"and now for the tea bringing because i'm a good oliver" SO CUTE

Arianna Mountain I loved that part so much haha

Arianna Mountain literally made my day.

My mom says that all the time😂😂😂 he made me happy saying that.

Ari Mountain my mums partner says that

I thought he said good alater lol

Unorthodox Cat He did. Or at least that’s what I heard.

Carly Thomas nah he definitely said oliver

Is Ollie’s full name Oliver I wonder

Sparklight 0 yes it is

no one said it wasn’t

True that, but sometimes the alts hide their presence. Does Ollie just not do that with Gaz to prevent other issues, or is it something Gaz has learned to be on his toes about?

@@BSpinoza210 the system probably feels safe and comfortable enough around Gaz to be themselves

@@BSpinoza210 if I remember right I think in a video it said that Ollie says the first time he fronted was when he was with Gaz looking at sweets ina store. I'd recommend watching the video about having a partner with DID since Gaz talks about how he met all the boys.

yes

These ninjas cutting onions.

I know I was thinking "gosh all I want for this kid is for him to play in the park with friends"

I know that this is serious but... To be fair I never really played in parks and I’m pretty sure every kid in my neighbourhood is an introvert.

Poor Ollie 😭

yeah

Molly Burke ah I know this was a year ago but it’s awesome to see you here Molly. I love your videos and I watch your videos and all sorts of chronic illness and mental illness channels, that’s what I want to start my channel on, plus lgbtq+ issues.

I love you Molly!!!

Sup molly well she can see this so ....

Molly Burke I'm kinda surprised to see you here I love your channel

I came to comment on this cause I was thinking the same thing @Molly Burke and then I noticed it was you I’m a huge fan!!!

Typical teen when they accidentally knock over something. 😆

That was the biggest teen energy

Belle Rose OH MY GOSH IT IS SO HARD! Our host tried to make us one time, and it was so hard because they dont have what I wear, and the hair never matches. It makes us all giggle but we never get an accrate us.😂

@@glitterlover3244 lol

me too! haha!

Really reminds me of the kid in them. You know, a wife would just casually explain they dropped the camera. A young kid will be all “nothing!!” To keep from getting in trouble lol

Literally like every one of us at 13 lmfao

Literally me :v

I was really appreciating that Ollie took the time to manifest that kind of space out here in a way for us to get an idea of their home life. "Sweet enough," indeed!

Can you imagine how long hes been planning that? Like, he didnt build that in one day. That took forever!

1

Oh god xD

Its like went you were younger and you knocked something down by doing something stupid or something you WEREN'T supposed to be doing and your mom or adult figure says "what are you doing" and you quickly say NOTHING!!! Like they actually believe you😂😂😂😂

you, pal, are a good and wholesome person, dont let anyone tell u otherwise 💕

Smol Meow yeah she’s a great person

Also It's a Sunday!

There is a larger documentory on her where Gaz is also talking about how he's dealing with it.

His laugh is sooo cute dude aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

dreamistar I know I love his laugh so much! it's great. Also, yeah that is very smart

dreamistar honestly it seems like Jamie comes up with most of these ideas

Yes!

Same except adhd

I agree that would be awesome!!

did you watch until the end?

yep^^

katti moon i

Yes! How he deal with the romantic attraction or what if he wants to kiss Jess and is Ollie present as an alter. Maybe it is too personal, but I feel it most be very difficult you know? To control yourself to touch someone when you love it and those kind of stuff

Candice R i've been wondering the same thing! pls answer :)

how does she know what alter she's going to wake up as? the note on the fridge was left for Ollie, but that if another alter had "woken up"?

Candice R they said in the meet the alters video that Jamie plans who will come out and when they will

She doesn't, the note was left by Jamie for when Ollie next would come forth. The thing Ollie said about the owl, yo. The others are pretty much grown and most likely don't need a list of chores to do, most adults don't, unless they write the notes for themselves to just remember them.

where does jess go when one comes out?

Hello me from a year ago

@@Mikachu1994 Hello you from 11 months ago

Thank you so much dawn! That's so lovely 💕

OMG you replied. Thank you. Made my day. Im also a fellow Welshy who has a husband called Gareth lol. #twinning :) #welshandproud

ssshikari23 from what I’ve gathered, Jess can’t enter the inner world, and the inner world versions of the alters don’t know that Jess exists.

