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I recently attended a family function & my aunt told me" itni patli kyu ho? esi hi rahogi kya?" At that moment I just answered her saying "Aap hi khana khila do" but when I returned home, I cried buckets. They do not realize how is it affecting someone's mental health.

Being thin or fat is not a problem but being judgy and giving judgements is not so practical. We don't need anybody permission to wear clothes or dressing up like we want. I also think your point of view is right because very few people can understand these situations

I miss Komal's POPxo days

Some aunties tell me to gain weight and some of them make fun of me by saying I am skinny. But according to bmi I have a healthy weight and I can feel that my body is nice. So people are always gonna say something. Just be confident in yourself

Being very honest, I don't really think that our parents' generation will ever stop body shaming or making fun of others' look, but I think our generation should be better in this thing. I still remember when I was child my relatives used to tell me, my mother and father that I'm too skinny, I should eat, do this and that but when my teenage started I started gaining weight and now they say me to loose weight, one aunty told me I look like 100kgs but I'm 60kgs probably and said I don't do physical excercise, eat alot and sleep where as I don't really eat properly my lunch and dinner. I even tried to explain them that I have hormonal issues but they said I'm lasy so I'm making excuses. Then I was like, really? My medical reports are saying that I do have issues. I stopped eating, became sick and was having fever all the time. Then doctor said it's because I'm not having calcium and vitamins and then told me that my bmr is good enough I'm neither too fat nor skinny. I said this much long thing because I wanted to say, people are never happy either I'm skinny or healthy so we should just stop thinking about them and we ourselves should not comment on others that's how this mean thing can stop.

I've realised one thing over years, people who troll others for their body weight have insecurities of their own which they project on others. They can't get over their pathetic life so they judge your body. Komal is a gorgeous woman. There's a difference between constructive criticism and bullying which people don't understand and you need to hit them with a fact that would put them in their place.

Take a pride in yourself when someone says " you look like a school girl" everyone on this whole planet is willing to do everything to look cute and young as a high-school girl. You body structure changes or not doesn't depend on you but you're gene's and hormones.

I am a 2 year neet dropper and I always get comment for my weight which I gain during my preparation phase ab ek taraf weight gain par mock kiye jane ko handle Karo aur dusri taraf 2 year drop ko this is really frustrating

She is looking pretty as hell and I love the confidence she carries with her every outfit period.

Komal talking about body positivity in previous videos, later does lip fillers and still talks 'Accept yourself the way you are!' she is the one who have double standards and not the audience.

GOSH she is so much changed now we cant even compare popxo's komal nd present's komal

Commenting about weight is not okay 😟 I was always on the chubbier side in my life and people around me constantly pointed it out to the point where I felt that nobody would love me because I am chubby 🥲 and I didn't even realize that it was wrong. Until recently when I entered my med school and found amazing bffs who made me realize that I am beautiful 😊 as I am. For a child things like this make a great impact while growing up , it becomes an insecurity and gets deeply rooted in their mentality to the point they themselves become depressed 😔. So please avoid doing such things 😐 it's not cool.

Tbh komal's outfits might not be practical but they sure are stunning, and I don't necessarily hate her fashion sense. The way she puts together clothing pieces makes them look gorgeous most of the time. But seeing the comments about komal and her bf u can clearly tell that we as a society have to develop alot more.

I am 22years old, 35kg.2019- I got diagnosed with some haemoglobin disease, anaemia, also with anxiety and depression. 2021- I got covid. Again I started loosing weight. I am still trying to overcome. And then people just comment "this dress isn't suiting you", "hawa me udd mat jana" etc. I cry. You don't even know what people are going through, so commenting on someone else's body is not a good decision!

Honestly this is the reason I like your channel because you straight hit the point in a logical manner which is nice to hear and we can understand the point of your when someone did something wrong you talk about it when they do right something right you support them that is the reason I like you keep going.🙂

I love how u give your opinion in polite way . I love your videos 😊

The way you explains things has gotten me matured and a good person thanks for the change. and also thanks for the weight matter struggling through my personal weight gain your videos has always been my comfort i got comfort and confidence from your vieos❤❤

The content is just amazing to the point and accurate... I just love your videos.

Being a skinny girl it's very hurtful to hear comments on your body , I've heard very mean comments which can't be openly shared from both boys and girls. So yes its mean and cruel of people to speak such things Whether they're saying it to a girl or a boy it doesn't matter at the end they're speaking cruelly !

