Making the Hardest Decisions for My Mom

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3 ай бұрын

Hospice - it's a hard decision. It's not one to be made lightly for the person you care so much about. The person who has taken care of you your whole life. I am not in agreeance to this, but I support my families decision and will be with my mom til the end. I just want to make sure that she is ready to go, and I have big doubts about that. We are still waiting for an MRI for miss Abigail because Neurology appointments are backed up for several months. One appointment isnt until September... yeah. We have taken her to the ER but they refuse to use the MRI machine so its 6+ hours of waiting for literally nothing.
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@FoolyLiving 3 ай бұрын

The next several videos are going to be hard to watch for many of you, but I think its important to tell this story and watch it unfold. I dont think a lot of people realize what hospitals are like when you are in critical condition and depend on others for care. There are legit nurses and doctors who actually care - they have cried along with me. They are there for the patient, but they are just a cog in the money making wheel that is the healthcare system in America. Unfortunately, nurses and doctors work long hours and deal with crisis situations daily. I remember living in Israel with bombing going off randomly and at all hours, and it puts a persons nerves on the top of their skin. I would imagine thats what its like to be a nurse or a doctor. That being said, there are some horrible case managers who are all about that almighty dollar and they have blood on their hands. Again, if you dont want to watch the vlogs for a couple weeks, I will understand. I am barely able to edit them, but I want people to know that this is the standard of care in America. You work your entire life and pay for health insurance. You think you're safe because you have it. You're not. Health insurance is worse than no insurance, because the hospital loses money on you with insurance set limits, so they try to get you out of the hospital as soon as possible, even if you're still in need of life-saving treatment and care, such as wound infections etc.... Dont stick your head in the sand on this one, everyone should know and be prepared for this.

@girijakannan5608 3 ай бұрын

Good that u expose the hospital, people have paid for the health insurance and this is what they get.i was completely disturbed see ur mom.though u say she is in come, she is aware of what's going around and can hear ,it was heart rending when she held ur fingers and wld not let it go. Let her live the way she is probably she may come out of it.she is not ready to go, thats what she wanted to tell u when she held ur hands so tight.dont given to what the doctors say, let her live till the lord wishes her to live.

@allergiesrusdb 3 ай бұрын

Yes Andrea, I agree wholeheartedly. I’m the same age as you and have an amazing health insurance policy AND Medicare. The almighty money making ‘medical system’ is absolutely atrocious. And long term care facilities are HORRIFIC! You are stating the truth!! I manage both of my inlaws healthcare and it’s a FIGHT sometimes!! We’ve had to be boots on the ground caring for them INPATIENT to be sure they got the needed care. I could do a whole video on the importance of family advocates. We each need someone to live bedside 24/7 to be sure we get the PROPER & DESERVED CARE!!! It’s awful! Love to you Andrea!

@JodiMack-kd1ct 3 ай бұрын

Amen. You hit the nail on the head. God Bless you!❤❤@@girijakannan5608

@susanasetas 3 ай бұрын

I knew America had a problem with their Healthcare system, but I never thought it could be this bad. The things you've been describing in your videos are just horrendous... That is no way to treat a human being. No hospital is perfect, I live in Portugal (Porto more specifically) and hospitals here are by no means perfect, but people are treated with respect and care, and no one is discharged or left to die while there is hope for recovery.

@davidolarte149 3 ай бұрын

😊😮😊 God Almighty is in total control Andrea ❤ he knows our thoughts 💭 😅

@Chronicles1611 3 ай бұрын

Dear Lord, we ask You heal Esther and her husband. As this family is suffering with a broken heart give them hope in this hard time and bless them with Your peace, the peace that passes understanding. Let them trust in the power of Your grace, so that even when they're afraid, they may put their full trust in You, our Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.

@debraboyea7776 3 ай бұрын

Amen.

@MFF901 3 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@lindacostello1162 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@mynameismarko 3 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏❤

@weightnomore4darla845 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@mariaolker 3 ай бұрын

It's so hard to see Grandma like that. I can't imagine what you guys are going through.

