6 Inexplicably Attractive Things Men Do

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5 жыл бұрын

The video that changed my life: • Gary Yourofsky proves ...
1. Sticks up for himself or me in front of other guys
2. is physically aggressive with me in a playful way (sorry that was kinda unclear in the vid. Don't take this one as advice cause you have to know for sure the other person is into it or it is wrong and immoral)
3. Leaves me to go do work
4. Shows me his private interests
5. enters into the male lust trance
6. Takes the lead in or takes care of a group
Please comment any examples you have for things you find inexplicably attractive in women or men below, I would love to hear them.

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@sirjared21 3 жыл бұрын

Find it very attractive when a woman stands up for what's right, even if it goes against her group.

@piyush00767 3 жыл бұрын

This is the most attractive trait for me.

@colinesquire2480 3 жыл бұрын

Me too incredibly attractive

@sirjared21 3 жыл бұрын

@@piotrekmajkowski5422 What I'm talking about is different from arrogance, feminism, entitlement, or attention-seeking.

@knes167 3 жыл бұрын

@@piotrekmajkowski5422 Threads on twitter disagree with you lol. Hive mind ultra

@vanessak7069 3 жыл бұрын

Lol I am like this, always have been, super justice loving and outspoken and feel like it scares men away

@ridemywheelie 3 жыл бұрын

When a girl is innocent and genuinely nice to all people, I find that very attractive.

@MrKrusten 3 жыл бұрын

Im a "bad guy" in some sense and this is legit the number 1# thing that makes me fall in love with girls. When they are super kind and sweet to everyone i love that so much.

@ridemywheelie 3 жыл бұрын

@@rickterrance4981 I find that many woman can be very kind to some, but real mean to others. I don't like that at all.

@ridemywheelie 3 жыл бұрын

@@rickterrance4981 I agree totally. I find it so ironic that modern feminists try to be so masculine. For some reason, they think its empowering for women to swear, act tough, be aggressive and cold. Do they really think this is how men should act? Also there is this crazy idea that women being sluts is powerful. Why do they think that Cardi B performing WAP at the Grammys is good for women? I think women have more to offer than talentless booty shaking that just turn men on. This is modern feminism.

@I_Ace 3 жыл бұрын

Innocent girl is boring. I want a naughty girl. But genuine is where its at

@alifaronno4494 3 жыл бұрын

When a girl has nice big ass , I find that very attractive lmao

@mymusic7262 3 жыл бұрын

For a guy, enthusiasm is a big turn on. And if she's not enthusiastic then its a big turn off.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

can u elaborate on enthusiastic? in what context or just in general

@Bullet44 3 жыл бұрын

Yo definitely! 💯

@JonasViatte 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife I would say enthusiastic for doing things with you. Seems like a no-brainer but really, I feel like attraction goes x10 if the girl is super enthusiastic to do something together, or even better if she actually proposes something she would like to do together. If on the other hand she kind of follows along, "accepts" to do things with you but you feel she's not enthusiastic, makes a strange energy that I agree is a big turn off.

@Att7h 3 жыл бұрын

@@JonasViatte FACTS

@lifeisastruggle5517 3 жыл бұрын

it goes both ways

@vintage_hart6392 3 жыл бұрын

I hate when a guy like me gets called a "pervert" for being attracted to a woman's body. Like WTF am i supposed to be gay? like wtf

@itshardtobehumble4827 3 жыл бұрын

No, you aren't a pervert but you may be a simp.

@jurgenchristiansen6075 3 жыл бұрын

No stay the course bro... you ain’t no perv.

@ralphfurley4217 3 жыл бұрын

If she holds eye contact with you, then oogling her is fine. If she avoids eye contact with you, then don't oogle her and move on. She's not interested.

@mtflieutenant7693 3 жыл бұрын

That depends on how much money you got. Change your balance digits and you'll be considered... complimentary instead.

@phryge2468 3 жыл бұрын

There are barriers you have to break before straight up coming into the realm of physical attractiveness. It takes less than a minute, but will open up a whole lot

@dameanvil 4 ай бұрын

01:27 🤝 Sticking up for me in front of others is attractive, showing assertiveness and protection. 02:00 💪 Physical aggression, even playfully, creates a thrilling and attractive primal connection. 03:00 🚶‍♂ Leaving to focus on work shows self-control, independence, and adds attractiveness. 04:38 🌐 Sharing his private sexual interests, like a porn collection, gives a glimpse into his personal world, making it intriguing. 05:47 🔥 Expressing uncontrollable passion and lust is seen as beautiful, dispelling societal shame around male sexuality. 07:40 🤵‍♂ Taking a lead in group situations, organizing and managing, showcases leadership and responsibility, adding to attractiveness.

