Become Unforgettable to Him (stand out from the others)

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Mat Shaffer

Mat Shaffer

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Here are FIVE SIMPLE THINGS YOU CAN DO WITH MEN to set yourself apart from other women and make a POWERFUL IMPRESSION on a man you like... he will want you!
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@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Come join the party! :)
@amandasoler9327
@amandasoler9327 3 жыл бұрын
I am in a relationship very far away across the other side in europe problem pandemic 7 hour difference. Please give me simple examples of questions to ask allready in. Four months he said i am perfect asked i travel there thx you have helped a great deal want a permanent relationship long term
@jalianamala6690
@jalianamala6690 3 жыл бұрын
Hi
@beverleyaustin2763
@beverleyaustin2763 3 жыл бұрын
Mat Shaffer ysystsssyyss ys
@marianned.3724
@marianned.3724 3 жыл бұрын
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@2967_
@2967_ 3 жыл бұрын
I actually stopped seeing someone because I felt too strongly for him. I could not deal with the feeling of being extremely attracted to him. He was doing the pull back thing. I recognized it, stopped it quickly. It was so freeing to release a really attractive man who plays games. I got my confidence and power back. I exercised self control. It is so powerful.
@la381
@la381 2 жыл бұрын
🤛
@phoebephoebs6548
@phoebephoebs6548 Жыл бұрын
Yes im In a situation like that right now , but if he’s a high value man I feel that we must put in the work and yes playing the game of I don’t care , works great .
@joye3357
@joye3357 Жыл бұрын
I just did the same and you are right, it felt so good to be the one who held the power this time.around. I was able to detach easily and am so happy I did because just a couple of weeks later a good one showed up on my doorstep and if I would have still been with the one I just got rid of, I would have never met him.
@haewillph1646
@haewillph1646 Жыл бұрын
Going through this now, so I also have to pull back while I can
@kathyramos2924
@kathyramos2924 Жыл бұрын
I went to something similar .. I call his shyt off.. I’m too old to play games🤷‍♀️
@rosenblau
@rosenblau 4 жыл бұрын
1. Be unattached of the outcome of the relationship/date. Release outcome dependence by being present and curious without pushing anything: this liberates him from being responsible for your happiness and makes him feel safe and attached. 2. Inspire him to take action by a cycle of positive invitations using feeling statements followed by space and trust in him to step up to do what makes you happy. 3. Honor his "heroes journey". Cheer him on and show acknowledgment, respect, admiration and deep curiosity for what he is doing in his life/career/passions. 4. Be his emotional sanctuary: an outlet for his feelings where he can be vulnerable and put down his walls. Do this by being vulnerable yourself, by asking questions and through physical touch. 5. Ask better and deeper questions that challenge his worldview, evoke stories and make him connect with his passions at a deep level. To avoid: pretzeling, manipulating by leaning back and withholding attention or affection, using seduction, keeping things surface level.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YES beautifully laid out! :)
@carieyoung1111
@carieyoung1111 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jhdjdld You can't - this is not the right man for you : ( sorry someone needs to say it! Good luck
@christopherzobel357
@christopherzobel357 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks,!, ✌🏻🙏🏻
@melindahernandz7942
@melindahernandz7942 4 жыл бұрын
your so smart and you make it seem so simple. i wish i found you a long time ago!
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jhdjdld Sorry to be Blunt. But you don't seem to have Anything!! 5 years!! Still don't feel Special and Adored?? Sorry. It's never going to happen... With him. Move on.
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 4 жыл бұрын
Dissappear sometimes. How's he going to miss you if you Never go away! 😘
@AnnaBurdach
@AnnaBurdach 2 жыл бұрын
That is very true 👍
@ivanrodriguez268
@ivanrodriguez268 2 жыл бұрын
I disagree with this, if you disappear, another one will come in. Trust me, other girls are waiting in line.
@SurferGirl3651
@SurferGirl3651 Жыл бұрын
@@ivanrodriguez268 ah but if you use the technique he'll be thinking about you!!! Even though he's with the new one...so there's the proof of this theory you've become unforgettable!
@MH2206.
@MH2206. Жыл бұрын
@@ivanrodriguez268 if he moves too quickly with another woman, he was never interested in you.
