dinner alone just to think that someone is there

The girl: *Stanning 9 groups* Them: * saying 9 groups is too much* Me: * Stanning more than 20 groups choking while watching*

At first I was really put off by her aggressive behavior towards her family, but after finding out about her unhappy school life, I just felt so bad for her. Having no friends even in just one class is bad enough, but the fact that her whole school practically ostracized her would be pretty traumatizing and confidence-shattering. I would wanna be her friend she seems like she isn’t actually a bad person :(

Nosedive by Chen and Dynamic duo is a healing song,it really help me when i had bad day

Nosedive is great song to introduce to mother 💖 chen's vocal ✨

the idols are not the problem here, its obviously her mental health. I know that because I feel the exact same way... I watch bts videos all the time because my family situation is kinda toxic, so watching them takes my mind off the worries and makes me happy, same thing with the school: I skipped many days because I felt too depressed to go and the only thing that would make me feel better is bts so I stayed home watching them.. the parents think she's skipping school to watch them when she's skipping school AND watching them.. And the way she's possessive over her albums and posters is also understandable.. she payed lots of money for that and she probably knows that if they get damaged her parents won't let her buy a new version so.... TLDR; shes using these idols as a form of escape from her life and because of that she gets very emotional and stressed if her family tries to do something about it bc they would be taking away her "escape" in a way