@norbukeung 4 ай бұрын

appreciate it brother 🤝

@Aarifz7 4 ай бұрын

😍🔥🙏🏽

@KiKfilms 27 күн бұрын

Those videos already feel shady and that one about sharing porn only proves that. Seriously, let's just say it for 344728729722860th time, it's all about looks. If an ugly dude confesses he watches animated porn not a single woman on this planet will find that sexy, just call him a creep, incel and all the other trendy buzzwords.

@dameanvil 27 күн бұрын

@@KiKfilms This channel needs more people like you who know perfectly well what every woman on the planet thinks. Is it because you are very smart, or because the women are very stupid?

@TastyGrilledCheese 3 жыл бұрын

When I can tell a woman is afraid of me but faces it. That is incredibly attractive on an instinctual level. It feels amazing. I feel like I found treasure. I feel it when a random woman I'm making little moments of eye contact with, and I can see her get scared and look away, but then she looks back wanting more. I feel it when I'm meeting a girl or spending time with her for the first time and I can see and feel her watching how she behaves and what she says. And also when in a relationship when I firmly set a boundary and I can feel her tense up and respect my space. Also when a woman turns on the nurturing side of her femininity, her voice gets sensual, and she wants to take care of me. That's so powerful.

@MuhammadAliGOAT 3 жыл бұрын

She's probably double glancing thinking "damn that guy looking at me like a serial killer, is he seriously looking at me like fresh meat right now?" lol

@rngouveia 3 жыл бұрын

another one is when the girl sneezes or get scared and let out a sound similar to a moan. It instantly turns every male "sex brain" on even if by just a fraction of a second.

@dianadias3 3 жыл бұрын

@@rngouveia ahaha I`ll never sneeze normal.again ahah

@eonrelaxationmusic1916 3 жыл бұрын

@@dianadias3 haha, I wonder what that sounds like in person.. 😅

@dianadias3 3 жыл бұрын

@@eonrelaxationmusic1916 seriously, I only think about it now aha

@mannojkummar9226 3 жыл бұрын

1) interfering for defending ,owning,taking responsibility to protect 2) showing off physically strong or aggressive towards her 3) being on purpose, and putting her in second place when it comes on purpose 4) showing off his porn collection or private information, like disclosure of his mysteriousness. 5) Sex brain showing off his male primal desire for sex and passion towards women through his interest 6) Leads in group situation, taking control of things and sorroundings, organising things. Leadership, high status, hypergamy.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly mannoj this is really cool thank u

@gilded_spark_7022 4 ай бұрын

I agree with most things said, except pron collection lol

@user-mn6sq3is4t 4 ай бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@crispycreamv2401 4 ай бұрын

uh what's up with number 4? don't do the beginning of that

@jselectronics8215 3 жыл бұрын

Shortly after we were married, my wife was telling her adult son that sex isn't dirty. He said "Then you're not doing it right."

@michaellangan4450 3 жыл бұрын

A Woody Allen line.

@cheiguerabdelwehab6802 3 жыл бұрын

You should've said "that's my son" lol

@vanessak7069 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣👌

@non9886 3 жыл бұрын

come on, it is old joke :-)

@jselectronics8215 3 жыл бұрын

@@non9886 Well, it happened 45 years ago.

@kinnikuzero 3 жыл бұрын

I find well dressed 'reserved' girls very attractive

@michaellangan4450 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, you know, underneath, there is a volcano ready to explode.

@SoCal9705 3 жыл бұрын

You saw one?

@550xxx23 3 жыл бұрын

@@SoCal9705 LMAO what a comment

@thomasverhoff999 3 жыл бұрын

Same here, but I’ve never seen one in the wild today

@550xxx23 3 жыл бұрын

@― Jaqueline We might not look/stare at you as much but we definitely notice. I’m not against women dressing to show skin and show off their bodies, I find it sexy. However, when a good looking woman is dressed in clothes that aren’t tight and revealing it is so much more sexy. Whether conscious or not, I believe most men will give you much more respect.

@bumpcity9794 3 жыл бұрын

What I find attractive and somewhat rare is a funny girl. Not so much in an annoying way, but a girl who can laugh at herself and not be so serious.Most girls are so stuck-up and proper. She nay be the most attractive woman in the room, but if she’s coming off as a prude and more into herself, I usually stay away. I enjoy the company of women who can crack jokes and laugh at the world. Instead being so analytical and righteous.

@prof3ssor178 3 жыл бұрын

Very rare! 98% of women are too serious faced and rude, disrespectful smh a masculine attitude

@ralphfurley4217 3 жыл бұрын

Women lost their sense of humor about 20 years ago when they started competing with men in every field. I think it's because they're losing, and they know it. Their winning strategy against men was to be feminine, but they abandoned it to be masculine. Now they are lost and men are going their own way, far away from women.

