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I think every married girl can relate to this So do I

His demand for marriage was a working bride. But later he forced me to leave the job as I was earning far beyond his own. Then he started forcing me to look for a job with low salary. After 10 months of my marriage I left him as his family started forcing me to conceive. I couldn't let a new life suffer. People often advice that I should give a little more time to fall the things at right place. But nobody understands that I could not afford a baby with such a man.

Dont live with parents after marriage...thats the golden rule...if neither the guy nor his parents understands this, then better live and die single....

Ananya is correct. She is trying her best to assimilate in the family however isn't able to do so since two years. Meanwhile Yash should understand efforts made by Ananya.

Obviously, Ananya has the point and why should all the time girls should compromise ? A marriage is a participation , not anyone's responsibility and both ends have to deal with the situations, not all times the girls.

Every Married girl can relate this more or less !!!

This was my life for 10 years. Although the fighting and argument didn't happen much. Because I was too scared, too lonely to fight for basic human rights. Took a long time and lots of patience to achieve my happiness. We moved only 3 miles away and now everyone likes everything. Food somehow tastes better, house somehow looks cleaner and decisions somehow get the approval we craved for 10 years.

This is my life right now I support ananya .... struggling with the deadly intervention of so called mother in law ...

The girl is absolutely right.... she tried her best, adjustments are done by her, solution also presented by her to save marriage by living separately. She will damage her own self esteem if she stays with his parents who keep putting her down all the time.... this ain't good for her.

Stay with the wife's parents for 2 years.. Then see how it feels.

Anaaya is right, she has tried adjusting for 2 years , she changed her job, she learnt cooking, what efforts has husband made?

2:25 as if wife ke parents kabhi old ni honge 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ I would totally support the girl she was right

In laws are never happy when girl's parents visit their house .... When you avoid her parents then why do you expect her to welcome your parents.... Either both nor any

This is the same story of all the Indian married girls.

Anaaya , she is right. Most women suffer with this everyday fights. It's better to stay nearby inlaws. And to be there when ever they need us. And live every day happily.

It's as if they took the story from my own life, but I fought silently till there are 30% improvements in their behavior towards me. I did think of divorce so many times, but my parents asked me to exercise some more patience. Without anyone to support you in the family, a husband's home feels more like a jail where you are serving lifetime punishment rather than a home.

This is our society.. rules are meant only for girls.. and if someone doesn't follow all starts telling we have also suffered a lot... Even our parents do this so what can we expect from husband and in-laws

People who supports the girl - like People who supports the guy - comment

Salute to such women who standup for themselves! fully support them!

I m suffering from last 5 years....i always support my husband rather then my parents. A complete arrange marriage .....and at the end...I what I got....I hv nothing. ..finally I m here to take decisions for my own...just leave him is a option for me

Ananya ! Why does the husband and the whole society expects only the wife to adjust or understand. Whyy ?

When a daughter is born,the parents are mentally prepared right away that she has to leave them some day and keep themselves secured for old age.Whereas when a boy is born the parents start having a lot of expectations and anticipation from their son and develop insecurity.It is the responsibility of couples not to place lot of financial or emotional expectations from their kids, rather focus on their spouses in old age.Couples forget themselves and focus all energies on kids.This conditioning needs to change for things to get better. Also insecure people will always create trouble. An insecured mil or fil will play spoilsport to display their concerns.

Ananya is correct for sure....her husband's mother can try to learn cook ananya like her daughter but if sasu maa only give order that's not right yarrrr

I m married for long 18 yrs... For first few yrs it feels that am the one who is adjusting.. But believe me guys... Now I am a mother of 14 yrs old boy... Now I understood.. That my in-laws have done to me. Their love support acceptance.. That was priceless

What the girl explains goes against the male ego, hence he refuses to understand that change n space can resolve the very root of the problem. Sometimes it's quite tough for in-laws & spouses to adjust, giving each other space buys time n makes relationships grow stronger, not weaker

I am shocked to see the husband's point of view, he asks rather demands for unjustified adjustments from his wife but if she asks for the same he takes it as an option. Amazing how people can demand for adjustments and changes from a girl when she gets married, but they are not willing to accept the girl in their family

Guys Will always b mummas boy His parents r getting old , toh girl ke parents are getting younger? Chahe kuch ho jaaye , guys will always take their parents side.

