The way Jared is so beautiful and the way he spoke about lack of sex being a season which means it will pass!

Omg Jared is a gem. I wish my husband could remove his ego and hear me when I say I’m not interested and actually listen to what I need.

This was an incredibly enlightening convo. As always, I appreciate the candidness. I’m not yet married or with kids but I’m grateful to know the honest realities that exist for pregnant couples. I feel more informed and better able to navigate the conversation with pregnant friends. Thanks for sharing & congratulations on baby #2!

I have tears in my eyes. This is an exemplary couple. Not perfect, but always willing to have tough and honest conversations and always respectful of each other's needs. We can all learn so much from them!

I’m glad Shans ok with that. I can’t imagine the vulnerability of being pregnant with all the potential insecurities and hormones compounded by my partner confirming those insecurities and openly not being attracted to me it would have broken me. You’re so much stronger than I am.

So in love with Shan’s honesty.. So happy she can share this gift with her hubby.. I totally appreciate her divine essence in being secure and self aware.. I totally get feeling sexier by sending a racy picture to get an esteem booster I guess it’s different for guys because they don’t usually find pleasure in the (tease transaction)their whole purpose in initiative racy photos etc is the follow through , but I also felt like he was holding back to not hurt her feelings cause his was slightly offended with her sending the picture.. I feel though it’s the gender perspective of women love with their ears and men with their eyes.

Shan you’re always a doll but you look so adorable in this video. Glowing, natural, simple. Congrats on baby #2!

You guys are so brave for having these honest, tough convos on camera! I know it's super vulnerable but it's so beautiful to see. Thank you Shan as always for your content!

You two are so great together. There are no words for how uplifting and helpful your honest conversations are for others. And of course, congratulations on your second baby. 💗

I swear y’all have such important conversations that so many are too afraid to discuss. I’m so happy for your growing family💚congratulations to Shan and Jared❤️

i’ve been having a hard time dealing with a break up that was my own decision, feeling regretful at times and second-guessing myself.. but your relationship makes me feel relieved and happy that i put myself first and didn’t settle. thank u

You two make me smile so much! The way you've navigated your relationship and grown through healthy and effective communication over the years is so admirable. The conversations, the podcasts, & everything else is so honest and always learning experience! ❤️

Congratulations! I love how everything is handled with such delicacy, but also not sugarcoated. The empathy, the transparency, the vulnerability, it’s top tier. 👏🏾

I always love watching Jared's growth from his early days on the channel. Congratulations to your family on the new addition. Sending Shan all the hugs during this trimester.

Currently going through this. Just a reminder that yours and Jared’s honesty is such a breath of fresh air. Your channel is truly a safe place for people! Thanks for sharing with us ❤️

This episode was SO needed. What yall are doin in the world is much appreciated. speaking with truth and vulnerability isnt always easy so i give yall alot of credit for having these types of convos for thousands to see! Much love to you both

I haven't watched this video yet but I listened to the podcast earlier and I just wanna say Jared is lovely, more husbands need to be caring, understanding, supportive and patient with their wives during pregnancy.

Yall are the REALIST!! I appreciate the honesty as always. This is a true inside look of a healthy relationship. It's like a dream.

I love seeing the dynamic you all have with each other and with your families. The transparency is beautifullll

I remember she announced the pregnancy in January I believe on the podcast. I’ve been really appreciative of the insight that Shan has been curating through her content. Great video!

These two are truly a match-made intellectually. Wow. They challenge each other but also accept and understand each other. I love it. And, congratulations!!!!! So happy for you both!!

Love when you guys have a conversation as a video 💕

Jared communicates and expresses himself so well! His confidence has grown so much throughout his time on KZfaq and Shannon just stays being beautiful 😍

It's beautiful how open you guys are with each other. Let's be real alot of relationships are not this honest and don't last because of it. Thank u for these conversations...

We need more men like Jared. Love the way she keeps feeding his ego and how vulnerable both of you are. Sending lots of love. I needed this convo so badly ❤️❤️❤️

New sub and I have been watching you guys. ( and trying to catch up 😬) Love y’all’s vibe, connection, playfulness, the way you both compliment one another and your frank, brutal honesty! Unapologetic and comfortable with any topic you discuss. You both are genuine and I enjoy your collabs.. I have learned ( and still continue) so much! Congratulations and blessings to your family!👼🏼🍼

I think its in really poor taste even if Shan says its ok to sleep with someone else while your wife is growing your baby. It shows no solidarity whatsoever.

