School: *Stick up for yourself* Also School: *Suspended for defending yourself*

I will never understand schools who punish kids for defending themselves.

I remember telling my mom how weird I thought it was that the school said to resolve conflicts “peacefully and calmly” because I knew that no way you can stop a bully just by asking nicely unless ur very lucky somehow. Then my mom said: Oh if you ever need to in a very specific circumstances when protecting a victim, you can use physical force, I’ll deal with the talking at the office

"Explain yourself, KNAVE" lives in my head rent free

Someone: Literal war crimes Schools: I sleep Someone: Self defense Schools: REAL S**T?

I hate it when teachers say :”stand up for ur self” Than when u do they punish u for it, it’s stupid!

If I was one of Rebecca's parents, I'd have escalated things until that principal was fired. If Becca hadn't done what she did, Greg might not be with us today, and the school could have faced a massive lawsuit, and possibly even been closed down in the worst case. By standing up to Millie, Becca may very well have saved the jobs of everyone who worked at the school.

Mom: *discovers Becca’s bullying and punishment* Principal: “Why do I hear boss music?”

Becca: "Look what Milly did to me." Becca's mom: *To the principal* "SO YOU HAVE CHOSEN DEATH!"

Becca: *Tells her mom what happened* Principal: *Why do I hear boss music?*

I had a reputation at my school as the kid who got in a lot of fights. What that reputation didn't explain was that I ended a lot of fights, I did not pick them. Whenever someone picked on me or bullied me, I fought back. It got me in a lot of trouble, but you know what? After I got that reputation people would rarely pick on me. And those who did would quickly learn why that wasn't a smart Idea. It also helped that my Dad was a lot like your Mom, and had stood with me thick and thin whenever I was involved in a fight. Really goes to show how bogus school punishments are that the victim of a bully needs to defend themselves from the school as well.

“EXPLAIN YOUR SELF KNAVE” just keeps making me laugh my ass off so god dam much

*kid confronts bully* Parents: self defense Goverment: self defense Schools: *BAD SPORT AND 5 STAR WANTED LEVEL*

*Kids: Defend Ourselves* *School: Oh Hell No*

It's so nice that you were the only soul that made Greg feel that people are not bad. It reminded me about a friend whose people simply hated him for....nothing. He was tall and bulky,very intimidating, but it was him who became one of my trustworthy friends. People were very unjust with him :(

4:47 Why can't I stop watching this part? It's so funny XD *Bang, bang* "I have SEVERAL objections!"

I hate how school policy is “don’t defend yourself”

Teachers and principles: "Bullying is bad. You should stand up to bullies!" Also teachers and principles: "How dare you stand up to that bully?!" Also also teachers and principles: "I just don't understand why bullying is such a big problem. Let's tell them how bad bullying is and that they should stand up to bullies." Me: " Anyone else sensing a pattern in this? No? Just me? Ok :l "

Rebecca is basically my entire early childhood. Whenever I think about watching her videos it’s always the memory about this video or me walking to my mum’s car watching a video of hers

Milly: Oh! We were just having *FUN* ! Also Milly: *put the kid in a full cast*

"I'm being bullie-" School: *Noyou'renot* Edit: Since everyone is sharing their story, I will to. I was bullied when I was younger, and nobody got in trouble. Somebody even hung one of the things I had that looked like me. When I stood up for myself I got into more trouble than the boys who had been bullying me for more then three years. They also put me up with the school therapist who told me it was my fault.

Rebecca: defends her friend School: *THIS IS NOT OKIE DOKIE*

the line"oh hell no" got a small laugh out of me be but the line "*heavy running/stomping* EXPLAIN YOUR SELF KNAVE" got me rolling around i laughed so hard

6:50 "explain yourself Nave" Dumbledore said calmly

School System: "I dont understand why we cant stop bullying" Also the School System: *employs people like this principal*

Everyone: just defend yourself when your in a fight. Kids: defend themselves Everyone: good Schools: excuse me

It's always nice when parents have your back. My parents always told me that if I needed to defend myself or my sister to do so without fear of punishment on their end. "Don't start fights but if you get dragged into one then you gotta learn how to finish them". My mom even encouraged my oldest brother to kick another boy's ass that had started a fight outside our house, this boy that had been picking on my brother for months mind you. My parents don't mess around they trust us enough to know we aren't gonna throw a punch unless someone deserves it.

