My Husband Punishes Me When I Break The Rules | LOVE DON’T JUDGE

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Love Don't Judge

Love Don't Judge

Жыл бұрын

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Brandi and Laz Robinson look like a pretty conventional couple: Laz, 38, works in solar engineering, Brandi, 36, is a stay at home mum who (pre-Covid19) homeschools their three kids and has a penchant for coupon shopping. But behind closed doors they practice domestic discipline, a type of relationship which sees Laz dole out punishments to Brandi, from line writing to spanking. Domestic discipline is where one partner takes on the dominant rule maker (and enforcer) role, while the other partner is the submissive. In the case of the Robinsons, Laz is the ‘head of house’, or HOH, while Brandi is the ‘taken in hand’ or TIH. It also adheres to traditional gender roles with Brandi doing the cooking and housework, while Laz looks after the garden and related manual chores. The pair, from Columbus, Ohio, claim that being in a domestic discipline relationship has made them closer as a couple.
Videographer: Max Rodriguez
Producer: Nathalie Bonney, Ruby Coote, James Thorne, Kim Nguyen
Editor: Beth Angus
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@Unveeiltv
@Unveeiltv 7 ай бұрын
Who punishes the husband when he breaks the rules or is he perfectly above the law
@tunmisebabalola4071
@tunmisebabalola4071 6 ай бұрын
I wonder oo
@beataylorsdeeppinkecstasy9013
@beataylorsdeeppinkecstasy9013 6 ай бұрын
She says it wouldn't work because they're roles are completely different, which makes no sense to me. Why should he be able to do anything he wants to with impunity? It sounds like they both have self-esteem issues. I didn't get married to have another daddy; I got married to have a partner. He's not in charge of me, and I'm not in charge of him.
@Chris-dv5sc
@Chris-dv5sc 5 ай бұрын
( God ) 1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the HEAD of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the MAN ; and the head of Christ is God.
@Meshi135
@Meshi135 5 ай бұрын
This is her idea 😂😂
@jaylenpatterson8062
@jaylenpatterson8062 5 ай бұрын
@@Chris-dv5sc Absolutely which means he should be submitting to the Lord. the Bible also calls Husbands to love their wife like Christ loves the church. That command is to avoid possible abuse of power.
@merkury2170
@merkury2170 Жыл бұрын
I showed this to my friend and she said, "Love Don't Judge but I sure dam do"
@lathafalls7675
@lathafalls7675 Жыл бұрын
To this I do
@sammythestripper....86
@sammythestripper....86 Жыл бұрын
Haaaa😂
@MISSMADISONMEDIA
@MISSMADISONMEDIA 7 ай бұрын
No fr 😭
@guerline685
@guerline685 7 ай бұрын
The truth is not judgments
@tanyafreeman9068
@tanyafreeman9068 6 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@xoxlissy
@xoxlissy Жыл бұрын
I wanna know what part of her childhood made her want to go this route
@Humanoider
@Humanoider Жыл бұрын
It's start from primal time. And that's normal.
@GenaF
@GenaF Жыл бұрын
@heyyoooooo exactly what I was going to say.
@PuggyxLudus
@PuggyxLudus Жыл бұрын
@@heyyoooooo820 could have been the mother tho
@micahstealyogirlbell8010
@micahstealyogirlbell8010 Жыл бұрын
@@PuggyxLudus most likely the father
@PuggyxLudus
@PuggyxLudus Жыл бұрын
@@micahstealyogirlbell8010 how so
@mintstudent9442
@mintstudent9442 7 ай бұрын
This belongs in the bedroom and not in the living room where your kids are.
@aedria9667
@aedria9667 5 ай бұрын
THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
@Keiara-we8dy
@Keiara-we8dy 5 ай бұрын
Right
@GaiaEarthGoddess3
@GaiaEarthGoddess3 4 ай бұрын
This isn't a kink. People confuse this with BDSM but this is literally a relationship style. It shouldn't be shielded from children.My husband and I practice domestic discipline too and all three of my daughters know
@denisenoemyschizotypaldiso3755
@denisenoemyschizotypaldiso3755 4 ай бұрын
Should children also be shielded from the Bible? This is based on their interpretation of the Bible.
@Keiara-we8dy
@Keiara-we8dy 4 ай бұрын
@@GaiaEarthGoddess3 if u say it isnt a kink when what do u call it
@lynesec532
@lynesec532 Жыл бұрын
How does the 13 year old have more sense than the mother? I’m dead
@kenyaouko7388
@kenyaouko7388 Жыл бұрын
Fr .. Her daughter comments had me dead. 😂☠️ She don't that 💩 in her relationship.
@MrDaRiAn21
@MrDaRiAn21 7 ай бұрын
💯
@christianndlovu-lh7vu
@christianndlovu-lh7vu 6 ай бұрын
So the kids have more sense than their parents, and they even black too.😔😔😔
@msharrell
@msharrell 6 ай бұрын
She’s very intelligent
@denisenoemyschizotypaldiso3755
@denisenoemyschizotypaldiso3755 4 ай бұрын
It's not uncommon for children, even small children, to have better sense than their parents. I recall my mother bathing me and I begged her, "Don't mention HIM anymore!" I referred to a boyfriend she had years prior to her meeting my Dad but whom I was being told about on a regular basis. As a child, I knew it was harming me to be dragged into a romance that ended prior to my birth. For about 10 years, Mom and I fought The Battle of the Dirty Kleenexes. Facial tissues were sold: "Why keep a cold in yr pocket?" Used once and the snot, together with germs, were to be discarded. My mother held onto dirty tissues and I got in trouble for discarding them. Yes, children can have more sense than parents.
