On Body Image, Purity Culture & Coming Out (with Maddie Zahm)

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Made It Out Podcast

Made It Out Podcast

6 ай бұрын

If your New Year's resolution is to lose weight - maybe watch this episode first! Mal and singer-songwriter Maddie Zahm discuss a range of topics from purity culture in the church, to body image and weight loss fixation, and how all of these affected Maddie's journey to coming out and dating women. We hope this episode reminds you to be kind to yourself, to embrace your body, and that there will always be another donut.
Follow our guest Maddie at / maddiezahm and check out her tour dates at ⁠maddiezahmmusic.com/home/⁠
Please remember to subscribe, rate, review and share this podcast with your choir director! Follow the show at @madeitoutpodcast and follow Mal at @malglowenke

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@peggynulsen1365
@peggynulsen1365 6 ай бұрын
Switching "addictions" is a very common thing in recovery. Awareness is the best defense against going too far into a new problem. Be kind to yourself. Keep steering your life in a positive direction. You deserve the best life possible.
@aldebear7
@aldebear7 6 ай бұрын
I just want to say that this channel is my favorite wlw podcast. It's deep but lighthearted, sometimes witty, the host and guests have good chemistry, nobody talks over each other, it's educational, and feels more mature than a lot of other wlw podcasts that I watch/listen to (not that they're bad), even the new ones. Thank you so much!
@ChloeBourdos
@ChloeBourdos 6 ай бұрын
I love how she says “ I hear you“ instead of just agreeing!!
@emilyjones1
@emilyjones1 6 ай бұрын
The donut conversation is the first time I’ve ever heard anyone express that exact feeling - EAT THE DONJT THERE WILL BE MORE, Words can’t say how much I love this podcast
@readingsbygenevieve8479
@readingsbygenevieve8479 6 ай бұрын
I think that Maddie is absolutely amazing.
@Sclafani_art_studio
@Sclafani_art_studio 6 ай бұрын
PCOS discussion in lgbt community and representation is very important, thank you for sharing
@LamAnopro_
@LamAnopro_ 6 ай бұрын
Whats pcos
@meganmainguy783
@meganmainguy783 6 ай бұрын
I relate SO hard about being grateful that men weren’t into you when you were young. I never got attention or asked out growing up and it hurt for a long time but now I’m happy I focused on myself and my friends and didn’t have some teenage boy use me
@nrsyzygy
@nrsyzygy 6 ай бұрын
I have never considered myself to have eating issues, but this podcast put me on b l a s t. Disordered relationships with food have become almost a bonding topic between so many women, I’m sad so many of us have been through it
@JennSarracenia
@JennSarracenia 6 ай бұрын
Never heard of Maddie before and now I have a crush 😅
@JennSarracenia
@JennSarracenia 6 ай бұрын
Oh AND she’s an amazing artist? Damn girl I live in San Diego if you need another first date 😂
@itsmedarienn93
@itsmedarienn93 3 ай бұрын
Welcome to the club ladies! 😎💖👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏽👩🏼‍🤝‍👩🏽
@angiehelton7758
@angiehelton7758 6 ай бұрын
I came out to my parents that I was queer/bisexual/definitely not straight right after New Years... and its been very rough to say the least. My dad is full blown not speaking to me and my mom is trying to understand but very lost on the situation. This podcast has been helping immensely though. With listening to other experiences, and feeling safe and hopeful. Thank you Mal.
@MadeItOutPodcast
@MadeItOutPodcast 6 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear this- but good for you for following your truth. I’m glad we can be even a small source of comfort. We see you and ❤️ you.
@Raddiebaddie
@Raddiebaddie 4 ай бұрын
Sending big hugs ~ do you have other people in your life who can support you in the meantime? 🫶
@nikolettachaimeli3293
@nikolettachaimeli3293 6 ай бұрын
Maddie you speak to every woman's soul, not just gay women, such a great ep guys! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
@chack4845
@chack4845 6 ай бұрын
Finally. I was waiting for a new videos like a hungry child.
