6 Secret Keys to Dating a Younger Guy

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Mat Shaffer

Mat Shaffer

Күн бұрын

Dating younger guys has different rules than dating men your age or older! Learn the secrets to attracting young guys, turning them on and inspiring them to want to date you.
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How do I attract younger men? Are younger men worth dating? How do I date young guys? Do younger men like older women? These are all very common questions I get from clients and students, so I decided to make a video detailing 6 powerful secrets you can use to attract and ENJOY dating younger men. They can be a lot of fun, I promise!
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@trutherasitis2109
@trutherasitis2109 4 жыл бұрын
My husband is 20 years younger than me been married 10 years very much devoted to each other and the lovemaking is out of this world 💞
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
yess Truther Asitis! He's a lucky man ❤️
@tiliayala9288
@tiliayala9288 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Love is Family and only you know what is best for you. Good to know you have a good time together.
@blessed3975
@blessed3975 3 жыл бұрын
I am praying for that kind of relationship and love. I'm happy for you
@michellevicente1274
@michellevicente1274 3 жыл бұрын
LOVE that!!💕🙌🏽
@T333TN
@T333TN 3 жыл бұрын
Woohoo! Good for y'all!
@deborahreed4057
@deborahreed4057 Жыл бұрын
I'm 66 and just met a beautiful younger man of 37, a few months ago and it is a wonderful connection. I love how he brings out the playfulness in me. I'm an active person and to be free of everything he shows his masculinity in ways he never thought about. He calls me his cougar which is a sweet. Go for it ladies. 😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
so sweet thanks for sharing! it's a great connection:)
@t.lc.777
@t.lc.777 9 ай бұрын
I hate the cougar name.
@lisalamour4909
@lisalamour4909 6 ай бұрын
Hi, I'm in love with a 47 yr old and I'm early 60s. He spends lots of time with me and texts me everyday alot, but keeps me in friend zone, what to do??
@rhiannon-bv9rk
@rhiannon-bv9rk 2 ай бұрын
@@lisalamour4909 friend zone, just means that!!! It might be painful, but he doesn't want something permanent in terms of having babies or getting married.
@heathertaylor4979
@heathertaylor4979 Жыл бұрын
I am 71 and my partner is 39! I can’t imagine dating a guy my age now!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
AMAZING love blossoms at all ages! Congratulations!
@tresjolieme81
@tresjolieme81 Жыл бұрын
oml lol
@PlatinumNW
@PlatinumNW Жыл бұрын
More power to you do not let anybody take that happiness from you. Remember, only hurt people hurt people.
@MaryTheresa1986
@MaryTheresa1986 Жыл бұрын
Yeah! Get it girl! ✊️✊️😏😏
@KKLee-yt9ic
@KKLee-yt9ic Жыл бұрын
Wow! I wanna be like you 😊
@blancacharun4398
@blancacharun4398 3 ай бұрын
My baby is 25 and I’m 46. He rescued me when I had a flat tire, paid for the replacement of my rim, followed me to make sure I made it safely. that’s how we met … He is still around ❤ and the sex is fire 🎉
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 3 ай бұрын
Yesss LOVE THAT STORY! So happy for you! 🤗❤️ 🔥🔥🔥
@AutumnGold0706
@AutumnGold0706 2 ай бұрын
I can arrange to have a flat tire!! 😂
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 ай бұрын
Great idea!! It's on my list! 😁
@susandavis903
@susandavis903 Ай бұрын
Enjoy it now…menopause will come for you….
@margieebe9933
@margieebe9933 Ай бұрын
😊😅my lover is 19 years younger than me! I'm 73, fantastic sex,
@blessingsfromspirit6881
@blessingsfromspirit6881 Жыл бұрын
The reason I’m dating someone 16 years younger right now is because I’ve never stopped playing and enjoying life but so many men my age have. We have so much fun!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality
@lc9629
@lc9629 4 жыл бұрын
Met a younger man, (14 yrs younger),19 years ago. He's never been married and no kids. Was merely fun sex to me, but for 19 years he still kept contacting me for a 'fun time & to catch up'. Im a twice divorced woman and very independent since my divorce 26 years ago. I fought off this guys line of "age is just a number"....laughed at him and thought he was just after the conquer. He's very successful and had many beautiful women his entire life. 2 years ago I realized I love this man....who Id fought off for many years... What was I thinking?? So I threw that at him and he was shocked. He said 'what?...you want a commitment?" I said 'your'e not capable of a commitment; I just wanted you to know and I don't know what to say but I'm moving on". Been together & committed ever since and deeply in love now. Sometimes you've gotta tell em 'sh## or get off the pot baby'....has been an adjustment for us both because we're a lot alike but we're growing, learning from each other.
@marianas3268
@marianas3268 3 жыл бұрын
Wow ! Great story
@gracedeatherage4955
@gracedeatherage4955 8 ай бұрын
Yes what a great story
@helenkornilova9849
@helenkornilova9849 Ай бұрын
thank you for sharing! would you have time to give some advice?
@ralitsavasileva4568
@ralitsavasileva4568 4 жыл бұрын
1. Be clear and direct. 2. Show you are interested, connect, play. Openness, invitingness. 3. Be present. 4. Be playful and spontaneous. 5. Master in texting. 6.Use sensuallity.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YESS well done! you got it!