Can’t help but to love and admire the honesty and vulnerability on both part. Thank you both for sharing this with us and continuing on to do so with your podcast etc. ❤️✨

I loved this convo. I finally understand what you guys are talking about and have experienced it myself.

I truly appreciate your conversations together. I love your connection and the level of compassion and understanding you have for one another. It's refreshing and enlightening. Side note, peppermint tea can also help settle your stomach if you're not liking the taste of ginger. Thank you both for being open and sharing your lives with all of us. ❤️

I was low libido with baby #1 (during pregnancy and after; she’s 19 months) and was low libido during pregnancy of baby #2 (1 month). However, right after delivery, my libido SHOT UP. I am only 5 weeks post and BAYBEEE let me tell you that we couldn’t wait the 6 weeks. I made it to 3 weeks and that was it. So those experiencing low libido hormonally, there’s hope!

I love how strong your communication is within your relationship is so beautiful and inspiring to listen to raw and genuine dialogue❤️

I love the communication you guys have with each other. You can tell you guys truly want what’s best for each other. I want this relationship 🙌🏾❤️

My goodness I hope I find a relationship as honest and amazing as this! You two are inspiring.

Shan, I loved the conversation that you and Jared had! It was very fresh, honest and raw. As a society, we need to have these kind of conversations. Pray for me!🙏🏾 I'm going to start having conversations like this with my fiance!

Yessss, love the genuine transparency with you two always bring!! Congrats again on your 2nd beautiful bundle of joy....

I wish more couples were this open and honest with each other. I think a lot more relationships could be saved. Congrats on baby #2!

I love y’all.. this conversation was really interesting and I loved all the honesty

I absolutely love you guys! I learned and Laughed through the entire video. Once more congratulations and May you have a healthy and lavished pregnancy and birth. Much love you, two are for sure are inspirational

Omg. You guys are so healing!!! Thank you for your honesty and transparency. 🤩💖

You guys are my favorite couple! I'm so glad you guys share these intimate conversations so that we may learn from you guys :)

Congratulations Jared and Shan!!! I'm Not on the Gram, but I wanted this for y'all and Ryu❣ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 It's late, can't wait to watch this tomorrow 💕✌🏾 Finally Watched thia today, 3/17/22 loved y'all transparency with and LOVE for each other! I did hear JD mention baby #2 on the Enjoy podcast before this one.🙄 Sooo Excited for the Brady Family ❤❤💕

Great video guys! Inspiring to see this level of open and honest communication about what can be a touchy topic.

These guys are so awesome man, I really wish I had a partner that was this transparent. It seems so healthy & real. They speak on the ugly truths of relationships & it just helps other so much!

Jared is so well spoken, he expresses every thought so well. Same with you shane, you are also really good at understanding him. Such mature, real and hard convos really make us grow our perspective on things. Surely i'm not comfortable with polygamy or f.w.b but for your relationship to have such transparency is truly amazing. Congrats for the 2nd baby!!!

This was a great conversation. There are fluctuations in a relationship and life where two people aren’t always going to be hot and heavy. In fact , it’s challenging to sustain that expectation. I know for me my libido goes through ups, downs and disappears. In many of my past experiences guys become upset, take to ego, don’t have the capacity to understand. Next, as a person with disabilities and hormonal issues I experience a lot of what Shan goes through.

I forgot to say Congrats on baby #2! I hope Shan enjoys this pregnancy more than the last. Jared you’re emotionally intelligent, go with (what appears to be natural) your instinct to nurture. Pregnancy/toddlerhood is a season and a marriage is a partnership worth much much more than sex. This season won’t last forever. It’s great that you’re communicating through it all!

You guys are so cool. Thanks for your candor and the templates you set for all of us ❤

Great how genuinely you share all this guys in the conversation, and with a sense of maturity and humor ❤.