@gilded_spark_7022 4 ай бұрын

Omg thank you for sharing this, it needs to be said more. This is just my opinion, but even from a female friendship perspective, this air of arrogance and being too stuck up is bad. The sole reason why i had fun and joked around and laughed back in school was due to guys there. We would crack some jokes and not take shit too seriously. Some girls esp more popular and i guess, gorgeous ones have arrogant attitude and cannon loosen up, as if it's below them. I didn't know that guys also find this behavior to be annoying.

@gilded_spark_7022 4 ай бұрын

@@ralphfurley4217 I don't think this behavior has anything to do with them (at least consciously) competing with men. It's usually girls who consider themselves too gorgeous and important for everyone else so they become arrogant. That's it.

@branandubh 3 ай бұрын

I love when a woman makes me laugh with her humour. It's quite rare.

@ralphfurley4217 3 жыл бұрын

I can tell you genuinely love men. As a former stripper yourself, that's rare. Most men genuinely love women. Too bad the womanist movement has unnecessarily turned women against men.

@vanessak7069 3 жыл бұрын

I love men!

@user-co5vf5ph8p 2 жыл бұрын

She was WHAT???

@slatsgrobneck7515 Жыл бұрын

Yes and it has also turned men against women (in some cases) unnecessarily. imo

@brandongranados5569 5 ай бұрын

That having everything taken care of in group settings in a good pointer 👍🏼

@gilded_spark_7022 4 ай бұрын

I didn't know she is a former stripper, would never be able to tell that. But good for her she changed! She seems very smart and lovely

@aaronjohnson6622 3 жыл бұрын

Women like a man's natural essence. Most things that men are shamed for are actually things that women find attractive ie physical dominance, his ability to think linearly, his sexual desires, and even his desires for multiple women. Women won't often admit this, but they find these traits attractive. Your videos are confirming this

@MaxTimoney 3 жыл бұрын

yeah only shamed for in very recent times

@jayc.6521 3 жыл бұрын

@Bobs Slong 😂😂😂😂

@breakingthemasks 3 жыл бұрын

Nailed it

@bromance3496 3 жыл бұрын

When are men shamed for physical dominance and what women like guys who like other girls? Why are you grouping these together it doesn't apply

@PhilomathWizard 4 күн бұрын

“Desires for multiple women” sure bro you do you

@rachimbaskin6559 3 жыл бұрын

Instead of typical coachy advice, more like the insights of a novelist. And in clear, direct language

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

I love that Rachim as an ardent fan of the novel

@rachimbaskin6559 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife. Aha!

@jurgenchristiansen6075 3 жыл бұрын

I ain’t ashamed of my masculinity. I also don’t care what others think of me .... I don’t let people get to me. I’m a guy and proud of it. Thank you for the Video, very encouraging. 👍

@theeclectic2919 3 жыл бұрын

Never apologize for being a man. Never ever.

@fortunatosamuel2520 3 жыл бұрын

KZfaq basically forced me to check out this video, let's see wassup

@givemeyoursocks915 3 жыл бұрын

Same bruh

@RDJ979797 3 жыл бұрын

Algorithm working in your favour 💯

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

It is amazing 😱

@navigatingel6104 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife why do you think it's happening?

@JeremyPezzeca 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this. I'm 47 years old and have evolved so much as a man. Now I am only attracted to purity and a beautiful soul. The physical beauty of a woman no longer has power over me and I look at a woman who uses her physical beauty to attract or seduce a man as a child. Its funny how we change. I use to be the total opposite of who I am now. I'm a much happier man now that I'm in my power and no longer give it away. None of this change in me would have happened without semen retention. Semen retention changed and empowered me like nothing else.

@TheVideoPressChannel 3 жыл бұрын

Semen retention is a good point of view.-. Btw, I am 50, and I agree that I'm a much happier man as "I'm in my power and no longer give it away now", same as you suggest. But with semen retention, I am going on 'old me' other 'old' side still :-))). Good is that I am more clear to see 'edges' of that physical beauty seduction side, so I go back and forth with a high level of control. That's positive as I got older. The downside is that when I am on the physical beauty seduction side, it cant go 'all night long anymore.' :) I see Victoria try to dig dipper, so here is my angle to put in 'statistic. :-))).

@keltecdan 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with the inner beauty being important but there has to be some level of physical attraction depending on what that is for certain people.

@mothergoose3766 3 жыл бұрын

It's good to hear your male perspective...as a 47 year old woman, I also have evolved and am so much richer and full of treasure than I was when I was young, but I wonder if my ripened kind of beauty goes unnoticed in our youth obsessed culture...it's funny nobody talks about how women in their 40s are so much more sexually awake and potent than their younger selves. So much more to share. Glad you have evolved beyond the surface.

