Giiirll where did you get that first set of lashes you had on?!?😍😮‍💨✨you have such a beautiful face & stunning features, it’s crazzzyyy girl😍💕

Please watch love is blind japan

Please where is this wig from🙏

Kennie: "They're actually turning six years old" my immediate thought: "I've been listening to Raycon ads for six years?" All the same, thank you for the hour-and-a-half blessing! Immaculate as always.

@ThatGreatnessyou’re a nobody please relax

YES lol. And JP is the type to get a female waitress that wears makeup and “jokingly” say “wow, I hope I don't a fake eyelash in my food 🤪”

Both of these comments made me react violently- great job 🤝

I'm gagging 💀😭😂

Uche would leave one of those fake $20 bills that when you open it up it's just promotion for his "real talk" podcast with some corny-ass phrase like "The real wealth is knowledge"

the visceral scream i just let out..

That was expressed so well. You’re 100% right.

Facts

RIGHT

IM SO GLAD SHE LEFT HIM!!!

I don't think he liked that Taylor had vocal cords either, so there's that too.

Not even a year ago😂 The math just doesn't back up his boldfaced lie

He did say that he was never in a committed relationship with Lydia, and she ONLY said he cheated on her after gushing about what a wonderful person he was and telling Aaliyah that he would treat her well. Why would she say that AND on top of that try to get back with him as soon as they were in the pods together? It doesn’t make any sense.

Trusting what Lydia says is the equivalent of believing "Trust me bro"

@@Peanut_taco_muffin Honestly I think they're both liars, but moreso Uche. He seems very manipulative whereas Lydia just seems to lie to fit in wherever she can. Both are weird😂

@@Peanut_taco_muffin didn't he also say good things about Lydia before saying terrible things about her?

Ikr the double standard 🙄

Yeah they say "all natural" but really it's they prefer the no makeup look with minimal makeup.

Guys who think Kendall Jenner is the embodiment of natural beauty

This is also in contrast to Izzy and Stacy meeting where she was like, "don't touch my legs, I didn't shave," and he said he noticed that but it didn't bother him at all, and they both made a joke about him braiding her leg hair (gross but also kinda cute lol). That is how you do it!! And also showed that he really did genuinely care for her and didn't give a shit about her appearance. Then JP's musty ass stonewalled her for wearing fuckin fake eyelashes. I agree with Kennie, Taylor is waaaaay nicer than I would've been. The second he said, "just don't wear makeup," I would've been pelting him with my fuckin brushes.

Yeah I like natural women, but they have to be completely hairless from their eyelashes down! Oh and it's cool if she dyed her hair too because when I say "natural" I don't actually mean I wanna see grey hair 😂

I immediately knew he was a cheater when he started to berate her. Some people cheat, regret it, and never do it again. Not Uche. He's the type of guy who cheats on his wife constantly, then gaslights her when she discovers his betrayal.

Yeah. There's "wow, I can't see myself trusting someone who I know has been unfaithful before" and then there's "I would NEVER do such a thing, well I DID but it DIDN'T COUNT"

unche can dish it out but he can't take it. Something tells me he doesn't like what he sees in the mirror and when confronted with someone who is guilty of the same thing hes guilty of, it reminded him of himself and he did not appreciate that. Not aliyah's fault tho.

At the very least, it gives a vibe that he wants to feel morally superior or something. Like if someone told me they'd cheated, I don't know if I could get over that, so I get if that would be a dealbreaker. But she already expressed it was something she didn't feel good about, so why get on a high horse and lecture her?

ikr, that was so weird i was like wait a minute.

The man was wearing an American flag polo shirt, who tf wants to take personal appearance “advice? From him? Also can we call out the fact his ass is lying, just say you don’t like the girl and let her get a good man, damn.

Also he was so hypocritical that man wanted her BAD when she came out and she was more hesitant

Especially because like damn nigga she must’ve been so nervous and a lot of people feel more confident with makeup on like you’re supposed to marry this person who never seen you before in a couple weeks so of course you wanna look what you think is your best damn, no consideration for her SMH

@@daniellecowan459 Also, she is ON TV and they pretty much coat you in makeup anyway because the bright lighting does not do much for a face without it.