@starrshort6403
@starrshort6403 Жыл бұрын
I'm worried for the children the most 😭 they're growing up thinking this is normal and right Edit : I’m aware that the 13 year old doesn’t want that type of the relationship but still the other kids are there . It’s fine doing whatever in a relationship as long as both people are happy and no one is harmed , but I think the children shouldn’t have to witness this
@only1anime89
@only1anime89 Жыл бұрын
it is right but you are brainwashed sadly. Before 100 years this was it
@KetovoreWayOfLife
@KetovoreWayOfLife Жыл бұрын
Their 13 yo daughter said hell no! "I will not have a similar relationship like my parents. I'm not this type of person." So go on with THAT bs 😤🤣🤣🤣
@love.wildly.live.fearlessly
@love.wildly.live.fearlessly Жыл бұрын
@@KetovoreWayOfLife doesn’t matter how much you say you won’t be like your parents but look into how our minds and actions are form by watching our parents and what happens when you’re abused or raised by parents who aren’t there all the time. It does affect us and our growing minds.
@xerosbatmanmerch7815
@xerosbatmanmerch7815 Жыл бұрын
all these quotes hanging around the house😟
@felipeduggan2812
@felipeduggan2812 Жыл бұрын
@@love.wildly.live.fearlessly but there is a clear diference here... they are not abused (at least it didnt seem so). Knowing your dad spanks your mother in the bedroom with a wooden spoon is not the same as getting your ass wooped cronically by your drunk dad while your mother does nothing.
@yungyina3808
@yungyina3808 6 ай бұрын
I would be disgusted and embarrassed if these were my parents exposing this on the internet ew lmfaooo 😂
@benzin1614
@benzin1614 Жыл бұрын
"I don't think people consent to be abused". oh girl, you have no idea of how this world works.
@robyn220
@robyn220 Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly 😢
@viewsonichomie
@viewsonichomie 7 ай бұрын
What is BDSM then?
@relentero8547
@relentero8547 7 ай бұрын
@@viewsonichomie BdSm isn’t abuse lmao
@Royaltyizme17
@Royaltyizme17 6 ай бұрын
True but when you stay you are saying I know you beat women so keep doing it no excuse exspecially when you have kids leave that it's toxic and not right.
@sigmasiren777
@sigmasiren777 6 ай бұрын
​@@relentero8547 bdsm is abuse, its just consented abuse.
@bb3ll07
@bb3ll07 Жыл бұрын
So it was her idea????! What in the Fifty Shades of black is this??!😂😂😂
@VashtiPerry
@VashtiPerry Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 I just watched that movie. 😂😂😂😂 this is really it
@KikiSanders-qr5pj
@KikiSanders-qr5pj 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@elliottcanuel2196
@elliottcanuel2196 5 ай бұрын
ain't no way LOL
@tinikadixon1764
@tinikadixon1764 3 күн бұрын
😂 Best comment ever.
@Aragedie
@Aragedie Жыл бұрын
No one is wondering why they have so much toilet paper chillin in the middle of the living room 🤷‍♀️
@lilmsbhaven
@lilmsbhaven Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 It looks like she coupons. They have an unusual amount of laundry soap as well
@Aragedie
@Aragedie Жыл бұрын
@@lilmsbhaven that's what I thought 😆
@brittneywitherspoon8530
@brittneywitherspoon8530 Жыл бұрын
The excessive couponing, the dynamic b/w her and her husband...there is no doubt this woman has some issues lol.
@angelacooper8973
@angelacooper8973 Жыл бұрын
Y’all don’t coupon? 😳. I was raised on couponing I can even do it myself when I put forth an effort.
@Aragedie
@Aragedie Жыл бұрын
@@angelacooper8973 I used to extreme coupon but it got too hard to get good deals in my area 😫 I had a lot of a stockpile that lasted years. Miss couponing!
@liyans1
@liyans1 Жыл бұрын
What’s ironic is that despite being the ‘sub’ she’s actually the one who defined and created this current dynamic. She’s actually the one in charge.
@StudioVegan
@StudioVegan 11 ай бұрын
That’s very true I’m a sub I don’t people understand the lifestyle
@hoodooladiiiii9625
@hoodooladiiiii9625 6 ай бұрын
That doesn’t make it any better
@Chris_FMS_Redfield
@Chris_FMS_Redfield 6 ай бұрын
power bottom
@amyytyler9040
@amyytyler9040 6 ай бұрын
That's exactly how submission works. True submission is not taken. Its given freely. And the sub sets the boundaries and limits. Its so completely different than What the average person perceives.
@abbybarrett4855
@abbybarrett4855 5 ай бұрын
It’s called switch
@svdagoat7972
@svdagoat7972 7 ай бұрын
Mom is an airhead the daughter is so well spoken, at least she knows better and doesn't want to be like Mom.
