kpop truths you are too afraid to admit

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Soft 4 Taeng

Soft 4 Taeng

Күн бұрын

As kpop stans we might sometimes not be ready to accept something even if it's the truth and we might be scared of admitting it to ourselves.
In this video there are some examples of truths that stans often try to deny and will never admit...
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Intro song: TXT - Thursday’s child has far to go (instrumental)
Outro song: IVE - Dear Cupid (instrumental)

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@kpop.is.a.revolution
@kpop.is.a.revolution Жыл бұрын
Guys always remember: kpop is not that deep
@nova-in9oh
@nova-in9oh Жыл бұрын
funny that you’re saying that when your username is kpop is a revolution, but yeah i agree
@rosalynelippington
@rosalynelippington Жыл бұрын
I mean some idols r literally suffering under their companies
@ultravioletgaia
@ultravioletgaia Жыл бұрын
It's a very shallow industry
@shwetachate
@shwetachate Жыл бұрын
K-pop is deep, It's matter of if you want to go that deep or stay on the surface haha
@icountmoney1226
@icountmoney1226 Жыл бұрын
It is actually
@kpopfee34
@kpopfee34 Жыл бұрын
I want to add something: Just because two idols talked for 5 seconds, that doesnt mean that they r "besties4ever"". Maybe they are just FRIENDS and not besties.
@salt5711
@salt5711 Жыл бұрын
or maybe they're being respectful or just want to greet them, but I agree with u
@kpopfee34
@kpopfee34 Жыл бұрын
@@salt5711 yesss thats what i am saying, thank u
@salt5711
@salt5711 Жыл бұрын
@@kpopfee34 lol yah, the amount of videos and comments saying idols like each other for just looking at each other for .1 seconds or greeting them is astonishing
@kpopfee34
@kpopfee34 Жыл бұрын
@@salt5711 nah frfr. Its like when u do a group project with a classmate u don rlly r friends with and then everybody like: omg they r probably besties
@keribere244
@keribere244 Жыл бұрын
Same goes with shipping. They’re real people, not fictional characters. For a lot of idols, their personalities on camera aren’t even their own.
@Dokemoni
@Dokemoni Жыл бұрын
1. Stop thinking Korea is a perfect place just because of how it is portrayed in Dramas. There is a reason why they have one of the highest suicide rate. 2. Just because you listen to kpop or watch kdramas doesn't mean you know anything about Korea. -- Seriously I lost interest in Korea after living there for 6 months. 3. Koreans do not care about the rest of the world. They will listen to rap and hip hop music, watch American movies and that's it. That's why a lot of Idols do things that might upset you. Also their English is pretty much non existent. 4. K-pop groups only care about the Korean fans because their main focus is the Korean market even when expending to the west the Korean and Japanese market is the most important. 5. Idols who were involved in a bullying scandal will most likely not go back to the entertainment industry. Once the Korean public hates you your career is over. Gidle for example is more popular overseas, but that didn't stop cube from kicking Soojin out. Even when proven innocent Koreans will still boycott her. 6. K-pop idols are products for their companies and you are the consumers that's it. You make them money. If a group doesn't make any profit it will be dropped. 7. Stop dreaming about dating someone from Korea. They will date you but not marry you, maybe you are more lucky if you are white, blond and have blue eyes. 8. You know absolutely nothing about your idols. Being an Idol is their job and they are most likely putting on an act for most of the time. The public wants a perfect idol. And fans project a lot on their idols. Idols especially female idols get backlash for showing their personalities. Yeah misogyny is huge in Korea. 9. You do not have to force yourself to like every song of a group that you Stan and do not have to spend all of your money on a group. It is fine to not like a song or even some actions idols do. Also voicing criticism can help them improve their music, but if you guys just stream songs it shows them that they can release anything and fans will still buy it. 10. High numbers of views on KZfaq does not mean that the song is good. It means that a group is popular and has a big fandom that wastes time on streaming songs. 11. Bullying a bully is not ok. You can call them out on their actions but anything further than that should be between the bully, victim and the police. What if the bully develops depression and commits suicide? You basically become a worse bully because you in that instance were part of the reason why they ended their life and your behaviour could be seen as criminal 12. K-pop is not original and just recycles music trends. Groups are now in ther late 90s early 2000 trend. Once something in music is popular you will see every group doing it. 13. I read a lot of Korean comments from Koreans about Garam and most of them think that she is the bully even after the committee document was released. They do not care about the fact that the other girl hacked into Garams friends Facebook and published nudes ( child pornography). Or that the "victim" sent boys who were at least 3 years older to harass Garam and her friends. They only care about the fact that Garam and her friends cursed the girl out. In their eyes what she did was worse than the "victims" action. This is honestly just disgusting
@spikeyassassination7449
@spikeyassassination7449 Жыл бұрын
Girl or boy u scaring me wid ur facts also can i add last one ur favourite member whom u think will succeed even without being in a grp by debuting as a soloist it 5 percent since being a soloist gaining attention from de audience is at low rate unless they are extremely lucky especially comparing their sucess with how they are now as a grp
@Dokemoni
@Dokemoni Жыл бұрын
@@spikeyassassination7449 I am a girl.😂. Living in Korea made me and my friend stop listening to kpop. We also attended a Korean uni and took a course on Korean society. I learned that Koreans don't think that they are racist, when they do things that the rest of the world thinks is racist. For them racism involves violence. My professor was shocked when we talked about our experience in Korea. People should know that a lot of Koreans don't like foreigners even as tourists. They will act nice while talking trash about you in Korean. And I agree with you. Idols should not go solo because the number of loyal fans are low. For example Gfriend was one of the most successful girlgroups, but now no one cares about their solo projects. Even if you have the best vocals it would not matter to the public. Solo idols need to be able to attract dedicated solo fans. For example Somi is not the best vocalist but she can attract fans. Groups are more popular because you have different people who play different roles and personalities to attract a wide range of fans
@spikeyassassination7449
@spikeyassassination7449 Жыл бұрын
@@Dokemoni wooah am sorry for ur experience but i think black people are likely to experience racism in korea than white if ur black ur likely to be treated harshly overall being in korea how does the society see idols in general dont mind me asking
@Dokemoni
@Dokemoni Жыл бұрын
@@spikeyassassination7449 yes. People were giving complements to my white friends while I mostly received hostile looks. A friend who attended Hongik told me that during her first class the professor only spoke in Korean although the curse was supposed to be in English and told them that they were not welcome
@spikeyassassination7449
@spikeyassassination7449 Жыл бұрын
@@Dokemoni jeeez i can feel them 😥😥 i had already knew they where racist include the chinese as well they are brothers when it comes to racism
@sullimellow8736
@sullimellow8736 Жыл бұрын
remember that you do not need to know each members of a group you stan’s birthday, blood type, mbti type, best friend, fav color’s, favourite things etc!!
@Thatbluehair
@Thatbluehair Жыл бұрын
i know them all
@fangirlchumchum
@fangirlchumchum Жыл бұрын
it's funny cause I know this but I'll be the same one clicking on the "guess who's this" "guess which idol does this" vids😭😭
@stayxarmyxengenexblinkxmoa
@stayxarmyxengenexblinkxmoa Жыл бұрын
I say I Stan 5 groups when I only San 2groups truly or actually know some shit about them but the other 1 ik c of a friend 2nd one I know they're names maybe don't know how to spell them but the third I don't have proper facial recognition neither proper memory of members names or faces
@aII4nothing
@aII4nothing 7 ай бұрын
@@Thatbluehair this person is saying that you don't HAVE to.
@sinbaeirene491
@sinbaeirene491 Жыл бұрын
I think fans are allowed to miss groups that disbanded even after they've already debuted in another group or as a soloist but I think there's definitely a line that fans shouldn't cross with going on about missing them.
@stayxarmyxengenexblinkxmoa
@stayxarmyxengenexblinkxmoa Жыл бұрын
Yea I don't know why I'm scared of one of my favorite groups disbanding because I would miss them but I still do t know how I'd react now and i make sure that the group has a bit of time more that a year or so, so I can Stan them
@aloowalia2849
@aloowalia2849 Жыл бұрын
@@stayxarmyxengenexblinkxmoa BTS 😭
@stayxarmyxengenexblinkxmoa
@stayxarmyxengenexblinkxmoa Жыл бұрын
@@aloowalia2849 unfortunately for me it's stray kids the only have 2 years
@aloowalia2849
@aloowalia2849 Жыл бұрын
@@stayxarmyxengenexblinkxmoa you mean contract? I think they are not going to terminate it, since they are very passionate about making music, i only stan bts but I am a casual listener of skz and they seem to have a close bond among members
@stayxarmyxengenexblinkxmoa
@stayxarmyxengenexblinkxmoa Жыл бұрын
@@aloowalia2849 awee! You remind me of my old days I used to Stan bts only now I'm a multi Stan my fandoms are in my name but yea I hope since I haven't experienced a group that I Stan disbanding it's pretty scary but black pink is maybe gonna disband they have amazing music and I love the girls I'm rather worried Abt them too
@venuslights_
@venuslights_ Жыл бұрын
"talking about idols' bodies only makes It harder for them and you're not helping them." Omg finally someone said it. It seems like talking about idol bodies has become a thread now, especially female idols. and this false worry annoys me
@Mari-wh9ex
@Mari-wh9ex Жыл бұрын
Ik right its really annoying
@kiki13451
@kiki13451 Жыл бұрын
I SAID THIS ONCE and someone said “no! You need to talk about it so they can change. It happens all the time. I just want them to know I’m worried” like 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨 WHAT.
