Let's Talk About Sex

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Жыл бұрын

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@soule-threethousand Жыл бұрын

I'm a 47 year old black male in a 4 year committed relationship, and I support the channel but I never comment. Just saying, we here for you Glen.

@Theeloveproject Жыл бұрын

My husband and I abstained until marriage. Don’t let the enemy plant that seed of “what if it’s whack” your Fiancé is honoring you and God and I think you should focus on that. You literally have the rest of your lives to figure it out. We wasn’t virgins but sex under covenant, sex with my husband is the best I’ve ever had (seriously) and it’s not based on the performance itself. It’s the freedom, no guilt, no shame. It’s beautiful! Also, talk through it and be honest and open. The world teaches women to be open with their sexuality in every way but in their marriage, explore with your husband.

@godlovesusall8115 Жыл бұрын

S/O to Yvette rapping!

@daniellabmnt7499 Жыл бұрын

This whole conversation was so funny 😆 Yvette was hilarious and Glenn was just cringing 😂

@carlaburt3018 Жыл бұрын

I am literally tickled to death😂😂❤

@aime3737 Жыл бұрын

Y'all are funny! Listen- Christians should be able to have these discussions openly. Especially the married couples. You guys have our support - no worries!

@jarod133 Жыл бұрын

Male listener here…. Love the podcast been listening for years just rarely comment! Im 35 and can confirm men and boys in my era did not often have healthy conversations about sex AT ALL… My Father or other positive male figures never spoke about it in a productive way. “Make sure you put a raincoat on” was all I got!!

@tistisjustme Жыл бұрын

PLEASE Glen, do us all a favor and continue doing the rap part! 🤣

@Halfricenne Жыл бұрын

It was the snapping so she could stay on beat 😂😂😂😭

@Jumoke_A Жыл бұрын

🤝 Agreed

@Xoxo_m7 Жыл бұрын

This episode should’ve been longer😩 part 2 please💙

@michellepegues4011 Жыл бұрын

We Loooove Yvette and her naivete regarding sex is next level. We openly talked about sex with my older sister and brother and I openly talked about sex with my two kids. If its made to be a secret or unforbidden it very attractive to children/teens but if normalized in context it's like oh whatever, in my opinion.

@vaREss33 4 ай бұрын

This episode was very informative and affirming. My wife and I have been together 6.5 years and I was a virgin when we met. Still learning and growing, thank you for this conversation.

@Mrcloudpotato Жыл бұрын

The greatest intro of all time! 🤣. Yvette?! BARS! Glen?! CHORDS! Love yall!

@brunoloverxx Жыл бұрын

its Glen's clicking for me

@jeffreythenor7764 Жыл бұрын

😂😂I am losing it. Appreciate you both and your family. Male, husband, father here watching Glen! ✊🏾

@eve-marieouellette Жыл бұрын

It is so important to be open about this subject. Being open and spread knowledge is necessary.

@sevaughn4 Жыл бұрын

I think the assuming sex has to be wack because your with a virgin is wild. Virgin or not if the person doesn’t know you it’s an opportunity for y’all to get to get to know each other and what each other likes in that way intimately. A person could have experience but it doesn’t mean your going to like the way they do it. Plus your getting something special in that he saved his body for you, for his spouse, this isn’t common.

@earthyhealer222 Жыл бұрын

I am a middle child, and I too, was a thespian. 😊♥️ go Riah Beau!

@elainablunt613 Жыл бұрын

Yvette is struggling today. She is all over the place, cleeeearly uncomfortable 😅 Love you girl! I too was a little concerned

@whenyouwishuponastar6643 Жыл бұрын

This was hilarious! I would add to the couple writing in, try to hype up your partner too even if it’s kinda wack. Tell them what you want them to do but also tell them what they do that you like. Or you know, tell them some things that will build their confidence in that area

@Shayvette Жыл бұрын

Agreed ‼️

@konajide07 Жыл бұрын

It’s been a while since i have listened to the podcast but I’m glad the content is still consistently good.

@Aminaish Жыл бұрын

This entire switch up brought me so much joy.

@tistisjustme Жыл бұрын

The advice was great. My ex-husband would also ask me what I liked and like Yvette, I was a virgin, and that question made me super uncomfortable because I didn't know what to answer. I felt kinda stupid not knowing how to answer. He shamed me horribly for not knowing how to express myself but indeed, he didn't ask the right questions. Addressing intimidations or insecurities is a much better conversation to have. My husband now and I have always had very very good sex oddly, even if he's only my second partner and he has had a slew of women. Sometimes I wonder about how those women did things, but it doesn't phase me as I see how pleased he is. Once he told me that I was the best. Lol. THAT was awesome. I say to focus the questions on any possible fears and don't push too hard, allow him to be himself. Eventually the little virgin may grow to be your best, as well.

