Lindsay Clancy: The War Within ALL OF US

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Responding To The Call

Responding To The Call

Күн бұрын

Lindsay Clancy, a wife and mother of 3 from Duxbury, Massachusetts suffering from postpartum psychosis took the lives of her 3 children and then attempted to take her own life. With a community in shock and a family devastated, many are asking why and how this could have happened. The key may be from Patrick Clancy, Lindsay's husband who shared a statement about her battle with mental health after her pregnancies. She was fighting an internal war that millions struggle with everyday, including my own family.
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@vivianasong7271
@vivianasong7271 Жыл бұрын
This story just breaks my heart. Your story is so powerful and your compassion is humbling. God bless you for shining a light.
@janiemalina6283
@janiemalina6283 Жыл бұрын
Thank-you for sharing your ❤Love and Pain in life is real!!!
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, Janie! We all walk through so much and if our story can help encourage someone, that’s exactly why we share it. Blessings!
@kaitlynsarver6125
@kaitlynsarver6125 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this support that they all need so desperately in these times.
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
They sure do. Can’t get them off of my mind. Praying!
@adrianexo21
@adrianexo21 Жыл бұрын
they need us all to pray for them.
@jasonjacklich
@jasonjacklich Жыл бұрын
I sympathize with your wife Adam. I have been struggle with mental illness most of my life as it runs in my family. However, there is still a lot of stigma in the church regarding it. However, there has been a lot of progress since the 80's when I first became a Christian. Since then I have had a lot of ups and downs with my walk with God, anxiety/depression/mode disorders, struggles with alcohol, etc. Then in 2003 I was diagnosed with Bipolar 2 (basically not as bad as mania but darker depressions) after a really dark depression. They changed you my medication due to a chemical imbalance in my brain. Since then having more ups and downs with my mental illness, walk with God, alcohol use, playing in a secular rock band, etc. Also, having a family of my own and full time job with it's won struggles, I finally came to the end of myself. In 2012 I was ready to take my own life as I had a plan and was going to follow through with it. However, I cried out to God one last time and then thoughts went in my head not do it and thinking of my wife, kids and grand kids. The hurt I would be leaving behind would be tremendous. So I turned myself into an in-patient mental hospital again. I had not been drinking alcohol for a while but my depression was the darkest it has ever been in my life. So once I got out of the hospital, I started on a new journey in life to make my mental health, walk with God and family a propriety in my life. So I removed somethings out of my life that were not good for me, started attending therapy, got on some medication changes, started regularly attending church, quit my rock band, not to drink alcohol anymore and started using my musical talent to play in the churches worship band. It took months to come out of the depression but it eventually lifted. I have not been clinically depressed since 2012 and have really put my identity in Christ and not my mental illness. I have still had my struggles as we all do but doing it God's way it the best way. Using the natural and spiritual gifts he give like medication, prayer, support, etc. Also, there is a great Christian ministry for mental health that I have facilitated support groups and look forward to someday bringing to my newest church. Here is the website if you are interested: mentalhealthgracealliance.org/
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story, Jason! So amazing what the Lord has walked you through. Great is His faithfulness and I’m so grateful for the gifts of grace like you described. Thanks for sharing that resource as well!
@christinamaria7239
@christinamaria7239 Жыл бұрын
I suffered with PPD with 2/4 children. I would be very sad with severe anxiety. But, I never thought of hurting my kids or anyone else. postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis are both terrible in my opinion. This story's absolutely heartbreaking. May those 3 angels Rip🕊️🙏🏼🕊️🙏🏼🕊️🙏🏼. Thank you for bringing awareness to this. Im sending prayers out to all women who are struggling with this.
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this Christina Maria. Anxiety, PPD, PPS, and all other forms of mental health struggles are all so multifaceted. Each story is truly unique to the individual and you’re absolutely right-this broke my heart as well. I’m glad you’re on the other side of it and willing to share it with others!