Male partners will start understanding their female partners one day when d rule reverses and the male start leaving parents or their own home and moving to wives home and parents after marriage.. then they will undertand "adjustment" is not an easy thinh unlike the word it sounds to be.

girl left everything for him so he need to understand and make her feel safe and happy

I will support Ananya, as she spent 2 years for him, and he should also support her. No Controversy Plz.

This same case happened with me and were about to separate but my husband's friends convinced my husband about the seriousness of the matter and now we live in another district..now in-laws realised my importance and the relationship is also saved..

I really liked the line - roz roz ke ladai jhagde se atcha hai na kabhi kabhi mile aur happy rahe. Tum khush wife bhi khush aur parents bhi khush itna adjust karna toh banta hai shaadi me

The age of 20-40 is prime time in every one's life. Fights and mental tension will only hinder progress for the entire family. The older generation should learn to keep themselves busy instead of interfering in others life..

There are times were we all need our personal space and so Ananya is absolutely right .

Well I support Ananya As it's tru that from beginning girls have been taught to adjust but according to this modern world even boys should try to adjust Girls r not the only person who should adjust boys should try it too as for boys adjust is just a word where as for girls ADJUST means hard work and patience It is not easy to adjust as easy it is to pronounce it...

M not married but it's so relatable as I have seen my mother's life.

Ananya; why should always Female adjust and compromise and sacrifice. Once why can’t the Male Because the Male Ego will hurt

Both are right in their own way My suggestion is don't marry be happy...

Sometimes we need to tell our parents to understand and instead of telling girl to wait and adjust we need to tell our parents to wait and adjust 10% of there life style because the girl lifestyle has been changed 100% then what it was before marriage

I support Ananya....the same is happening with me.....from day two, in- law started torture....buy ur tiffin from outside bz it is an extra money fr us, do not use washing powder daily for washing clothes instead soak it in cold water and dry it, do not use AC, do not watch TV, bz of love marriage son lost many matches that offered crores of dowry and lots of property etc.... when she got married , she separated from her in laws ....but now she wants her son to stay with her even after his marriage... She can dry her clothes inside the house but when I do, she objects. One day when it rained , from terrace she collected her clothes and her son's clothes but left mine ... One day when am packing my lunch box fr office, she took the food from my hands and argued that until her son wakeup and eat i shld not eat... One day When my husband went to market to buy veggies, she took an empty bag n went on to road shouting....that i bet her son ...so son ran away from home...also i bet her and sent her out it seems....she framed a story on me... After all these still my husband asks me to adjust but never asked his mother that y she did so.... When she does mistake , he never ask her infront of me....says to me that he will talk to her in person personally.....but when i do nothing but still confronts me infront of her........ As our's is a love marriage, For my husband , I went against to all my family members and married him....if at least husband supports us...that is enough...but no support from him

Being a girl, I can totally relate to this video.. boys should also adjust.. they need to understand and adjust accordingly. The one who is a new member in the family will always try to adjust bcoz she knows that nobody in the new family understands her

Annanya ofcourse that point hit me soo badly when she said y all important decisions are taken withiut consulting me.i

Well done guys!!!! ☺great concept short videos big morals❤ Would love some video on life partners true meaning✌

Either he should support his wife at HOME and tell his parents that everyone has feelings so understand the value of word's while speaking at home or try to feel the experience to live with your partners parents,

Every girl is expected to leave parents but if she ask same thing from a guy then she is wicked. Very very unfair. I clearly support girl.There should be same responsibilities and rules for both wife and husband. Why the DIL is not appreciated? Why the wife is not given preferences? The guy is wrongly justifying his parents.

Both, wife & husband should have a strong bonding & in laws should also try to adjust with the girl should make her comfortable in the new house & give her importance as they give to their son. After all everything is as new for the girl as it's for them. On the contrary they are matured so should handle the situation with care.