@ohrenata 3 ай бұрын

Right? The image I have of her is of a lively lady, full of energy, going places, doing what she likes. Its hard seeing her like that right now. I dont even know what to coment, I just really only wish her well. I dont know if they allow it but if lived close by I would totally volunteer to read for her or something like that.

@Aunty_JoJo 3 ай бұрын

I had to stop doing my housework. I was listening to you with my airpods on. Andrea I'm a nurse and there is no cause for anyone to speak to you in that manner or use those kind of words around you, your family or for crying out loud your mom! If I were you I would make a phone call and ask for the DON. Speak with the Director of Nursing and if you get nowhere with that person then I would go one step higher and get ahold of the administrator. You're not the only person they're speaking to in that manner. I am so very sorry. Please follow up with upper management if they continue to treat you in that manner. Prayers

@stormynights371 3 ай бұрын

I agree with you! That is unacceptable behavior and extremely unprofessional. It should be reported.

@lindasplace2727 3 ай бұрын

You’re right! She can hear you and is doing her best to respond ❤ Don’t give up ….she’s in there. My gosh I can’t get over how swollen she is 😕

@glindawilson4195 3 ай бұрын

My heart goes out to you,Andrea❤ My mom, dad and husband were on Hospice. It wasn't an easy decision. I was fortunate to have caring and understanding caretakers during that time. I am 🙏 for you to have strength and comfort. I just ask God to give Grandma comfort, peace .❤

@phyllispartonmarks8912 3 ай бұрын

Continued Prayers for your Mom & Dad. Special Prayers for you Andrea to be comforted during this horrible time in your life. Sending love, hugs & Prayers! 🙏❤

@kimberlywatson5283 3 ай бұрын

My heart goes out to you and your family I couldn’t hold back my tears she is so strong and her making sure you see that she is there and she can hear you was so heartwarming (my brother had a AVM rupture and aneurysm at 16yrs old in 2019 and it’s a journey and every progress makes a difference) I hope and pray that your mommy gets the help she needs and may God put good willing people to be around and take care of her/him at hospital while you’re not around 🙏🏽❤️

@shannongallagher2382 3 ай бұрын

I can't stop crying I know what you're feeling right now but just pray in Jesus's name because Jesus is the king of kings and Lord of lords keep your faith in him only JESUS IS GOD. Andrea I love you and I'm sorry I love Mama she looks so much like my mama but we're praying in Jesus's name that she doesn't go nowhere right now because you need her her husband needs her her son needs her grandchildren need her grandchildren need her she's not going anywhere in the mighty name of Jesus I love you Andrea

@susanasetas 3 ай бұрын

I so can relate to what your mom is going through, I saw my grandad go through something similar... seeing her like this is so heartbreaking. She is so swollen, they should be moisturizing her skin constantly, that hospital is a mess. I wish there was something I could do to help. Andrea, If you feel your mom isn't ready to go, and she wants to fight, please don't give up on her. ❤

@Watchlady196 3 ай бұрын

I think mama just needs time to heal and then she’ll pull out of this. Mostly because she can hear you and moved her tongue when you asked her too. I’m glad she’s getting out of that hospital though, who says death wing in front of family?? Evil just evil. I pray this new hospital has an ounce of compassion patience with your mama! You’ve been really strong for your mom Andrea and I keep you and your family in my prayers ❤🙏

@mustlovedogs5569 3 ай бұрын

Unfortunately stroke injuries don’t work like that

@nancyfarkas3592 3 ай бұрын

@@mustlovedogs5569no they don’t. Yes she may be responding but that doesn’t mean she will get better sadly. She might and I hope she does. But sometimes that doesn’t happen

@angelasims572 3 ай бұрын

I never realized how much Abigail looks like you until I saw that picture, she really is your twin. I’m still praying for your mom and your dad. It was nice seeing her follow your commands, she is a strong woman. Please take care of yourself self too, I know it’s hard. 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

@ellie_grace_gymnast7720 3 ай бұрын

Why would the ER refuse an MRI for Abigail if she is having severe headaches and migraines and passing out and her grandma has chiari I would think that would be reason enough to get her in for an MRI would it be sedated for Abigail