I was fuckin yellin at the screen "I FUCKIN KNEW IT"

I was watching a pair of dudes explain this one - one guy was writing like a madman on a whiteboard, explaining it to the other one and the one listening was like "oh, does JP give vibes like, where were you on January 6th?" and I just love we all agree on that

I guess a camera can

I wish I could like this comment a million times.

If you watch her interview, she says that their lunch was a week after she left the pods. They just edited it to make it look like more time had passed.

I felt SO MUCH relief when he cut things off with her. SO MUCH.

The fact that she wanted to stay with Uche, after the way he treated her. Come on, Aaliyah you deserved better.

That’s a very kind way to view it- she just came off hopelessly dumb to me

Yes it was almost concerning. Like why do you have a flag everything 😂😂😂

Another youtuber just went "where was he on january 6th" and I scream laughed

I had a coworker who moved to the U.S. from England and he made a remark about how obsessed some people are when it comes to the flag. It was something like, "Do you people forget what country you're in?" That's always made me laugh, and JP made me think of that question instantly.

Was def one of those roaches supporting his brethren on jan 6

Oh so he felt she was the type to get her lick back? As a cheater and a hypocrite he wanted to break her

That makes it wild that she claimed to still love him. Like girl! You gave him all the context and he STILL responded that way?! I would’ve never spoken to him again

@@siciliasth89 and if what he is saying from his account is correct, they apparently both agreed in the pods to leave and date outside the show, idk it also looks like production was trying to spin stuff a certain way and left a lot of scenes out, even the extra stuff Lydia was saying to her, she said on the show that Lydia told her they both talked about how going on the show would benefit him and his business and how they discussed going on the show beforehand.

For sure. That is what his insane take on makeup was about. He couldn't handle her being so clearly out of his league.

My thoughts exactly, I was clapping too🎉

That's a nonsensical take, totally unsupported by any actions or words. We have no reason to believe he's lying. It's possible to just not be attracted to someone when they so drastically change their appearance with make-up/eye lash extensions/hair dye and product, from what can naturally occur. People can have preferences. And he even said, she could do what she wanted, but he just wasn't attracted to that look. If he thought she was out of his league, why would he not have jumped at the opportunity to have sex with her as it is pretty obvious she would have been receptive? Did you see the way he kissed her? He is just not attracted to her.

He's not old to be an incel.

I don't think being an incel has an age limit unfortunately.

thinking he's too old to be an incel is predicated on the idea that inceldom is a phase you eventually grow out of when you get to a certain age. I got bad news for you.

I think he’s into men, not girls. Down low.

Yes

Fr. Definitely would say some sht about it not being the right response BUT “emotional and physical needs not being met.”

some men really be taking a woman cheating on one man as her cheating on ALL men. Why he need led to throw someone she did in a relationship that has nothing to do with him is giving me trying to "put her in her place/taking her down a peg".

​@@elleofhearts8471right, like "imma go ahead and degrade her so she won't cheat on me"

i think its different unless he was looking to date that specific guy. its 2 different things, dating someone and being their friend

@@momo-vu1wrnope. Having standards for the type of people you associate with has nothing to do with whether you are dating them or not. If you’re willing to be friends or in a romantic relationship with shit people, you probably are a shit person. They’re both a type of intimate partner and a reflection on your true values

😭😭😭💀

Yes, they are definitely a tubi movie 🎬

Not the plot I was expecting 😂 Jesus, she absolutely terrified me.

This is the take. This also might be why I felt bad for her because I am...similar to her in a lot of ways. (It's def a trauma thing and therapy has definitely helped me with that. Hopefully she goes into therapy if she doesn't already have one. It could help her break that cycle.)

This makes a lot of sense, probably just not to Johnie so she didn't articulate it well.

​@@EvolianTigeragree. I feel her lack of articulation is why it got so blown out of the water by Izzy, which made him look really bad to me as viewer

She was clearly trying to be manipulative so that Chris would take her back. She couldn’t bear to leave alone. She also showed her true colors by trash talking Izzy and Stacy for no reason.

I think Jonnie is insecure overall

THIS!!! Like you can just walk away from something you see as a red flag, you don't have to berate someone.

every nerve in my body was screaming lmao. aaliyah deserves so much better! i wish she would've maintained the boundary too

Another way of looking at it is he must've have cared if it really bothered him that much. Honestly I don't get the Uche hate.

