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8 Reasons Men Fall in Love 1 He can relax/be himself around you. 2 He feels emotionally safe around you. 3 He feels ready to emotionally invest in someone. 4 He deeply believes that he can make you happy. 5 You fit well into his current life. 6 He can see his future with you. 7 You have passion and purpose in your life. 8 He genuinely has fun with you.

Be yourself. Be vulnerable. Tell him your truths. Be open.. Be kind. Be loving. Be affectionate. But mostly realise if it's meant to be it will be.. I found the one after years of abuse from a shitty relationship.

Hey, Mat. I am an older lady and have been married for 41 years to my college sweetheart. Your videos provide insights into the masculine and feminine dynamic that I enjoy learning about. You help me see how and why our relationship has worked well all of these years. But I also learn about ways to improve our partnership and to connect on a deeper level. It is never too late to learn how to improve. Keep up the good work!

Just being myself!! I think that is a golden rule :) also realizing when a man is opening up, and appreciating him for it ♡

Two complete people coming together. Not two people completing each other. Most powerful point of all, no doubt. Your outline so well laid out, you could write a book based on this video alone.

I was a stranger and He fell in love with me cos i was soo caring and kind to him, even more so than his own family. Esp wen he was going thru a hard time. Stranger to friend to the love of his life!

He worked his way into my heart...i didn't see it coming! We are very happy!

O my gosh Mat, I found you through Helena and you’re a blessing. So many things I want to say, but mostly, thank you for bringing a male perspective that is based on feelings and genuine emotion. So many male coaches teach from a place of manipulation and strategy. You’re so appreciated.

I think we women do have needs as well and lately I have felt that men are the only ones in the relationship who need support. Its like they are babies! I am a woman and I want someone who knows who he is and what he wants. If he is insecure or he needs too much from me I'm out. I have done it before and it didnt go well, he cheated on me and i felt really stupid. Last time! If they need help, they learn first before trying to be in a relationship with a real and serious woman.

APPRECIATION means a LOT to a man. It’s a sign of RESPECT. I make him feel like my HERO everyday and it makes me SO happy to give him that respect.

He is spot on about everything!! Amazing insight, how does he know all this?? Haha!! My boyfriend told me he realized he loved me because he could be himself around me, I am very open and have learned over the years to be ok with being vulnerable and honest and it does attract a real love. Sometimes we are not even aware of who we really are or what we really want unless we go through some relationships that end. Instead of closing ourselves off, we must move forward with what we’ve learned and be honest with the next person we meet. Always be real and don’t blame the new person for what the past person did!! Move forward together and the man will drop his guard and real intimacy will come out of it!!

Three phenomenal things, Mat: 1) Advice 2) Hilarious video cuts 3) Bookshelf styling I super-appreciate your presence here on YT and offering your perspective. My friends and I benefit from it so much. 🙏♥️

This is the most telling man, about men... I have heard to date! So glad I found you, thank you🥰❤️

omg lol, Mat why are you sooo funny?!? "aaaaare youuuuu open to luh-uuuv?" hahaha love how you integrate humor while you're giving us ALL the tea!

You’re smart. I have watched other male relationship coaches but you’re different. You’re good. You know exactly what you’re talking about and it shows how you talk with a heart, with real emotion. Just watched one of your video. Then watched one again.. I’m your fan now. Thank you.

Awesome. I love this Mat. You hit the nail on the head with me and my man. He also tells me that He loves the way I live my life and that I have done well for myself. 🥰

I am a vegan and try to stay away from all fast foods. I also believe that our thoughts can create our realities. My boyfriend definitely eats animals regularly, and has a depressed mood most of the time.

Making sure he feels comfortable and safe 🌈💖

I realized the more I’m thriving to be a better woman and self growth it attracts my man, and he wants to be with a woman whose confident and a go getter in any aspect in my life. And accepting myself, will help me act him. Which helps a man fall in love I feel. Bc there’s no nagging, pressuring, but instead there’s acknowledgment and gratitude.

Listening to him is key.