In one of the videos when discussing food,I believe Jamie said he eats like a boy instead of a girl. "Poor Jess" he had said.

Rebecca Fraser I would love to know that too!

Rebecca Fraser I don't think they share inner worlds however it would make a lot of sense if they could or do. Because how else would ed and Jamie have met got married and have a kid? lol I have so many questions

i think alters do share an inner world? i don't know for sure and its different for different systems but some do

we shares fareyland is with ally ands rissa ands alex and mummy serra n.n buts it only me ands april can go to fareyland from limbo n.n daisy ands daymen ands me ands april is livs in limbo n.n dragen cave is were dragen holly livs n.n non other hollys is livs owt sides n.n xoxox

Sorry for late reply // Yes, and yes. I have it myself so I can confirm

Reborn Mama & Sims my name is Kassidy with a K thats so cool

Yay more reborn mommies!!

Reborn Mama & Sims Oh wow! Only 7?! We have like 20 :0)) I'm amazed to see many smaller systems!! Admittedly only around 8 or so of us front and do chores and things and the others tend to stick in headspace

RJ Entities* not people, as they can't physically exist.

I mean Ed Jake and Jamie are in their 20s and they all have similar depths to their voices, just different tones and accents.

She said alters can be stuck in time. I believe meaning they don't age.

I commented too soon. I bet his voice will start to change

It's not likely his voice will get much lower as the host body being female doesn't allow for a deeper voice as it was born female, similar to other male VS female characteristics, such as Testosterone VS Estrogen

his voice has started to change though!! as he's gotten older, he's beginning to sound a lot more like jamie

Erik selin ed is still more feminine and more motherly-ish I'd think.

Erik selin plus ed and jamie have been dating for 12 years.

Erik selin Why don't Ollie consider Jess as his mother? Why two dads?

monjapuppy2009 bc Jamie is bi and Ed is gay.

monjapuppy2009 because alters basically all share the body. jess is just another alter to ollie, not a mom

Simona Nachname Most systems do that, its often finding notes in other hand writing that makes people realise the MPD/DID

I think you did just fine :)

Why would you be sad? They found a tremendous and joyful way to cope with a trauma... Mine was (is) chronic migraines, which have just ruined my life, love-life, professional-life, social-life... basically everything. Obviously you’d wish people would never experience trauma. But if they do... well I wish I had coped this way.

Well, if it makes you feel better, in their 360° video we're told that Ollie is a trauma-free alter

Camille Givert, I think she is just sad that she had gone through trauma. thats what she meant.

They remember the trauma really all 5 of these consciousness protects them from the trauma

This is exactly how I feel too! There's enough negativity and bad times - so let's shine! 😊

Wtf is shipping!?

@@remmilayne6153 😂 Pairing two people together that you want in a romantic relationship typically done with fictional characters.

Hello fellow DID-er! 😊👋🏻

omg, hello! Instantly had to subscribe to you, fellow DID-er! your channel is amazing!

He was probably told by Jamie and Ed about everything, so I doubt its weird. He also didn't seem weirded out when he woke up either.

Aetona in the interview he said that he can tell because they all sleep differently.

Out of my own experience, the first month can sometimes be kind of wired. It's like, my GF goes to sleep beside me and when she wakes up, she's a 5 year old girl, that want me to play with her and her Barbie. After a while, it gets pretty normal. after more than 6 month, I still wake up and have to ask "Who am I talking to right now?", just because as longer they where out, as more they speak like my gf. Only two of them keep trying to talk in there own voice (The 5 year old girl and a 15 year old boy). That's only because of they have to talk like my gf, because not everybody should know about it. Long story short, it gets very fast normal. Hope you can read my weak English. And I hope it answers your question :)

Well he's 13 so he's not really grown

I'd really be concerned about the whole sex life situation. o.o Like, what if she has an alter that's also an adult female that wants to score with you and you're not really sleeping with your girl?