@@freedomm You don't get the hate for a guy that asked for honesty, then got judgy and condescending when he got that honesty, and then turned out to be a manipulative liar?

I didn't necessarily disagree with some of the stuff he was saying but Jeeeesus you don't talk like that to someone you apparently like or any human for that matter. You must have some deep issues if you don't just leave that situation. He was really scary.

Exactly 💯

I found the guy icky since day 1

​@user-je6io6cv5d facts, I give anyone who tells me they're emotionally stable side eye. Because emotionally stable, open and available people don't normally have to say it lol

​@@SEOshogunfacts also like the reason emotionally stable people are stable is because they know they are flawed and they are comfortable with the work they have to do and just living in the process.

We refuse to wear drunk goggles this season, everyone is on thin ice and "goodguys" don't exist

The audacity of JP, who has the head shape of someone's left nut, saying it was her fault that he lost attraction for her because she wore makeup... it seemed like a test to control her. She was SO sweet and she was SUCH a bad babe. I hope she finds someone nice fr.

Agreed! He tried to shake her confidence and didn't know how to communicate because it seemed he was overwhelmed by her beauty.

​@@MsKwesi😂

Literally!! It suits her skin tone so well 😍😍

It’s like her perfect color!! It just goes with her ❤❤❤

she's literally so stunning 😍

Was just about to say 😍

Right???she looks so so pretty

Let’s start a reparations thread

Is the A in currency like for AUD? The Australian dollar or something else?

@@smome7773yeah, Australian dollars

Does KZfaq allow tips now?

7.99? Why not just make it 8.00 at that point 😂

Aww! I have never watched The Bachelorette or The Bachelor, but this sounds nice! My shitty coworkers were talking about it before it premiered and saying how gross it is to see old people kiss. We're all in our 30s-50s, so it was embarrassing to hear that kind of talk. I love love, especially second chances, so it warms my heart to hear it's going well.

Awww 🥺

It was so obvious, lol Before they left the pods, I was like, Lydia has the energy of a woman who was cheated on/led on, and if we had to guess who did this to her........... the answer would be right there

Him berating Aaliyah screamed projection

They werent even together, Lydia is just crazy 😂

No oh i like the chaos our men bring🤣🤣🤣i wish they added more Nigerian women to the mix. I wonder if they would ever bring a show like love is blind to Nigeria

I’m still not over sk cheating man

@@user-je6io6cv5d Still feel bad for Mama SK 😂

@@ayomidedareabel5525 I don’t know how far you’ve watched, but Miriam made me proud 💪🏽

Frr! I'm Igbo and I need the casting director to stop bringing in Nigerian men 😭 we've had ENOUGH

Lauren and Cameron are still the cutest thing ever. I was glad to witness that whole romance go down.

Nah fr I was thinkin the same! As soon as I saw that I was like Joe Goldberg that you? 😂

​@@00s.v.n.s00I Snorted at this

@@00s.v.n.s00 oh my god this almost made me do a spit take 🤣

Izzy probably lives in his mom’s basement. Everything was phony about him, even the four guys at the wedding who were posing as his friends. They were likely paid actors. That decor on the Airbnb was terrible. There’s no way a misogynistic guy like Izzy would’ve had that hideous fake flower arrangement on the wall. It was obviously an Airbnb and his bin of women’s bobby pins, earrings, rings etc. had serial killer vibes. If I were Stacy, my first thought would have been to be afraid of him. Lastly, Stacy calling “exotic” was mildly racist and had a white supremacist vibe. That’s my two cents.

Damn

Oh wow that’s insanely dark. Glad I only watch this show thru kennie, cuz it truly seems like SUCH an evil idea. Just so so ripe for abuse

WHAT THE FUCK

What the fuck

What the actual fucking hell.

Teeth, jaw and those half closed eyes (the "What race are you?" squint)

tiny pursed lips set in a permanent sneer

​@@pixiestxNyomouf😂😂😂😂😂

It’s in the lips

BECAUSE HE DOES!

Where did u learn this from?