@nancyfarkas3592 3 ай бұрын

I’ve heard stories like this before. They don’t want to listen to patients

@e.skhamis6086 3 ай бұрын

Hey Andrea, you are so brave and strong im crying 😢💔 im so glad shes awake hope shes gonna make a good speedy recovery. Prayers 🙏🙏

@teotwawki1144 3 ай бұрын

Oh, this is heart-wrenching, Andrea... I don't even know what to say except that you're all in my heart and in my prayers. She is so clearly following commands and she is fighting to live! The lady you mentioned disgusts me. That's all I'll say. I'm saving my passion for hoping the very best for Esther Grandma and all of you! I hope you know how beautiful you all are. You're a fighter and I have so much respect for you. Blessings and love. xo, Nasnan

@LoriWexler 3 ай бұрын

Andrea is this at the NEW hospital you moved her to or the old one? They should NOT be calling a room “the death room” in front of ANYONE patient OR staff! I’d report that if I were you!!!!

@FoolyLiving 3 ай бұрын

The NEW one, and this is supposed to be a long term hospital that helps get people well, gives them therapy etc. We got none of that, just a bunch of infections, including flesh eating bacteria - so if my mom makes it through this I'm going to try my hardest to get her out of the hospital and bring her home. Ill sign up for classes on nursing if I have to!

@LoriWexler 3 ай бұрын

@@FoolyLiving OMG! I’m so sorry. I thought this one was supposed to be a better place. Are these the only two hospitals in your area? Please keep us posted and I look forward to the video to try to help you with what she’s saying. I think between a bunch of us we will be able to get it figured out.Love you all!!! 💖💖

@Ariesbuddha 3 ай бұрын

@FoolyLiving awwwww sweetheart I know exactly what your going though, I just lost my dad but his was kidney failure and he was 88 years old bless him and they seemed very cold and matter of factly about him dying and the wording used use to break me, but now he's gone, the funeral was yesterday 💔 I've struggled but like you I'd have trained to nurse him, trained in palliative care, I'd have done anything for him, the hospital would only have left him to die here in the UK they have no time for old people sadly. Sending your mum every healing angel I can send and sending you love ❤️ xxxxxxxxxxxxx

@mustlovedogs5569 3 ай бұрын

Is there a health ombudsman to contact in the state

@angelmission 3 ай бұрын

That woman makes me sooo angry! How dare she say that in front of you! You have every right to be upset. That is horrible! Make it known to anyone over her so she doesn't hurt other people with her inhumane words.

@tinydancer7426 3 ай бұрын

The horrible thing about that woman and her comments is that, if comments like that are said in the halls, voices carry and you can count on her voice carrying into patient rooms. I would have been going to the office of the head of nursing staff and filing a complaint. My mother was in a long term care facility, and there were far too many CNA's with horrible attitudes about/to residents and spoke to and about them inappropriately. I can't even remember how many time I insisted on meetings with the nursing director about what I witnessed and what my mother reported to me (both what she would see and hear directed to other residents, not to mention what she was on the receiving end of). There were a few times I had to go to the administrator of the facility to get things to change.

@wendystephan35 3 ай бұрын

Bring a kit with you to the hospital. Lotion, very soft toothbrush, etc. because no one else is doing it. Brush, chap stick etc and bring it home with you or it will be gone in a minute. An aide may borrow it for someone who needs it and then forget and leave it there. But it WILL disappear! They sell these huge q-tip looking things at the pharmacy the size of a big lollipop you can use to clean the inside of her mouth or so she can get the sensation of a drink.

@skyeblue5669 3 ай бұрын

❤ CRAZY how one day your good than the next day you're sick in the hospital.. Everyone needs to say "I LOVE YOU" more often to each other..I tell my grandchildren I love a million times everyday..❤❤

@hyacinth1986 3 ай бұрын

It's heartbreaking to see mum in such condition. Hope she recovers. Prayers for her

@sharonflanagan2404 3 ай бұрын

My heart goes out to your mom 😢 hope she recovers soon 🙏❤️❤️❤️

@annelisteen1861 3 ай бұрын

So sorry for your situation

@rock.paper.scissors 3 ай бұрын

God help grandma ❤ Stay strong Andrea and whole fam. ❤

@mbain9793 3 ай бұрын

🫂 Stay strong Andrea! Praying for healing, comfort and peace for Grandma Esther ✝️🕊💚