@tammi67able
@tammi67able 5 ай бұрын
Good for her ❤
@kathryngolick7356
@kathryngolick7356 6 ай бұрын
I will divorce my husband if he hit me
@TeddyMitchell-e8i
@TeddyMitchell-e8i 15 күн бұрын
She asked for this and had to convince him to do it. He doesn’t want to do it. Did you not watch the video or just simply blaming the man? As per usual smh.
@OnlyMichaelJackson
@OnlyMichaelJackson Жыл бұрын
This isn't making sense. If neither of them like doing things that hurt each other why the hell are they doing it? Why is she making him do things to her she doesn't like? If it hurts her and she doesn't like it, isn't that simply abuse, even if she asked for it? Because corporal punishment (on children) has always been abuse, and this is the same thing. People can certainly "consent" to abuse without realizing it. Do they realize they don't have to do things in their relationship that they don't like? I just wanna know what happened to this woman in her childhood that makes her feel the need to do this. If she wants an unconventional relationship, that's fine, but she doesn't have to do things in the relationship that she doesn't like. Make it make sense.
@felipeduggan2812
@felipeduggan2812 Жыл бұрын
She seems to like the controlling part.
@simonwilliamnoelmurray9179
@simonwilliamnoelmurray9179 Жыл бұрын
Discipline
@Annedowntherabbithole
@Annedowntherabbithole 7 күн бұрын
She does like it
@1BellaSoul
@1BellaSoul 17 сағат бұрын
This just crazy
@momoe.4075
@momoe.4075 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think I can watch this. I’m clicking off for my mental health. Praying for this woman and her family.
@MsBigdog35
@MsBigdog35 9 ай бұрын
She literally wanted it😊
@tysonchambliss1584
@tysonchambliss1584 8 ай бұрын
You're over reacting. She wanted it and consented. She asked for it, literally. It was HER idea.
@9395gb
@9395gb 7 ай бұрын
​@@tysonchambliss1584 Nah, it's still sick. Lots of people consent to abuse. That doesn't mean they are normal. It means they are not mentally stable.
@1BellaSoul
@1BellaSoul 17 сағат бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@1BellaSoul
@1BellaSoul 17 сағат бұрын
@@tysonchambliss1584so he should have better sense than her
@Princess_spartan
@Princess_spartan 7 ай бұрын
The min the man put hands on me baby he’s dead. The fact that it was her idea knowing womens out there actually getting abused is wild
@Tn-qr1kb
@Tn-qr1kb 6 ай бұрын
Good girl. Don’t tolerate abuse
@valvihk3649
@valvihk3649 5 ай бұрын
It's not abuse when a person takes pleasure. Different things.
@sjp9983
@sjp9983 2 ай бұрын
@@valvihk3649this is pleasure disguised as abuse. this wife has no respect or self worth for herself.
@Rae_Naeee
@Rae_Naeee 18 күн бұрын
@@valvihk3649That’s the weird part, she said she doesn’t enjoy it.
@1BellaSoul
@1BellaSoul 17 сағат бұрын
😂😂😂
@SS-mk2yp
@SS-mk2yp Жыл бұрын
Do what you want in your relationship if it makes you happy, but it becomes real concerning when the kids are privy to the power dynamics here. Yikes.
@TamESQ
@TamESQ Жыл бұрын
They better hope no one from their local CPS has seen this video.
@antinatalistwitch111
@antinatalistwitch111 Жыл бұрын
My parents have a kink of arguing and fighting. Now I have terrible anxiety and hate them. I have no issues with people living their kink lifestyle because they are 2 consenting adults, but children do not ask or need to be brought into yall lives, nor did they consent to it. Why not be childfree?
@denisenoemyschizotypaldiso3755
@denisenoemyschizotypaldiso3755 4 ай бұрын
They don't shield the kids from it because it comes out of religious principles based on certain interpretations of St. Paul's letters.
@relentero8547
@relentero8547 Жыл бұрын
The fact that they’re from Ohio explains everything 😂 but on a serious note, this is so sad. Imagine the kids growing up thinking this is normal
@angelacooper8973
@angelacooper8973 Жыл бұрын
What’s wrong with it? There’s a mom, dad, kids. They have a family. This works for them. Hey happy spouse happy house
@relentero8547
@relentero8547 Жыл бұрын
@@angelacooper8973 what’s wrong with it? What isn’t wrong with spanking your partner, or acting like you’re the overlord of the house and the people inside of it?
@rickastley472
@rickastley472 Жыл бұрын
💀💀
@felipeduggan2812
@felipeduggan2812 Жыл бұрын
Sad should be if the dude really beat the shit out of her, and also more common.
@shawnjackson6242
@shawnjackson6242 Жыл бұрын
I’m from Ohio dang this foolishness no man has EVER discipline ME not even my Daddy! I wish a man would he be laid up in icu somewhere 😀😀
@nycgirltee
@nycgirltee Жыл бұрын
They seem to keep a lovely home that's all I got 😂
@rogdawg123
@rogdawg123 Жыл бұрын
taunna you are stunning 😍
@well.826
@well.826 4 ай бұрын
Right
@0-0_kyh16
@0-0_kyh16 3 ай бұрын
It’s only problematic when you expose your kid to this, like this would traumatize me if I’m the child
@bb3ll07
@bb3ll07 Жыл бұрын
Not Lazarus 😂😂😂
@Outlawgurl2419
@Outlawgurl2419 Жыл бұрын
Who would name a baby that
@ratiodbarber
@ratiodbarber 16 күн бұрын
Lol right
@loishanamckenzie3307
@loishanamckenzie3307 15 күн бұрын
His parents ​@@Outlawgurl2419
@eve9287
@eve9287 16 сағат бұрын
Lmaooo😂😂😂😂
@angelNoll10
@angelNoll10 Жыл бұрын
I mean I'm not judging, just psychoanalyzing more than anything at this point. A lot of these kinks are often rooted in trauma and attachment styles. Makes me wonder what kind of childhood this young woman had to desire being punished. Perhaps, it's all she knew and therefore is most familiar.