@nospoon1111
@nospoon1111 4 ай бұрын
I don't want to have to play games, I'm too old for that. I just want to be my authentic self, if he needs someone to play hard to get games, he's not for me.
@drsarahprincessm9194
@drsarahprincessm9194 3 жыл бұрын
Th best relationship is be u Never pretend Accept each other th way u r N it will b cool N put God first
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. 🙌❤️
@crose55082
@crose55082 3 жыл бұрын
I watched this video a year ago. I finally attracted my first high value man. I was myself and not nervous. I was surprised at the end of the date he was looking forward to a second date. He also sent me the first text after the date. He said he like my positive energy. I told life is to short for negativity and I know I am in charge of my own happiness
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Yay! You deserve a great guy😊
@missbubblemaker26
@missbubblemaker26 4 жыл бұрын
I am a 33 year old woman living alone (lost both parents through the years i was their caretaker for many years, have, one sibling who lives in another country) so i live on my own now during this pandemic and it has made me realize so many things about myself and about self-reliance that i feel like i am on a hero's journey myself. And i wish i had a man who admires, sees, respects and acknowledges my journey as much as i do his.
@sab4895
@sab4895 4 жыл бұрын
You're a brave soul...I hope that God brings you the perfect man as a gift for what you've done for your parents.
@A1dakz
@A1dakz 4 жыл бұрын
bless you
@SodiumSyndicate
@SodiumSyndicate Жыл бұрын
You want a man who admires, sees, respects you? - Are you a VIRGIN?
@alfreda2711
@alfreda2711 4 жыл бұрын
I’d say just be yourself don’t lie or try to be somebody that your really not. Have fun🙂
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YES all that is so important!!
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry. That doesn't work. You can't be "yourself" you can't call him every time you want to hear his voice. You can't always be available. You can't. Because you will Bore him. Men like a Challenge.
@dianneciresi6324
@dianneciresi6324 3 жыл бұрын
@Abundance Locally lmfao
@dianneciresi6324
@dianneciresi6324 3 жыл бұрын
I don't want a man who has a lot of women who wants him. Maybe I should get a fat bald one. 😂
@dianneciresi6324
@dianneciresi6324 3 жыл бұрын
What if he's the emotionally unavailable type who's inconsistant with his attention on you.
@lizz9840
@lizz9840 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for supporting more women who believe in their womanhood and love. There are so many broken cynical cold women out there who have no idea how to love anymore and they are angry and judging others that are in relationships. We need to revert their pain by educating them, they can always find love no matter their age.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 11 ай бұрын
Many Thanks!
@iknowwhatsup2880
@iknowwhatsup2880 4 жыл бұрын
Just enjoy each and every interaction with people whenever possible.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@bscnyc9948
@bscnyc9948 4 жыл бұрын
I know what's up.... I agree much.. thNk you.. 👍🏿
@bscnyc9948
@bscnyc9948 4 жыл бұрын
exactly what I'm trying to do... I mean planning to do🤔🤐🤐
@bscnyc9948
@bscnyc9948 4 жыл бұрын
thanks... got to go!!!
@vicrollon3140
@vicrollon3140 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed 100%. Exactly... correct! Enjoy each other everytime. Bless everyone who are here - 🌷
@paula-elizabeth
@paula-elizabeth 4 жыл бұрын
Women go on a Heroine’s Journey too!!!!🎯🦸🏻‍♀️💫😃🌟
@andreahoopes4429
@andreahoopes4429 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best relationship advice for women videos I have seen on KZfaq. It’s strong and built on solid principles that do work 😁
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
amazing really appreciate this feedback!!