It's really cool that someone else has the same name, Rebecca! I can't believe I just saw her channel!

Rebecca: *reveals arm to mum* Rebecca's mum: "Peace was never an option"

Becca: "Mom look what Milly did to me" *Becca's mom marches into the principal's office* Also Becca's Mom: "So you chose the hard way"

You did the right thing Becca so proud of you do you still keep in touch with "Greg"

I was harshly bullied in around the ninth grade in English class by someone who just loved to torment me about how much I sucked for liking dinosaurs a lot. Essentially, being a nerd. And this went from constantly grabbing my attention to humiliate me in front of the entire class just so I can scream in front of everyone to bugging me with questions that halted any and all class activity because it was bugging me so much. Which even bugged the teacher! And she was so sweet and stood up for me. And yet he STILL bullied me! It got so bad to points where I would cry in front of everyone and, again, was humiliated! And this happened across classes too. Not with the same person, mind you, but with a lot of the people in my classes. I’d be made fun of, humiliated, pushed around, made fun of, be the absolute floor mat and punching bag of the school. And the final straw with this bully was when we were watching a movie that had an assignment with it and he would CONSTANTLY interrupt the movie by asking me questions just to annoy me and the worst was when he started pushing the desk behind me so it could hit me behind the head. And that was the final straw! And everything stopped from there! I blew up in front of him and stormed out to the principal’s office to talk about him and his… pardon me, shitty behaviour. And after that… I don’t think I ever saw him again. I’m pretty sure I got him expelled. Which… I don’t feel too good for myself for doing, but it’s what happened. He ruined my life and was harassing and belittling me and making me look like a moron, and I made sure he had an ounce of respect in his body and that he was aware of how much he hurt me and possibly others too. And that he would regret doing stuff like that ever again. I take no pleasure in exposing someone like that, but it was the only way to get through to this jerk-wad asshole that he was ruining my life ENTIRELY and to get him off my back for my own mental health and educational success. Still doesn’t mean I enjoyed doing so.

"Hey mom, look what Millie did to me." Principal: "Why do I hear boss music?"

“Should I defend myself/others?” School: “well yes but actually no”

This story brought a smile to my face at the end.

Milly: why is there music playing. Adam from Hazbin Hotel: Hell is forever, whether you like or not.

Becca:*inahle* “Look what millie did to me.” Becca’s mother: “Oh *hell* no.”

Millie: *lies* Rebecca: You’re not the clown, you’re the entire circus.

“Lord, help us! Becca’s angry.” Got me rolling

This is my favorite video of yours! It's so well done and funny. I especially love the "Lawd help us Becca's angry!" it's just hilarious and perfect and... ah, chef's kiss!😙👌

Seriously? KZfaq demonetizes the word “bully”? They need to get their ish together. That is the dumbest thing. Oh sorry is dumb a bad word now? Good thing I’m not a KZfaqr or I’d be demonetized for calling my brother a fudgsicle. Sorry but I’m not even a KZfaqr and this irritates me. Edit: grammar

Principal: **punishes Becca** Mama Parham: "I'm about to end this man's whole life- Oh did I say life? Sorry, I meant career!"

I go to a pretty twisted at school too. I like to read a lot and I get in trouble a lot for it the app I used to read most of my books since you can’t really get paper back unless you want to miss out on half your classes requires me to be at school during school hours or pay a monthly fee so of course I read during school hours when I’m done with my work and my leader ship teacher of all people doesn’t really like that, despite the fact that there’s many many people who commonly do things far worse than reading when they’re done I have so many minor, behavioral in fractions from that teacher for reading.