My man loves me because he can completely be himself and doesn't have to change to fit my ideology. I never ask him questions when he wants to spend his time with his friends and family. And he can completely choose what he wants to do with his time. He also loves it that I'm playful around him, and not serious most of the times. And he loves it that I'm independent and all my happiness is not dependent on him.

My man enjoys me because I just be myself. I laugh at myself, so he laughs with me. He says I'm a crazy English lady as I'm also unpredictable and it takes him off guard, as he laughs too, as i dont pretend to be perfect. We sometimes act like teenagers sliding down a dusty bank on trails, he eats his ice cream then snitches some of mine, lol, I throw him a smiling cheeky look. We greatly support each other in our ups and downs with total respect. We are best friends and tell each other that. Most of all, we are ourselves which makes being together .....easy!

i think it's been inviting them into my world, even if it's a mundane thing. my first longterm relationship was with a roommates friend and i was doing my skincare routine. he was asking questions about what all the products were for and i just asked him if he wanted to join me and explain it to him. nurturing is a big part of my personality, so it gave me the opportunity to do something in my comfort zone with a stranger confidently. i genuinely didn't think anything would come of it, so i was busy just having a pampering moment with him. and he actually really liked it because he would not only do it with me, but also started investing financially in products too. which was great because skincare is expensive. but it was always a positive experience because we had a passive, relaxing activity that took up time where we could just talk and goof around.

Hi Mat just came across your video I’m in a second marriage what makes our marriage so special is that he is so loving and always there for me in the past year have been a lot with the death of a brother he is former Military he tells each and everyday how much that he loves me before in my first marriage I felt so unloved and unwanted.When something important comes up we can sit down as husband and wife and discuss before I couldn’t do this with my first husband.We never go to bed angry or mad at each other Thank you for your advice We are both in our 60’s and we hold hands in public never did that before.

For me, it wasn't magic. We just laugh together and ferl comfortable with each other and know that we each want to support each other. We love each other. We've been through hard timrs, but support each other.

Always be yourself! Be open and honest always. Be supportive goes both ways. I do believe when you say a man has to be emotionally ready in his life to be truly in love with someone. Acceptance in family and friends

Your impressions are hilarious 😂 this is good stuff, thank you!

I have been married for 15yrs. My partner & I are never on the same page. Always want different things, Its very challenging all the time. Thank u for your videos, great info.

Mat, I have been using your advice with my man and it has been a complete turn around. Thank you

Thanks Matt! This is by far the best ever explanation and description of how men fall in love with women I've heard. So spot on and true. Keep them coming!

I low the structure of each of ur videos. Highest quality I've seen so far and I've seen a lot, keep it up and thank you very much for the great service! 😊

Man will love if you support his dreams. When I noticed that my crush (now bf) was so much in to fitness business. I did my research and gave him some ideas about his business, and showing that I am equally excited with his dreams. Another way is to always relax and never judge him. Sometimes his business failing, I encourage him and showing positive attitude like "you can do it. You are the best. It wasn't a big deal, let's find another way together" 💗😃

I just have to say you are awesome and I appreciate your enthusiasm when delivering your content! Thank you!

Sometimes when you are really in love you respect the differences too. If you only looking everything to match at sometime it will break because down the road there will be many that don't match. People change, grow and evolve. Look for a mature man

How beautiful it is to be in a relationship where both can be their authentic selves. Enjoy the simple things in life, a walk, eating ice cream, telling jokes... I still dream about it. ..❤

Omg thank you so much for saying the sleep schedule thing! I didn’t know if that was being too picky but it’s super important to me 👏👏

All of Mat’s advice of how to just happened to me. Spot on Mat!

With number 5... I remember a past relationship where he didn't want to get invested in a relationship with me because I dreamt about living abroad and apparently it was all I talked about.

Amazing and meaningful tips, thank you✨️🙌🏻

My last more significant relationship ended because he had kids and I always felt guilty taking up any of his free time that he could have spent with them and he always felt guilty cancelling plans because he had a sick kiddo at home or had a football game to go to. We hadn't been in a serious committed relationship to where I would have been comfortable meeting his kids, so in the end it just didn't work out to move forward. It wasn't a nasty end to the relationship at all, it was just incongruence in our lifestyles. I still very much respect him, in large part because he's a great dad, and hopefully he doesn't have hard feelings about me ending things. We haven't talked since but I hope he's just been able to focus in his kids or maybe find a girl who was more able to understand and handle single parenthood.