@keishalenoir9777
@keishalenoir9777 2 жыл бұрын
Mr Mat I Love your advice it is helping me each day I have watched you on KZfaq and I enjoy it Thanks woman it helps 🙏🥰🙏🙏🙏
@paula-elizabeth
@paula-elizabeth 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent Video Mat! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💫😃🌟
@user-xv8tq6rh3o
@user-xv8tq6rh3o Ай бұрын
He is really attentive to me.This something he never been before. I respect what his dreams are. He is a musician and that part of him really excites me. I like to go to his gigs but I don't invade this part of his life. I will support him in everything he does. I bought a keyboard just recently. He was so excited about this, I told him that I want to make music with him. This made his eyes tear up and I recieved the most passionate kiss I have ever been given by him. He is on cloud nine knowing that I want make music with him. Things shifted into a more positive connection to him. He can't wait to get started, I can't either.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Ай бұрын
Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts! So happy this hit the spot for you. 😉
@dannyoduo3125
@dannyoduo3125 4 жыл бұрын
Im very happy to get you Mat It's blessing my life a lot ❤️🙏
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Aww, you're the sweetest! Many thanks, Danny❤️
@fuw2523
@fuw2523 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing again! I like how accurate all these tips are, thank you Mat 🙏♥️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
wonderful so glad you enjoyed it ! :)
@annajohansson9349
@annajohansson9349 2 жыл бұрын
Dude, I love your thought process and how efficiently you get your message out. Keep it up
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much my dear! I’m so glad this helped you!
@jeniferrenteria5989
@jeniferrenteria5989 3 жыл бұрын
I love your channel! And I love your eloquence and the energy with which you convey all your advice!! Thank you!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
wonderful thank you for that feedback!! 😊❤️
@Jennyshengm
@Jennyshengm 4 жыл бұрын
So nice! Just what I m experiencing and experimenting atm. So resonates with your this video. Thank you Mat🥰
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so wonderful thank you for sharing !
@deetran5085
@deetran5085 4 жыл бұрын
Mat, I love your advice and insights. Thank you for sharing! I believe the best thing is to be yourself, be authentic, be curious and be present in the moment.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
love this feedback my dear!!
@heathermclean-smith5893
@heathermclean-smith5893 4 жыл бұрын
Love this video, Mat! Wonderful insights and ideas I will authentically use in my life! Thank you again for your great and powerful video’s! ❤️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YES love it!! you are so welcome, delighted to support you :)
@mkinko15
@mkinko15 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best advise videos I've seen in 6 months of looking often. Packed with good content! Thank you! Amazing work!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Ginger Howard, your beautiful words truly touch my heart! It's my honor and purpose to support you 🙏❤️
@isabelc.m9593
@isabelc.m9593 3 жыл бұрын
you are so clear with your advice! brilliant! thanks so much
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@CL-ii9cx
@CL-ii9cx 3 жыл бұрын
Hi-quality advise!! I appreciate you very much for bringing this program to us to share!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much my dear! ❤️
@monkeymind3917
@monkeymind3917 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, Mat, thank you- you’re a beautiful soul 😍 thank you for this amazing information! Connection is what I’m searching for and this is a treasure trove of information to help get me there. I’m so grateful!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful! Happy I could be of help.
@deetran5085
@deetran5085 4 жыл бұрын
Mat, You are awesome! It’s important to share vulnerability to have a real connection. I love your channel.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Dee Tran! 🙏❤️
@joliemiranda5685
@joliemiranda5685 3 жыл бұрын
Mat, you're so brilliant! Really appreciate this video 🙏🙌🤗
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it! :) Many more to come!
@ruthcrawford3015
@ruthcrawford3015 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent, master class. Thank you so much Mat!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much my dear!
@alibeaumont-filder3185
@alibeaumont-filder3185 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you ... great advice .. and opens deeper realisations too .
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, Ali❤️
@alicebadler
@alicebadler 2 жыл бұрын
WOW, just WOW - you give amazing information - loving and learning through your videos. I cannot believe it took me this long to find you. Thank you for all that you are and all that you give !
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
@sandrafoxworth7547
@sandrafoxworth7547 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE how you explain things, Mat!! You rock!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@MsCorina222
@MsCorina222 3 жыл бұрын
So wise and kind. You are a great teacher
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Your kind words touch my heart, Corina❤️
@camokitty
@camokitty Жыл бұрын
Oneof your best videos! Straight forward, easy to understand. Thank you . 😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You are very much welcome.
@berivansahin6730
@berivansahin6730 3 жыл бұрын
I really like the way you explain things in detail and easy to understand!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Thanks so much!
@Marina-qn9wk
@Marina-qn9wk 4 жыл бұрын
Great talk! Thank you Matt!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so so welcome!
