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CLIP DESCRIPTION:
Marty (Ernest Borgnine) tells his mother (Esther Minciotti) that he's just a fat, ugly man and will never find love.
FILM DESCRIPTION:
Paddy Chayefsky's Oscar-winning slice-of-life drama originated as a live 1953 broadcast directed by Delbert Mann on The Philco-Goodyear Television Playhouse starring Rod Steiger and Nancy Marchand. The Hecht-Lancaster movie version, also directed by Mann, replaces the two leads with Ernest Borgnine and Betsy Blair (as well as featuring several soon-to-be-familiar faces, including Jerry Paris, Frank Sutton, and Karen Steele, plus Joe Mantell, Nehemiah Persoff, and Betsy Palmer from the TV version). But it remains otherwise intact, telling of 24 very important hours in the lives of two lonely people. Marty is a bittersweet, sometimes funny, sometimes poignant, and always realistic comedy-drama about Marty Pilletti (Ernest Borgnine), a 34-year-old Bronx butcher. Approaching middle-age as a burly, somewhat overweight man who has no illusions about himself or his attractiveness to women, Marty looks forward to just one thing in life -- buying his boss's butcher shop and trying to make a success in business -- and he's even uncertain about that. A gentle, good-natured man, he lives with his mother (Esther Minciotti), a kind but emotionally smothering woman, in a too-large house and spends his time a small circle of dead-end friends (Joe Mantell, Frank Sutton). One Friday night, Marty's mother convinces him to go to the Stardust Ballroom, where he meets a plain-looking schoolteacher named Clara (Betsy Blair), whose life appears to mirror his own -- she lives with her father, and is frightened about the one prospect she has for advancement in her job. Meeting her after witnessing a humiliating rejection by her blind date, Marty acts on his best impulses and asks Clara to dance, and soon they are actually enjoying each other's company. She is as drawn to him as he is to her, but both are so uncertain about putting themselves at risk emotionally, that the evening almost ends badly when he tries to kiss her -- but they agree to go to talk on the phone and go to a movie the next night. But whatever good feelings he has about Clara are soon threatened by his friends' put-downs of her, and his mother's hostility, driven by her sudden panic that if Marty marries, she'll be left living alone. Marty spends the next day alone and never does call Clara, seemingly having decided that it's best to leave well enough alone. That is, until he takes a good long look at his life, and a listen to his friends -- and he suddenly makes the decision to try for true happiness, wherever it leads.
CREDITS:
TM & © MGM (1955)
Cast: Ernest Borgnine, Esther Minciotti
Director: Delbert Mann
Producers: Paddy Chayefsky, Harold Hecht, Burt Lancaster
Screenwriter: Paddy Chayefsky
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@Themaxxrad99
@Themaxxrad99 2 жыл бұрын
"I chased after enough girls in my life, I went to enough dances." A movie made in 1955 is more relatable to me now than any movie made in my time.
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 2 жыл бұрын
@@utunum1799 I don't think so.
@utunum1799
@utunum1799 2 жыл бұрын
@@nocturnaljoe9543 Your name is Nocturnal Joe. It's a cool name
@honkhonk5181
@honkhonk5181 Жыл бұрын
Never seen this. Does he end up going to the dance or not?
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 Жыл бұрын
​@@honkhonk5181 Yes, he goes. Watch the movie, man.
@Morra5472
@Morra5472 Жыл бұрын
@@honkhonk5181 It's a good film. The actor won an Oscar for it.
@MelancoliaI
@MelancoliaI 5 жыл бұрын
"I got hurt enough. I don't wanna get hurt no more." this is a guided missile to the heart
@varletconstundefined
@varletconstundefined 3 жыл бұрын
I thought i passed the point of being hurt. Oh man i almost cried this whole video explain my current situation
@michaelcornacchione8993
@michaelcornacchione8993 3 жыл бұрын
@@varletconstundefined Been thought it.
@phseong107
@phseong107 3 жыл бұрын
Just dump some flares
@cjrciadt
@cjrciadt 3 жыл бұрын
Not even Airwolfs Sunburst can thrwart that weapon of destruction
@BudokaiTH
@BudokaiTH 3 жыл бұрын
More like an elite sniper's scope
@MrKago1
@MrKago1 2 жыл бұрын
"There comes a point in a man's life where he's gotta face some hard facts. And the fact I gotta face is what ever women want, I ain't got it." I felt that down to the bottom of my soul. Never been able to put it in words so effectively.
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 2 жыл бұрын
How have you been, man?
@dewok2706
@dewok2706 Жыл бұрын
@@nocturnaljoe9543 He's gone, man.
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 Жыл бұрын
@@dewok2706 How de wok do you know?
@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 Жыл бұрын
Rip
@TheSeanoops
@TheSeanoops Жыл бұрын
You might not have it now, but you could.
@AdvogadoFalido
@AdvogadoFalido 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes being alone doesn't hurt as much as being rejected.
@mamaheartbasti
@mamaheartbasti 2 жыл бұрын
i feel u bro
@AdvogadoFalido
@AdvogadoFalido 2 жыл бұрын
@@mamaheartbasti but the most important thing is being happy with ourselfs, don't mind the past ou the future too much. I hope you guys are fine.
@mart1484
@mart1484 2 жыл бұрын
Still hurts but hurts less my man
@alcoholic2652
@alcoholic2652 2 жыл бұрын
"I set my standards pretty low so I'm never disappointed." - Otis B. Driftwood
@ferd1572
@ferd1572 2 жыл бұрын
@@alcoholic2652 good point
@neganOG
@neganOG Жыл бұрын
"you are not ugly" every mom says that trying to make their kids feel better about themselves but that just hurts a lot more cuz we know that ain't true
@Gigaover
@Gigaover Жыл бұрын
Facts
@Chess_Enthusiast
@Chess_Enthusiast Жыл бұрын
My mom is savage she doesn't give a damn and tell me the truth right in front of my face.
@neganOG
@neganOG Жыл бұрын
@@Chess_Enthusiast i wish my mom was that honest to me
@Chess_Enthusiast
@Chess_Enthusiast Жыл бұрын
@@neganOG I don't think you actually want that. It's brutal if you are young. Now I am 20 and have accepted my fate so telling me stuff like that is like beating a dead horse. I just cope on daily basis so I don't rope.
@Grandmaster-Kush
@Grandmaster-Kush Жыл бұрын
@@Chess_Enthusiast Same here, ugly from a beautiful family, i've been told since day 1 I was ugly and unplanned, still had hopes for some sort of love but now i'm in my mid 20's and I gave up, saving for a house in the woods so I can be alone.
@Blank85289
@Blank85289 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely hate the people that say “oh just love yourself” as if wanting just one singular person on this planet to care about you is to much to ask for.
@derrick.t4031
@derrick.t4031 2 жыл бұрын
Big agree. I hate being told that.
@searchthetruth1981
@searchthetruth1981 2 жыл бұрын
That phrase of : you just gotta love yourself is really hollow There are times in life you like yourself and. There are times i life you hate yourself....and thats just human... Not a single human being can always be in love with him /herself Thats just nonsense...
@rafaelpais970
@rafaelpais970 2 жыл бұрын
"Just love yourself" = "I don't like you so you better cope"
@centralintelligenceagency9003
@centralintelligenceagency9003 2 жыл бұрын
@@rafaelpais970 "You'll find the one, just wait." = "Shut up and go away."
@rafaelpais970
@rafaelpais970 2 жыл бұрын
@@centralintelligenceagency9003 They just mean "You better like yourself, because I'm not gonna like you".