@jackmears3167
@jackmears3167 4 жыл бұрын
Ralitsa Vasileva here
@Lilione111
@Lilione111 4 жыл бұрын
My guy 38 me 52. He always calls me his queen. I secretly love it.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
amazing! you ARE his queen
@patriciaanderson3938
@patriciaanderson3938 4 жыл бұрын
WHEN THEY CALL YOU QUEEN ITS A SCAMMER
@Lilione111
@Lilione111 4 жыл бұрын
Patricia Anderson Iknew & worked with him for a couple of years before we started dating, so we got to know each other first. He didn't start calling me his queen as soon as we started seeing each other. It developed with time. If a guy was saying I was his queen straight off the bat, I wouldn't buy into that. I'm not that naive 😄
@mayramalave1279
@mayramalave1279 4 жыл бұрын
@@patriciaanderson3938 so true!!
@bscnyc9948
@bscnyc9948 4 жыл бұрын
don't G... 🤐🤐🤐🤔🤔🤔💋💋💋
@kateschneider8813
@kateschneider8813 3 жыл бұрын
He’s 27 years younger and wow! Magical in every way. This advice is spot on.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@kchezy5805
@kchezy5805 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. He was secretly in love with me since he was 28, and he thought I was out of his league. At his manly age of 33, he built the courage to ask me out. I was 44. I am so grateful to have him in my life and we are still together going strong. By the way, I look young like in my early thirties.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
yess K Chezy! He's a lucky man ❤️
@kiddor909gmail
@kiddor909gmail Жыл бұрын
I seem to be getting younger as I date this man..I feel alive and have more energy..even my Dr noticed
@celineawad3946
@celineawad3946 4 жыл бұрын
I always attract and date younger men. Why? Simple. I look younger and love life and fun. 🍸🍸🎊😄
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
BOOM sounds like a party to me! :)
@mylovelealife1460
@mylovelealife1460 4 жыл бұрын
Same 😍😍😍
@reason5591
@reason5591 4 жыл бұрын
Same with me Celine. I am 60 yrs and young and look young
@reason5591
@reason5591 4 жыл бұрын
@Elizabeth Tremblay i like 30 year old man even if he was my age. He found me and he likes me and our age difference we dont consider. It just worked out this way. I wasnt even looking.
@lisesuroto9544
@lisesuroto9544 4 жыл бұрын
@Elizabeth Tremblay I look very much younger than my age, young spirit, healthy. Men of my age looking old and wonder if I would marry them, my world would adjust to that old life. I feel age just numbers. The actual one is how you're in the presence.
@MiaSanchez11.11
@MiaSanchez11.11 10 ай бұрын
I'm 42 and he is definitely my youngest, 20 years younger. Been trying to figure out how to navigate telling my oldest daughter as my other 2 are excited and love him. Biggest concern is breaking the news to mothers. This has helped me tremendously and makes me realize that our happiness is all that matters and there is nothing wrong with having a big age gap. He is definitely the best, my BEST friend ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!🤗
@susandavis903
@susandavis903 Ай бұрын
So you feel like dating men who be interested in your daughter? How do you not treat him like a son?
@hirschiegirl
@hirschiegirl 4 жыл бұрын
I recently met a younger man, and we really clicked. It took me by surprise, but I felt very comfortable with him so I decided to go with it. We went on our first date last night, we both had a lot of fun! He’s 28 and today is my 50th birthday 🥳
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DEAR! And what a fun birthday present... a fun date with a guy almost half your age heheeee 🤗🤗 what was so fun about being with a young guy ?
@cn2746
@cn2746 4 жыл бұрын
GO GIRL! Make us proud. Carol
@melmel8907
@melmel8907 4 жыл бұрын
Rock on girlfriend !
@elizabethjimenez7368
@elizabethjimenez7368 4 жыл бұрын
I'm there too!...in 7 years.. I will be 50 and he will be 28.
@hirschiegirl
@hirschiegirl 4 жыл бұрын
@Mat Shaffer thank you! We share the same world view and common interests, so we never ran out of things to talk about on our date. He’s very sweet and respectful. Also, I’ve met him at a time in my life when I had just come through doing major healing after having my self esteem, self confidence, and self worth destroyed by someone I was involved with for many years. Meeting a guy of any age who is truly into me and appreciates me for me is absolutely refreshing and validating. I think he’s going to help me get rid of any lingering negative thoughts and doubts I have about myself. Age is just a number and neither one of us are bothered by it. I have no expectations, I am just going to go with it and enjoy our time together. Truly liberating for me! ☺️
@ljvita5011
@ljvita5011 3 жыл бұрын
In my 70’s and after my husband of 29 years died I found that younger men are more interested in me than those my age. I’ve had a great sexual relationship with a 43 year old and presently exploring a relationship with a 52 year old. I can’t imagine being with someone my age again.
@mistressevamzonia7087
@mistressevamzonia7087 3 жыл бұрын
Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back recently he can also help you just as he did mine too
@mistressevamzonia7087
@mistressevamzonia7087 3 жыл бұрын
Text on whtzapp
@bobbiebarrance6421
@bobbiebarrance6421 Жыл бұрын
Go for it.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын
I appreciate your opinion on this!