FYI, fashion is ART!! People can present it however they want, and if it’s public we can judge it

I can relate. I was too thin when I was a kid. My relatives used to comment on that all the freaking time. And now that I have put on weight and a little chubby now they always pick on me during every family function saying, "moti ho gayi hai..weight kam kar. Dhyan de. Kam khaya kar and what not." I avoid eating junk food and try to live a healthy lifestyle and not that fat. But some of my relatives want me to look like a model. And look perfect all the time. It really hurts sometimes.

Loved your one more video. Loved your idea. Always support you spill bee❣️

With utmost respect I agree with your body shaming point. Nobody should be judged by Their body appearances. But the fact with Clothes & Accessories, there are thin line Between Being Stylish & Wearing Anything. Men and Women are different creatures, thus their dressing sense and styles are different. Nail paints/Lipstick highlight & enhance Women's beauty, unfortunately it doesn’t go same way with Men. We can't expect Men bearing Child on Their Stomach OR Women growing Beard. Different roles serve different purposes.

Worth waiting for your video ❤️🦋

That's true hmara pet nikla h to meri frnd us din boli pregnant lg rahi ho 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 atleast body shaming nhi krni chahiye

I was skinny when I was a child and my relatives used shame but I really didn't care at that time but due to my hormonal issues I gained and again they were u need to stop eating and stuff and became insecure of my body and started starve that didn't help just my immune got low so ppl just chill who ever Is going through this Shit ek kaan se suno dusre kaan se nikaal do

The problem with Komal and Siddharth's fashion influence is that they are sometimes too impractical and not comman meaning it is something which not everyone can easily afford or own. Like styling stylish blouses with stylish sarees. Like you don't find 5000 or 8000 rupees worth sarees in middle class people closets. Like she can afford expensive and luxury pieces but common people can't. So that's the only problem otherwise I really love her work and I do think she knows about fashion and is different from other so called influencers.

So so true..our society seems its so easy to comment on someone's appearance..i hv been called "korean" /"chinki"/ one of the relative straightway told me on face "tumhari ankhein choti hi hain ya tum so ke uthi ho " ..thing is ppl dnt care hw their easy comment affects smone's mental health..i adore u for bringing such topics ..i just hope we can telecast ur videos on wedding functions instead of boring vids to teach ppl basic manners..loads of love fr voicing our woes ❤️

I truly like her boyfriend. When I saw him for the first time his face seemed super sweet and sometimes trustworthy

I think no other influencers get this much hate. Komal gets hate literally for everything. So is her boyfriend. They make comment on his sexuality which shouldn't be a matter of concern of their viewers anyway. And I get that her style is not relatable. That doesn't give anyone a free pass to attack her. People nowadays cannot see anyone being happy with themselves. They will find a way to break their confidence and to pull them down. We are doing the same thing that our older generation did bullying people for the stupidest thing possible.

Fashion need not always be practical and relatable! I mean it is FASHION! Its meant to be out of the box and extraordinary.

I can relate with komal because the very first thing I am asked during my family meetups is that why i lost so much weight. They said I got too skinny to the point that I look unhealthy, and those statement broke my heart, even if all of them are wayyyy more older than me. I explain it by saying it's my lifestyle and the fact I have to walk a very long distance to reach my university. The fact that none of them ever asked how I am doing, what other problems I am facing, talking about any funny stuff and assuring to be by my side.. but okay, I don't expect others to behave my way. But we all need to understand, the person infront of you is aware about their body. They're struggling putting themselves back to the track. It is not mandatory for them to explain why they lost or gained weight and you are not supposed to keep pointing towards the same thing.

Thank you talking about body shame.. I am thin and people keep saying these kind of comments.. I don't feel myself weak or sick.. But when people and my own relatives says this kind of things.. It really affects me... I thought maybe I have some problem with my body.. I cry when no one is around me... Now I don't like to go anywhere or any function ...... Please stop comment anything about one's body type 😣😣It really hurts

Same is true for people with short height...I'm literally 4'11 n people around me always made me more insecure 🙂 Relatives n even ur parents start giving u tips n hacks ...do this do that So frustrating

Thanks for putting this up so well... I am a skinny girl and I have heard a lot of such comments from people who supposedly claim to be my "well-wishers"... Honestly, such things did affect me a lot... But, with time, somewhere I have understood certain matters and somewhere accepted that the way some people speak is totally insane... It's not that I don't feel bad now... I still do but at times, I find these funny too... Like "Kaun hai yeh log, Kahan se aate hai"... 😂 And yes, another point that you spoke about, if it is okay and justified for females to wear any type of outfit and even shop from Men's section, it is okay for males to wear makeup and outfits as they want, too... If that seems problematic to someone, then it should be for both the genders else not at all... Why so much biased ?? I am a female but with time, I have realised that not only females, but everyone has to face a lot of gender stereotypes at times...