reminded This is generally called "integration," where one alter was created to help protect or shield the host (in this case Jess, the core personality who resides in the body) due to trauma, but now they are no longer necessary for the core personality to function and they usually "fade away," and they surface less frequently until they just never come back. When someone is in therapy when they do not wish to have these alters, this is seen as a good thing, as progress. That the core personality is coping with the results of the trauma better and does not need to rely on these aspects as much. In this case, since Jess seems to have such a good relationship with her alters, I have no idea how she feels about this, if it's like losing a friend. But in a lot of cases, first the alter will stop taking control of the physical body but still reside in the headspace. Sometimes they will fade after that and others times that's just where they prefer to be. So it's possible that Jenny is in the headspace and is stable, but just not physically accessible, if that makes sense. I'm new to this channel so I'm not sure about the specifics about this system and how their inner world or headspace is structured, but those are just some general points for anyone who's curious. It is so wonderful to see a group of personalities that interact so positively with each other. From what I've seen, a lot of the time there is at least one personality that causes drama and kind of leave messes the other aspects then have to deal with, a lot of aftermath. Perpetrator and avenger alters are examples of that, either modeled after the person who hurt them (the former) or a personality that really tends to hold all the negative emotions of the trauma that happened. They remember and they are angry about it and tend to act out toward the perpetrator or just in life, being sort of aggressive wild-child types. The protector personalities end up watching these very carefully and try to mitigate the influence of these aspects. Even with those types active, anyone with DID is far far more likely to be the victim of crime than to do anything to physically hurt anyone else, despite the Hollywood stereotype. But it does cause drama, so I'm really so thrilled to have come across Jess and her alters. Ollie specially is just so sweet, and adapting very fluidly. Your question was a great one, just one of many that come up in regards to this disorder. It seems there are as many answers to it as there are people who have experienced an alter fading, so only Jess knows her situation, but I thought I'd list a few things generally accepted in psychology (Which still needs to do a lot of work for it to fully understand this phenomenon and help do justice by those who have it).

Chronically Curious Wow that's fascinating. Thanks so much for sharing!

Elaine Fox I have a question, how old is the host

haiiiiis lainy !!!! n.n me is 7 n.n is cal hollykitty and is 7 for yeers n.n but leafie is 13 but say shes 14 becaus she owt when is hannah birth day n.n hehe buts she no reely 14 hehe xoxox

im curious too

Yeah, I know Jess and Gaz said they both want kids. I'm curious as to how that's going to work out.

Maybe they simply won't go out as often as before during the pregnancy... I really don't know. What I wonder is "who will give birth?"

She has a kid now

@@trekadouble757 I'd assume it would be Jess, but, I wouldn't know.

If you're still curious, Jess did a video on her pregnancy journey and what that was like for each of the alters. I can't remember the title but it should be easy to find

Lmao I was just about to comment basically this exact same thing 😂

yes i want to know how Gaz knows which alter is in control

They've all got different voices, if you've watched other videos with the alters. Jake is solidly American, Ed is very London, Ollie has the vocal patterns of a thirteen-year-old, Jamie's tone is a lot lower than Jess'. Since he's met all the alters and knows them all quite well, I'm pretty sure Gaz can tell who's who from body language alone rather quickly (and if he can't, just asking would probably suffice).

Honestly I was wondering the same thing.

Katie Marie Gaz said in a TV interview he knows who's going to be in the body upon waking because all of them sleep differently! They've been together so long, he knows the difference between them all. And someone else already commented about all the alters' relationships with Gaz. Of course Ollie isn't romantic with him lol, they actually refer to each other as their godfather/godson!

Craw Richter so confused because aren't ed and Jaime together and Ollie's parents, so how is Jaime okay with Ed being with gaz as well? I guess they aren't exclusive. This is so interesting

saaame

YES!!!!!

otp! i wanna write a fanfiction about them and their kid Ollie now ^_^

Ed and Jamie are married and Ollie is their son

It's like the cutest thing ever!

B Moore That's an interesting thing. And a question I would also like answered.

B Moore The concept of having children is addressed in the Q&A video Jake did on the channel recently, but he never talked about pregnancy, only raising a child!

Funny she has a baby now

And what would happen if one of the alters was in control when she went into labour?🤯

Awesome Person omg could you imagine Ollie during labor?? How do you think that worked out?

Michelle That's because Ollie doesn't have much contact with Jess