@RickACG
@RickACG 3 жыл бұрын
Do you know what I like about this scene? How after the meltdown he quickly puts the mask back on, like most people hide their true feelings behind a fake smile
@shalariel24
@shalariel24 3 жыл бұрын
I do the same thing, day in, day out… I am fine, I am ok, it is what it is… Living in the motions, and the sad part is… You try to open up and you quickly get shut down, ignored or even betrayed, used or even manipulated… No wonder why some guys can’t take it any more and try to find the nearest and quickest exit… :-(
@Two_Wheel_Therapy
@Two_Wheel_Therapy 3 жыл бұрын
@@shalariel24 You summed it up perfectly.
@robertsullivan7080
@robertsullivan7080 3 жыл бұрын
LaMancha. One reply stated that after his outburst he puts the mask back on. I disagree. Marty fell back on a true 1st generation Italian mother. I was raised with these beautiful people in steel mill towns around Pittsburgh.On Thanksgiving the turkey went uneaten. I remember at the table Mrs. Fratangelo saying,"My sister knows nothing about turkey. It don't wanna digest! I know she wanna poison us all. Toss that bird puts the back door and get the squirrels sick. As with every year, your mama think ahead. Carmella in downstairs oven l gotta big cooker with a real food, pasta, sauce, meatballs, sausage. Get it so we eat real food. Who's idea this stupid bird". That wonderful mother of Marty oozing love, Heya Marty,why you no go to Moonglow Ballroom and dance with the pretty girls. I hear they gota some "hot tomatos there" Marty is so bowled over with his mother's attempt at using a bit of "with it" lingo his hurt melts instantly. I believe l am most pleased with Borgnine winning best actor, #2 is Broderick Crawford for "All the King's Men"
@joeyoung1973
@joeyoung1973 3 жыл бұрын
And there first worry is how others feel dont wana be the source of any pain
@psmpvshorts4600
@psmpvshorts4600 2 жыл бұрын
@@joeyoung1973 can't agree more
@smithsj227
@smithsj227 3 жыл бұрын
"Whatever women want, I don't got it"- Wow, that just...really hit home a lot more than I care to admit
@jamesfarnarkler
@jamesfarnarkler 2 жыл бұрын
I've known that about myself for years. It's not something I can control so I don't sweat about it.
@Tebony2
@Tebony2 2 жыл бұрын
So on behalf of all the good ladies, pls where are the good men cause everyone seems to be claiming they are and we can't find y'all
@Tebony2
@Tebony2 2 жыл бұрын
@@Heybigsambo to be honest I don't use all these online apps. I think they are so weird.
@tolom9258
@tolom9258 2 жыл бұрын
@@Tebony2 I'm not blaming all women but so many can be so utterly cruel to unattractive men, I've been brutally rejected and humiliated by women so often that I simply gave up going to discos and bars
@Tebony2
@Tebony2 2 жыл бұрын
@@tolom9258 oh no I'm so sorry. They will surely regret it someday because as one gets older, you realize it's not really about looks anymore. It's more about who treats you well
@Big_Steve11
@Big_Steve11 3 жыл бұрын
"I don't wanna download Tinder again Ma, I've matched with enough bots, I've been ghosted enough. I don't wanna get hurt no more"
@sledge2742
@sledge2742 3 жыл бұрын
Bro ain't this the truth, I've uninstalled and reinstalled tinder too many times
@harryh875
@harryh875 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@harryh875
@harryh875 3 жыл бұрын
@@sledge2742 damn and i though I was the only one having issues with t1nder.... Maybe cause we're just ugliii lol.... Yep we're all ugliii 😂
@sledge2742
@sledge2742 3 жыл бұрын
@@harryh875 nah man its just the way the app works, loadssss of guys swipe almost every semi decent looking girl but girls rarely swipe, so you know, unless you pay for gold youre screwed for matching
@harryh875
@harryh875 3 жыл бұрын
@@sledge2742 lol
@Oorakhhye
@Oorakhhye 3 жыл бұрын
I think the double whammy here for Marty isn’t just him being hurt...but seeing his mom also hurt from him being alone and he feels powerless to do anything about it.
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 3 жыл бұрын
Nice analysis
@amyaaron7141
@amyaaron7141 2 жыл бұрын
Empathy, which you have or you don't.
@johnsmith-fk7fw
@johnsmith-fk7fw 2 жыл бұрын
idk whether it was intended or just coincidental, but it really shows hes a loser. as you said he feels powerless, but he realizes hes fat and still there stuffing his face
@intimpulliber7376
@intimpulliber7376 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Knowing how bad it must be to have a loser son, investing so much money, resources, care and love into one child only for him to turn out a reject filled with anger and angst is so much worse and so much more painful than simply being those things. She wasted her youth, her opportunities, her everything, only to get old while seeing how miserable your son is and being helpless, having no way to help him. Thats what really kills me inside. Not the rejections and personal failures, but the failure of making my mom happy. She deserves the world, and I cant even give her the happiness of a mother seeing her son living his life well.
@derrick.t4031
@derrick.t4031 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnsmith-fk7fw "stuffing his face" he's literally just eating a normal portion of dinner. I know ya hate to hear it, but fat people gotta eat too.
@segevkrespi8609
@segevkrespi8609 Жыл бұрын
The worst part about this is not only you are unhappy because you got rejected multiple times, but you have to live with the feeling of letting your parents down
@RobertEdwinHouse9
@RobertEdwinHouse9 Жыл бұрын
They let you down by creating you
@DarkPhoenix19
@DarkPhoenix19 Жыл бұрын
@@RobertEdwinHouse9 well, you are taking the easy way out by saying it’s not your fault it’s their fault, that is stupid because you were born the way you are and in a life that god chose for you and now you have free will to do the things you want to do, my advise is stop blaming everybody but yourself because even if your parents didn’t care about you or didn’t buy you the things that you wanted eventually you might get kids so try to do what your parents couldn’t
@RobertEdwinHouse9
@RobertEdwinHouse9 Жыл бұрын
@@DarkPhoenix19 cope
@anton_c8gur
@anton_c8gur Жыл бұрын
​@@DarkPhoenix19gaslighting... some guys wont even have girl friends what more for kids
@maxmulsanne7054
@maxmulsanne7054 Жыл бұрын
Letting your parents down is becoming a career criminal, ripping off family members of money and/or valuables, or killing someone while drunk driving - not because of "failure" of obtaining relationships with people strung-out-on-stupid with their self-inflicted issues of vanity created by our materialistic society.
@ethanjensen7967
@ethanjensen7967 Жыл бұрын
There are so many men out there who have been rejected their whole life and feel worthless. And then they're blamed for society's problems.
@xt4977
@xt4977 Жыл бұрын
Well men like this are seen as disgusting and evil so it's understandable why they are blamed
@maliknova6063
@maliknova6063 Жыл бұрын
@@xt4977 How is it understandable?
@gatoloco3949
@gatoloco3949 8 ай бұрын
​@@xt4977Yeah I'm sure these short grotesque men are so dangerous to America. 😂😂😂
@RG-qc7dh
@RG-qc7dh 6 ай бұрын
What about women dude
@ethanjensen7967
@ethanjensen7967 6 ай бұрын
@@RG-qc7dh yes, women too
@patorikum
@patorikum 3 жыл бұрын
it's sad how many men these days life this scene over and over again.
@patorikum
@patorikum 3 жыл бұрын
@@harryh875 what why? those are sexdolls? why would I look them up?
@harryh875
@harryh875 3 жыл бұрын
@@patorikum trust me bro, once you see them your jaw will drop to the ground.
@thekittenfreakify
@thekittenfreakify 3 жыл бұрын
@@harryh875 those dolls look pathetic.
@harryh875
@harryh875 3 жыл бұрын
@@thekittenfreakify well if you're not on the same boat as Marty then these d0lls wouldnt obviously matter to you cause you can easily get the real thing lol. But these d0lls aren't pathetic at all, they're incredible and can k1ll the lonely feeling for ugliii mennn
@thekittenfreakify
@thekittenfreakify 3 жыл бұрын
@@harryh875 outside of the social thing. They just look horrible. They need more work.