@PierreLucSex 3 жыл бұрын

Oh come on "semen retention" new age thing

@vanessak7069 3 жыл бұрын

From a female perspective, this is so beautiful to hear. I wish more men were as mature as you. All the best

@josejoaquinbenitez6485 3 жыл бұрын

I find it really attractive when a woman feels comfortable. When I see one pulling up her tube top constantly, struggling with her purse or stumbling in heels it annoys me. I think I'd rather see her in a t-shirt, loose sport pants and sneakers if she would be at ease. 2) If she smells nice, specially her hair. 3) If she's a good singer I lost, but if she sings horribly and does it anyway because she doesn't give a fuck or to be funny I'd like it too. Women with a sense of humor/sarcasm are really attractive too for me.

@victoralabii 3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@_Nosferatu_ 3 жыл бұрын

Damn I agree with everything you said, except I like clumsy girls, especially when they dont hide it. Most girls always pretend to look cool and sexy, so seeing the clumsy one is really unique and real to me...

@josejoaquinbenitez6485 3 жыл бұрын

@@_Nosferatu_ Well yeah, I think clumsy and authentic girls are cute too. I just don't like it when they stumble with heels because I've sprained both my ankles and everytime I see them struggling with them I worry they'll get injured. That's really my issue with heels. Why would they risk getting hurt just to look good? Once I saw a girl with teary eyes; I asked her why was she crying and she told me it was her fake eyelashes' glue. I admit when I saw her later her eyes didn't look as impressive but it really saddened me she'd do that to herself. She told me it was the first time she did it but still, many women do stuff like that just to look pretty. That's what I'm saying, I'd rather see a girl feel pretty when she's comfortable.

@onewithsource9742 4 ай бұрын

@@josejoaquinbenitez6485I must admit, I don't mind a bit of subtle make up, but when you see a woman you love with no makeup on theres something so attractive about her natural beauty

@19scott54 3 жыл бұрын

Man, I just discovered you this morning.., a cold February one. Fantastic advice and content. Thanks.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Scott for the kind comment, I am glad u like the advice

@philosophyjunkies6693 4 жыл бұрын

I more deeply understand this video from the inside out now, vs outside in. This is the core issue: clarifying within yourself the desire for greater power, status, and impact in both same sex and intersexual spaces and deciding that you'll do whatever it takes and accept nothing less. Deciding that in certain contexts, women and men who will not follow your lead or accept your program simply have no place in that realm of your life and will be put in their place or discarded.

@Lssj100 3 жыл бұрын

So I guess my thoughts would be that I'm very hesitant when clicking on these sorts of videos because it exposes me to some truths that even though I have heard them, hearing them again kind of makes me think about myself, and how to move forward with this sort of information because when I look at these things it seems like a game I dont want to play but at the same time, I have to play it in order to find "someone". Either way, nice video and good on you for being open enough to share information like this.

@vDunkk 3 жыл бұрын

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@vanessak7069 3 жыл бұрын

You don't have to find someone, you will attract women

@richmac6345 4 ай бұрын

Loving your brutal honesty... I never knew this stuff. It's really helpful. Just also wanted to say that your volume is rather low but can still hear you when I turn everything up on full ;) Thanks. Keep sharing, guiding, teaching... very helpful

@andrewwerner4156 3 жыл бұрын

Just wanted to say thank you for sharing your inner thoughts regarding men and women's relationships and relations. You are very kind and brave to do so. It's very confusing to try navigating the intimate interactions between people throughout your life. You sharing your personal insights is enormously helpful. Best wishes in all your future endeavors. :)

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot Andrew, I am very glad they're helping you. Which part did u find the most helpful? And thanks for your kind note

@user-mn6sq3is4t 4 ай бұрын

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@user-zc4hy9xu1e 4 ай бұрын

@@mynonleatherlifeAs a Man, if a woman is kind hearted, genuine and if she have a greater respect for all the Men and to older people then I find her very attractive....

@SsNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Wow so I just watched this video because I’ve came across your videos recently and have been really into them! Your one point about leaving to work and showing purpose I had no idea about! It’s something that I find attractive in my girlfriend; but I never realized that women also find it attractive when men set a boundary like that and part ways with women to be productive. I’ve been trying to spend more time with my girlfriend and it always takes me a while to leave because I either don’t want to or I’m afraid to be rude and just go even if I have to. But the way you put it makes it really makes sense! It’s something that I did more often at the start of our relationship but as we’ve got more romantically attached I’ve slowed down a bit on it. I’m just now realizing the kinds of things that you mentioned in this video is likely exactly why she was so attracted to me in the first place! Thank you so much! Hearing such perspective from a woman like this is really eye-opening and you explain things so perfectly!! Thank you so much for making these videos!

@fullthrottlewrx Жыл бұрын

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@Rogersensei93 3 жыл бұрын

Damn u drop some gems that can be easily applied. Thank you

@glassjawdeathclaw4176 5 жыл бұрын

Thank your for sharing it is a real treat to hear how someone else feels and experiences the world.

@mynonleatherlife 5 жыл бұрын

thank you for saying that. i felt it was a pretty bad video and was thinking of taking it down so it is so comforting to hear that it was somewhat interesting on some level at least lol

@glassjawdeathclaw4176 5 жыл бұрын

MyNonLeatherLife good video bad video. At least you have the courage to put yourself out there for all to see and hear.