When I say this is the realest, truest convo in a long term relationship I have ever heard of. I so appreciate you all even opening up your life like this. I respect it so much. As a woman who has had all these thoughts around pregnancy to hear a man be honest about how it affects him is so sobering. Vulnerability and transparency can heal the deepest wounds and also allow so much growth. Thank you so much.

That was fun …y’all are beautiful! ❤️ so happy for you both and your family, future, and the new bundle of joy!

I came here because of your interview with Rachel and I'm so glad I did. I love how raw and honest you are with each other. Not a lot of men (and women) can do that with their partners and I think it's great that you both can. Subscribed!

I’ve become an avid listener for the last couple of months and let me just say, I cannot get enough of your podcast. I admire your relationship and I appreciate how honest you both are with yourselves and others. Thank you for sharing and educating your viewers on topics that many find taboo and prefer to not acknowledge and/or talk about. Please keep them coming!

Thank you for being so raw and honest and openly speaking about this topic

You all have a BEAUTIFUL family. Such a great thing for me personally to see that a connection like this is possible. Thank you Shan and Jared.

I love this eposide and the communication you guys have within your relationship is definitely goals!

Congratulations on baby number two

You guys are truly an inspiration. Thank you for showing us these wonderfully difficult conversation examples. It means a lot to me.

You TWO are DEFINITELY IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER. YOU BOTH STRIVE TO MAKE LIFES JOURNEY BEST FOR YOUR PARTNERSHIP❤️

Great conversation‼️ I’m not a mother, but love the insight to what can happen and just exploring intimacy & sex in general especially as a “Late Bloomer” …Thanks for sharing & CONGRATULATIONS on expanding your Family with Baby #2❣️🥳🤗🎊👑💞

LOVE, LOVE, LOVED IT! This episode was right on time. I am currently pregnant with our fourth child and found out that my husband has been texting other woman. This has been a continuous issue in our relationship. It is frustrating because when I approached him about this he shouted, "...I'm glad you found them...I wouldn't have to text other women if you were doing your job!" Ouch! I'm still licking that wound because pregnancy is difficult, especially when you already have children, you are still working and going to school. I'm depleted at the end of the day and the last thing I want to do is have sex. When the conversation started between Shan and Jared, I found myself envious of their effective communication and sympathy for one another. I had to remind myself that they have worked diligently to be in that space. This ended up being an hour long podcast for me because I provided myself a mini therapy session. I continuously paused the video to talk through the topics they presented and discussed (with myself) my marriage, personal views, and changes that must be made. Ahhh, I feel good right now...thanks you guys😊

Love the level of communication and dialogue between you guys. ❤️❤️

I will never understand how someone can allow the person they love to have a friend with benefits

Jared I want you to know that I did watch that video then and I completely did not bash you or thought negative things in fact I love hearing your opinion whether it is here or enjoy because it always help me think from a male perspective and different so thank you! BTW i am so happy for you too, keep taking care of each other!!

I’m so happy for you guys. Can’t wait until me and my husband reach that place in our lives ❤️

I'm smiling like an emoji right now! I love Shannon so much. She's so funny dude. Jared is absolutely right about the manipulation part though 🤣

That was one of my favourites, i felt so much happiness from the cuteness at the end

y’all are so cool! thank you for your honesty ¨̮

Love the honesty in your conversations

I love love love how you 2 have deep conversations very honestly. Thanks for sharing this😊

Congratulationssss🥳🥳 I thought I heard the news on the Enjoy podcast yesterday lol 😂

Not gonna lie this was a very informative, honest, and delightful conversation. The last portion was hilarious.

Love this convo ❤️ 💕. 35, dating and this is enhancing my awareness in my single season. Congrats 🎊 on Baby #2!

Congratulations!!! Have a happy, safe, and healthy pregnancy!!! 🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️

It's so beautiful being able to watch such a healthy conversation

Jared I love how honest you are! Don’t change! 💎 Something very aesthetic with the color blocking in this video lol Super satisfying to watch.

You guys are so cute together. Always love the honesty.

Congratulations on the new baby. I'm currently in the same low sex drive boat, first pregnancy, and my husband is not coping at all. We're not open so he doesn't have the option to go to someone else unfortunately (even the thought did cross my mind). We watched this together and knowing that another man is going through this made him feel like he's not alone in a way. We had a very honest conversation after watching this video. I hope things can get better because I really don't like that he's 'suffering'.