@MrPSP-ry1qn
@MrPSP-ry1qn 2 жыл бұрын
A movie scene from 67 years ago relatable to my 20 year old self. This scene is a truly masterpiece.
@simsportif
@simsportif 2 жыл бұрын
Because what was true 67 years ago still holds true today, even more so now that the dating scene is like london after the blitz.
@CrewDrastically
@CrewDrastically Жыл бұрын
Was your name inspired by Sony PSP?
@MrPSP-ry1qn
@MrPSP-ry1qn Жыл бұрын
@@CrewDrastically actually thats first letters of my lastname and middle name combined. People call me firstname_PSP
@wierd774
@wierd774 11 ай бұрын
You’re 20 my man. Plenty of time.
@that-guy213
@that-guy213 11 ай бұрын
​@@wierd774yep plenty of time to get hurt constantly and rejected don't give a man false hope for he will run with it a come out the other side with war scars
@diegoviniciomejiaquesada4754
@diegoviniciomejiaquesada4754 2 жыл бұрын
After more than 6 decades later this scene summarices the emotional and romantic situation of many of us.
@NoBonesNoLife
@NoBonesNoLife Жыл бұрын
It’s over for many men
@HypnoChode74
@HypnoChode74 Жыл бұрын
@@NoBonesNoLifefeminism truly killed it for everyone
@RG-qc7dh
@RG-qc7dh 6 ай бұрын
​@@HypnoChode74wtf are you talking about? Feminism has nothing to do with this, I'm a woman and i relate to all of this
@1994g0
@1994g0 4 ай бұрын
@@RG-qc7dh Feminism indeed has nothing to do w this. Marty`s plight comes from a worldwide belief and practice of emphasizing physical appearance.Woe unto the person -male or female- who is ugly.A life of rejection, lonliness and humiliation awaits you.
@BigChacco
@BigChacco 12 күн бұрын
@@RG-qc7dh now me and you both know good well you don’t relate to any of this. You mean to tell me that there’s no person out there that genuinely wants to be with you and you’re just not giving him the time of day.
@resmith66
@resmith66 4 жыл бұрын
The most powerful and devastating scene in the film. Marty's words of frustration, resignation and pain tears into your soul.
@briankearsey1836
@briankearsey1836 3 жыл бұрын
This scene had a monumental impact on me when I saw it years after I lived "Lord of the Flies" in Catholic school, and my heart still breaks every time I see it. I'm not disparaging the church - my wife's experiences in government schools was worse because they didn't pretend to aspire (don't get me started on etymology - ponder that the root of aspire seems to be related to inspire, i.e. literally breath in the life force) to any higher authority other than the gov't, whereas I got to live the stark dichotomy of promoting Godly virtues while allowing the seeds of endless scenes such as this to be planted and nurtured right under the blind eyes of the nuns. I'm blessed for the dark experience that opened my spiritual eye and made me the teacher I've been in my 40+ years teaching in rebel private schools I ran that put emotional intelligence on par with (actually above) intellectual development. I shared this clip and my experience with many high school students over the decades...
@joselaw6669
@joselaw6669 3 жыл бұрын
@@briankearsey1836 You are living the life!
@jmw9904
@jmw9904 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe not in just this film, but more so than a lot of the modern day movies too.
@lepetitchat123
@lepetitchat123 2 жыл бұрын
What gets me about this film is how selfish the people around marty are. They only think of themselves, never what makes Marty happy.
@raidenjack_tr8789
@raidenjack_tr8789 Жыл бұрын
Every men and males that are already been through it also feel the same
@dsztiger3158
@dsztiger3158 Жыл бұрын
At 34 with no relationship ever I resonate Marty's feeling. Tried to put my heart out with pure intentions to every girl i spoke or went on date, but only ended up hurting myself. Some girl's don't reply, some only want to chat, some will never meet and those who meet will never want to meet again . I guess some guys like us have to accept that starting a relationship, family are not for us . Sooner we accept this , we can save our self from more humiliation and pain. I hope all guys like Marty out there who are seeking their companion, may they find peace and purpose in their life's.
@japanesesamurai4945
@japanesesamurai4945 Жыл бұрын
The thing is that i can accept it, but deep inside i will never be able to get rid of the need to be loved
@RiruKrypto_
@RiruKrypto_ Жыл бұрын
@@japanesesamurai4945 pets might cure that but you gotta take care of it.
@bornanime3255
@bornanime3255 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the heads up man. Was thinking of giving up on relationships too. Still young right now, but always did know it's a life I wasn't meant to have. At the very least I want to embrace that fact. It's tough.
@nin5057
@nin5057 Жыл бұрын
You only think about this scene but have you seen the end of the movie
@JamesGalaxy41
@JamesGalaxy41 Жыл бұрын
​@@RiruKrypto_ yeah exactly! So what if I never have a partner? I can always have a companion
@bighuge1060
@bighuge1060 Жыл бұрын
I love Marty patting his mother's wrist to let her know he appreciated her.
@lordtrill7731
@lordtrill7731 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, To show her he felt bad about raising his voice
@RejectedSpiritX
@RejectedSpiritX 3 ай бұрын
@@lordtrill7731I like how she also remained calm and nonjudgmental because she understood just how much of it he’s heard and what his experience is like. The people in the film make him feel like a failure for not getting married at 35, while no woman was interested in him simultaneously. It’s sad when everyone makes you feel like a failure and treats you like one.
@susanb2015
@susanb2015 5 жыл бұрын
This scene was the screen test. After the scene the men there were crying and he knew he got the part.
@coalblack666
@coalblack666 5 жыл бұрын
Susan B just saw that interview! That’s what brought me here!
@steveconkey7362
@steveconkey7362 4 жыл бұрын
He came from the set of Bad Day at Black Rock to read it in a hotel room.
@susanb2015
@susanb2015 4 жыл бұрын
@@steveconkey7362 I just saw the interview where he said Spencer Tracy told him he'd get the part and he did and he also beat him at the Oscars.
@ferskay
@ferskay 4 жыл бұрын
Is that actually true?
@susanb2015
@susanb2015 4 жыл бұрын
@@ferskay Yes. But this is a scene from the movie and not the screen test. I heard everything from Ernest Borgnine (Marty) interviews.
@InsideUCLA71
@InsideUCLA71 7 жыл бұрын
The way he tears away after saying "a big night of heartache" is one of my favorite things an actor has ever done on film. You can't teach that.
@virginiaclark2476
@virginiaclark2476 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. And I thought only women felt that way- still single women
@johnmilius3031
@johnmilius3031 3 жыл бұрын
@@virginiaclark2476 Are you kidding? Women never suffer loneliness like men do. Nobody cares about men, not even other men.
@danyyilbun6736
@danyyilbun6736 3 жыл бұрын
@@virginiaclark2476 interesting, you get this feeling? I always wondered, but kinda harsh, I mean most girls are somewhat attractive, like guys would be interested in relationships with them maybe, while many guys don't have that choice
@destructivebean1
@destructivebean1 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnmilius3031 our generation is changing that. Always check up on your boys
@rafaelpais970
@rafaelpais970 2 жыл бұрын
@@virginiaclark2476 POV: You have 0 social awareness.
@JamieStallingsworth
@JamieStallingsworth 8 жыл бұрын
what a great actor he was.
@sublimeaudio
@sublimeaudio 7 жыл бұрын
and person too.
@fodsaks
@fodsaks 4 жыл бұрын
He was truly brilliant.
@elderkime
@elderkime 2 ай бұрын
Nice profile pic
@stevenbeoethy4049
@stevenbeoethy4049 Ай бұрын
Won him an Oscar!