@leatherminion5013
@leatherminion5013 7 ай бұрын
That has been disproven. A LOT. There are numerous studies that show that kinksters are no more traumatized than non-kinksters.
@YeowooBBCVIP
@YeowooBBCVIP 6 ай бұрын
"not judging but..." yes you are bruh. 😂
@valvihk3649
@valvihk3649 5 ай бұрын
Oh this is bullshit. I love submissive and dominant dynamic (not to their extent but still). There is no child trauma to want a strong man to show how much he desires you by taking control by loosing control. To show he can protect you with his strong body. Worships you with his dominance. All of these things outside of sex are basic things women look at when searching for a life partner.
@shiannafoxx
@shiannafoxx 2 ай бұрын
@@leatherminion5013 As someone into kinks I highly doubt that. What studies say this
@JuniperGal-ek2pu
@JuniperGal-ek2pu Ай бұрын
Not all kinks are like that. Being kinky doesn’t equate to being traumatized.
@IvaObannon
@IvaObannon Жыл бұрын
“Domestic discipline” lost me 😮
@starrahjhay8098
@starrahjhay8098 Жыл бұрын
Immediately 😂
@RR-us1lt
@RR-us1lt Жыл бұрын
It's a fetish they just won't admit it
@denisenoe3702
@denisenoe3702 Жыл бұрын
@@RR-us1lt It CAN be a fetish but not always. She gets no sexual arousal from the spankings so it's not a fetish. I can't imagine being sexually turned on by writing lines.
@only1anime89
@only1anime89 Жыл бұрын
well they stayed together for 15 years unlike you modern girls. You always cheat in social media and only fans and you dont get punished for cheating thats why you do it. You.girls have no dicpline
@IvaObannon
@IvaObannon Жыл бұрын
@@only1anime89 been in mine 13 years! My husband has never “disciplined” me. 😂 and your words of choice tells me you’re very “manly” but how manly can you really be? Hiding behind a fake profile picture and fake name. Keep your dictatorship opinion to yourself. THANK YOU!!!!
@emmadavies1573
@emmadavies1573 Жыл бұрын
So glad the daughter isn’t gonna go down this path.
@angelah8247
@angelah8247 5 күн бұрын
Yeah but the sons are gonna be abusive and super misogynistic.
@slicediced6221
@slicediced6221 Жыл бұрын
I'm a very open minded person, but this relationship seriously pisses me off. Abuse is never okay.
@simonwilliamnoelmurray9179
@simonwilliamnoelmurray9179 Жыл бұрын
Clearly not abuse, it's consentual
@TamESQ
@TamESQ Жыл бұрын
@@simonwilliamnoelmurray9179 Did the kids consent to seeing their mom get beaten? 👂🏾
@edward4817
@edward4817 Жыл бұрын
​@@TamESQ she wants it
@TamESQ
@TamESQ Жыл бұрын
@@edward4817 You didn’t answer my question. Do the kids consent to their mother being beaten by their father?
@wilkensdorval
@wilkensdorval Жыл бұрын
@@TamESQyou right this guy is crazy
@IvaObannon
@IvaObannon Жыл бұрын
The fact this is her idea!!!!!!!! Is crazy!!!!! And it’s not abuse because it’s their for-play🤦🏻‍♀️
@rosettekalombo3072
@rosettekalombo3072 Жыл бұрын
If a guy truly loves you he would not beat you even if you beg him to so I don't believe that it is her idea
@kim6828
@kim6828 Жыл бұрын
@@rosettekalombo3072 I believe it’s her idea kinda and I kinda don’t believe it. She seems happy about it, maybe a little too happy. But then he looks uncomfortable, maybe he’s acting that way to make us think he doesn’t want this? Idk what to believe
@rosettekalombo3072
@rosettekalombo3072 Жыл бұрын
@@kim6828 but she said she does not enjoy it. Plus if a man really loved you he would not truly hit you even if you ask him plus she expressed that she does not enjoy it
@kim6828
@kim6828 Жыл бұрын
@@rosettekalombo3072 that’s what I’m saying! I’m saying I think she is being abused but I’m not completely sure
@denisenoe3702
@denisenoe3702 Жыл бұрын
No, it's not. Some people take certain Bible verses to heart that are translated as counseling wifely "submission."
@burritoland
@burritoland Жыл бұрын
I know this is not the point of the video but like, are they prepping for the apocalypse?? There so much stuff everywhere 😮😅 (also props to the daughter for knowing she doesn’t wanna live that lifestyle)
@denisenoe3702
@denisenoe3702 Жыл бұрын
Many people stock up for fear of running out of things.
