sweethypsy276. I would never marry someone I was not in love with. You're hurting the BOTH of you. If there was family pressure, I would leave.

​@@jannlewandowski5540in an ideal world...

Why lead them in in the beginning

Exactly, sometimes it's better to move on especially if we dont have the feelings, connections with our spouse plus if we dont have similar hobbies, perspectives of life, business. Everyday is suffering in the marriage & we just have to stay married for our children until they're done with college. When you stay in unhappy marriage for a long time you lose yourself, your life purpose, the smiles & laughters on your face is gone. Our children dont want to see that. I wish I divorce 20 years ago but it's not that late. Our daughters are the ones encouraged me to divorce. They saw how unhappy I'm & how I sacrifice my life, career, etc for them. Now they're in college & old enough to know those stuffs. Their father is an ok man who's graduated Ivy league college & a decent man but not a idea husband nor an idea father, very hard to explain. ( we both are successful people & well educated people) but it's a torture for me to married to him.

@@jennydkwong my situation exactly, Jenny

@@waitwhat6882 I hope you well. I stayed in marriage because of both families pressures & traditions( they think its shame & loosing face if you have a divorce family) All our lives we listened to our parents & do what's best for the kids( but are really healthy & best?) Funny that after 22 years my parents admitted that they were wrong to make me stay in marriage & my kids want me to date/ remarried. My husband know I did my best but he's not the ones. I was always a good wife & he knows i can get someone much better than him in every ways & he admits that he doesn't to divorce cause he worried that i will married someone much better so he waited until I'm old.

@@waitwhat6882 do whatever makes you happy & what's best for you. Our parents dont know what best for us

@@jennydkwong Sorry Jenny, I just read your comments for the first time, eight months later ! I hear ya, sister. Wishing you all the best of everything.

I agree 💯 it's easy said & done

I agree ❤ I mean these pages think we should t be with someone else. I was abused when I was young. I never found real love until I hit 49.

Sounds like you want an affair

Agreed. That and all technology has hurt realtionships

or how about when it wears off on one person first and then they dump you?

Yup, then it's devastating

Limerence can last for years, 1-4 years according to anthropology.

You mean this? m.kzfaq.info/get/bejne/btecn5Sitb_Mlps.html

Same, but I am not a big enough person to hope the best for both of them together. Good for you that you could

You have no idea...

@@javiooo6328 IKR

Ooo ikr???

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I understand but I guess it’s the principles of marriage and being committed to each other. Idk

It could. I'm speaking generalities.

kimberlypu it DOES happen. I've read many articles, and some stories even made the news on TV. Some do get back together, some do not.

It happens to a lot of people, from what I've read. Even 30 years later..

idk this is so painful on every end.

Yes!!!!

Interesting question. I don’t know the answer for sure, but I would say possibly.

Frank, I knew young couples who married for money, spite (their ex), and pregnancy.

Yeh it’s kinda putting a very negative spin on genuinely falling for someone…. I’ve fallen for someone and 9 months on still feel that it’s genuine love.

annazhucova, I honestly believe that is being in love.

Yeah, crazy what we will do when in love or limerance

Knowing the difference between love and limerance could mean the difference between saving a marriage and destroying one

Number of years does not mean happy years.

@@JD-dv9kc we all have limerance in the beginning of a relationship single or married

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Get a good lawyer to find out what she can force out of you, and what she cant touch and how to handle shared property under the local laws, also i.m.o. your gf would move mountains to let you join her family unit if she REALLY wanted to be with you!!!

Leave her alone dont be arround her.She still angry

Be snart about where to go and be and avoid eye contact. In case it happness be positive glad and smile. Yesterday i came to work and i know my ex does not work tday but she were their. I just kept my coolness and said to my self to avoid eye contact and be smart about where to be. Gess what that didnt work bc she happned to be in my face and couldnt avoid it. I was normal positiv and smiled. She reacht out and gave me good compliments that day later. And im sure she is ready to talk again.

@@erosvera9945 so you'll be a little simp and take her back? If you don't have kids with her, move on, grateful gus.

my ex is very immature and young and family and friends have affected her. right now i see how unhappy she is and how much weight she has lost and all her attempts to talk to me. apart from ggs. Its strength to forgive.

@@erosvera9945 forgive what. Be honest.

out of a sweet dream back into harsh reality.

He broke the family apart and I don’t even think he wants to be with her long term, he’s evil and she’s stupid and gullible.

jaydenlowe4716, I highly suggest you book a Coaching session with Coach Lee or one of his staff coaches wish I could fully addresses your specific details, it may be beneficial to seek a more professional approach. I highly recommend booking a coaching session with Coach Lee or one of his staff coaches. They will be able to provide the necessary expertise and devote time to address your unique situation. You can schedule a session by visiting this link: myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/. This way, you'll receive personalized guidance.

@@gracep3416 Wot? Why? He'll naw.

I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,

Leave because that's not love. Why would you waste your time there? This is such a ridiculous question. It should be common sense, but to each their own.

@@Confessions089 it usually because they r in shock and they want to try and fix things with them..

What is it doing?

The video was buffering constantly but it’s ok now.... Thanks coach Lee I watch your videos daily 🤫

Like angel numbers? What other things are you seeing?

POLYGAMY in only allowed for the men's pleasures . Women don't have to accept this anymore in these days and age.

I don’t have enough information to give you much of an answer in this comment, but I can tell you without a doubt that a lot of people have gotten help from my free mini course on saving a marriage that you can get at myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/

sorry didn't mean to send thanks