@joansandeen9443
@joansandeen9443 Жыл бұрын
Excellent and more valuable advice than I've received so far, Matt. Thank you from not only my heart but my head. Outstsnding!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@terriestes4973
@terriestes4973 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ! You explain everything so well. Very enlightening.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Thanks so much! ❤
@shirleywalker513
@shirleywalker513 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt -- because of you, I am now in a more meaningful relationship. You're the best.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Thank for sharing❤️
@attiliadin
@attiliadin 4 жыл бұрын
Just beautiful... no manipulation! Love your videos. 👍🌹
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YES you got it!!
@danitarhea1036
@danitarhea1036 4 жыл бұрын
I just set a guy free because he wouldn't move any further than just texting me and asking me to come over in the evenings ...Yet all the while claiming he was "addicted to me"...In six weeks, we only went out for our initial meet and greet. I followed all advice you guys offered and quite frankly, naturally follow techniques as I always have. Finally grew weary of his texting approach and finally asked him to join me for a walk on the beach to the which, he never responded. Then he texted me the following week as if I had never broached the subject. After careful thought, I answered back with a message removing myself from his equation and wished him all the success in his search by stating that I felt we were seeking different outcomes between us as I am seeking more than just a texting buddy or hookup. Right or wrong, I needed this to move away from such a status. I also let him know I liked him but would not be reduced to this level of relationship.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
wonderful share thank you! :)
@annalore5513
@annalore5513 4 жыл бұрын
Good grief. I am shocked You waited that long. The red flag was there from the get go..u refused to see it. You need to work on your own self respect.
@kati1017
@kati1017 4 жыл бұрын
I think she did good! Maybe she's not used to users like him.
@kati1017
@kati1017 4 жыл бұрын
@@annalore5513 and you're so perfect? She did good!
@lourdesgoico1502
@lourdesgoico1502 4 жыл бұрын
@@annalore5513 do not say that, she did great. does not have to be with self respect. She gave him the benefit of the doubt. Be nice
@justanothersherlockian7058
@justanothersherlockian7058 Жыл бұрын
It's great to see that your channel is all about honesty instead of the manipulative tactics I see people use on a daoly basis. Thanks for keeping it real!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that! Thanks much🙌❤️❤️
@PK-ms6yh
@PK-ms6yh 3 жыл бұрын
amazing - thank you so much for your invaluable insight. ❤️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@mary-annelei3588
@mary-annelei3588 4 жыл бұрын
Very reflective perspectives thanks for sharing!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad to help, Mary-anne❤️
@LisaGemini
@LisaGemini 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, Mat...this is so helpful. None of it sounds stupid or "woo woo," either. It all sounds doable. I'll definitely try it with high-quality guys.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL thank you for the feedback appreciate it!! You can totally do this!
@szilviakiss5954
@szilviakiss5954 4 жыл бұрын
This is really great info thank you so much ! 😇
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so welcome! :)
@nebulanigrimleonis3883
@nebulanigrimleonis3883 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I just learned how to beat the game. This is NEXT LEVEL info.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 6 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your feedback!
@dinayando2849
@dinayando2849 4 жыл бұрын
This is a truly GREAT video Mat! Please keep up the inspiring, realistic and truthful content you put forth!! Much thanks and gratitude.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
amazing so glad you enjoyed it!! appreciate the feedback
@dinayando2849
@dinayando2849 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer Looking forward to it!
@ivettelee5340
@ivettelee5340 Жыл бұрын
You eloquently stated so many great gems. thank you
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed!
@anyabelle
@anyabelle 3 жыл бұрын
This is such a unique advice video. And the one I never knew I needed, thank you for this.
@anyabelle
@anyabelle 3 жыл бұрын
@@whatsappme2900 I will, thank you ❤️
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@millyshiko3921
@millyshiko3921 Жыл бұрын
Woww,thank you so much for the enlightenment!!blessings
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@nomand_in_the_world
@nomand_in_the_world 4 жыл бұрын
What an amazing content! Thank you!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
aw you are so welcome!