@textreme6
@textreme6 6 ай бұрын
What Maddie says, with such beauty and vulnerability, at the end ~minute 45/46 hit so hard - so true.
@sydneykelly1635
@sydneykelly1635 4 ай бұрын
Bring her back in like a year pleaseeeee this was so good
@Duygu-we3of
@Duygu-we3of 6 ай бұрын
I've been dealing with PCOS for 15 years now and I can understand and feel everything she says. It's almost like me sitting there and talking... feel hugged Maddie, we got this
@stellafrazier73
@stellafrazier73 6 ай бұрын
My girlfriend broke up with me on New Year’s Eve and this podcast is helping to take my mind off her and the situation. Thank you Made It Out! Keep it up! I LOVE your podcast
@oliviailsamade
@oliviailsamade 5 ай бұрын
So in awe of her honesty and vulnerability. I think so many girls are going to feel very seen and less alone by your words. also hilarious! Much love
@GarbageIsland101
@GarbageIsland101 6 ай бұрын
I LOVE Maddie Zahm!! Her music has helped me put words to things I couldn’t before. For anyone who is struggling with food, I would highly recommend the book “Life Without ED”.
@TheEmpressJade
@TheEmpressJade 3 ай бұрын
Discovered Maddie‘s music through this podcast and I am so glad I did. Looked at her tour dates and since I was going to be in LA for a trip I decided I wanted to go to the LA show and I was beyond blown away. Her show is exactly like she described it… It was a healing experience for me. Maddie, if you ever read this thank you for your music and sharing your experiences with the world through your gift of an incredible voice and talent. For everyone else, do yourself a favor and get tickets to one of her shows. She will be about 5 hours away from me in May and I am already thinking about getting tickets to see that show because the experience was amazing. Thank you Mal for creating this podcast and having such amazing guests on this show.
@Saturdaymorningpoems
@Saturdaymorningpoems 6 ай бұрын
Such an authentic, warm, intelligent conversation. Maddie and Mal thank you for being so real 💖 prima
@rNeyshabur
@rNeyshabur 6 ай бұрын
Also, Maddie, your music is so so stunning🤯 and ‘you might not like her’ stabs me in the heart in the best way possible
@silkenaria
@silkenaria 6 ай бұрын
Beautiful and emotional episode. Thank you. ❤
@vanessaj9299
@vanessaj9299 6 ай бұрын
This one was really special. A nice mixture of advice, laughter, truth. Beautiful episode and podcast. Thank you sincerely for working and providing this content for us all ❤
@peterb1861
@peterb1861 6 ай бұрын
I was married to family of social workers and psychiatrists, and they were just as twisted as the rest of us!
@DebbyFlandes
@DebbyFlandes 6 ай бұрын
THANK YOU FOR MAKING IT LONGGGG VIDEOSSS 💞😭😭😭
@ploy0708
@ploy0708 6 ай бұрын
A fan from Thailand.. i love your laugh! :)
@angelamantagas9315
@angelamantagas9315 6 ай бұрын
This is my favorite episode thus far. To the interviewee, thank you for your raw honesty and to the interviewer, thank you for this content. To you both, may God bless you with good mental and physical health and may he help you get stronger everyday during your journeys.
@loroandnikki9353
@loroandnikki9353 6 күн бұрын
Yes my father had a thing called weight Wednesday. He would weigh me before school and I would be food punished if I gained weight. He said it was to prevent me from being made fun of. He didn't understand I was being picked on at school and I felt I was being picked on at home. When Maddie said loosing weight is her northern star 🌟 my heart dropped. I needed up using drugs and lost so much weight. I'm 3 yrs clean after a 10yr run and I gained it all back and more. I'm currently now more depressed now than I was the last 10yrs while using. I need to find my happiness again! Ugh
@caitlinomartin
@caitlinomartin 6 ай бұрын
as someone who moved from safe haven oregon, it’s been a strange time moving here to boise idaho. thank you for telling your experience about growing up here!