@francinegray9383
@francinegray9383 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, Mat, you are the only coach who takes this type of connection seriously -- with no jokes, no snide remarks. Age gap relationships have always existed, often behind closed doors. They are not only legitimate, but deeply important at certain points in our lives. We have things to learn from each other, and can have a wonderful time doing it! I love the open, tender hearts of younger men, and being completely silly with guys who can loosen up!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Beautifully expressed Francine, thanks so much for appreciating the nuances of these connections :) It can be so fun!
@francinegray9383
@francinegray9383 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer Sounds like you know! lol
@jackieflynt995
@jackieflynt995 9 ай бұрын
​@@francinegray9383doesn't it, though..lol
@ParisTNT
@ParisTNT 4 ай бұрын
What a sweet comment
@yadhilopez8929
@yadhilopez8929 3 жыл бұрын
My Habibi is 20 year younger than I and I love him so much. He brings me so much youthful and happiness. I adore him 😍. Thank you for your advice.
@mofimTV
@mofimTV 2 жыл бұрын
niiiice but how do you handle your cirle of friends? do you hang around his younger friends or him around your older friends ? what is the best recipe for you to make it flow and not awkward?
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
I’m glad to hear everything worked out well.
@irrsinnslicht1
@irrsinnslicht1 4 жыл бұрын
I`m 36, my husband is 29 and we getting our first baby in 4 month :)
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
AMAZING congrats my dear!! :) Boy or girl?
@irrsinnslicht1
@irrsinnslicht1 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer a girl 😁
@drbhaviify
@drbhaviify 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@yeiyei3869
@yeiyei3869 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@ABadHairDay
@ABadHairDay 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎊🎈
@antoniosinstrumental3820
@antoniosinstrumental3820 4 жыл бұрын
I love this video so much! I really hope the ladies beyond my ages are aware of these keys... One thing I disagree on this video is that we text a lot... I call more than text! If I'm texting someone, i will always drop the bomb of "Can we call? Calling beats texting". I get tired of texting, and love hearing voices and conversation flow
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the beautiful share Antonio's Instrumental 🙏
@TuffLuv1984
@TuffLuv1984 4 жыл бұрын
So refreshing
@Cybergirl
@Cybergirl 2 жыл бұрын
That's so cute!
@gloriastroedecke2717
@gloriastroedecke2717 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Actual talking is very important to connecting.
@ednamariacroxton8859
@ednamariacroxton8859 Жыл бұрын
@Antonio's Intrumental Iagree with you. Text or call is not a age matter. I could be the older woman and I use a lot of voice messages or text and I do quick calls. Is not the age is the communication tools that we have nowadays. So I don't agree the video on that.
@user-kx7so1pc5f
@user-kx7so1pc5f Жыл бұрын
I'm 64 and my partner is 48 I'm praying this relationship works out for us
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I hope it helps mazel tov! :)
@tanhue1265
@tanhue1265 2 жыл бұрын
Society really shames older women/ younger men relationships. Thank you for taking it seriously and all these really great points. Younger men are so wonderful.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
YESSS you got it my dear!! so glad this supported you :)
@dlandrews1
@dlandrews1 8 ай бұрын
Yes it does and it is wrong. It happened to me at my church.
@mdkcjtl5523
@mdkcjtl5523 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 18, and my wife is 24. I always tease with her, calling her a “ cougar” lmao. It’s great tho, I love the fact that she’s much more mature than women my age and she’s pregnant:) where expecting are kid to be born in February. Cheers from Germany.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
congratulations!!! children are a blessing, for sure!!
@WARFORCHRIST
@WARFORCHRIST 4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow😊 My boyfriend's 21 and I'm 24 and we're expecting our first baby March 29th 😊
@shabnumosman5192
@shabnumosman5192 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations guys
@danieldeiparine5716
@danieldeiparine5716 3 жыл бұрын
Ha! When I turn 19, well she's probably 22 at that time. I'll call her a cougar too!
@mdkcjtl5523
@mdkcjtl5523 3 жыл бұрын
@@danieldeiparine5716 I’m 19 now and she’s 25 and our sons ( she had twins) are one. Cheers
@sandramatthew931
@sandramatthew931 2 жыл бұрын
He puts me in my place, tells me when I’m going wrong he is so mature… Better than any man that I’ve been out with older or not it’s not about the ages about the maturity in mind
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing my dear so happy for you!
@trudy-annsmall9600
@trudy-annsmall9600 4 ай бұрын
I told a younger man that today who is showing interest but I am still in overthinking mode about us...praying I make the best decision
@sandramatthew931
@sandramatthew931 4 ай бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer thank you my sweetheart
@sandramatthew931
@sandramatthew931 4 ай бұрын
@@trudy-annsmall9600 the best decision is for you to be happy age is just a man-made Number. You need to take time to know him it will work out. It’s all about the frequency and the connection between both of you that’s what’s important not age🙏🏾💜
@trudy-annsmall9600
@trudy-annsmall9600 4 ай бұрын
@@sandramatthew931 thank you for the positive vibes even though I know sex is high on his agenda I am keeping an open mind and will take up his offer to go on a date...bless you
@dawnstarling2752
@dawnstarling2752 3 жыл бұрын
I have a boyfriend who is nine years younger, I have been married twice to men around my age and I feel like they have always treated me like I’m a child and their servant, but being with my younger man it’s effortless and calm, he uplifts me he’s supportive of any decision I make and he doesn’t stress me out. He’s easy to talk to he’s easy to be with and around, we have fun together but we also have our quiet relaxed time as well, there is no rush no stress and understanding and no pressure!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
This is an inspiring story!