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 4 жыл бұрын
Empowered & Grounded... 💎
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YES so magnetic! :)
@brindasingh6309
@brindasingh6309 2 жыл бұрын
Matt you are a genius....such an awesome video, really enriching and inspiring 💓🙏
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart! 💓
@rietta1166
@rietta1166 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou, very insightful.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so welcome!
@goldenmagnolia333
@goldenmagnolia333 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Mat for helping us women! There are only but a few great men out there and it’s tough to find the good one. Your teachings and tips are so great, I appreciate it very much. Keep going!!! 😘
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
appreciate that deeply desere! I am so glad my content serves you :)
@attiliadin
@attiliadin 4 жыл бұрын
Mat, thank you. I'm dating such a man...what you advise is very insightful. You are brilliant! Thank you. ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much attilia marcon! 🙏❤️
@vickibounmy3390
@vickibounmy3390 Жыл бұрын
So inspiring, realistic !!! Thank you 🙏
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@eliagudes2613
@eliagudes2613 3 жыл бұрын
This was such a good video. Thank you!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@vardhinir6221
@vardhinir6221 4 жыл бұрын
I have watched many relationship advise videos on KZfaq, but yours is just perfect! Mainly because of your voice 👌 it's soo soothing and wanted us to keep on hearing it🤗 the way u present with your expressions and body language, it is more realistic and lively! 👏 No dramas no fake creativity.. 👍 good job!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
DEEPLY appreciate that !! I really work to use my voice and delivery as a way to create safety and connection in my videos :)
@aneelabalsavr1561
@aneelabalsavr1561 4 жыл бұрын
Such a kind helpful video!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so glad you enjoyed it :)
@lisette8881
@lisette8881 4 жыл бұрын
I love this video. I also love that I feel like I do this all more intentionally now because of you. I feel like it was always in my nature to do these things but after working with you I feel more confident in showing up that way. I have noticed that I have had really lovely connections and responses from men because of this.. ..on both ends it has been very authentic. Thanks Mat :)
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
AMAZING Lisette thank you so so much for your share... it's been SO BEAUTIFUL to watch your journey and expansion!! grateful to have connected with you : )
@ScrumdiddlyYUMMtiousASMR
@ScrumdiddlyYUMMtiousASMR Жыл бұрын
This is a beautiful video. Very important, liberating and inspiring.❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@denisebowen7498
@denisebowen7498 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Mat! This lesson was excellent. While giving the man space and asking him questions about his work his life and what he aspires to do in his life, he feels relaxed and wants to talk about it all. Asking deeper questions. Let him get excited. He will open up and think that this woman really is interested in my life and you should be.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
YES you totally get it!! thank you for sharing!!
@thetravelcrunch
@thetravelcrunch 10 ай бұрын
WOW, this video was gold. Really, thank you.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 10 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! 🤗
@jeancooper7953
@jeancooper7953 11 ай бұрын
Wow, you are so real!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching I hope it helps
@stephanieg4950
@stephanieg4950 3 жыл бұрын
Really great information thank you. Ver ypersonable, and has a lot of concrete examples.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@fawnvigil6727
@fawnvigil6727 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome video thank you!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so welcome
@Helviification
@Helviification 5 ай бұрын
Great advices! I like this channel more than other channels of this kind. ✨
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.
@hoiliswu6070
@hoiliswu6070 4 жыл бұрын
Powerful video amazing again tips How much I love you guy sharing women live in forever.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@carmenabrego9399
@carmenabrego9399 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Great advice.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart!
@nancysloan3731
@nancysloan3731 Жыл бұрын
Matt, thank you so much for your welcome insights when it comes to high value men I have a couple of high value men friends and your insights will help me to communicate much better with them. You are my relationship expert.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Wow! You are so welcome. Thanks for sharing🙌❤️
@Patriotgirl1130
@Patriotgirl1130 9 ай бұрын
U r sooooo good! Every video is incredible !