@ulysses4989
@ulysses4989 3 жыл бұрын
*Whatever it is that women like, I ain't got it.*
@lorgaraurelian4076
@lorgaraurelian4076 3 жыл бұрын
WiitwLiagi
@enriquearellano3643
@enriquearellano3643 3 жыл бұрын
Chad genes.
@Diz2Drippy
@Diz2Drippy 3 жыл бұрын
Felt that on a spiritual level
@Jonathan-dg6ey
@Jonathan-dg6ey 3 жыл бұрын
@@enriquearellano3643 Yup
@alanrogs3990
@alanrogs3990 3 жыл бұрын
Fact
@TheDarkGraven
@TheDarkGraven 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has tried time and time again to find a girl, to put my heart out there only to have it stomped, crushed, or tossed aside, this resonates with me. People ask me why I am still single... I don't wanna be, I want someone to share everything that brings me joy, I want someone to love and to hold through those long nights. But life isn't like the movies, its not like the books, its a cold miserable place and we don't get what we want. We never find the one true love, we deal with heart break over and over again till we grow so sick of it we either settle with someone we don't love or we just stop trying. All we can do is keep it together and cling to the few social connections that keep us from ending it all.
@ghostfacedude93
@ghostfacedude93 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. I hate life
@idunno1471
@idunno1471 2 жыл бұрын
Looks are everything
@darksider2903
@darksider2903 2 жыл бұрын
@@idunno1471 nope. Money and power is everything. With these, everything is available
@idunno1471
@idunno1471 2 жыл бұрын
@@darksider2903 yes you'll get fake love from women. Or if you had a decent base you could use surgery to make urself gl
@darksider2903
@darksider2903 2 жыл бұрын
@@idunno1471 women loves you as long as you can provide enough. In the end all comes down to Money and wealth. You shouldn't expect true love from any women. Only a mom loves her son, nowadays that too getting ruined by so called feminism
@Charon58
@Charon58 3 жыл бұрын
When he read for the role, this was the scene they had him read. He said later that he knew he had the part when he looked up after reading it and director Delbert Mann had tears in his eyes.
@innitmate6574
@innitmate6574 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, do you have a link of the audition video, i really want to see that, thanks
@TheSaintRevolver
@TheSaintRevolver 3 жыл бұрын
Also after they stopped their tears everyone clapped
@jasongarcia8893
@jasongarcia8893 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheSaintRevolver i mean the story is true
@anthonymead4359
@anthonymead4359 Жыл бұрын
I'm not surprised. Watch bad day at black rock and you see his massive potential coming to the boil. Marty was perfect timing!
@sni18per
@sni18per Жыл бұрын
whats even more emotional than his heartbreaking internal struggle, is the fact that even when he is sad and angry about his situation, he still made sure not to storm out or yell att his mom to make her upset or sad. instead he sits down, despite all the pain he is going through, claps his moms hand to show compassion and proceeds to eat his dinner while making a joke to lighten up the mood. what a chad
@Loewemon25
@Loewemon25 Жыл бұрын
It all built up and the pressure valve release and once he could he slammed that mask back in place. I know the technique well. No one teaches it but every man knows it to some extent
@CarlosEmilioEsq
@CarlosEmilioEsq 3 жыл бұрын
Two and a half minutes of genius. Marty getting a kick out of his mother suggesting, or even knowing about the Stardust Ballroom. Then nonchalantly confessing to her that he's accepted that he'll always be a bachelor. After she persists, confessing out loud all of the years of hurt and rejection he's already endured in silence. To finally losing his temper and revealing to her his insecurities and his "heartache." After bearing his soul, I love how he taps his mother's arm as if to apologize for having yelled at her, or having shared his burden with her. Comforting her even though he's the one in pain. And chuckling again about the Stardust Ballroom being loaded with tomatoes. After that emotional roller coaster, he puts on his blue suit and does what his mother says and goes out dancing.
@kidkieran77
@kidkieran77 2 жыл бұрын
So much in just 2 and a half minutes. It captures what life is like as a self-aware average/below average dude. Not just when it comes to dating but so many other aspects too
@29subhra
@29subhra 2 жыл бұрын
A mother's love for her son is unreasonable
@giovannicosaro9456
@giovannicosaro9456 Жыл бұрын
A lot of guys feel like that
@westy229
@westy229 Жыл бұрын
It's lucky to even have a mother have so much faith in an ugly bug of a son. They're either wrapped up in so much delusion to not see what the rest of the world sees or genuinely love something unlovable and just wish that thing shared the same love of life. Not Marty of course just felt this scene was too real and related to it.
@Josh-fp2qn
@Josh-fp2qn 11 ай бұрын
Great now I don’t have to watch the film clip.
@TheAmmarp41
@TheAmmarp41 9 ай бұрын
29 year old male here never been in real relationship despite having a stable job,ok personality and not so bad physically when he says"Whatever women likes I ain't got it"i felt those lines.
@cbacigaluppi
@cbacigaluppi 3 ай бұрын
That hopelessness of not knowing what the problem is, is rough.
@ramansingh7949
@ramansingh7949 3 жыл бұрын
Life of a man is a real hell in this world if you are poor or middle class there is no love. I'm an orphan spend more than 25years alone and at 26 started feeling alone so i thought i should share my problems with a girl i did and she laughed on me and said you should learn to love yourself and learn how to live alone
@4ka07_muhammadrizky
@4ka07_muhammadrizky 3 жыл бұрын
Omg dude i'm really sorry for you
@name-jl6kt
@name-jl6kt 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you're doing good my man
@kingdoge69
@kingdoge69 3 жыл бұрын
“Women love vulnerable men” “Women want to listen to men’s problems” nothing but lies, sorry that happened to you bro
@lawrencer908
@lawrencer908 3 жыл бұрын
Im getting that too
@ShimaTheCatto
@ShimaTheCatto 2 жыл бұрын
I mean she isn't wrong.. U don't want to be the only one vulnerable in a relationship. Learn to love yourself and try again I am sure u will succeed
@stiv.2809
@stiv.2809 Жыл бұрын
“Whatever women want, I don’t got it.” Me too brother. Me too.
@TheFockerizer
@TheFockerizer Жыл бұрын
The thing is , women don't know what they want So it's best to ignore them
@Grandmaster-Kush
@Grandmaster-Kush Жыл бұрын
Attractive face, that's the one.
@spinx5943
@spinx5943 10 ай бұрын
@@TheFockerizer they want good face and height, its not rocketsience
@cbacigaluppi
@cbacigaluppi 3 ай бұрын
​@@spinx5943they don't all want the same. Tons of women out there marrying short guys. Women out there marrying guys you look at & think, "how did he get her". Women out there with poor guys. Which is why the line, "whatever women want, I don't got it", hits so hard to some of us.
@LPMAN02
@LPMAN02 Жыл бұрын
RIP Esther Minciotti (May 20, 1888 - April 15, 1962), aged 73 And RIP Ernest Borgnine (January 24, 1917 - July 8, 2012), aged 95 You both will be remembered as legends.
@goPistons06
@goPistons06 2 жыл бұрын
Just one of the great things about this fantastic little scene: it's not just that Marty is alone, and that he's been rejected. It's that he feels unloveable, it's more than the difficulties he encounters, it's the deep frustration and despair.
@spoolyboi9434
@spoolyboi9434 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate I've been single 3 years and not that I haven't tried but I get no attention from women and have resorted to online dating I have no idea where else to look for single women I don't do clubs or parties nor bars I work and come home, not that good looking short, a little round in the mid section and get no love from women
@goPistons06
@goPistons06 2 жыл бұрын
@@spoolyboi9434 it's tough, i guess you gotta have patience and be a bit creative. That's what i'm trying right now
@thebull004
@thebull004 Жыл бұрын
​@@goPistons06 patience is worthless.Every year becomes harder for a man.If u can't get a gf now u probably won't be able to get when u'll start to bald and to lose ur youth.