It takes time to adjust but the couple has to be a unit and they can tackle the whole world. Allow other relationships to flourish too. These issues need to be discussed before marriage.

The best thing would be to gradually dissolve the institution of marriage and allow live-in relationships to take over. Divorce seems to have become a cake walk.

It's time to adjust, dear men ! Please include the word "ADJUSTMENT" in your dictionary.

This guy wants to have the cake & eat it too, wants to be with his parents & wants his wife to share the same thought. The wife is explaining her problems with his parents, he's justifying them (its only natural btw) by only siding with his parents' viewpoint while not heeding her concerns. As he's not considering her thoughts, Ananya has fair point. A person can only go on for so long.

Thank God I got a very nice family full freedom and care😊😊😊😊

Definitely I will go with Ananya. Agyakari beta hone ka ye matlab nhi ki you don't support you wife when she is right. He must also tell his parents and should not take their parents side. A bad husband I think just giving execuses to save his parents. This is really unfair. A caring husband is one who takes side of his wife when she is right. Why should every adjustments is done by wife? A husband should also, their family members also should adjust to according to new married wife. Mai to yaha tak bolunga agar bahu ko apna banana hai to uski shadi se lekar 6 mahine tak uske liye pure ghar ko adjust karna chahiye. Reason ye hai ki woh akeli sab kuchh chhod ke aayi hai aur usko jyada care aur pyari ki jarurat hoti hai. Agar husband aur uski puri family sirf apna sab kuchh aur pura dhyan apni nayi bahu pe lagaye to ye problem lifetime tak na aaye. Aur waise bhi nayi bahu deserve karti hai ye sab. She is 100% percent right. She has right to be involved in decisions. I don't know why major parents don't behave with her like their own child? This is really unfair. Jaise ek ladki apne maa baap ke saath hak se rah sakti hai, aise hi hak se woh sasural me kyu nahi rah uski? Usko kyu waha apnapan aur pyar nahi milta? Bas adjust karne ke naam pe mental torture? Ananya is 100% percent right.

These mumma's boys will never understand. I support the girl here. In fact she shouldn't explain anything. Straightaway divorce! Such men don't deserve to get married because they don't know how to handle relationships.

No doubt Annanya is right. Her husband even didn't bother to say few words to his mom on behalf of her then how can he deserve the super understanding girl? He should not even marry any girl and just stay as mummy's boy forever. Ananya leave him it will be much happier decision for you.

It's really nice video and a concept very much relatable for many couples. Though I was recommended by KZfaq about this video after 3 yrs, but I am grateful they did. I would request LifeTak team please make second part of this video as I am really looking forward to know what has been decided by the couple in the video. Please please LifeTak teamn make a video on their decision. And great work guys!!

Family means.....Parents,husband,wife,children and relatives too....but most important of family elements is Love,understanding,adjust,each other, sacrifice either you expected others to do. If you left any of these may lead you to arguements, fights,etc. So contribution must be from both side for every relationship.

A new girl comes in the family leaving her parents, her lifestyle...in an uncertain situation.....unknown family....everyone should welcome her with open arms...instead of threatening her

Ananya you must stay strong and be an inspiration for many..

Really life tak video are so meaningful... I like it

The wife comes to her husband's house on her husband's responsibility. It is her husband's responsibility also to make the surrounding environment suitable for her. Because if he talks to his parent then they might try to understand and the girl will start feeling that it's her home also. As someone is there who gives her importance. But sadly, it is happening with most of the girl.

Each indian girl is hearing a word from her birth that u r d person to go from here to another home.after marrge her family have send her to another family and they are not ready to take her back.but in her husbands home she s somebody came from outside.she didnt have any role in dat family also.she already went out from her family and her husbands family will not accept her as a daughter.dat means she didnt have anyone to support her.ds s d truth happening to most indian girls

"didn't i leave my parents", AGREE X2

Nice video. I would definitely support the girl because she is right. Every parent have changed themselves to be friends with the new generation. Adjustment happens from both the sides.