@user-ng6io5lt5t76AAZj
@user-ng6io5lt5t76AAZj Жыл бұрын
Yes.. all those videos with ' what body type does this girl groups have" or " girl groups without hip pads" constantly talking about kpop idols female body's and weight gain and weight loss and their hip pads and abs or body type or chest type is obsessive..
@FTM.1.0
@FTM.1.0 Жыл бұрын
​@@kiki13451 Wth did they said? I don't think they know anything about body shaming😅.
@doremigirl
@doremigirl 11 ай бұрын
Just talking about anybody's body is not helping. Like... Idk
@hermioneedits
@hermioneedits Жыл бұрын
1:30 this reminds me of how so many blinks were saying that they want jisoo to rap and i saw some say that its unfair that she doesnt get rap parts bcs "shes good at rapping" and then once a fan commented on jisoo and lisas live (i think) saying they want jisoo to rap she immediately dismissed the idea. theres nothing wrong with wanting ur idol to do a certain thing but pushing it as far as saying that THEY are the ones who want it is just annoying imo
@wheresmyjams1
@wheresmyjams1 Жыл бұрын
Don't tell me they still continued to tell jisoo to rap even after she made it clear that she wasn't comfortable
@makenzieschmidt7577
@makenzieschmidt7577 Жыл бұрын
@@wheresmyjams1 of fucking course they did. and its the same shit with jennie and rose too. jennie spent years training as a vocalist before she was made a rapper last minute for the group. jennie has expressed before that she wanted to sing more in bp songs and so she did but every comeback blinks would scream RAPPER JENNIE WHEN YG YOURE A RAT like? and also when rose said she was very insecure in the studio and wasnt emotionally ready for solo music and the fans COMPLETELY ignored that and kept shouting ROSE SOLO WHEN? blinks are always saying respect the girls and then are the first people to ignore the girls wishes and make demand for themselves.
@brinaskore
@brinaskore Жыл бұрын
That's true, I mean jisoo does like rapping a lot, but I don't think she'd be comfortable doing it regularly
@who_cares17
@who_cares17 Жыл бұрын
Same thing with her solo. Jisoo has already said in rs that she is not sure if she want to do solo debut or not but her fans don't understand this. They think that yg has forced her to say this, so embarrassing. Sometimes I wonder that if fans actually care about their idols or not
@brenna730
@brenna730 Жыл бұрын
@@kellykimbi9101 I thought she said she wanted to try a rock concept or something
@soomi
@soomi Жыл бұрын
About the admitting you're wrong thing really needs to be said louder. Sometimes you were just misinformed prior and you should always be open to the idea more information can come out and that you were made believe things about idols that weren't correct. Or simply because people don't research stuff at all and yet they refuse to admit they could be wrong. Kinda creepy.
@Realunmaker
@Realunmaker Жыл бұрын
The saddest part is it doesn't apply to something as inconsequential in the long run as music, I've seen people defend criminals and a political party even after everything is crumbling into pieces just because admiting they are wrong is somehow worse than supporting literal evil to them. This happens all around the world.
@yvy.830
@yvy.830 Жыл бұрын
fr like they see someones comment thread about what a terrible person a celebrity is and jump on the hate train or needlessly defend them when they actually dont have a clue what went down
@brenna730
@brenna730 Жыл бұрын
@@yvy.830 and we will never know what went down cuz we weren’t there. Especially when it involves multiple idols we like speaking for our favs acting like we know them and the situation when the only people that have a say is the idols involved
@yvy.830
@yvy.830 Жыл бұрын
@@brenna730 fr cuz usually they have to sort it out mostly in private and the companies are so bad at letting fans know whats going on even knowing that theyre gonna speculate whats happened and add fuel to the fire
@brenna730
@brenna730 Жыл бұрын
@@yvy.830 right like if something happened between an idol and another idol or a group I don’t speak for then I don’t assume anything I just let the people involved work it out cuz they actually know each other and what went down but we don’t. But it won’t change fans will baby their favs acting like they said to speak for them in a situation not about them
@misst1847
@misst1847 Жыл бұрын
YOU DONT KNOW WHAT IDOLS WANT!!!! Preach bestie!!! Stans on Twitter making it there only goal in life to cry about member/s not having enough lines to the point of running the company and producers down to the ground! Sickening! Go outside, touch grass, makes real friends!
@inactivelpdkt
@inactivelpdkt Жыл бұрын
A huge problem with this fandom is also that these stans just need to chill. At the end of the day it's just music it's not that deep
@batmanlikespizza2541
@batmanlikespizza2541 Жыл бұрын
Considering who “Stan” was, it makes perfect sense why people who refer to themselves as such act the way they do…. They’re obsessed and think they know/own these groups/soloists. A lot of those people genuinely need help because like you said, its not that deep because it IS just music.
@YouknowMimisParplaveOr
@YouknowMimisParplaveOr 2 ай бұрын
@@batmanlikespizza2541People need help cos they love music? That’s like saying people need help cos they’re sports fans. Maybe music means nothing to you, but for others like myself, it does mean a lot.
@YouknowMimisParplaveOr
@YouknowMimisParplaveOr 2 ай бұрын
“It’s just music”. For you it may be. Maybe music means nothing to you but for others like me, it does.
@inthediamondsky
@inthediamondsky Жыл бұрын
Let me add, Taemin got a solo debut at a really young age. He wasn't "ready" by any means and wasn't lauded as the best vocalist or all rounder, just the best dancer. But even in his debut, he had that "it" factor. You have to have it. And he had it, even at the age of 21! I think he's a great example, now he's one of the most famous soloists in Korea.
@wheresmyjams1
@wheresmyjams1 Жыл бұрын
5:00 let's also not go around saying that the member should be kicked out because "there's nothing special about them" a lot of people like to do this so i felt the need to say this
@ladyzebachi9365
@ladyzebachi9365 Жыл бұрын
Yeah. I think it's because K-pop is built on idols being entertainers more than being musicians and people are so used to being entertained that if a person doesn't really entertain them that much, they tend to disregard them. That's why I see K-pop as an industry more than music, because music is just a subset of what they do.
@ruum9
@ruum9 Жыл бұрын
The thing with some wiz*ones is they were so blinded by the group's success that they basically forgot its a temporary group. I've seen some people say iz*one's disbandement is "Kpop's biggest loss of 2021" which I can see to some extent but those people talked about it as if iz*one was meant to stay forever and that their disbandement was sudden. No. It wasn't. They have always been temporary. No matter what you do they were fated to disband, and maybe some members joined in the first place to gain a bit of experience as an idol and found a temporary group is an excellent way. Now a successful temporary group going on right now is Kep1er, and please please remember they are temporary, enjoy it while you could but do not act like they are meant to be permanent. Don't get yourself into temporary groups if you can't handle the fact that they're gonna disband, it's just how things work.
@soft4taeng
@soft4taeng Жыл бұрын
You expressed my exact thoughts. People should never forget these groups are meant to be only temporary and the chance of them becoming permanent is basically nonexistent, so if you can't handle that, then you should probably not even start stanning them in the first place.
@delaneypoulk4070
@delaneypoulk4070 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with this, and another thing I even thought of that people tend to forget is that kpop groups (in general) don’t last forever. Eventually groups will disband, members will leave and pursue other things or even just want to live their life like normal people which kpop fans need to remember. “Temporary groups” are essentially normal groups but their contract is just shorter. I think a lot of ppl forget about the fact that no matter what group you stan, eventually that will end and like they said in the video you have to be very mature to understand that :)
@mmq4017
@mmq4017 Жыл бұрын
I was neutral about the situation with garam but at some point with all the “evidence” that came out i really thought she was a bully, but i never sent hate! I was just angry at people who defended her since I didn’t know any better, i was just saying that ‘what if she was a bully…’ ‘what if ur defending a bully..’ And honestly im a new kpop stan (late 2021) and this is my first time seeing a scandal like that, next time im definitely going to stay quiet.. also i had some sympathy for her we’re the same age and I thought if she did do anything in middle school she must regret it by now, because ive definitely done things in middle school that i regret! I feel like everytime a scandal/bullying scandal happens its always the same (woojin, hyunjin, soojin), i just feel like kpop fans forget that these idols are human.. sorry i was keeping this bottled up, and its been bothering me! But ur video is great, you have very good points that i agree with!