@goPistons06
@goPistons06 Жыл бұрын
@@thebull004 screw that. that's just the sort of attitude that holds you back.
@nathanchilton8917
@nathanchilton8917 Жыл бұрын
@@goPistons06 i call it being realistic. you can have hope but it's gotta be in line with reality. otherwise, it's just delusion.
@justcallmechris3987
@justcallmechris3987 10 ай бұрын
Never did I think I would be relating to a 1955 movie so much in 2023
@Limerick502
@Limerick502 6 жыл бұрын
There is no way Marty could ever be ugly. God bless you Ernest Borgnine, you were one of my favorite actors ever.
@m.e.d.7997
@m.e.d.7997 6 жыл бұрын
Ernest Borgnine really wasn't and neither was Betsy Blair.
@deensaid7762
@deensaid7762 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately though, Marty predicted the rising of virgins and forever aloners in today's world. And the rising of mental illnesses among the men.
@taketheblackpillneo3940
@taketheblackpillneo3940 2 жыл бұрын
@@deensaid7762 its over, rope or cope!
@ezraelreynolds3442
@ezraelreynolds3442 2 жыл бұрын
@@taketheblackpillneo3940 never began
@orlandojohnson3039
@orlandojohnson3039 2 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@lightmage2968
@lightmage2968 9 ай бұрын
I keep coming back to this video... only time I ever feel like someone really understands me.... it hurts, it hurts so damn much
@ashiqahamed7740
@ashiqahamed7740 9 ай бұрын
Yup same feeling
@em23
@em23 7 ай бұрын
I wish you well. I know this feeling.
@andrewmartinez9613
@andrewmartinez9613 2 ай бұрын
The whole comment section is able to understand each other in this video your not alone
@EliHank
@EliHank Жыл бұрын
One of the most Black Pilled videos i've ever seen and it's from 1955...wow. I feel you Marty....I really do. Never began for people like us
@DarknetDude
@DarknetDude Жыл бұрын
It’s kind of amazing that this phenomenon always existed.
@Josh-fp2qn
@Josh-fp2qn 11 ай бұрын
Yeah, but it has only gotten worse for the average man.
@segevkrespi8609
@segevkrespi8609 Жыл бұрын
Every line his monologue was like a knife to the heart
@dryde1509
@dryde1509 Жыл бұрын
Sadly I can relate to this. Im in my mid 20s and each time I express myself and tell a woman how I feel about her I get the short end of the stick. I was taught my whole life to treat women well, be respectful, responsible, considerate, and emotionally available. All I've wanted was a mature-minded woman that I can love but it never seems to work out and it really makes you feel like you're not good enough even though you know how much you have to offer as a person. I'm just at a point where I'm completely locked in on my goals and I'm learning to love my own company because every time I pour my heart out and show a woman that I care for her I end up hurt.
@dreykenv2163
@dreykenv2163 Жыл бұрын
being kind and honest gets you nowhere these days , everyone will say you're a good person but no one will respect you and no one will care but you know its how we humans are, and i will continue to be what i am .
@Rohit.Gaikwad
@Rohit.Gaikwad Жыл бұрын
Introverted ?
@onekill31
@onekill31 Жыл бұрын
Having a good intention these days will make you look more suspicious to people. I gave up being kind to everyone and only cherish those who really know your worth.
@dickonmanwoody7599
@dickonmanwoody7599 Жыл бұрын
You were lied to. Your entire life people lied to you about what women like/respect. I'm sorry. It happens to all of us.
@massimoforesti
@massimoforesti Жыл бұрын
You basically described me. The one difference is that I fear the day that the girls I wanted come back begging for a chance.
@BruceJC75
@BruceJC75 5 жыл бұрын
You rarely see this quality of acting anymore. It’s so real and completely relatable! This movie is a real encouragement, and I think it gives lonely hearts a reason for hope.
@edgregory1
@edgregory1 4 жыл бұрын
"Hope can drive a man insane; its got no place in here" (Shawshank)
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 3 жыл бұрын
Well said when you watch older movies like this, you know these actors weren’t in it for just the fame but were in it for the art
@moonage_
@moonage_ 2 жыл бұрын
There are so many films that feature actors who have acting skills as good as this. Stop generalizing things. Go look for good, modern films.
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 2 жыл бұрын
@@moonage_ Perhaps art house films but not mainstream. care to give me some recommendations.
@aniym21000
@aniym21000 2 жыл бұрын
​@@AndreNitroX yep, now most movies are dudes getting $20m to put on a mask and cape and claiming that they're just telling 'human stories in a fantasy world' lmao
@johnnyatmosphere3460
@johnnyatmosphere3460 Жыл бұрын
This is literally me explaining to my mother why I’m still single. Seeing this really broke my heart because it was just a reflection of what my life looks like.
@myleswooten1188
@myleswooten1188 Жыл бұрын
Those weren’t just some lines on a script he had to memorize… Those came from a real place somewhere deep down inside his heart.
@jonnyteutonic5290
@jonnyteutonic5290 2 жыл бұрын
I've watched this scene so many times it never stops hitting me. "I'm miserable enough as it is." And "You'll know what I'll get for my trouble? Heartache. A big night of heartache." Props to this actor. He crushed it during a time when film was only for the brave.
@sephiroth900000
@sephiroth900000 6 жыл бұрын
Dating is a joke. It's only exclusive to people who were dealt a good hand in life.
@m.e.d.7997
@m.e.d.7997 6 жыл бұрын
I think the pressure back in the day was intense on them back in the fifties and before even into the sixties.
@johnmac91
@johnmac91 5 жыл бұрын
I think you're right. My parents got married in 1955, the same year this movie was made, and I remember her telling me how they were considered "old" when they got married. She was 25 and he was 29.
@lukebruce5234
@lukebruce5234 3 жыл бұрын
Correction. To all women and men who were dealt a good hand in life.
@5thdawg917
@5thdawg917 3 жыл бұрын
And financially well off. These days being broke and coming form a different social class plays a massive part.
@kentuckyfriedchildren5385
@kentuckyfriedchildren5385 3 жыл бұрын
You sound bitter
@chainsawpanda2
@chainsawpanda2 Жыл бұрын
My mother once told me the worst a girl could ever say to me was "no". The first time I really tried to ask a girl out all I got was "ew, gross don't talk to me". Made me feel like less than nothing. To this day I can't bring myself to try anymore. Yknow I got called handsome by only one person in my life who wasn't my mom. She was my auntie. Only thing I got is my singing voice, but it's not even that good. Stay strong brothers, we gotta support eachother out there cuz no one else will.
@DarknetDude
@DarknetDude Жыл бұрын
All we really have is ourselves and each other. And don't let society gaslight you either.
@corsaircarl9582
@corsaircarl9582 Жыл бұрын
Had one tell me she'd rather walk into traffic.
@thatonedude6247
@thatonedude6247 Жыл бұрын
Never been rejected, never tried people already told me im very ugly and they are right. I rather be alone than the joke of someone else
@DarknetDude
@DarknetDude Жыл бұрын
@@thatonedude6247 Respectable.
@luaiderar6600
@luaiderar6600 Жыл бұрын
@@thatonedude6247 Same, I didn't even bother because I was called ugly and get made fun of in public, not some whispers, people loud and proud proclaiming my hideous face. Guess I'm just going to studymaxx
@Gangstalker88
@Gangstalker88 8 ай бұрын
Marty is a bit of all of us. Im saying this as a 30 yr old who lives with his mom
@LetTheWestBurn
@LetTheWestBurn 8 ай бұрын
Same
@SaundersE5
@SaundersE5 8 ай бұрын
@@LetTheWestBurnstop that, there’s a nice girl got you
@mrariffunny1111
@mrariffunny1111 8 ай бұрын
Same
@EliHank
@EliHank 7 ай бұрын
I'll be 30 on the 2nd of February and I'm in the same boat as you brother. Never had a girlfriend and never will.