@mynonleatherlife 5 жыл бұрын

@@glassjawdeathclaw4176 lol thanks. that's what i was trying to tell myself like just don't back down cause it's not perfect.

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@red2522 3 жыл бұрын

All of what you said really makes a lot of sense. 1. It's since primal times that a woman wanted and needed a man to stand up for himself and her, and protect her. This is a form of that, so of course you found it attractive. 2. I think women are attracted to strength, so when he shows it to you, it's a big turn-on, as long as he does it in a healthy and consented manner. 3. Not being bound to you, or clingy, but being focused, motivated and driven to work is very attractive. He also shows that he doesn't depend on anyone. 4. Opening up, telling secrets, that's just people getting more intimate, and it's beautiful. Sharing secrets is supposed to bring you two together. 5. I guess one of the main male aspects is that primal sexual urge, and girls seeing that probably see the natural masculinity he's showing and that's attractive, that's what makes sense to me. 6. A man being successful is a turn on. It's the same for leadership. Leaders are usually "alphas" of the group, and they just seem full of authority and masculinity and it's normal that a feminine person would find that attractive.

@A._.A._. 4 ай бұрын

om my God this content you are giving us is gold, thanks so much! at 40s maybe now I'll finally learn how to keep a woman

@theguyinblacktux 3 жыл бұрын

This woman is spitting straight facts. I just discovered your channel. You have got a new subscriber.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Unais

@pledgestone 3 жыл бұрын

This is the kind of channel men need to watch. Great video! These videos are a couple of years old, why are they showing up now? I wish I had seen them years ago.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks captain bob

@infinitedestiny141 3 жыл бұрын

You are very very honest with your opinions and i like that about you ! So don't change no matter what and this video was very informative . Thank you !

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

thank you i appreciate that a lot :)

@user-mn6sq3is4t 4 ай бұрын

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@jockamofeno7632 3 жыл бұрын

What I LOVE about women: the wide and complex array of emotions that women experience and the emotional reactivity. Men's emotional fluctuations are more flat and change slowly, and we sort of get to experience the colorful and dramatic flavours vicariously through women.

@hiddenleaf2 Жыл бұрын

Your comment is truly beautiful. I need to save this

@jockamofeno7632 Жыл бұрын

@@hiddenleaf2 I'm low key a woman hater. I just know what type of flattering shit to say

@ankitsharma1983 4 ай бұрын

Colorful and dramatic for sure. Enjoyble for men - hmmmm not sure about that.

@jockamofeno7632 4 ай бұрын

@@ankitsharma1983 more for me

@FckyouUoykcf 5 ай бұрын

I appreciate your honesty and i never knew yell ladies were appreciating it and enjoying yell self i never thought it was that amazing. 😅 Thank you ladies 🥰

@nathanh4797 3 жыл бұрын

The one about a man having his own life is something I needed to hear. Not being desperate for the little things because a man being on the chase for bigger things. Crazy

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

why do u feel u needed to hear that? It's really big. When I hear guys talking about being on his purpose or stuff I like that I have to agree it's powerful.

@MentalUnleashed 3 жыл бұрын

Keep doing what your doing. Amazing content .

@reprogrammingmind 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experiences.

@emeryjones8099 3 жыл бұрын

Thank u for being so honest. Just subscribed

@Mark-wh3tc 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, you helped me in many ways. Have a kick ass day!

@murphsviews 3 жыл бұрын

These vids are great Victoria, very helpful for a guy. 👌

@DivingHawker 3 жыл бұрын

One thing that confuses me a bit is that some of the points you mentioned are demonized or straight punished by law so I think it can be hard to judge, especially since each woman probably has a different sensitivity to the behaviors in question. Honestly, the thing I struggle the most is finding valid advice because some women tell us what they THINK they want, not what they truly want and so, personally, I get a bit lost at times. Anyway, props to you for being open about these topics, even if some can sounds kind of taboo or even shameful. As for something attractive about women, feeling like she would follow you to the end of the world, feeling like she would be a loyal companion in your journeys through life or feeling her dedication to expressing her love or affection are things that I have a hard time resisting.

@user-zc4hy9xu1e 4 ай бұрын

Yeah, the governmental laws are Gender biased and sexist against Boys/Men

@Way_Of_The_Light 3 жыл бұрын

Profound insights!🙏 what an underrated video! it's been over 1 year and it has only 700 views!!!??

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Haha! Thank you! What did you like about it?