@thunstrom62 3 ай бұрын

Your mama is a fighter just like my mom was she's fighting you fight with her. Don't let doctors talk u into anything please. I think ur mom will be okay it's just gonna take time

@LillianVanDerKruk 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for not being silent on this ,Andrea ! Your Mom is hearing and feeling you , i am discussed by how things are going in hospitals ,!! I am sorry your Mother have to go through this all !! But stay strong for her , iam praying for your mother and for you and the fam !! Lot of love from the Netherlands 🇳🇱 🙏♥️ Lillian 🌺🌿

@beckyankrom383 3 ай бұрын

I smiled so big when I saw how strong she was holding your hand!!!!!!!! That is one strong woman!!!! A miracle from God!!!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

@Amandapanda888 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing such an incredibly hard time in your life, I imagine it is extremely vulnerable. I cried with you in the chapel as you and your babies spoke to God. It moved me. Sending you all my well wishes of comfort and health for your mom. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Keep strong & wow Abigale is your twin from what I can see from that picture of you ❤

@lindacostello1162 3 ай бұрын

Hi Andrea, the first part of this vlog made me cry but I will watch every vlog you send. I learned about how bad hospitals can be at an early age because my Mom was in them a couple of times. Once she had pneumonia and the doctor thre up his hands and said "she's just slipping away, we can't do anything". She pulled through but then it was discovered she had Lupus. It was hard to get the doctors to search harder for ways to treat her. She ended up dying when I was 13. This stuff happened even before health insurance was a "thing". I knew that when they made health insurance mandatory that we were screwed. The big three...car, house, and health insurance. To me, insurance is like gambling. You pay all this money into it and don't file any claims for years. Then, something happens and you have to use it. After that they find a reason to prevent you from renewing. Sending prayers for your Mom and Dad. ❤

@janegallagher95 3 ай бұрын

Oh Andrea my heart goes out to all of you . We're keeping you all in our prayers. God bless

@Aunty_JoJo 3 ай бұрын

My heart aches for you and your entire family Andrea. I NEVER tell someone "I know what you're going through" if I do not. On this note however, Andrea I feel your pain. Prayers upon prayers friend 🙏 🤲

@GeminiLeo6 3 ай бұрын

Hi Beautiful family ❤. So happy your mum is getting better breathing unaided .🙏🙏🙏

@MrzRobloxz 3 ай бұрын

I understand it’s hard but it’s good to listen to urself!❤ I hope all is ok!

@skyeblue5669 3 ай бұрын

I'm 62 diabetic and I'm so scared of getting sick and dying..I need to live another 10 yrs..

@Nikki360PDX 3 ай бұрын

Does Florida allow family to be paid caregivers? It might be something you want to look into if you need to move your mom home. That's if you want to do it. You could also hire other people. I've lived in Oregon and Washington and got paid by each state to care for my mom. If I didn't do it, she'd be in assisted living and I'd rather me do it for as long as I can.

@SOUTHERNLADYLIBRAASMR 3 ай бұрын

Praying for you all. 🙏❤

@kesangkwh 3 ай бұрын

Prayers ❤❤❤

@MFF901 3 ай бұрын

Andrea ,your family is in my prayers 🙏 I just hope they dont give up on your mom ,she is there and holding thight ❤ They need to give her the dignity to fight as long as she can lord willing 🙏 blessings from Florida 🙌🌴🌴

@Kellyebj 3 ай бұрын

Praying for Ester. ❤

@koc4787 3 ай бұрын

Grandma Esther isn't ready to go. She obviously knows you're there and wants her precious grandbabies with her. I'm so glad you are following up on Abigail's headaches. My daughter had them as a child and I thought she was being dramatic. Didn't know kids could get headaches like that. I regret every second of that and wish I had taken her in. Sending love and prayers for all of you from Wisconsin!

@nancyfarkas3592 3 ай бұрын

You don’t know that. Sometimes a person will hang on until people around them are ready to let go. And god doesn’t always answer prayers the way that we want. Sometimes the answer is no.