@yeracontra
@yeracontra 6 ай бұрын
What Mal said about her binge eating being a gauge for something being off is so relatable. I struggled with undiagnosed anxiety and OCD as a child which was diagnosed and somewhat treated in my early 20s. Now I'm nearly 30 and when my anixety is up or something is wrong, I can spot it quite quickly because I'm self aware enough to realise that my compulsions (checking) start popping up. Hard to shake off when I've grown up living like this.
@AnnaKS78
@AnnaKS78 6 ай бұрын
I've watched every episode and i want to say I love so much the sunlight of your room. The perfect place and the perfect time to shoot. One of the reasons why all the episodes and conversations so soulful.
@corskap
@corskap 5 ай бұрын
Discovered Maddie's music after this episode and I absolutely love it, 'You might not like her', 'Fat funny friend.' and 'Pocket Bible' are my personal favourites!
@savingJobutupaki
@savingJobutupaki 3 ай бұрын
I am soooo glad you invited Maddie on the show. She is now my favorite artist. I feel everything she says. I'm that church girl who's coming out of her shell. Liberation is here and all I want to do is cry.
@kencoleman5007
@kencoleman5007 6 ай бұрын
When I was growing up, repressive parenting deeply effected my social growth and realizing that I was trans. Similar to many stories on this channel, my church became most of my social life (at an all boys high school, there were few people that I could relate to). I did so well on my catechism test (growing up Catholic), that my teacher paused while grading the tests snd asked me to be a peer minister for middle school students. 20 years later, I'm transitioning, and practicing a variety of occult, new age, ancient mystical practices outside the Abrahamic sphere.
@kaeleee
@kaeleee 5 ай бұрын
My favorite episode so far Maddie is the most relatable queen ever 😂
@mintchocolate8198
@mintchocolate8198 6 ай бұрын
I think the donut conversation just opened my eyes in a way never before. thank you for talking about it!
@ChanicePoetry
@ChanicePoetry 6 ай бұрын
You guys mentioned switching addictions. You should listen to We Can Do Hard Things Glennon episode on one year in recovery. It’s good maybe helpful!!! 💕
@TheresaGelso
@TheresaGelso 6 ай бұрын
The struggle is so real! It hit home for me Maddie when you said your weight kept men at bay. I still use weight as a tool so relationship prospects stay at bay ❤
@emilykissell4015
@emilykissell4015 6 ай бұрын
I just binge watched all of these and was so excited to watch this one last! All of them were so good, but being another ex church/trauma girlie, and relating so much to all her songs! So good and so funny. I just wish Mpls show didn't sell out so fricking fast, but i'm so proud it did, because you deserve it Maddie!
@felicitas5091
@felicitas5091 6 ай бұрын
Wow this is intense, thank you so much for your honesty and vulnerability, it shows your immense strength ❤
@ML-uu5ik
@ML-uu5ik 6 ай бұрын
SO FREAKING EXCITED TO SEE MADDIE ON THE POD
@katialysincle
@katialysincle 6 ай бұрын
This episode made me cry, its so beautiful when you can relate to someone and feel it. I love her, she’s amazing!
@trishahlastawa1348
@trishahlastawa1348 6 ай бұрын
This podcast is truly a gift ❤
@Shiningstars1011
@Shiningstars1011 6 ай бұрын
Loved this episode. Thank you for these important conversations!
@wedobegabbin
@wedobegabbin 6 ай бұрын
"i had chacos" LOL
@CandiceLikes
@CandiceLikes 6 ай бұрын
Maddie needs to read the book, Fast Like a Girl. Talks about PCOS
@PeachNEPTR
@PeachNEPTR 6 ай бұрын
This might be the most relatable conversation on binge eating I’ve ever heard. Thank you so much. Meanwhile a fun quote from the band Idles and their song “Television,” “If someone talked to you, the way you do to you, I’d put their teeth through, love yourself.”
@dewleneafrica5779
@dewleneafrica5779 5 ай бұрын
Such a great convo. Thank you for the vulnerability! 🙌🏾
@junevertucci3420
@junevertucci3420 6 ай бұрын
Another awesome episode. Some of the best and most important conversations online are coming out of this podcast.