@LetTheWestBurn
@LetTheWestBurn 7 ай бұрын
@@EliHank we have to stick together were the only ones who understand each other
@KilroyWasHere83
@KilroyWasHere83 4 ай бұрын
Every man watching this clip knows exactly what this feels like. We feel every word of this deep in our soul
@Sameoldfitup
@Sameoldfitup 3 жыл бұрын
"You can only avoid regret by switching off your imagination."
@BilingualPorcupine
@BilingualPorcupine 3 ай бұрын
I hate how much I relate to this. Hope anyone else who is here in a similar fashion find their happiness. Much love
@davitofarito
@davitofarito 3 жыл бұрын
His Mom was just trying to help like mine was circa 1995 when I was 40 and she hounded and pestered me to try a dating service. After a series of failed first dates that reminded me why I gave up trying, she said "I'm sorry...I wanted to help, but I can see I've made you even sadder".
@ytbasketball101
@ytbasketball101 3 жыл бұрын
That hurts to read man I hope that you have lived a fulfilling life regardless.
@Hyrule409
@Hyrule409 2 жыл бұрын
The big thing is that your mom tried. Even if it was a failed attempt, please be big enough of a man to recognize that it was a genuine attempt.
@Toxic2T
@Toxic2T 2 жыл бұрын
My mother just understood that, I'm 27. I gave up since monogamy is dead, I don't have problem picking up women, the problem is avoiding getting c*cked.
@centralintelligenceagency9003
@centralintelligenceagency9003 2 жыл бұрын
@@Hyrule409 The road to Hell is paved in good intentions.
@blackpilledchad1927
@blackpilledchad1927 Жыл бұрын
@@ytbasketball101 How can you kive a fulfilling life without getting b*tches? Of course, he's been coping his way until the reaper comes to collect
@ianmorrisonmovienutcase5713
@ianmorrisonmovienutcase5713 Жыл бұрын
This is me. After being rejected too many times and never being given a chance to prove myself, I don’t even wanna try anymore.
@anderson-gb8rp
@anderson-gb8rp Жыл бұрын
Same, Im trucel.
@Votanw
@Votanw Жыл бұрын
Brutal
@matthewvaneyk4713
@matthewvaneyk4713 Жыл бұрын
You know Marty ends up with a girl in the end right?
@ianmorrisonmovienutcase5713
@ianmorrisonmovienutcase5713 Жыл бұрын
@@matthewvaneyk4713 I do. But it’s a movie. You can write a happy ending in a movie. Doesn’t always work out that way in real life.
@matthewvaneyk4713
@matthewvaneyk4713 Жыл бұрын
Doesn’t always, but giving up makes it a certainty.
@BumGodinez
@BumGodinez 3 жыл бұрын
29 years later and this is still me one day ill just end it. One day then maybe I can stop being sad.
@yanisamirat630
@yanisamirat630 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t say that my friend, try to do things that make you happy, exercice and try to be a better person everyday, don’t focus on having a relation but focus on loving yourself and maybe one day that special someone will see how amazing you are!
@innitmate6574
@innitmate6574 3 жыл бұрын
I met my current wife when I was 24 and before that I felt exactly like Marty and was about to give up for good. I cannot guarantee you that you will definitely meet someone in the future but just remember that there`s ALWAYS hope as long as you live.
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 3 жыл бұрын
There is always hope
@taketheblackpillneo3940
@taketheblackpillneo3940 2 жыл бұрын
ill see u on the other side bruv.
@RomanianBoyz
@RomanianBoyz 2 жыл бұрын
We all hit our breaking points eventually. Hope the process is as smooth as can be for you. Best of luck with whatever you do.
@corsaircarl9582
@corsaircarl9582 3 жыл бұрын
And someone says this these days they get made fun of...
@luisvelasquezjr
@luisvelasquezjr 3 жыл бұрын
Probably. But I guarantee you they will still relate on the inside. Either you're experiencing this, have experienced it, or are one of the lucky few to never have and never will
@luckylosergames
@luckylosergames 3 жыл бұрын
Because people are insecure
@fauberkaupfmann982
@fauberkaupfmann982 3 жыл бұрын
@@luckylosergames dont dismiss this as insecurity, thats too naive. this is plain old bitterness and malicious intent of people who do this crap, and they should be vilified for it. saying its insecurity undermines the problem as something casual, but in my personal opinion its not. these people already have too much on their backs to be treated like this. imagine not a single girl ever showed sexual interest in you your life, how would you feel? pretty bad, i suppose.
@luckylosergames
@luckylosergames 3 жыл бұрын
@@fauberkaupfmann982 I'm ace bruv
@fauberkaupfmann982
@fauberkaupfmann982 3 жыл бұрын
@@luckylosergames wdym?
@jones848
@jones848 2 жыл бұрын
This literally incapsulates any man who struggles at dating, get laid, etc. Pure honesty
@InsideUCLA71
@InsideUCLA71 7 жыл бұрын
I think we've all been there, each and every one of us.
@drowningsinking8300
@drowningsinking8300 6 жыл бұрын
I'm afraid some of us will stay there, forever.
@GreenMorningDragonProductions
@GreenMorningDragonProductions 6 жыл бұрын
Nope. I've never been to the Stardust Ballroom.
@GreenMorningDragonProductions
@GreenMorningDragonProductions 6 жыл бұрын
Drowning Sinking If you think you may be a modern day Marty, may I give you some polite advice. Always speak to people you like with warmth, and genuine interest, but not too much intensity, and don't dwell on it or take it personally, if they are not interested. You only need to score, once.
@haxxll._
@haxxll._ 6 жыл бұрын
Marty isn't a ugly man
@1994g0
@1994g0 5 жыл бұрын
Magnificent scene ...passion, honesty and invoking the deepest feelings.Hard not to cry over this scene.
@zairman
@zairman 3 жыл бұрын
Yep. He speaks truth, and it's exactly how I feel.
@donaldsmith9642
@donaldsmith9642 3 ай бұрын
If any mothers or grandmas or any other type of guardian reads this, when your kid says " im ugly " dont reply with " no your handsome/cute " or whatever because trust me you kids knows because they interact with people their age every day at school and can see how other people treat them.
@HenryGarcia-oq6sl
@HenryGarcia-oq6sl 5 жыл бұрын
Real life, real pain, even on a Saturday Night
@elliotchandler3872
@elliotchandler3872 3 жыл бұрын
This movie is very hard for me to watch. I am a 40 year old Marty. I have been suffered for too long wondering when my life will change.
@ShaneM321
@ShaneM321 3 жыл бұрын
Life change when you do m8.
@zairman
@zairman 3 жыл бұрын
@@ShaneM321 Sometimes people just are who they are. There is no changing.
@cristi-luciansarban470
@cristi-luciansarban470 3 жыл бұрын
@@ShaneM321 Change for what? You just lie to yourself... Some of us are just meant to be alone. It sucks but it is what it is. Nothing matters anyway...
@ShaneM321
@ShaneM321 3 жыл бұрын
@@cristi-luciansarban470 nice defeatist attitude you have there :)
@HDbacon
@HDbacon 3 жыл бұрын
I'm turning 31 and feel the same...why does everyone think everyone gets to "win". Just because you are brought up to think and get treated where everyone wins...doesn't mean that's how life plays out for everyone.
@isfakiqbal4927
@isfakiqbal4927 3 ай бұрын
I guess some of us are destined to be lonely forever.