Hope u are safe now ❤️

I was thinking exactly that. Like if someone can tell others what that person look like, how wealthy they are, etc then that kind of ruins the purpose of the entire show.

Ah okay

Such a good book recommendation!

Well, I have a new book to read

@daydream5120 It's totally worth it! Know that you will probably, most likely cry. It's heart-rending but soooo eye-opening about parents and how you were treated as well as the lasting effects on your own behavior (if yours are/were emotionally immature).

@@daydream5120 @ you because my comment didn't highlight it lol

@@shiny_cheyenne Oh yeah, thanks! I’m not going into details but I went to Amazon and read some of the highlights and was like “this book is for me”

Or maybe it's just unattractive? Why is that so bad to say

@@AttonBrown to you. It's unattractive to you. And who wants to be with someone who finds something I love unattractive.

I'm so proud of her staying in her ground. She's really beautiful and deserves the world.

@@JenniferBrigitteOpticalVortex Me too! I was really worried that she'd be forced to go through with it for production sake. I'm glad she left and took care of herself first

came here just to say this!!! lol

such an amazing take!!

And she wore makeup ONE TIME. Clearly grasping at straws.

Same 😂 i was like “here we gooo”

Ditto!!!

minji

SAMMMMEEEE! I literally spilled my soda.

BRUH SAME. ive been checking all day. I was hoping to listen to it at the gym but here we are!

It's like if the whole events of Uche & Lydia's relationship really played out the way it did (Uche cheating on Lydia) as she says....why the HELL was Lydia gassing Aaliyah up to stay with him XD??? Like That's some messy "Friend behavior". It honestly feels like she just wanted to set Aaliyah up to fuck with Uche (if he did cheat on him) but also I might have forgotten but like...when the heck did they break up? Cuz if it was far in the past, that meant those 2 hooked up after their broke up those 2 months ago which is like....MY GOD. I would NEVER have a one-night with my ex who cheated on me (which is why either Lydia made up the thing about Uche cheating on her or she.....has some SUPER low-ball standards for getting some dick). Like if they were still a couple back then (2 months ago) I wouldn't be bragging about shagging up with a guy who cheated on me XD. Like neither of them want to give the full story tbh.

I think Aaliyah said that they were close even before Aaliyah and Uche started to be intrested in each other

Yes, she said they became close before.. that every relationship there forms very fast. I'm curious to why both of them only said nice things about each other when Aliyah finally find out..

Yes I was literally speaking aloud to myself in disbelief because all that was wild. I’m glad she did not end up with him and hope upon reflection she sees where these people where crazy and manipulative cuz she’s too sweet to have crazy people like that around herself . 😮‍💨 Lydia and uche truly deserve each other 😮‍💨

@@krismarshall3803this whole saga is making wonder what the truth is bc there’s inkling of truth in both their viewpoints, like the truth lies in the middle and I hope we find out at the reunion. Cause either uche I a weirdo who got back with his “stalker” out of guilt, or Lydia got back with a dude who “cheated” on her ATLEAST 2 more times? they’re both so strange 😭

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼factisms! He wud be big big eligible bachelor in tht community

I'm Nigerian and even though this is true they still allow their sons to have like a choice to date whoever they want depending on how progressive they are in allowing that. If it were a girl though most Nigerian parents would be against coming on a show like love is blind because they can't do as much damage control to the reputation of daughters if shit hits the fan like they do for sons.

He’s there to promote his new legal bot start up trash, he posts a lot about it on Instagram and LinkedIn

Yo that is such a good point!! That makes me think that they’ve burned through all the girls people have introduced them to.

​@@Electra9797I mean,him and Lydia were hooking up on and off for years, if I recall

Same, I would've laughed in his face because excuse me?? Also would've worn my favorite makeup to breakup✨

That’s also exactly what I told my boyfriend when we watched the episode. I absolutely hate doing my makeup but best believe I woulda done alllllll of it that day

A "little" harsh

Yeah, that bronzer was waay too warm and dark/intense. I’ve had issues with color matching in the past but it was always too light, never too dark thankfully.

Yeah, Uche said production told then not to say anything on his ig.