@christinamaria7239
@christinamaria7239 Жыл бұрын
@@RespondingtotheCall Thank you so much❤️ sending blessings to your family🙏🏼
@imjustanasshlesometimes3488
@imjustanasshlesometimes3488 Жыл бұрын
You sound like a great partner/person. I had HG with both of my pregnancies. It's truly.... awful doesn't describe it. My oldest was 11 months when I got pregnant with our second... then I went through PPD/severe PPA. The thing is... you can be so aware of PPD... the signs, symptoms... but once it hits you, it doesn't phase you to think it's that. You truly think you're a horrible mom/wife/person and everyone is better off without you. Luckily I had my husband and an amazing mental health practitioner that acted immediately. My youngest is 16 months old... and honestly, the PPD still lingers around despite treatment and therapy. Anyway, thank you and your wife for your story. I'm praying for the Clancy family. 💗 -Klarissa
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
You are so right-Awful definitely doesn’t describe it. I’m so glad your husband was incredible through it. We also had an amazing OB and mental health practitioners to help her (and me) through the roughest times. Those are the times where it takes an inordinate amount of trust in those around you who will fight for you when you can’t/won’t fight anymore. Thanks for sharing your heart and journey. You have “family” out here who understand and are always ready to come alongside you!
@cristyvillarreal224
@cristyvillarreal224 Жыл бұрын
So incredibly heartbreaking. 😭💔
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
There aren't words, really. Praying for this family and the whole community!
@INTELLIGENCE_Revolution
@INTELLIGENCE_Revolution Жыл бұрын
No come on. Im not saying it’s not real or whatever. But protect your kids. Regardless of whether someone is ill or not. Remove the children. If you don’t. This is the risk you take. Someone has to protect the children. That’s your job.
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
Hey Mary! Definitely need to protect our kids and it sounds like she was getting help, counseling, etc over the years. I think what’s so devastating is that there seemed to be no warning and he simply went to grab food. When my wife went through this, I remember those moments and it different day by day. It’s a fierce and constant mental battle.
@Genxmom
@Genxmom Жыл бұрын
I am so glad your wife has you. I had ppd with my first baby. I remember laying down, facedown in my front yard and begging God to help me. It was so scary.
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
Those moments are truly so grueling. It’s like being in a furnace where faith is tested to its limits. So glad you made it through!!
@KelseyPaige1984
@KelseyPaige1984 Жыл бұрын
Why did you continue to have children if this was the case? If she wanted an abortion who kept her from having an abortion? Seem's similar to the Andrea Yates case so you got lucky! If Lindsay Clancy really was in a postpartum psychosis this is entirely different than postpartum depression and she should have NEVER been left alone nevermind alone with all 3 children!
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
Hey Kelsey! We kept having kids because they are a gift and a treasure 🙂. We originally wanted 5, but stopped after our 3rd pregnancy for obvious reasons. As I mentioned in the video, we had no clue it was HG (or that HG would continue and even get worse) until the last pregnancy. Renee always says God knew we would face this so that’s why He gave us twins 👯‍♀️…one less pregnancy! Though she begged for it all to end, I was obviously right by her side through it all and abortion was never an option (her “black and white” turned to gray). Our OB, our family, and our church family were all there supporting us as well. Lots of support, prayer, and clear thinking FOR her when she couldn’t see beyond the storm. As far as being left alone, I can see that…but she was reportedly and self admittedly “making progress” by all accounts. As a husband, I’m sure Patrick never imagined that, especially if she’d been doing okay recently. It’s such a hard and heartbreaking situation to read into and mental health is moment-by-moment. Thanks again for watching!
@cristyvillarreal224
@cristyvillarreal224 Жыл бұрын
I've always appreciated your teachings Adam. I appreciate your humble & honest spirit in sharing this video today to share the vulnerable, dark, difficult moments you faced with your own family. My heart goes out to you guys. Still saddened that the subject of anxiety & depression is not addressed nor given much space in many of our churches. The majority of us are faced with a sense of something being very, very wrong with US if we "can't get over feeling like this." We go about living a life of shame. We are made to feel like it's a terrible thing that we even feel depressed or anxious as a believer-like why is it even a thing in your life? In my experience, even being asked if I truly have God in my life & being told, "don't you call yourself a Christian?" 💔 By the grace of God. I am alive today. He continues to bring me through on the daily with my own recovery from extremely traumatic life experiences in both my childhood & adult life that have added to my struggle with mental illness. Thanks for speaking out brother. ❤️
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
@@cristyvillarreal224 Thanks for sharing your own story and for your heart on this! I agree wholeheartedly about those comments you've experienced. I think it's so hard for people who have not walked through it themselves (or with someone) to truly understand what happens in someone's mind. This is exactly why we wanted to share our story. The battle is real, fierce, and all-consuming some days. We're in this together and as the stats show, there are a LOT of people walking through this and who understand!