@tonelillolsenkeys6513 3 ай бұрын

Your daughter looks just like you when you where younger. ❤ Prayers for sweet grandma. ❤❤❤

@rnj2911 3 ай бұрын

Sending hugs and prayers for the whole fam ❤🤗

@rnj2911 3 ай бұрын

I know Grandma will be ok. Praying for her fast recovery. ❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻

@carousel15drummond92 3 ай бұрын

Godbless Esther my prayers are with her ,and prayers for you all at this very hard emotional time ,… hugs and prayers❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

@bagelshop6653 3 ай бұрын

Praying 🙏🏻 ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@nicolemacintyre5835 3 ай бұрын

Awwww Andrea !! My heart goes out to you …🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏prayers will be said 🥰

@darettablack3794 3 ай бұрын

My prayers for your mom,dad and for you and your family Andrea 🙏♥️🙏.

@NeNe-im4yf 3 ай бұрын

My heart hurts for you. ❤ I am so sorry you had to deal with that staff person who should not work there. Where is her compassion Hugs and prayers

@skyeblue5669 3 ай бұрын

❤ That lake is So Beautiful and Peaceful..

@jrosnov 3 ай бұрын

Sweet Abigail with grandma,wake up beautiful.Hi from Maine and blessings 😊

@jrosnov 3 ай бұрын

Please hang in there Andrea,I can hear your voice quivering,sending hugs and prayers ❤

@tammyA206 3 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤ sending love and lots of prayers ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@marissarendon56 3 ай бұрын

Love and prayers ❤

@ejcasabuena4648 3 ай бұрын

This video really breaks my heart I really really hope and pray that grandma will be healed soon and she will be ok soon. Hugs for you all andrea

@weightnomore4darla845 3 ай бұрын

The Death Wing? That’s so inappropriate in so many ways. I’m sorry you are experiencing such unsympathetic caregivers. It’s scary to think that this is the treatment that patients receive. My heart is breaking for you and your family.

@susanbroderick4197 3 ай бұрын

Hi Andrea and all your family,it’s so upsetting seeing your mum like this ,i can’t imagine what it’s doing to you seeing her like this 😢 such a lovely lady sending big hugs 🤗 and lots of love 🤗 to each and everyone ,can’t you report that person who said that in front of you that was so disgusting, as you said your mum can still hear you ,praying for you all xxx 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@judysiegmann1145 3 ай бұрын

I don't comment often, but Please know my prayers continue for you and your family.

@hannah5245 3 ай бұрын

I’m adding another comment Andrea. This idea just popped. Your mom may not be able to speak but she can hum her favorite praise and worship songs if you play them on your phone when you visit her next. In times of difficulty, and no answers, praising God is the only thing we can do and what she can do!! I hope you try this idea!! ❤❤

@medinatabor6492 3 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same, the other day, Andrea... Living in South Louisiana, there were many times, swimming in bayous with alligators, water moccasins, and huge alligator snapping turtles, and thinking nothing of it! LOL!

@alicecholaj6742 3 ай бұрын

That woman should be fired on the spot and never allowed in any healthcare facility ever again! 🤬 My heart breaks for you, Andrea. But your mom is obviously an incredibly strong fighter! And nothing is impossible with God!!! Continued prayers and love. Please take care of yourself❣️

@LupieHousewife 3 ай бұрын

Rather than put in some work and love into their patients, it’s like they’ve checked out and don’t care anymore. It’s easier that way. At some point all these businesses become just that, a business, and all they see is $$ signs. I’m so pissed off. You can see she is clearly alert and can follow command. Hang in there Andrea. It also looks like God wanted you to visit him in the chapel awhile longer so he killed your car battery.

@medinatabor6492 3 ай бұрын

OMG!! That picture of you, is like l ooking at at 💕, LOL! The older she gets the more she looks like you! Lucky little girl!