@borcsaster
@borcsaster 25 күн бұрын
I so much agree! 🙏
@amynoeloconnell3059
@amynoeloconnell3059 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 51, he’s 27! We have the best time together! ❤️❤️
@marincuculic1020
@marincuculic1020 Жыл бұрын
Are you still dating him?
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Wow! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@shabnumosman5192
@shabnumosman5192 4 жыл бұрын
My guy is 22 yrs younger than me. I'm 54yrs. He keeps me feeling happy
@shabnumosman5192
@shabnumosman5192 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. These things happen when one is usually not looking. 😂😂
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@laura2842
@laura2842 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I am involved with a man 11 years younger, and we absolutely love what we have, hope we stay together forever!!!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
AMAZING love that share!! :)
@user-bj1ic7zr7h
@user-bj1ic7zr7h Жыл бұрын
This is great to hear. I've recently begun dating a younger Man 11 years between us as well. ...it's new and he's so sure and I want to take my time. It's a bit overwhelming but I'm letting it happen....curious....
@orchidpaint9885
@orchidpaint9885 2 жыл бұрын
I am 60 my husband is 45. He is so good to me, I am treated like a Queen. We started out as friends and took our time.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@jamiamiller5751
@jamiamiller5751 4 жыл бұрын
I really like (love) you Matt. You have it! Go for it! I'm 61 and continually am approached by younger men. I'm engaged to a man over 20 years younger than myself.
@celestegadsden6916
@celestegadsden6916 2 жыл бұрын
I am dating a man who is 41 years old and I am 57 years old
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@graciehomestay3134
@graciehomestay3134 Жыл бұрын
Omg, thank you I already attracted a man half my age, I didnt know what I had done but we are now building our lives together.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@GwenMotoGirl
@GwenMotoGirl 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 62 and find myself in the delicious potential opportunity to date an attractive, intelligent 33 year old man. This video has me smiling. Big. Thank you.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing my dear so so happy for you!
@marincuculic1020
@marincuculic1020 Жыл бұрын
Gwen you look so cute :) Are you single?
@Cravenn5
@Cravenn5 2 ай бұрын
Brace yourself….. you will likely change the rest of your life and his! ❤
@charitymunyiko6457
@charitymunyiko6457 4 жыл бұрын
My prayer is to find someone who will make me happy,smile all the time.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
you are worthy of that!
@lilliemoss6895
@lilliemoss6895 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@williamhendricks3935
@williamhendricks3935 4 жыл бұрын
I am here
@teammotivation142
@teammotivation142 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve always thought of dating an older woman after listening to your previous video l can say am ready now
@teammotivation142
@teammotivation142 4 жыл бұрын
Hi dm me I will make you my queen
@brendabrewer8276
@brendabrewer8276 4 жыл бұрын
OMG I love this!!! As I get romantically involved exclusively with younger men (date all ages) this is INVALUABLE advice and I took notes and added to my "Important Relationship Stuff" folder! It's just perfect to know that we always have OPTIONS when dealing with any romantic partner and the more knowledge we have about upliftment, no matter what situation, the better outcomes we have! 💗
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YESSS you got it my dear!! so glad this supported you :)
@cn2746
@cn2746 4 жыл бұрын
Mat, this has to be one of your very best talks! Each point was excellent. New and fun territory. (always wanted to be a teacher!) Carol
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
AWWW thanks so much my dear, so glad you enjoyed it!! Yeah always looking to increase the value provided by my content... this format is working I think :)
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@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
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@ayudewipuspasari6088 4 жыл бұрын
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@nannyonjojamila1805
@nannyonjojamila1805 4 жыл бұрын
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@kirstenholmquist7074
@kirstenholmquist7074 3 жыл бұрын
Whoo hoo
@Secret-sw8ih
@Secret-sw8ih 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, this was so accurate! And informative.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
fantastic glad you liked it!
@geraldinehughes4490
@geraldinehughes4490 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mat, you are making so much sense here and I will apply your tips. It’s nice to have a plan. Geraldine
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@glendadubroc4311
@glendadubroc4311 3 жыл бұрын
I just love the way you explain things. You make so much sense. You have very good advice. Keep on giving us women such great advice. You are awesome!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.
@kamie1978
@kamie1978 4 жыл бұрын
My Guy is 28 and I am 41 So its not abnormal what I see and read here. Sometimes I think of it, but when I see videos like these iT gives me kind of great feelings I am not the only one. Thnak you very much❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YES you are not alone!! my most popular recent videos are all around this beautiful age gap dynamic... congrats on your wonderful connection
@kamie1978
@kamie1978 4 жыл бұрын
Mat Shaffer thank you very much!!!
@crose55082
@crose55082 4 жыл бұрын
I keep attracting younger men. It's good that the age gaps work. I find myself attracting younger men, they say I don't look my age. That is usually the first thing that attracts them.
@julifunnygirl71
@julifunnygirl71 4 жыл бұрын
Bar Clays, your comment gives me hope. I'm really interested in a guy who is 13 years younger than I am and I have so much fear about it. I'm glad to know that for some people it works.