I need to be completely honest with you, Rebecca. (Don't worry, you're not in trouble.) Your channel shares a vaulable theme in common with The Iron Giant; both are crimminally under-rated with a heavy emphasis on "criminally". I feel like you're like a second mother to me along with the rest of your Explainers and Entertainers with how thoughtful, loving, and heart-felt (There's more than those, but I don't want to risk a sea of water works.) you've been to all of us. You remind me of my high school choir teacher, Ms. Turley (Mama Turley to her "kiddos"; AKA her students.) who was such a sweetheart who let us watch movies in class on occasion (Ususally on the holidays.) and who'd teach us line dances every Friday. She retired the year I graduated, 2018 and she was my first second mother to me and all of her students. She holds a very special place in my heart and I hope she's living her life to the fullest. I also hope this comment finds you well and brightens your day.

Rebecca: "Look what Milly did." Her mom: *A N G E R Y* The principal: *Confused screaming*

Someone: *dies* Milly: c'mon we were just playing catch the knife

I’m glad you had a mom that defended you well and scared people. Good job

It feels like every school preaches the importance of not being a bystander since, "bystandars are just as bad because they didn't do anything to stop it." Yet they punish those who actually stand up for themselves and others.

Millie: *bites Rebecca* Rebecca’s mom: so you have chosen death

“Lawhd help us beccaz angreh!” that had me tumbling down Mount Everest

You are so awesome and defending another kid is the best thing ever to do for someone.

"Lord help us Becca's angry!" the best line ive ever heard in my life

Yeah, schools have no ideas on how to handle bullies. My school used to accept kids that had notorious pasts for bullying and harassing at other schools- to the point where the past school had actually kicked those kids out. I had to stand up to one of those notorious kids and it was damn scary (the kid I faced up was 6ft, I'm 5'1). But despite the fact that I got in trouble for 'harming' a student by standing up for my friend who was getting thrown slurs at, this kid did not get punished. It was only until my friend said that she wanted to kill herself because of this kid that the school actually took action. And that action wasn't removing or punishing the kid, it was to make us 'talk out the problem.' I wanted to punch the Headmaster right in her ugly mug.

That’s awesome that she can vocalize, and differentiate an internal dialogue… without mouths

“Oh hell no” That principal is gonna die💀

Teacher: "If someone hurts you. Stand up for yourself!" Me: *confronts a bully in the most pacifist way Teacher: *wait that's illegal*

Bully: *Bullies kid* Teacher's: *I'mma pretend that I didn't see that* Kid: *Stands up for himself* Teacher's: *You are accused of anti Soviet behavior. The court finds you guilty and sentences you to be shot.*

The feeling after saying “hey mom look what ‘____’ did to me :]” whenever something happens and she immediately validates how that was messed up, oh its good. It doesnt happen often, but it feels nice knowing u were right in your viewpoint and acted accordingly.

Rebecca, you are one true and tough friend and God bless your mom.

Bully: Menteally/physically bullies another kid into depression Schools: Does nothing The kid who’s getting bullied: Defends themselves Schools: You are expelled Parents: Wtf Me: Wtf Everyone with an ounce of sanity: Wtf

Bully: breaks kids arm. School: who cares. Mom: triggered

You were such a good friend to someone who was disliked by everyone and you had helped him get his journal back

i’ve never faced severe bullying (at least irl), but it warms my heart to think about the fact that becca’s story videos can inspire young audiences so much to follow in the path of what she did right and stick up for themselves. all the love to you and everyone who reads this

Bully: *punches kid* Teachers: *looking other way* Kid: *defends self* Teachers: “HOW DARE YOU INSOLENT FOOL!”

Milly: *Bites Rebecca* Rebecca: "I'm about to end this girls whole career.."

I freaking love this woman.

As someone who got bitten in pretty much the same place by a man with dementia whilst working on a mental ward, yeah, it hurts. Also, he did break the skin and I did go to hospital and then I quit my job as I was not getting paid enough for that kind of abuse. On an unrelated note, does anyone know of any job opportunities for a 23 year old in the Surrey area of England?