@medinatabor6492 3 ай бұрын

Prayers up, blessing down! Dear Lord, please heal Ester, mind, body, and soul! Please hear our prayer! Please hear HER prayers! We know she is aware and understands what is happening to her! Although, she cannot verbally, I know she is speaking to you from her heart... Ester has so much she wants to, needs to, accomplish here! Andrea, know that you are in my thoughts every day, and I pray for your continued strength to navigate through this season in your lives.🙏🙏

@sharonries3932 3 ай бұрын

My prayers go out to you and ur family

@michellethibodeaux 3 ай бұрын

Andrea i would get worship music and play it in her room . I have literally heard and known people to be healed like that. One little boy with a brain injury from a wreck, that was from my church . They said he wouldnt make it 24 hours they started praying and playing worship music in his room .. well thats 14 years ago and he is still alive . ❤❤❤

@blancalopez3943 3 ай бұрын

Wow just evil and no compassionate people in this world!! May GOD keep giving you and your family strength, keep fighting grandma 🙏🙏🙏

@cathyperez49 3 ай бұрын

That woman was so disturbing, I can't even find the words. Is there anyone you can voice or file a complaint with?! I lost my husband to illness in 2007. He went too young. Some of the hospital staff were unbelievably cruel and condescending. Those memories are still very painful. I do feel sorry for anyone who finds themselves needing long term hospital care. I'm praying for all of you, Andrea, and little Miss Abigail, too. 🌹❤

@patricia6108 3 ай бұрын

I am crying. it;s hard to see your mom like this. so painfull. i hope its going better also with abigail her head .

@LovelyDay-vv7fd 3 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤ Ester please wake up 😢😢😢😢😢😢 God bless this women and bring her back to her husband and children Please God please

@Sassygrannyvlogs 3 ай бұрын

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@kristinet8 3 ай бұрын

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@davidolarte149 3 ай бұрын

Grandma!? It's going to be heal completely? In the mighty name of Jesus CHRIST!? He is the same yesterday today and tomorrow ( FOREVER ) 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

@stephburnett202 3 ай бұрын

I agree hospitals don’t care no more obviously some people do but most of them don’t they just go there to earn their money and go back home like no emotional attachment like what they have witnessed at their work and see other people lose their loved ones I could never do that job I would be in tears everyday. Praying for your loved Esther 🙏🏽🫶🏽 always thinking of you all !! God bless

@sarahmoran8372 3 ай бұрын

💖💖💖💖

@ellie_grace_gymnast7720 3 ай бұрын

Is Abigail hypermobile too is the genetics appointment to get her tested for EDS will Rafael get tested too

@tblueeyes62 3 ай бұрын

That picture of you when you were younger looks like Abigail in the face.

@amywalsh4006 3 ай бұрын

This definitely seems like a spiritual battle, with the kinds of things coming out of the woman's mouth. I pray for a covering over your mother in the name of Jesus Christ, that no weapon formed against her will prosper and that she is surrounded by angels, protecting her from anyone influenced by satan, who is trying to steal, kill and destroy her life. God You are mighty and you have all authority over Esther's life. Thank you for keeping her alive. I pray that you give her the strength to pull through and let any words she hears from so called professionals be like water off a duck's back. May she keep talking to you Lord. You understand every thought and keep that fight in her to live. In Jesus name, Amen

@sophiechinea8921 3 ай бұрын

Abigail looks like her mom ❤

@GreatLee05 3 ай бұрын

Wow, Andrea. What a horrible, insensitive thing for that woman to say, & right in front of your mom & family! You should report her & she should be fired! There is no excuse for that kind of behavior. I pray that your mom continues to improve & that she gets the best possible treatment moving forward. As for the rest of you, it was nice to see you & your family out in nature enjoying the day. Especially during the toughest moments, it’s always good to take time out for yourselves & reflect on life. You are doing all that you can for your mom. Taking a breather for yourselves is also important. Hang in there. ❤️🙏

@esmekapea4298 3 ай бұрын

She looks good

@AA-ur2tx 3 ай бұрын

A break from your mom & onto a pleased distraction. With all the different eggs you have hatching in your tank, I suggest you purchase 2 breeder fish net aquariums. Basically, it's a net box that hsngs on the side of the tank, which protects the eggs and babies from being eaten. Then when they are large enough, release them into general population. That's how I always did it because I couldn't stand the thought of either being eaten.