Soon to be exwife sent this to me. And I have to say he's pretty spot-on. My ex got only one out of eight things.

Hi! "LOVING INTERRUPTION!" Amazing way to put it, as usual Mat!! Thank you for making things interesting, clear, and easy to achieve! Sometimes we just need simple instructions spelled out for us.... "Lather. Rinse. Repeat." 🥰

These are GREAT TIPS!!!! I am seeing that I do a lot of these, but I am still taking notes and will apply them...

Hello Mat. I enjoyed watching your videos so much. You are such a great communicator with an amazing energy! Thank you for supporting women and/with love. 😊

I have meet a guy on online dating site. He's great. We have been dating 8 months and I have met his sister's and brother. He's told me he loves me 4 or 5 times. It bothers me that he doesn't tell me all the time he loves me. I love him too. I never dated a nicer guy before. I'm very lucky to have him. He does a lot for me and I try to do a lot for him. I was abuse, lied too and cheated on by my late husband and this guy is nothing like that.

when I acknowledge that he has made me happy, he relaxes instead of doing more of it. I regret acknowledging it

Thanks again Matt 😁. In my own awareness in watching this video, all of the wisdom that you are sharing is reminding me of how similar men and women experience falling in love. I am realizing that I have childhood traumas that need to be healed, in order to fully embrace love and partnership. I have a fella in mind, and he is very patient with me. I am very grateful 😍. It feels so wonderful to be able to be authentic, make him laugh when I’m being quirky, while not even trying, and fully appreciate all of the little things that he does that makes me smile and glow on the outside and tingle within. It’s the little things that make a big difference 🥰.

OMG my new love and I laugh all the time. We can make fun of each other and see the humor and not take it personally . He loves the fact that I don't get pissy if he laughs at me because I laugh right along with him. He's comfortable in his skin and I am in mine, so far so good. Love your videos and your energy.

I do find what you are saying to be resonating with me. I feel like I have learned so much from my last relationship that it has led me here to truly understand what I want in a relationship with a man and helped me feel better about myself so I can hold more space for a man.

Thank you Mat! This explains so much. Wish I knew these things before. It would have saved me a lot of confusion and heartache. I’m in a great relationship now but a couple of years back I met someone with whom I shared strong attraction and connection but we never got off the ground. Now it makes complete sense!!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. ❤️👏🏻

Really love your videos. They are inspiring and genuine. 💕🙏🏻🌺

Mat, you put your heart and soul into this video. Great stuff. Thanks!

I really like the quality of your videos btw! I feel that they have improved so much and now they are one of the best dating videos out there! Best wishes from Germany :)

Because I'm mentally healthy I agree with these 8 points; my exfiancee didn't appreciate it. He was looking for glamorous women, for self validation... I loved him dearly but I ended drained of hope after 7 years of relationship.

Acknowledge and Praise Provide comfort and support through their hardships BE OPEN TO LOVE Love is a two way street!

Your so good Mat in giving all what you can to us ladies to make our love life forever💕

You make me laugh when you are changing you're voice..and I loved watching you when giving advice thank you and God bless you and your family 😊

Hi Matt you explain everything so well. I have really learnt a lot . I understand much more the fact that to be vulnerable but also positive is a huge step thank you

Yes I am open but scared.

Why would a night owl and an early bird not be a good match? We would both have space to have alone time and do our routines at our own respective paces, and then be able to come together when we feel lonely at the middle to end of the day.

What a beautiful relationship where both enjoy being themselves. That's beautiful. Congratulations.❤😊

Good advice! GREATS TIPS on how to figure out mens lo. Not in relatioship right now but very helpful if i can find that right gentlemen in the longrun. Not looking for commitment after so many wrong choices. Just like enjoying my freedom right now. Taking things slow and loving myself by stepping back and waiting. No sexs unless the lord is ready for me to marry. Sex ruin my life because i got with some real losers who was players and cheaters who did not care for me. My heart is now trying to heal so i will just stay single and have fun doing things i like to better myself.