Men pls don't get married unless u cant handle both :) don't spoil someone's dreams I support ananya cox adjustment shud from everyone:)

I would support the girl every step of the way.

Definitely Ananya!! I too can relate to every bit of it.

I don't know how she managed 2 years.. I can't bear all this even for a month

See when a guy and a girl get married, the husband and wife are two names of a single entity. They are not a separate being anymore. Insults and appreciation for any one of them is equally distributed. Adjustment and freedom should also be equally distributed. The girl has tried for 2 years to save the marriage. Now the boy can also plan to stay separately with the girl for atleast those 2 years and by then if they have babies, even the girl will also understand the importance of her in-laws and things can get sorted out.

Going through the same phase, unfortunately Husband has the same behavior & thinking like of in laws.. n now gonna get separated in few weeks.

Ananya. I have gone through the same.. wonderful episode. Felt like it was my story.

Same story of my life.. still dealing with these issues..😭

🔴 The guy should spend next few months living with the girl at her parents home. And the girl's parents should treat the guy like their daughter is treated at her in laws place. Though obviously, it's too much to ask for and then there is that 'Damad Ji' thing😆😄😂

I would suggest them move on there own Girl had tried a lot to adjust according to this video

When the Ananya said"why don't you adjust" then Yash said "iske alava or koi option nahi hai "it means he don't want to adjust

Ananya..... Its right to support ur parents bt at the same time understanding ur partner is also compulsory

Ladkiyo se had se jyada expectations rakhte hai sab.. job bhi karo.. aur khana bhi banao. Phir in-laws ki pharmaish Puri karo.. jaan nikal lete hai sab. Phir wo alag rahna chahe to mil k use kharab kahne lagte hai.

Ananya Im still dealing with this issues

This is how are society is... Our parents have adjusted but our generation find it difficult and want to bring about revolution... Very difficult but not impossible if both families understand and adjust for a healthy relationship and mental peace...

In this case any body will take the same decision 👍🏻it makes things and life much better

I feel both should adjust...where ananya is giving her effort, her in-laws also need to do something to get adjusted with her...no one should expect adjustment only from one side..

I agree with wife coz my hubby is very understanding supportive , ND he always understand wht his family behaviour's with me

This needs a second episode

Humne bhi ki hai adjustments.. Bhut jyada patience caahiye Hoti hai. Maine bhi bhut adjust liya hai

When you expect your daughter in law to be like your daughter, first step is to treat her like one, the girl has been brought up in entire diffrent family and has diffrent opinions and habbits still she tries to accept her inlaws or hubby's habbits or opinions. Instad of taunting her for her daily activities try helping her to adjust.

I'm also sick of my Mother in law......feel so sphocated ìn such situations. ..she is so right...even I've skip my state pcs exam when she went through major operation.....all my friends felt so sad for me that time....but that lady feel nothing for me....I've wasted whole year for such lady who doesn't deserve my help....but this year NO compromise with my career at all...even people called me rude(obviously Mother in law and their daughters )..I don't care...I've reached at saturation point now...we have only one life yarr..and this young age is our golden years ..we should sped it with people who really respects ,loves you and cares for you...after that incident now I'm so clear about which people really matters. .....and that's not possible without my mother in law..for that, big thanks to her

She tried for two whole years. I don't think they understand the meaning of partnership

These kind of men will never change better leave the person and stay alone. At least you can do what you want and be happy. No more fights no more pains

Ofcourse Ananya & sadly its a very common problem in every indian family :(

Relatable to everyone who are married.. story of every home..

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This is my story... Only difference is, I made this though choice after my twins came into my life... And now m happy with them and my hubby is missing their childhood coz he didn't wanna make the rite choice of adjustment....

Ananya is right. Now a days, in many families it' s happening. Yash has some plights. But Ananya's problems are genuine.

She is right. If a girl tolerates to adjust it is considered her weakness.

Absolutely right

So relatable.....

Akash should stay with Ananya s parents for 2 years then take the discussion

It’s very imp to leave a toxic relationship

I have been adjusting for last 12 years....So either step out or live according to yourself....

God bless you 🙏