Millie: *Bites Becca* Principal: *punishes both Becca and Millie even though Becca is in the right* Becca's Mom: So you've chosen death...

millie: *bites beccas arm* beccas mom: exists also beccas mom: this kid is dead

Why am i tearing up? This is so cute 🥲

I had a situation similar to this back in elementary school, in 4th grade. I was dealing with a bully that picked on me, mostly verbal. One day, on the playground, he was about to push me, I was trained in fighting, so I grabbed his arm, pinned him to the ground, slammed his face into the mulch, and my knee on the small of his back, left arm in my hand, behind his back, ready to snap it. A lunch aid broke up the fight and sent us both to the principle. We both got luch detention for three days. My Mom got me an ice cream and ticked off my principle because my Mom sent multiple emails saying I would snap. No major punishment, but the bully respected me afterwards. The moral of this story, don't mess with the quiet ones, they're the ones that snap the loudest.

Someone: stands up to a bully Schools: that's illegal

“Look what Millie did to me.” “Oh *H E L L N O .* “

Becca: *thinks that she’s gonna get in trouble* Becca’s mom: *goes to the principality’s office and scolds them like 100 times* Becca: “oh, how the tables have turned”

*And thus, the Principal felt fear for the first time.*

school: punishes rebecca for defending her friend rebecca’s mom: *”so you have chosen death”*

Rebecca: "Look what Millie did to me." *shows the bite to her mom* ----------- Principal: "Why do I hear boss music-"

"and i don't mean Beetlejuice... Beetlejuice Beetleuice." got me rollin' on the floor.

Literally the worst thing is when teachers give the same punishment to the bully and the victim just because they are too lazy to investigate.

Becca: tells her mom that Milly bit her Principal: "why do i hear boss music"

Rebecca: look what milly did to me! Rebecca’s mom: so they have chosen, *death.*

that OH HELL NO was the best thing i have ever seen on an animated story

Thank you. My 8th grader is going through this right now. Whether or not to help. Thank you again.

Student; Defends friend School: AH YES A CRIME WAS COMMITTED

Rebecca: “ give you 3 guesses who took it too far. “ Me: * “Millie, Millie, Millie.” *

The "Lord, Help us! Becca's Angry!" 5:25 got me so hard I can't stop laughing 😂😂😂

She said oh hell no that got me rolling on the floor 🤣

“Look at what Milly did to me” Mom: So you have chosen, death.

rebecca: look what millie did to me mom: im about to end this principal's whole career

Me in kindergarten:Legendary tempers Me in 1st grade:Help its growing 2nd grade:Its grown more then its weaken 3rd grade: I'm becoming a flawed hero......

The: OH HELL NO! From mom still gets me

Kid: Bullies others School: Doesn’t even notice Kid: talks in the most soft voice School: Do you want to pass the class or pass away

Becca: she bit me when i was trying to get gregs Journal back No one: Millie: sHe PuT hEr HaNd On My NeCk AnD I sUfIcAtEd

The way your mom handled the situation is so similar to the way my mom handled another situation. Where the principal decided to keep me after school for defending myself after I got jumped by a couple of bullies. I even had a black eye at the end of it. She was absolutely angry with the fact that I was the one being punished while they walked free. Because for months this has been happening to me and she and my dad told me that if this continued, I should defend myself instead of letting them hurt me and rob me basically. (Cuz yes there are times where they robbed me of some stuff that I had) That day my mom had enough. She literally brought hell with her to the principal and they tried to tell her to calm down. After that, let's just say war of a conversation, she stormed out and decided she was going to take this entire thing to the board of education. We got that principal in trouble and I got transferred from that school.

Greg despite being angry and wanting his journal back, never went into the girl’s room. Greg, if you’re out there I just want you to know... you have my respect.

"mom calmly explained" has the same energy as "Dumbledore asked calmly"

Little Becca: "oh nooooo mom's gonna be so maaaaad" Us, having seen how Momma Parham acts when injustice is served in previous videos: "well yes but actually no"

That hot dog commercial reference was a riot. Liked and subscribed!

What a great Mom! Love your super hero costume too.

Girl: *Bites a student after bullying another student* School: Okay? Student: *Wears hoodie* School: *cocking gun* Death has been chosen