@breakingthemasks 3 жыл бұрын

Now at 56 thousand views. It hit the algorithm. Which is good, men need this insight, and women are rarely this honest. 👍

@mikebucur8461 3 жыл бұрын

Nice video. Thanks for your input~

@jimvikse7453 9 ай бұрын

I have to pump up the volume on all your videos. What's up with that? You are doing great with your channel content.😀👍

@tomhirtler7200 3 жыл бұрын

#3 Explains why she showed up to our breakfast date after calling to say it was a bad idea. I told her it was a great I idea and I was going to enjoy my breakfast with or without her. Thanks for clearing that up

@JMrealgamer 3 жыл бұрын

Your videos are really good! True and real... authentic, genuine, and nice.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot I appreciate your kind words TheRealGamer Mii

@harshwardhanratnoo179 3 жыл бұрын

I see your subscribers rising so fast... congratulations ! 🙌

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

thank you very much, i know, it's really wild...i'm amazed myself

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

@@harshwardhanratnoo179 can u dm me on ig at greenelover

@bolso66 3 жыл бұрын

No worries... inconsitency will show up soon

@ruskinjetter5799 3 жыл бұрын

Boi, you are beautiful !!!! No tramp stamps, real hair that you have grown, no bozo the clown makeup, you have a lot of decency to your subscribers and your Temple. Amen!

@winston1359 3 жыл бұрын

Just binged watched “mynonleatherlife” videos. Great job and thanks!

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Lol I'm sorry, winston that you had to see some of those, but thank you for watching

@slayertrick 3 жыл бұрын

Victoria after my girlfriend and I broke up you have helped me reinvigorate my confidence and also to have a better understanding of each perspective

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

really Ramel? Like how did it help you understand each perspective better? That is so cool!!! I've wasted so many years analyzing and wondering what went wrong after breakups so I love to hear that so much.

@icarus432hz9 Жыл бұрын

I love this channel. Ty for your content.

@mynonleatherlife Жыл бұрын

thank you icarus. is there anything else you would want to know about from a female perspective

@icarus432hz9 Жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife Ty for your reply. I had to really think about this... I would like to know where is the fine line of being, Territorial/Dominant/Protective and being perceived as Jealous and Insecure. I find that at the beginning of relationships my dominance is perceived as a turn on but later, that same behavior is perceived as oppressive and insecure. What`s the balance and the right way to apply dominance?

@gozadorable 3 жыл бұрын

This is brilliant and honest. I was already awake to this hidden truth about female attraction toward raw masculinity, but it is great to hear it at this level of detail and specially told by an intelligent woman. Thanks a lot. Now I'd like to give you a compliment, perhaps one that you don't get very often. I always notice female hands, and let me tell you I find yours very nice.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Than you Gonzalo!

@marcofemto9417 3 жыл бұрын

As a man I love doing these things and Im glad women like you appreciate it in us. I really need to move to tour state lol

@hammervansickle7042 3 жыл бұрын

Nice to hear something so genuine

@badoona 3 жыл бұрын

I found this really interesting. Great video.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! What did you like about it, if you remember? Or dislike.

@badoona 3 жыл бұрын

MyNonLeatherLife I do remember. But I’m playing again in case it draws out extra details. When guys learn that girls really like certain primal behaviour; it’s like a light switch. All the things you said I knew to some degree but it was so interesting and refreshing to hear this from you in a genuine, real way.

@brittanyhana7724 3 жыл бұрын

@deroij8838 3 жыл бұрын

Im like...How do you know all this 😆 your bang on with your material and very informative so thanks for confirming alot of things keep em coming please! Probably helps your quite attractive ..no offense lol

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Rob!!!

@fromgermany271 Жыл бұрын

Just recognized that you do something, I also found myself doing. When I feel attracted to a women, I‘m trying to find out what drives me. Often these are weird things, but I‘m happy to know. A lot of people I meet just act, w/o ever asking for the reasons, and then struggle and get angry when they are questioned. Being a male engineer, I always thought this is just one of these „solve the problem“ issue, but obviously people living in a different type of body do the same. ❤ Just Tell me, where are more of your kind?

@nomo4u886 3 жыл бұрын

We appreciate the content

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot, any other thing you would want to see a video on?

@Crimsondigitallife 2 жыл бұрын

I really appreciate your videos. I wish more female KZfaqrs that talk about dating and sex in a serious and informative way. It will help out alot

@mynonleatherlife 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brian, I appreciate your comment very much and am glad you liked it. How do u think it will help out alot

@user-mn6sq3is4t 4 ай бұрын

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@michaelloria69 3 жыл бұрын

Great vid 🥂

@kenr4709 Жыл бұрын

Victoria, more great tips on what a woman likes. I find it to be very sensual when a woman touches me on the hand on the arm, certainly when a woman likes to laugh. And not be angry at every little thing. Just a sidenote, your microphone may have been a little too low on this. It was difficult to hear, I do enjoy listening to your presentations, they’re always very informative. Thank you, happy new year! 9:02