Yea the chris dude(producer) said that’d he did tell them not to mention that they had known each other prior, so that the experiment would be fair for everyone, and then at a certain point during the experiment the producers said they can tell other people however they chose to

I mean of course. Everything in this show is scripted.

You're absolutely right! Uche mentioned that he was told to keep quiet about it. But Aaliyah went on a podcast and stated that she is aware that production told Uche and Lydia to keep quiet but if it was her, she wouldn't told it anyway b

The producerd decided to cast them together knowing full well that they were exes. They must've known about their messy history and decided that it would make for good tv.

9 straight men out of 10 couldn't tell if a woman is wearing makeup or not to save their lives.

this is such a lie, and I'm a feminist. most people who call women sick when they don't wear makeup are other women.

@@sainttheresetaylor2054 that’s your experience. Definitely not mine.

I did not know this about human psychology, and now that I do I can't say that knowledge has made me any happier. I presume there's ways to like... circumvent or move onto other mindsets because of all the times I've heard of people from abusive households moving onto to more caring and fulfilling partners, but does that happen through some special kind of training or psychological counseling or is it just a crapshoot if you beat the patterns or not?

@@goranisacson2502 Therapy helps. Like Johnnie can recognize her pattern, but there is a difference between knowing something intellectually and feeling differently about it. She needs to view herself as worthy before she can be comfortable with someone like Chris. As long as she thinks she's not good enough, anyone treating her with respect is gonna feel off to her. But once she does the work and loves herself, someone who acts like Izzy will disgust her as much as it does Stacy. Stacy is a mean girl, but she values herself and because she does, Izzy's antics literally disgusts her. I will be shocked if she agrees to marry him.

@@MissKashira even if you reach a place of self love, your vision of love which is mechanically conditioned by your parents will always seek out something similar, imo. just how the human brain in development works. and I'm not sure there's a way to change that, even with therapy. your conscious mind can constructively pick a healthier partner, but your inner child must always crave what is familiar no?

@@sainttheresetaylor2054 People can change. It's not easy, but it is possible. And knowing why we do the things we do is great start to changing bad habits. So no, I don't believe anyone is trapped forever drawing in chaos and pain due to their childhood.

Beautifully said

Everytime 23:44

Same! I haven't watched any episodes of Love is Blind or The Ultimatum, but I love watching Kennie talk about the steaming hot dumpster fires that are these shows.

Me either, we let Queen Kennie watch and we pay her bills while we watch her vent about these train wrecks 😅❤

Same here. I've never seen an episode of either show but I am here for big sis Kennie giving us the hilarious debrief. 😊

One of my favorite ways to enjoy KZfaq. Kennie going ham on a reality dating series.

Yep! With a bit of hey I'm douche and this is who iam! Love me for me babe.. Stacy was like nahhh not good enough. Then he goes crying everytime.

I have no idea what you're talking about, I didn't like Stacy from the beginning and grew to dislike Izzy so fast that I ended up skipping through all their interactions. I get why some people are all girl boss about her, but just seems condescending to me. When it comes to Izzy, though, I have no doubt he deserves it, they're perfect for each other.

Stacy is not a catch. She has a terrible personality and seems like a mean girl. She’s ok financially and that’s it. She’s not even attractive, looks wise. Izzy is just a DB hands down, a broke one at that. Couldn’t stand either of them.

@@NickaLahamennnn. I did side with Stacy over that whole argument, she is very smart and sees through Izzy’s bs, but she’s still annoying as hell

I also too like Stacy all of what she said makes sense and know one can say she a gold digger when it’s obviouuuuuus she got her own gold the fuck Stacey is cool although her beef with johhnie was too much she even recognized that johhnie wasn’t the issue with Izzy. Like bruh why are you worried about her

Honestly I think Aaliyah needed therapy before the show unfortunately. Seems like there's still some unresolved issues that stemmed from her last relationship where she cheated. Honestly everyone should get therapy before going on this show because it's clear they all need it 😭.

Exactly. Aaliyah needs some self esteem help and some reality help with what to expect from relationships, from positives to boundaries. Lydia… needs to grow up and at least acknowledge how weird she was to Aaliyah.

I watched the interview she did with Cameron and she stated that she did therapy when her previous relationship ended. Watching that interview made me look at her differently.