@soft4taeng
@soft4taeng Жыл бұрын
I also pretty much stayed neutral but all of those things that came out really made me think she had done something she shouldn't have done, but of course i was always against those people sending her hate because how can you hate someone for being a bully and then become a bully yourself by hurting someone with your comments? Anyway now i definitely feel sorry for her, i believe the company should have handled everything better, but they literally abandoned her and it sucks...
@49emy
@49emy Жыл бұрын
@@soft4taeng the way shes proven innocent now makes it even worse that hybe and source music kicked her out
@ahrirulez4720
@ahrirulez4720 Жыл бұрын
@@49emy exactly, now her career is already ruined and there's probably nothing she can do
@Yuunarichu
@Yuunarichu Жыл бұрын
Same- though at the time the nail on the head for me was when YES said she attempted, I thought it must've made her mentality even more fragile when she got all the backlash from netizens.
@wheresmyjams1
@wheresmyjams1 Жыл бұрын
@@49emy if they didn't kick her out, this situation might've still continued. I do think it's sad that garam was kicked out and that she basically lost her dream but i don't necessarily blame hybe for it, it's mostly all kpop stans fault for not staying neutral from the beginning. Yk how these people were whenever hybe gave literally any evidence and the evidence was good enough but people Just didn't wanna believe it, it was even better evidence than eunsoo's "evidence" but look who kpop stans believed. even now there are people who think garam did something to "make the svc lie" they'd most likely accuse hybe of paying the school or something.
@user-mj3ux7gr9w
@user-mj3ux7gr9w Жыл бұрын
I agree with the favouratism thing. Everyone when Ice Cream and ddu du ddu du came out everyone was bashing Lisa and Jennie because Jisoo and Rose barly got any lines. But the thing is is that certain members are more popular than others and fit that groups aesthetic more. Jisoo and Rose get many lines in thier more mellow vocal based songs. But in Blackpinks more popular tracks whre hip-hop and powerfull themes are portryaed it is often Lisa or Jennie that get the most lines and screen time. As sad as it is that is how the industry works and some people need to understand that. Everyone knows that if for example Jisoo were to get more lines in Ddu du Ddu du that the song would havce not been as popular bc she does not fit that vibe as much as the other mmebers. Companys see this and fit memebrs where they can make the most money. Life is not fair and alot of ytall crazy stans should understand that.
@brenna730
@brenna730 Жыл бұрын
It makes sense why they would give the member that fits the song best. Like it’s not an issue that a different idol gets more or less lines depending on if their voice fits
@huongho6302
@huongho6302 Жыл бұрын
I really thought Garam was a bully, though I did not send "hate" comments, I did say things along the lines of "there is so much evidence, stop trying to cover up for her". Now after thinking it through, we don't know anything, we don't known if it was a staged to hurt Garam's reputation coming from the bullies(before debut because universities doesn't like bad records), we don't know if it was an accident taken the wrong way, we don't know anything other than the "evidence". Anyways this was a lesson learnt the hard way for me.
@beautifulwalrus277
@beautifulwalrus277 Жыл бұрын
That was a hate comment. It's okay to be wrong but don't back track like you were innocent
@huongho6302
@huongho6302 Жыл бұрын
@@beautifulwalrus277 true
@Aurelian369_
@Aurelian369_ Жыл бұрын
@@beautifulwalrus277 lmao how is that a hate comment? Don’t get mad at them for believing the available evidence, they probably couldn’t know at the time that it was fake
@beautifulwalrus277
@beautifulwalrus277 Жыл бұрын
@@Aurelian369_ which is exactly why they shouldn't have said anything. If the avaliable evidence at the time wasn't credible, the responsible thing to do would to stay neutral and not say anything. It seems like you're guilty of this as well and that's why you're upset. I imagine instead of using critical thinking or trying to examine the evidence for yourself (which if you did it would become obvious the "evidence" wasn't even real) you believed what others were spoonfeeding you. You can't just be a part of the mob mentality and then act like you were never a part of the problem.
@priya6462
@priya6462 Жыл бұрын
@@Aurelian369_ thats why staying neutral is a must soojin condition
@elinof3422
@elinof3422 Жыл бұрын
I was always terrified to get into a group based on visuals so I would just avoid groups like the plague. But then I got to thinking, I could watch a video on them and see personalities and talents and whatnot and decide from there. Ever since then I have found far to many groups that I love. That’s also how I found my ult group!!
@mydaychoice204
@mydaychoice204 Жыл бұрын
Who’s your ult group?
@elinof3422
@elinof3422 Жыл бұрын
@@mydaychoice204 it’s epex. I know a lot of people don’t know about them but I really respect them. They are and amazing group. Who’s your ult group?
@mydaychoice204
@mydaychoice204 Жыл бұрын
@@elinof3422 My ult group is Day6. I also like A.C.E. My username is the name of Day6’s and A.C.E’s fandom names combined.😄I like a lot of other groups, too!
@elinof3422
@elinof3422 Жыл бұрын
@@mydaychoice204 ohhh that’s so cute that you combined the fandom names!!!! I Stan so many groups that my username would be a mile long if I tried that. But that’s super adorable!!
@ancientmingyu0604
@ancientmingyu0604 Жыл бұрын
It's really funny, I always happen to choose my bias based on visuals. It's literally so weird. Take Ateez for an example, they're one of my ults. I saw a pic of them for the first time, I saw Seonghwa and I was immediately like "That one! That's gonna be my bias". And a couple years down the road he's my ult bias of the group but by now I'm an ot8, they and Wonho are the only artists without a single song that I dislike and when I bought my first new Ateez album I pulled two Seonghwa photo cards and was so happy that I cried. Usually when I pick my bias of a group they happen to end up being rappers in 99% of the cases. I just sniff out my rap boys every time 🤣 But what can I say, T.O.P was literally my first ever bias and is one of my ults. I'm just a rap person, apparently.
@pwqdon
@pwqdon Жыл бұрын
bro fr i hate when fans are like "- will be a good soloist" like no. not everyone is good as soloist, look at somi shes great example.
@allhere5780
@allhere5780 Жыл бұрын
Tbh, Somi is a good soloist
@pwqdon
@pwqdon Жыл бұрын
@@allhere5780 thats your opinion ❣️
@carolinaramos2719
@carolinaramos2719 Жыл бұрын
Somi has the potencial to be an amazing soloist. She still has some weakness when come to hold a stage all by herself which is different from her center parts in I.O.I.,but I think it's just a matter of time and practice until she improves that
@wheresmyjams1
@wheresmyjams1 Жыл бұрын
Somi is a pretty good soloist
@PreviouslySoobslush
@PreviouslySoobslush Жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@babyanie4673
@babyanie4673 Жыл бұрын
I disagree about the stanning thing. I think people who are into kpop need to know the difference between being a fan of something and Stanning something. Stans do know almost everything about their fave and watch all of their content. Stans are Fans on steroids. I don't think there is anything wrong with being a regular kpop fan.
@shwetachate
@shwetachate Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Stanning is time consuming as well. So having only specific groups to stan and being a regular fan of others is a better choice. Well it depends on the person I guess.
@bye1546
@bye1546 Жыл бұрын
“Stans are fans on steroids” 💀
@narutotrickzxtv3D
@narutotrickzxtv3D Жыл бұрын
That’s sounds like your gate keeping who can and can’t appreciate an idol and group though, like knowing about someone’s entire existence in it self Is kind of already problematic why can’t someone have a favorite, enjoy their career and want nothing but the best for them with out being any less valued on the “stan” tier list because they miss a trivia question on the idol here and there some people don’t even have that much time in the day to research every little thing, it just feels like another way for fans to divide them selves and feel superior to others in the fandom which is kind of dumb because whether a “fan” or a “stan”they both want the same thing for the idol which is success.
@yutisima
@yutisima Жыл бұрын
@@narutotrickzxtv3D bruh there's nothing wrong with being a fan...
@yutisima
@yutisima Жыл бұрын
the word "Stan" was literally invented by Eminem and it means an obsessive fan, basically a sasaeng, but with the years the word got washed a lot and now people just say they're stans when they ADORE a group
@ujungangel
@ujungangel Жыл бұрын
HEAVY ON THE "WE GET INTERESTED IN AN IDOL BECAUSE OF VISUALS" Idk why kpop fans come at you when people say that they biased a member because they're pretty like... That's kind of the point... Companies do all of these surgeries and makeovers to idols for a reason! To gain traction!