@antihaters6504
@antihaters6504 Жыл бұрын
abnormal 😂🤣
@micheleedwards62
@micheleedwards62 4 жыл бұрын
Thank You!!!! This is so powerful!!! Just started dating a younger man. It's awesome!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
you're welcome!
@cherelmatadosalbina8150
@cherelmatadosalbina8150 4 жыл бұрын
I was 36 and he was 24 when we met. 12 years age gap. When he ask my aged on my birthday, he's bit disappointed when he learned that I am older than him. He thought that we are on the same age or maybe I am older 2 years than him. So I sleep that night thinking Que sera sera whatever will be will be. A message from him woke me up the next day saying "Hey Birthday Girl Wake Up". Then the rest is history. He knows when I feel uncomfortable of my wrinkles, freckles and unstable body. But he always comfort me (my flaws and imperfection), saying "It's alright. Nobody is perfect".
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
aww this is SUCH A SWEET STORY!! thank you for sharing, you two have a beautiful connection I can tell :)
@dancingcloud8557
@dancingcloud8557 4 жыл бұрын
Very sweet. How long have you two been together?
@marianas3268
@marianas3268 3 жыл бұрын
Awwww 🥰
@ashley9776
@ashley9776 3 жыл бұрын
So sweet
@0111ddd
@0111ddd 2 жыл бұрын
You are so lucky
@starchildgoddess_3335
@starchildgoddess_3335 4 жыл бұрын
Your voice and tone is ridiculously soothing! Yes need this! Mine is almost 10 years younger 26!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
aww LOVE IT
@starchildgoddess_3335
@starchildgoddess_3335 4 жыл бұрын
Mat Shaffer thank you!
@Relaxinwealth
@Relaxinwealth 2 жыл бұрын
How is it going sis ? I’m contemplating 🙃 mine is almost 13 years younger than me
@angelinasamson6996
@angelinasamson6996 Жыл бұрын
I’m 49 and he’s 33 , it’s so effortless and organic ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that! ❤❤❤
@helenhui8523
@helenhui8523 Жыл бұрын
Awesome....by far the best advice for such topic! 👍👍👍
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@GreenTara2010
@GreenTara2010 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this. Met a younger man online and need to move this forward.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
have fun!
@nancysloan3731
@nancysloan3731 Жыл бұрын
I am with a man who is 9 years younger than me. We have been together for over 20 years. It hadn:t always been peaches and cream but we work things out together.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Amazing my dear so so happy for you!
@petitlivre
@petitlivre 4 жыл бұрын
Does anybody else watch every single one of Mat’s videos with a pen and notebook in hand like he’s preaching the New New Testament? No? Just me? 😅 I appreciate your wisdom as always Mat! I’m 28 but still feel like everything you said is totally applicable for dating men of all ages. Your videos have helped me turn a black heart and false narrative about men and dating into hope for the future. What a gift 💓
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
😭😭❤️ one of the most touching comments I’ve ever received!! Thank you so so much for your kind words, truly moved. Y them... it’s my honor and purpose to support you and I’m beyond grateful that I’ve inspired you to connect to your heart in a deeper way🙏🙏❤️✨ let me know what more you would like me to speak Into 🤗
@alyssafaithdejesus7182
@alyssafaithdejesus7182 2 жыл бұрын
Love your videos. It resonates with me so much. Thank you! Subscribed! More power to you! ❤️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for subbing! I’m happy this resonated with you
@soniaindigo
@soniaindigo 3 жыл бұрын
Highly valuable this video content. Thank you!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that!
@ladolcevita5582
@ladolcevita5582 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. That is very useful. Btw, I really like yr tone of voice and smile ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@abdulmateen3326
@abdulmateen3326 Жыл бұрын
hi ladol. are you single?😉
@juad4184
@juad4184 4 жыл бұрын
I love how Matt reads comments n hearts them too. That's so new n refreshing. This videos great. Tomorrow I have a second date with a guy 16 yrs younger than me in his early 20s. I find that hes a bit rigid like nervous so not overly playful n hes anxious that i won't accept him due to age gap. But he wants proper dates in the way is more mature than jaded men in early 30s who just wants fling. I found when i was in my early 20s, guys were more naive n wanted commitment. Had more meaningful relos n they did fall hard when their hearts were broken. So who knows! Every1s different.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so glad you enjoy the work I put into connecting with my community :) age gap relationships can TOTALLY work, enjoy the process and see where it goes!
@carlagarrett5278
@carlagarrett5278 2 ай бұрын
I am so pleasantly surprised to have found your channel. I have been a Psychologist in private practice for thirty years and I learn a lot from you. Thank you.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@deetran5085
@deetran5085 4 жыл бұрын
I like your insights. Thank you for sharing.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so glad!
@natashialee6632
@natashialee6632 3 жыл бұрын
My man is 10 years younger than me. His so amazing.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@briechilli4496
@briechilli4496 Жыл бұрын
I love that you mentioned the honouring his deep masculine and stay in your feminine. Love it ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@nannetteprata4571
@nannetteprata4571 8 ай бұрын
Thanks Matt. Such helpful guidance. :-). .. and destigmatizing the age disparity
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 8 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! 🤗
@felicidad2388
@felicidad2388 3 ай бұрын
I’m 49 and he is 29! Never actually planned dating a younger man but is nice!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 3 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@lindapetersson588
@lindapetersson588 4 жыл бұрын
Love this video! I'm interested in a younger man and info like this is really helpful. More on this topic, please. ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
I will keep them coming! So glad you enjoyed it!! 🤗🤗❤️
@TheSuziiiQ
@TheSuziiiQ 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
* Make sure you connect physically, emotionally, and mentally. ... * Don't chase him. ... * Love yourself. ... * Take care of yourself. ... * Don't be a people pleaser. .. * Speak your mind.