@@cowmooves4057it’s like she allows herself to be trampled on in retrospect to make up for how she hasn’t forgiven herself and moved on.

Yeah, Lydia definitely needs some therapy!! She needs healing!! And self love. She's looking for love outside of herself, when she needs to look within, first.

He sounded like an angry abuser from the very beginning to me. It's the cold steel in his voice when he speaks.

@@emhu2594 Yeahhhh, it's the judgmental, lecturing a grown adult as if they're a child needing instruction way he talks to start with--then the back and forth "I was honest! Well I wasn't completely honest" over and over that sealed it for me. I knew either he was a cheater or at least some kind of manipulator.

😂

that wasn't proven though. lydia just says that. where is the proof ?

​@@momo-vu1wrhe practically admitted to it.. lmao during the party

@@momo-vu1wr But uche didn't deny that either. Honestly most women get paranoid when signs show up that a man is cheating. But in my opinion, Lydia can't be this massive evil he want's her to be. Girlie most deff has some issuses. But Every action has a consquence, be it good or bad. And Uche llikes to casually stir the pot while hiding his hand. That nonsense at the meet up with the rest of the cast in ep 7 was ridiculous. He showed up with the intent to ruin Lydia's fun or whatever. He didn't even talk /hangout with any of the guys, just straight to the drama.

@@MsDarksenacould be he was trying to get back at Lydia for messing up his relationship with Aaliyah. Which is childish but some people don’t deal to good with emotions. He probably gonna excuse it as “I was looking out for my boy Milton and the truth” not matter what the truth is though. It could be black and white as you said but everything they say is so cryptic and sometimes contradictory. That tells me both sides seem to be lying to save some face. So it’s hard to really get to the actual things that happened.

@@Lucaz99 that was on my mind as well. Petty revenge because he didn't get 'his' pick. It could definitely be the driving force for what he did that episode. But he didn't even really bring up Aaliyah . He wanted to rehash something from months ago(still a bit confused on his and Lydia dating timeline) instead of addressing the current issues. Idk. He gave me icky vibes since he was introduced tbh..

His annoying ass voice too 😭😭😭

I HEAR YOUUU. it was so weird and upsetting to watch. and the way she just took it……ugghhhh!

@@raaykaashhThe way she took it was stressing me out! He enjoyed it and that was insane to see play out

She’s talking about something really difficult that she felt a lot of shame for in the past.. hard to stand up for yourself when you’re discussing a big way you messed up in the past… that’s probably was getting him off 😡

He was showing off his lawyer skills, seriously in order to be a lawyer you gotta be somewhat dead inside.

same 😂

Honestly same😅

Forget jumping the shark, they landed on its back and riding back to shore!

@@asarishepard8171😂😂😂 no truer words have been typed about this cast it’s crazy 🤦🏾‍♀️

God tier comment 😭

are u ok

To impulse control, she is self sabotage. (And I mean that is the most loving and respectful way possible, because the ADHD life sure is a time.)

❤❤❤

real

Oop! Slipped through the cracks! Thanks for correcting

Technically, he could still be adopted by his step dad.

You kinda just described adoption tho

@@kenjakoadopted meaning: An adopted child has been legally taken by another family to be taken care of as their own child: They've got two adopted children and one of their own. Not to be confused with marriage

No wonder he always showing some unsolved depressive vibes

Oh my god, Stacy and Izzy do have that dynamic.

More likely Ben Shapiro

100%, like I would have dropped it too. Because the whole thing is too wierd

He's absolutely a cheater! He gives off the same vibes as my ex who said that he broke up with his ex before me because she went through his phone but he was cheating and I think she had reason to. And then he did the same thing to me LMAOOO

Proud boy's give off that exact vibes already😂😂😂

incelcore

@@emilyr8668 that's the word I'm looking for

Fr. I am a survivor of SA & relationship abuse and hearing Chris’ story was triggering because that’s how I lost my virginity too. Watching Uche berate Aaliyah was also incredibly triggering.

@@manic_girltotally agree.

Chris wasn't necessarily triggering for me (I was SA'd as well but in a much different way and I was an adult at this point), but I felt so bad for him. My heart really went out to him because that's really traumatizing and I could relate to him a lot. But good fucking lord, Netflix couldn't even throw in a PSA at the end and added the hotline to RAINN or something. Christ. I hope that it didn't trigger Chris after the fact.