@PrimordialWaterPracticalMatter 3 жыл бұрын

Interesting and practical knowledge👍

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

I am glad you enjoyed it, thank u

@fandude7 3 жыл бұрын

Very informative. Thanks

@kryptoncelis1446 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing content! I've been searching for this truth for years! Also, a tip for girls is, in my point of view and from my experience, when women touch us men in a flirtatious way, it turns us on almost instantly and is really attractive. Also, I think you might already know this but it's super attractive when a girl smiles on a cold approach or just any interactionwith a male, many girls have serious or mad faces that turn us men off to the point where we loose interest. Also when a girl looks serious or mad while a guy is trying his hardest to seduce her, it almost feels like the woman is on a masculine frame and looks horrible since it makes us men look feminine for trying and begging

@stylewithaltitude 3 жыл бұрын

I agree man well said. Some woman have become more masculine while men have become femenized. They need to remember to be feminine. It creates that polarity of attraction.

@zu1582 3 жыл бұрын

Love you for this.

@stargalaxy7291 3 жыл бұрын

Just found your videos they're a big help thankyou 💪

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

I am very glad to hear that, thank u

@zuhayrkhan7103 3 жыл бұрын

I get really attracted when women get very comfortable around me and feel safe because of my presence. Also when they ask me for help and are nervous around me. So in essence I suppose I'm attracted to how they respond to me and how I make them feel? Also them being in their feminine, but not clingy energy is always attractive. Another weird quirk I suppose I find very attractive is when they talk using their whole face, eyebrows, eyes, mouth, moving head.

@rachidatouli Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for sharing that. Your insights land perfectly. You surly have a gift in translating the femine dimension while staying in touch with you femine rythm. A little art I guess you could say.

@mynonleatherlife Жыл бұрын

thanks rachid

@LeonVanDyk 3 жыл бұрын

Very intelligent observations

@moundstars3787 3 жыл бұрын

Great information thanks

@kurstone8511 3 жыл бұрын

Just came across your channel! Thanks for these vids, they’re super helpful! May I ask what your zodiac sign is?

@janocronismo 3 жыл бұрын

Same here, when girls say out loud what they really want to eat, to watch, to shop, in bed, etc is a really high turn-on for me... Girls with confidence in their believes, their thoughts and their bodies are also a turn-on. I hate weak, introverted girls that say "yes" to everything I say ir do. Happily, I found a girl that is everything I've ever wanted and I'm madly in love with her.

@jonathandizon2281 3 жыл бұрын

As usual, Very informative very needed information. Any chance you can turn up the volume on your microphone?Your voice Seems a little washed out, compared to other KZfaq channels.

@bluedoggum8373 5 ай бұрын

You’ve got some good topics. I’ll have to watch some of your vids. The truth is however that what women like is when a man truly does not give a f. Most guys know that their guy friends who are most successful with women are almost always the ones who also respect them the least. Idk what the point is I just never think anyone is honest about these topics.

@jaamaan123 3 жыл бұрын

Nice one !!

@ganjagangja 3 жыл бұрын

Recently found your channel. Your vid content and topics are amazing and very honest. There are many other channels run by guys that say the same things but you're the first female run channel I've found of this nature. I personally am totally turned on by knowing what turns her on and does it for her when she's alone. Similar to what you mentioned in this vid.

@warison.3152 3 жыл бұрын

I wish I had someone who understands me so much your boyfriend is a really lucky guy 🔥 ❤️

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

thank you very much

@bashisobsolete.pythonismyn6321 5 жыл бұрын

BTW, Volume is very low in your videos. Please experiment with manual audio settings or consider using a headset. Headset is a good option because it bypasses the phone hardware altogether and saves you from having to fiddle with settings.

@mynonleatherlife 5 жыл бұрын

yeah so true I was thinking that tonight. The volume is terrible. My computer is pretty old and kind of burning out but I will try a headset. Thanks for the advice!

@mynonleatherlife 5 жыл бұрын

I fixed the volume--got a mic set up!

@brittanyhana7724 3 жыл бұрын

@jaybee2402 3 жыл бұрын

I don't know, it's like you're my kid sister whispering secrets about women to your big brother, I love it!! ❤️❤️

@lsporter88 3 жыл бұрын

I find your honesty and common sense attractive. Women can learn much from your example.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Leslie

@user-mn6sq3is4t 4 ай бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@sunshineman11 3 жыл бұрын

Transformative information!

@jayloeffers8223 3 жыл бұрын

I found you by accident now I'm hooked i just subscribed

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for subscribing Jay!

@jayloeffers8223 3 жыл бұрын

Your loved here

@luker1hutcher315 Жыл бұрын

Wonderful and original insights as usual . THanks MyN.L.L. (but i did struggle to hear it in parts as the sound quality was feeble........perhaps device was far away or something, or inadvertently recorded (or uploaded) at low quality)

@rhythmelf8881 3 жыл бұрын

I really like your style Ma'am, (persona) your presentation and your energy (as much as I can experience such energy through a screen.) Hello and kind wishes to you from the fiercely proud Republic of Ireland.❤☘☘☘👊💪

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

thank you rhythm elf, I am a huge ireland fan. I love Irish everything. I used to be an irish dancer even tho I'm only a tiny bit irish myself.