@jilllovesbeegees70
@jilllovesbeegees70 Жыл бұрын
Your bless your hearts..
@shortmashins4031
@shortmashins4031 Жыл бұрын
Pregnancy and childbirth is a life and death situation, my last pregnancy was tough on me thats why i got sterilised
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that. We had to stop as well so I know exactly what you mean. Grateful for the gifts we have been given!
@reneesloan915
@reneesloan915 Жыл бұрын
I had hyperemesis gravidarum and I had the picc line. I also suffered with severe PPD and a lot of anxiety/panic attacks. All issues got worse with each pregnancy, so I decided to never have anymore kids after my third. I wouldn’t have made if it wasn’t for God and I still suffer with the anxiety and God gives me hope for he will see me through.
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story, Renee! How long ago were your pregnancies and how are you doing now? We did the exact same, not having anymore after the 3rd pregnancy. We got blessed with Twins during the 2nd pregnancy and Renee (my Renee) always said God put two in there because we always wanted more. Sounds odd to say, but there is definitely something about walking with others who have gone through HG. So many people don’t understand it as far as the long-term journey that goes way beyond the pregnancies. How did your husband hold up? Praying for you and your family tonight! Thanks again for sharing your heart.
@reneesloan915
@reneesloan915 Жыл бұрын
@@RespondingtotheCall it was 21 years ago. My husband was very supportive. I still remember being so sick. Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you and your family.
@Jillian11175
@Jillian11175 Жыл бұрын
Why do so many of these cases have a religious bent?
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
Hey @Triplecaprocorn111, can you elaborate on that? Would love to help!
@onefeather2
@onefeather2 Жыл бұрын
Just because one can have children does Not mean they should, men will not and cannot ever understand about the birth of a child, just because you can does not mean you should. And don't use the bible as an excuse because that is what you want.
@kaitlynsarver6125
@kaitlynsarver6125 Жыл бұрын
I am not religious, but stayed. I am very thankful that you really seemed to understand and sympathize with everyone you spoke about it the video. Sometimes people who also use their religion in this videos seem so pretentious or judgmental. I am very glad this came up today. Personally, HG is so debilitating. I had a pillow and blankets in the bathroom so i could try and sleep between the vomiting. I was in the ER every 2 days for electrolytes/fluids/and tube food. I lost 67 lbs my first trimester. I couldn’t even hold down water. It was also EXTREMELY triggering to my then under control ED, so when I stopped having HG I was left with the urge to force it and continue losing weight the wrong was AFTER we had our son. I lost one twin in the first trimester before we were originally told it was HG and we have yet to try again just do to that pain and suffering from my pregnancy and that recovery. Thats without all of the other mental issues I suffered and the 11 other pregnancies we had lost. I hope your wife and family are healing more everyday 🫶🏻
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
Kaitlyn, I’m so glad you stayed and can’t thank you enough-not only for spending time in your day to watch/listen-but for sharing your heart and your story of HG. I’m so sorry for all that you’ve walked through, especially for the loss of your baby. Did I read that correctly? 11 other pregnancies and all with HG? I have so much more to say and share but time wouldn’t allow me here (nor is it the forum for that due to the nature of our journeys 😔). You are a warrior, Kaitlyn. I want you to know that Renee and I understand the trauma, the pillow/blanket in the bathroom, the overall loss of days/mental health/and parts of life in general. Those days/years are times that most people who haven’t experienced HG may never understand, nor would we ask or expect them to! All of that to say that WE ARE HERE in the fight with you. Please feel free to reach out by email (on my main page) if you (or your husband/partner) would ever like to. If you don’t mind, I’ll be praying over you and your family. Thanks again for being here.
@kaitlynsarver6125
@kaitlynsarver6125 Жыл бұрын
@@RespondingtotheCall 11 past losses (not far enough along to have had HG full swing) My husband and I have grown through each one together and we thankfully have our best buddy ❤️
@RespondingtotheCall
@RespondingtotheCall Жыл бұрын
@@kaitlynsarver6125 I love that…”our best buddy.” My family and I are praying for you Kaitlyn (hope you don’t mind 😊). You’ve been carried through so much. I have 3 daughters and we’ve all talked about this (HG) and you multiple times.
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