@indegrrees
@indegrrees 6 ай бұрын
Great conversation
@savingJobutupaki
@savingJobutupaki 3 ай бұрын
OMG! I use to sing at church too. I led worship and was in choir.
@sweetheartxox10
@sweetheartxox10 6 ай бұрын
Did the app forget to update ?? Lmaooo this was so good
@kristiemars7747
@kristiemars7747 6 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@lesliepless2939
@lesliepless2939 6 ай бұрын
Simply irrepressible. Ty!
@JulesLern
@JulesLern 6 ай бұрын
Thank you again for such a great episode!! I felt so seen by my PCOS sister Maddie💗💗
@jessj5907
@jessj5907 5 ай бұрын
This podcast was so fantastic! I appreciate the vulnerability. It’s really brave.
@hiportugal
@hiportugal 5 ай бұрын
thank you so much! (i produce the show hehe) any chance we could ask you to write us a real quick review on Apple Podcasts? Helps us so much so we can keep making episodes!
@rNeyshabur
@rNeyshabur 6 ай бұрын
This episode was fantastic!!!
@mojai11
@mojai11 6 ай бұрын
Food like shelter is SUCH a basic need and the notion of lack/loss of either would be the main causes of psychological sufferings for most people.😂 I have never had weight issues and my relationship with food is not toxic but I know that I am different than others, because eating is just a means to an end. I don’t enjoy food most of the time and so I don’t need to seek that”high” from food.
@elissajo3671
@elissajo3671 6 ай бұрын
Fantastic once again!! So good!!
@TheresaGelso
@TheresaGelso 6 ай бұрын
I LOVE your smile!
@JosieDuncanSong
@JosieDuncanSong 6 ай бұрын
Loving this podcast from Scotland 💙 this was a beautiful episode, very relatable x
@christiearakelian7778
@christiearakelian7778 6 ай бұрын
So glad I found this podcast. I have loved every episode. Having a queer space to talk about all of this is beyond! Thank you!
@denea28
@denea28 6 ай бұрын
This conversation resonates so much! Thank you for this!
@chloes228
@chloes228 Ай бұрын
It’s a different font lmaoooooo that got me I needed this
@saraxadam3659
@saraxadam3659 6 ай бұрын
what a fascinating conversation... and you're such a good host girl
@billyhorr7126
@billyhorr7126 3 ай бұрын
She is 100% vibrant and I promise u..one day u will be a great mom...#MomVibes❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@kimboyd6802
@kimboyd6802 6 ай бұрын
One of my top favorite podcast❤❤❤…..always keeps me entertained and also thought provoking…keep it up Mal!
@juliannekivlin1987
@juliannekivlin1987 3 ай бұрын
This was such a great podcast that was so vulnerable and raw and honest. Thank you both for the transparency and the insight that you both shared with ED and body image ❤️ !
@savingJobutupaki
@savingJobutupaki 3 ай бұрын
I think Mal is so pretty. I can look at her face forever.
@annescholten9313
@annescholten9313 6 ай бұрын
Powerful conversation ❤❤❤
@dawnlowe9524
@dawnlowe9524 6 ай бұрын
Loved this episode so much very relatable and thanks to Maddie for being so open and honest
@wendella6920
@wendella6920 3 ай бұрын
Maddie your music is so relatable. Your beautiful just the way you are. Really enjoy this program.
@marleykotylak1194
@marleykotylak1194 6 ай бұрын
MADDIE MY LOVE
@marisaarmendariz2600
@marisaarmendariz2600 6 ай бұрын
Sooooo goooooood
@donnasheehan3703
@donnasheehan3703 24 күн бұрын
Such an insightful interview.