@axriq
@axriq Жыл бұрын
Also it's okay to dislike a group/idol without hating them. It's both different things. Not liking the group/idol ≠ hating them
@FTM.1.0
@FTM.1.0 Жыл бұрын
Agree , evreytime I say I don't like X idol they start telling me that I *hate* them because I'm jealous. Like WHAT?
@luvie802
@luvie802 Жыл бұрын
Ok here's one, you will not like every song your fave releases even if you didn't specifically hate it you won't choose to listen to it and you will skip it, or just you won't vibe with it and that's totally acceptable because groups will do different genres and its not everyone's cup of tea
@soft4taeng
@soft4taeng Жыл бұрын
Totally agree, i don't think there is a single group i stan where i like every single song (besides ive because they literally have only 6 songs...) But as for the other groups, i might not dislike any of their songs but there is always one track that i will skip most of the times and that's okay
@wheresmyjams1
@wheresmyjams1 Жыл бұрын
I'm at 2:53 right now and i've agreed to everything except maybe this one. From definitions that i've heard, a stan is an active fan, someone that watches and loves the artist a lot. just listening to a few songs of some group would mean you're a fan of their music, not necessarily stanning them. Maybe some people see it differently or have different definitions but this is just how i see it. Basically what i mean is Stan=active fan Fan=casual listener
@ladyzebachi9365
@ladyzebachi9365 Жыл бұрын
I don't understand how the word stan has suddenly changed its meaning. Like everywhere but K-pop, "stan" means a person who is obsessive and overzealous about a particular person and/or a group. I have a feeling that one person started using stan in a different context and it just spread as newcomers came into K-pop.
@wheresmyjams1
@wheresmyjams1 Жыл бұрын
@@ladyzebachi9365 idk how it happened either. I have an assumption where stan still does mean stalker fan in kpop but the intensity of the word is different. Like in kpop it's like when you say you've just stalked someones page. in other words, watching a group online a lot and keeping up with a lot of the things they do/latest news technically is stalking but not in a bad way. The definition people use outside of kpop is someone that follows a celebrity around and basically stalks them irl without their consent, basically a creep. I don't necessarily mind it though because to me saying "stan (group)" sounds way better than "become a fan of (someone)" or whatever they say, idk.
@wheresmyjams1
@wheresmyjams1 Жыл бұрын
@@ladyzebachi9365 it's kinda like how gen-z slangs work, someone uses it and then it becomes a trend. Gen-z use these slangs but people that aren't gen-z might find it weird that the words "changed it's meaning"
@ladyzebachi9365
@ladyzebachi9365 Жыл бұрын
@@wheresmyjams1 I am gen-z!!! I know words are always evolving like fan used to be an abbreviation of fanatics but idk. It didn't sit right with me calling myself a "stan".
@arstan8092
@arstan8092 Жыл бұрын
@@ladyzebachi9365 Yeah as a huge eminem fan (Kind of where the word stemmed from) there is no way i could feel comfortable using te word stand, for me it means something completely different, so i just say fan or that i follow the group etc. Stan just gives me a bad taste in my mouth.
@user-mt1th4wu8x
@user-mt1th4wu8x Жыл бұрын
number 1 FACT Kpop fans will never admit: STOP. MAKING. KPOP A LIFESTYLE. It’s not healthy at all.
@jiddies5107
@jiddies5107 Жыл бұрын
The thing with temporary groups disbanding is sad cause they dint really get enough time as an idol if that is really what they want to do. Izone Stans wanting to bring the lightsticks to an Ive concert is messed up like just use your phone torch
@soft4taeng
@soft4taeng Жыл бұрын
Well, luckily every post izone group and soloist is doing well in their idol career, because at the end of the day the project group is supposed to be only the beginning of your career, not your whole career itself, so i'm glad that the companies were able to manage the girls properly after the disbandment...and regarding the lightstick thing, that really pissed me off, thank god ive are soon gonna get their own lightstick
@lovlipatton8896
@lovlipatton8896 Жыл бұрын
but like members of temporary groups almost always redebut. like the whole purpose of temporary groups is to build popularity and promo for the members future activities as an idol or actor after the temporary group disbands. so they are likely still going to have time to be an idol
@bl00dthirstyvamp_.
@bl00dthirstyvamp_. Жыл бұрын
One truth that blinks are afraid to admit is that no bp member is underrated they're all loved and equally supported by fans (non toxics blinks) cuz i'm tired of hearing the jisoo or rosé is underrated when no one in bp is...
@reallyhandsomebastard87
@reallyhandsomebastard87 Жыл бұрын
Finally someone said it !
@szuchae
@szuchae Жыл бұрын
Like the whole underrated Jisoo thing made Jisoo more popular than Rosé then complained saying Rosé is underrated because now she is the least popular
@bl00dthirstyvamp_.
@bl00dthirstyvamp_. Жыл бұрын
@@szuchae fr blinks are so ungrateful
@sur_un_nuage
@sur_un_nuage Жыл бұрын
yes we should stop speaking for idols this one is very important
@stan_lewna
@stan_lewna Жыл бұрын
I definitely agree with the last one. Before I got to know New Jeans better Hyein was my bias because of how pretty she was. Now it's Haerin / Minji.
@YGhappyvirus
@YGhappyvirus Жыл бұрын
agree on everything except the stan one! it's okay to be a casual listener but don't step outside the lines by sending hate or shaming other stans for not voting/streaming/etc when you're not doing it yourself
@deeuphrosyne
@deeuphrosyne Жыл бұрын
Agree, I watched one episode of the last produce when they asked about their dream/goal, many of the answers were about being popular globally and won BBMA, not many fans want to admit that many idols want to be kpop idol not because they love music/dance/performing, many of them just want the attention, to be rich and famous. And you can see who really likes music and want to make good performance to their fans and who just want to be ‘celebrity’. Those who love music and performing, always try their best to improve their skills, some make covers, some even learned how to write/produce/participate in their album.
@brenna730
@brenna730 Жыл бұрын
U don’t know who does or doesn’t genuinely wanna make music like they all clearly do. And them saying they want a certain award or perform on a show isn’t bad either like u guys would want the same thing they’re allowed to have those dreams and still wanna make music. And u don’t have to know how to produce to wanna be a singer as there are idols who don’t know how but still love music. Quit assuming things about them
@revilivaille7861
@revilivaille7861 Жыл бұрын
The point regarding commenting on idols' bodies is only half right. Commenting NEGATIVE things is unnecessary and harmful, but sometimes we as fans have an obligation to speak up against a toxic industry that's starving girls and women (and often men too) and destroying their health. Keeping quiet will only enable it to continue. Furthermore, not only the idols' health are affected, they're promoting unhealthy beauty ideals too, which can affect the health of fans too, by negatively impacting their body image, causing eating disorders. It is common knowledge that kpop is a common cause of anorexia. The viewpoint you present in this video is in fact rather harmful. Eating disorders are actively encouraged in this industry and pretending like it doesn't exist or like managers/agency etc care about their idols being healthy is only making things worse. Staying quiet means you're part of the problem. We should criticize problematic things regarding the media we consume, ESPECIALLY if we claim to care about our idols.
@revilivaille7861
@revilivaille7861 Жыл бұрын
Another K-pop truth: The majority of gg idols are severely underweight - they either have eating disorders or are forced by management/fans and media pressure to go on extreme diets and work out too much to stay so skinny. Fans trying to speak up about this are often silenced and called "haters" when they are in fact just voicing concerns for idols and criticizing a toxic industry.