Just this one season? This is the only season of "Love is Blind" in which people should seek out a therapist? (Honestly I'm biased against dating shows lol) 🤨

I don't think she wants an extravagant lifestyle. She just wants someone who is financially secure. Izzy is a hobosexual. The way his eyes lit up when he went into her apartment making decisions and all like as if it's his own home like bro😂😂 izzy is 29 he's not thought about savings or investments and he wants to get married? Lmao that is unserious behavior. I don't think that man even has a job currently. That dude is too old to be this laid back. Also with the way he's trying to promote struggle love in their relationship is just icky

You say extravagant lifestyle, I say bare minimum. If I marry someone who would actually tank my finances, I'd be divorcing just as fast. I'm not asking for richness or even financial stability (I'm 19, I live paycheck to paycheck), I just want financial sensibility. Use what you have/get sensibly. Izzy does not have that

I don't know who is worse...Stacey who chose Izzy just because she wanted to "win" the guy that all the others wanted, or Izzy, a man child who plays with people like toys.

​@@anonyyy85honestly who's to say that he didnt just pull that out of his ass as a reason because either she was intimidating to him because she was very pretty or on the other hand, she wasnt his type and he didnt want to admit it and seem shitty (in the end appearing just as if not more shitty...) 😂

​@@anonyyy85most important of all ,he had no business being on that show because he actually proved that love isn't blind

exactly - Izzy is just as bad as Uche IMO but in a more subtle way. Toxic and manipulative.

not only that, but stacy saying she “felt for johnie and was empathetic because she got picked” felt like virtue signaling to me and also, she literally told izzy she “dgaf about how any of the other girls may be affected” by izzy breaking up with them because she was worried about herself and only herself finding a match? i’m like is the empathy towards johnie in the room with us? they didn’t show johnie being all that malicious and also didn’t show stacy being empathetic towards her, they actually showed her presenting the complete opposite 😭

@@milkywae10NO LITERALLY! I was like wym you “felt for her”??? Like she could care less. All that woman cared ab was having toxic ass Izzy 😭😭. She tried playing herself as a nice person but we all see through it 😂.

@@QManagerin Red flags all over the place! I mean I expected Izzy to be the problem and then Stacy pulled the money thing out of her pocket. And then we have the over emotional stalker, the maga-hat, and the manscolder. 😂

Hard agree

Yeah he wants to control the narrative to make himself look good so he has to kick her down, gaslight and make everyone especially her question their perception on reality to excuse his own behaviour

I have heard of (not that I would know 👀) women checking their partner's insta stories and checking other girls stories to see if they match. But that only happens if you are already suspicious of foul play. Not that I would know of 👀👀

There has to be something else to the story, and they're both lucky they didn't get someone who is unwilling to accept the blatant bullshit at face value. Especially with Uche constantly crying about Aaliyah being at fault for not trusting him, like sir, she has known you for 10 business days and in that time you've proven over and over again that your word doesn't mean much. He's truly so awful, and I hope Aaliyah gets the good sense to write them both off for good.

I watched another channel’s videos on this seasons LIB and the recent one I watched at the start of the video, the channel mentioned the viewers confirming that Uche cheated on Lydia

That’s what I was thinking!

I laughed out loud 😂😂

@@Gnihful same!!!

Eyelash connected to her hairline LOL

@ramblingmillennial1560 when I say I spit up the tea I was drinking! Not the last of my pomegranate and raspberry tea getting onto my shirt! 🤣🤣🤣

I would've been just as petty!

Oop

OMFG

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Whattt?????!!!

Wait fr??

I'm confused. My wife rarely wears makeup and i love it. Why is that seen as a red flag? Genuinely asking

@@AttonBrownbecause it’s usually a dig at other women and if you have to put someone down to lift me up it’s not a good compliment.