@ihavenoidea2805
@ihavenoidea2805 Жыл бұрын
they were more than prepared for covid with this much toilet paper
@denisenoe3702
@denisenoe3702 Жыл бұрын
@@ihavenoidea2805 Yes. Many people stock up on necessities.
@greenmika
@greenmika 12 күн бұрын
Right😂my add is so bad I couldn’t focus on anything but all the supplies in the house 🤦🏾‍♀️ I kept zooming in on the detergent and toilet paper.
@adrianabrunson1670
@adrianabrunson1670 6 күн бұрын
When she brought is up . He should have asked what happened in yo past. Because there no reason for this outside the bedroom 😂😅
@jordynbaybee6739
@jordynbaybee6739 Жыл бұрын
Why would you want this to happen if you don’t enjoy it 😭 it’s not making sense
@OnlyMichaelJackson
@OnlyMichaelJackson Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY. Why is she making him hurt her?
@smoothtalka6204
@smoothtalka6204 Жыл бұрын
She likes it! 👍🏼
@VashtiPerry
@VashtiPerry Жыл бұрын
@@smoothtalka6204 exactly but says she doesn’t
@valvihk3649
@valvihk3649 5 ай бұрын
It's part of the submissive thing. She takes pleasure from it but she wouldn't admit to it. Hence, submission. But, with boundaries since she was the one who created it in the first place. She is really in control but she wants the illusion that she is not.
@statechamp3465
@statechamp3465 3 ай бұрын
@@valvihk3649I agree
@rainbow9987
@rainbow9987 Жыл бұрын
Why are we accepting unhealthy relationships and promoting them online.
@rykiabernard3157
@rykiabernard3157 7 ай бұрын
So what about when the husband disobeys the rules or is dishonest?
@kurokaizen1889
@kurokaizen1889 7 ай бұрын
Go ask her.
@Discombobulate453
@Discombobulate453 6 ай бұрын
She pegs him
@Chris-dv5sc
@Chris-dv5sc 5 ай бұрын
The rules are ONLY for the Wives, this is Patriarchy, Not equality. Only God punishes the Husband in marriage.
@Chris-dv5sc
@Chris-dv5sc 5 ай бұрын
1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the HEAD of every MAN is CHRIST; and the HEAD of the woman is the MAN; and the head of Christ is God
@Myworld-co1qn
@Myworld-co1qn 2 ай бұрын
@@Chris-dv5scare you a sexist or something surely seems like it with all that bs you are writing
@keojiabrown6807
@keojiabrown6807 11 ай бұрын
Couldnt be me. A ninja hit me im hitting back, scratching back, biting back. I would never "never" consent to this because i know i would be quick to hit back out of reflex.🤷🏾‍♀️
@Ashley-bm9gc
@Ashley-bm9gc Жыл бұрын
If you need someone to punish you for not doing chores..and you are an adult it just sounds like you have some issues with self-discipline. Why do you need someone to spank you for that? Learn to hold yourself accountable for the things you need to do. Or learn to communicate your displeasure with your partner like an adult. This seems like a method for immature adults.
@tysonchambliss1584
@tysonchambliss1584 8 ай бұрын
Stop judging their lifestyle just because you don't understand it. The only issue I really see is exposing young kids to it
@d.c.5033
@d.c.5033 5 ай бұрын
😂 you summed it! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@valvihk3649
@valvihk3649 5 ай бұрын
It's a sexual fetish not moral logic you are putting into it. She probably breaks the rules on purpose to get spanked. It's a turn on for some people and has nothing to do with anything you said.
@Myworld-co1qn
@Myworld-co1qn 2 ай бұрын
Fr
@eze4life1000
@eze4life1000 5 ай бұрын
I was way more disturbed by their laundry room than their lifestyle 😆
@mistiblu9133
@mistiblu9133 7 ай бұрын
This is unbelievable, I pray for those kids. They are the ones that are going to be abusers. They should be turned in. This is a prime example why some people do not need kids!
@sigmasiren777
@sigmasiren777 6 ай бұрын
Agreed! Also, the son wearing a shirt that says "superior". Hes basically being trained to become a household tyrant.
@Heaza_
@Heaza_ 7 ай бұрын
“Babe, do you think we need to stock up on toilet paper and laundry detergent?”
@Jadeleev
@Jadeleev Жыл бұрын
I couldn’t pay attention cause of all the stuff that was stocked up in the house. They are stocked for years! I love it!
@cajunbelle
@cajunbelle Жыл бұрын
Me neither! I had an adult ADD moment when I saw the stockpile of toilet paper.😮
@angelacoulter7061
@angelacoulter7061 Жыл бұрын
😂😅
@PrayWitRenee
@PrayWitRenee Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@treespeakerintermediaartis9715
@treespeakerintermediaartis9715 5 ай бұрын
Did her daughter just say that, wow I love that girl she’s like not me for me but watching her mother go through that could seriously damage her either way
@guerline685
@guerline685 7 ай бұрын
She crazy ain’t no way I will let a man control me like that smh she like a little child
@lesliecarpenter1102
@lesliecarpenter1102 Жыл бұрын
If none of them enjoy it, why are they doing it?
@OnlyMichaelJackson
@OnlyMichaelJackson Жыл бұрын
Exactly wtf
@denisenoe3702
@denisenoe3702 Жыл бұрын
The wife feels she needs someone to lead her. She may have trouble doing her housework and meeting other domestic duties without punishment to motivate her.