@kiki13451
@kiki13451 Жыл бұрын
You can speak on a toxic industry WITHOUT commenting on peoples bodies. I wanted to look at Wonyoung edits and all I saw were videos talking about her weight and making comparisons. As someone who struggled (and still does) with weight and eds, PERSONALLY (and I know people who can attest to this) I do NOT like people talking about my body. I’m okay with people saying things like stop trying to look like standard, there are ways to be healthy and eat etc but making comments on one’s appearance is never good. Do y’all seriously think idols look at these videos of people comparing their weight and saying they’re “worried” is going to make the idol think “hmm they’re right let me gain weight” no. It’s going to make them feel bad about themselves. ESPECIALLY in situations for instance Momo, who was forced into a bad diet. She and a lot of other idols (I think bts spoke on it Jimin maybe) speak on diets they have to follow. Seeing fans commenting on their weight when they can’t do anything about it is not going to change anything. And MAJORITY of the time with anything, eating disorders, mental disorders, addiction, it’s up to the person THEMSELVES to decide to be better. Having people constantly tell you that and commenting on it isn’t going to make them change, it’s them wanting to change for THEMSELVES it’s what’s going to make them change. A lot of the idols who are open about ed, bad dieting and weight have stated that THEY decided THEMSELVES to make a change. Not the fans pressure, not the company. I see the point you’re making this isn’t an attack, but again, you can speak on a toxic industry without speaking on someone’s body. You can say that Korea idolizes thin unnatural figures too much. You can say that it’s unhealthy and idols have fainted or become ill from bad dieting and grueling schedules. But in no way should someone get online and say “*insert idol name* looks so skinny now, she looks like she could snap in half does she eat? Korea is toxic and needs to stop the unnatural standard!” Because that’s not speaking up against toxicity, that’s being backhanded. And to state once more, and a lot of celebrities who are open have said this at least once, they struggle with body issues, no one likes when people comment on their weight especially when it’s not good (for ex telling my friend she looks good or it’s noticeable she lost weight after going to the gym and being on a healthy diet isn’t bad when she’s happy to see that people notice her progress ). That just makes people more self conscious which in turn makes the issue worse. Idk when this became a thing but it needs to stop. It’s the same as pointing out peoples flaws, no one is going to like that. And I know this is long and I just keep saying the same thing, but again it’s okay to speak up against toxicity, but there are plenty of ways you can do that without talking about someone’s body. This video was not wrong,m. It’s not staying silent. Because talking about toxic beauty standards and pointing out issues on a person are NOT the same. It’s okay to be worried about people, but if this is an issue with the idol themselves (I can only think of IU where it seemed as if she came up with the diet herself don’t quote me) it’s up to them to want to change, no amount of videos or tweets and comments can make them change their mind. It’s up to that person to want to be better. If it’s a case of the company (I see red velvet being controlled on what they eat. Maybe Sunoo and Yeonjun but I’m not sure if that’s company pressure or “fans”), you can speak out on it without talking down on an idol. Because that’s essentially what it is. Pointing out their thin legs and how “bony and stick like” their arms look isn’t showing concern, that’s just the same pointing out that an idol has crooked teeth or weird shaped eyes and trying to say it’s nice or cute. The intention isn’t bad but you’re pointing out issues that people have (unless stated they don’t have an issue with it) and that’s just going to make them dwell more on it and guess what? Not change -_-
@revilivaille7861
@revilivaille7861 Жыл бұрын
@@kiki13451 sweetie did you read my comments... Anyway how are we gonna tackle a problem without mentioning the individuals who are both victims and perpetrators. Don't be so ignorant. Calling out unhealthy beauty standards also help potential or current victims of ED (ie kpop fans) to realize that the look they want to achieve is UNHEALTHY and DANGEROUS. I will not be silenced. I too have been struggling with EDs, kpop gave me anorexia and I almost died so your point of view is not the only one. I wish more people would have spoken up about the sick bodies of kpop back then. Anyway please reread my comments
@k-pop722
@k-pop722 Жыл бұрын
She’s speaking facts
@wheresmyjams1
@wheresmyjams1 Жыл бұрын
Almost all of these are things i've seen happen in the past week and almost all of them, i agree with. i'm glad i'm not the only one that has these opinions
@momosphynx1567
@momosphynx1567 Жыл бұрын
I agree witht he not everything you say an idol wants is true. People often complain about Tzuyu not having enough lines yet she has said time to time she's comfortable with songs like First time, because despite having little lines, she is comfortable with how the lines she got are not damaging her voice or making her sing in other tune that's not comfortable to her. Same with produce groups, Minju herself said she didn't want to pursue idol life, neither did So-Hye, since they've always pursued acting.
@The3Halliwell3
@The3Halliwell3 Жыл бұрын
for scandals i feel like often the ''proof'' (for innocence or guilt, doesnt matter) is rarely ever real proof.
@jisooschikin2514
@jisooschikin2514 Жыл бұрын
Louder! I’ve seen people say “all bts and Blackpink members would be popular if they were soloists” No, they wouldn’t. Only members that would do okay as soloists are Jk ,Jennie ,V , Rosé , (vocal based performer) Jhope, and RM. Lisa , Jisoo , Jimin, Yoongi , jin are week in some categories.
@phag4eva
@phag4eva Жыл бұрын
that's true actually. even if they're not talented enough to go solo, they would be popular enough to succeed as soloists
@jisooschikin2514
@jisooschikin2514 Жыл бұрын
@@phag4eva if they debuted as soloists istg they would not be even as known as weki meki or blackswan (no hate i love both these groups) or even unknown
@epiphanytae7566
@epiphanytae7566 Жыл бұрын
Yoongi ??? The Man who release two mixtape with Mv, Jimin solo ll sucess boi know how to perform as for Seokjin you are right he is more into variety show
@jisooschikin2514
@jisooschikin2514 Жыл бұрын
@@epiphanytae7566 jimin’s songs would be good but he won’t be able to be a singing based performer, mah boi actually strains a lot but is professional enough to hide it, cannot rap. Only thing which can lead jimin to be a soloist is his dancing skills but that won’t make him that successful. Yoongi is extremely talented, but even being a part of bts he didn’t get fame until 2018 but rest of the members did, he lacks vocal skills. (No hate to anyone)
@gamingphenom6440
@gamingphenom6440 Жыл бұрын
the thing is they are so popular now they would be successful anyway, also jimin would 100% be successful he strains cuz the songs require him to go really high and sometimes out of his range , in a solo he wouldn't have to keep going so high and can sing comfortably Yoongi isn't a performing soloist but is still massively successful so I think he would be successful too.
@isaijmartinez1671
@isaijmartinez1671 Жыл бұрын
So for Produce groups I think a lot of us like the memories and let’s be honest we can cry and be sad about it. I mean I love seeing all four groups in thier new lives when they interact because it’s like crumbs.
@XxsunnysisxX
@XxsunnysisxX Жыл бұрын
✨ You make very valid points. Wise words, thank you 💫
@i_regret_commenting_so_much
@i_regret_commenting_so_much Жыл бұрын
3:44 THISSS!! A lot of kpop stans need to hear this😭, I find it really annoying when people make videos about idols like Ryujin, Yuna, Wonyoung, Liz etc talking about their weight loss/weight gain. I also hate it when they say "I wAnT tHe oLD rYuJiN back" or something like that💀
@myra0224
@myra0224 Жыл бұрын
Just one little error I had to point out: Family or close friends do NOT always know about an ED. As someone who has been in the position of family, it's not always obvious and the person with the ED will try to hide it as best as they can. Please don't say they will know as that only puts more guilt onto the people around the person with the ED... But constantly posting about it on Twitter or something won't change anything. I know I expressed my worries about Wooyoung from Ateez back during Fever pt 1 era, and people were being really mean about my worries (again, I have a family member who had an ED). I was right with my worries though as later on it became clear he wasn't eating healthy. I hope he's doing better now though, but I'm not as actively following the group anymore
@revilivaille7861
@revilivaille7861 Жыл бұрын
yeah. furthermore, it's basically impossible to be as skinny as most female idols without going on extreme diets and/or working out too much in relation to how much food you eat, which in itself is a symptom of some EDs. And in fact, disordered eating is encouraged, even forced, upon many idols by their agencies. I think it's fans duty to speak up against this toxic part of the kpop industry, and we shouldn't try to silence fans who do. Insulting members or saying mean things is bad, but calling out unhealthy beauty standards or voicing concerns about idols' health is important.
@myra0224
@myra0224 Жыл бұрын
@@revilivaille7861 Exactly! It's a problem in the whole of SK (I once saw a documentary or something where someone said they'd rather not eat than exercise which still shocks me to this day...). Seeing idols being so skinny and the way they eat on TV (they tend to include lots of food on screen for some reason) can also result in other people, especially younger people, wondering why they can't be as skinny while eating normally for their body so that's that too..
@revilivaille7861
@revilivaille7861 Жыл бұрын
@@myra0224 Yes!! It's horrible - the double standards!!! They have to look like they haven't eaten a day in their life but at the same time we're supposed to believe they eat like normal people or even more! Doing mukbangs, making a point of how muuuuch they like to eat, singing about ice cream, soda, candy, dessert etc. It needs to stop, and we need to call it out.
@brenna730
@brenna730 Жыл бұрын
But u don’t know if any of these idols have one or not since u aren’t their doctor or friend u can’t just label them as having one when u don’t know
@myra0224
@myra0224 Жыл бұрын
@@brenna730 I never said that?? Expressing worry doesn't mean labeling them. I worried that Wooyoung wasn't eating well, I never said he had/has an ED.