@memesday4605
@memesday4605 2 ай бұрын
Correct brother we are indeed
@DEVILFISH1122
@DEVILFISH1122 Ай бұрын
Hard to believe he only got 5000 for this movie, he said he’d have done it for nothing, it was his first staring role
@ricardomilos3464
@ricardomilos3464 Жыл бұрын
Just the average guy in 2022.
@Josh-fp2qn
@Josh-fp2qn 3 ай бұрын
I’m 36 years old and not a bad looking guy but never had a girlfriend. I am too shy to even try flirting with an attractive woman. I pretty much go to work and then come home and hang around the house that I grew up in. My parents never once questioned why I don’t find a girlfriend or get married. They seem content with the fact that I am a loser.
@Themeximonkey
@Themeximonkey 3 ай бұрын
30 years here wasting my money on Russian escorts after being rejected thousands of times, I’m just waiting for death and hoping on my next life to never come back to this shithole earth
@thatoneguy3883
@thatoneguy3883 6 ай бұрын
For my short years on this earth I haven't seen a scene that hit so close to home. I'm almost 22 and I have never dated a girl. I've been single for so long that the idea of being in a relationship is completely alien to me and I can't for the life of me picture myself being romantically involved with a girl. I look at those around me and they seem to (for the most part) find someone who matches themselves in more ways than one but for me, nothing clicks.
@richardy2071
@richardy2071 5 ай бұрын
Gentlemen, you are both young. Stop looking for women. Worry about yourself until you hit 30 and then by that point women will be coming to you if you make yourself into a successful man
@thatoneguy3883
@thatoneguy3883 5 ай бұрын
@@richardy2071 Don't worry I haven't been looking for anything from any woman.
@aminm7714
@aminm7714 5 ай бұрын
@@richardy2071cope , feeling validated is one of the most important things in life . Nature is juste brutal .
@ace_2k3
@ace_2k3 Жыл бұрын
Who else gets teary eyed watching this ? 😭
@anderson-gb8rp
@anderson-gb8rp Жыл бұрын
85% of men.
@luisangeldiaz3637
@luisangeldiaz3637 Жыл бұрын
Definitely me
@tweed0929
@tweed0929 7 ай бұрын
Hits like a hammer.
@torezgermy2
@torezgermy2 2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I never go out except for groceries, work and school. I've never been good with women and I'm just now starting to accept this fact and yeah, I've had this same conversation with my mom.
@spoolyboi9434
@spoolyboi9434 2 жыл бұрын
Same here I just work and go home, occasionally visit family but thats it, I got a dog and it helped some but not the same as a person
@torezgermy2
@torezgermy2 2 жыл бұрын
@@spoolyboi9434 I wish I could tell you it gets better but just know there are others out there like you.
@spoolyboi9434
@spoolyboi9434 2 жыл бұрын
@@torezgermy2 can only hope that one day it will but slowly losing faith in that belief and slowly becoming ok with that
@torezgermy2
@torezgermy2 2 жыл бұрын
@@spoolyboi9434 I've pretty much accepted that this is my fate. I have one friend who is the opposite of me when it comes to women. I seriously wonder why he's even still my friend. He has tried to link me up with several girls and they pretty much all curved me. He keeps telling me to hang in there but I know he has no hope for me either and is only saying that because we're friends.
@spoolyboi9434
@spoolyboi9434 2 жыл бұрын
@@torezgermy2 kinda the same here I have friends that have no issues getting women or are married then there's me 😅, like the video says whatever women are looking for I don't have
@strahinja9760
@strahinja9760 3 жыл бұрын
,,Girls made me feel like a was a bug"
@quisqueyanguy120
@quisqueyanguy120 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate.
@centralintelligenceagency9003
@centralintelligenceagency9003 2 жыл бұрын
It's that look. That mix of disgust, shock, pity and annoyance the second you address them.
@phamhuuphuoc275
@phamhuuphuoc275 3 ай бұрын
Even though it's just a movie but the moment he stood up and shouted really showed that he's in deep pain. Never in my lifetime that I've ever resonated with that feeling that much, I'm actually going through a break up right now even though it's been a year already but I don't think I'll ever be able to get over that.
@astrobricks3220
@astrobricks3220 3 жыл бұрын
This scene just hits different.
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 3 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@TheBeast-ub9jo
@TheBeast-ub9jo 2 жыл бұрын
I am Marty now. He’s right, you think getting rejected gets easier, it does when a really good looking woman does it because you’re expecting it but when it’s no one special, that cuts deep. But like always, I switch off and put on a mask like it’s no big deal and move on by talking about something else when my brain is going 100mph trying to figure out why, while acting like it no big deal being rejected.
@kingdoge69
@kingdoge69 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, no big deal when you know the rejection is 99% likely because the woman is very attractive, but when a woman is around your level of attraction or lower and rejects or ghosts you, it just kills your soul
@RileyWuzzHere
@RileyWuzzHere 2 жыл бұрын
“Whatever it is girls like, I AINT GOT IT.”🎯🎯🎯
@jacobpark5541
@jacobpark5541 29 күн бұрын
Most relatable thing known to every single man who has ever existed, currently exists, or will exist
@ponternal
@ponternal 3 жыл бұрын
Reminder that dudes have 4 girls on rotation while dudes like Marty rot
@divulgewithchip1099
@divulgewithchip1099 2 жыл бұрын
Rot 😂
@JL-yq9xn
@JL-yq9xn 2 жыл бұрын
The plan: Suffering
@diegofung95
@diegofung95 2 жыл бұрын
You mean Chads and giga Chads have 4 girls on rotation (at least)
@nuclearpugg
@nuclearpugg 2 жыл бұрын
Saint Blackops2cel will save me I'm not worried
@iamnotoforiginald9206
@iamnotoforiginald9206 2 жыл бұрын
@@nuclearpugg PBUH
@n00b2004
@n00b2004 2 жыл бұрын
Being rejected, friendzone, told I only like you as a friend, there no point in trying any more. I just don’t have what girls want or liked.
@rubixcube3772
@rubixcube3772 2 жыл бұрын
You don’t have the chiseled bone development on your face that women are attracted to. And it’s not ur fault
@hygytyhu9729
@hygytyhu9729 2 жыл бұрын
Soy face. It’s ovER
@imorccUO
@imorccUO 2 жыл бұрын
They like a lot vapid bullshit. Don't sweat them.
@cbacigaluppi
@cbacigaluppi 3 ай бұрын
I think the line, "whatever it is women want, I dont got", hits so hard, because we see all kinds of different guys, with women. Rich guys, poor guys, handsome guys, ugly guys, tall, short, fat, skinny, muscular, all in a relationship. Then there are the guys who for some reason, there's just something not there, and not knowing what it is, so we can fix it. Man, that's what hurts. A lotta guys will say they're a good guy, but can't find love. Some of those guys are delusional, or lying, because they're not good guys. But theres the ones that genuinely are, & get grouped in with the liars & cheats, & whatnot. Oddly enough, that reminds me of the movie, "Can't Hardly Wait". Where Jennifer Love Hewitt's character is dumped by her high school sweetheart on graduation. So all these guys come at her in the most disrespectful ways. Meanwhile, Ethan Embry's character, is just trying to give her a heartfelt note, & she embarresses him by giving him the riot act, in front of everyone, because she assumes hes just another POS guy trying to get in her pants.
@reallydarlings-se2xf
@reallydarlings-se2xf 11 ай бұрын
Poor Marty. Such a sweet and well-meaning man. It turns out all right for him in the end, thank goodness, but so heartbreaking to watch. Every time.
@kirkmcclean9686
@kirkmcclean9686 2 жыл бұрын
You get accustomed to being alone and the hurt of rejection is 1000 times worse than being alone.