Mat this is absolutely incredible information! Thank you.

I am almost 60 and have had only one man say he loved me. We did not spend enough time together for me to believe it was based in reality due to long distance

Well spoken! Your energy is motivational! #GreatStuff💜

This is all very true! The problem with me is that I seem to be a woman with many lovers! They all keep coming and they warm up to me and we fall in love but I am the type of person that definitely brings conflict in people's lives naturally not purposely because I am a real power queen that makes people move just by my presence whether it's on a good way or bad way people react to me because of the power i have over them, they simply just cannot help but to love or to hate me! There drawn to me because of the power I have over them that God have to me! I attract good and bad people and people always challenge the guy that I am with, there is always the hater friend who wants to fuck me or be with me but if I say no to him and choose his friend again he will do everything in his power to make me look bad and make my life a living hell in the eyes of my lover just because I turned him down! I just have alot of enemies and very few friends so any guy iam with has to understand that before he even dares to get involved with me! when I was with my ex boyfriend, he and I were homeless and I was working as a dancer in vegas just to earn money to get by, I always asked God to give me a man that was in the same situation that I was in so I don't have to try to change to impress him so I can be myself, and when I was being self out there dancing in langire for money and sometimes prostituting just to get by, he excepted me for who I. Even if he could have been using me I fell in love with his physical appearance then fell in love with his spiritual just for being where I was and "loving" me or pretending to love me even if I was giving my body away and selling myself to other guys. Any ways I didn't understand why he was on the street because he looked like a model he was extremely physically attractive he was a white guy with these gorgeous eyes, and he appeared so clean you couldn't tell he was homeless I didn't understand it but I excepted him, I wanted to see his feet how beat up they were I thought they were beautiful I thought he being down and out was beautiful because I could take care of him and take the pressure off of him and also I could express myinner masculinity I didn't expect anything from him in return and that's why I felt like he was the one but he is probably not even the one just a guy that God wanted me to take care of at the time, I have ce to the conclusion that I am just an Angel that God is using to take care of people and bless them, I have ce to except that, any ways I pretended we were together and i made him feel like he was a man even if he wasn't the bread winner at the time, he was battling with addiction and just a bunch of mess he was a mess I was a mess but I was sobar and that was the difference because I wasn't a drug addict I could actually save money and use our money for the right things any ways long story short he fell madly in love with me he told me he was in love with me we had to separate because twin flames go through this stage, relationships really don't work well when two people are both homeless and mentally challenged, because you have to first take care of yourself before you can take care of anyone else, you have to master your self before you can master anyone else that is why we separated he left me because I slept with another guy and made him feel like I didn't love him when the case was that his friend tricked me and I thought that if I had sex with his friend I would pay the debt he might have owed him and his friend said he said that it was ok, his friend first tricked me into being alone with him making me think I was going to go to his car with him to get something out of the car with him, I could have ran i could have said no but when he said my "twin flames" I figured I was paying his debt I didn't want anyone to hurt him because of what he owed the or whatever! Ugh what a messss!!! To care for someone

Excellent video Matt. I love your videos. Thank you for creating this video.

Your advice is gold. Sometimes I feel like you're talking about meeting a leprecon. That's how far away I feel from men and dating.

Belchin' on the couch! Really?? I can Definitely do THAT one !! LOL just not sure how i would with this one guy! What the heck do i do when i notice that i feel deeply for a guy, way too sooon and we are NOT dating. Usually, this doesn't happen with anyone but one person. I feel like the baby giraffe. Anyone ive liked i always saw vision on. Yet, they didnt yse any of their potential on their own. I love that vision part!!

Love you Mat excellent advice, great work.

Great video Matt

That was awesome!!! You should be a rock star! I giggled...thanks your the best!

Good morning Matt I learned so thank you I keep learning

Great stuff, Mat! Loved it all!