@gyugrapes5522
@gyugrapes5522 Жыл бұрын
the thursdays child intro is everything i need
@molozz2112
@molozz2112 Жыл бұрын
Some K-pop fans are so obsessed and overly protective over their group or soloist. You can literally find the most toxic K-pop fans on twitter, sending hate or d3ath threats just because some one didn't like their group or soloist. I downloaded twitter just for one day and had to delete on the same day.
@terra9074
@terra9074 Жыл бұрын
I think that any idols can be great soloists. Because in the end, we're not sure if they're gonna continue doing kpop as soloists or not, and they could switch genres and do some other genre like RnB or Indie, that don't have dances in them. A lot of other genre soloists are amazing in Korean music, and so the kpop idol could do another genre and slay!
@isaijmartinez1671
@isaijmartinez1671 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for 2:41 because THIS IS WHAT I LOVE SAYING! Im a stan of tons of groups but like for example I forget Fromis_9’s girlies names sometimes or most of the times ahaha but I Stan them and their music is just AMAZING! You can Stan because it’s bout the MUSIC remember that
@5XKXNXA
@5XKXNXA Жыл бұрын
no there is literally a real definition for a stan. I am a fan of a lot of kpop groups but i only stan 2. and the people going against Garam and saying she is a bully and cyberbully her to the core are saying they dont wanna defend a bully by being a bully themselves and in the end defended the real problematic person...interesting.. And the sad fact: they will do it again... And the temporary groups thing..so true
@ermbtspavedtheway
@ermbtspavedtheway 3 ай бұрын
gosh i thought i was a bad person for stanning idols for visuals..
@frz3rbRnotaku1
@frz3rbRnotaku1 Жыл бұрын
At first I got a little jealous when aespa got a lot of content while Red Velvet got so little especially the U.S. label. Mainly because the company doesn't give all their groups the same attention. But now I stan aespa as well. I do still get some moments like "Why can't this group get this too." Also more about the Stan comment. I always see certain fans of some of my groups fighting back and forth(the first reason) And felt so bad. fans told me "If you can't defend them Unstan, then we don't need you. etc." Remember why you started stanning and that No one should tell you who you can or can't stan.
@brenna730
@brenna730 Жыл бұрын
Reve is very popular in sk they don’t need as much promo and don’t need to go international when they’re doing fine the way they are
@et1657
@et1657 Жыл бұрын
You were really honest & I don’t disagree on any of the points. These are just things we also need to stop doing. 1- Thinking we need to know everything about each member & soloist. It’s been awhile since I started listening to Kpop/jpop/cpop. I literally only listen to the music if the group is new because at the end of day I’m not going to obsess over people I literally don’t know; nor know me. They’re people & I shouldn’t have to know every detail about them. I know the other older groups humor & name by now but that’s where I draw the line. 2- Shipping needs to stop. I saw another video saying that idols also use it for marketing to get more attention. But we all know fans take it too fucking far. Idc if they’re actually doing something together (the people their shipping) but these fans need to stop with these highly sexual vids in regards to them. You’re making them uncomfortable & their tolerating a lot. You made a great video hopefully this helps these ignorant so-called fans.
@soft4taeng
@soft4taeng Жыл бұрын
Regarding your second opinion, it is true that when it comes to shipping sometimes idols do it as a form of fan service, but like you said, some stans take it too far, so much that they literally become obsessed with a ship, legit thinking the idols are dating and they will overanalyze every single action 😑 Anyway, thank you so much for liking the video!
@FluffyCoww
@FluffyCoww Жыл бұрын
In this kinda videos many times im not agree with everything single opinion, buttt holy moly i agreed on everything what you said 🙌💖
@chxnel_jennie
@chxnel_jennie Жыл бұрын
I disagree with the one about being a stan. A stan is an obsessive fan. You need to follow everything to be a stan. But that isn't to say you can't be a fan or enjoy music without doing that. You don't need to stan everything and you probably shouldn't.
@superealmai
@superealmai Жыл бұрын
that one about temporary groups is so truee
@multifan6679
@multifan6679 Жыл бұрын
Regarding 6:20. I agree with Loona, but I have to disagree with Everglow. Mia is the only one that is able to hold a note live ever since debut. The rest has improved in the last 2 years, but half of them are still extremly weak. It makes sense to give one member the most lines, if the rest can barelly sing while dancing. The reasom why Mia gets the dance breaks, is because she is the hest dancer and E:U is quite weak when it comes to stage presence, catching people's eyes and keeping their attention. That is why Onda (a lead dancer) got her dance break first instead of E:U (a main dancer)
@soft4taeng
@soft4taeng Жыл бұрын
I see where you're coming from, but i personally think Sihyeon is also pretty stable when it comes to live singing. But besides that, nowadays most groups never really sing live, so i don't think companies necessarily take stability into account when it comes to distributing the lines
@The3Halliwell3
@The3Halliwell3 Жыл бұрын
im not an everglow stan and i only listen to a bit of their music, but if that is really the case, surely they should have trained the members a bit longer and wait with debut? why debut a group if only 1 member is ready in the eyes of the company?
@multifan6679
@multifan6679 Жыл бұрын
@@soft4taeng siheon improved A LOT. She might actually be their best vocalist now on a technical level. E:U is also pretty stable, although raps are usually easier to pull off live, hers aren't long either. She pretty much always gets safe lines. Aisha, Onda and Yiren have quite a bit to improve on. Aisha especially, considering that she trained for 10years and still struggles with everything. Onda is understandable that she doesn't get as many lines and isn't as stable since she basically became their 2nd best dancer and arguably has the best stage presence, but dhe can still barelly hold a note when live. Yiren struggles even more than Aisha.... Their improvments are also the reason why the line distributions are becomming more fair
@multifan6679
@multifan6679 Жыл бұрын
@@The3Halliwell3 aisha trained for 10years for example. They trained long, they seem to be more performance based (they are now becomming a choreography focused group based on Ladida and First). As Soft 4 Taeng already said, most 4gen groups lipsynch almost all the time, so does everglow. I guess for them having one stable member (Mia) and two semi stable ones (E:U and Sihyeon) were enough. The rest doesn't need to get lines probably, cause we can just fake that (notice how many times they lipsynch, just for Mia to actually sing the parts?)
@The3Halliwell3
@The3Halliwell3 Жыл бұрын
@@multifan6679 I see, thank you very much for the reply! Hopefully they are satisfied with the lines.
@vanessarayfox
@vanessarayfox Жыл бұрын
1. Makes me think of Ateez & (G)I-dle going from kpop stan's darlings to being hated. 2. Yes!!! Naeyeon (and maybe Jihyo/Sana) are the only Twice members who could pull off a solo. This also goes piggybacks on 3. I guarantee not everyone wants a solo. Re: Blackpink, Jisoo may be happy with getting acting roles as opposed to a music solo. 4. Every group does it. If a group makes it to the weekly most viewed on YT (which removes ads), I think that's commendable. 5. Liking a group is all you need to be considered a stan! 6. Kpop fans hate admitting they were wrong (as if anyone would care if they changed their mind). 7. This is a general fans always overstepping boundaries! 8. It's typically pretty obvious given their skills and the fact they don't write their own rap lyrics. 9. Conspiracy theories stop being funny the second they impact the idols. 10. Every group has a most popular member - that doesn't mean that member is benefiting from favoritism. It's also not the idols fault if they are favored. IVE being seen as "Wonyoung and friends" is Starship's problem, not Wonyoung's. 11. People who lose their minds when temporary groups spilt up always happens - and I'm always so confused. 12. Kpop has the visual position for a reason! And more often than not, they're also the most popular member (I can think of a few groups where the most popular isn't the visual - but they typically are).
@notminghao
@notminghao Жыл бұрын
I’ve been into kpop for as long as I lived bc of my mom at first, yea I listened to it and liked it but yk I was a kid so I was like “oh this is good music” and obviously I grew and started yk stanning groups and all that, the first ever group I stanned was shinee when they debuted with replay (good song btw😻) and I listen to kpop a lot just as I listen to other type of music but I feel like some fans take it too seriously for example you like this one group or this groups song and they don’t like it they will always call u either “racist” depends on the group yk or they’ll just get mad at u like bro it’s literally music get over it just because I like this song from this group does not mean I support what they have done or what they did that you find offensive smh and plp go as far as sending d3ath thr3ats like goddam and the fact some people literally bully idols like if they knew them irl like just because this person said this abt this idol does not mean its true and acting like a clown and sending hate and all that to people, I never understood plp like that and it’s funny that as soon as they hear “oh this idol bullied me this idol is gaslighter etc” they immediately go into conclusions and say “omg this idol is bad let’s send hate” even if they weren’t proven guilty or innocent🧍‍♀️like don’t you have anything else to do?