@@livyykitty I'm saying i love that she doesn't. Her and I actually had this discussion and none of the women in my or her life really did. Not my mom or really any of my sisters . Idk it just isnt something i realized was a big thing? Granted, we're not from like big cities or anything i don't even know if that has any bearing

I just had this conversation with a guy. He told me he feels bad that women have to put on make up. Here's how I told him: I'm very confident with how I look without make up. To me, it's like drawing or painting. Mun canvas is just my face! I like colours and glitter and things, and like to put them together, like in art. See how it affects my face and stuff. I'm also fully aware, that my make up looks are often something that doesn't really attract men. And I still do it! To me it's fun and therapeutic🤷🏼‍♀️ But like some people don't like painting or acting or dancing, some people don't find joy in putting make up on. That's it!

And to me it would suck major anus if my partner told me he didn't like it, when I put on make up. My boyfriend always tells me what he likes about my make up and clothes and I do the same to him. It's like someone telling me they don't like a hobby of mine :D it would make me sad

I thought she lied too, but now I'm thinking she was confused, trying to sort it out, and desperately trying to save any connection. The biggest problem I have with Johnnie is her telling Izzy she is NOT in love with Chris, that he would always regret it if they didn't leave together, and then a half second after he dumps her she runs to Chris, begs him to be with her, and calls Izzy emotionally unavailable. Plus, all that trash talk in the women's quarters was mean. I don't think she is able to really care about either man because she doesn't even like herself.

my read was just that Johnie warped her perceptions to make Izzy fit the "healthy choice" box because he was more exciting/her old patterns. then after he dumped her the haze was lifted and she was like oh fuck Izzy is the type I used to go for..Chris was the healthy choice after all.

@@CiaoColeG oh, I have PLENTY of problems with Johnie 😂😂😂 I’m not defending her character (in how it’s presented in the show). Her saying she wasn’t in love with Chris was VILE. No defending that. Because it implies she was in love with Izzy. I just think she took her two truths, that she prefers “exciting”/“safe”, and shared it as the truth then new information was given to her. Maybe being rejected by Izzy made her remember the times she was rejected and reminded her she needed the safer option. Idk about her ability to love herself, but the show definitely portrays her as insecure and a hater, so I see where you got that conclusion. I had this theory that I didn’t hear anyone anyone talking about and wanted to share 🤗

@art.thomas Yeah, that does make sense.

This is the correct take; it seemed so obvious watching it. I don't necessarily blame the people *on* the show for being confused, because they are in a very intense and confusing environment. But I am baffled that the people watching it at home are not getting this - media literacy people, honestly! Critical thinking! Just because Izzy is saying 'Johnnie is saying contradictory things!' doesn't mean that you have to take his word for it - you watched the show too! I don't think she even said 'I always go for the safe choice' - that was Izzy's interpretation! I'm pretty sure she talked about having sometimes chosen partners (specifically her ex-husband) because they were the 'safe choice', despite not being in love with them. That's not inherently incompatible with her having a pattern of choosing unsafe and emotionally unavailable men. The way I interpreted it was that she tends to choose unavailable and unsafe men, and she has reacted to that in the past by going with the 'safe' choice even if she's not completely happy doing that. In the pods, she seemed like she was wrestling with which 'path' to follow - Do I go with my gut instinct (unavailable man who my heart tells me to chase) or my more measured response (safe man who I like but I'm not sure I'm falling in love with)? Is there maybe a middle ground? Should I make more of an effort to truly open my heart to the 'safe' man and see whether that leads to love? Johnnie's most obvious fault isn't that she's a liar - it's that she is way too honest and unfiltered to the point of coming across as tactless and insensitive at times (e.g., openly calling Chris her number 2), and sometimes being unable to control her emotions (e.g., going off about Stacy when she found out that Izzy wanted Stacy not her). I also think she was pretty honest with Chris too, and it seemed like she meant everything she said to him - even if the way she felt wasn't always consistent over time and wasn't always logical or sympathetic.

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Wtf, what did he do to her

I heard that too, and that Renee (another couple who madeit out thepods) had a bf back home and her "fiancee" threatened to unalienable himself if they showed her rejectinghim. Idk about the second part of that, but Renee had a man at home. Awful to heat production and Netflix still don't treat their casts and contestants with decency and protection.

Good god...this show is a fucking mess.

Lol now it makes sense why they have included so many scenes of the cast "having fun"

@@G-LukeJA Sexually assaulted her... Why do you need details?