Learning Curve

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Жыл бұрын

Everything is in a constant state of change, and sometimes it can be very difficult for many of us to keep up. Resistance creates suffering, so acceptance is the only way forward, but some learning curves are steeper than others. Our intention may never be to upset anyone, but intention and impact don't always align. Be gentle with yourself and with everyone else.
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Timber Hawkeye is the bestselling author of Buddhist Boot Camp, Faithfully Religionless, and The Opposite of Namaste. He prescribes gratitude as medicine for people to heal themselves from the inside out. The intention is to awaken, enlighten, enrich, and inspire a simple and uncomplicated life, by sharing mindfulness-enhancing techniques to which anyone can relate and implement in their daily lives.

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@kaceymckown1657 Жыл бұрын

We do the best we can with what we know and who we are at any given time ❤️

@THFrenchteacher Жыл бұрын

As an older high school teacher, I appreciate this so much. I sometimes forget and say the wrong pronoun. Some kids are patient with me. Others go into hysterics and report me to administration for not respecting them. For 60 years, if I saw a girl, I would say “she”. You are so right. It’s like flipping the light switch when the power is out. If my focus is on something else, I make a mistake. I feel like as a society, we are looking to reasons to be angry. I have to use names now rather than pronouns anymore, because I just can’t keep everyones preferences straight. And then there is the issue of change. As a freshmen the preferred pronoun may be “they”, but now as a senior it is “she” . The kids change their minds about things as they get older and I have to keep on top of that as well 🤷‍♀️🙁. Thank you for you message of patience and kindness. 💜

@TimberHawkeye Жыл бұрын

It can be difficult when we resist, yes. It can be fascinating when we lean into it. If Stefani Germanotta wants to be called "Lady Gaga," that is what we call her. If Mark Sinclair wants to be called "Vin Diesel," that is what we call him. Heck, Prince went by a symbol for a few years, and we all went along with it (whether he was wearing makeup and high heels or not). Confusing? Absolutely. But only if we insist on everything staying the same. I just yesterday found out it's outdated to use the term "Master Bedroom." Think about it and the origin of that terminology, and it's clear we need to change with the times (thank God). As difficult as it is for us to keep up, especially if someone goes by one pronoun during their first year of high school (I don't think "freshman" is going to stick around for long), and a different pronoun by the time they graduate, imagine how difficult it must be for them to be figuring out who they are - it's got to be so confusing to internally struggle with self-realization, let alone expression, it's no surprise so many questioning teens kill themselves; it's too much pressure. High School teachers are under-appreciated for the level of impact they have on our lives, and I for one salute you for trying and even finding a way to get around the pronoun issue by simply calling them by their name. As someone who legally changed their name after high school, even if people don't honor THAT choice, it says more about them than about the person who changed their name. So, be gentle with yourself, be patient, dust yourself off, and try again. I think you're brave for being part of the conversation. Another friend of mine is a teacher who said she will use this episode in her classroom to explain the light-switch reflex. It's not stupidity or ignorance, it's an old habit we just need to break, and it's going to take time.

@LoOnTheGo Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@maaike9402 Жыл бұрын

So reflective and so sweet. Our main lamp in the bedroom has been broken for years and I still sometimes have to actively keep myself from flipping the switch. Compassion is so important to yourself and others. Changes may take a while to settle. Love your video's ❤

@audreymiracle8433 Жыл бұрын

I love listening to your podcast. I wish I could have seen you on your book tour. Thank you for telling us about you making the mistake and correcting it. We shouldn't beat yourself up over a mistake just try to correct it and move on. I'm sorry people are not being understanding because you are very inspirational.

@mikew8573 Жыл бұрын

My personal take on 'learning curve' is aka ongoing change. It's the only thing that remains consistent and for anyone whom does not like change, please open your mind and eyes more as it's happening right in front of you. Wish more people could understand that making mistakes aren't intentional but merely part of one's human character. No one is perfect and we all slip now n then. Thank you Timber for always enlightening my day and life. Namaste!

@Sampalampadamp Жыл бұрын

Thanks Timber!

@guidedbysunshine333 Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🌸

@ketelady Жыл бұрын

Kia Ora Timber ❤😊❤

@jeraldsomdahl5651 Жыл бұрын

It seems to me that there is an infection of anger in our culture these days. It's almost like people look for something to be angry about.

@attainingpeace Жыл бұрын

All good

@patriciahowellcassity767 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all you are and share💕

@gabrielhaaland9384 Жыл бұрын

I really appreciate this. I'm a Buddhist and I"m trans/non-binary. Thanks for being an ally. Sorry you got such an intense reaction of anger to what felt like a really sweet and kind message. Compassion is an limitless energy and your willingness to expand is a real testament to your journey. Thank you.

@kagigebiquillboxes8565 10 ай бұрын

Greetings! I confess I’m listening occasionally so may not be up to speed on all episodes. My world is filled with friends and family who are gender diverse . . I’m nearing my 6th decade of life and do make mistakes in my pronoun use (still reaching for the light switch) . . Twice I’ve quietly and privately apologized, assuring my loved ones that I respect them and will strive to do better. So, I’m confused by this episode. Are people angry that you embrace gender diversity? Or is it because you urge forgiveness for “reaching for the light switch”? Best wishes. ❤

@TimberHawkeye 10 ай бұрын

Thank you. The backlash was because I urge us all to keep an open heart and mind, celebrate diversity, and loosen the grip on rigidity; it didn't sit well with many people who claimed I was too "woke" rather than taking a stand against what they call "nonsense," when I, as a rule, promote what I love, not bash what I hate.. I talk about what I'm for, not what I'm against. It's not everyone's cup of tea, and that's okay. I was just surprised is all..