@khalidaafzal9638
@khalidaafzal9638 Жыл бұрын
7:55 this. I don't understand why people try to come up with excuses for this when literally everyone in the world does. When you see a person, the first thing you look at is that person's face, it's out of instinct and you're not a bad person for that but you're obviously judging them based upon their look or appearance just admit it
@kitsch590
@kitsch590 Жыл бұрын
I've also noticed that sometimes the songs for popular groups are better than for the soloists. Let's say a popular member of a group branches out a does one song as a soloist....a lot of times that song isn't quite as good as the ones that member had part of the group. Don't know if it's the producers not being as creative or what.
@Sanash04
@Sanash04 Жыл бұрын
The first one is so Relateble 💀😃
@lvsyooi
@lvsyooi Жыл бұрын
3:47, I just wanna say this to wonyoung and Yuna stans
@hyeooni
@hyeooni Жыл бұрын
yeah, saying "they're so pretty, they only need to put on some weight" is so backhanded
@randomsheep1165
@randomsheep1165 Жыл бұрын
First one remind me of Momoland. People loved them when bboom bboom came out, but once they became threatening Army's, Blinks and Once's cyber bullied the girls to oblivion and spread false rumours about them. Now they're lowkey irrelevant as a group
@soft4taeng
@soft4taeng Жыл бұрын
yeah...the moment they had a massive hit song and they started growing in popularity they suddenly turned into a threat. The way they've been treated is so disgusting and they genuinely deserve a big apology for everything they had to go through.
@autumn1493
@autumn1493 Жыл бұрын
With the last one, I want to deny it a lot, but it's true. I've got into Stray Kids by Lee Knows and Felixs visuals, but after liking their music and the members I decided to become a stay
@escaperoom6451
@escaperoom6451 Жыл бұрын
to be honest I agree with 1.2.3 especially with solo debut is not everyone in a group who can debut I'm not going names there like a few there only few within the group that can solo going solo isn't easy you need always engage the audience there's a spark that solo artist have that others don't have. going is pretty lonely at times. even with 2. I agree with this a lot because some fans complain oh this company doesn't give them a lot of lines you never your might they be insecure of because of skill( Korean language , signing, rapping). 3. I'm fan of a lot girl groups and some boy groups I can't buy all groups albums and watch everything they do .I have my own life I'm busy I'm not always going to engage my idols content or use my money for my idols. 4. I ALWAYS see fans saying I'm so happy so and so gained "oh look so and so lost weight the idols see everything fans post like they fans they look fans comments about their debut take example : chaeryoung being called ugly , fx amber losing weight in her legs , lisa " born skinny bitch " lyric 5. yes I agree some companies have favorite person within idols. they will use a certain remember especially if bring attention to the group , or help the group rise to fame : example : Hani from exid , momoland jooE , i think there i could be wrong
@Humshikarm777
@Humshikarm777 Жыл бұрын
Very well said bestie
@daychild_
@daychild_ Жыл бұрын
the one abt getting interested in idols bc of their visuals is so true!! i initially choose my bias based on who catches my eye first or whoever i can recognize the most and that usually ends up being the member i find most attractive, and then i later find out abt their personalities and stuff and possibly change biases lmao
@scarachuu
@scarachuu Жыл бұрын
Thank u for telling the truth!
@musicstan1232
@musicstan1232 Жыл бұрын
nah cos stans being afraid of admitting that they were wrong to bully an idol who turned out to be innocent is so true. It's the main reason why idols like kim woojin (used to be part of stray kids and is now a soloist) still gets hella hate although even the court has cleared up those allegations. I'm happy that Garam has now been proved innocent and although I didn't send any unnecessary hate or try to bully her with comments I kinda feel guilty cos at some point the evidence seemed so true that although I was firstly hesitant to believe the accusations cos I was keeping in mind that this could turn out to be like the woojin situation I then ended up also believing she was actually guilty. Sadly I feel like she's still gonna get hate cos the haters have gotten so far deep with their mean comments that they're now too ashamed to apologise for their immaturity and for immediately taking a side.
@blrfivvuvu
@blrfivvuvu Жыл бұрын
I don't like how fans act like they know how they act. For example, some years ago, Twice took the mbti test and those were long videos, but on personality sites the fans still say things like "Nah, she's an extrovert" when Jihyo and Dahyun clearly said they barely chat with a lot of people, prefer staying at home. On stage, idols are made to put on a mask, especially at the beginning of their career. For example, Heechul talked about how the company told him to appear mysterious, silent, reserved when SUJU was a rookie yet on variety shows you can see he's very over the top. So, I am just tired of fans acting like they know them, when the girls said that they're very shy or not leave their rooms a lot, they often speak about how Sana is the most talkative one and how most spend their time in the dorm, some fans paint Dahyun as being so playful and over the top, especially when she was a rookie yet in her video about personalities she seemed the most composed one, so eloquent and mature, very reserved. (Why just not take they word when they talk about how they truly act instead of acting a fake personality from stage shows?)
@HaevelvetImonlyviewer
@HaevelvetImonlyviewer Жыл бұрын
Idk people are hating on wonyoung she's young and these toxic kpop stans probably hate her because she's famous wtf these toxic kpop stans need to go outside fr
@mellow_doodle3998
@mellow_doodle3998 Жыл бұрын
Well you aren't wrong though but not completely right. Woni loved by Korea it's international fans who hate her because she takeover the 4 th gen it girl title if yeji,soyeon and Karina take this title they maybe don't care that much but now the title belongs to wonyoung most of them think she is undeserving that's the main reason
@soft4taeng
@soft4taeng Жыл бұрын
All of the negative comments she receives honestly disgust me, but you know, people either love wonyoung because she's an inspiration to them or they hate her because they're jealous. Some pathetic people simply hate on pretty, talented and successful girls...
@SBBunny93
@SBBunny93 Жыл бұрын
I love when people call a group “someone and friends” it kills me every time
@riristay1993
@riristay1993 Жыл бұрын
5:10..... i'm so sick of all these conspiracy theories
@Raphael-2
@Raphael-2 Жыл бұрын
There are so many groups whose views are 90% fake. Fake as : paid (automatically generated views like ads), opposed to real = views generated by fans and people who clicked on the video. So many small groups don't get more than 1M real views, but the fans think the group is popular just because the views display "10M" or "20M". It's NOT real, the videos have high views because they are ads. It's easy to notice when the views are highly manipulated, because the kpop community is so consistent in their way of watching and engaging with kpop content. The engagement rate is basically what makes kpop so special because of how great it is no matter how big or small the group is. At the moment the engagement rate becomes average or weak, you know that something is off. The worst are cases like NMIXX debut that showed 19M in the first 24 hours with only 500k likes (terrible engagement rate), but people still deny that the views were bought and manipulated with ads, even though KZfaq Charts official site literally CONFIRMED that O.O got not more than 9M real views in the first 2 days meaning their 24h score is around 4-5M (which corresponds to 500k likes with a great engagement rate). The fact that people still say to this day that NMIXX got 19M in the first day is concerning, and it creates so much delusional expectations. Just please, stop looking at kpop mvs views, it's so rarely accurate of organic views (even including fans streaming). Just look at the likes or nothing.
@soft4taeng
@soft4taeng Жыл бұрын
Yeah, sometimes i see some underrated groups gathering up crazy amount of views in such a little time and it baffles me considering they're not that popular and it's pretty obvious that those aren't orgainc views, but nowadays most views just come from mass streaming or ads and, like you said, likes are much more telling then views, but of course some stans will never admit that and will keep on being in denial
@kiukyp
@kiukyp Жыл бұрын
In general people need to chill out and just enjoy the music.
@arihhhhh3821
@arihhhhh3821 Жыл бұрын
I mean for sure, I totally agree with the first one. My fav group is (G)-Idle, but recently I've listen to Purple kiss a lot and I try not to like them more than IDLE but they're both super good, anyways listen to their music!!
@yvy.830
@yvy.830 Жыл бұрын
the last one fr like why do people complain when a person is like "_____ is my bias, theyre so pretty/handsome" when its a recently debuted group like what else are u meant to know about them apart from stage presence and looks
@Chaewonified
@Chaewonified Жыл бұрын
4:39 Can I add something: Idols will NOT be able to debut if they have even the slightest weak vocals. The companies make sure to perfect every single aspect. And NewJeans was meant to debut years ago? The youngest member is 14. No chance.
@brenna730
@brenna730 Жыл бұрын
All idols are talented in something but everyone wants every idol to be like Beyoncé to be considered talented
@wheresmyjams1
@wheresmyjams1 Жыл бұрын
3:16 sounds like garam haters. Even though she's been proven innocent, there are people that just don't wanna admit that they were wrong about her so they come up with the dumbest accusations i've ever heard.