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@royalisrael7475
@royalisrael7475 3 жыл бұрын
I have watched so many videos, some are great but this is the best. You give so much value along with passion in your videos, but lawd knows it is so much a woman have to know and do to attract, seduce, allure and keep a man interested, this is a full time job, lol. but I'm learning a lot and hope it pays off in the end. A new sub.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@sonyacurti
@sonyacurti Жыл бұрын
I love your videos! Thank you! ❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it! :) Many more to come! :)
@poopheadlife7981
@poopheadlife7981 3 жыл бұрын
I like the way you talked.. You explain it very well.. Very relax in ears🤩
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot 😊
@berivansahin6730
@berivansahin6730 3 жыл бұрын
I loved these advises!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that! ❤️
@rosemarybrewington8250
@rosemarybrewington8250 3 жыл бұрын
I love you May for your videos, it really work
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@user-vn3hj7vu5l
@user-vn3hj7vu5l 10 ай бұрын
I love your channel you really teaching me a lot thank you so much 😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 10 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! 🤗
@npkrn6764
@npkrn6764 4 жыл бұрын
As Coco Chanel said "To be irreplaceable, one must always be different". I'm inter changing irreplaceable with your word "unforgettable". As a woman, I've obviously had many women friends and have seen how they behave or respond to men. Most of the time, their efforts have fallen flat. Therefore, I've usually taken the opposite approach with men in my life and its usually worked. Women somewhere along the way started chasing men. And when the men run - they chase more which is ridiculous and never works long term. You discuss making invitations... I think there is a line that most women have a hard time staying away from, which is being invitational and vulnerable without being aggressive or chasing. It's a very tough balance to navigate. We should never give more than we are receiving. If you give and it is not reciprocated, BACK OFF! Don't do what the majority of women will do which is to push harder. What Mat is saying here makes sense for a man who is ready for a mature, adult relationship; but not all men are ready. You'll know which type he is by doing what Mat suggests because if he doesn't match your interest or ask YOU anything about YOU...then you'll know. *Just thought I'd take your thought process a bit farther.. I'm thinking, however, that you agree!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
well put thanks for the deep insight!
@eunicegantt3069
@eunicegantt3069 4 жыл бұрын
So True!!
@npkrn6764
@npkrn6764 4 жыл бұрын
@@eunicegantt3069 yes Eunice.... I was lucky enough to pay attention while observing some of my girlfriends chase men in vain when I was younger. I actually had one guy admit to me later that he was actually afraid of one of my friends back then - 😳 haha! I know she wasn't dangerous but he was still freaking out and any attraction he might of had for her in the beginning was completely obliterated by her starting to chase him. Lessons learned!
@evamaria644
@evamaria644 4 жыл бұрын
@@npkrn6764 Absolutely, it pushes men away, learned the hard way, however, I used to do most of these things in a relationship and found the man saying I knew him better than anyone but the truth is I didn't know how I got to him. But I always want to know the person but sometimes that can be too much for a man to handle if he's not used to it or doesn't expect it from you.
@elusiva9389
@elusiva9389 3 жыл бұрын
Right, if he's not ready it won't work. That's the sad truth. Not asking questions about me is a theme i have seen in EU men. I naturally do a lot of this stuff, but I'm older, and they are too. Some really dig in to their habits, lifestyle, and comfortable with their ability to pull any women they want, which is addictive and hard to give up, I exchange for the hard work of accepting someone warts and all, and committing indefinitely. They are usually WAAAAY far from that thought process. This is still GREAT advice ...thanks Matt!
@eunicegantt3069
@eunicegantt3069 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent video!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
@freshy2046
@freshy2046 3 жыл бұрын
High-quality, mature, no game-playing approach!! However, I guess the advice is applied to both really mature and evolved men and women too!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You're right!
@lauraacheson7281
@lauraacheson7281 4 жыл бұрын
OMG this is one of the best videos I've ever heard on this topic!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Laura Michelle! 🙏❤️
@mcestardo
@mcestardo 4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with this...❤ I am applying these right now to my boyfriend...sound effective for a lasting relationship. Thank you 🙂
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for you my dear!
@parbatiaikat1471
@parbatiaikat1471 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.. Love all your videos..!!!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@deborah9814
@deborah9814 3 жыл бұрын
Thank god I found You yes subscribed & hooked! Love it..
@deborah9814
@deborah9814 3 жыл бұрын
@@whatsappme2900 thanks Matt!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Welcome aboard!
@hoiliswu6070
@hoiliswu6070 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much truly video I always look lesterning to your video Man high value.I appreciate you.I am lucky women Happy lovely day
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
so appreciate that Holli!!