I don't think her fashion sense is bad. I don't watch her videos but when I heard about her on your channel I checked her out. Her outfits and hairdos were nice. The only thing I didn't like about her is that she she insists that she is right. People have the right to follow or not after listening to an advice. She probably doesn't understand that.

Because of your videos my thinking has changed a bit and changed in a good way. Thank you so much bee respect you a lot❤️

Hello di 🥰 I jst love your vds n specially ur voice 😍

Her outfit are not practical to for daily wear, however I would love to wear inspired outfits of her to coachella or appropriate festivals and her outfit are not that bad as ppl say, you just need right occasion and confidence, plus not everything meant for everyone.

I remember when i was in teenage, i had acne issues. My relatives used to constantly pinch me about it, they would suggest me you should do this do that..once one of the lady said " beta ye chehre pe kya kar rakha hai tumne?" As if I brought those acne on my face. Those years were full of lack of confidence, for me. I wish people were more aware of the fact that in adolescents such things are normal, it's all about hormonal changes happening in the body.

I thought u will talk on her fasion sense but this vdio is all about tht party and people in their comment section.. Disappointed

Didi apka dil ni dariya h, samundra h... Itni acceptance hr chiz k liye....!! Kv2 lagta h ap sadhvi ban gayi h, hr chiz pr ultra positive gyaan.... Overdose for me....

You know what, what I really love about you girl 😍 you are very much genuine and open about your statement, when you dislike any fashion sense or bargaining in the Sarojini market for 20/- 30/- rupees you put your opinion about that but when someone body shaming Komal aur talking about her relationship You strongly protest against the toxicity and cyberbullying of her. 😍 "Ayse hii Rahna"

Komal hasn't just changed her face , infact her whole personality has changed. It's scary. What if she is a new person and old komal is not there . Conspiracy 💀

The surgery ( not fillers) on her face didnt go that way

How mature is this girl ❤ She sides with sanity ❤

Your voice are so precious❤

Comments on weight, skin etc do affect a lot one thing that has happened with me was I wore a saree for the first time in a marriage function and tbh thought and felt that I looked in it until I ran into one of my aunt's who said " yeah saree and all is good but maybe if you're hips were a little less wide it'll look ever better , gym me na hips and thighs ke liye exercises recommend karne bolna it will help . " this comment honesty stuck with me so bad that now I've nearly stopped wearing it to functions :( I have definitely moved on from such comments but they still left a negative impact on my mental health

I had been bodyshamed like hell.. from class 6 I started gaining weight and I became fat and dark (due to tution,school and household water) when I was in class 8.. I went to my mama's house during Kali puja and my 3 cousins all of them were 3 to 5 years order than me started laughing at me bcz of my look .. they continuously laughed for like 5 minutes and I was so ashamed of myself at that moment.. I want not at all bothered about how I lokeder bcz I was only focusing on my studies.. they even said that I was looking so order than my age... from there my insecurities started.. even 5 years back I was in my 3rd year graduation ..my life was going through some mess and I found my pcod ..I was depressed AF.. I went to the same house again bcz of some occasion and again they made fun of me bcz of my body weight and how I looked... there was a girl not our cousin she was their some kind of work related friend's daughter and she was thin,fair and beautiful.. my cousins openly made fun of me infront of her and told me I am jealous of that girl that she is very beautiful.. That day I could not control myself and burnt into tears infront of them... I have always been chubby bcz of my family gene..my father is fat.. I try so hard to be fit.. but I was then very depressed and I had pcod... none wanted to know why I became fat..none told me loose some weight you'll develop health issues.. but they always made fun of me .. I don't understand were those fun or insult.. whatever those were i can't never forget those incidents ... whenever I remember these automatically my eyes get filled with water ... while writing this comment I'm still crying... I hate my cousins honestly... I hate them...

Even I also commented in that video that I do not relate to her fashion sense nowadays and that I feel her contents are over dramatic. Also, I dont like her bf because I dont get a good vibe from him and that was it. No harsh words. I feel nowadays, people are negatively influenced with the trend of body shaming others beyond limit. And thats absolutely wrong. And our grown-ups! God, they're one hell of a trouble to call for. I've been hearing this my whole life "Oh, you're so skinny.. Beta, kuch khaya karo, etc" although I'm an avid foodie. But there's no way you can make an adult or a society understand this logic.