@jrosnov 3 ай бұрын

I’ve heard similar conversations about family members,when they were not doing well,they put them in the last room at the end of the hallway wing,sad thinking about this 😢

@kariannmarmo1633 3 ай бұрын

So sad. I’m so sorry.

@jahkingdom 3 ай бұрын

For them to refer to it as a death wing is very insensitive and unprofessional. It goes to show that for some of those health workers, it really is just a job and they have no care whatsoever of their thoughtless actions. Those kind of people shouldn't be working in healthcare full stop!! I know because I experienced certain people that looked after my Mum and caused certain problems so I was quick to make sure they stay far away from her!. It's so hard to watch your Ma in her condition but it's clear she's in there, my god she is a strong willed person and a fighter, I hope and pray she can make progress in recovery. Just saw the pic of you when you were little, omg it's like looking at Abigail, you're so alike. I hope your father is ok too 🙏 please take care

@miasgirls3778 3 ай бұрын

❤🙏🙏🙏

@user-xj9vs6fj9g 3 ай бұрын

Dear God Please here my prayer: Grandma is strong and has a life to live. She does not seem to be anywhere near death. She hears her family and responds. If it is your will then so be it. However I know you can do miracles. Grandma is loving and gentle. She’s fighting so hard. Have your heavenly angels come down and help her to heal. Dear women that said that comment: you should know better to say such a thing in your line of work. I won’t hold it against you but perhaps God will one day; he is the judge. God bless you all family. Love Vermont Lisa

@crystaljackson9148 3 ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@chickapeas5646 3 ай бұрын

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@Tsukshiro 3 ай бұрын

omg abigail has your teeth at that age! twins

@carryburke1033 3 ай бұрын

Andrea I am begging you to make a formal complaint about that evil excuse of a nurse. I don't care what is going on in her life that has made such an ugly person. She doesn't need to be around people that need kindness and empathy. Keep going until something happens to her. You would be saving another family from the same hurt and pain. I pray for your family and that that woman is delt with. Love to you all 💞

@cat-annechats5362 3 ай бұрын

That is awful Andrea how that woman treats you. Is there a hospital advocate to tell that to??? Prayers for your dear mom! YES, She is totally aware of everything, but doesn't that the ability to do anything about it. Can you ask her questions and get a yes or no with hand squeeze or eyes? I'd ask her how she feels treated, or what she might want done like moving position or whatever you know to ask. Prayers for her to have a quality of life that she would like to have. Keep up all you are doing!

@ellie_grace_gymnast7720 3 ай бұрын

My grandpa was on hospice he has PSP which is similar to Alzheimer’s and before he passed the hospice had life child life come to our house to tell me and my sisters and cousins that our grandpa was going to turn into a butterfly to explain to kids I was only 9 but it was hard seeing him be so sick

@BrendaD72 3 ай бұрын

Omgosh…I have a couple friends who work in hospice and they would NEVER say something like that. Even if they knew the patient would be gone in a matter of hours. Disgusting.

@17topaz 3 ай бұрын

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

@user-ws3ri4tg6n 3 ай бұрын

🙏😭🙏

@medinatabor6492 3 ай бұрын

That truck does look strange, also, IMO...

@teeshriiska 3 ай бұрын

😢😢🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

@mustlovedogs5569 3 ай бұрын

Make sure there is a Goal of a car in place for her and have chats about whether she would be for CPR resuscitation if she were to code again. Sometimes the hardest thing is the kindest thing. And the kindest is hard to accept

@mustlovedogs5569 3 ай бұрын

Care...not car

@Savehumanity85 3 ай бұрын

Have you had her eyelids looked at to see if possibly she is unable to open them? I ask because my father in law was unable to open his eyes and had a surgery done after stroke

@dollyrocker40 3 ай бұрын

Sending love Andrea your mum is a tough cookie just keeping thinking all the postive vibes and as for the woman calling it that she needs to be sacked stupid cold hearted woman love Faye U.K.

@MorticiaAdams.. 3 ай бұрын

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@JodiMack-kd1ct 3 ай бұрын

God gave us the gift of compassion, but it seems very few use it. I pray that "death wing" phrase was not used in front of your mother. She is such a kind person, and now she is going through "heck". I pray for God to help you all.❤❤🙏🙏🙏