@marincuculic1020
@marincuculic1020 Жыл бұрын
Linda are you single?
@c.b.2321
@c.b.2321 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much - from an elder woman from North Germany ;-), who's dating a 20 years younger man since some weeks.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! ♥
@susanmiller2414
@susanmiller2414 Жыл бұрын
Your guidance and knowledge of human behavior is impressive. Your podcasts are the best !
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@lourdeskraetschmann5209
@lourdeskraetschmann5209 4 жыл бұрын
I love your video Mat. You inspired me a lot. Thank you👍❤️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
love that thanks so much!
@marincuculic1020
@marincuculic1020 Жыл бұрын
Lourdes are you single?
@freespirit5234
@freespirit5234 7 ай бұрын
Everything you explained to attract a younger man, i do it naturally, i have ADHD, im a fun bubbly person, so i have always attracted younger men, but dated older men. I dated a younger man in my 20's and he treated me better than men my age or older. No more older boring men!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 7 ай бұрын
Wonderful! I’m so glad this helped you!
@karljans4807
@karljans4807 Жыл бұрын
I met my gf when I was 20 and she was 28 when we did volunteering august 2021. Been in a ldr with her ever since. This month I visited her again for a long weekend and it was great. She looks quite young for her age which makes it easier to not get judged by ppl. I lover her a lot.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@marlonred2301
@marlonred2301 2 жыл бұрын
I did all the Keys, right the way You told us hier, two months. Was so relaxed and Natural on going learning eachother. Very harmonic. Since three weeks he puled back and we have no contact anymore. But I release all my childhood patterns and die the best Variation of mine. Beautiful Life. Thank You! 🙏✨☀️☀️☘️😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Many thanks!
@mayuribende1927
@mayuribende1927 4 жыл бұрын
It was very useful tip. Thank you so much.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so glad you liked it !!
@luckyedward250
@luckyedward250 3 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful
@adriennecsanadi1088
@adriennecsanadi1088 4 жыл бұрын
great advice, thank you! I am 31 and feeling really positive about my new hot love with a 23 yo guy. We were magnets from the moment we met and it's just getting better - meeting of the souls and minds...and bodies too hey :) p.s. luckily he hates texting as much as I do lol
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
yess Adrienne Csanadi! He's a lucky man ❤️
@lpsglitterpaws8536
@lpsglitterpaws8536 4 жыл бұрын
I am 50 but I look 35 according to feedback from others. I am a runner and lift weights which really help my physical appearance. I recently went online to find a relationship and I am finding that younger men love older women! I am finding that the men my age or older don’t look so good!!! I am flirting with the idea of dating these younger hotties. I have to enough confidence to go for it. Thanks for this info!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Lps glitter Paws! 🙏
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
* Make sure you connect physically, emotionally, and mentally. ... * Don't chase him. ... * Love yourself. ... * Take care of yourself. ... * Don't be a people pleaser. .. * Speak your mind.
@marianas3268
@marianas3268 3 жыл бұрын
Protect your heart and bank account, apart from that you could find a true love
@mckennacreative6133
@mckennacreative6133 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! Best one on dating younger guys!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@GirlWars
@GirlWars 3 жыл бұрын
this was so helpful thank you so much!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@dudu-no4ec
@dudu-no4ec 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video! I`m not so old (only 27 years old) but I always attract and always been attracted to younger boys so your tips are very helpful!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 11 ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@lindajackson2382
@lindajackson2382 4 жыл бұрын
I know ALL the keys to attracting and dating younger men! I'm ONLY attracted to younger white men ( I'm black! ) In fact I MARRIED a much younger white guy who died in 2006. I'm a PROUD COUGAR of a different kind!! I'm currently in love with a white guy that's 38 years old but I'm 63 but LOOK 40 something because I'm BLACK and black doesn't CRACK baby!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
GET IT MOMMA!!! one of my favvv recent comments heheeee... you inspire me my dear! Whats your favorite part of dating younger guys?
@patriciaanderson3938
@patriciaanderson3938 4 жыл бұрын
Im only ayracted to younger men alk my life nothing against older but l JUST LOVE YOUNGER WE GROW TOGEATHER
@primroserosemary8862
@primroserosemary8862 4 жыл бұрын
🤢
@federicacaldana4782
@federicacaldana4782 4 жыл бұрын
Linda jackson I m white and only attracted to black guys, and I m like yourself, I seem to attract younger guys a lot, however it doesn’t last... I need some advice
@virginiasherland9306
@virginiasherland9306 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome..Im the same way only, I m attracted to black man much younger than myself..🌹❤
@ParisTNT
@ParisTNT 4 ай бұрын
what a great video. Thank you, Mat
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 ай бұрын
I’m so glad this helped you!
@shaqlovesyah403
@shaqlovesyah403 2 жыл бұрын
This was great advice. Thanks
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
I hope it helps.