@katherinegrace1255
@katherinegrace1255 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. Thank you.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that! ❤️
@empresssunbow
@empresssunbow Жыл бұрын
Soooo good :) 100% on point!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@picklepirate
@picklepirate Жыл бұрын
I love this. We should use these tips for everyone in our life. Be authentic and actually, genuinely be interested in being supportive and curious about the other person- both their space and letting go of expectations of outcomes of other people.
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for your feedback!
@picklepirate
@picklepirate Жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer thank you, Mat! This video was so great!
@jo-annbalmeo9227
@jo-annbalmeo9227 3 жыл бұрын
Yes....love this...❤❤❤
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much my dear!
@sweetgrrl38
@sweetgrrl38 4 жыл бұрын
I always look forward to listening to your videos because you speak so passionately with SO MUCH VALUE in each videos! I can see you writing an amazing book just on this ONE video 🙌🏼 By the way, do you do any live group events for women? I’d buy your book and or attend your live event! Anyone else agree with me? ❤️
@bellaitalia817
@bellaitalia817 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO MUCH for your kind words my dear!! Im am committed to STARTING LIVE EVENTS in 2020 (AND write my first book), so I will absolutely keep you posted on the schedule
@sophiabelladi
@sophiabelladi 4 жыл бұрын
Mat Shaffer Hola Mat, what is your advice in dating a much older man? Thank you sooo much for your insights💕
@SewDiva5691
@SewDiva5691 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, Mat! I watched your recent Monday’s with Mat on FB. BTW Congrats for accomplishing 3 years 🎉🎉🎉!! I’m learning so much about me & men from your videos. I would love to see your very 1st video on Monday’s with Mat. Can you share that link here on KZfaq? Happy New Year 2020 to you & yours!🎇🎇🎇
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
BOOM thanks my dear! HA you wanna see the orig mondays with Mat?! here ya go :) facebook.com/IamMatShaffer/videos/vb.5218651/10108826987353433/?type=2&video_source=user_video_tab
@SewDiva5691
@SewDiva5691 4 жыл бұрын
Mat Shaffer Thank You So much for sharing, Mat! 💥Wow!💥 Your first vid touched my heart so much. Why? A dear friend of mine is going through the self-loathing & blaming himself. I’m not a psychologist or psychiatrist, but I can tell he’s hurting inside. I feel helpless, but he knows I’m here for him & his daughter. Mat, I feel So proud of you! 🤩You’ve come a long way. You are changing many lives around the 🌎 including mine. I wish you continued success. Cheers!🍾🥂 I’m So grateful I found your channel in 2019. 🙏 😄 This is Jocelyn from sunny California☀️🌴🌈 Take care, Mat! ❤️
@roseflowers4032
@roseflowers4032 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the info
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you like it! ❤️
@crystaldance5731
@crystaldance5731 4 ай бұрын
Thankyou mat ❤️😊
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@scorpioqueen8628
@scorpioqueen8628 4 жыл бұрын
Subscribed wow this is so helpful ❤️👏🙌
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
wonderful! Thank you so much my dear❤️
@hdasfk1716
@hdasfk1716 4 жыл бұрын
I guess I’ll do better next time. I finally met a guy I liked a lot but never really been thought how a healthy relationship works. But I did everything right except the comfort part. But it’s nice to know that I’ve healed and grown enough to attract high value men. Growing and developing. Great video!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
thank sso much!
@caryleugene907
@caryleugene907 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Matt.. Canadian subscriber here. Thats deep..Great info. Happy New Year.🙏
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 4 жыл бұрын
WONDERFUL! Hi Caryl! happy NY to you :)
@caryleugene907
@caryleugene907 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mat_Shaffer 👍
@Bianca-sw5id
@Bianca-sw5id Жыл бұрын
Mat 🙂 🥰 💐 this is a fantastic topic 😂🤣 🥰 the heading is perfect , this is going to help Plenty of women 🥰
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!! Love the share
@lindastinchcomb744
@lindastinchcomb744 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@eunicetsai949
@eunicetsai949 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome 😍very helpful
@Mat_Shaffer
@Mat_Shaffer 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
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