@paryaseo9036
@paryaseo9036 2 ай бұрын
Wow the talks about obssesed with loosing wieght as a north star, made me a aha moment Thank you so much
@paryaseo9036
@paryaseo9036 2 ай бұрын
23:46 the solution is being awakened to ur true self As Mooji baba says When we forgot that we are observer not the person, we have to obssesed with sth in life, it can be obssesed with having a goal as a healthy one or unhealthy like what u said But after awakening all the obssestions goes away because each moment makes u feel so content that u use and do everything in a balanced way
@TheInvestorsJourney-dz5zf
@TheInvestorsJourney-dz5zf 4 ай бұрын
I love the authenticity that this podcast showcases. I’m GenX and y’all are killing it. I wish I had this content around when I was younger…and I’m straight!! 😂 The stories are about coming out with sexuality but I feel like these lessons can be applied to so many different life experiences. The transparency and vulnerability is awesome. Also love the humor. Rock on 🤘
@luckygardeniasdashboardcon9214
@luckygardeniasdashboardcon9214 4 ай бұрын
Great discussion!
@Seia894
@Seia894 4 ай бұрын
The toxicity in dating is soo relatable.
@deezgrafix
@deezgrafix 6 ай бұрын
I LOVE this podcast. As someone who is older, but only out for a decade or so, this show is really awesome. Keep up the great content, Mal! Also, can’t wait to listen to Maddie’s music ❤
@amandacribb7595
@amandacribb7595 6 ай бұрын
coming from self esteem issues I directed my thoughts from a saying that I came up with which I tell myself "I KNW THAT IM NOT PAGENT MATERIAL BUT IM NOT TRAILER PARK TRASH EITHER SO I HAVE ALL THAT ROOM TO LOVE MYSELF " I knw I would like to have drinks with ya maddie
@helenlawson8426
@helenlawson8426 6 ай бұрын
The line about there being so much rainbow shit on display it was borderline homophobic, had me in much needed hysterics.😂 Such an important discussion on body image and another brilliant episode. x I was 41 when I had my nose straightened out, it was hard to resist everything else that was on offer and this is in the UK. Luckily I was old enough to know I'm not much of a looker and be happy with that. Having said that I'm in my fifties now and there's a temptation to sort the bags under my eyes.
@davesgoldenduck6066
@davesgoldenduck6066 6 ай бұрын
There is some cartoons that are fantastic
@sarahhromin675
@sarahhromin675 Ай бұрын
I’m realizing this channel has no ads … how?!
@savingJobutupaki
@savingJobutupaki 3 ай бұрын
I think I just met my twin flame - Maddie Zahm.
@katherinecolbert4460
@katherinecolbert4460 6 ай бұрын
To the host: please take a bit of a note. When a guest shares something new with them, take a moment to process that answer and give a real follow-up. Listen before you ask. Maddie was so real and honest. She didn't hold back in any way. As a host, you need to fuel her story and respond with compassion instead of your own trauma dump. Your story (which is very important and valid) seemed to invalidate your guests' experience. I want to help not hurt. I hope to not hurt you.
@marthareis5873
@marthareis5873 20 күн бұрын
I didn't get that sense, I thought these two understood each other.
@richpet8165
@richpet8165 3 ай бұрын
Lily Sing on the show please
@maddyyie699
@maddyyie699 6 ай бұрын
the only solution I know of is to be poor! if you don’t have money to fix it it solves the problem! that’s why I haven’t done anything yet LOL
@Blue-pb7kz
@Blue-pb7kz 3 ай бұрын
46:11 Not to be the annoying PC person, but please don't use the word "gypped"! The reason in means being cheated of is that it comes from the word "g*psy", which is an inaccurate and offensive way to talk about Romani people and is based on harmful stereotypes of them. Wasn't expecting to hear it here, but I guess lots of people don't know.
@eyesnme
@eyesnme 3 ай бұрын
Love the podcast not so keen on the use of queer not so cool
@mckenziecurtis3500
@mckenziecurtis3500 Ай бұрын
I don’t think her teeth look bad. Did I miss something ?
@maddiesilina3833
@maddiesilina3833 6 ай бұрын
My favorite episode so far! Beautiful women with beautiful hearts! 😍🥰
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