@Bobi484
@Bobi484 4 жыл бұрын
This is all so true and me too I've experienced the true attraction to a younger man. It was during some non-date time spent in meaningful conversations and constant smiles (he is the coach of my child). Actually I feel embarrassed of my almost constant thinking about him and I started to avoid him (which doesn't help much my mental addiction haha), because first of all I am married to a very descent guy and second, I am 43 and he is 28. I've never spoken about any of that to him or to anybody else... the only thing is when I have to talk to him I can't refrain myself from asking him " How are you" in a somewhat special way hah and I felt he answered once "How are YOU?" haha my God I really sound like a teenager.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so sweet thanks for sharing! its a great connection :)
@viktoriastockmal8405
@viktoriastockmal8405 4 жыл бұрын
Very well put. I have and always have dated younger men, but usually by only a few years. Several years ago I dated a man in his 30s. You are so right. It helped him to become more of the man he wanted to become. And it was wonderful for me to embrace my feminine side. Which can be quite powerful for a woman. LOL it seems to work very well for both sides. Thank you for this video. The topic surprised me at first. But I think it's very well done.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YES this is exactly what I’m talking about!! Especially with points 5 and 6.... great opportunity to establish polarity and expand with your partner 🤗🤗🤗
@viktoriastockmal8405
@viktoriastockmal8405 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer Definitely especially points 5 & 6! Bravo, Mat!
@marincuculic1020
@marincuculic1020 Жыл бұрын
Viktoria are you single?
@viktoriastockmal8405
@viktoriastockmal8405 Жыл бұрын
@@marincuculic1020 I am .... But much older now. 😄
@marincuculic1020
@marincuculic1020 Жыл бұрын
@@viktoriastockmal8405 haha well that is definitely fine by me. :) I am 28 btw. Can we maybe get in contact? Would love to be friends.
@reginamarie123
@reginamarie123 Жыл бұрын
Great delivery of information! 👏🏼
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@dorrettp1339
@dorrettp1339 2 жыл бұрын
This was very good. Thank you
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, so glad my content supports you :)
@tiliayala9288
@tiliayala9288 3 жыл бұрын
Another great video 👍 I'm happy to say that I'm now chatting with a man 8 years younger than me.
@mistressevamzonia7087
@mistressevamzonia7087 3 жыл бұрын
Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back and he can al'so help you just as he did mine too
@mistressevamzonia7087
@mistressevamzonia7087 3 жыл бұрын
Text on whtzapp
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@tiliayala9288
@tiliayala9288 4 жыл бұрын
My son's father was 10 years younger than me. I have loved younger men, since then. He passed away, left me a son. I am praying for a young guy in my life.
@jonynicolas929
@jonynicolas929 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear he passed away
@user-uq9xv9fs8u
@user-uq9xv9fs8u 2 ай бұрын
Accept my condolences, same here. I'm 34y old how old are you
@Jawilly1
@Jawilly1 Жыл бұрын
This advice was perfect. Subscribed !
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the sub!
@t.lc.777
@t.lc.777 9 ай бұрын
Great advice!! You rock Mat!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.🥰
@stella9785
@stella9785 3 жыл бұрын
The biggest love of my life is 29 years younger than me! Pure bliss!
@adamadel7097
@adamadel7097 3 жыл бұрын
Wow
@adamadel7097
@adamadel7097 3 жыл бұрын
Are you single now
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Question of the Day - Have you dated younger men... and if so, what did you do that really drove them wild?
@Serel25
@Serel25 4 жыл бұрын
They like the straight talking, clear actions, maturity in dealing with problems, the experience, knowledge and streetwise nature appeals to them. I've always been in relationships with younger guys, but married a guy 10 years older than me! It didn't work because I'm very childlike in character and I think they like that but my husband was intimidated by the attention I got. They also always say I understand them!
@ladycherielindsey2618
@ladycherielindsey2618 4 жыл бұрын
I always ask them about something that they are into. I give them the opportunity to teach me something about what they are excited about. (Some other things are, the tone of voice, the WAY in which to flirt... there’s more but... I’ll save that for later. 🙂)
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this fascinating share Serel I love it! I’m sure you create great connections on both sides of the age spectrum 🤗
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Great point Cherie, would love for you to share some of those amazing techniques 😍😍😍
@cottonflannigan3671
@cottonflannigan3671 4 жыл бұрын
It's a secret... 😊
@alexandraperkins7023
@alexandraperkins7023 4 жыл бұрын
I think you found your purpose. Nice voice as well. Thank you.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Alexandra Perkins! 🙏❤️
@jo-anneharris5005
@jo-anneharris5005 4 жыл бұрын
Love your work honey :D
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
well, thank you, dear! :)
@TheSuziiiQ
@TheSuziiiQ 4 жыл бұрын
More on this please! I'm definitely struggling here :(
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
what are you struggling with?
@marincuculic1020
@marincuculic1020 Жыл бұрын
Susana are you single?