@mulengakapufi5444 Жыл бұрын

Thanks again ❤️

@tomarnold6175 3 жыл бұрын

I spent time in an unhealthy relationship where most of my masculine qualities were demonised yet still desired to a confused girl. I beat myself up, lost who I was trying to please her. After breaking out I had to get in touch with all these things I shamed myself for and learn to self love. I met a girl who i could be honest and open with we discovered a lot of the things you talk about here and in other videos, it’s very refreshing to have this solidified. I’m happy now and increasingly so. Don’t change for others embrace yourself and you will attract like minded people who can embrace you. The rest you just deflect or learn to live with you can’t please everyone 😂 Thankyou for your videos, incredible refreshing insights into the human mind 🙏😘

@BobbyTomMathew 3 жыл бұрын

Your videos are great.

@dvanheld 3 жыл бұрын

All your videos are filled with gold nuggets. I love them!

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

thanks Dan!!!!

@darkrebel123 3 жыл бұрын

This is an interesting perspective. For my entire life I have been beaten over the head with the villification of the overt expression of male sexual attraction. This has resulted in me suppressing that side of attraction in favor of a more sapiosexual sort of approach, which has increased the passivity of my approach. Maybe I need to be a little more forthcoming with the expression of my sexuality.

@mothergoose3766 3 жыл бұрын

It's attractive to a woman when a man knows what he wants and is assertive enough to let her know...confidence, charisma. It's honest. She wants to know she is wanted, and that makes them both vulnerable. Which in a weird way makes her trust him and yield. It's a dance he is leading... Not an assault. Lol.

@danpartridge8584 3 жыл бұрын

"Romantic connection corresponds not with a moment in time, but an ethereal response between two primal forces."

@marklarochelle3175 3 жыл бұрын

We are NOT your house cats. You NEED us. And WE need you.

@darioscomicschool1111 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@CashCowz962 3 жыл бұрын

Great video. Looking for a woman like you at the moment....

@CashCowz962 3 жыл бұрын

Last one didnt even like doggystyle..she said..I got too excited when am behind her...am an a$$ man...smh....

@user-iq8he3cc3q 4 ай бұрын

I can tell you some stories if you want lol thanks for the info though 🔥

@_SirCharge 3 жыл бұрын

You make some great points. Primal male energy is looked down upon.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Yea it is

@siobhanrachel2969 3 жыл бұрын

Gee, these men better be taking notes cause all these are crucial data. I am lesbian but these info are the deal ⚡

@xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoo 3 жыл бұрын

When consideration levels are very persistent from a woman it sparks the fuel for a whole hearted companionship

@rickkock9822 3 жыл бұрын

I find it really attractive when a girl ignores an ill-advised or half-baked message you've sent and continues the conversation like it never happened. She's slow to judge the actions of others.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

That is really cool. I never thought of that before as an attractive quality in girls but I really like that quality in men as well.

@yoelcapoful 6 ай бұрын

thats a big turn off imo

@douglasshea5206 3 жыл бұрын

Good stuff

@jamestateIII 3 жыл бұрын

this is the video i saw on my feed so i am messaging you here. my BIG #1 question is this : why cant women just tell a man what she wants or how to please her? thats what men with women is it not? i feel this alone would SAVE so MUCH time & energy in "trying" to meet needs and wants & figuring out if we even want to try to meet each other needs and wants. TIME is the biggest factor in LIFE & relationships

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you it does seem confusing and would save so much time and heartbreak but the reason is that women want an alpha guy basically. They want a guy who naturally embodies these behaviors. Evolutionarily speaking, that guy is a good bet. He's smart enough to understand women, get women, attract women, and know how to handle women. If she tells any guy how to do it, she won't ever find a genuine specimen...she will have given the cheat code to impostors. She will reproduce with them and her offspring won't be as fit as they could be. That's why I try to tell guys how to embody these behaviors so the girl at least realizes hey maybe this guy wasn't born knowing this but he was smart enough to figure it out via youtube and that's more than most guys can say

@jamestateIII 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife hmmm...(this is a discussion; im not trying to be argumentative) if the guy is not willing...as i said its time saved instead of Waiting and waitng and waiting for something he not gone do anyway. Same for ladies....guy says i want this and this...lady says never.....boom. Cheat code? relationships are not games, they are invaluable intangible investments with the CORRECT person. Genuine specimen....same with men......we want women not "girls". Also creating and rearing children is about teaching them how to be a human that produces in society and respects their partner. Respect i think is the key to the entire kit and kaboddle, if i the 2 people respect each other and communicate thats what will lead to what each is looking for or lead to saying...im sorry this is not for me. I think understanding the 5 love languages is very key. Your thoughts?