@user-ef2cd6lw3e
@user-ef2cd6lw3e 7 ай бұрын
They crazy as hell
@sigmasiren777
@sigmasiren777 6 ай бұрын
​@denisenoe3702, I think you hit it right on the nose.
@James84800
@James84800 Жыл бұрын
This would be fine if it was some kinda secret kink, it just get really weird when they let kids/ friends see it.
@lathafalls7675
@lathafalls7675 Жыл бұрын
I fell so bad for your kids
@SkyfromLa
@SkyfromLa 5 ай бұрын
When that kid gets older, he’s never gonna talk to that dad again
@princessa6284
@princessa6284 4 ай бұрын
Girl thinks shes Anastasia steel from fifty shades of grey😭💀
@thebohomom
@thebohomom 7 ай бұрын
Im more curious about her extreme couponing habbits
@MeeblesSporella
@MeeblesSporella Жыл бұрын
1:04 now thats why we don't have any toilet paper #RIP2020
@PrayWitRenee
@PrayWitRenee Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@teest.v3054
@teest.v3054 23 күн бұрын
I'm reading between the lines.. the wife is a freak 😂😂😂😂 And imma mind my business about they kidssssss🫣
@CarolinaKon
@CarolinaKon Жыл бұрын
Daddy issues?
@shawnjackson6242
@shawnjackson6242 Жыл бұрын
Poster child for daddy issues! The daughter got more sense than her why the lil boy cussing in front of mom she cool with that? I’m grown I don’t curse in front of my parents or elders!
@Rookt00r
@Rookt00r 7 ай бұрын
Lol we found the couple that took all the toilet paper during the pandemic !
@annamutumbulwa7426
@annamutumbulwa7426 Жыл бұрын
We're happier than we've ever been -THAT'S WHAT THEY ALL SAY
@Leahw.thedimples
@Leahw.thedimples Жыл бұрын
Honestly they should have kept the kids out of grown folks business , they shouldn’t know what’s going on in the bedroom … but overall, I fw the “domestic discipline” , me and my boyfriend do it often 😂🫶🏽
@VashtiPerry
@VashtiPerry Жыл бұрын
Right
@antinatalistwitch111
@antinatalistwitch111 Жыл бұрын
Just made this comment
@sharanya181
@sharanya181 6 ай бұрын
This is literally not even abusive imo this is like just a kink they both are into the idea of being dom n sub
@despairedsoul
@despairedsoul Жыл бұрын
I married a rooster and we both live in a penthouse Love don't judge 😂😂😂😂
@PrayWitRenee
@PrayWitRenee Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@jessicamessica2271
@jessicamessica2271 Жыл бұрын
OMG LMAO so accurate
@palesasefurutshe6832
@palesasefurutshe6832 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@bernadettedevereux4489
@bernadettedevereux4489 Жыл бұрын
What is WRONG with women like this?
@ROD_MON
@ROD_MON Жыл бұрын
You need domestic discipline for your ignorance.😐
@narcissus1111
@narcissus1111 Жыл бұрын
childhood trauma
@evryday_lyfe8418
@evryday_lyfe8418 8 ай бұрын
Makes me wonder if all of this may stem from her mom being abused or something? And her thinking it is OK
@nicholeknight1893
@nicholeknight1893 Жыл бұрын
I don't think they have enough laundry soap or toilet paper 😂
@markbryant8048
@markbryant8048 2 ай бұрын
Why are so many women displeased with this woman’s decision. She seems happy,maybe more women should learn by her example. I think she’s wonderful!!! ❤❤❤
@beataslupecka1177
@beataslupecka1177 Ай бұрын
Agree with you 😍
@Lylah_Jane
@Lylah_Jane 7 ай бұрын
This is giving fucking roll play vibes this is crazy shit fr
@treespeakerintermediaartis9715
@treespeakerintermediaartis9715 5 ай бұрын
Honestly I feel like she is forcing him to do this he doesn’t seem 100 % comfortable about this from what I see, he is being abused too!
@ninjapirate123
@ninjapirate123 Жыл бұрын
This is a red flag here
@voiceofreason1829
@voiceofreason1829 9 ай бұрын
Who? You?
@ninjapirate123
@ninjapirate123 9 ай бұрын
@@voiceofreason1829 because when the wife breaks rules his husband punishes her, and she doesn't tend to like it
@yesitssarahbby17
@yesitssarahbby17 Жыл бұрын
This is really no different from a BDSM relationship. She craves to be controlled. Nothing wrong with it as long as both parties consent.
@sydneyellis2141
@sydneyellis2141 Жыл бұрын
It’s wrong bc their bringing their kink into the whole house. Your kinks need to stay in the room.
@Mampleasewhat
@Mampleasewhat Жыл бұрын
​@@sydneyellis2141 says who.
@Mampleasewhat
@Mampleasewhat Жыл бұрын
​@@sydneyellis2141 its lifestyle not just sex thing
@jessicamessica2271
@jessicamessica2271 Жыл бұрын
yes and no. I feel like this is different than BDSM. The point of BDSM is that its fun and fufilling for both parties. If neither of them likes it, what is the point. Also hell yes to the people who said your children should never be exposed to your kinks, or any of whatever this is.