I totally agree with you. I don't get their fashion Sense but none has the right to comment on their body or relationship

6:07 ladkiyon se jyada to ladke troll karte hai, agar yaha maximum viewers ladke hote na to aise aise comment aate ki aap dikha bhi nhi paate ( I'm not defending the girls here I'm just telling that men are even more problematic and toxic)

When will people understand that just because you don't agree with a person or don't like them doesn't mean you can treat them as subhuman? Criticize her fashion, her outfits all you like but don't bring her body size into it. And even for her boyfriend, it's okay if you don't like his fashion sense, criticize that if you want to. But don't draw lines regarding what he can or can't wear just because he's a guy. To add: Thank you for being a reasonable person who I can always trust to bring nuanced conversation to the table, Spill Bee. Our nations need more people like you.

Indian dresses should be the prime for indian designer and models

Bodyshaming is a bad thing it will distory their mental health if someone bodyshaming you ask them if i am skinny or fatty it will effect ur personal in any way ??? They don't have any answers for ur question for sure

Well explained topic 👏

Is she obsessed with komal Pandey???

Body shaming is horrible! You never know how your words will effect the individual!

I am also body shamed so many times and even i also had done the same in past for which apologize because kam age me ho jata hai but now I am aware of what to speak

She was wearing the designer who's show she was attending.. People on internet cry over everything

Love your all videos❤

yes, our society is very negative and rude regarding body types. They say that u r skinny or fat on their faces and think that it's funny although most of the time they say it casually but they should think of from the other person's perspective.

I was always a bit fat .. 60kgs to be precise. Anything more than that would've made me actual FAT fat. I was just on the verge. But.. I was and I am Fortunate enough to have never been trolled, pin pointed for being fat. Thankfully no body shaming happened neither from family nor from friends or classmates. Have been fortunate enough to have gotten such people around me. I did lose 11 kgs and i am 49kg and very thin.. I didn't feel good about myself so lost weight. I am glad I did. We shouldn't be comfortable with our fatness. Don't give yourself excuses that you love yourself and stuff. That's a lie. It's good to love yourself but that love should lead you to take care of yourself.. not spoil yourself with fake body positivity. Body positivity is accepting your physical flaws and not being ashamed of it.. plus trying to be the healthier version of yourself.

I’m also slim and trolled my whole life till now 😢😢😢😢

Vro So Accurate Keep Going 🔥🖐🏻😄

Since childhood I've always heard people saying to my parents to give me some food to eat coz I'm too thin (as if my parents don't feed me) and as soon as I hit puberty I started gaining weight. Till 16 my body was perfect not too thick not too thin but after 16 I started being a bit more thick than before so now my aunt told me that because I'm too lazy and do not exercise I'm gaining weight. Without knowing that I'm suffering from PCOD and as a women who's suffering from pcod it's so common to gain weight you can't loose weight no matter what even I exercise alot. As my gynecologist told me I daily do yoga, exercise and skipping for my better health but still people tell me that I gained weight. It's soo frustrating now I can't go to everyone and tell them that I'm suffering from a disease coz either they won't trust me or they'll think that I'm making excuses. I just hate this feeling but can't do anything

how to telll ur content is ofc good but I'm obsessed with ya voice😭😭💜

I have been thin most of my life. The reason behind it was really difficult to figure out but turns out due to hormonal imbalances i wasn't able tk gain , but this is something i am aware of . Not the people who see me everyday . They feel i do not eat enough and it made me overeat and stuff myself whenever i would sense i am sitting idol. This made me lose my mind and stress over my body more

Didi your sense of humor and voice is too good. I rarely seen such type if ideology in today's world

I was waiting to understand more about how she has bad fashion sense and what can be improved, this video is more about what people are commenting and trolling. Please dn t mind but every one can go and check the comments and trolls, why there has to be video which tells what is written in the comments and trolls

Exactly....this is the only reason why i Stop going on family function......

What's your opinion on class by Netflix??

You are so right

I used to love Komal when she was working with popXo , the fun Komal is lost and now she focus more on showing up extra. People are unable to accept the sudden change with her personality

I used be thin when I was like 10 but now I have gained some weight and I am really insecure about it one day my relative said that oh you were thin before I was so sad like why are you guys making us feel like shit we know that we are fat but like STOPPP!!!

I love her opinions

I think people will always say something or the other. No matter how well educated or well mannered they are. So it's important we develop a thick skin for any kind of criticism or judgement. I know it's easier said than done, but you can't let stupid people get to you and put you down.