I’m so happy for y’all. Congratulations on baby number 2.

shan you are so well spoken. i could listen to you talk for hoursss

This video made me smile so much. Thank you so much for sharing this. Amazing content.

Congratulations y’all 👏🏾👏🏾✨🙏🏾

Y'all are amazing. Thank you for the realness and blessings to you and your growing family 🎆

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 Blessings to your growing family 🥰

Congratulations Family! Love and blessing.

These are conversations that couples need to have. Me and my fiancé are going through a dry spell right now. Neither want anything to do with sex but our intimacy is going strong. We connect with touch and express ourselves honesty. I love these conversations you two have bc it makes me understand what I’m going through and open the door for me to have these open conversations in my relationship. It has allowed us to grow along with your talks. Thanks!

I really enjoy you both with a different perspective with your marriage. Your openness and honesty is appreciated. Congrats on baby #2!

I love Jared he speaks so eloquently and thoughtful I think he does a great job representing the men

Wow this conversation enlightening and informative - so good

This is so healthy for couples to see because what a lot of us portray to the public is that we’re perfect. Instead, many of us go through these seasons of uncertainty surrounding our sex lives & intimacy, & we feel guilty for not being in tune with ourselves/our partners. Thank you both for being a bright light in the world! Loved this!

God bless these people! Life is all about communication and what works for you.

I just love all of your interactions with each other. Such open and honest conversation

Hi Shan and Jared, this is my first time commenting on your video but I’ve always been a fan of you and your videos and podcasts. Your podcasts are literally my therapy and I learn a lot from them so thank you! And Congratulations on your baby two! ❤️ I’m sorry this has nothing to do with this video, but I’m currently going through the same situation you shared on your video where you talked about std and your past toxic relationship. I recently went to the health clinic and got tested positive for chlamydia after finding out my partner was having multiple sexual relationships outside of our relationship (thought we were exclusive this whole time) and since he doesn’t want to be clear about how long he was being unfaithful for I have no idea how long I had this sti. (He’s the only person I’ve ever had unprotected sex with.) I’m scared that it has already affected my fertility completely to where I can’t get pregnant in the future. I’ve been crying everyday thinking about it. But seeing you have babies give me hope. If it’s not too personal, did it affect your chance of getting pregnant in any way? Shan, if you see this, or if anyone knows, how long is too long to have chlamydia untreated? I’m guessing I’ve had it for more than 3 months. If anyone had this before, does having it untreated for 3 months affect fertility? I have no one or anywhere else to tell this to and I’m very scared. I’d appreciate it if anyone knows.

Great conversation! As much as I appreciate the maturity to speak openly, there’s a part of me that finds this convo a bit triggering. The woman gives up her body for a few months (a pregnancy she didn’t create on her own), yet the man can’t adjust for a few months, so the woman has to carry that guilt too? I get that it’s hard (not saying it’s easy), but I would not have appreciated my husband while I am over here pregnant and scared also adding to my anxiety in this way. I think partners need to give eachother forgiveness and some grace during this period. It’s a season that will pass.

That was amazing! Congratulations and thank you for sharing!!

Expreriencing the samething after having our second child. Glad my husband and I are able to talk about it and doing EVERYTHING to keep that spark

Jared is 1000% correct I gave birth in Nov 2020, my husband was the same way . More of the idea of not wanting to violate, disrespect to their baby. Even though logically and physically they know thats not really possible. It still is a primal instinct for some men. My husband went through a lot coming to terms with becoming a first time dad. But he supported me the best he could , and supporting me through our first pregnancy it did not mean he love or desire me any less.

This. Is. Right. On. Time.!!! I've been experiencing a lower drive, and I've felt so alone. And, what's interesting, you're on of the women - relationships - I looked at and thought, "What's wrong with me?" Then, all the fears that come with the thought of losing the person you love. 😥. I'm so grateful for you and Jared's honesty! I will try to watch this with my man. 🤞🏽🙏🏽

Congratulations on yall number 2 bundle of joy 🤗.......

She's having a baby, just please yourself until the baby is born. That's a small sacrifice. Ain't no FWB in my relationships 🤦🏾‍♀️