@jessicamessica2271
@jessicamessica2271 Жыл бұрын
@@Mampleasewhat some bdsm relationships are also a lifestyle. The world of Kink is a very vast place these days, and theres a lot to know about it.
@TM-wx7rw
@TM-wx7rw Жыл бұрын
Love don’t judge…but I certainly do.
@_LaToya_
@_LaToya_ 6 ай бұрын
Beyond the obvious, does he not allow her to leave the house because they are stocked up like we’re headed into Y2K
@SabeeraHausa
@SabeeraHausa Жыл бұрын
Is this another version of “FIFTY SHADES OF GREY”
@mendelmurphy5016
@mendelmurphy5016 11 күн бұрын
This behavior has a name : masochism
@dwlbrx3256
@dwlbrx3256 7 ай бұрын
I think she just has a fear of divorce and used this as a way to cope of the chances that they could divorce
@nikkismith2481
@nikkismith2481 Жыл бұрын
You cant scream abuse, she wanted this lifestyle. Its really a fetish/preference. You cant judge someone for something they like. Lots of people enjoy being spanked as an adult. Hell I like it yet I dont spank my children. Yall be taking things too seriously! Let them live their happy life, they made this video to share it with people because they thought maybe somebody out there might would like this lifestyle too and they could connect with them.
@jessicamessica2271
@jessicamessica2271 Жыл бұрын
the main problem is neither of them seem to like it or get off on it. I guess thats the main thing that separates this from a sort of ddlg dom/sub dynamic. and thats why its so weird.
@hoodooladiiiii9625
@hoodooladiiiii9625 6 ай бұрын
First of all why do their kids need to know about this BS that’s the real issue obviously she wants to sit in her trauma that’s OK if you make that decision as an adult but don’t bring innocent children into it that’s weird
@mercurry718
@mercurry718 6 ай бұрын
Misery loves company... they're happy and a lot of other people are not. So they in turn try to push their insecurities on to other people..
@lovergworl_
@lovergworl_ 6 ай бұрын
Abuse is abuse
@creativesparks2164
@creativesparks2164 Ай бұрын
Yes you definitely can… I definitely will judge. It’s definitely not abuse, they’re just both disgusting.
@808sandcupcakes9
@808sandcupcakes9 Ай бұрын
SHE IS THE DOM YALL. He is the sub. She speaks for them 95% of the time. 😂🤣🤣
@Freverprincess
@Freverprincess 9 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂 right on the money I think everybody in the comments is missing that part lol she's running the show he don't run nothing she runs him
@Faith-D.
@Faith-D. 7 ай бұрын
This is psychological
@Creeknative
@Creeknative 6 ай бұрын
He better be paying all them bills too smh
@TheInfamousLegend27
@TheInfamousLegend27 7 ай бұрын
see my only questions are; where are these "benefits" to the relationship they mention, and why would you even involve your kids? Lazarus admitted he was hesitant to even try it, and Brandi says she hates the punishments and the tedium of some of them. so where are these ends that "justify the means"? neither of them get anything positive out of this, so how does it contribute to the relationship in any positive sense? it just seems to be a miserable aspect of the relationship that neither of them like to be part of. and the kids being taught about it, like why involve them in any way?
@phenomenalwife5380
@phenomenalwife5380 8 ай бұрын
Punish me in the bedroom only .. put your hands on me use any object I swear God I'm going be on the FIRST 48
@Sam-lq6bd
@Sam-lq6bd 7 ай бұрын
Pray for these children 🙏🏾
@billsloan
@billsloan 11 күн бұрын
I'm not going to Pray for them because of this. I'm going to Pray for them because everyone needs Prayer's.
@janilleism
@janilleism Жыл бұрын
You see all that toilet paper!
@shiningdiva_2
@shiningdiva_2 Жыл бұрын
I tought just me i noticed 😂😂 Must left from lockdown when was the crieses of toilet papers 😂
@pineapple7874
@pineapple7874 Жыл бұрын
Did anyone not see how much toilet paper they have in the beginning 💀👀
@t.w.8174
@t.w.8174 2 күн бұрын
Black women have got to get out of this RKelly mindset
@eve9287
@eve9287 16 сағат бұрын
The mom is such a fool idc and dad just gets a thrill outta this she's a kid in his eyes and he doesn't respect her
@herrmannlewis9376
@herrmannlewis9376 16 күн бұрын
If it works for them I'm all for it, they are happy and no one is getting hurt 🤕🤕❤🎉!
@olexia07
@olexia07 Жыл бұрын
Corner time… I am too grown for someone to put me in a corner for a time out
@tianna3562
@tianna3562 Жыл бұрын
forget the corner, lost me at the lines cause what 😂😂
@IANA2030
@IANA2030 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂this is just super crazy I can’t handle such nonsense
@VashtiPerry
@VashtiPerry Жыл бұрын
She said they don’t enjoy it. So…
@user-xk5ng4fd6y
@user-xk5ng4fd6y 9 ай бұрын
And she has nice TihTz!
@Jeweled_Mycha
@Jeweled_Mycha 15 күн бұрын
She stands in the corner for her children to see?? ABSOLUTELY NOT!! 🚫
@IamSnowRed
@IamSnowRed 7 ай бұрын
She's lying.... she enjoys it otherwise she wouldnt do it. It was her idea💯
@MsEdithMB
@MsEdithMB Жыл бұрын
I just want the spankings 😜
@denisenoe3702
@denisenoe3702 Жыл бұрын
Writing lines is unlikely to be a turn-on.