@empresslivewire Жыл бұрын

Intro was so dope !!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏾🙌🏾

@365daysofsingleness3 Жыл бұрын

Yvette, girl your not alone with the Rock The Boat song because I was in college when I figured it out lol and my 30th birthday is In 2 days.

@mutsacarole Жыл бұрын

Maaan I'd been missing the bloopers on the intro so much! Y'all made my day, as usual

@makaylakaikea Жыл бұрын

I’m VIBING to y’all’s rap, you guys are fire. On many levels. I always appreciate coming to this space and seeing y’all discuss , share candid thoughts, work through things. It’s just so.. wholesome and It’s a blessing what y’all give to the world and your community

@mamasbotanicalsfarm7538 Жыл бұрын

These are some great suggestions. Every person is unique and in their individual style when it comes to sex and intimacy so usually you end up having to teach your partner what it is that you like as a unique individual so you guys have an opportunity to have fun, exploring, and learning what it is that he likes and growing and evolving together. Just because you have had sex doesn’t mean that you can’t learn something new about yourself and how to please your husband.

@chervelleweatherley9421 Жыл бұрын

Yessss, Yvette!!!!! Go ahead and rap!!!!! ❤

@johndomhodge8947 Жыл бұрын

This episode was hilarious 😂 I just love every bit of the work you guys are doing! 💕🙏🏾

@ShakeysLife Жыл бұрын

I watch with my husband!!!! I always like the videos, but when we watch on his laptop, he just watches and enjoy's, I'm like "you need to hit the like button" But its under his account, So I log in and make sure to give a thumbs up! LOL

@rosie9974 Жыл бұрын

You guys are just so cute and real. I love your podcast, and I am so bored when you guys haven't posted any content. You all are simply the best. Big hugs to all of you. K. Ford

@chiddy2682 Жыл бұрын

Planning on purchasing the e-course. Thank you guys for that💛💛

@itsmekiaratee Жыл бұрын

HOW LONG HAVE YALL BEEN BACK?? 🤯 I can’t believe I’m just now seeing that you all started back posting. KZfaq has all of my notifications shut off! So glad about this 😊💪🏾🔥

@AlwaysLime Жыл бұрын

Language for a virgin who isn’t entirely clueless: “Educated virgin” My husband watches with me sometimes and really appreciates the humor😂. I remember sex from very young. Way too young. My parents let me watch or even watched with me anything I picked. I grew up as an only child and it wasn’t healthy for me and my personality. It shaped me profoundly and I still struggle because of it. I got away with a lot.

@LearningLeadersGrowLiveGive Жыл бұрын

Hilarious..instruction, training, and onboarding! Yep, definitely the people side of business 😂😂❣

@elainablunt613 Жыл бұрын

Ahhhh! I love the intro today😊😊 struggles n all. Y’all are cute

@missj9879 Жыл бұрын

Great episode!

@Dsomler Жыл бұрын

This was such a funny episode. I thoroughly enjoyed. You two are amazing. Keep up the excellent work 🤎

@tatyanafavors8725 3 ай бұрын

I just found ur podcast ❤I think I’ve followed y’all channel already but I like watching you all ! I’m not married yet but aspire to be one day if that’s Gods plan for me 😂 . But yeah God bless 😊

@id_rather_NOT89 Жыл бұрын

I’m a guy… I’m here watching 😂

@marinac9339 Жыл бұрын

This episode was hysterical. And yet informative 😅 I agree with another comment that we need a part 2 to this one! A lot of times these type of topics are hard to address with your partner, either because of ego or afraid of hurting someone's feelings. But honesty and love should drive the conversation. Otherwise you just end up resentful and what not.

@shiftingbabe3947 Жыл бұрын

I giggled through the whole episode yall 😂

@VashtiPerry Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤ okay switching it up on the intro

@SECHFx Жыл бұрын

Awwn. Your relationship is beautiful...

@ashleywilliams5924 Жыл бұрын

I love yall.... yall tell us everything. Seriously, idk what i would do if i ever seen yall in person. The kids gone think im crazy... im their virtual Auntie...😍 snacks and treats for everyone. ❤️

@Wrappedinhisglory Жыл бұрын

Yeeea Mrs. Melanie. Yo did great

@bsunshine9915 Жыл бұрын

Nice job Yvette!! Get it!