This is amazing content btw, Matt. You’re always acing it. Number 7 is my issue I lost myself somehow although at first I brought all my passions and purpose into it. Unsure really of how I lost touch. Thanks again I have a better understanding of why that’s important now

Hi Matt, just came across your video, omg I loved them. I've been married for 11 years, unfortunately my husband passed away 15 months ago. It was and still is hard, but I met a guy, we exchanged phone numbers and been texting here and there. He asked me if I wanted to come and spend some time with him, and go places. I was reluctant but I accepted, he never said he liked me or when I try to get him to say something he doesn't. I really dunno what to think. I haven't date in so long, I dunno if he's just shy or he just want us to be friends.

12:50 🤣 Played that a couple of times...hilarious!

Another awesome video and tips! Thank you Mat!

Bro your cut outs are hilarious!!! Not the banza pasta Hahahah 😂

Oh i was with my man 11 years his children hated it some seemed to come around but when he passed the truth came out

I fell in love for the first time in my life at 40 and being celibate for over 7 years .

Again a great video!!! Looking at myself, I fall in love with a man for all of these reasons aswel! At this point I am a little sad 😢 I met a man I have great connection with, all points were present on my side and his. We had openhearted communication about it. Exept 1 big one: he is not ready 😔 He is separating, so not ready at all. I told him I do absolutely get him, and that I on my side am ready, so won’t engage in ‘dating’ I am so twisted now between just forget him or keep contact while I continue date other men... In your video you state there are many other men out there ready. And that’s true! Yet in the 6 years I am single, he is a man ticking all of the boxes you talk about in the video. I met a lot of ‘ready’ men, they did not fit in my lifestyle (I am actually seeing a man like that) or I did not feel emotionally safe.... Aaarrgggg, why o why 😩

Wow so much value, you spoil us

Hello. These are great. Might I add that women might like this treatment extended to ourselves in a relationship, as well? Thank you.

❤️❤️❤️love this! We have all that! 😊 thank you for this

I just love your videos ... I watch a lot of dating coaches on here but your videos seem to "stick" in my mind lol

Men are scared to death of me... And I don't have to say a word. It takes a very secure Male to approach me. I know I have a very strong personality, intense, happy, optimistic, fun loving nature. But, I just exude this major inner strength and intensity that's hard to ignore. It's like when I walk into a room, I just feel the eyes on me, male or female, I try to ignore it like I don't have a clue. 🌿🌼🌿

Great video! I'm currently in a great relationship of about 6 months with a fantastic guy. The one problem, he is a major animal lover and has a cat - which I'm highly allergic to. The only argument we've ever had is about his resistance to re-homing his cat because "she's an extension of my soul" whatever that means. Honestly, as much as I hate to admit it, this could be a deal-breaker, and it really makes me sad. But he has told me outright he's choosing his cat over me, to him it would be like giving away a child. I think his attachment to animals comes from the fact he was severely abused as kid by his alcoholic father. His lease is up soon and he's about to buy a house, and it's renewed our discussion about if there could be future with the 3 of us, me, him and the cat. Medication helps some, but I don't really want to live on medicine the rest of my life. Any thoughts?

When you see the title you think is something about the beginning, when you're on the first dates. But then you start to watch is something about someone in a long relationship already 🙄

*Spend a few minutes a day really listening to your spouse. No matter how stupid his problems sound to you.*

The 5th thing really stuck with me ur right thank you

With this virus mess going on now days. .There more online dating . How do we figure out if someone really in love with you. When you have never met each other in person.

I watch your videos all the time. Great information. Thank you ❤

We met in a very unlikely setting and I feel like we're still healing and traumatized by our past, but we're both opening up and being vulnerable from day 1... goofing around like old friends and talking about our future hopes and dreams already. If you were in my shoes, would you press on with the intent to move forward together? I'm having a hard time seeing the signs because I'm not fully open, yet, withholding nothing G the same time.

The singing part made me laugh out loud; love it!

I thinkthis is applicable to anyone in general, not just men. Great video btw!

Fantastic Video, as always Mat! Very Current & Important information! You're the best!

You are amazing Matt! I’m learning so much from your videos. Thank u so much!,

I'm assuming these only apply to men who are emotionally available or have a secure attachment style? I have tried to do all these things, but it seems it was with men who were wounded.