Hey girl taza taza fan of you..... Love your voice ❤❤❤❤

In start I am comfortable the way I look but recently when my sister got married I went to the shopping for outfit for my self there the shop keepers make fun of my weight by saying that "itna bada size nai ata" That hurts me so much that I start starving my self to lose weight eventually l lose my weight but I this made me understand that I should not do things just to fit in this stupid rules made by other people I must say everyone is beautiful in there own way do not make other people feel you bad about yourself

I go through this everyday... I am tired, everyday my teacher, friends and even parents mock me for being thin. I was fat when I was in cls 4-5 and I got slapped for being fat, a family member did this... Now they make fun of me for being thin. Idk what they want. I lost weight because of them and now they are telling me to gain weight. After that I know they will again mock me for gaining weight. You know what just k**l me

Hey Spill Bee , I am turning 16 this month and through my life relatives , friends and neighbours have trolled me for being overweight

People don't understand how it can affect people. I have been bullied and trolled by family and friends bcz of my body. When I lost weight I gained respect from around. I later gained weight again due to depression. And now I'm trying to loose it again. But it's being so difficult that it has created an unhealthy relationship with food. I'm scared to even eat food or take more food due to their judgements. Even now my weight is depressing me, bcz of the way I was brought up and it affected my mentality as well. I seriously am so stressed that I find my life pointless, I feel unattractive, broken, I can't even feel my feminine energy.

True, people should do this cz he is a guy or she is a girl, wear certain outfits or have certain kind of looks etc are bullshits... No one should tell others what they should do, unko khud pata hai how are they comfortable with themselves.. Leave this century we all know how during ancient times makes used to wear necklace and bangles etc gold and jewelries but abhi same kare to people will laugh.. live and let live..

I think Komal's fashion sense is good but I agree that it's not for everyone. One thing that looks good on someone may not look good on other person. But criticizing someone's body type is not okay. When kids are criticized by people around them about their bodies, a lot of times it leads to ED as a grown up. My point is, you never know why a person is the way they are.

Even i get asked by so many people (aunties) when I attend any function ," kitni patli hogyi hai...khati nhi hai ky....Diet karti hai ky....sukh gayi hai" etc. Yes I lost my weight that to only 4 kgs in 4 years that was recommended for my health as I have PCOS. Inko ky problem hoti hai samjat nhi like care hoti tho serious tone samjta hai but that was like they are doubting on me ( even my doctor feels my weight is perfect as per my height and age) . And even that same aunty comments on other girl," kitni moti hogi hai na vho, pehchana he nhi". Do these people understand how there comments affect other person!

I love the way urfi replied to her👏

As a skinny person myself whenever my so called relatives meet me in person the first thing they point out before any hello or hi "arree Kitni Patli ho gyi ho tum " and it's just getting on my nerves now that how normalized such behaviour is and they also have the audacity to tell me how to put on some weight bcoz if I don't I won't be able to fit in the those shitty beauty standards or I look too small for my age/height 🤦‍♀️ Why can't just people stop commenting on someone's else body like it isn't that hard !!

Their reels are refreshing... 😇😇😇

Love your rational mindset

Hey spill be I'm a teen and i love to watch your vids when I was a kid i too was bodyshamed by many of my relatives such as telling their kids to go near moti ( me ) this that, even my classmates, bullies fatshamed me. People really have to understand that saying a small thing can affect too much to the person. Now that i lose some weight as i am ageing, my relatives ask me what diet do i follow, how did you become so skinny?, Oh! You were fat when you were a kid. Like i know this still they say it. I had a cousin who was my age and was prettier than me, i could clearly see that they loved her more than me still they continue to do but that doesn't matter much. Thank you splill be for encouraging our generation to have good manners and thinking. Lots of love

Aapke bat ko koi kaat nhi skta ekdm tol mol k bolte ho aap 😀❤️

I know how it feels. I've to hear these comments like everytime. "Eat Something" "Gain some weight or otherwise you will fly with wind" "Ghar me khana nhi dete kya" Many more.. Though i eat much but still don't know why I'm not gaining weight or getting fat. Still trying to be fit in.

I'm too much healthy for someone who is just 22 and my whole father's side family keep telling me everytime I meet them to loose weight or else I won't get any boy to get married.. that's so dumb.. like yes i know I need to reduce some weight cause the doctor told me to do so, cause it's affecting my health.. but their reason of loosing weight is too much ridiculous

Please make a video on fifty shades of grey......please because I'm addicted to that movie that was sooooo..... Romantic.... 💙❤💜

Since when we can wear influencers's clothes I only watch them for meme 😁

Just love spill bee's voice ♥️♥️

They deserve each other I find Siddharth equally weird

I'm the person who just use to watch your videos but never like or describe but after watching this i like your video and following u as well

Why i like spill bee…coz komal ko hi criticise kia tha bargain karne ke liye aur aj usi ke support mai bat kar rahi hai❤