@dimpho9587 Жыл бұрын

I am not married, not a virgin and deeply regret it (not being a virgin that is) I am Letsatsi from South Africa and I just LOOOOOOVE you guys and the quirkiness you bring ❤

@SD-hs2pk Жыл бұрын

Yes def be open, the same move will feel different with someone else so dont stay set on that, explore and communicate.

@AwesomeMsT Жыл бұрын

Go Yvette!!

@rosie9974 Жыл бұрын

Yvette sounds like me. I was a late bloomer, but a fast learner. But it will work out. K. Ford❤️

@CJ-it7ue Жыл бұрын

Hilarious. You guys are adorable. Bless you 😂

@ms.margiemarshall272 Жыл бұрын

This was actually funny to watch because this is how I am with my husband. 😂

@jayxb34 Жыл бұрын

Couldn’t find the Amazon shop 😑

@NyarundaAmenya Жыл бұрын

Few if any couples hit it off with great sex off the gate. Sex gets better with greater emotional, spiritual, and mental intimacy. Patience is key in a committed relationship if we are to get to the promised land🤣

@meriyak Жыл бұрын

This episode cracked me up!!! Yvette journey of like I can talk about it to now why are you saying this 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@AskIveSolar Жыл бұрын

This joint is waaaaay too short. When y'all gon talk to these people. LOL. Y'all having a ball. 😆

@keciaanderson6317 Жыл бұрын

Alright Yvette. Let us find out 😊

@denisemichelleharris6689 Жыл бұрын

Go Glen! We heard you harmonizing!

@________1516 Жыл бұрын

Lets gooo Yvette!!! ❤❤❤

@beya8955 Жыл бұрын

Yay Yvette !!

@miaserenavega Жыл бұрын

I love how silly yvette is in this convo hahaha

@chosenchrissi Жыл бұрын

This lady was me. I was experienced and my husband was a virgin. To be honest, I wished that we had a whole conversation before marriage about sex. My husband had an addiction to porn that I found out about after marriage. I had an addiction to porn as well. He knew about it. Even though he had this addiction. He was uncomfortable and still sometimes is uncomfortable with talking about about sex. I will say this is your opportunity to teach him what you like and to help him discover what he likes. Most importantly be patient. He will have to build stamina. Don't be afraid to ROCK his world!!!

@taylorsmith1984 Жыл бұрын

Yall should have Kaelin and Kyrah on your page. They dealt with this same situation and talked about it on their podcast

@theknights3025 Жыл бұрын

We watch together. I stop the podcast and wait to watch with hubby

@geep0990 Жыл бұрын

10:38 loving the breakdown but I think as Christians that it’s also important to note the difference between virginity and purity. Some ppl have had their virginity taken, unfortunately bc they weren’t being pure. Doing “everything but” with someone they thought they could trust, etc. but they can choose purity from that point on. Just had to drop that thought!

@petraat8806 Жыл бұрын

Glen I see the struggles you have been through. Thank you for your patience haha. 😂😂😂😂

@VashtiPerry Жыл бұрын

I was a virgin until 30. When I was a 26 I dated my friend who was a 29 year old virgin. He was struggling to express his sexual identity. He wasn't gay but he truly believed sex was wrong. He never even felt comfortable holding my hand. Sad. He always wanted wait till he was with the married men to talk about sex. I was a virgin but I loved talking about sex. 😂 I was giving my active friends condoms. I asked questions with my ob GYN. I had a great relationship with my body but I wouldn't self pleasure until turned 29

@denisemichelleharris6689 Жыл бұрын

Go Yvette!!! 🎉❤😊

@AJ-gd1ww Жыл бұрын

I would say don't go into it with the energy of "it's gonna be whack" energy and more of the "I finally get to spend intimate time expressing myself sexually with my "husband". Don't focus on the end result but you and your husband. And when he does something you like, say I like when YOU do that.

@DF-gq4gp Жыл бұрын

We don't see your Amazon storefront on the website.

@seraphine48 Жыл бұрын

Same. Glad I’m not the only one that searched for it 👀

@missj9879 Жыл бұрын

He can learn and get better with communication.

@nicoles4257 Жыл бұрын

This was perfect for my train ride home from work 😂😂

@christopher718 Жыл бұрын

im a new father i watch just to gain knowledge.

@sevaughn4 Жыл бұрын

“We use it”- Glen 😂😂😂

@shimealheidelberg6639 Жыл бұрын

This episode was funny and cute.

@fromkittytocat Жыл бұрын

Can they have foreplay like with conversations or go to a store before the marriage just so they can fantasize about it before hand.?

@Chickyboo108 Жыл бұрын

Omg I love you guys so much 😂

@Naranaranja Жыл бұрын

❤

@Mgenao76 Жыл бұрын

Damn!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

@annicesamuels3069 5 ай бұрын

I watch with my husband he just doesn’t comment.