@xhstan
@xhstan Жыл бұрын
Ngl she wasn't proven innocent. She just wrote a statement, I recommend we all stay neutral
@wheresmyjams1
@wheresmyjams1 Жыл бұрын
@@xhstan she posted the svc documents that explained everything in detail though, it's from the school. The school would not lie about a situation like this.
@Dokemoni
@Dokemoni Жыл бұрын
@@xhstan the school committee document was released. The other girl was in for revenge. She can only make all this accusations because she is a minor and her identity will be kept in secret and she can't face any negative impact from the public unless someone leaks her identity. Garams parents said that they will file a law suit
@guinnmyahslaysstaymad
@guinnmyahslaysstaymad Жыл бұрын
@@xhstan watch everglow ups video called „so about garam".We always had proofs to garams innocence it’s just that most people were not invested in it and just started spreading rumors
@winkswonks65334
@winkswonks65334 Жыл бұрын
this is so true!!
@cweativemwode7545
@cweativemwode7545 Жыл бұрын
the stan thing omfg yes!! exactly
@kpop_mode_on
@kpop_mode_on Жыл бұрын
I heard nothing but the TRUTH! Slay
@skzstarstruck1930
@skzstarstruck1930 Жыл бұрын
One thing some ENGENES won't and need to accept. Whether you disagree with it or not, whether ENHYPEN are still good people or not, whether some members are innocent or not, whether it effects Sunoo himself or not, the comments made about Sunoo's weight are not 'a compliment' or 'a joke that doesn't effect anybody and everyone needs to chill about' OR (for god's sake) 'friendly teasing.' By the definition itself it is body shaming and effects some ENGENES, so stop pretending like it's not/doesn't. I honestly don't care what you do next - support them or don't, hate them or don't, call for change or don't - but pretending like it doesn't exist or it's not serious is plain stupidity and is NOT helping.
@brenna730
@brenna730 Жыл бұрын
But we can’t assume anything on how sunoo or the members feel or their intentions and relationship. We don’t know them we weren’t there only they have the right to speak on it and work things out if sunoo is in fact hurt
@skzstarstruck1930
@skzstarstruck1930 Жыл бұрын
@@brenna730 I acknowledge what you're saying and I totally agree, but I still think it's important because when you're a global boy group, things like this don't only effect the members of a group - it effects the fanbase too. Imagine all the ENGENE's who might feel horrible about themselves or their weight after the group calls Sunoo fat (cause trust me, the majority of the their fanbase is nowhere near as skinny as Sunoo - including me). It does not send a good message to their followers that you are beautiful, no matter what you look like and they need to understand that their words have an effect on perhaps not only Sunoo but a massive wider community.
@ninetine3052
@ninetine3052 Жыл бұрын
2:40 oh, okay. i call myself a sone now! ive been thinking that it's way too late for me to stan girls generation, but i love their music so much, especially The Boys. i like Jessica but i was hesitant to call myself a sone bcs i dont know much things abt them.
@daychild_
@daychild_ Жыл бұрын
wait ppl don’t admit their favs use ads??? all the fandoms i’m in tend to be pretty open abt the mvs using ads and even say to stream them more once the ads stop
@Kpopholic._
@Kpopholic._ Жыл бұрын
Gurl- wdym mean I agree most of these. These are actual things that are happening but Kpop fans don't see it and afraid to admit it,
@taehyungkim4267
@taehyungkim4267 Жыл бұрын
We only see what they put out we don't know what they are doing behind the scene kpop idols are humans no one is perfect , if I where a idol , i never bullied anyone in school is was the one that Got bullied I even got bullied of school but that was back then I see a lot of bully "scandals" being thrown out and the almost never get investigated and we all know cube is sh"t like with dawn and hyuna they can't safe a group if their life depend on it I feel so sad for the members
@55df73
@55df73 Жыл бұрын
Number 5 is very tricky because uses the words fans and stan and some people take it as synonymous of "fandom name". I think is okay to just be a casual fan/listener but if you use a fandom name is because of you want to be serious about it you want your relationship with that group to be more special than one of a casual fan, so you can call yourself that (stan, fan, casual fan, casual listener) but using fandom names it's unnecessary. I know some people use them just so their opinions have weight on specific fandom discussions. If you're not serious then don't waste everybody's time, specially if you're not cleaning up your mess.
@orizadhiazwanti9344
@orizadhiazwanti9344 Жыл бұрын
i'm agree with this, but for me i had to admit that i kinda didnt like if the group became to famous, but i had a reason for this, the reason is, i cant stand the toxic fans, u had to admit if that group became really big there'll be a lot of toxic fans, its aslo the reason i hate attack on titan now, before became a kpop fans im a massive anime fans and i had been follow attack on titan since the first season since i like the premise, but bcz the toxic fans and it became really famous (heck even if it didnt aired in my local tv station, some stranger that didnt know anime that well kinda know bout it), i just didnt like toxic fans, i already had a hard time in my daily live, but when i want to relieve myself i see a lot of toxic fans, its really ruined the mood, i know there are a lot of toxic people and well its life but yeah idk i just want some peace
@vegantirex
@vegantirex Жыл бұрын
exactly, not all can be soloists
@neobongzzz
@neobongzzz Жыл бұрын
i strongly agree
@stopsleepingonyejisvocalsu5422
@stopsleepingonyejisvocalsu5422 Жыл бұрын
The ads are way too true as a die hard midzy when I try to watch mvs there are ads I only saw it once tho- but I genuinely think it's fine that companies use ads for there artists I even saw an ad while trying to listen to blackpinks hylt and yes I agree when u bring up ads they get mad af like its genuinely fine to use ads to get views and I'm sorry to say this but bts and blackpink twice aespa I've etc all use ads. Oh and edit: when idols from girl groups just literally care for eachother "fans" literally say that there gay or there lesbians or whatever shit they think and its genuinely getting annoying. Like I'm sorry but they hold hands for literally one second and yall start shipping them? Im sorry but I hold hands hug care etc for my girl best friend and I'm still straight
@notkeu8361
@notkeu8361 Жыл бұрын
the rapping positions are actually true. since some of their raps lack rhythm
@jeonyuna20.26
@jeonyuna20.26 Жыл бұрын
What's your probleme?? Every thing you say is true and i can't disagree with you! I love your channel soo much!!💛💛
@littlebluefishy
@littlebluefishy Жыл бұрын
PURE FACTS
@haewonchills
@haewonchills Жыл бұрын
just yes.
@ancientmingyu0604
@ancientmingyu0604 Жыл бұрын
The rap opinion is so true. Do Hanse, main rapper of Victon, undeniably one of the most talented rappers of the industry, a whole rap machine and one of the rappers you can actually consider a rapper because he could easily have a rap career outside of the idol scene- he can't sing for shit. Like, he's one of my ults, I love his voice and I love to hear him sing but his singing voice is so blatantly mid which is absolutely fine though. He knows it, his fans know it. But he is a rapper for a reason and that reason is that he slays the house down every time he opens his mouth to spit bars. "When I spit bars on this beat, they call it fire. Go tell them I killed this shit." And killed that shit he did 🔥 I do believe however that the opinion applies much more for the girl groups though and not necessarily for the boys. There are exceptionally few female idols who actually are great rappers and are on par with their male counterparts while the boy groups tend to have much more rappers who could easily have rap careers outside of the idol scene or literally came straight from the underground and battle scene before becoming an idol. Aside from Hanse, examples include Zico from Block B, Bobby from iKon, Mino from Winner, Yoongi, Namjoon and J-Hope from BTS, Zelo and Yongguk from B.A.P, Changbin and Jisung from Stray Kids, Ravi from VIXX, G-Dragon and T.O.P from Big Bang, Joohoney and I.M from Monsta X and Hongjoong and Mingi from Ateez although they're not quite ready for that yet, much like most of the rest in 4th gen
@kitsch590
@kitsch590 Жыл бұрын
There are so many great groups. Fortunately, it's impossible for them to be putting out content every week, so you can kind of enjoy them like you pick your meals everyday. "Today, I feel like chicken, tomorrow some pasta...."
@sunwukong798
@sunwukong798 Жыл бұрын
is it weird that I find these true and I dont think theyre too far fetched? Like im not scared to say yeah youre right and share them
@cray_on
@cray_on Жыл бұрын
First one is awfully correct
@kitsch590
@kitsch590 Жыл бұрын
LOL. I am not afraid of admitting any of these. Although, I come for the rapping and stay for the visuals. :)
@madridfrankenstein8388
@madridfrankenstein8388 Жыл бұрын
yena went back home because she felt lonley in a lonley house without the members, i think she would do good in a group
@RhythmAddictedState
@RhythmAddictedState Жыл бұрын
PREACH
@shizukagozen777
@shizukagozen777 Жыл бұрын
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