@kmatthews1867
@kmatthews1867 6 жыл бұрын
Loaded with tomatoes 😂😂😂 it’s cute how his mom is speaking the slang of the day
@eddyspagetti9899
@eddyspagetti9899 6 жыл бұрын
she's just repeating what her nephew told her a scene or 2 prior
@rangers199487
@rangers199487 8 жыл бұрын
Truly phenomenal film.
@ernestleong476
@ernestleong476 4 жыл бұрын
I watch a scene like this, and then I think about some villainous parts Borgnine played and I'm just blown away by his acting ability. Really a great actor (and a great performance here).
@gerryyaum
@gerryyaum 5 жыл бұрын
What a performance, no wonder he won the Oscar. Will rent and watch this movie next week.
@panzerken
@panzerken 9 жыл бұрын
Great scene.I tear up every time.
@TomJupiter
@TomJupiter 2 жыл бұрын
This just hurts too much. It hurts so much wondering whats wrong with you, whats missing from you, whats preventing you from getting that person you like.
@aminm7714
@aminm7714 5 ай бұрын
You’re not good looking like Chad .
@siruristtheturtle1289
@siruristtheturtle1289 3 ай бұрын
Outside dating, this is the part that hits the hardest... You always wonder what exactly went wrong with you, what's that broken part that prevents you from being normal.
@user-bn7sc8eo5p
@user-bn7sc8eo5p 5 ай бұрын
the only difference is in real life, its not just cause you been chasing the wrong girls. in real life, you don't suddenly magically find someone that actually wants you. You die alone. Either accepting it, and embracing your own pursuits or not and till the bitter end being desperate for companionship you'll never have. I accepted it.
@dandcc9192
@dandcc9192 3 жыл бұрын
This is such an honest and introspective scene from the 1950s. One would think everyone from that era were lady's man.
@lesjones7729
@lesjones7729 Жыл бұрын
Then I'll die without a son. If anything I'd be doing him a favor to keep him from looking like me and feeling the pain I feel.
@kamartaj3010
@kamartaj3010 Жыл бұрын
I wont be making babies even if i get married. I dont want to make him suffer the same things i did
@retroverdrive
@retroverdrive 6 ай бұрын
01:03: "I figured I was past the point of being hurt" hits far harder than it should.
@devildogus2187
@devildogus2187 8 ай бұрын
“Girls made me feel like I was a bug!” Story of my life 😢
@STOMPaaa
@STOMPaaa 3 жыл бұрын
It's crazy how long ago this movie was and it's still relatable as hell.
@antsygorilla2835
@antsygorilla2835 Жыл бұрын
i go watch this everyday before i go to bed. I'm at the point in my life that I've tried so many times that I've given up. if i die in my sleep alone I'm strangely alright with it.
@japanesesamurai4945
@japanesesamurai4945 Жыл бұрын
You are not alright with it, you just make yourself belive that you are alright with it. I know how it feels
@lordtrill7731
@lordtrill7731 Жыл бұрын
Bruh take ALL that grief and WORK OUT! Get your body and mind right so they will come to you!
@kiharoakakau2493
@kiharoakakau2493 Жыл бұрын
That's me down to a tea I gave up on woman going on 35 years because no matter how hard I tried to show kindness and respect, it never was good enough with woman, I have been blessed with my life with the things I do now at 62 own my home, saved money take trips overseas, and my loving pets. Now all of a sudden woman are interested in me no thanks I was meant to live my life alone and I am at peace with it.
@YourDaddysBelt69
@YourDaddysBelt69 Жыл бұрын
You're an inspiration. Wish I could hear more older men like you. I'm 31 and sometimes I get so horrified of being old and alone but hearing this type of reinforcement helps me a little.
@kiharoakakau2493
@kiharoakakau2493 Жыл бұрын
@@YourDaddysBelt69 Thanks for your kind comment, when you have such bad luck with woman like I did you change sometimes for the worse or sometimes for the good I chose good I love paying it forward and been kind and respectful even to woman trust me woman notice, live your life the way you want to you never know I'm just one of those few men that never got a chance with a woman so be it, trust me I have lived my life to its fullest find loyal friends and family that you know will have your back like I have, you take care.
@user-px2cv3tz1w
@user-px2cv3tz1w Жыл бұрын
even my mom says im ugly
@tweed0929
@tweed0929 7 ай бұрын
@@user-px2cv3tz1w it's her fault, not yours.
@marksongbird7534
@marksongbird7534 15 күн бұрын
Yup, now you are their meal ticket. I am the same as you. They can take it somewhere else.
@Shipwreck8l8
@Shipwreck8l8 6 ай бұрын
Story of my life , every word he said.
@jh6y06
@jh6y06 3 жыл бұрын
I've never had a scene that hits me so much, that i didn't know i could relate so much to it.
@AndreNitroX
@AndreNitroX 3 жыл бұрын
I spent all of high school feeling like I was invisible, and I soon became comfortable with that. Now in college I want to make something of myself, not just for a girl but for me.
@hungrygarfield
@hungrygarfield 10 ай бұрын
It’s never been so over. In fact, I’m inclined to believe that it never even began.
@ZetaReticuli_
@ZetaReticuli_ Жыл бұрын
One of the things that always got me about this scene in particular, is when he realizes after sharing his true feelings, and how hurt his mother is seeing her son in pain, he tries to brush it off and fake laugh about the "loaded with tomatoes" bit. Children also try to protect their own parents, and often times from what is hurting them. On the one hand it seems noble, but on the other, it is internalizing your own emotions which is never good. It may hurt for your loved ones to know that you are hurting, but if they truly love you, they would want to be there for you and help you through it, as you would for them. It may be hard, scary and painful in the beginning, but that is only temporary. It gets better from there.
@supermetallicman
@supermetallicman Ай бұрын
Damn even in the 50s things were real. Can relate to this
@nosoup9146
@nosoup9146 9 ай бұрын
I'm 38y old and I never heard I love you in my entier adult life. I'm burying myself in work coz I wanna be tierd and not to think about I have no one to ask how am I doing. If you are reading this you are not ugly you are something and I love you.
@jacksquadreturns7827
@jacksquadreturns7827 7 ай бұрын
Is living like that worth it? you have a good circle of friends?
@plolakopa9136
@plolakopa9136 16 күн бұрын
I plan to do the same thing! Strangely... i'm looking forward to it!
@socramzetroc1535
@socramzetroc1535 9 ай бұрын
This must be the conversations Ddbr has with his blue pilled mother
@LetTheWestBurn
@LetTheWestBurn 8 ай бұрын
😂😂
@Alan_J_Silva
@Alan_J_Silva 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@CD-vg4hl
@CD-vg4hl 5 ай бұрын
😂😂
@hzskillz1721
@hzskillz1721 Жыл бұрын
Many men get to this stage in their life
@barryscott1756
@barryscott1756 Жыл бұрын
Definitely am there right now 😔
@MrRoaringcorpse
@MrRoaringcorpse 18 күн бұрын
I’m 39 never married. I feel this. At this point I give up. It’s from 1955 yet still so relatable
@destinationskyline07
@destinationskyline07 2 жыл бұрын
"just take a shower bro" "just have confidence man"
@starkiller1231
@starkiller1231 Жыл бұрын
"just go to therapy and get a haircut bro"
@gatoloco3949
@gatoloco3949 8 ай бұрын
Just get a haircut while going to therapy bro.
@tweed0929
@tweed0929 7 ай бұрын
"Just love yourself, bro".
@frog6054
@frog6054 6 ай бұрын
Go to the gym bro, be a millionaire bro, be the top 1% man bro, have the personality of a comedy god bro
@scottfree6479
@scottfree6479 2 жыл бұрын
We've got an entire generation of Martys right now
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