@neddalakhdarchaoche9232
@neddalakhdarchaoche9232 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Mat For your great tips!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын
My pleasure! ❤️
@laylaworld2410
@laylaworld2410 4 жыл бұрын
You do a good job explaining you is right about that 😉👍
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
wonderful so glad you enjoyed :)
@melmel8907
@melmel8907 4 жыл бұрын
Yep he thought I was younger and I thought he was older. I was 48 and he was 36! It was a year of fun. How’d I do it? I learned to let myself be my feminine self, appreciate them for who they are right now, definitely loved the banter, and oh so many adventures. We taught each other a lot and he got me out of my shell and made me realize that I am desirable! He still wants to hang out when he’s in town! Flattering!! But won’t do it. I’m in totally love with my new guy who is one year younger than me and treats me like a queen. 💜 Videos like yours Mat truly helped me learn how to understand Men. Seriously love your videos! Thank you. 🙏🏻
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
amazing my dear so so happy for you and your experience! and congrats on your beautiful new relationship
@stefaniekantor1900
@stefaniekantor1900 4 жыл бұрын
You make it sound like we, the older women are there to date the younger man to teach him how to more of himself. I’m drawn to men younger than me because if their sexual prowess and energetic abilities as I’m a very active 50 year old woman. But if I date a man it’s because I might be interested in a long term relationship with him. My casual days are done as I’ve just ended a toxic relationship with a 36 yr old Narcissistic man. We aren’t in this world to train anyone.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
We can all teach each other regardless of age - precious lessons can be exchanged both ways :)
@stefaniekantor1900
@stefaniekantor1900 4 жыл бұрын
Mat Shaffer I think you are very positive, which is great, but when you’ve been in a toxic relationship with a younger man as an older woman In a patriarchal world.....well, then we can talk.
@monicanath4859
@monicanath4859 4 жыл бұрын
Very inspirational indeed!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so glad I can inspire you!
@aimeeleroi4916
@aimeeleroi4916 4 жыл бұрын
Great vid👍🏽
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Aimée Leroi YAY so glad you enjoyed it! 🤗🤗
@sandrajones5135
@sandrajones5135 4 жыл бұрын
I'm naturally all those things you described, no wonder I am attracted and just attracting 28 to 35 yr old man and find the ones my age too serious, too boring and lack energy! Thank you as I just discovered I'm not going crazy! Most guys I meet in person feel I'm 35 which doesn't help ah ah
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
wonderful you are magnetic... own THAT :)
@luckyedward250
@luckyedward250 3 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful
@marincuculic1020
@marincuculic1020 Жыл бұрын
Sandra are you single?
@rhondareese3908
@rhondareese3908 4 жыл бұрын
I'm engaged to be married to my younger man. I'm 10 years older than him. Been together for 1 year and 9 months. In 62 and he just turned 52. We are always on the same page and have same thoughts. Sometimes saying tie same thing at the same time.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
thats so beautiful thanks for sharing your love! truly inspiring!!
@rhondareese3908
@rhondareese3908 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer you're welcome
@trishmccollum1263
@trishmccollum1263 3 жыл бұрын
Never thought 10 yrs younger was possible
@tinamariarandez
@tinamariarandez 4 жыл бұрын
You are the love guru!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
HAHA I dunno about all that... hbout love guide?? 😅😅
@louisaklimentos7583
@louisaklimentos7583 4 жыл бұрын
Very good advice and thank you
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so welcome!
@richardrivas3294
@richardrivas3294 3 жыл бұрын
* Make sure you connect physically, emotionally, and mentally. ... * Don't chase him. ... * Love yourself. ... * Take care of yourself. ... * Don't be a people pleaser. .. * Speak your mind.
@ljc3484
@ljc3484 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not into “younger” men, just happens some of the ones I like are younger than me. But I think I want what every one wants: someone who is healthy, happy, independent & kind, financially responsible. My issue right now is my own health, illness isn’t always great going into a relationship. And I’m past the child bearing age, I know lots of not most men want someone to start their own family with.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new
@TheDingo52
@TheDingo52 4 жыл бұрын
Oooooowwww I've been with one for years now! This might be educational to watch 😂
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
😍 hope you enjoy it! What’s your favorite part of being in a relationship with a younger guy??
@TheDingo52
@TheDingo52 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer he's not that much younger than me buut that would be how youthful and boyish he is. It's absolutely adorable! Men stay boys forever! 😤
@anniemedicalmassage
@anniemedicalmassage 3 жыл бұрын
REALLY great video. Quality content.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Much appreciated!
@marincuculic1020
@marincuculic1020 Жыл бұрын
Annie are you single?
@M-ed8oy
@M-ed8oy 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for this!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 3 ай бұрын
My pleasure!
@terribrown5989
@terribrown5989 4 жыл бұрын
I'm always afraid they would reject me and be like go away old woman....😥
@beebuzz959
@beebuzz959 4 жыл бұрын
I get that, but realize you're the one rejecting yourself, not them. Flirting is safe, but if you're not comfortable with just that, just smile and be yourself, open and warm. And if he moves more forward from there, just a tad, then just play with it and enjoy it without expecting anything. Very often but that will build to something, and it's all safe.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
great coaching Beanie! You can do this Terri
@terribrown5989
@terribrown5989 4 жыл бұрын
@Kat Loveslife I don't like older men I'm really hoping to find my younger man...pray for me
@terribrown5989
@terribrown5989 4 жыл бұрын
@Kat Loveslife thank you
@terribrown5989
@terribrown5989 4 жыл бұрын
@Kat Loveslife all that ever approach me is old men I don't know what to do
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