@cherieinjapan Жыл бұрын

Anaya is definitely Yvette’s twin lol❤

@Prosperousakua Жыл бұрын

this is theeeeee longest intro ever lmaoooo

@DreKM243 8 ай бұрын

As a guy I’ve tried to not be a slut like Glen lol. But I think it’s tough when women say they want someone who knows what their doing but simultaneously don’t want someone with too much experience.

@damyamcnair6455 Жыл бұрын

I am a Lesbian woman with a girlfriend I was wondering if the e course would help with our relationship or is just for heterosexual couples. I’ve been watching for years I love you guys ! I feel like I can relate to Glen a lot as a Masculine Woman but can Also understand Yvette’s POV. I love the chocolate babies as well❤️❤️❤️🍫🍫👶🏾👶🏾👶🏾

@Liyah339 Жыл бұрын

Lordt. Y’all know Yvette is shy around talking about s*x. Why y’all ain’t pass on this question?! 😩😂

@AskIveSolar Жыл бұрын

Husband here from The Richards Revealed I don't think we talk about sex in a helpful way. We brag. But I don't know many christian men who talk about sex in a helpful way. But I'm an introvert so uhhh yeah. Ha

@ShakeysLife Жыл бұрын

Also, my husband and I did not kiss or have sex until we were married, and I'm satisfied with him 1,000% LOL We both were not virgins when we got married! BUT......We were abstinent before marriage....I think him longer than me...Like I mentioned, I'm 1,000% satisfied Lol

@ThaMANofSTEEL Жыл бұрын

7:26 long pause😂😂😂

@id_rather_NOT89 Жыл бұрын

I’m here for the sex talk… uncomfortable or not haha

@Shayvette Жыл бұрын

Same 🥴😂

@jaquanjones7886 2 ай бұрын

I know seeing her laugh is some pain lmaooo

@apatheticnegro Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@mamasbotanicalsfarm7538 Жыл бұрын

Yvette can you share a little on your upbringing so that we can have a clear vision of how you were able to reach it to middle school with no understanding. It’s just hard for me to grass that with television being what it was even in my day as a 70s baby growing up watching soap operas with my mama while she did my hair for school. Did you guys have access to television and I’m definitely not trying to be funny. I’m just trying to figure out how your parents were able to keep you away from what was going on all around you especially if you went to public school. Lol

@keciaanderson6317 Жыл бұрын

Leave the past in the past

@MNIU_ Жыл бұрын

Makes me sad that because he chose to save himself for marriage, the burden is on him now to meet her expectations, I think she should be more forgiving bc it’s literally not his fault , also you can have an experienced partner and their sex is wack so it’s not his experience it’s about how you guys please each other , I hope she’s sensitive to his feelings in this regard bc if he thinks he’s being compared the sex will definitely be wack

@boluadebekun9370 Жыл бұрын

Hil.ar.ious.😂😂😂😂😂

@JasJbrown Жыл бұрын

Homegirl should probably do a confession session of all her sexual sins with someone she trust and ask God to come fill all the holes in her heart around that area. Sounds like unbiblical language about sex. Whack? How about I get to grow in knowing my husband daily and he has given me the gift of him only knowing me. Priceless friend Sign up for the course sis 😂😅

@anomalysa3 11 ай бұрын

Most def 😂

@jacquelinejohnson560 Жыл бұрын

Forget sex. Let me see a video on the educational curriculum for your 4 children. I've yet to see that video.

@jglasco80 Жыл бұрын

Boys and men talk about sex but it makes no sense lol. Really comes back to our pleasure not our gf/wife's smh.

@queennanna5595 Жыл бұрын

Best way in my opinion is to just have sex before you marry not after. If you marry someone who has never had sex or has never had sex with you how will you know you are sexually compatible? And that is a MAJOR deal maker to a successful marriage. All this intellectual stuff just makes a very natural act seem sterile. If it works out without having sex before you tie the knot that is fine but if it does not you are in for a lot of expensive therapy and years of unhappiness. and that is a huge gamble. Unless you remain in the friend zone or just have sex to procreate.

@alesiasinspiration Жыл бұрын

I agree, but this isn't really helpful to the questioner. 😂

@dasanigrace8602 Жыл бұрын

For one, the podcast is coming from a Christian perceptive so pre marital relations are completely out of the question. 2) If you think about it, you might be married for 10, 20, 50, etc. years. Why would you base a (hopefully) everlasting covenant on what ultimately amounts to a drop in the bucket? There's a reason why having multiple premarital sex partners is negatively associated with marital quality and stability.