@Snekysnitch
@Snekysnitch 7 ай бұрын
​@@denisenoe3702 MMMM, LINES
@stushk9
@stushk9 18 күн бұрын
She definitely heard from the women in her family that "If he dont hit you he dont love you baby girl."
@jerryjones9166
@jerryjones9166 21 күн бұрын
His forcing her to not divorce him and I know it its smells.. TOXIC ENERGY ✨✨✨👏🏽👏🏽
@nickmit2562
@nickmit2562 Жыл бұрын
Man hell nah 🤣🤣 at 1:38 he was finna spazz out if she ain’t remember those 4 D’s. his face says it all
@VashtiPerry
@VashtiPerry Жыл бұрын
She forget on purpose. How you been doing this for 2 years and can’t remember 4 words 😂😂😂. She probably does thing on purpose to get discipline
@richardherron1939
@richardherron1939 Жыл бұрын
An actual wall of toilet paper???
@starkiller56381
@starkiller56381 Жыл бұрын
Since she brought it into their relationship she must know herself well and what she needs to thrive in it. And she probably wants her marriage to last and not end due to out of control anger issues and volatility. Many do well when they know where the boundaries are and respect them. If it works for them, and is consensual, it's far better than seeing a broken home, with children struggling to live.
@el7jake
@el7jake Жыл бұрын
Many do well...Many..what? Couples? Wives? Husbands? And why shouldn't husbands have boundaries as well. Why does it work for her to have rules when their roles are completely different but not for him? That makes no sense at all.
@LaFlor718
@LaFlor718 7 ай бұрын
I’m actually worried about the husband. He doesn’t seem all that comfortable with it. More like he is just accustomed to it at this point. But while it’s not for me, the fact that the daughter speaks so eloquently and clearly states her thoughts makes me think they aren’t forcing it on their children and I really really hope my opinion is correct.
@olivelanre9149
@olivelanre9149 Жыл бұрын
The man simply control this woman,a responsible man will never treat his woman like this ...This is simply domestic violence..
@Chris-dv5sc
@Chris-dv5sc 5 ай бұрын
This is a responsible man. A real Husband at that. And She is a real Wife. This is a Traditional Marriage. This is not Domestic Violence. This is called Domestic Chastisement. A Duty granted by God for a Husband to Rule and Train his wife whom he love. You have Pagan/Feminist Ideological beliefs regarding marriage, that Religious people do NOT adhere to
@sigmasiren777
@sigmasiren777 6 ай бұрын
To each their own, but I just feel like this could escalate into a danger zone. I don't think anyone should ever let another person get comfortable with hitting them.
@Rose-jh6qx
@Rose-jh6qx Жыл бұрын
What I am seeing here is , mental, emotional, and physical abuse. On the top of that very bad parenting I feel for the kids.
@Chris-dv5sc
@Chris-dv5sc 5 ай бұрын
Everything you said was a LIE. This is a Traditional Marriage and the practice is called " Domestic Descipline" and she clearly was the who had the idea to offer him to practice it and "Consented" to it.
@jonny2trill
@jonny2trill 6 күн бұрын
Once they said his name Lazarus that’s all I needed to hear 😂😂😂 both some weirdos
@sirena11
@sirena11 9 ай бұрын
This is my relationship except my family doesn't have a clue about it because they don't need to know DUH 😅 my desire to be controlled is between me and my consenting partner. WTF ma'am you fucked up there.
@accidentsafe
@accidentsafe 5 ай бұрын
Why do their kids know about this?
@billsloan
@billsloan 11 күн бұрын
Because they are their Kids....
@geometrical_alphabetical
@geometrical_alphabetical 6 күн бұрын
He watched 50 shades of grey for the first time and went crazy🤣
@beingblack5149
@beingblack5149 2 ай бұрын
The couple is happy and that's all that matters. Si many divorces where nobody is "abuse" these guys have found something that works for them
@daffke1185
@daffke1185 Жыл бұрын
I had a relationship but he forced me to it and wouldn´t unlock the doors so in my eyes this is crazy
@spidercherry108
@spidercherry108 5 ай бұрын
This is evil. It does not belong here on this show. If people want to spank fetish privately that is their business but to actually be "punishing" one's wife or husband in regular routine in view of children. That is criminal. Not just domestic abuse, emotional and physical but this is an emotional abuse to the children. End of story. Anyone who thinks this is normal is uncivilized. Women must stand up for themselves and reject this type of evil behavior.
@rickeybowers7602
@rickeybowers7602 Ай бұрын
When I seen he had a southpole shirt on I knew it was over.
@CAdams93
@CAdams93 Ай бұрын
I haven't seen that shit since like 2006-07 lol 😆
@VIVABELLAVIVAHERMANO
@VIVABELLAVIVAHERMANO 11 күн бұрын
I just broke up with a woman yesterday. This is exactly what women need.
@chausette44
@chausette44 10 күн бұрын
No not every woman is the same as your ex
@Crissycat79
@Crissycat79 2 ай бұрын
This is dangerous 😳 she looks like the type that will quietly snap one day and when she calls the cops to tell them she has killed her husband, she will then fix her a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and wait for the cops to see his severed head on the table 😂 he better be careful with his dominant self 💀
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